Meg Thee Stallion & Tory Lanez: How Being Gullible Can Tarnish Your Reputation

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  • @greggprice3609
    @greggprice3609 ปีที่แล้ว +574

    People focus more on Megan's sex life when she's a victim who actually got shot.

    • @hendo4801
      @hendo4801 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      And her ex home girl did it...

    • @Dmagic716
      @Dmagic716 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      But not by Tory lol 😂

    • @lovingrcTV
      @lovingrcTV ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😮 It’s sick 🤢

    • @Beauty4Ashes578
      @Beauty4Ashes578 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Her sex life especially in this case/context does in-fact matter. It’s the sole reason why all three of em were fighting in the first place. It’s the sole fact that she Meg the victim was trying to conceal in the first place hence why she lied to doctors, investigators and the public. So let’s not pretend please. I feel bad that Meg was shot but honestly it’s all three of their faults for being in that messy situation in the first place IMO. And because of this, the case should be thrown out because the entire case reeks of reasonable doubt IJS..

    • @ascendingLOTUS
      @ascendingLOTUS ปีที่แล้ว +7

      shot vs shot as vs 3 ppl tussling over a gun & it goes off… 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @SimplyMichele1
    @SimplyMichele1 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    I’m about to turn 25 and honestly this year I has just showed me how gullible I have been .I feel so embarrassed about the men I have allowed to have access to me I feel dirty. I have changed my mindset and how view myself, I’m okay with being alone as long as I’m not disrespected but this channel has helped me more. I don’t feel bad for saying how I feel and waking away, what’s for me will be for me . Honestly keep making these videos

    • @brih4776
      @brih4776 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Realizing this is the first step to making better decisions! I hope you get the respect and love you deserve moving forward

    • @mbaliheals
      @mbaliheals ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Release the shame babes, you have absolutely no reason to feel dirty. There are no mistakes, just lessons. Stand tall coz you learnt your lessons, now you know better. 🤍

    • @MsVaughnKitty
      @MsVaughnKitty 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Pick your head up Mama. No need to feel dirty. You know better now, you didn’t then. Pick up and carry on. ❤

    • @livelovely4681
      @livelovely4681 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Calling yourself gullible is steal bypassing the problem. You just didn’t love or care about your self enough. It's okay to admit that.

  • @briannaloooper1379
    @briannaloooper1379 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Please promise not to delete these videos. My mother didn’t teach me anything about men, reputation, standards etc an I’m 22 years old applying everything you taught me over the last few months. When it’s my turn and I’m blessed with my own daughter she will need these

    • @arway6613
      @arway6613 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same

  • @empressmanifest
    @empressmanifest ปีที่แล้ว +404

    I couldn’t imagine going through what she went through losing so many vital people in her life. And then to be in the limelight. It’s amazing to me the lack of compassion from the industry. Her behavior is honestly understandable. She’ll learn. She’ll grow. And hopefully leave all the dusty behavior and people in the past.

    • @refiloepeu961
      @refiloepeu961 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She needs to stop lying, maybe we'd be more empathetic

    • @ShesAbsurd
      @ShesAbsurd ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@refiloepeu961 remember you are not entitled to her business.

    • @randomthoughtreviews3101
      @randomthoughtreviews3101 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Unfortunately the Illuminati want’s sacrifices. What can you do 🤷🏿

    • @maxverstappenworldchampion8290
      @maxverstappenworldchampion8290 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ShesAbsurd she needs to stop lying on Tory

    • @RealLifeRodger
      @RealLifeRodger ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You won’t have to imagine it. You’ll get your turn to go through it. If we live long enough we all will. That’s exactly why I don’t find that sympathetic. People lose parents everyday. She’s just a low character individual. Let Tory smash Kylie. My body my choice, unless it’s the guy I like.

  • @nrmf
    @nrmf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    It’s so satisfying seeing how Dababy, Tory Lanez And Even Nicki Minaj got their deserved flack and now Megan is flourishing and currrently selling out tours. God really blessed her this time around and she’s coming back a new woman as we’re speaking!!

  • @Stanfordmom-
    @Stanfordmom- ปีที่แล้ว +243

    One of the most realist videos I heard without someone bashing Megan just speaking the real not just to her to all women. #respect

  • @no.6377
    @no.6377 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    The level of grief Megan had to endure is mind boggling tbh. I knew she'd lost her mom but not about her dad and grandma. No wonder these goofy hood vultures were able to get with her. But I don't even think her sex life should've been brought up in regards to the assault.

    • @iona6558
      @iona6558 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      yeah but you know lawyers.. they’ll literally say anything to swing perception in their client’s favor. tory saw megan’s multiple bfs/flings in that little time span and ran with it unfortunately

    • @kemiosobukola2038
      @kemiosobukola2038 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He hurt her when she was already grieving

    • @mariama9037
      @mariama9037 ปีที่แล้ว

      After her mom died, she blew up now put two and two together

  • @Shay-ShayTV
    @Shay-ShayTV ปีที่แล้ว +33

    “For Megan Thee Stallion, Tory Lanez is supposed to stay in the friend zone.” No truer words.

