❤I really appreciate the fact that you refrain from making comments about the laos domestic hot topic. You are 100% right! Niam Neej Vam already spoke! Love your stories! Much respect!!!
Sister Jenny, this is the reasons why nowadays our generation would always think about putting our parents in seniors home care because of safety and don't want to see them face this kind of issues whenever we're not near them. It's not that we don't love them and don't want them around because we're afraid it can happen to them for their safety when we're not home or away to work just like the experienced of your story told.
But honestly some old folks who are very old, they still go try turn on stove to cook when they not allow to cook anymore I meant doesn’t know how to use stove anymore.
Agree. Many of us Hmong don't understand it. People think it's just an excuse to put the elders in nursing home. However, some of our elders have dementia and can't remember what they were doing, but still would try to cook and forget to turn off the stove. When the children are still young and have full time jobs, they can't be there all the time to watch them. Same with those of us who like to burn candles, not just the elders. Everyone really need to educate themselves.
My in-laws are the same. They are not even old but they get distracted easily so there’s been multiple times they left the stove on and forget about it. My husband has done the same a few times so I don’t trust him home with my kids. Always have to remind my kids to watch their dad and the stove. lol
Ua tsaug koj tseem los qhia rau peb thiab os yeej yog li koj hais lawm sawv daws yuav tsum tau ceeb faj thiab kawm kom paub hais tias yus yuav ua li cas yog thaum ntsib tej teeb meem zoo li no.
We’ve learned from being foster parents when you have a two story house to have a fire escape ladder that the kids can use from the window to escape. The ladder rolls up and does not take up space. It’s good to have one in each bedroom on the 2nd floor.
Very good tips sister Jenny! I also recommend having a CO2 detector and fire blanket. CO2 detector must be in the hall way before all the bedrooms and fire blanket close by the stove. Also, subscribe to ADT ( if allowed). They watch your home and monitor for fire and CO2 in the home. If they are any smoke/CO2 detected, they will call the appropriate department. **I’m not selling or advertising for ADT. Just speaking from experience.
It’s also very important to have a carbon monoxide detector. Carbon monoxide gas is odorless and can silently kill you. Also need to check a fire extinguisher periodically. These extinguishers do have expiration dates.
Great tips Jenny! I think one of the big misunderstandings about the smoke detector is when it beeps, it means the battery needs to be replaced. When I am watching FB live, and I hear the detector beeping from the seller's live, I have mistaken it so many times for mine!!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️😂. I think a lot of Hmong people don't understand that when it beeps, it means that the battery is dying!!! It does not mean it works! One more to add to your list, buy a CO2 detector! That is a must-have.
That is good, sister Jenny. I am glad that you hesitated to recommend to the women how to protect themselves from evil men. Since you are not a professional practitioner, you should never advise anyone except be open-minded. Let professional people help them better. The current situation is easy to handle as long as her parents understand the consequences of her life. I am sure the girl's parents know what to do since they are in a Hmong village still practicing traditional methods. The evil man should pay for the price he caused
During Covid, I noticed lots of Facebook people selling online, So many of them have their smoke detectors beeping in the background. I feel a lot of them don’t even know how to change batteries or care that is important to replace batteries on their smoke detectors.
Sister Jenny, I’m in my 60 now. When my family was living in Lao, I’m about 4 years old. My mother got up went to the garden left me and my brother with my uncle. When I got up in the morning I play with a match by the bed where we sleep. I burn the mosquito net, my brother was still sleep in it. He was burn to death. My uncle was sleeping in another room by the time he came to our room, the mosquito already wrap around my brother. I got little burn on my arm. It was so sad. 😥😥
Sister Jenny Peb cov uas nyob yav North America no peb need lub carbon monoxide detector thiab nawv mog, lub no tseem ceeb ib yam nkawd lub smoke alarm thiab nawv mog, lub no mus ntes cov nature gas leaks thiab propane leaks nawv mog. Yog tias nej nyob USA or Canada nej yuav tau paub txog cov no mog peb kwv tij Hmoob.
