I love you so much! Always thought or you as the mother figure I never had and when you called us your daughters and sisters today, I really felt the love. You bring hope and light into our darkness. May Allah bless you and your family forever and ever ❤ Thank you for sharing everything. It's okay for you to cry in front of us, you have shown us by example that vulnerability is indeed strength. Bohot saara pyaar aur dua 😍
Assalam Alaikum! Allah nay aap ki awaaz main aik baat rakhi hay. HE knew it! There is SINCERITY in your talk. I relate with you when you said people leave you, when you have tough times. I understand! I have lost faith in the word "Love" but let me say...I love you ❤ I am still lost with the word of "Love" but let it be...it. Haan ALLAH SUB SAY BARA HAY!
it takes a brave and courageous woman to have the courage to say what you have said. Not every women could own up to what you have said you are so brave.
when i introduced with your youtube channal.. it was much needed that time for me .. ur words gave me strength in that particular time and made things clear to me .. removed my confusions.. when a person remains in continous tension , his thinking power is not same like before , things are confused for her .. specially all what is happening is never expected. we listens from people very much but experience something like that is totally diferent. u even dont know that someone is manipulating u , gaslighting u, even he and family is narcissist.. there are many psycologists but u speaks with the connection of ALLAH SWT.. lot of blessings for u..
Extremely inspirational talk…it is solely your journey with your faith in extreme power… your honesty, your struggle and your strength touch our hearts…May God bless you always..
Aoa thank u so much maam for sharing ur story.... After listening u i hv got so much courage.... I am single mother... I am dentist nd jobless i dnt hv parents as well... I lost hope bt nw again i will standup in sha Allah
You are a fighter !!! Keep growing!! All I want to say ,every xyz woman in this world whether she lives in a palace or small Hut , whether her husband is a millionaire, you need to earn, job karna chahiye , experience gain karen!! Kya pata kab kaise zarurat parhe!! Aurton ka taalim haasil karna aur fir job karna bahot zaruri ha!! Allah bahot bada hai apne bandon ko girne nahin dega !!
I may understand the pain that still reside in ur heart... N I may understand how does it feel.. Bcz m going through it... I really appreciate ur persona❤.. May Allah bless u always... 😘
Aj ma ny ap ki first time video dekhi pta ni kuo Allah ki trf sy tha shyd dekhna ma ny ap ki video skip kiye bgair sari dekhi mery ankhay or dil barh aya or mjy etni himat meli abi ma 23 year ki or financial problems ki waja sy lgta h ma koch ni kr pao gy or ap ki life sun kr mjy mery mana ky leye rona aya meri mama ny be boht boht pareshaniya face ki sirf hmary leye wo abi be es age me kam krty h mery leye wo be 52 year ki h aj ap ki batay sun kr mera be dil ny kaha ma kr skty ho koch na koch kro gy Allah behtr kray ga Allah ap ko or himat dy logo ky help krny ki ameen sumameeen
So motivated and determined story. Keep your spirits up. You are an iron lady. And when you talk about ALLAH or Islamic talks you get emotional.. No doubt we are nothing to be between a man and ALLAH ,SO GOOD TALK SO GOOD MOTIVATION. May you live long ma'am AMEEN summa AMEEN
Going through exact same situation. Came from tx to md 2 months ago pls pray for me . I m lost all i have is Allah and it’s enough. No contact no pro bono idk what Allah has decided but prays will help jazak Allah
عزیز ارم سعید! بلاشبہ آپ نے اپنی آپ بیتی شیئر کر کے بہت ہمت کا ثبوت دیا ہے،ہماری خاطر اپنے درد سے دوبارا گزرنے کے لئے شکریہ،یقینا یہ بہت مشکل کام تھا۔ اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کا اجر ضائع نہیں کرے گا انشاء اللہ
mashaAllah jazakallah for sharing this I'm listing you when you start fb page your story and mine are quite same and i hope so i will be successful like you for me and my kids Ameen sumna Ameen
Very emotional and motivational. One thing that is common in every tragic story of a woman and which brings me to ask certain questions, it is that it's always a man behind the abuse whatever sort it is, so is the women we need to fix to at last become a warrior after all the abuse and suffering or is the men needed to be fixed?? Are these men not going through the same upbringing that a woman goes through, it's the flaw in their mothers or the society ??? Who to blame ??? Or yet wait again for a survival story of a woman becoming a warrior eventually....