  • @melaninpink92
    @melaninpink92 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I love that you are balanced with your content. While acknowledging that black woman don't always make the wises romantic or sexual choices. You don't bash them you educate in the most realistic classiest way. Your content you can always take a lesson to be learned from it.

  • @dahliaharris311
    @dahliaharris311 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This video needs to go viral. Cuz this is the conversation that black women should be having. Without blaming or bashing. Very well said

  • @93morganmarie
    @93morganmarie ปีที่แล้ว +160

    You hit the needle on the head. I'm praying for her mental health. I can attest to the fact that proper vetting will slow your body count. It is a very important value for young women to learn. But you honestly do not know unless someone teaches you. Thank you for your commitment to sharing this priceless information. 💜

    • @bellaapple2166
      @bellaapple2166 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That is what I keep repeating, no woman knows this unless someone teaches this to her. Now some women say they knew better and still chose to be loosely that's their decision. But when you don't know and you feel confused about why men keep treating you a certain way, then you find out it's because you weren't taught simple things all girls deserve to know.. it's utterly heartbreaking

    • @ImtheONEnotthetwo
      @ImtheONEnotthetwo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bellaapple2166 Agreed 100% with you and the post.

    • @maxverstappenworldchampion8290
      @maxverstappenworldchampion8290 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am praying for all the people she’s messed up

    • @arway6613
      @arway6613 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is so true and the way you put it was so sensitive and sweet 🥹 God bless you

  • @CourtneeG
    @CourtneeG ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Agreed. I’m praying for her mentally health. You hit it on the nail. Megan was going through trauma whilst trying to navigate the industry of snakes. Megan needs a break from the world after this

    • @maxverstappenworldchampion8290
      @maxverstappenworldchampion8290 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her mental health is intact . She even beats men in public so

    • @CourtneeG
      @CourtneeG ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maxverstappenworldchampion8290 ok

    • @maxverstappenworldchampion8290
      @maxverstappenworldchampion8290 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CourtneeG Maybe Tory’s mental health because he’s been living with a fake accusation of shooting a female for nearly 3 years

    • @CourtneeG
      @CourtneeG ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maxverstappenworldchampion8290 lol looks like he getting deported😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

  • @truthorlies5282
    @truthorlies5282 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Yasss preach on the having sex while vulnerable,I can say I related to Meg because my mom died while I was young, but letting these lames have you is a big NO NO especially when she has the money and status you MuST watch out for yourself always FIRST , enjoyed this breakdown 💯 PS I definitely on Meg’s side despite mistakes we make as women NO woman deserves being harmed or shot , or violated ❤

    • @Skinny2p
      @Skinny2p ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Everybody go through shit niggas get shot in the head an come back on sun chill shit, that don’t mean u can lie on somebody 4 something u don’t rlly kno the facts on, she coulda gave him decades in jail.

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is just female sista code foolishness. The hell are you on "Megan's side"?? You don't know the chick, and.she don't know you! What you do know is she intentionally slept with her friend's man then got jealous when another woman was digging the same man too, and literally caused the entire conflict which she is now portrayed as a victim from.
      The chicks that are defending her do so in a selfish spirit. A spirit of "I would want people to side with and defend me if I did some ill ish like this to even my best friend." A spirit of "I would rather lie to spite the man I got angry and jealous over than be honest and just move on." This whole situation is a big L to y'all Sista Code.

  • @skindippedingold
    @skindippedingold ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Your channel is so underrated! You hit the nail on the head. Your commentary was straight to the point without aimlessly criticizing anyone and being willfully obtuse about the facts.

  • @Sshazex
    @Sshazex ปีที่แล้ว +100

    You always hit the nail on the head. Meg is the victim at the end of the day. There is no way you could frame it that’s excuses her getting shot. However in the same token holding ourselves accountable is important too. When life is chaotic, chaotic things will come.

    • @MissAmeriNegro
      @MissAmeriNegro ปีที่แล้ว

      No she is not. She was the aggressor.

  • @Zvwry
    @Zvwry ปีที่แล้ว +338

    I truly do feel bad for Meg. I believe she most likely did go behind her friend’s back but the shooting can’t be the karma for that. I hope Meg gets everything together. Gets a therapist and just focuses on her music.

