As a woman, I'm really grateful Dylan introduced us to this channel that explains why I, as a woman, am a horrible piece of shit 🙏 It's just in my nature 💁🏼♀️
I'm so used to Dylan's sneaky ads that when he said "Did you just say learn a new skill every day? How to READ?" I really thought it was gonna become an Audible ad
That moment had the same energy from his Tangled video in that small section where Flynn opens up to a woman (-gasp- the worse thing he can do as a man according to this video) “for the record, I like Eugene better” and Dylan in his most high pitched cracked voice “I DISAGREE!”
I’m the daughter of a single, divorced, red pill man & omg this had me in deep flashbacks about my childhood. Like I still get told in passing conversations with him that “women have too many feelings & can’t separate them enough to be in important or corporate jobs” or “women don’t have the superior instincts to succeed without men”. How do you raise 2 daughters using that mentality!? Well hankfully I’m now on the road to my dream corporate career, & in a long term relationship with a great man. Like my eyes twitching as I laugh so hard, this video is a real trip!
Never seen anything scream "women hate me and it can't be my fault because I can't handle that so I'm devoting my time to convincing myself biology and evolution make females completely alien creatures I am not meant to fully understand and it is not my fault, it is the natural way of things or the women's fault, but it is not mine" so freakin loudly. Also if any dude tells me he doesn't cry like it's some macho impressive thing I'm immediately out. Absolutely not. Take your repressed ass elsewhere I don't wanna be there when you're confronted with emotions and commit murder.
i feel like women have been going on and on about how attractive emotional availability is since ages! and this dude is saying never open up to women because it'll not make them wet. like bruh?
@@scintilliance5665 right?! These guys' version of opening up is probably like "sometimes I wish you'd wear a dress" then they're like damn I opened up to you and now you hate me
@@JeM130177 yeah so true. 🤣 "hey, i really dont like it when you talk back to me and when i come home from work and you haven't prepared good food for me. its just some things that bother me. what do you mean you dont want to have sex with me anymore?"
@@scintilliance5665 what a wild concept to ask women what they would wish for! Why should men do something so ridiculous if they can just watch videos like this and tell themselves that women are evil, manipulative creatures? 😂
This guy’s video actually really helped me. Because it showed no matter how messed up my life gets, I’ll never be as fucking insane and pathetic as the dude narrating the videos lmao.
@l3ulaklak l3looming ok, the insult to the main commenter wasn’t needed, but I see your point. Obviously, don’t abide by the toxic ideologies of what was preached in this video that Dylan talked about, because they are toxic ideals. But, saying “you’re just as bad when you think about it” doesn’t help either as a critique
Me and my friend were watching the video together, and she said "as someone who was once an orphan, he shouldn't feel bad at all for the funny joke xD" 😂
I'm taking a Humanities in Women's Studies class this semester at a community college and I'm literally the only guy in the class. the professor and all my classmates are gurlies. there's a good amount of lesbians too. and it's great. It's such a safe and welcoming environment and I love the class.
Ive been married to my husband bill ( whom i find repulsively unattractive ) for 29 years and we have 3 kids together, can confirm that im to this day disgusted to hold hands or even smile at him in case he gets the wrong idea... the other day he told me i love you like yikes take a hint i do not like you my guy
I love how, in a BIG way, this guy's clearly trying to just deliberately sabotage any other romantically or sexually frustrated guy's chances at having a sex or dating life. Like, that's where, I guarantee, his hateful takes come from; he's pissed he didn't get any from women, so now he's gonna go out of his way to make sure other frustrated, miserable guys stay frustrated and miserable
Science nerd time! I really like how Dylan phrased "not every instinct and not every thought needs to be acted upon". It's true that there are a lot of human behaviours that are rooted in basic biology but, generally speaking, these behaviours were selected for evolutionarily during the times of our early ancestors. That means that as societies formed and became more sophistocated, these behaviours were still present genetically but didn't manifest as prominently. They were not as "necessary" and some were phased out socially. For example, behaviours such as preferences for facial symmetry or preferences for partners who are providers, still exist today but are not necessarily the be all, end all in our decision for a partner. So, circling back to Dylan's statement, he's right in saying that not all instincts need to be acted upon since most are artifacts of human biology and evolution that would have previously promoted survival and reproduction in our ancestors. :)
Just put that book on hold at my library. This sort of topic is compulsively fascinating and intriguing to me, as dark as it undeniably is. UPDATE: I read about that book awhile ago now, and it was disturbing but enlightening read at the same time about the topic
@@amyfarrel4374 it's basically a politically and socially right wing group who believe in traditional gender Roles, think women belong in the home and men need to be in charge at all times. They see Feminism as a negative and red pilled men have a constant victim mentality where they think women owe them attention/respect/their bodies/love etc. Many of them are incels tbh, they want women but also see women as objects and hold all kinds of negative beliefs about them eg: women are promiscuous, only want status and money and you need to dominate them.
I got turned down by so many women and the only woman who I ever actually ended up dating (and am now engaged to) was the woman who I thought I had no chance with and didn’t try to get… lmao
I'm having such a shitty day and I haven't even watched the whole thing but this is making me laugh so hard. dylan always comes through when we need him the most
As soon as he said: “I could probably overlook the orphan thing…” you could see in his eyes the instant regret, but then he added CauSe WhO Is GoiNg tO MiSS TheM I couldn’t breath hahahaha
"So it's almost like a fear mongering technique where they try to keep you afraid so you stay in this community of like minded people who are also afraid but won't admit it." I feel like this is a very true statement that can be used to describe any extremist belief system.
I really liked what you said about instincts...as a woman I have also dabbled in the red pill community a lil and the entire talk of biology and instincts is just so off..like you realise the entire point of being a human is so that we are not a slave to those animal instincts right?? That's why rape is illegal...
