This one hits home for me. Not from a child’s perspective but from a parent. No one walks into a marriage expecting it to fail. No one has kids expecting them to be in a broken family. Sometimes life hits us and things happens and we part our ways.
@lifeofhmongwomen2640. I agree. Sometimes, there are circumstances outside of what we've tried and committed to. There's a background story we weren't provided with. I married young, have 2 boys and to this day, I love them. However, the person I loved at 17 isn't the same person today. Goals, expectations, life obligations, and just general love for those who you choose to love goes a long way unless someone gives up so the other individual does as well.
@abyssguy686 Sure. You must be insecure if that's your only response you can conjure up with. Either that or you couldn't perform, so whatever it was, from the way you write, thankfully, they got away from you. Just because a relationship doesn't work doesn't mean someone cheated. It just means sometimes it just wasn't meant to be, no matter how hard you tried. I've been with my husband for 20+ years. Still together. No cheating. I'm just saying that you go through a lot of hardships, especially when you're younger and just starting out as adults - financially, education, professionally. Not everything is just about sex and why someone leaves you ( yes, you, specifically) because they found someone who can provide them satisfaction better than you could. Those hardships take a toll on you eventually. Especially when you have someone as closed-minded as you are.
This song is a reminder that while we work really hard for our family, we shouldn't leave them behind and neglect them emotionally. When we come home exhausted and only give our left over to our spouse, they will not feel loved even if we bring home money. All the money in the world can't buy time and love. Cha, you did so good with your acting. I'm so proud of you! The actor reminds me of my hard working husband who I choose to love and extend grace to over and over again. No one can ever replace him. Leaving is not a solution. Faithfulness, Honesty and Communication is key. I hope this beautiful song and illustrations help others to be more intentional with their love ones. A balance life between work and family is so important. Destiny, you never failed.
My dads number 1 advice for all his 14 kids is remember how hard you fought to be together in the beginning, that’s the love you need to continue to have when things get tough to pull you through the hard times. Great video!
This is an eye opener song and a very good lesson for baby boomers.. Never forget about the real reason WHY we work soo hard in the first place. Spouses make time for each other, make time for your kids, love ones. Encourage each other instead of blaming or finger pointing if things don't go the way expected. Work complications out together (communication) is a must. Last but not least we all can't read each other's minds so NEVER EVER go to bed ANGRY... That is the ingredients for disaster. Great Song Destiny band🔥🔥Peace!!
Sometimes it's not about the bank acct, house but somewhere along the line that adrenaline you both shared so passionately when you first met is gone. The little thoughtful things he/she did when you both met. Life is often hectic and we forget the simplest things can make a difference in a marriage. A very beautiful sad song Destiny band but we'll done.
Sure but in a marrige the most important thing a woman have to do is to keep her vagina exclusive to her husband. Any woman than breaks this will likely remain alone for the rest of her life because no good man will ever marry such a woman and any man willing to marry her will likely end up in the same position as her ex husband sooner or later.
@@GapModel1 ….I think 80% of the time the men R the cheaters n can’t keep his wee wee to himself. Hmoob women have been abused, suppressed n subjected to polygamy marriage for many years, it’s only now in mekas that hmoob women R finally having a voice n coming out of their shell n willing to step over the boarder when she’s not happy…..and that’s fine if she’s not happy anymore, it’s ok to leave than be miserable for the rest of her life.
@@flryprn745 When men cheat, they will likely ask for forgiveness and they don't leave their wife and kids behind because men can have sex and don't really love the person the cheat with. Women on the other hand fall in love with the person they cheat with and that will destroy the marriage. Women being suppressed is actually a good thing for society because women are not rational. Women are emotional and when they are given too much freedom to make decisions, they usually make bad decisions because when you make decisions base on emotions, it's usually a bad decision. This is why divorce rate have gotten so high since feminism have taken over the USA. Women think feminism is good for them but it's actually not because in the end men will end up using them and marry abroad. In the end feminism does more harm than good to women.
You forgot to take me into consideration. I was never your priority. I've asked for changes many times. You've pushed me and told me to go many times, yet I stayed. Thanks for trying to love me. I've learned to love myself while you were still trying. Now that I'm slowly going, you can't manipulate your ways anymore, and that hurts you. You're not the only one who's hurting. 18yrs and 3 kids later. It wasn't an easy decision. But it was one for my mental health. It was a great chapter of my life. No regrets. Now, I'll have to unlearn all of my defense mechanisms to love again. Thank you.
This song hit close to home. I went through this journey a few years ago. My child and I had to seek counseling. Seeing your own child cry every day and you can't take their pain away.