    • @sonyap8253
      @sonyap8253 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      It's karma for all the backs...and fronts...she's stabbed. Do you not see a pattern with sis?? Sheesh 👀

    • @isaidwhatisaid484
      @isaidwhatisaid484 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Why do you feel bad? She caused this entire mess tbh. This is actually the game you play when you betray people. 😂

    • @greatvaluebleach1
      @greatvaluebleach1 ปีที่แล้ว

      You got bullet fragments in your foot but you go to the club right after….? 🤔

    • @MissChubbyBabyy
      @MissChubbyBabyy ปีที่แล้ว +24

      1) Karma comes all ways no restrictions included
      2) Meg is morally wrong and was living a lifestyle she wasn't really willing to commit too in public eye in a "City Girl" Era
      3) Kelsey was a real friend till she survived social media reputation massacre when Meg could have done something instead of antagonize the situation.
      4) Tory is a example of the word "Gotcha" was a person

    • @CantBeHammy
      @CantBeHammy ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You can’t pick someone’s karma, you do bad you get bad

  • @mc.2638
    @mc.2638 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I really feel sorry for her. Losing and trusting so many people when you have nobody, now this. Praying for her and her mental health 💗

    • @wyntahb3968
      @wyntahb3968 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are u kidding smh

    • @samanthasummer1201
      @samanthasummer1201 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She got shot cos she was disloyal to her best friend!!

    • @maxverstappenworldchampion8290
      @maxverstappenworldchampion8290 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why should anyone support a liar

    • @loyaltyb71052
      @loyaltyb71052 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samanthasummer1201 well they should have shot Tory! No excuse for a man shooting a woman in this situation. Shoot the woman and stay with the cheating man, SAD COM!

  • @classicutie93
    @classicutie93 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Ladies please Listen, you don't want to learn the lesson of being gullible the hard way. I am 29 and last year I learned the hardest way. My best friends husband drugged me, stuck a knife in my side and pulled me into a back and raped me all while his wife laid asleep on the couch drunk. A real life Monster. I had even texted to my husband earlier that night that something felt off but I genuinely thought it was just marital stuff because it felt like he was triggering her to keep taking shots by bringing up old stuff. I wish I had listened to my intuition and left because my life is forever scarred. Don't be gullible because u never know who is going to be a monster. Saddest part of it all is that the conversation I was having with him was me encouraging him to stay strong and seek help if he needs because he "used" to have a drug problem. Ive Never felt so stupid and gullible in my life. A hard learned lesson.

    • @StarringShameka
      @StarringShameka ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wow 💔 So so sorry you had to experience that 😢🙌🏾

    • @cathymarie9727
      @cathymarie9727 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m so sorry to hear 😢 This is why I’m so cautions with friends and even ppl. It’s hard to trust nowadays

    • @christiniaking3985
      @christiniaking3985 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Only The Strong Survive && That’s Why You’re Still Standing Queen👸🏽💎✨ Never Regret Anything Just Learn From It.

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Women need to stop being all in other people's business, especially their friend's husband. There's no damn way you should have been there AND without your own husband, trying to play couple's therapist. Yes, predators are astute at singling out gullible people, which is why if you have a protector, that being your husband, you remain under his covering. Ain't no damn way a man should be seeking relationship counsel from a woman other than his own mother.
      It sounds harsh but that's REAL. And I know from personal experience of multiple women in my life telling me that they were minding a business that didn't even pay them.

    • @classicutie93
      @classicutie93 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@odog76543 exactly why somebody like u wouldn't be picked to be a juror. Stupid asf tryna shame a victim who experienced a horror not even a year ago. I'll say this just because I want to, not because you deserve it. But she had asked me multiple times to encourage him because I myself had issues as a teenager due to being molested by a family member at a young age. Now that that is off my chest I am exhaling and blocking u if thats a possibility on this app. Please don't message me again because I can already feel myself starting to go into a panic attack. Leave me tf alone.

  • @Kalifornia_Dreaming
    @Kalifornia_Dreaming ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Meg needs needs therapy if she isn't getting it already because she's been through a lot.She owed Kelsey an apology and rather than apologize, her and the rest of her friends got online and made disgusting comments about Kelsey's child. Now it's looking like Tory will beat this case.smh

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Agreed. I believe that Tory might walk as well!

    • @whatthehellizgoingon
      @whatthehellizgoingon ปีที่แล้ว +2

      oh my!!! what did she say about her precious child? when i went on kelsey's ig my heart fluttered her son is so darn adorable. i never understood people that talked about kids, smh... i see why kelsey said fuck this shit

    • @Kalifornia_Dreaming
      @Kalifornia_Dreaming ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Where's Tamara ✨ It was a couple months ago and I remembered seeing it on the Neighborhood talk ig.Grown women making fun of a baby's head.I'm sure it was after that she decided not to help Meg out and I don't blame her.

    • @whatthehellizgoingon
      @whatthehellizgoingon ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Kalifornia_Dreaming same here... ima check it out bc tbh that's crazy. megan lost the little bit of support i was trying to hold out. friends fall out everyday but you was never her friend if that's how you wanna act

    • @mmaya772
      @mmaya772 ปีที่แล้ว

      Still no excuse smh.*🙄​@@Kalifornia_Dreaming

  • @Bre_Creatively
    @Bre_Creatively ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Someone finally kept it real! We cannot just disregard the reality of ALL of their roles! Not taking away from her being shot, but yes, she needs to step away and get herself together mentally, seek therapy and take care of her! Jumping around is a filler for the trauma and her missing love and wanting to fill that void. I pray for her mental health and healing and I pray that she grows from this and adjusts however necessary.