Also, they always think instincts prompt people to do bad and gross things and to treat people badly. But we have so many GOOD instincts. We have an instinct to form friendships and relationships, an instinct to treat the people we love WELL, etc, etc./
They love using instincts as an excuse for their behavior when in reality they just confirm that they're not capable of basic human abilities to control and evaluate "biological" urges
Well the people in that community are probably those who also say that if a woman/guy gets rapped it's her/his fault for looking hot, because the other person is only following instincts :) obviously very sane and balanced people....
This is why so some experts literally consider us Homo sapien sapiens (emphasis on that second sapien). I guess some people are still lagging a little behind on the evolutionary line???
I love how he says that "the worst thing a man can do is to open up to a woman" when I ended up breaking up with my ex cause he wasn't opening up to me about things I needed to know so that I could understand and adjust to him better.
I really hate it when these “alpha males” say that females don’t want you to open up to them or be emotional like wtf noooooo!! That’s the absolute worst advise you could give!! We want you to open up to us, we want to know that you feel comfortable with us and trust us enough to be your 100% raw authentic self. If the guy I’m dating doesn’t show his emotional side and doesn’t come to me for support when they need it then it actually really hurts me and damages the relationship, it feels like you don’t trust us and have someone your closer with to go to. Honestly from my personal opinion and from the girls i know, the biggest turn off is all the shit these misogynistic “alpha males” say is the best male and “what we want”. Just be a fucking human being! No gender is better then the other and no person should be made to not have emotions because some assholes view it as “weak”, its actually so much stronger to get the support you need despite society’s sexist standards. Every person is different so obviously people will find different things attractive but that’s exactly why those kind of videos are stupid because there is no “perfect” person that everyone will find attractive, just be yourself and you will find someone that genuinely loves you not this pussy act you put on because you got rejected too many times. It makes me so mad that young guys will watch “alpha males” and believe everything they say and become another misogynistic asshole who is never going to be happy because they suppress normal human emotions and needs. If any guy has read this please don’t take advise from those types of people, just be yourself, be a nice person, treat women like actual people and you’ll meet the right person one day. No matter the gender we are all just humans at the end of the day, there is no reason one gender should be treated any different from the other, we all deserve respect, we all have emotions, we all have different likes and dislikes, just because I’m a female it doesn’t mean I’m the same as every other female and same goes for men, we are all more then our gender so lets stop grouping people into what they should be allowed to do and not do or what they think or don’t think just because of their gender.
I despise these so called "alpha males" but I also disagree with what you said about opening up. Toxic femininity is rampant in this day and age. So many dudes get mocked and abandoned for that. Once you've experienced that, there's no going back.
That one got me as well🤣 I needed it, since that girl at 1:23 looks disturbingly similar to my ex wife, which got me, mentally, going in a not so fun direction. That joke helped snapped me out of it.
I would've never thought Ooga Booga would become a comfort channel. Yes it is funny, it's Dylan what do we expect, but something about Dylan discussing actual things in a funny but still serious is so refreshing. I just love it, I love your brain 🧠🤍
This was my ex. I couldn’t do it anymore after two months of him being a PUA red pill loser. Which is a shame because he definitely wasn’t like this 10 years ago when we were friends in high school. We dated for a week back then and he treated me the sweetest I’ve ever been treated. The internet (red pill incel culture) and porn ruined him. The friends he made in those 10 years also fed into the women hating rhetoric. It’s a travesty. He lost himself. Edit to say that he also thinks ‘sausages’ are the superior genital and that was said at the weirdest and most terrible times he could have said such a thing. Not to mention downright disrespectful, ‘like, my guy, I’m a cis woman. What did you expect getting into a relationship with me??’ Weird neg, but ok
@@tamires9897 Me too, it was such a strange and twisted relationship. Do not recommend giving these types of guys a chance and to walk away at any hint of sexism because it screws with your mental well-being
I personally prefer when a man isn’t closed off about his feelings. I know other girls feel differently, and some men think it is weak to cry, but for me it is the best thing to do in a relationship. It helps build a stronger bond and get to know your partner better. I respect men more when they show their emotions, is not afraid to cry in front of me, or let me know how they’re feeling, etc. I honestly feel bad for the men who think like this because as Dylan put it best, there’s no way they are happy repressing all their emotions. I’m not sure who runs this channel but they need therapy 😂
I think he is actually talking about a relationship in the beginning stages when a connection is still trying to be made. If men did share their feelings with women they would most likely over share seeming dependent/not ready for a relationship. Men don't convey emotions like women tend to with words, we convert our emotions into motivation. Also being stoic and a leader also means being able to keep your emotions in check. If you're married and you share a house, he should share his feelings because they are committed in marriage and their actions affect both of them. You date someone.
"The worst thing a man can do is open up to a woman" makes me so sad. Because we really DO have a lot of men (the type who are attracted to THIS) and not doing emotional work, not getting therapy keeps THEM down, keeps them depressed, keeps them hating women, hating others putting down other people. It's just bad. Men have such a high su***de rate.... Why make it worse. Men, these men aren't helping you. Yeah those sentences were a mess you get the idea.
