I love how honest Gaynor is. I love this whole group but I really appreciate Gaynor’s glaring authenticity. I don’t always agree with some of her opinions, but I really respect her for her no-bullshit outtakes and anecdotes.
this is one of my favorite conan skits with sona...you can tell they have great personal chemistry. you should watch the 'secret santa' one too - another great one!
She wasn't a therapist - she works in the Human Resources department, where they deal with problems between employees. There is another one called "Conan takes Jordan Schlansky to couple's counseling"
@@UncleUncleRj I was just differentiating between someone in a companies HR department, who would have some skills in dealing with conflict, and an actual therapist, which was who the reactors were talking about. Conan could have grabbed someone from HR to be in the bit, or she could be an actress. But I don't think that anything after they left the office was improvised.
Marriage and Family Therapist here and I can confidently say I rarely ask someone "how did that make you feel?" Often times, it's about figuring out what the couple wants and having realistic goals. To be fair, the lady they are talking to is not a trained therapist; she works for human resources, which is focused on professional ethics and legalities. Part of my job is to paint the picture of what the couple expects from each other and help them see if their visions are compatiple long term or not.
I had a therapist who kept asking me this, glad I got a new one, he asked the same shit every time, "how do you feel about you smoking weed" "what can you do instead" "how does this make you feel"
@@KilyanAustin I'm glad you found a new one. I always tell ppl to keep looking until they find the best fit, even if the fit with me is off. Therapists that get butthurt at ppl doing what's right for them aren't following our own standards.
My mom's close friend was a marriage counselor. She said 90% of couples were impossible so they basically just side with the person who writes the check when there is no breaking thru. 🤣
It's always women who initiate the couples counseling, and then it's just a verbal hate fest beat down on the guy with a tag team from the woman counselor. Forget that noise
As a therapist, all I can say is that is horrible; I have fired couples who were "impossible" because it would be unethical to keep them as clients. I don't mince words; couples don't need to feel their therapist is duping them. It's a collaborative process. Ppl like your mom's friend need to find another profession.
@@RockyNikolashin She's long been dead now, but I assume most are like her, especially jaded after 30-50 years of doing it. 😅No offense to you, but finding a therapist who gives a shit is probably like finding an honest used car salesman, especially in her day.
Therapy is pretty much like talking to a friend or family member about issues, except they are experts. I think a lot of people can get by with just talking to friends, but many (including me) were not raised in a family or, make close enough friends, that we talk to about anything deep. If there is something you are “stuck” on and cant get past, or something serious, you should see a therapist. Hopefully they are not patronizing in their approach, mine is not.
@@louie9941 probably because the HR rep took her HR hat off and pretended like she's a therapist... and that can trigger ppl's discomfort with therapy in general.
Having worked in an office for many years, with mostly female co-workers, I can tell you it ends up in a relationship that you have to navigate like a marriage. The more years that go by, the more you start poking fun at each others habits. But, it teaches you about yourself as well.
@@robtintelnot9107 Mmmmm, nah. A lot of people can't work together without making it sexual. Sona has been Conan's assistant for decades, but they still keep it business, other than acting like brother and sister 🙂
Having a problem with therapy being to "personal", is like having a complaint because you have cheese on your cheeseburger😅. But i get the patronizing tone from some therapist and clinical psychologist
yeah i cant do therapist growing up i went through 6 becuase they all treated me like i was brain dead or something and i would end up losing my mind by the 3rd or 4th session
Think you guys would thoroughly enjoy Impractical Jokers. Not many people react to them but their short TH-cam clips are perfect for reactions as well.
I was skipping school a lot at 13. They told my Mom to take me to a theropist. He said there is nothing wrong with your son. He is simply bored. He asked me course material in grades higher than mine and I answered all of his questions correctly. Psychologists can help some people, but not everyone needs one.
I know you weren’t generalizing about therapy, affects everyone differently. Therapy changed my life, made me a better man… The woman I was talking to linked things to my past that truly made sense to me so I wouldn’t repeat certain behaviors. I dunno, worked for me.. Big fan of urs anyways
I've been to a few "therapists".. And I've been told the same thing. I can't be helped, or its going to take a long time to help me. There is too much in my head that they have no idea how to deal with. But they were willing to just shove drugs into me. And then pass me off to someone else. I told them no, I want you to help me. I don't want drugs to mask why I am the way I am. I came to you to help me find out why I suffer from all my mental illness and issues. Therapists are lazy. And that is from experience. Also, if like me.. I can't afford sessions. Then they don't want anything to do with you. If you aren't making them money by sitting on the couch, then they don't care.
@@TheLegmann Well thank you for that. That is exactly like someone in condition wants to hear. Well now I know better according to joecranle4969. Joe blah blah 6969
With all my apology's and respect to Office Bloke Daz and this channel. But if a troll is going to troll. Then I am not going to back down. With that said. I will post my opinion on matters about what you react to. But I will do so with respect to the channel and not personally attack any other poster. Wow, I guess I'm not so lazy after all.