    • @denisewilliams2818
      @denisewilliams2818 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You hit the nail on the wall with saying jumping around is her filling a void. I never realized it but it does look like she hops from one man to another. Pardi seems cool but he’s a industry dude so the verdict is still out.

  • @Lifewithlaiw
    @Lifewithlaiw ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Your messages are so positive and educational especially for black women im glad I subscribed, I have 2 daughters, 21 & 27 I’m gone put them on your channel, their generation needs women like you to reprogram their ways of thinking.

  • @oalatishe
    @oalatishe ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You dropped gem after gem in this video, wish more women realized this but God and self awareness can restore anyone, no matter her past

  • @totallythandi2555
    @totallythandi2555 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    And she's not even 30. As a woman in her 20's I really do feel for her. Sometimes we do need to go through something embarrasing to open our eyes and move better. I can't wait for the trial to be over so everyone can move on.

  • @quinnettarobinson1453
    @quinnettarobinson1453 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I appreciate you, the way you explain things in your videos are amazing. People tend to lose focus of the situation itself. I like how you speak, give examples and have facts. All while uplifting women respectfully, keep dropping this Gold! I pray Meg is able to find some sort of justice.

  • @daneedelmar4716
    @daneedelmar4716 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I've saved almost every one of your videos to share with my daughters when they come of age if I need an example to educate them on tough life lessons. ❤

  • @oweber2160
    @oweber2160 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Meg’s reputation has been a focal point for a while for being a jump off and drunk. It doesn’t help her former BFF confirmed the rumors under oath. Meg is beautiful but I think she’s aways had this flaw but it was tamed but once her parents & grandparent died it got worse. She needs good mentorship and sound council to keep it real with her without intentional hurt.

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🎯

    • @dominqueb10
      @dominqueb10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Definitely ran through

    • @Nique96
      @Nique96 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dominqueb10 & People got mad at Carl (1501) for saying the industry men running thru her 😭

    • @denisewilliams2818
      @denisewilliams2818 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed. I really hope Meg or someone around her is looking into getting her some therapy/counseling.

    • @isisabali8412
      @isisabali8412 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The impact of grief is real. Also at play is the male-centric conditioning that she's built her image and career around under the guise of sexual liberation. We see that behind scenes, things weren't so liberating, we're they?
      The duties were having their way.
      Many of the messages in other videos on this channel offer a reframe Meg desperately needs.

  • @raptureextensions
    @raptureextensions ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Not to change subjects but I need one on this Diddy thing cause social media has been at a all time low vibes

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just dropped Amygdala Pt. 2 😉

  • @Ashley-rl7db
    @Ashley-rl7db ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wheeeewwww you sound like my mother when you said “your house isn’t in order” I feel for Meg I’ve been in “gullible” situations I pray for her. Her slip was showing and no one said a word I truly hope her pardi can move past this I also hope going forward she knows they folks ain’t it

  • @evolonten
    @evolonten ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i feel for meg. just young tryna figure everything out. i get it ur 20s your grown but that don’t mean you won’t still fail and be dumb, people forget that part easily. Not only that but it don’t just gotta be a man you watch out for , women, coworkers, now a days strangers and even yourself.

  • @monicaanything5643
    @monicaanything5643 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    One thing about you, you don't lie!

  • @Eucala
    @Eucala ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You never miss. 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @user-wi1nx9iz6f
    @user-wi1nx9iz6f ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Keep coming with all the facts sis! Love me some Megan. & I pray for nothing but healing and re-alignment for her in the future years. I think she genuinely forgot her worth for a second. Sadly, it happens

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Girl thank you for talking about women being gullible, I needed to hear this

  • @latrice2850
    @latrice2850 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I really feel bad for Megan, she’s been though a lot …poor thing …she will bounce back from this but I know this is hard for her

  • @chicchica44
    @chicchica44 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Protect this content creator!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @MindHeartBodySoul
    @MindHeartBodySoul ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Short & deep!👏🏾🌊

  • @luv4rina
    @luv4rina ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thank you for the quality content ❤

  • @cherishoneal9108
    @cherishoneal9108 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I seen your aesthetics video pop up on my feed, and today I was thinking about Megan and Kelsey fitting into that type. Glad I’m watching a video of yours.