I used to waste time and energy disagreeing with people like this, but I've grown up and realised it's a huge waste of time. The choice to generalise and believe that all women and all men are a certain type of way is indicative of a smug refusal to entertain the barest possibility of being wrong. Anyway, nice vid, ooga
That’s exactly what they want you to believe and feel. They don’t really want men to succeed in dating and relationships, because they themselves (the red pill coaches) are unhappy, angry, and resentful towards women for their failed past relationships (or attempts at such). Their advice, I feel, is purely tailored to ensure the men stay in the community and continue to share their (unrealistic) angry views towards women. Instead of, you know, actually taking a hard look at themselves and seeing what it is they may be doing wrong in terms of their social skills, routine, grooming, etc., because if they did, and not just for the sake of getting a girlfriend, it might be hard at first to improve themselves, but it would be worth it in the long run, and show them that these Red Pill coaches are nothing more than misogynistic frauds who don’t actually know anything about real self-improvement or women, or dating in general. Speaking of which, side note; how come dating coaches only cater to straight people mostly? Like, not that I see a point in a dating coach, but if you’re gonna use one, what if you’re gay, bi, non-binary, lesbian, etc.?
10:50 is so dangerous, cause women will rather stay with a guy that’s toxic, abusive and think they won’t find anything better, than try to climb a ladder of “even better men”
As a woman, I strongly support Dylan's speech starting at 14:40 Keep it up, friends, relearn to be humans. Im sorry society has forced people (especially men) to believe that vulnerability is a weakness when it's nothing but natural.
I rewatched the video and just noticed that at the beginning, the "bad people in your life" examples were solely women, quite the foreshadowing for what's to come lol
The Red Pill Community: Men should be the bread winners and sole earners in the family, it's only natural. Also the Red Pill Community: "mEn sTanD sTraIgHt WiTh HaLf BrOkEn bOne tO SuPporT tHeiR FaMiliEs yOu wilL nEvEr knOw thEir dAilY strUgglE tO keEp thEir fAmiLy's exIstEnce bAlaNcEd... :'( :'(
Ikr Also, they say women are super emotional, but at the same time think women get turned off by others showing emotions?? Like, what? Their logic is so contradictive
@@solus8685 they contradict themselves at every turn. They say "Women will never understand your struggle" and in the same breath say "Never open up to your girlfriend/wife". It's ignorance, and, as Dylan pointed out, fear-mongering. Their central beliefs would shatter so fast if only they took the time to actually know and understand the women in their lives.
Honestly most women don't want a "strong man" we want a person we can relate to and yes rely on but we want to take care of the men we love too. We can't relate to a guy who hides his feelings and never uses us as a safe space. Most people want a relationship that is reciprocal in both directions.
I'm three minutes in and this has been very useful. So far I've learned that all my freinds are terrible people, I cant go on honeymoons or have a functioning car, and I should go and get robbed at gunpoint.
Dylan, your content always makes me laugh. I weirdly feel less lonely watching these videos and looking through all of your comments. As an adult, I feel like it’s so hard to make and keep friendships, and I’ve been struggling with that a lot this year. But your videos always give me like 20 minutes of that childhood-friend feeling. This is a nice community to be a part of.
Hey Rachel🙈 I just wanted to tell you that I can completely relate to what you are saying but I hope that you are doing fine :) Have a nice day😊 Greetings from Germany🤓
I know this comment is from a year ago, but I am re-watching this video (like I do with a lot of Dylan’s videos!) because I agree the same, it is less lonely and having this community is a beautiful thing. I feel that people are so disconnected and hard to make friends as you said. I love there are little communities we can have. I love that Dylan’s videos are funny and light too - it’s like taking a weight off the shoulders for a while and having fun. I am glad you’re part of this community too, we’re here for you and I hope you are doing okay ❤
Lol!!! the fact that Dylan started this video openly listening while holding back the fact he wanted to laugh to, not being able to keep a straight face or keep it together (the skit), while listening to the "tips" and then slowly descends into irritation and wtf is this... but still not being able to resit the urge to make a joke or laugh.....the reason I love his videos lol
as someone who actually has had a gun in my face, i can certify that it was, in fact, *not* necessary for my growth and development and actually set me back quite a bit, seeing as i was a child at the time
this whole video dylan just radiates chaotic energy like i’ve never seen before in any of his videos. like he just got way too invested way too fast which made it like a thousand million times better, and the fact that he hyperfocused on the ”my friend from third grade is in jail” and ”my girlfriend won't pick me up when my car broke down” made this whole video a masterpiece.
Lmfao As a woman who has been in a 10 year relationship and has never cheated I can say the part about constantly looking out for something better made me laugh so hard water came out my nose. I should know better than to drink anything while watching your videos 😂
I love this. Hilarious. My daughter thought I was laughing at her a few times, she's a toddler. I didn't hear my phone go off for this video, but I still started it 8 minutes after it was posted. I love your videos Dylan. I think I'm going to send this to a bunch of people now. Some people need new viewpoints in life. Not the people I'm sending to though lol. I think I'm going to send this to my writers group chat for villain ideas lol
This video literally made me snort with laughter multiple times. It had so many specific and strange scenarios to pin onto women and Dylan’s reactions were golden It is also brilliant to watch someone come across as intelligent and emotionally mature on such topics
Loved the graphics and style for this video Dylan! “The Red Pill Society is a safe space for hurt men”, “are you trying to be a lion/wolf/cheetah?” and the skit made me lol so hard. Thanks for being level headed. It’s kinda sad that most women are usually happy-surprised when they come across a bloke who treats them with just the basic level of respect in this way - just talk to us normally because despite our difference sex chromosomes we’re all human.
thanks dylan, it's been a long time since i've actually laughed out loud this hard!! edit: i also love how you're trying to understand why people think the way they do instead of just saying they're idiots who can't be helped - it's always really cool to hear your opinions because you rationalize them so well!
"I don’t care if there’re people better than me as long as there’re losers worse than me” my motto in class!
