I love that Brat challenged Yandy to consider her husband and not dismiss his feelings with this situation. A true friend will tell you the truth and not just what you want to hear.
She minding her business because the same thing is happening to her and I’ve always thought since brat and Judy had a baby Judy doesn’t seem like a whole parent and more of a step parent.
Yandy is full of it! I'm starting to feel like Mendecees mom feels now. A MOTHER KNOWS FOR SHO! I'm beginning to think that she feels as though he owes her and she can do as she please because she stuck by him when he did his stint. SHE'S FULL OF CROCK! Her and her slick Rick azz sister whoever she is.
How could any of that make him uncomfortable tho … he’s not having a baby he ain’t raising the baby his only concern is ego related he just doesn’t want his wife to do it … he’s not considering the baby or the lady who yandy is trying to help have a child …
@@Theworldismine5a husband does have the right to vote. His opinion and his feelings are valid. She’s not a single woman and he’s not her boyfriend. She should have had a real sit down conversation with her husband before she agreed to anything with her cousin.
@@Theworldismine5 he didn’t try to veto it, though he speaking in the commas most respectful voice a man is speaking and you’re still finding a problem with it. Some of you hurt people just need to go somewhere and be hurt. Don’t take any actions just be hurt.
@user-eo6dm8qg3f Dam bro, they trick phucked you. My patna 40 years old, we been friends since he was 8. We just found out he was adopted. I always wondered why he 6"4 and both of his parents were 5"6.
Da rat is the man in the relationship of course she agreed with mendecees that’s why dabrats girl sitting there ignoring the convo lol she like this some bs lol
Yandy isn't considering anyone but herself. She's acting like she's not married with kids. Yandy you're not in this marriage alone. Take into account how your husband feels it's selfish and inconsiderate to you household. 💔
Yandy keeps trying to explain this away! It's not fair to him! This is something that been a complete sit down to discuss this! He may have felt different if she had INCLUDED HIM FROM JUMP! 🥰
That's a New Orleans thing baby. Your business your problem. It's called mind the business that pays you. Not saying mendeecee is not a real man ,but yandy is too masculine for him . Sometimes you just have to pick your battles wisely🤷🏽.
I love how they had this conversation like intelligent adults. Everyone expressed themselves with love and respect. Even Judy's response was on point. 🤐😁
@leonawhite3202 it really won't. I know some folks who was in this position and the kid is 11yo now and he knows everything and he is super close to his auntie and calls her auntie. He even like to tell the story because he is so proud of how he got here and will tell you that. I'm not a Yandy fan but this is selfless and very much explainable. Children aren't stupid. If you tell them how they got here and why they understand. He doesn't feel funny at all because he was told the process and the feelings involved.
@@MarquishaFreeman6043 ion know it just seem like her maternal instincts as a woman kicked in and it’s matured and look good on her Judy not trying to slow down imo
This was a good conversation and shows how you can help/guide your friends to see another opinion in positive way! Loved it…..this is the kind of reality tv people need to see.
Oh please...Brat & Judy wasn't concerned about what people thought about their situation! Yandy should have done this a long time ago...I know she is married and her husband has a right to feel the way he wants to feel!
This is definitely a conversation that needs to be had with your spouse, period! I’m glad Brat kept it 💯 with Yandy, your husband has a right to his opinion, especially when a child is involved.
@@louveniawilliast9178When you're married, you become one with your spouse. I'm sure she wouldn't be okay with him using his sperm to father a child with someone else. Let alone, not talking to her about it.
It sucks that they are on the verge of getting a divorce 😢I love them together 2 beautiful people with 2 big beautiful hearts all of them. I see why they are such good friends ❤❤❤I love all 4 of them!
Talk!!! The Brat is dropping wisdom and knowledge. She is raising up a good point. You can never think too far ahead when it comes to becoming a parent or being a donor. Anything that may compromise your marriage is worth having an in-depth conversation with your partner.