This made me cry so much. My ex and I were together for 18 years. He loved me so much and fought his whole family to be with me because I wasn't good enough. We couldn't have kids on top of that too. But man we loved each other so much. We were so happy. But over time, the family, no kids, life, addiction and secrets broke us. Just like the guy in this video, he didn't fight to keep me. He was very easy to walk away like the guy in this video. Just signed like nothing. We didn't have children so it made it just a little easier. But the hopes and dreams of them still hurt. It's been 7 years now. I'm remarried and guess what? I was able to finally have babies. All natural. They were waiting for their right daddy. But the pain and sadness from my ex, I will always carry deep inside. Because hearing this song had me crying my eyes out. And I hope he sees this video and think of me because of how he didn't fight. And should've been a better man. AND because of the girl's name in the video IS MY NAME. So I know he'll think of me and what could've been.
I rather live in an RV and live simple with my husband than in a mansion, stressed, tired, no love for eachother. The problem is EVERYONE is aiming for that instagram life now and forget whats truly important in life.... TIME-!!!!! time with ur spouse, ur kids, and enjoying everyday.
I agree. Time is very precious. Spending too much time for your job can make you forget to spend time with your kids and wife. Your wife doesn’t get enough attention and suddenly it can shift to the kids and a new partner. Life is hard because we tend to forget the importance of time and finding a balance. An awareness to our Hmong community.
I agreed sister👍we are soo focused on making and building material things in our lives we forgotten about the most important thing "is" ONE ANOTHER, the love we engaged together, the flame we once had when life was still simple because we wouldn't too concerned about all the material things. That's what's going on with everyone nowadays and spouses just don't make time for each other anymore. We see people and individuals at work more than our own love ones at home and when that happens we blame one another but reality "Is" it's everyone's fault for forgetting the reason "WHY" we work so hard in the first place😔😔my opinion at least.
Hu tau zoo mloog tus siab heev li brother...but it's true about marriage lives...u never know the future..it's life... as a single father wit 2 sons i know how it is
Dan...this song hit me hard. I felt every words hit right through me. This is what I been through the last 4 years of my life. I feels like it was me he's writing this song to me. I feel it. Wow...what a song.
You and me both brother, this song came out almost the same time me and my wife is going through a divorce and we also have two kids (a boy and a girl). And just like this song I still love my wife and find if hard to let her go.
Sad but very true. Kids do not ask to be brought into this world just to go through pain inflicted on them because of their selfish parents. That pain and experience can traumatize some kids forever.
It’s also extremely hard on parents. Not just the kids. Day in and day out they live with the guilt. It’s a rough world out there and until you experience it you won’t know. This song shows both side of the pain.
@Life of a Hmong Woman agree. Sometimes, it's best to walk away from toxic environments/relationships in the end. I see both sides of this song. Only those "two couples" know how their relationship went downhill.
Sometimes you can try very hard but the other person is too stubborn. Nobody wants divorce but sometimes it’s the only way… kids will unfortunately suffer either way in that case.
Damn I teared up listening and watching this. Makes a lot of sense to me since ive grown up with divorced parents I know how the children feel. Hit me hard in the feels.
THIS SONG TELLS US THAT NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU WORK, STILL MAKE TIME FOR YOUR WIFE. SHE DIDN'T MARRY YOU JUST FOR MONEY BUT TO BE LOVED AND PAY HER ATTENTION.
In my opinion, some of us between the ages of 40-50ish are trapped in a trauma matrix from our childhood. The emotional or physical neglect continues to seep into our adult relationship causing unhealthy behaviors. It's kinda of a generational trauma that often goes unnoticed until someone leaves….PAY ATTENTION to the EMOTIONAL needs of your life partner.
Humans have feelings don’t matter what you do if there isn’t compromise there isn’t a relationship. It goes both ways.ppl cheat/leave for a number of reasons but mostly because one feels others affection at that time that their partner doesn’t provide. It always end up poorly for the kids
What a beautiful song. I can relate my experience on this going through the same thing. Divorce is hard, it hurt the kids, family, yourself and I look back I do miss the old good memories. Sometimes a relationship don't work and you try your best nothing won't solve it, you look confuse why he or she left. For a divorce good advice: bond with your kids as much as you can, leave the past and start a new chapter in your life, focus on yourself, forgive yourself, time will heal whenever you feel ready dating again. Stay strong 💪 and positive, surround with people that will help you and lift you up.
MN if I'm not mistaken home to Destiny, my favorite Hmoob band, twin city, current capital of our Hmoob population in the USA, and most advanced in our Hmoob people today as well. Sadly, this song sings the truth of where many of our Hmoob families are headed after 40+ years in USA. Nyob luag teb chaw, yoog luag txuj yog qhov no. Thov sawv daws tuav lub neej kom ruaj mi ntsis.