    • @Frwill126
      @Frwill126 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! I told my friends they were not really friends. They slept with too many of the same men. One is too many! If they were really friends, Kelsey would have backed her up despite their current friendship status. It’s such a shame

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  ปีที่แล้ว

      Perfect timing 😉💕

  • @Midnightdarkness-jr2yz
    @Midnightdarkness-jr2yz ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m 18 years old and I honestly had to learn the hard way. A guy I’ve been talking to for 2 months finally wanted to go out somewhere but before all that I honestly felt like the man in the relationship because I had to be there for him, apologize to him, pray for him, not knowing he has an hidden agenda, later on I let him meet my parents, even promised to come to my graduation, after our first date he gave me my first kiss, told me I was his girl, 2nd date he took me out and parked his car, he knew he could get me with the kiss, he then pulled out his private area, trying to get me to put my head down there I started telling him no he then tried to please me with his hand, and my breast to, then he went out to eat, took me to get food, took me home and my mom was outside she looked at him up and down and my brother, sister to, my mom told him “if you are talking to other girls and you are not faithful with breonna let her know so she won’t be hurt and crying, after that he gave me his jacket and left I smelled it all night, that night he started being cold with me and distant, rude, he kept asking me am I sure I want to be with him, I said yes I really do he said “okay fine” I said what’s Wrong” he said “it doesn’t matter it’s nothing bad” then he said “I’ll leave you alone since you don’t feel like talking. I was like no it’s not that you just don’t seem like you don’t wanna talk, I was heartbroken because of felt like after my mom told him if his intentions aren’t pure he could just back off and that’s exactly what he did. I’m just glad I didn’t give him my virginity because I would’ve been even more hurt.

  • @TheNayaJ
    @TheNayaJ ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you and I don’t even know what you look like! You were 1000% right about everything

  • @itsyahgirlyani7543
    @itsyahgirlyani7543 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m glad you posted a video about this topic 🙌🏾

  • @MarciaRain
    @MarciaRain ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so hooked on these videos. Please don’t ever stop creating

  • @pennyp630
    @pennyp630 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great commentary!❤

  • @jenniferbrown9650
    @jenniferbrown9650 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love Megan idc idc. Hope she's learning from all of this🙏🏾

  • @brittneyholmes2700
    @brittneyholmes2700 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    And we are back with another videooooo.. this is my favorite channel!

  • @EB-mz4nk
    @EB-mz4nk ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I was happy to see Kelsey’s man there supporting her, glad she moved on and started her little family away from ppl like Meg

    • @thinkbigbih
      @thinkbigbih ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unfortunately she was there with her man one of the record executives at 1501 now tell me how far she tryna get away from Meg 😂

    • @darbloopeto7600
      @darbloopeto7600 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thinkbigbih lmao exactly

  • @LizNeptune
    @LizNeptune ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Three words: call the police. Put yourself FIRST. I lost my father who I was close with and lived with and my grandmother 6 months apart. It drove me NUTS. I was coming and going, all over the place, suffering mentally for like a year and a half. So I can’t imagine mom, dad and grandma. She’s probably distracting and not fully grieving.

  • @SosaG21
    @SosaG21 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Love these videos! Always the voice of reason ❤️

  • @Rachel_K
    @Rachel_K ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So happy you uploaded. About to cook and listen. Be back with my comment

  • @shondamaria
    @shondamaria ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a gem! I’ve been watching your videos for the past 24hrs

  • @pinkieboo98
    @pinkieboo98 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I truly feel for Meg and pray she gets proper healing from all this. But I do believe Megan should be held accountable for her inconsistencies. She should’ve just kept her mouth shut from jump and let her legal and pr team handle everything. No interviews or nothing! Now she’s deteriorating her legacy because of this case

  • @MakeArtBae
    @MakeArtBae ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love how you addressed this!

  • @amplyfesociety2570
    @amplyfesociety2570 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is valuable commentary and a lot nuggets of wisdom.

  • @MsLegend99
    @MsLegend99 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love this channel

  • @ruthjuliana9222
    @ruthjuliana9222 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What happened to Meg is an unfortunate series of events. It is the worst outcome but I am happy she got the justice she deserved. Tory was not able to get away with this.

  • @NBean90
    @NBean90 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Wondering if any of these rap girlies actually live up to what they rap about...🤔

    • @chimishathegreat23
      @chimishathegreat23 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      They don't

    • @BooksandLooksTV
      @BooksandLooksTV ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Most are hurt

    • @mariahyohannes
      @mariahyohannes ปีที่แล้ว +5

      When does Megan rap about violence?

    • @BlkMedusa
      @BlkMedusa ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s an image. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @NBean90
      @NBean90 ปีที่แล้ว

      Violence is not what I’m speaking of, I’m speaking of her not vetting these shorties (literally dababy and Tory) properly. I actually like Megan, and I hope she gets justice.

  • @Lisatheecreator
    @Lisatheecreator ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree. I am not in favor of a lot of the choices Meg has made. However, ppl let their dislike for Meg’s choices allow them to cape for Torey . It’s not ok.

  • @therealselenaselena
    @therealselenaselena ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm a new subbie and I am addicted to your videos. U are a very wise woman ♥️💯

  • @b_b_b5146
    @b_b_b5146 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "In an unfair world, the last thing you want to be is gullible as a woman".
    I agree 100%

  • @ShesAbsurd
    @ShesAbsurd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perfectly said. Hit ALL points.