What really sucks about seeing a counselor is when they just sit there and stare at you. Wtf? And yes G, it means a LOT asking how your relationship is with your father because most, if not all, women marry men like their fathers, and vice versa for men.
Anti-therapy?? No, I’m sorry talking to friends is NEVER going to be better than trained therapists, etc. Very shocking. You must not have any real problems. To each their own though.
They never said they were anti therapy, they said they wouldn't do it, and would feel weird, millions of people share this view, its just not for them. I could never just tell everything to a therapist, for myself, talking to friends (certain friends) can have equal benefits to someone else talking to a therapist, everyone handles things differently, and not everything one goes through even needs a therapist, maybe they would consider it, if something traumatic happened, who knows But just because myself, or them or anyone personally want nothing to do with talking to a therapist, does not indicate that they are anti-therapy. And to assume, based on what they said, that they must not have had any real problems? WTF you are trash and should go talk to your therapist about judging people, while not knowing sh*t about them. l
I love how honest Gaynor is. I love this whole group but I really appreciate Gaynor’s glaring authenticity. I don’t always agree with some of her opinions, but I really respect her for her no-bullshit outtakes and anecdotes.
"A mental block about helping him" LOL
SHE'S MY ASSISTANT 😂
this is one of my favorite conan skits with sona...you can tell they have great personal chemistry. you should watch the 'secret santa' one too - another great one!
She wasn't a therapist - she works in the Human Resources department, where they deal with problems between employees. There is another one called "Conan takes Jordan Schlansky to couple's counseling"
But if she were real HR, I feel like that scene at the end would've been real, or at least Conan would've gotten a serious talking to.
@@UncleUncleRj I was just differentiating between someone in a companies HR department, who would have some skills in dealing with conflict, and an actual therapist, which was who the reactors were talking about. Conan could have grabbed someone from HR to be in the bit, or she could be an actress. But I don't think that anything after they left the office was improvised.
Marriage and Family Therapist here and I can confidently say I rarely ask someone "how did that make you feel?" Often times, it's about figuring out what the couple wants and having realistic goals. To be fair, the lady they are talking to is not a trained therapist; she works for human resources, which is focused on professional ethics and legalities. Part of my job is to paint the picture of what the couple expects from each other and help them see if their visions are compatiple long term or not.
I had a therapist who kept asking me this, glad I got a new one, he asked the same shit every time, "how do you feel about you smoking weed" "what can you do instead" "how does this make you feel"
@@KilyanAustin I'm glad you found a new one. I always tell ppl to keep looking until they find the best fit, even if the fit with me is off. Therapists that get butthurt at ppl doing what's right for them aren't following our own standards.
My mom's close friend was a marriage counselor. She said 90% of couples were impossible so they basically just side with the person who writes the check when there is no breaking thru. 🤣
That’s terrible lol
It's always women who initiate the couples counseling, and then it's just a verbal hate fest beat down on the guy with a tag team from the woman counselor. Forget that noise
As a therapist, all I can say is that is horrible; I have fired couples who were "impossible" because it would be unethical to keep them as clients. I don't mince words; couples don't need to feel their therapist is duping them. It's a collaborative process. Ppl like your mom's friend need to find another profession.
@@RockyNikolashin She's long been dead now, but I assume most are like her, especially jaded after 30-50 years of doing it. 😅No offense to you, but finding a therapist who gives a shit is probably like finding an honest used car salesman, especially in her day.
@@beanscollections2020 I agree, imo all councelors/therapists are servants of Satan
More SONA! love the conan reactions!
It doesn’t even matter if this was scripted or not she deserves a pay raise 😂😂
Watch the three of them try to stop from completely cracking up LOL
All the travels to other countries by Conan alone or with Sona are super funny too
This episode makes me want to see Conan perform Shakespeare.
"Alas, poor Sona. I knew her well...BECAUSE SHE STEALS FROM ME!!"
More Conan! ❤
Sona's stealing confessions is like that scene with Chunk in the Goonies.
Yall should do conan visits the guiness brewery 😂
Oh trust me. You wouldn't believe the things from your past that can affect seemingly unconnected things in your present life.
Sona is the best 😂
Therapy is pretty much like talking to a friend or family member about issues, except they are experts. I think a lot of people can get by with just talking to friends, but many (including me) were not raised in a family or, make close enough friends, that we talk to about anything deep. If there is something you are “stuck” on and cant get past, or something serious, you should see a therapist. Hopefully they are not patronizing in their approach, mine is not.
Or if your family IS the problem 😕
yeah what i dont understand is why they are talking about therapy when this is supposed to be an hr rep
@@louie9941 probably because the HR rep took her HR hat off and pretended like she's a therapist... and that can trigger ppl's discomfort with therapy in general.