My motto in life!😭
@@user-vy2hz6fl6x yeah honestly same
@@user-vy2hz6fl6x fr
im going to quote this. thank you
@@whatisilyionlyknowipurpleyou you’re welcome 😩
As a woman, I'm really grateful Dylan introduced us to this channel that explains why I, as a woman, am a horrible piece of shit 🙏 It's just in my nature 💁🏼♀️
Me, burning down an orphanage: “Sorry bbys, it’s in my nature~ Just a gal doing girl things~
great now you know how men feel everytime feminist generalize men as pieces of shit
@@virginiafernandez6846 just doing hot girl shit- 😳🔥
@@virginiafernandez6846 I can’t with you guys, you are just so funny 😭😭
@@virginiafernandez6846 omg girl~ you’re so quirky slay queen~ \( ˆoˆ )/
Mans like "go to college" and Dylan instantly disapproves lmaoo
Did u know Dylan's college closed!!??
@@sofia-jf8xm yes, which is what makes it the joke.
@@sofia-jf8xm he doesn’t mention it nearly enough
@@sofia-jf8xm certainly not!
As he should 😌😂😂😭😭
I'm so used to Dylan's sneaky ads that when he said "Did you just say learn a new skill every day? How to READ?" I really thought it was gonna become an Audible ad
(Skillshare could have fit too)
SAME!!!
I’ve seen this video multiple times and I still get caught off guard by the missed SkillShare opportunity
“who are you to speak for women”
fucking thank you
_Men_ talking about how _women_ feel/work will never not be hella ironic
Dylan being the opposite of toxic masculine is single handedly keeping my faith in humanity alive(until he starts setting orphanages on fire, that is)
until? i think you meant ESPECIALLY
if it's an empty abandoned orphanage I'll join him 0_0
@@mausebaer69 I mean… I guess it would depend on the kids 😅
@@MystiqMiu If it’s one of those ugly 60s buildings, you have my blessing. But don’t burn historical buildings(at least let me explore it 1st)
Do you watch Kurtis Conner? He's a good anti-toxic masculinity guy to watch.
Narrator: “go to college”
Dylan: *DISSAPROVES*
hey, did you know that dylan's college got shut do-
@@leeneedsfriends6750 hide. Dylan is going to hunt you down
-wn. Yeah, I don’t think he talked about it.
That moment had the same energy from his Tangled video in that small section where Flynn opens up to a woman (-gasp- the worse thing he can do as a man according to this video) “for the record, I like Eugene better” and Dylan in his most high pitched cracked voice “I DISAGREE!”
yeah bc you might get scammed and kicked out of your college
I’m the daughter of a single, divorced, red pill man & omg this had me in deep flashbacks about my childhood. Like I still get told in passing conversations with him that “women have too many feelings & can’t separate them enough to be in important or corporate jobs” or “women don’t have the superior instincts to succeed without men”. How do you raise 2 daughters using that mentality!? Well hankfully I’m now on the road to my dream corporate career, & in a long term relationship with a great man. Like my eyes twitching as I laugh so hard, this video is a real trip!
I am so so sorry you went through that. It blows my mind that real people genuinely believe all this shit.
Im proud of you for going after what you want, it couldn't have been easy. Best of luck!
That’s terrible and I hope watching you succeed changes his heart.
I'm sorry you had to experience this! But you seem so strong and happy. Glad you're here.
Never seen anything scream "women hate me and it can't be my fault because I can't handle that so I'm devoting my time to convincing myself biology and evolution make females completely alien creatures I am not meant to fully understand and it is not my fault, it is the natural way of things or the women's fault, but it is not mine" so freakin loudly. Also if any dude tells me he doesn't cry like it's some macho impressive thing I'm immediately out. Absolutely not. Take your repressed ass elsewhere I don't wanna be there when you're confronted with emotions and commit murder.
i feel like women have been going on and on about how attractive emotional availability is since ages! and this dude is saying never open up to women because it'll not make them wet. like bruh?
@@scintilliance5665 right?! These guys' version of opening up is probably like "sometimes I wish you'd wear a dress" then they're like damn I opened up to you and now you hate me
@@scintilliance5665 just more proof that most men don’t actually listen to women or care what they have to say.
@@JeM130177 yeah so true. 🤣
"hey, i really dont like it when you talk back to me and when i come home from work and you haven't prepared good food for me. its just some things that bother me. what do you mean you dont want to have sex with me anymore?"
@@scintilliance5665 what a wild concept to ask women what they would wish for! Why should men do something so ridiculous if they can just watch videos like this and tell themselves that women are evil, manipulative creatures? 😂
As a female in his audience, I can confirm that the beard, disconnected moustache combo is a winner!
Agree
As a female audience member, I agree ☝🏻
As another female audience member, I do agree with this statement
as yet another female in his audience I agree
Agree agree agree
His reaction to the “…get robbed at gunpoint if that’s what it takes” sent me! 😂
Lmfao same
That sent me😂😂 this whole video had to be rewatched
This guy’s video actually really helped me. Because it showed no matter how messed up my life gets, I’ll never be as fucking insane and pathetic as the dude narrating the videos lmao.
Dylan's "I just want to not be the worst" mindset in action lol
I hope you're feeling better ❤️💫
Yup. At least you’re not single-handedly making yourself into a self-fulfilling prophecy of failed relationships
@l3ulaklak l3looming ok, the insult to the main commenter wasn’t needed, but I see your point. Obviously, don’t abide by the toxic ideologies of what was preached in this video that Dylan talked about, because they are toxic ideals. But, saying “you’re just as bad when you think about it” doesn’t help either as a critique
@l3ulaklak l3looming everybody has slipups, but it ain’t okay to be toxic. Ever.
"This is psychopath juice"
Precisely, Dylan, precisely
"I can probably overlook the orphan thing...cause..who's gonna miss them?" DYLAN I LAUGHED BECAUSE YOU HAVE A DARK SENSE OF HUMOR THAT I LOVE.