Seems like a hard working man providing for his family and all she want was attention to feel loved. Both did not communicate and make time for one another. At the end the kids suffered because both parents were too selfish to come together and make changes. He traded his time for money and a life style for his wife and kids. She wanted attention so she traded their life style for another man's time. Sad. Need to start thinking about the kids and not just themselves. The kids didn't seem to have any issue when the parents were together. Remember it's the children that are mostly affected by relationships and decisions like this. I feel for the song and anyone who goes through this. Stay strong and stay positive. Thank you for making such a good song.
He never miss you until you're gone then it's too late. Why can't he change or treat you better when you're still with him? I see too many similar situations in families and friends. It's the same for both women and men. I guess the phrase, You don't know what you have till it's gone is so very true. It's so sad that some times life happens this way. Why do people wait until it's too late to do nice things to the one they love? Just a simple I love you or a simple hug will make such a big difference.
Omgosh...this had me in tears. Please don't do this to the innocent lives. It's devastating. Please forgive and love each other without reservations. I've seen the pain of divorce. It destroys family. But..Haha! PELE made it in the video. Lol
Great songs. This one tears me. I'm going through this same situation of marriage separation/ divorce. I still remember me and my wife first met and first love how it used to be just like this song express.
Hey brother don’t feel sad. Break ups are not the end. It’s just the end of one chapter so the next chapter can begin. Hang in there. It gets better. You will find love again.
This music video actually makes me so sad thinking about my parents. I miss them so much. My parents were great parents. I know they had a lot of issues and up and downs, but they stuck together for us kids.
No matter how much you want it to work if it's not meant to be then it won't be in this lifetime. Walk away and be strong for your kids. Wonderful job on this song I'm sure many can relate in many ways. Keep up the wonderful songs!
Sometimes, you have to think that the better one is on it way, which is why you guys' life stops at a point. It is ok to restart life. It hurt, but as long as u are still alive, time will keep moving, and u will heal. Everything will fall into place. It never the end of stories until you die.
So true, it’s okay to restart life when both partners weren’t happy anymore for all the reasons. I’m so fortunate that I divorced my ex husband with 4 kids and just like that, at the right place and the right time, I met my now husband right away. It was the best that happened to me, and now me and my kids have everything that we ever wanted with this new man in our lives. Sib nrauj sib tso tsis tau hais tias yus yog tus phem. Vim lub neej nrog tus neeg ntawv mus tsis taus lawm ces kawg muab tso tseg es nrhiav dua tus tshiab.
This sheit hit so hard. I hate that I created such beautiful kids only for them to see us parents torn apart from one another. 💔 -Daddy Loves You Harmony&Izara!!!!!!
I can say so much things from different angle with multiple mix feeling but most of the feeling I can felt will be difficult for most people to comprehend therefore to keep this simple and short I will just use the word 'speechless'.
This song and video captured exceedingly well the pain of divorce especially when kids are involved. It hurts to know they could have had it all if only they could have been more present and honest with each other when they still had each other.
Beautiful song! The MV is even better. Breaks my heart because this is really our live....... You can tell the kids are soo sad & impact by their parents choice. Sad
This is the reason why you two people must really love each other before getting married. The kids is the only ones suffering. So sad I can’t imagine what they will go through without a dad or a mom.
Great song. Just got done with my divorce. Is hard and I know My kids are suffering. From Daddy " I will be with all you 4 when you all are 18. I love you all
its good songs touch a lot of people's heart and mind. for those who go through that kind situations both partners should think back when they are still young love bird before get divorce, it's hard for the kids to
Txawm muaj mes nyuam los yog ob tug niam txiv tsis sib hlub thiab nyob ua ke tsis tau lawm ces nyias yuav tau tso nyias mus li luag txoj kev ntshaw tsis txhob muab mes nyuam los tuav yus txoj kev lwj siab. Thaum twg mes nyuam loj tuaj mes nyuam thiaj li paub tib neeg lub neej vim yus tsis ua neej nrog cov mes nyuam mus tag yus lub neej. Yog cov niam/txiv tseem yuav kho tau lawv lub neej yeej meem kho xwb. Yus txwv tsis tau tib neeg lub niag siab kiag li os.
This song broke me cuz I can see people’s life like this and I can’t imagine how the husband is feeling if treated like this. I would of died of broken heart. The acting is top notch !
Beautiful song. Why she gotta be called maisee too. I'm maixee too. My life took a turn just like this. He broke me so much, call me crazy and mean and I give him another chance just like the last. Just so that the kids have a dad and he do his part. Do I love him 💯 for sure not no more. The love is gone just need him to help watch the kids until 18. Yes life is neej puas tag but just keep going forward being blind knowing our love is for our kids not for each other. Blessing them couple who are separating in the mean time.