Its really hit me wen u said an abuser is a very manipulative I gone through tat till today I think becoz of my mistake I got divorce thank u so much fr realise me its nt my mistake
Assalamu alaikum . Thank you Eram for sharing your experience .You are an inspiration for many of us . I can relate with lots of things you said . I am from India, and now at 60 years of age with many ups and downs in personal life , I have one msg for my younger sisters and daughters . To fight injustice and abuse , a woman needs to be a woman of substance . That is what I call woman empowerment and it comes from her relation with Allah. So , focus on why after all we have been sent on this earth .
U know Eram ma... I lv to call u mother ... My own mother she loves me I know but she supports this violence she had gone through n when I speak against it... She says me n tries to validate those acts of men through quran.. Says herself that she is shareef that she tolerated all this... I had gone thru alot in my childhood for this... Lot to share but I muster my courage now
Their is a huge difference between doctor and a Muslim.....apne sahi kaha appearance sai kuch nahi hota hai lekin hijab mandatory hai ...mai dil sai apko like karti hu i hope ap hijab kai relate aur study kare gi inshAllah apko pata chalai ga that hijab is mandatory/farz not an option
Aoa ma'am m Soo happy that you shared your story with us... That's how life is ... However it's crucial for a women to be independent... No matter what married or unmarried or divorced or what so ever...
ek trauma jis se ap guzarte ho , that ALLAH mujh se kya chahta he.. agr husband ki insult brdasht karna bhi mera farz he.. k us ko ek darja buland he.. hud ko samajhne or samjhane me shayad sadiyan lagti hen.. bht se jawab dhond lene k bawjud dil tasalli nai pata.. sometimes ap sochte ho that kahin me hi to over sensitive nahi hun, toxic relation me achi baten bhi hoti hen jo ap ka decision tough kar deti hen. decision k bad bhi ap us phase me rehte ho k ap ne theek kia na.. connect with Quran.. all your questions get answers slowly.. but koi bhi decision karne se pehle istikhara karen.. 2nd un logon se mashwra karen jo is field me hen .. apne family friends se mashwra karen jo ap se pyar krte hen jin pe ap ko trust he. phir jb faisla kar len then ALLAH pe tawakal. or apne decision pe static ho jana he.
I get so much connected with u i think that every woman to some point go through what u hv been..u knw that insecurity after divorce is such a terrible phase that only few women get a courage to cm out..after hearing yr story im gathering sm courage to be financely independent . Yes , rely on Amighty Allah .
Thanku Earm. shearing zindagee maira bhi apny Rubb py buht trust hai hamisha us n save kia but zindagee buht mushkil hai .dill kabhi kabhi bilkul hoples ho jata hai Kuch sumjh nai ati.
I can see my pains in you. I also have fought but on somehow different levels. Allah loves people who don't give up and keep moving and asking for his Helppp.
I don't usually leave comments, but seeing you reminded me so much of my mother. Your story hit close to home; it mirrors hers closely, except she didn't choose the path of divorce. It's a poignant realization for me as I find myself contemplating a similar choice.
😭😭😭😭 it is same like my life story.Difference is I was living in joint family each time in Pakistan. So my feelings right now are I want to hug you .I am 41 and you are 51 so you can imagine k main abhi kon say phase main hun
You are my inspiration erum aapi...I'm 29 and fighting lonely but only thing I know that one day I'm gonna overcome it
Insha'Allah.
May Allah ease everything for you ♥️
Thanks for your kindness..
Inshallah
i support u ❤
My ALLAH, the Lord of Multiverse has absolute control over everything and HE always does the best!!!