Why aren't more people talking about this fire joke!????
that joke is my new reason to live.
@@adventureswithmadison fire like the orphanage LOL
@@karleychouinard4034 AHHHHH NOO
Me and my friend were watching the video together, and she said "as someone who was once an orphan, he shouldn't feel bad at all for the funny joke xD" 😂
I'm taking a Humanities in Women's Studies class this semester at a community college and I'm literally the only guy in the class. the professor and all my classmates are gurlies. there's a good amount of lesbians too. and it's great. It's such a safe and welcoming environment and I love the class.
This right here is fourth wave feminism
Can confirm started at my first job it was almost entirely women staff and costumers. Genuinely awesome environment
women are safer for me to be around than men most of the time
Ah, the three genders: guys, gurlies, and lesbians
Yeah we can guess why you feel sooo welcoming in a class full of girls
Ive been married to my husband bill ( whom i find repulsively unattractive ) for 29 years and we have 3 kids together, can confirm that im to this day disgusted to hold hands or even smile at him in case he gets the wrong idea... the other day he told me i love you like yikes take a hint i do not like you my guy
Lol I thought that you were being serious until I realised
lololololololololololol
Hold onto those branches my good sis. Keep swinging!!!
@@kaylay65 yup 💪💪💪 not gonna let my husband stop me from finding a better husband 🙌💯🔥
I don't understand?
Video- “Get beat up if that’s what it takes. Get robbed at gun point if that’s what it takes”
Dylan- wide eyed shocked face
Shocked pikachu face
Dylan: 😳😧
👁👄👁
I love how, in a BIG way, this guy's clearly trying to just deliberately sabotage any other romantically or sexually frustrated guy's chances at having a sex or dating life. Like, that's where, I guarantee, his hateful takes come from; he's pissed he didn't get any from women, so now he's gonna go out of his way to make sure other frustrated, miserable guys stay frustrated and miserable
Male Dating Coaches in a nutshell
@@brie1026 big facts
at this point, the gods are conspiring to resurface Dylan's trauma about his closed down college. 🤣
gods and his followers 😂
*scam collage
“Get robbed at gunpoint if that’s what it takes.”
That was so unexpected and said so calmly I choked on my iced coffee from laughter XD
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I laughed so hard I dropped my toothfloss thingy.
I laughed so hard I dropped my food stabby thingy.
At times I was like, is this video dude just trolling everyone? He has to realize how ridiculous this is…
@@katiebailey3439 he’s just joking around
Science nerd time!
I really like how Dylan phrased "not every instinct and not every thought needs to be acted upon". It's true that there are a lot of human behaviours that are rooted in basic biology but, generally speaking, these behaviours were selected for evolutionarily during the times of our early ancestors. That means that as societies formed and became more sophistocated, these behaviours were still present genetically but didn't manifest as prominently. They were not as "necessary" and some were phased out socially. For example, behaviours such as preferences for facial symmetry or preferences for partners who are providers, still exist today but are not necessarily the be all, end all in our decision for a partner.
So, circling back to Dylan's statement, he's right in saying that not all instincts need to be acted upon since most are artifacts of human biology and evolution that would have previously promoted survival and reproduction in our ancestors. :)
The book “men who hate women” by Laura Bates is a really good book on this topic.
That book is such a depressing reality but yeah it’s a really good source on these type of things
Books like that are the alpha male guides, just for women. Stop reading garbage like that. Its creating so many toxic incels and femcels.
Men who hate women? More like incels!
Just put that book on hold at my library. This sort of topic is compulsively fascinating and intriguing to me, as dark as it undeniably is. UPDATE: I read about that book awhile ago now, and it was disturbing but enlightening read at the same time about the topic
I'm here for Dylan dragging toxic masculinity and calling out red pill community
whats a red pill community?
same, it is great
@@amyfarrel4374 he literally explained at 9:07
@@belaorhideja4020 lmao i m so sorry i couldn't watch the whole vid
@@amyfarrel4374 it's basically a politically and socially right wing group who believe in traditional gender Roles, think women belong in the home and men need to be in charge at all times. They see Feminism as a negative and red pilled men have a constant victim mentality where they think women owe them attention/respect/their bodies/love etc. Many of them are incels tbh, they want women but also see women as objects and hold all kinds of negative beliefs about them eg: women are promiscuous, only want status and money and you need to dominate them.
People seem to often forget that being brave isn't to not be scared, being brave is being scared and facing those fears to do things anyway.
I got turned down by so many women and the only woman who I ever actually ended up dating (and am now engaged to) was the woman who I thought I had no chance with and didn’t try to get… lmao
I'm having such a shitty day and I haven't even watched the whole thing but this is making me laugh so hard. dylan always comes through when we need him the most
I hope your day ends much better❤️hang in there, there’s always tomorrow
@@user-vy2hz6fl6x thank you
Same here, Dylan has perfect timing, always brightens the day. I hope your day gets better and take care of yourself 💛
seriously, day instantly made. i hope your days gets better
Hope your day gets better
3:56 - "My buddy, Nate"
4:07 - "You know who I really love? it's Nick!"
Nate: How could you do this to me?
As soon as he said: “I could probably overlook the orphan thing…” you could see in his eyes the instant regret, but then he added CauSe WhO Is GoiNg tO MiSS TheM
I couldn’t breath hahahaha
I thought he was like 'oh no 😗' in his brain and it showed on his face, when he thought of that phrase but said it anyways 😅
"So it's almost like a fear mongering technique where they try to keep you afraid so you stay in this community of like minded people who are also afraid but won't admit it."
I feel like this is a very true statement that can be used to describe any extremist belief system.