💔song lyrics 💔 Yog Vim li cas koj thiaj khiav kuv mus koj tsis qhia kuv Wb twb muaj lub neej twb muaj kev hlub. Wb twb muaj vajtse me tub me nyuam. Wb muaj txhua yam. Cas koj thiaj li ntshaw lwm tus lub neej. Ntshe wb yuav tau sib ncaim. Wb yuav faib wb lub neej kom tag. * Ntawm cov menyuam koj yuav hais li cas? Cia lawv nyob nruab nrab rau wb ob leeg hlub. (* yog koj tsis hlub peb cov txiv tub, koj khiav mus lub neej puas tag) Zaum no lawv yuav pom kuv txoj kev tsaus ntuj. Cia koj mus koj es kuv mus kuv ib sab ntuj, tsis txhob sib hlub. Yog no lub ntiaj teb nws yeej yuav pauv txog wb lub neej. Wb mus txog qhov twg tsis muaj lub suab luag. Thaum wb cov menyuam lawv yuav los npaj lawv pib lub neej. Yuav tsis muaj leej twg yuav los nrog hlub. Yog wb tsis txhob sib nrauj, tej menyuam yeej tau txoj kev hlub txaus. 😔 Sometime life doesn't work the way we want, no matter how much one person want it. Life will have to overcome this path. Very sad, painful and heartbreaking
When the parents decide to go their own ways. Remember, its easier to leave then to stay and work it out. I know everyone has their own reasons for everything. In the end, you the woman can always find another man. You the man, can always find another woman. But, the children will never have their parents the same ever again. The children will always be the ones to suffer silently.
I can understand why the first thing she said was to tell him to sign the paper. It's hard for a woman to give all her love to her husband, and her love wasn't being reciprocated. She got tired, in the end he regretted and so did she.
Still can’t believed that she acting like that to him. It so harder for a men to go working every day and provides for a families. And then he come home to emptied house and she then comed home and first things she said is did you signing my papers? He working so hard for her to stayed at home and have the time and freedoms in doing whatevers she want and she end up doing this kinds of things to him and he working so hard and broken heart and sad and this song so touched… i hating this video so hurt
This one hits home for me. Not from a child’s perspective but from a parent. No one walks into a marriage expecting it to fail. No one has kids expecting them to be in a broken family. Sometimes life hits us and things happens and we part our ways.
so you cheated?
@lifeofhmongwomen2640. I agree. Sometimes, there are circumstances outside of what we've tried and committed to. There's a background story we weren't provided with. I married young, have 2 boys and to this day, I love them. However, the person I loved at 17 isn't the same person today. Goals, expectations, life obligations, and just general love for those who you choose to love goes a long way unless someone gives up so the other individual does as well.
So true! 💓
@@somethangfishie579 so you a cheater as well?
@abyssguy686 Sure. You must be insecure if that's your only response you can conjure up with. Either that or you couldn't perform, so whatever it was, from the way you write, thankfully, they got away from you. Just because a relationship doesn't work doesn't mean someone cheated. It just means sometimes it just wasn't meant to be, no matter how hard you tried. I've been with my husband for 20+ years. Still together. No cheating. I'm just saying that you go through a lot of hardships, especially when you're younger and just starting out as adults - financially, education, professionally. Not everything is just about sex and why someone leaves you ( yes, you, specifically) because they found someone who can provide them satisfaction better than you could. Those hardships take a toll on you eventually. Especially when you have someone as closed-minded as you are.
This song is a reminder that while we work really hard for our family, we shouldn't leave them behind and neglect them emotionally. When we come home exhausted and only give our left over to our spouse, they will not feel loved even if we bring home money. All the money in the world can't buy time and love. Cha, you did so good with your acting. I'm so proud of you! The actor reminds me of my hard working husband who I choose to love and extend grace to over and over again. No one can ever replace him. Leaving is not a solution. Faithfulness, Honesty and Communication is key. I hope this beautiful song and illustrations help others to be more intentional with their love ones. A balance life between work and family is so important. Destiny, you never failed.
My dads number 1 advice for all his 14 kids is remember how hard you fought to be together in the beginning, that’s the love you need to continue to have when things get tough to pull you through the hard times.
Great video!
This is an eye opener song and a very good lesson for baby boomers.. Never forget about the real reason WHY we work soo hard in the first place. Spouses make time for each other, make time for your kids, love ones. Encourage each other instead of blaming or finger pointing if things don't go the way expected. Work complications out together (communication) is a must. Last but not least we all can't read each other's minds so NEVER EVER go to bed ANGRY... That is the ingredients for disaster. Great Song Destiny band🔥🔥Peace!!