I watched it many times and spread this msg to my beloved friend. Love from a woman of India 🙏❤️🙏
stay blessed
I love you so much! Always thought or you as the mother figure I never had and when you called us your daughters and sisters today, I really felt the love. You bring hope and light into our darkness. May Allah bless you and your family forever and ever ❤ Thank you for sharing everything. It's okay for you to cry in front of us, you have shown us by example that vulnerability is indeed strength. Bohot saara pyaar aur dua 😍
Assalam Alaikum! Allah nay aap ki awaaz main aik baat rakhi hay. HE knew it! There is SINCERITY in your talk. I relate with you when you said people leave you, when you have tough times. I understand! I have lost faith in the word "Love" but let me say...I love you ❤ I am still lost with the word of "Love" but let it be...it. Haan ALLAH SUB SAY BARA HAY!
Vvvv. .. Me
How come only 29K views? .. this is an eye opener for all the women and actually Men too - All the Hearts and Encouragements to You Erum .. keep it up
MashaAllah. May Allah bless more strength to you. Ameen
Came recommended to me, when I needed it the most.
Simply inspirational! Bravo Eram
I would like to suggest all women to study Surah Nisa with translation & tashree.
it takes a brave and courageous woman to have the courage to say what you have said. Not every women could own up to what you have said you are so brave.
when i introduced with your youtube channal.. it was much needed that time for me .. ur words gave me strength in that particular time and made things clear to me .. removed my confusions..
when a person remains in continous tension , his thinking power is not same like before , things are confused for her .. specially all what is happening is never expected.
we listens from people very much but experience something like that is totally diferent.
u even dont know that someone is manipulating u , gaslighting u, even he and family is narcissist..
there are many psycologists but u speaks with the connection of ALLAH SWT..
lot of blessings for u..
Extremely inspirational talk…it is solely your journey with your faith in extreme power… your honesty, your struggle and your strength touch our hearts…May God bless you always..
Dear erum… I can imagine the kind of pain you are going through… ❤ u r my angel. The reason I started following you is Im so proud of u. U r amazing.
stay blessed
stay blessed❤
Aoa thank u so much maam for sharing ur story.... After listening u i hv got so much courage.... I am single mother... I am dentist nd jobless i dnt hv parents as well... I lost hope bt nw again i will standup in sha Allah
You are a fighter !!! Keep growing!!
All I want to say ,every xyz woman in this world whether she lives in a palace or small Hut , whether her husband is a millionaire, you need to earn, job karna chahiye , experience gain karen!! Kya pata kab kaise zarurat parhe!! Aurton ka taalim haasil karna aur fir job karna bahot zaruri ha!! Allah bahot bada hai apne bandon ko girne nahin dega !!
Thank you for this video Erum ❤
You are a real hero. May Allah keep you safe and healthy. Loads of prayers for you and your daughters.
Such an inspiration and power you possess ❤ Beyond blessed to have found you😊
You are so strong, May Allah bless you with high rewards!
So so inspirational! Thanks for sharing ur story nd motivating people around u!
Love from UK. ❤
I may understand the pain that still reside in ur heart... N I may understand how does it feel.. Bcz m going through it... I really appreciate ur persona❤.. May Allah bless u always... 😘
And now, see.... Look. Bravo 👏
Your Emaan, Your Faith 💪❤️
You are my favorite lady my most favorite speaker
Yes this is so true .. everything is temporary just go for spiritual enlightenment and u will see the results and u will find peace
Aj ma ny ap ki first time video dekhi pta ni kuo Allah ki trf sy tha shyd dekhna ma ny ap ki video skip kiye bgair sari dekhi mery ankhay or dil barh aya or mjy etni himat meli abi ma 23 year ki or financial problems ki waja sy lgta h ma koch ni kr pao gy or ap ki life sun kr mjy mery mana ky leye rona aya meri mama ny be boht boht pareshaniya face ki sirf hmary leye wo abi be es age me kam krty h mery leye wo be 52 year ki h aj ap ki batay sun kr mera be dil ny kaha ma kr skty ho koch na koch kro gy Allah behtr kray ga Allah ap ko or himat dy logo ky help krny ki ameen sumameeen
Allah apki mushkilat asan farmaye apko kamyabi sy nawazein. Allahuma ameen. Stay strong have faith.