Oh that's actually true. You can admit this into any extremist system. Even religion. Any cult. So on. True.
these alpha male videos are actually really helpful - just do the exact opposite of what they advice, and you'll do good
Amen
I really liked what you said about instincts...as a woman I have also dabbled in the red pill community a lil and the entire talk of biology and instincts is just so off..like you realise the entire point of being a human is so that we are not a slave to those animal instincts right?? That's why rape is illegal...
they need to be psychologically evaluated if they can’t control their urges
Also, they always think instincts prompt people to do bad and gross things and to treat people badly. But we have so many GOOD instincts. We have an instinct to form friendships and relationships, an instinct to treat the people we love WELL, etc, etc./
They love using instincts as an excuse for their behavior when in reality they just confirm that they're not capable of basic human abilities to control and evaluate "biological" urges
Well the people in that community are probably those who also say that if a woman/guy gets rapped it's her/his fault for looking hot, because the other person is only following instincts :) obviously very sane and balanced people....
This is why so some experts literally consider us Homo sapien sapiens (emphasis on that second sapien). I guess some people are still lagging a little behind on the evolutionary line???
Dylan is the one of the few TH-camrs I trust to give it to us straight
4:12 "men, we just need to be gay" 😭😭💛
14:01 this was so wholesome omg it made me so happy
Dylan: Says the word "procreate"
My digital artist self: WHUT
I thought the same 😂 artists minds lol
Same 😅
same😭
😭I’m a traditional painter and I even thought of the app for a second lol
I too shared this brief moment of concern lmao
reacting to misogyny is always funny
as a lesbian, i can objectively say the beard looks good!
As a straight man, same..
As a straight women … i agree
As another lesbian I second this
same!!!
As bi woman, i agree
A moment of appreciation for Dylan’s youtooz being strategically placed @ 5:46. Product placement 1000
I love how he says that "the worst thing a man can do is to open up to a woman" when I ended up breaking up with my ex cause he wasn't opening up to me about things I needed to know so that I could understand and adjust to him better.
Someone hurt that man and now he wants other men to feel the same way.
He shouldve gotten therapy, tbh
This feels like some dude was hanging out with some friends and was mildly successful, and his friends asked him how he did it.
I really hate it when these “alpha males” say that females don’t want you to open up to them or be emotional like wtf noooooo!! That’s the absolute worst advise you could give!! We want you to open up to us, we want to know that you feel comfortable with us and trust us enough to be your 100% raw authentic self. If the guy I’m dating doesn’t show his emotional side and doesn’t come to me for support when they need it then it actually really hurts me and damages the relationship, it feels like you don’t trust us and have someone your closer with to go to. Honestly from my personal opinion and from the girls i know, the biggest turn off is all the shit these misogynistic “alpha males” say is the best male and “what we want”. Just be a fucking human being! No gender is better then the other and no person should be made to not have emotions because some assholes view it as “weak”, its actually so much stronger to get the support you need despite society’s sexist standards. Every person is different so obviously people will find different things attractive but that’s exactly why those kind of videos are stupid because there is no “perfect” person that everyone will find attractive, just be yourself and you will find someone that genuinely loves you not this pussy act you put on because you got rejected too many times. It makes me so mad that young guys will watch “alpha males” and believe everything they say and become another misogynistic asshole who is never going to be happy because they suppress normal human emotions and needs. If any guy has read this please don’t take advise from those types of people, just be yourself, be a nice person, treat women like actual people and you’ll meet the right person one day. No matter the gender we are all just humans at the end of the day, there is no reason one gender should be treated any different from the other, we all deserve respect, we all have emotions, we all have different likes and dislikes, just because I’m a female it doesn’t mean I’m the same as every other female and same goes for men, we are all more then our gender so lets stop grouping people into what they should be allowed to do and not do or what they think or don’t think just because of their gender.
same thing with feminine woman, it goes both ways, men and woman are cringe
I despise these so called "alpha males" but I also disagree with what you said about opening up. Toxic femininity is rampant in this day and age. So many dudes get mocked and abandoned for that. Once you've experienced that, there's no going back.
preach sister!!
Yesss!!!! Exactly
"Just be a fucking human being" 📣 LOUDER PLEASE
Dylan's reaction to "Get Robbed at Gunpoint" SENT ME
"I can't believe my best friend from 3rd grade is in jail!" 🤣🤣
That one got me as well🤣
I needed it, since that girl at 1:23 looks disturbingly similar to my ex wife, which got me, mentally, going in a not so fun direction. That joke helped snapped me out of it.
I looked at some of the comments on one of their videos it's really sad that a lot of people are taking advice from it.
13:00 this whole bit is of Carl from llamas with hats😂😂
I dropped everything immediately to watch this. You're amazing dylan
Samme.
My habit of dropping everything for Dylan😅
Same I’m a simple human being, I see Dylan I drop everything else
@@CAT-xo2kj wise move my friend
I would've never thought Ooga Booga would become a comfort channel. Yes it is funny, it's Dylan what do we expect, but something about Dylan discussing actual things in a funny but still serious is so refreshing. I just love it, I love your brain 🧠🤍
Dude your sense of humor is the fucking best.
This was my ex. I couldn’t do it anymore after two months of him being a PUA red pill loser. Which is a shame because he definitely wasn’t like this 10 years ago when we were friends in high school. We dated for a week back then and he treated me the sweetest I’ve ever been treated. The internet (red pill incel culture) and porn ruined him. The friends he made in those 10 years also fed into the women hating rhetoric. It’s a travesty. He lost himself.