Sometimes it's not about the bank acct, house but somewhere along the line that adrenaline you both shared so passionately when you first met is gone. The little thoughtful things he/she did when you both met. Life is often hectic and we forget the simplest things can make a difference in a marriage. A very beautiful sad song Destiny band but we'll done.
Sure but in a marrige the most important thing a woman have to do is to keep her vagina exclusive to her husband. Any woman than breaks this will likely remain alone for the rest of her life because no good man will ever marry such a woman and any man willing to marry her will likely end up in the same position as her ex husband sooner or later.
@@GapModel1 ….I think 80% of the time the men R the cheaters n can’t keep his wee wee to himself. Hmoob women have been abused, suppressed n subjected to polygamy marriage for many years, it’s only now in mekas that hmoob women R finally having a voice n coming out of their shell n willing to step over the boarder when she’s not happy…..and that’s fine if she’s not happy anymore, it’s ok to leave than be miserable for the rest of her life.
@@flryprn745 When men cheat, they will likely ask for forgiveness and they don't leave their wife and kids behind because men can have sex and don't really love the person the cheat with. Women on the other hand fall in love with the person they cheat with and that will destroy the marriage. Women being suppressed is actually a good thing for society because women are not rational. Women are emotional and when they are given too much freedom to make decisions, they usually make bad decisions because when you make decisions base on emotions, it's usually a bad decision. This is why divorce rate have gotten so high since feminism have taken over the USA. Women think feminism is good for them but it's actually not because in the end men will end up using them and marry abroad. In the end feminism does more harm than good to women.
Beautiful music video. Well shot and well edit.
You forgot to take me into consideration. I was never your priority. I've asked for changes many times. You've pushed me and told me to go many times, yet I stayed. Thanks for trying to love me. I've learned to love myself while you were still trying. Now that I'm slowly going, you can't manipulate your ways anymore, and that hurts you. You're not the only one who's hurting. 18yrs and 3 kids later. It wasn't an easy decision. But it was one for my mental health. It was a great chapter of my life. No regrets. Now, I'll have to unlearn all of my defense mechanisms to love again. Thank you.
Destiny. U guys are legends!
This song hit close to home. I went through this journey a few years ago. My child and I had to seek counseling. Seeing your own child cry every day and you can't take their pain away.
This made me cry so much. My ex and I were together for 18 years. He loved me so much and fought his whole family to be with me because I wasn't good enough. We couldn't have kids on top of that too. But man we loved each other so much. We were so happy. But over time, the family, no kids, life, addiction and secrets broke us. Just like the guy in this video, he didn't fight to keep me. He was very easy to walk away like the guy in this video. Just signed like nothing. We didn't have children so it made it just a little easier. But the hopes and dreams of them still hurt. It's been 7 years now. I'm remarried and guess what? I was able to finally have babies. All natural. They were waiting for their right daddy. But the pain and sadness from my ex, I will always carry deep inside. Because hearing this song had me crying my eyes out. And I hope he sees this video and think of me because of how he didn't fight. And should've been a better man. AND because of the girl's name in the video IS MY NAME. So I know he'll think of me and what could've been.
so you cheated like the girl in the video and wanted him to beg for you to love him?
It’s almost as if Destiny band knows you, they went from love songs to divorce songs
I rather live in an RV and live simple with my husband than in a mansion, stressed, tired, no love for eachother. The problem is EVERYONE is aiming for that instagram life now and forget whats truly important in life.... TIME-!!!!! time with ur spouse, ur kids, and enjoying everyday.
I agree. Time is very precious. Spending too much time for your job can make you forget to spend time with your kids and wife. Your wife doesn’t get enough attention and suddenly it can shift to the kids and a new partner. Life is hard because we tend to forget the importance of time and finding a balance. An awareness to our Hmong community.
I agreed sister👍we are soo focused on making and building material things in our lives we forgotten about the most important thing "is" ONE ANOTHER, the love we engaged together, the flame we once had when life was still simple because we wouldn't too concerned about all the material things. That's what's going on with everyone nowadays and spouses just don't make time for each other anymore. We see people and individuals at work more than our own love ones at home and when that happens we blame one another but reality "Is" it's everyone's fault for forgetting the reason "WHY" we work so hard in the first place😔😔my opinion at least.
Love the song. More than the song, love that Destiny is still beautiful. Brought bk the 90s
Thank you for making a mv on the children’s point of view. As a child of a divorced parents, this hit hard.
Ua tau zoo heev thiab tu siab heev li os. Congratulations to a beautiful role in this song my beautiful niece
Hu tau zoo mloog tus siab heev li brother...but it's true about marriage lives...u never know the future..it's life...
as a single father wit 2 sons i know how it is
Great song and great timing. Happening to a lot of people right now, everyone thinking the grass is greener on the other side.