Niam tais jeny aw yog koj tsis kam tham txog qhov teeb meem tim plog no koj kuj tham txog qhov tim mes kas ko ob seb teem yog li cas thiab lawv puas tau zoo vim peb ib txhia nyob txawv teb chawg xav2 paub li o
Kuv mas yuav tsis xav hais tias lawv ruam es lawv tsis paub khiav os tej zaum mas yog lawv tsaug zog dhau lawm xwb os hos nws cov me nyuam los tseem me2 xwb es nim yuav paub khiav os thaum txog luag mas txawj2 hais tab sis thaum txog yus ces yeej ua tsis tau li cas li os lawv aw2.
Sister Jenny, thaum kuv niam pog tseem nyob nws yeej ua li koj tus niam hlob ko thiab tab sis zoo qhov lawv lub alarm ho works es nrov. Peb lub stove ces pov tseg kiag lawm. Thaum peb hnov lub alarm ces tsev pa dub nciab twb tsis pom kev mus lawm. Zoo qhov lub tsev tseem muaj tsis li ces ntshe yuav tsis ok.
Whatever happens in Laos stay in Laos. Its not our problem. In America, everyone, men and women, keeps your hand to yourself. We are living in a society that says men and women are equal. So just by that alone, don't hit others. Because they will hit back.
For me: I never leave my kids alone unless it's with my teenager. Even if I leave my kids home, I never allow them to touch the stove even my teenagers. I will cook and always leave them with food. Or I will buy food for them. I never allow them to open doors if its just my kids home. I always tell them "even if it's pog, yawg, niam tais, yawm txiv, aunties or uncles, do not open the door. Whoever is coming will call me and I will call to let you guys know." So my kids never open the door. We never want anything to happen to our kids while we gone. I feel so sad for that family because no one ever want to come home to hear that news.
Please use proper cookwares to cook food. Do not use Aluminum trays to fry sesame balls. Aluminum trays are soft, and very thin and can be puncture easily. A tray of cooking oil leak down to your propane burner will result in a fatal accident. Also, when using propane, open the valve on top of the propane tank all the way. Never partially open the valve. Partially open will prevent the built in safety shut off valve to function when there is a sudden rush of propane leak along the hose.
sista Jenny, your story fits exactly this Vang family. They have too many kids around the house while the father was at work, and the mom was exhausted and did not pay attention to the kids. Some of the kids played with the lighter burning paper at the stairs. while the paper was burning, they got scared and went into the room without letting the mom know because they know that they will get into trouble if they did. The mother was so careless still sleeping in the room. When one of the kid yelling, the fire was to big and they all trapped upstair in the room choking. Lightly this is the case because the kids mostly 3, 4, and 5 years old.
I don’t understand why pa Cheng vang and his wife is a teacher they both should teach their children how to get out when the house is on fire? She should know that you can not light the candles at night unattended that is Not acceptable. I have 4 children I always tell my kids if the house is on fire and we have to go outside as fast we can if the door is on fire then use the chair to break the window and just get out and go stay at our neighbors front yard we will meet their. I always check my smoke detector and my co2 detector and always change the battery when we change our clocks I lived in central state so we change our clock 2 times per year
❤I really appreciate the fact that you refrain from making comments about the laos domestic hot topic. You are 100% right! Niam Neej Vam already spoke!
Love your stories! Much respect!!!
Sister Jenny, this is the reasons why nowadays our generation would always think about putting our parents in seniors home care because of safety and don't want to see them face this kind of issues whenever we're not near them. It's not that we don't love them and don't want them around because we're afraid it can happen to them for their safety when we're not home or away to work just like the experienced of your story told.
Nah, you’re just looking for an excuse to get rid of them.
But honestly some old folks who are very old, they still go try turn on stove to cook when they not allow to cook anymore I meant doesn’t know how to use stove anymore.
Agree. Many of us Hmong don't understand it. People think it's just an excuse to put the elders in nursing home. However, some of our elders have dementia and can't remember what they were doing, but still would try to cook and forget to turn off the stove. When the children are still young and have full time jobs, they can't be there all the time to watch them. Same with those of us who like to burn candles, not just the elders. Everyone really need to educate themselves.
My in-laws are the same. They are not even old but they get distracted easily so there’s been multiple times they left the stove on and forget about it. My husband has done the same a few times so I don’t trust him home with my kids. Always have to remind my kids to watch their dad and the stove. lol
Do NOT forget the carbon monoxide detector. It goes side by side with the fire detector. Just like a husband and wife.😊
Ua tsaug koj tseem los qhia rau peb thiab os yeej yog li koj hais lawm sawv daws yuav tsum tau ceeb faj thiab kawm kom paub hais tias yus yuav ua li cas yog thaum ntsib tej teeb meem zoo li no.