Edit to say that he also thinks ‘sausages’ are the superior genital and that was said at the weirdest and most terrible times he could have said such a thing. Not to mention downright disrespectful, ‘like, my guy, I’m a cis woman. What did you expect getting into a relationship with me??’ Weird neg, but ok
ew, just ew. glad you’re not putting up with that anymore
Jesus Christ... Glad he is your EX
@@mikaeleugh546 oh believe me, me too! Boy made me break out in acne I was so stressed with him 😤
@@tamires9897 Me too, it was such a strange and twisted relationship. Do not recommend giving these types of guys a chance and to walk away at any hint of sexism because it screws with your mental well-being
good thing you're free from him. but don't blame porn. If he can't understand that these are ridiculously bad scripted movies he's just an idiot.
"Finish high school"
Yes
"Go to college"
No
the specificity SCREAMS "this is a list of all the women who wronged me and the grievances I have against them"
I personally prefer when a man isn’t closed off about his feelings. I know other girls feel differently, and some men think it is weak to cry, but for me it is the best thing to do in a relationship. It helps build a stronger bond and get to know your partner better. I respect men more when they show their emotions, is not afraid to cry in front of me, or let me know how they’re feeling, etc. I honestly feel bad for the men who think like this because as Dylan put it best, there’s no way they are happy repressing all their emotions. I’m not sure who runs this channel but they need therapy 😂
I think he is actually talking about a relationship in the beginning stages when a connection is still trying to be made. If men did share their feelings with women they would most likely over share seeming dependent/not ready for a relationship. Men don't convey emotions like women tend to with words, we convert our emotions into motivation. Also being stoic and a leader also means being able to keep your emotions in check. If you're married and you share a house, he should share his feelings because they are committed in marriage and their actions affect both of them. You date someone.
Therapist: So what brings you in today?
Dylan: *I fantasize about burning orphanages in my free time*
"The worst thing a man can do is open up to a woman" makes me so sad. Because we really DO have a lot of men (the type who are attracted to THIS) and not doing emotional work, not getting therapy keeps THEM down, keeps them depressed, keeps them hating women, hating others putting down other people. It's just bad. Men have such a high su***de rate.... Why make it worse. Men, these men aren't helping you.
Yeah those sentences were a mess you get the idea.
Dylan geeking out to psychology stuff is so attractive to me. As someone who studies psychology, I’d love to hear him talk like this more
omg same
Dylan really went on a whole rant talking about burning orphanages 😭😭
The way Dylan & I had the same reaction to “she’s in jail”😂😭
I used to waste time and energy disagreeing with people like this, but I've grown up and realised it's a huge waste of time. The choice to generalise and believe that all women and all men are a certain type of way is indicative of a smug refusal to entertain the barest possibility of being wrong.
Anyway, nice vid, ooga
2:04 me trying to achieve the minimun word needed for an essay
The red pill community makes me feel like I can't vote anymore and that I'm definitely going to get physically abused at least once in my relationship
That’s exactly what they want you to believe and feel. They don’t really want men to succeed in dating and relationships, because they themselves (the red pill coaches) are unhappy, angry, and resentful towards women for their failed past relationships (or attempts at such). Their advice, I feel, is purely tailored to ensure the men stay in the community and continue to share their (unrealistic) angry views towards women. Instead of, you know, actually taking a hard look at themselves and seeing what it is they may be doing wrong in terms of their social skills, routine, grooming, etc., because if they did, and not just for the sake of getting a girlfriend, it might be hard at first to improve themselves, but it would be worth it in the long run, and show them that these Red Pill coaches are nothing more than misogynistic frauds who don’t actually know anything about real self-improvement or women, or dating in general. Speaking of which, side note; how come dating coaches only cater to straight people mostly? Like, not that I see a point in a dating coach, but if you’re gonna use one, what if you’re gay, bi, non-binary, lesbian, etc.?
I can’t tell if this is a joke or an actual statement
@@Overseer2579 I don't think that's the case, men like Jordan Peterson "preach" that men need to be better and then get a lady if they so desire.
I was expecting a Skillshare ad when he was talking about learning how to read….
10:50 is so dangerous, cause women will rather stay with a guy that’s toxic, abusive and think they won’t find anything better, than try to climb a ladder of “even better men”
As a woman, I strongly support Dylan's speech starting at 14:40
Keep it up, friends, relearn to be humans. Im sorry society has forced people (especially men) to believe that vulnerability is a weakness when it's nothing but natural.
15:43 The way Dylan tries to tuck the hair that isn’t there behind his ears lmao
Dylan posting more on this channel is everything we needed
It's only a matter of time until Dylan will drop "Dylan is in trouble" and make "Ooga Booga" the main channel 😹
@@hazelliazzera8977 noooooo don't speak that into existence
@@sabahk I'm speaking that into a black hole, so it won't happen😶🌫️
“I need to adopt a child”
*you called father* 🙂
Daddy? Lol
@@lu-cthecynical LMAOOOOO
I rewatched the video and just noticed that at the beginning, the "bad people in your life" examples were solely women, quite the foreshadowing for what's to come lol
This is pure gold... These people sound like they have as much contact with women as an average person does with a sassquach.
The Red Pill Community: Men should be the bread winners and sole earners in the family, it's only natural.
Also the Red Pill Community: "mEn sTanD sTraIgHt WiTh HaLf BrOkEn bOne tO SuPporT tHeiR FaMiliEs yOu wilL nEvEr knOw thEir dAilY strUgglE tO keEp thEir fAmiLy's exIstEnce bAlaNcEd... :'( :'(
Ikr
Also, they say women are super emotional, but at the same time think women get turned off by others showing emotions?? Like, what? Their logic is so contradictive
@@solus8685 they contradict themselves at every turn. They say "Women will never understand your struggle" and in the same breath say "Never open up to your girlfriend/wife". It's ignorance, and, as Dylan pointed out, fear-mongering. Their central beliefs would shatter so fast if only they took the time to actually know and understand the women in their lives.