Dan...this song hit me hard. I felt every words hit right through me. This is what I been through the last 4 years of my life. I feels like it was me he's writing this song to me. I feel it. Wow...what a song.
You and me both brother, this song came out almost the same time me and my wife is going through a divorce and we also have two kids (a boy and a girl). And just like this song I still love my wife and find if hard to let her go.
This MV gave me teary eyes because I came from a broken home. Thanks for this beautiful piece
Love the lyrics! The singers voice is very smoothly. More music please
Divorce is hard on kids, especially parents don't think through. I feel sometimes parents only think about themselves.
Sad but very true. Kids do not ask to be brought into this world just to go through pain inflicted on them because of their selfish parents. That pain and experience can traumatize some kids forever.
@@DUDEfreestyle agree. Especially its hard to have a blended family.
It’s also extremely hard on parents. Not just the kids. Day in and day out they live with the guilt. It’s a rough world out there and until you experience it you won’t know. This song shows both side of the pain.
@Life of a Hmong Woman agree. Sometimes, it's best to walk away from toxic environments/relationships in the end. I see both sides of this song. Only those "two couples" know how their relationship went downhill.
Sometimes you can try very hard but the other person is too stubborn. Nobody wants divorce but sometimes it’s the only way… kids will unfortunately suffer either way in that case.
Damn I teared up listening and watching this. Makes a lot of sense to me since ive grown up with divorced parents I know how the children feel. Hit me hard in the feels.
THIS SONG TELLS US THAT NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU WORK, STILL MAKE TIME FOR YOUR WIFE. SHE DIDN'T MARRY YOU JUST FOR MONEY BUT TO BE LOVED AND PAY HER ATTENTION.
but she would complain about not having money lol
In my opinion, some of us between the ages of 40-50ish are trapped in a trauma matrix from our childhood. The emotional or physical neglect continues to seep into our adult relationship causing unhealthy behaviors. It's kinda of a generational trauma that often goes unnoticed until someone leaves….PAY ATTENTION to the EMOTIONAL needs of your life partner.
Humans have feelings don’t matter what you do if there isn’t compromise there isn’t a relationship. It goes both ways.ppl cheat/leave for a number of reasons but mostly because one feels others affection at that time that their partner doesn’t provide. It always end up poorly for the kids
What a beautiful song. I can relate my experience on this going through the same thing. Divorce is hard, it hurt the kids, family, yourself and I look back I do miss the old good memories. Sometimes a relationship don't work and you try your best nothing won't solve it, you look confuse why he or she left.
For a divorce good advice: bond with your kids as much as you can, leave the past and start a new chapter in your life, focus on yourself, forgive yourself, time will heal whenever you feel ready dating again. Stay strong 💪 and positive, surround with people that will help you and lift you up.
Tij laug aw cas yuav hu nkauj zoo ua luaj li os ua tsaug nawb
MN if I'm not mistaken home to Destiny, my favorite Hmoob band, twin city, current capital of our Hmoob population in the USA, and most advanced in our Hmoob people today as well. Sadly, this song sings the truth of where many of our Hmoob families are headed after 40+ years in USA.
Nyob luag teb chaw, yoog luag txuj yog qhov no. Thov sawv daws tuav lub neej kom ruaj mi ntsis.
Yes. Destiny is from MN. Thank you for supporting us for many years and continue to support us. Very much appreciated.
MN, the best and worst opportunities for Hmong
Destiny is my all time favorite!
Beautifully written and sung! Didn't expect anything less from Destiny. This song reflects Hmong American lives in today's society. Sad. :(
Wow.. Beautiful music video! Great story!
What a beautiful song! ❤️it! 😞😔💔😭 Zoo heev nawb.. Keep it up brother..
Greeting from New York
Seems like a hard working man providing for his family and all she want was attention to feel loved. Both did not communicate and make time for one another. At the end the kids suffered because both parents were too selfish to come together and make changes. He traded his time for money and a life style for his wife and kids. She wanted attention so she traded their life style for another man's time. Sad. Need to start thinking about the kids and not just themselves. The kids didn't seem to have any issue when the parents were together. Remember it's the children that are mostly affected by relationships and decisions like this. I feel for the song and anyone who goes through this. Stay strong and stay positive. Thank you for making such a good song.
“She” wanted attention. Lol excuses. If she cared about the family it would have been a “family” she obviously had other plans.
Destiny still got it!!🥰🥰🥰
He never miss you until you're gone then it's too late. Why can't he change or treat you better when you're still with him? I see too many similar situations in families and friends. It's the same for both women and men. I guess the phrase, You don't know what you have till it's gone is so very true. It's so sad that some times life happens this way. Why do people wait until it's too late to do nice things to the one they love? Just a simple I love you or a simple hug will make such a big difference.
if you only know the truth..