  • @KDBetter
    @KDBetter ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I feel bad for Megan due to all of the loss in her life and I can understand how a young Black woman can make bad decisions. I also feel bad for Kelsey who gave up her whole life to be there for her friend. She wasn’t afraid to let her shine.

  • @perdybirdie
    @perdybirdie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Could we get a video on Ashanti saying she's now ready for marriage and a child at 43? However when asked about Nelly she hesitated and seemed open to getting back with him

  • @ShrandaM
    @ShrandaM ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was a great video. I am definitely seeking a lot of knowledge from your channel. Thank you so much!

  • @Ariescertified
    @Ariescertified ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel for Meg in this situation clearly she got hurt. Shots were clearly fired. I understand that she was going through a lot at that time. Kelsey testimony could potentially hurt her case. It is very important to vet men top to bottom but it’s also important to stay solid with your best friend who was there for you. Meg and Kelsey have been friends for a long time. I hate when people say Kelsey wanted fame. Kelsey also has her own money, so she never needed Meg. Meg being a terrible friend might just be her downfall 💯 Meg said protect black women right? But when the internet kept blaming Kelsey she didn’t have her back? I just wish they ALL told the truth, I doubt the public will ever know. Smh

  • @Tnyene_Lanice
    @Tnyene_Lanice ปีที่แล้ว +11

    And you all also forget Megan’s EX boyfriend got her locked up leading to her mugshot being exposed. Which she broke down. SMH I feel for her she’s lost but Pardison seems like a good man strong man for her. Also the media is trying to deflect that fact of the matter by what lead to it by highlighting irrelevant points like her being jealous of Tori and Kylie like she CLEARLY wasn’t the victim 😑🙏🏾

  • @Bre-bo6nd
    @Bre-bo6nd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for keeping it real!!! None of her business has anything to with her being shot. She is still the victim.

  • @locgoddess3513
    @locgoddess3513 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I love your content

  • @jamillawebb3567
    @jamillawebb3567 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sis I just love your videos.❤

  • @therjfirm
    @therjfirm ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kelsey is purposefully screwing this case because she is pissed with Meg. It's revenge plus she's married to and has kids with a 1501 executive. I'm not understanding why the judge and jury aren't seeing that.

  • @cassiesmith8009
    @cassiesmith8009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We as consumers need to get into the Habit of doing our own researching and comprehending stuff. They were indeed many versions of the story in regards to this case. Yes Meghan is a victim but tory is too. Here's why, before the witness was swindled to change his statement. He saw that to two females were fighting, then one of the females dispatched bullets from the gun(this firearm needed 10lbs of pressure to release a round) , which ricocheted and injured Meghan, hitting her in her feet. Tory jumped in and took the firearm and proceeded to disperse the remining rounds into the air to prevent additional discharges. Meghan was then persuaded by her label not to speak on the matter because it can ruin her career. So in return they went on a campaign to ruin Tory's career ( he also owns his masters). Tory was already in a position where a lot of people dislikes him so he was the best scape goat. That's why he's trying to fight for his innocence. The media is a very scary place, once you have enough money you can create any outcome, even in the court room. Hope someone understand whats truly going on... with this case. Eventually the truth will come out about this case...

  • @nacholuva_
    @nacholuva_ ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i hope they picking up what you puttin down 🫶🏾💪🏾

  • @hendo4801
    @hendo4801 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What you mean all 3 aint being honest. Apparently is the only one who is being honest about his part in the situation 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @amandastarich4445
    @amandastarich4445 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This case needs to be dismissed. Too many lies to put someone away for 20 plus years.

  • @mmaya772
    @mmaya772 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed to hear this thanks!*💯

  • @alego8072
    @alego8072 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On title ALOONEEE & wow wow yes indeed 👌🏾 👏🏿 😍

  • @adonnarowe1811
    @adonnarowe1811 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need you as a life coach ! ❤

  • @shantellylacew
    @shantellylacew ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All of what you said 💯💯

  • @vaughnettemonroe283
    @vaughnettemonroe283 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm glad you finally touched on this topic because it was needed... honestly I think a lot of us women have been in Megan situation trusting the wrong people and befriended the wrong people can come back to haunt you regardless of who slept with who? This woman is still learning herself and those things around her....this is classic case of sex, lies and scandal

    • @maxverstappenworldchampion8290
      @maxverstappenworldchampion8290 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have a lot of opinions about men you sexist piece of Shi . She said on the stand she lied . Her story is different from prosecution. Her story is different from the independent witness . Her story is different from everyone in the car . Everyone is lying except her ?