But then they have the audacity to call women gold diggers for just wanting a man with money to provide for them. Make it make sense.
Dylan please make more of this I actually couldn't stop laughing 😂
Honestly most women don't want a "strong man" we want a person we can relate to and yes rely on but we want to take care of the men we love too. We can't relate to a guy who hides his feelings and never uses us as a safe space. Most people want a relationship that is reciprocal in both directions.
I'm three minutes in and this has been very useful. So far I've learned that all my freinds are terrible people, I cant go on honeymoons or have a functioning car, and I should go and get robbed at gunpoint.
He makes a point, I'd probably get dry and leave my boyfriend if he showed sadness if his dad died.
Oh totally, drier than the Sahara desert to be exact.
just wanna say i am a straight male who is a fan of dylan believe it or not
I love that for ya
Why would that be hard to believe?
(Sorry if its a joke. I'm hella slow)
Ok... I mean... good for you? (I just don’t think that’s really unusual)
It's 2022 bro. Come out.
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Dylan, your content always makes me laugh. I weirdly feel less lonely watching these videos and looking through all of your comments. As an adult, I feel like it’s so hard to make and keep friendships, and I’ve been struggling with that a lot this year. But your videos always give me like 20 minutes of that childhood-friend feeling. This is a nice community to be a part of.
Hey Rachel🙈 I just wanted to tell you that I can completely relate to what you are saying but I hope that you are doing fine :)
Have a nice day😊
Greetings from Germany🤓
@@deniiichan I hope you're doing well too! Thanks for the sweet comment :) Greetings from the US!
@@deniiichan by any chance, is your username a combination of the neighbourhood, arctic monkeys, and panic at the disco?
I know this comment is from a year ago, but I am re-watching this video (like I do with a lot of Dylan’s videos!) because I agree the same, it is less lonely and having this community is a beautiful thing. I feel that people are so disconnected and hard to make friends as you said. I love there are little communities we can have. I love that Dylan’s videos are funny and light too - it’s like taking a weight off the shoulders for a while and having fun.
I am glad you’re part of this community too, we’re here for you and I hope you are doing okay ❤
Lol!!! the fact that Dylan started this video openly listening while holding back the fact he wanted to laugh to, not being able to keep a straight face or keep it together (the skit), while listening to the "tips" and then slowly descends into irritation and wtf is this... but still not being able to resit the urge to make a joke or laugh.....the reason I love his videos lol
I come back to this orphanage skit once a week for laughs. I don't think I've ever laughed so much for anything EVER
every single time he says OOGA BOOGA OOOOGAH BOOGAH it brings such a wide smile to my face. i love it
THE ORPHAN JOKE HAS ME SHITTING MYSELF
as someone who actually has had a gun in my face, i can certify that it was, in fact, *not* necessary for my growth and development and actually set me back quite a bit, seeing as i was a child at the time
this whole video dylan just radiates chaotic energy like i’ve never seen before in any of his videos. like he just got way too invested way too fast which made it like a thousand million times better, and the fact that he hyperfocused on the ”my friend from third grade is in jail” and ”my girlfriend won't pick me up when my car broke down” made this whole video a masterpiece.
Damn Dylan, that bit in the middle about those orphans really showing your Ryan George
Lmfao As a woman who has been in a 10 year relationship and has never cheated I can say the part about constantly looking out for something better made me laugh so hard water came out my nose. I should know better than to drink anything while watching your videos 😂
4:25 Would have been perfect for a skillshare plug
As a woman the BEST thing you can do is open up to a girl. Like if you open up to me I will fr fall in love.
I love this. Hilarious. My daughter thought I was laughing at her a few times, she's a toddler. I didn't hear my phone go off for this video, but I still started it 8 minutes after it was posted. I love your videos Dylan. I think I'm going to send this to a bunch of people now. Some people need new viewpoints in life. Not the people I'm sending to though lol. I think I'm going to send this to my writers group chat for villain ideas lol
ending a misogyny video with OOGA BOOGA is perfect
0:51 I thought an add started fucking playing 😂
This video literally made me snort with laughter multiple times. It had so many specific and strange scenarios to pin onto women and Dylan’s reactions were golden
It is also brilliant to watch someone come across as intelligent and emotionally mature on such topics
I love how the guy says try to avoid the misogyny trap and then proceeds to later be incredibly misogynist
Misogyny = criticizing women
4:23 Giving good hugs is a genuine skill and I’ve never met a guy who has it. I’ve never had an acceptably good platonic hug from a guy before
the fact he wasn't wearing glasses in this vid threw me off for a sec lmao
14:47 thats why they be so ANGRY 😂😂😂 making themselves miserable for no reason.
“Who’s gonna miss them” DYALN😭😭😭
Loved the graphics and style for this video Dylan! “The Red Pill Society is a safe space for hurt men”, “are you trying to be a lion/wolf/cheetah?” and the skit made me lol so hard. Thanks for being level headed. It’s kinda sad that most women are usually happy-surprised when they come across a bloke who treats them with just the basic level of respect in this way - just talk to us normally because despite our difference sex chromosomes we’re all human.
"I could probably overlook the orphan thing...'cause who's gonna miss them?"
LMFAO
Best joke in the video 🤣
thanks dylan, it's been a long time since i've actually laughed out loud this hard!!
edit: i also love how you're trying to understand why people think the way they do instead of just saying they're idiots who can't be helped - it's always really cool to hear your opinions because you rationalize them so well!
"Super Villian Juice" *Chefs kiss*
best alternative to "Incel Bait" LOL
when he broke character in the skit i lost it