I was born and grow up in a broken family, I understand the pain of a broken family.😢😢
Dang classic artists are getting old, my two favorite artists, destiny and paradise these group r the best 👌
Hu ntxiv kom ntev2rau peb mloog os nyiam heev koj cov nkauj os
Such a good message and song. Ty for this gift to the world.
the acting is really good. I could feel he is lonely without his family. NICE SONG! good job on shooting and using footage. keep it up!
Omgosh...this had me in tears. Please don't do this to the innocent lives. It's devastating. Please forgive and love each other without reservations. I've seen the pain of divorce. It destroys family. But..Haha! PELE made it in the video. Lol
Great songs. This one tears me. I'm going through this same situation of marriage separation/ divorce. I still remember me and my wife first met and first love how it used to be just like this song express.
Hey brother don’t feel sad. Break ups are not the end. It’s just the end of one chapter so the next chapter can begin. Hang in there. It gets better. You will find love again.
Keep your head up and keep moving forward.
There’s a Hmong proverb that says “in life you can’t see what’s beneath your feet”.
Thanks for creating such a realistic and heart-aching real life story. Love it
amazing heartfelt song. Got me tearing up. great MV too.Matching the reality nowadays with married couples.
A heart touching song! Never die if you have never experienced a divorced life..
I have and it''s really hard.
It’s extremely hard. The pain is felt both ways. Children and parent
This music video actually makes me so sad thinking about my parents. I miss them so much. My parents were great parents. I know they had a lot of issues and up and downs, but they stuck together for us kids.
No matter how much you want it to work if it's not meant to be then it won't be in this lifetime. Walk away and be strong for your kids.
Wonderful job on this song I'm sure many can relate in many ways. Keep up the wonderful songs!
Sometimes, you have to think that the better one is on it way, which is why you guys' life stops at a point. It is ok to restart life. It hurt, but as long as u are still alive, time will keep moving, and u will heal. Everything will fall into place. It never the end of stories until you die.
So true, it’s okay to restart life when both partners weren’t happy anymore for all the reasons.
I’m so fortunate that I divorced my ex husband with 4 kids and just like that, at the right place and the right time, I met my now husband right away. It was the best that happened to me, and now me and my kids have everything that we ever wanted with this new man in our lives.
Sib nrauj sib tso tsis tau hais tias yus yog tus phem. Vim lub neej nrog tus neeg ntawv mus tsis taus lawm ces kawg muab tso tseg es nrhiav dua tus tshiab.
Beautifully written. I really enjoyed this song - your voice is soothing and easy on the ears to listen to. More life meaning songs, please!
Share lawm nawb
I was tearing up
No one wants to be divorced. Sometimes marriage fail and the kids suffered due to it. So sad but true.
Story of my life
This sheit hit so hard. I hate that I created such beautiful kids only for them to see us parents torn apart from one another. 💔 -Daddy Loves You Harmony&Izara!!!!!!
Brother aw...txoj nkauj no kho siab kawg.koj hu tau zoo tshaj plaws, kho siab tiag tiag liod Brother
Teared up listening to this.😢
This song touch deep! Love it
I can say so much things from different angle with multiple mix feeling but most of the feeling I can felt will be difficult for most people to comprehend therefore to keep this simple and short I will just use the word 'speechless'.
Wonderful & very sad song especially 😢 💔 the kids.
Suab tseem zoo heev os Brother. Loving it♥️
Awww 😢 this pulled my heart strings and im happily married. Cant imagine us separating.
This song and video captured exceedingly well the pain of divorce especially when kids are involved. It hurts to know they could have had it all if only they could have been more present and honest with each other when they still had each other.
😭😭😭😭ca mob siab ua luaj li os zaj nkauj no muab lub neej tiam tshiab no lo hu yog kiag li lub neej tiag li os 😭😭😭
Great song. Kids don't say but they suffer the most.
Beautiful song! The MV is even better. Breaks my heart because this is really our live....... You can tell the kids are soo sad & impact by their parents choice. Sad
This is the reason why you two people must really love each other before getting married. The kids is the only ones suffering. So sad I can’t imagine what they will go through without a dad or a mom.
Great song. Just got done with my divorce. Is hard and I know My kids are suffering. From Daddy " I will be with all you 4 when you all are 18. I love you all
Wow zoo heev
its good songs touch a lot of people's heart and mind. for those who go through that kind situations both partners should think back when they are still young love bird before get divorce, it's hard for the kids to
The kid's always pay the price pulling them one side to the other.
Love the way ur voice sounds… younger and younger…
Beautiful song. 😢 the mv is awesome. This was well done.