Conan is lovely lol
Having worked in an office for many years, with mostly female co-workers, I can tell you it ends up in a relationship that you have to navigate like a marriage. The more years that go by, the more you start poking fun at each others habits. But, it teaches you about yourself as well.
I think these two make the effort to not be like a married couple. They're like brother and sister, but Sona forgets that she works for Conan lol
It's like that everywhere. Male or female. We joke.
@@robtintelnot9107 Mmmmm, nah. A lot of people can't work together without making it sexual. Sona has been Conan's assistant for decades, but they still keep it business, other than acting like brother and sister 🙂
Having a problem with therapy being to "personal", is like having a complaint because you have cheese on your cheeseburger😅. But i get the patronizing tone from some therapist and clinical psychologist
yeah i cant do therapist growing up i went through 6 becuase they all treated me like i was brain dead or something and i would end up losing my mind by the 3rd or 4th session
Think you guys would thoroughly enjoy Impractical Jokers.
Not many people react to them but their short TH-cam clips are perfect for reactions as well.
Conan n Sona are pretty funny together, most of the time Sona plays that role, the victim card but when she gives it to Conan she's savage too lol
I ca t believe he brought up the funniest show ever. The impractical jokers ' wow if u evereed a good laugh. Impractical jokers all day every day
The psychiatrist could barely keep it in 3:01 😂
@BRITISH FAMILY REACTS Conan takes lessons on how to be a Department Store Santa
I was skipping school a lot at 13. They told my Mom to take me to a theropist. He said there is nothing wrong with your son. He is simply bored. He asked me course material in grades higher than mine and I answered all of his questions correctly. Psychologists can help some people, but not everyone needs one.
Aw, I’m glad to see you’re doing ok, Dana (sp)
Conan is awesome..
Sona is a serial thief 👍
But they need employment ❤
Ha that isn't even a therapist that's human resources
I know you weren’t generalizing about therapy, affects everyone differently. Therapy changed my life, made me a better man… The woman I was talking to linked things to my past that truly made sense to me so I wouldn’t repeat certain behaviors. I dunno, worked for me.. Big fan of urs anyways
More Conan please! XD
My Sophie❤❤❤❤❤
How does white paint work?
I've been to a few "therapists".. And I've been told the same thing. I can't be helped, or its going to take a long time to help me. There is too much in my head that they have no idea how to deal with. But they were willing to just shove drugs into me. And then pass me off to someone else. I told them no, I want you to help me. I don't want drugs to mask why I am the way I am. I came to you to help me find out why I suffer from all my mental illness and issues. Therapists are lazy. And that is from experience. Also, if like me.. I can't afford sessions. Then they don't want anything to do with you. If you aren't making them money by sitting on the couch, then they don't care.
🤣 so you've seen Every therapist then? Generalizing an entire profession based on the microscopic number of them you have seen is lazy.
@@TheLegmann Well thank you for that. That is exactly like someone in condition wants to hear. Well now I know better according to joecranle4969. Joe blah blah 6969
@@TheLegmann So are you the one who lives in Washington?🤣
@@TheLegmann God I love trolls like you. Gives me something to do with my life.
With all my apology's and respect to Office Bloke Daz and this channel. But if a troll is going to troll. Then I am not going to back down. With that said. I will post my opinion on matters about what you react to. But I will do so with respect to the channel and not personally attack any other poster. Wow, I guess I'm not so lazy after all.
What really sucks about seeing a counselor is when they just sit there and stare at you. Wtf?
And yes G, it means a LOT asking how your relationship is with your father because most, if not all, women marry men like their fathers, and vice versa for men.
It's absolutely true. We model our relationships after our parents, whether we notice or not.
To be fair, too many people with eating disorders end themselves intentionally or unintentionally.
NIce!
Damn. Just casually mentioning your eating disorder. I’m so sorry.
To be honest Gaina...if you were normal (psychologically healthy) at that time, then you wouldn't have had an eating disorder in the first place
Wow shaming therapy
9:43 Conan should be glad he wasn't sued for sexual harassment there.
Anti-therapy?? No, I’m sorry talking to friends is NEVER going to be better than trained therapists, etc. Very shocking. You must not have any real problems. To each their own though.
They never said they were anti therapy, they said they wouldn't do it, and would feel weird, millions of people share this view, its just not for them. I could never just tell everything to a therapist, for myself, talking to friends (certain friends) can have equal benefits to someone else talking to a therapist, everyone handles things differently, and not everything one goes through even needs a therapist, maybe they would consider it, if something traumatic happened, who knows But just because myself, or them or anyone personally want nothing to do with talking to a therapist, does not indicate that they are anti-therapy. And to assume, based on what they said, that they must not have had any real problems? WTF you are trash and should go talk to your therapist about judging people, while not knowing sh*t about them. l
Yeah, that was pretty ignorant. I did expect better.