  • @EyamQueenReads
    @EyamQueenReads ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So for me intuitively, what I feel and know to be true is who accidentally shot Meg ( yes it was a accident ) was Kels and Tory tried to take the gun from her. I saw it in a vision. Why do you think evidence show both Kel and Tory covered with gun residue? Why do you think Kels went to great lengths to get immunity? Why do you think why Tory tried to help Kels out without trying to take the fall? Kels didnt mean to shoot Meg in fact she was heartbroken over it, Tory why did he take some what of the blame? He honestly remorseful, and he does blame himself because he slept with both of them and blame himself for breaking up their friendship. Thats why he kept apologizing to them both not because he actually shot her. Now as for Meg, Meg really does need therapy. Not just because shes been shot, shes in pain over her family losses and she hasnt fully allowed herself to process her own emotions. Truthfully meg been wilding, and although i agree no gun shouldve never been warranted, but should not be telling lies to help her victim mentality. That in itself is unhealthy. We all become victims in some point of our experiences on life but you dont have to allow yourself to remain a victim by the same experience over and over. If your going to heal it starts with living in your truth, now for some may not agree but in this case Meg is wrong for lieing to save face, if she didnt know who shot her in the beginning ( and this is what she told cops in the beginning) she shouldve stood on that verses listening to her PR team. Your integrity speaks volumes of who you really are honestly. But this whole cry everytime you are backed up in a corner its given lack of awareness and accountable and the truth is Meg is every way responsible as Kel and Tory. Why am I saying that because everybody is only paying attention to the surface of the case and being biased because some are a fan to meg, some are a fan to Tory. But the truth is whether you are fan of either you should also use decernment and free thinking as a way to determine the truth. You have take this situation and filter the facts from the b.s. Lastly people want to know why Meg sex lifeis on trial well in court yall its about character analyzing. Why do yall think they have lawyers who team up with psychologist or therapist when they are trying to explain motive. So meg sexlife is on trial simply out of trying to explain the whole truth for a motive. If anybody been paying attention kels has more of a motive than Tory wouldnt you think? Ask yourself why would Tory jeopardize his career for someone who just got in the music game? Why would he shoot meg when clearly he wasnt in love with her so it wasnt a crime of passion so what other motives would it be? Jealousy? Why would he be jealous of Meg when he slept both her and her ex bf? Now lets ask ourselves Why would Kels would try to shoot her, well she felt betrayed by meg back dooring her, maybe felt Meg in some ways was jealous of her getting certain men attention. Kels was able to get immunity, ask yourself if you didnt do anything why did you need immunity? To prevent you from going to jail over the fact you had the gun in your hand and you out of rage was thinking about shooting her, but Tory jumped in and it appeared that he shot you but truth is it was an accident and none of them will nr able to say that because they were all drunk and for Meg it would look that much more bad if she actually told the truth. For kels would look like an attempted murder and for Tory it would be guilty by association and he would be in bigger trouble for holding some info out of it. They all need to take accountability for their actions and go heal fr.

  • @borifloriyurinationswamibo8384
    @borifloriyurinationswamibo8384 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cookie? Is that you? If not, I swear I heard this same voice and convo like 14 years ago word for word. Deja Vu is real.

  • @sanjai6291
    @sanjai6291 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💯💯💯💯spot on

  • @Thegirlfromthea
    @Thegirlfromthea ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We need More videos you did 2 years ago

  • @joujoubelle3009
    @joujoubelle3009 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wonder how both of her parents and grandma passed away. Was her parents sick and grandma was sick tooo wow,
    She’s literally on her own out here.
    That’s very sad. I sympathize with Meghan!

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Her mother died of brain cancer & her father was murdered. I am not sure about her grandmother.

    • @joujoubelle3009
      @joujoubelle3009 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@WildheartWaves - wow, thanks for sharing that. Goodness Gracious.

    • @kemiosobukola2038
      @kemiosobukola2038 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@WildheartWaves she’s been through so much😢 seen her in real life and she’s gorgeous and friendly

  • @EmotionsExpressed
    @EmotionsExpressed ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I totally agree that Meghan is the victim in this(shooting) situation. At the same time I believe it’s more to a story like you mentioned.

  • @TheHealingVoiceofReason
    @TheHealingVoiceofReason ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gurl... you said it

  • @rebellejohnson
    @rebellejohnson ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speak truth🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣

  • @JaySheRight
    @JaySheRight ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m not bashing Meg, but it is amazing to me that yal will give this girl a pass for sleeping with friend man and act like yal don’t understand crimes of passion. If I found out my best friend sleeping with my man then act like I’m tripping or being extra about it. I don’t know if I’m above anything. So yal love for Meg is too much because most people will be like she did what!!!!! Oh na! It’s just hypocrisy.
    With that being said! This video is very balanced. But these comments always lean too hard on one side.

    • @WildheartWaves
      @WildheartWaves  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tory wasn’t Kelsey’s man. Meg & Kelsey were also sleeping with multiple men & some of the same men within the industry. These were situationships not committed relationships. It’s giving swingers.