"Everyone comes into your life for a reason, some for good or bad, they may shape us, break us, but in the end they make us who we are".
-DIQ
Wow, Destiny Band never gets old. so proud that they made a comeback.
zoo heev li os tij, kuv nyiam koj txhua zaj nkauj os!
Good heart string tugging video. Great comeback!
Good song, meaning and action.
Great song surly remind a lot couples!
Zoo kawg os
Bring tears to my eyes 😪
Txawm muaj mes nyuam los yog ob tug niam txiv tsis sib hlub thiab nyob ua ke tsis tau lawm ces nyias yuav tau tso nyias mus li luag txoj kev ntshaw tsis txhob muab mes nyuam los tuav yus txoj kev lwj siab. Thaum twg mes nyuam loj tuaj mes nyuam thiaj li paub tib neeg lub neej vim yus tsis ua neej nrog cov mes nyuam mus tag yus lub neej. Yog cov niam/txiv tseem yuav kho tau lawv lub neej yeej meem kho xwb. Yus txwv tsis tau tib neeg lub niag siab kiag li os.
Wow I like this song so much
This song and Hli Xiab goes hand in hand
So sad! A broken marriage is never easy, that’s why we should always work on it and it should never be one sided.
You don't know what you have until you lost it and it is gone forever.
This song and the ending made me 😭😭😭 Such a beautiful sad song.
This song broke me cuz I can see people’s life like this and I can’t imagine how the husband is feeling if treated like this. I would of died of broken heart. The acting is top notch !
Beautiful song. Why she gotta be called maisee too. I'm maixee too. My life took a turn just like this. He broke me so much, call me crazy and mean and I give him another chance just like the last. Just so that the kids have a dad and he do his part. Do I love him 💯 for sure not no more. The love is gone just need him to help watch the kids until 18. Yes life is neej puas tag but just keep going forward being blind knowing our love is for our kids not for each other. Blessing them couple who are separating in the mean time.
Please upload the full song with out MV
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tu siab tiag tiag cia li nrog ntxawg quaj li lawm os. Great job as always Destiny!
💔song lyrics 💔
Yog Vim li cas koj thiaj khiav kuv mus koj tsis qhia kuv
Wb twb muaj lub neej twb muaj kev hlub.
Wb twb muaj vajtse me tub me nyuam.
Wb muaj txhua yam.
Cas koj thiaj li ntshaw lwm tus lub neej.
Ntshe wb yuav tau sib ncaim.
Wb yuav faib wb lub neej kom tag.
* Ntawm cov menyuam koj yuav hais li cas?
Cia lawv nyob nruab nrab rau wb ob leeg hlub. (* yog koj tsis hlub peb cov txiv tub, koj khiav mus lub neej puas tag)
Zaum no lawv yuav pom kuv txoj kev tsaus ntuj.
Cia koj mus koj es kuv mus kuv ib sab ntuj, tsis txhob sib hlub.
Yog no lub ntiaj teb nws yeej yuav pauv txog wb lub neej.
Wb mus txog qhov twg tsis muaj lub suab luag.
Thaum wb cov menyuam lawv yuav los npaj lawv pib lub neej.
Yuav tsis muaj leej twg yuav los nrog hlub.
Yog wb tsis txhob sib nrauj, tej menyuam yeej tau txoj kev hlub txaus.
😔 Sometime life doesn't work the way we want, no matter how much one person want it. Life will have to overcome this path. Very sad, painful and heartbreaking
Love the song and music video even though it very watching it. Great job and keep up for your fans.
When the parents decide to go their own ways. Remember, its easier to leave then to stay and work it out. I know everyone has their own reasons for everything. In the end, you the woman can always find another man. You the man, can always find another woman. But, the children will never have their parents the same ever again. The children will always be the ones to suffer silently.
So sad. It brought me to tears.
Zoo kawj os uncle Blaize.
Kuv nyiam zaj nkauj, zoo heev
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Love it. The lyrics was on 🔥 deeply felt
Kho siab tu siab heev😢😢😢😢
Can you upload the full song without the video. Would like to listen to the whole song itself
Agree ❤
I can understand why the first thing she said was to tell him to sign the paper. It's hard for a woman to give all her love to her husband, and her love wasn't being reciprocated. She got tired, in the end he regretted and so did she.
Still can’t believed that she acting like that to him. It so harder for a men to go working every day and provides for a families. And then he come home to emptied house and she then comed home and first things she said is did you signing my papers? He working so hard for her to stayed at home and have the time and freedoms in doing whatevers she want and she end up doing this kinds of things to him and he working so hard and broken heart and sad and this song so touched… i hating this video so hurt
Sad story hitting my perspective
Sometime love can be very painful !
Kuv hlub koj to the artist!