@MykidsareonaFBIwatchlist2how can you read the mind of a person you’ve never met, and don’t know personally…all you seen is a 30 second clip on TH-cam and you know how she feels/thinks teach me cause id love to read minds like you
@@imanistrong9136discernment isn’t only used face to face it can be used from far away as well. I’m not saying this person is right I’m just saying it is a real thing to be able to read people and situations this well.
I mean it's her egg I don't understand why she wouldn't be. Males donate sperm all the time while they're in relationships without taking to their partners.
@@jebarlee because she knows her and dabrat kid is her biological child and not brats so she don't want stir the pot imo it was really selflish of Judy to not carry to save her brought body.since she has kids already and dabrat doesn't have any biological kids. It always confuses me when ppl say True favors brat when he looks like Judy and her father. I was surprised brat didn't think to use a sperm donor from her family instead of a white sperm donor. Their choice.
@@denisedavis6709on the Tamron Hall show, they explained that it's a very low percentage of black sperm donors. They wanted a black donor but there were few and the few they found didn't match up to what they were looking for - level of education of the donor, diverse life experiences etc.,
@@BLUEGATORBOYZMeanwhile there is a Black woman literally on this clip speaking up for him and the commenter you are commenting under is a Black woman and I am a Black woman but that’s what “we do” huh?. Who’s really the disrespectful one?, My goodness I never seen a grown male with such a birdbrain as yourself.
I love how DaBrat thinks about others feelings not just their own feelings whomever is involved especially a marriage both husband n wife or spouses, partners should know about whatever the situation is therefore everything is on the table and everything will be shared
@@BlessedOneKymLmaoo I was about to say the same thing !!! She’s an Aries ♈️!!! We are very blunt, honest and open!!! Whether you like it or not, whether you asked for it or not 🤣🤸♀️‼️
@@misswalls8412But we’ve seen her more than once trying to spin something around Mandecee. She either feels like his input doesn’t matter, or that she’s more important than him. She’s low key sneaky.
Because sometimes he's discouraging. I don't feel like her helping her cousin with having a family of her own is wrong. Maybe I am being biased, but as a woman, a man can't tell a woman what to do with her reproductive system BECAUSE men can not reproduce! Yandy never said she wanted him to be a sperm donor OR volunteer to be a surrogate! She's simply sharing her eggs that she isn't planning on using anymore. That is just the same as her freezing them for someone else to possibly use in the future 🤷🏽♀️
Yup.!! I'm adopted ..as a little girl I Always Knew my mommy dearest wasn't my Real mom , as an adult I found out I Was indeed adopted & I long to know my Real Parents and Family..
@@Mika-wn5vw “real” in this case as actually relative. In my opinion as someone who was adopted, my real parents are the ones who parented me. My biological parents are my biological parents. Anyway, I was just asking another adopted person about how they refer to each set of parents, so you’re more than entitled to your perspective. Nothing wrong with that
Thank you Brat for shedding some light on this situation, we love this couple and pray that they stay together in love and let nothing and no one come between them. Trust each other’s love and stay committed forever. ❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😀
And she was right!!!! The fact that Yandy had it in her mind that she didn’t have to even consult her husband, or his feelings about all of that, is an indication that she doesn’t respect him or his opinion, and I’m glad that Brat told her the truth and not some BS she wanted to hear.
I think she respects him. She just wanted to help a friend who can't bare children .I do think she respect his opinion or else that marriage would be over
It speaks volumes about yandy's mo. I'm not condemning Yandy but you can sense that there's a part of her character that likes to act without consulting with their husband.
Absolutely and Yandy stopped checking for his opinion and respect a while ago. I think she finally saw the red flags when that man told her that he wouldn't do for her, everything she did for him. He publicly let it be known that he used her.
Love the fact Da Brat is being fair and not just agreeing with Yandy. Yandy do need to consider Mendecees feeling and input as well. Brat always keeps it real from what’s been displayed from her on tv
Yandy is being very selfish and controlling in this situation!! Mandecees is 💯 correct in this situation. You can't be in a marriage making decisions like your single. I'm glad brat spoke sense to her.