    • @JaySheRight
      @JaySheRight ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@WildheartWaves omg 😳 see, na. Everybody know in girl world. It ain’t got to be committed. As long as that was my sexual partner at some point (unless I gave you the green light for whatever reason) find your own penis. You don’t go for your friends lovers. So it’s still giving a no for me. She knew better that’s why she embarrassed.

    • @TryTiffiny
      @TryTiffiny ปีที่แล้ว

      I said the same thing. Like why is she smashing the same guy her “best” friend is having sex with and everyone is like poor Meg??? Not cool.

  • @yayashea9202
    @yayashea9202 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These are some of the things that inspired her song Plan B.

  • @irmulc
    @irmulc ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Stoppppp. How you gonna trash these dudes and raise this woman like she didn’t have nothing to do with this whole situation. She made her life choices before her family members passed. Her whole career is based on her sexuality and her body. There is no secrets there. These dudes didn’t shoot her, it was another woman. Nor did they share any new news about her sex life in the streets. If you want to keep it real, speak the truth on your own actions. Hold yourselves accountable. She lied on a brotha. Keep it real. She was shot by her ex friend. Keep it real. My folks always said “You make your bed, you lie in it”. She made hers.

  • @bashfulbeautybelle
    @bashfulbeautybelle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I honestly believe tory and kelsey fought over the weapon which is why she’s pleading the 5th & they both had residue on them.

  • @thandilezulu5933
    @thandilezulu5933 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    💗

  • @joujoubelle3009
    @joujoubelle3009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree. Love it. 💕

  • @ohyesmyles
    @ohyesmyles 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    6:52 really?!?!!? I didnt know that

    • @ohyesmyles
      @ohyesmyles 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Makes so much sense

  • @KiKiCarr
    @KiKiCarr ปีที่แล้ว +10

    rich lames 😂

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I pray for her❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tayyibahz9343
    @tayyibahz9343 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They were all arguing cuz Megan decided to be a bad friend and sleep with her best friends man. A gun shouldn’t have been pulled out in this situation. But there was alcohol involved and no one was thinking straight due to that. Now they all have to deal with it!

  • @avlivinggolden
    @avlivinggolden ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent commentary! I wish and dream for Meg to have a good mentor like Anita Baker, Roxanne Shante, MC Lyte, Queen Latifah or Rah Digga? I pray that she detox, forgives herself and that she is protected by God her ancestors and angels!!! I don't think she has grieved or process her love ones death. 🤔
    Soul ties are real! Your spirit, mind and body needs a break from bad pene, junk food, negative people etc.

  • @Kx1047x
    @Kx1047x ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly, Meg made a lot of bad decisions and with that comes consequences. She was in a bad state because of all of the deaths she been facing in her family but that doesn’t give her a pass to sleep with her best friend’s man. Nobody is concerned with her sex life and she should do whatever she wants but also with that as a woman the more men you sleep with you will get labeled and put in a bad light. That’s just life. It’s very unfortunate that the argument escalated to her being shot in the foot I hope she can move on from this and make better choices in her life because she is a great artist just like Tory. Life is never fair but we need to start seeing things as they’re happening for us and not to us. Find the blessing in the lesson and move on because this also will pass.

  • @myarenea1125
    @myarenea1125 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Idk but the music at the end does it everytime for me lol 😂🙌🏾

  • @ChellBellll
    @ChellBellll ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Honesty is 100% what is missing in this story . I think this whole story has shown how many of these men are truly egotistical. Sadly i think Meg was too consumed with grief(being gullible) to vet and see that.I also think Kelsey was consumed with the fast life and fame to see that as well.

    • @moenlighted7681
      @moenlighted7681 ปีที่แล้ว

      So she can lie on a man and try to get him to prison for 2 decades yet he's egotistical for defending himself. These citygirl feminists can't compete with men. She should be strong and independent and serve 2 decades in jail.

    • @ChellBellll
      @ChellBellll ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@moenlighted7681 you don’t know if she lied or not . But outside of the trial. Tory has been known to be egotistical and so has the Da baby and her labels’ceo .

    • @moenlighted7681
      @moenlighted7681 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ChellBellll women love to share men and all this citygirl lyrics is fake. Meg thought she could beat men and she couldn't turns out she's just another female.

    • @ChellBellll
      @ChellBellll ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@moenlighted7681 unfortunately I’m not able to finish this conversation because you already have your mind and ego set on your perception of women. I think you need to broaden your horizon and know there are women who love and respect themselves and refuse to share any man. Have a good day . FYI it doesn’t matter what Meg did she did not deserve to be shot.

    • @moenlighted7681
      @moenlighted7681 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ChellBellll she stepped on glass. I have a hard time understanding if women have different groups or they all the same. By the looks of it they are all the same but prove me wrong.
      Meg promotes hypersexuality
      Complete autonomy for women
      Yet gets very emotional when asked about her sexual encounters.
      I don't understand why. Own up to how many people you sleep with like the men. Men aren't ashamed of naming women they have slept with.