We’ve learned from being foster parents when you have a two story house to have a fire escape ladder that the kids can use from the window to escape. The ladder rolls up and does not take up space. It’s good to have one in each bedroom on the 2nd floor.
Youa V Xiong dabneeg
Tuaj koom mloog koj dua.
Very good tips sister Jenny! I also recommend having a CO2 detector and fire blanket. CO2 detector must be in the hall way before all the bedrooms and fire blanket close by the stove. Also, subscribe to ADT ( if allowed). They watch your home and monitor for fire and CO2 in the home. If they are any smoke/CO2 detected, they will call the appropriate department. **I’m not selling or advertising for ADT. Just speaking from experience.
Thank you!
It’s also very important to have a carbon monoxide detector. Carbon monoxide gas is odorless and can silently kill you. Also need to check a fire extinguisher periodically. These extinguishers do have expiration dates.
Ua tsaug ohs niam ntxawd , poj niam twb ua lauj kaub kub nyhiab ntau zaus li koj haid lawm tiag .
Carbon Monoxide detector is very important too. I recall a few older Hmong couples died because they were burning inside their home to stay warm.
Great tips Jenny! I think one of the big misunderstandings about the smoke detector is when it beeps, it means the battery needs to be replaced. When I am watching FB live, and I hear the detector beeping from the seller's live, I have mistaken it so many times for mine!!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️😂. I think a lot of Hmong people don't understand that when it beeps, it means that the battery is dying!!! It does not mean it works!
One more to add to your list, buy a CO2 detector! That is a must-have.
Agreed they have combination of smoke/co2 in one.
That is good, sister Jenny. I am glad that you hesitated to recommend to the women how to protect themselves from evil men. Since you are not a professional practitioner, you should never advise anyone except be open-minded. Let professional people help them better. The current situation is easy to handle as long as her parents understand the consequences of her life. I am sure the girl's parents know what to do since they are in a Hmong village still practicing traditional methods. The evil man should pay for the price he caused
Get the smoke/fire detector that is interconnected so if one detected it will alerts all the alarms in the house.
Tshuav tus ntaiv.nqi los ntawm qhov rai thiab yog koj nyob tsev 2 to 3 stairs
During Covid, I noticed lots of Facebook people selling online, So many of them have their smoke detectors beeping in the background. I feel a lot of them don’t even know how to change batteries or care that is important to replace batteries on their smoke detectors.
Lol
Sister Jenny, I’m in my 60 now. When my family was living in Lao, I’m about 4 years old. My mother got up went to the garden left me and my brother with my uncle. When I got up in the morning I play with a match by the bed where we sleep. I burn the mosquito net, my brother was still sleep in it. He was burn to death. My uncle was sleeping in another room by the time he came to our room, the mosquito already wrap around my brother. I got little burn on my arm. It was so sad. 😥😥
Omg... you practically killed your brother by accident and careless cuz you were small but naughty 😢
I’d recommend Wyze security camera, I have 8 of the v3 and I love them
One thing I like to add is never overload those multi-outlet strip. Better yet, don’t use them.
Good tips
Cov tsev 2 stories bedrooms are upstairs yuav tsum npaj cov hlua ua ntaiv "fire escape ladder" for emergency.
Sister Jenny
Peb cov uas nyob yav North America no peb need lub carbon monoxide detector thiab nawv mog, lub no tseem ceeb ib yam nkawd lub smoke alarm thiab nawv mog, lub no mus ntes cov nature gas leaks thiab propane leaks nawv mog. Yog tias nej nyob USA or Canada nej yuav tau paub txog cov no mog peb kwv tij Hmoob.
Niam tais jeny aw yog koj tsis kam tham txog qhov teeb meem tim plog no koj kuj tham txog qhov tim mes kas ko ob seb teem yog li cas thiab lawv puas tau zoo vim peb ib txhia nyob txawv teb chawg xav2 paub li o
Good job!