May Allah bless you. He is always with you. Please don't lose hope❤
So motivated and determined story. Keep your spirits up. You are an iron lady. And when you talk about ALLAH or Islamic talks you get emotional.. No doubt we are nothing to be between a man and ALLAH ,SO GOOD TALK SO GOOD MOTIVATION. May you live long ma'am AMEEN summa AMEEN
Grt you are strong woman im also going through such things your story is heart touching
STRONG headed inspirational lady.
Masha Allah so many answers for me. Love u for the sake of Allah ♥️
Going through exact same situation. Came from tx to md 2 months ago pls pray for me . I m lost all i have is Allah and it’s enough. No contact no pro bono idk what Allah has decided but prays will help jazak Allah
That is so heart wrenching.
Bravo for speaking so truthfully on inspiring other women
May Allah bless u ma'am.. U have been a shining star for me.. By the grace of Allah Pak!!!
Allah loves you that's why He selected you for sharing His talks.
i pray for u that ALLAH give u now the compatible life partner.. Ameen
No one would opt manly woman
So happy to c u living such a successful life Masha'Allah
عزیز ارم سعید! بلاشبہ آپ نے اپنی آپ بیتی شیئر کر کے بہت ہمت کا ثبوت دیا ہے،ہماری خاطر اپنے درد سے دوبارا گزرنے کے لئے شکریہ،یقینا یہ بہت مشکل کام تھا۔ اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کا اجر ضائع نہیں کرے گا انشاء اللہ
mashaAllah jazakallah for sharing this I'm listing you when you start fb page your story and mine are quite same and i hope so i will be successful like you for me and my kids Ameen sumna Ameen
Very emotional and motivational. One thing that is common in every tragic story of a woman and which brings me to ask certain questions, it is that it's always a man behind the abuse whatever sort it is, so is the women we need to fix to at last become a warrior after all the abuse and suffering or is the men needed to be fixed?? Are these men not going through the same upbringing that a woman goes through, it's the flaw in their mothers or the society ??? Who to blame ??? Or yet wait again for a survival story of a woman becoming a warrior eventually....
May Allah bless you more shama from japan
Its really hit me wen u said an abuser is a very manipulative I gone through tat till today I think becoz of my mistake I got divorce thank u so much fr realise me its nt my mistake
Marshallah you are inspirational ❤️ may allahtallah give you so much happiness
Inspiring. MashaAllah ❤
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 you talk beautiful MashaAllah...Allah loves your surely ... Lots of love to you..😊 ❤❤
It is rea!ly inspirational speech
You are right it’s very very painfully
mam aap kai jaisi himat allah sab ko dain
Just can't stop crying
❤ you are such an inspiration.
SUBHANALLAH
YOU ARE A GEM 😢😘❣️❣️❣️❣️
Assalamu alaikum .
Thank you Eram for sharing your experience .You are an inspiration for many of us .
I can relate with lots of things you said .
I am from India, and now at 60 years of age with many ups and downs in personal life , I have one msg for my younger sisters and daughters . To fight injustice and abuse , a woman needs to be a woman of substance . That is what I call woman empowerment and it comes from her relation with Allah.
So , focus on why after all we have been sent on this earth .
Stay blessed, sister
So nice
Much inspiring.
May Allah give more powder to you
I can feel her single word
You are right 1000%
U know Eram ma... I lv to call u mother ... My own mother she loves me I know but she supports this violence she had gone through n when I speak against it... She says me n tries to validate those acts of men through quran.. Says herself that she is shareef that she tolerated all this... I had gone thru alot in my childhood for this... Lot to share but I muster my courage now
Beautifully inspirational ❤️
May allah be always with you my dear. Had been a terrible journey. Mashallah you came out of this as a strong gem of a person.
Their is a huge difference between doctor and a Muslim.....apne sahi kaha appearance sai kuch nahi hota hai lekin hijab mandatory hai ...mai dil sai apko like karti hu i hope ap hijab kai relate aur study kare gi inshAllah apko pata chalai ga that hijab is mandatory/farz not an option
Allah raaste banata hai wo sub se bada hai hum sub ka Raziq hai, raheem hai. Allah pe bharosa karo!