Kuv mas yuav tsis xav hais tias lawv ruam es lawv tsis paub khiav os tej zaum mas yog lawv tsaug zog dhau lawm xwb os hos nws cov me nyuam los tseem me2 xwb es nim yuav paub khiav os thaum txog luag mas txawj2 hais tab sis thaum txog yus ces yeej ua tsis tau li cas li os lawv aw2.
Sister Jenny, kuv paub tias peb cov Hmoob mas nyiam2 muab propane tso rau hauv lub garage. Tab sis lawv qhov kev cia mas lawv yeej tsis pub muab propane tso rau garage. Xav hais rau cov Hmoob uas pheej nyiam2 ua zob mov nyob garage ntawv yog thaum nej tsis siv lawm yuav tau muab tsem kom deb yus lub tsev los yog garage. Please 🙏
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Sister Jenny, thaum kuv niam pog tseem nyob nws yeej ua li koj tus niam hlob ko thiab tab sis zoo qhov lawv lub alarm ho works es nrov. Peb lub stove ces pov tseg kiag lawm. Thaum peb hnov lub alarm ces tsev pa dub nciab twb tsis pom kev mus lawm. Zoo qhov lub tsev tseem muaj tsis li ces ntshe yuav tsis ok.
Whatever happens in Laos stay in Laos.
Its not our problem.
In America, everyone, men and women, keeps your hand to yourself. We are living in a society that says men and women are equal.
So just by that alone, don't hit others. Because they will hit back.
Many of these elderly grandparents don’t want to cooperate. They take it too personally.
Qhia tau zoo kawg. Tshua ib qho ua tseem ceeb heev thiab yog lub carbon monoxide dioxide detector.
Don't forget your radon and carbon monoxide detectors for your house also.
For me: I never leave my kids alone unless it's with my teenager. Even if I leave my kids home, I never allow them to touch the stove even my teenagers. I will cook and always leave them with food. Or I will buy food for them. I never allow them to open doors if its just my kids home. I always tell them "even if it's pog, yawg, niam tais, yawm txiv, aunties or uncles, do not open the door. Whoever is coming will call me and I will call to let you guys know." So my kids never open the door.
We never want anything to happen to our kids while we gone. I feel so sad for that family because no one ever want to come home to hear that news.
Hmoob nplog twb tsis hlub lawv coj neeg…tsis pab lawv na
Cas hmoob mekas yuav hlub mobsiab rau Hmoob Nplog ua luaj..???
For fire safety, goodluck telling the old people that
They are stubborn and ignorant.
Please use proper cookwares to cook food. Do not use Aluminum trays to fry sesame balls. Aluminum trays are soft, and very thin and can be puncture easily. A tray of cooking oil leak down to your propane burner will result in a fatal accident.
Also, when using propane, open the valve on top of the propane tank all the way. Never partially open the valve. Partially open will prevent the built in safety shut off valve to function when there is a sudden rush of propane leak along the hose.
sista Jenny, your story fits exactly this Vang family. They have too many kids around the house while the father was at work, and the mom was exhausted and did not pay attention to the kids. Some of the kids played with the lighter burning paper at the stairs. while the paper was burning, they got scared and went into the room without letting the mom know because they know that they will get into trouble if they did. The mother was so careless still sleeping in the room. When one of the kid yelling, the fire was to big and they all trapped upstair in the room choking. Lightly this is the case because the kids mostly 3, 4, and 5 years old.
We blow smoke into detectors once a week to test.
Elaborate it more what it does.
@@monicaxyooj905it activates the smoke detector to beep, just a way to test the preventive equipment to ensure it is effective to detect smoke.
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Just smoke weed infront of it every 2 or so weeks to make sure it still works.
Muaj ib co txiv lawv twb tsis k lawv tsev neeg safety tseem hais tias very thing ok cas yuav tej yam twb tsis tshwm sim los pheej coj los hais no xwb
I don’t understand why pa Cheng vang and his wife is a teacher they both should teach their children how to get out when the house is on fire? She should know that you can not light the candles at night unattended that is Not acceptable. I have 4 children I always tell my kids if the house is on fire and we have to go outside as fast we can if the door is on fire then use the chair to break the window and just get out and go stay at our neighbors front yard we will meet their. I always check my smoke detector and my co2 detector and always change the battery when we change our clocks I lived in central state so we change our clock 2 times per year
Is that what happened there? How sad.😢
Thanks for your imputed about abusing partner….