Aoa ma'am m Soo happy that you shared your story with us... That's how life is ... However it's crucial for a women to be independent... No matter what married or unmarried or divorced or what so ever...
ek trauma jis se ap guzarte ho , that ALLAH mujh se kya chahta he..
agr husband ki insult brdasht karna bhi mera farz he.. k us ko ek darja buland he..
hud ko samajhne or samjhane me shayad sadiyan lagti hen.. bht se jawab dhond lene k bawjud dil tasalli nai pata..
sometimes ap sochte ho that kahin me hi to over sensitive nahi hun, toxic relation me achi baten bhi hoti hen jo ap ka decision tough kar deti hen. decision k bad bhi ap us phase me rehte ho k ap ne theek kia na..
connect with Quran..
all your questions get answers slowly..
but koi bhi decision karne se pehle istikhara karen..
2nd un logon se mashwra karen jo is field me hen .. apne family friends se mashwra karen jo ap se pyar krte hen jin pe ap ko trust he.
phir jb faisla kar len then ALLAH pe tawakal. or apne decision pe static ho jana he.
JazakAllah
I get so much connected with u i think that every woman to some point go through what u hv been..u knw that insecurity after divorce is such a terrible phase that only few women get a courage to cm out..after hearing yr story im gathering sm courage to be financely independent . Yes , rely on Amighty Allah .
Absolutely Right ▶️
So powerful Eram. Love it!! Keep up the great work.
Really inspirational... MashaAllah... May Allah give you more and more success... and strength
When woman is unhappy she should go for divorce otherwise she gonna lose her mind that’s good to move on.
❤❤❤
Thanku Earm. shearing zindagee maira bhi apny Rubb py buht trust hai hamisha us n save kia but zindagee buht mushkil hai .dill kabhi kabhi bilkul hoples ho jata hai Kuch sumjh nai ati.
I can see my pains in you. I also have fought but on somehow different levels. Allah loves people who don't give up and keep moving and asking for his Helppp.
Thank you for sharing your story with all of us. Would really love to meet with you.
a lot of hugs 4 u
OMG .....koi Sacha hone k bagajir aisi baatain Kar hi nhn sakta
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
May Allah SWT continue bless you dearest sis ❤
its only 8 minutes now and i start crying how women in this earth helpless
Truly said.😞
Wo Jo RABBB Hy wahi SABBB Hy!!! Ufff❤️
Teared me up .. Ihsaan ka badla ihsaan ❤️🩹
Toughest time is actually the turning point in your life.
And I am going through that....
It's only me and my truth and my pain and my Allah.
....
Came across ur channel today. Loved ur story.
Much love/respect for you ❤️❤️❤️
Jazakillah Khairan ❤️
Kudos to you. More power to you
I don't usually leave comments, but seeing you reminded me so much of my mother. Your story hit close to home; it mirrors hers closely, except she didn't choose the path of divorce. It's a poignant realization for me as I find myself contemplating a similar choice.
Allah wants to keep u closer to Him more !
Is earning money is yard stick of Allah that He wants to keep her closer
MashaAllah God bless u 😊
May Allah give you Jazaikhair 😍😍
Great job 👍
Music so distracting
Inspired 🎉
😭😭😭😭 it is same like my life story.Difference is I was living in joint family each time in Pakistan. So my feelings right now are I want to hug you .I am 41 and you are 51 so you can imagine k main abhi kon say phase main hun
May Allah bless u sister.
@@fatimisticglobe1505 ameen and thanks
Special prayers for you sister. May you cross this phase safe. Ameen.
@@sabahusman14 ameen and thank u soo much 4 your prayers
Great women .
Speechless 😶 🤲🤲🤲
For your vitiligo, you may consult Reza Ali Shah Al Abidi on sufiguidance channel on TH-cam. A genuine Sufi sheikh
Please use urdu language pleSe
specially she talk in urdu
my phase is "I listen motivational speakers( including you) for hours.
In same situation Eram...suffering from second toxic marriage 😔
Why second toxic ? Love marriage ?
It breaks my heart. I hope things turns out to be fine for you ameen
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