One of the realest convos I heard in a min. All great point of views as far as parenting and marriage conversations that need to be had. Its their business....but good to hear back and forth dialog trying to come up with positive solutions. Well done crew 😎 No judgment here. Bless everybody involved.
TELL HER BRAT BECAUSE YOU KNOW IT'S NOT RIGHT BECAUSE YOU BEEN THROUGH IT WITH YOUR WIFE YOU MADE SURE SHE WAS OK WITH IT YOU BOTH DECIDED IT TOGETHER YANDY STOP YOUR HUSBAND IS NOT OK WITH IT
How is his question too far away but yours isn’t? That’s weird behavior. Didn’t she adopt a kid while he was gone too and he wasn’t ok with it? What’s the point of having a partner if you don’t consider their thoughts?
Of Course He is Wise To Think About Those Things. From What I Understand Yandy Agreed To Do That For Her Sister Without Even Bringing it Up To Mendeecee. That is Not How Making Big Decisions Go. A Marriage is a Partnership and Every Decision Effects Both Parties. 9x💯
I gotta cousin who was born like this...he being the donated egg...he is a 37 year old man struggling with the fact that his "bio mom" (egg donor) didn't raise him but raised his other siblings. He somehow feel that she just didn't want him. It has affected his mental health A LOT because the mother he always knew (his actual aunt) has passed away and he was her only child. He feels like he has no one now. Yancy better think about who else is affected when she donate this egg.
No offense to your cousin but that is just crazy people do this all the time. Why would anyone be upset with the woman that donates her egg but not upset with a man that donates his sperm?? All these comments make absolutely no sense to me. I'm not saying your cousin's feelings are not valid but they really are A little inconsiderate. Why would he feel that way even after being told to process. Knowing that the woman's egg was just a donor. I'm currently going through this to where I am trying to decide what to do and how to do it with the same process and this is the first time I have heard so many negative things about this process in particular. All of the children produced from this process that I have talked to are very happy and healthy and understand wholeheartedly how they even came into this world and are extremely in very thankful. The women egg donors husbands agreed to the process because they understood some women just cannot produce. I think it's the selflessness in the clothes mindness of a lot of people who just want to be stuck up pricks
There are plenty of stories like this out in the world. Her husband is just being extremely selfish and most of the children I met from these most of the children I met from This process are very happy and very healthy and as adults they fully understand what the process was, how it went and whom their egg donors are. I have also met other women doing this same process but has to go to a sperm bank and those adult children are also happy and healthy some of them with their own families now. Y'all are some inconsiderate pricks in these comments
@raychelgray8217 I think the difference is that the relationship is too close. This child will likely play with and or grow up around Yandy's children who will technically be their siblings. The child may start to compare thier life to the life of thier siblings (legal cousins) and become resentful. It's very different from picking out a donor in a book that you have zero connection to and never know.
@raychelgray8217 "No offense to your cousin" but then continue with offensive words?? Remember, you are the one LOOKING for an egg donor not the "egg" itself. Until you wear those shoes you need to STFU! You might know people born out of a donor situation that is happy but now you see the opinions/situations of others who aren't. You're saying that Yandy's husband is selfish and so are you! You gotta be selfish to want what you want instead of taking the hand you got dealt. Now IF you find a donor you better hope everything work out and you have a happy kid because my cousin struggle with unaliving himself over this very thing.
I understand his concerns and Yandy hasn’t done a good enough job to ease his concerns. I think it’s a beautiful thing that she’s over her egg to her sister, and hopefully he sees that as well❤
I adopted my niece…. Then she had a daughter…. I adopted her as well…. They know I am biological there aunt… But I am the legal mother…. We living an amazing life NEXT!
And that’s how you do it!!! Tell the kids the truth!!!! Now imagine if you told them you was they real mother, and they found out otherwise. As a kid that was a ward of the court this is the only way to do it
@@ladylowe3917 not when it comes to raising the child and the child knowing the truth. Be it adoption , custody, guardianship , sperm bank or egg donation. It’s all the same in the end. It’s my/our child. Period
@@brookeh21they are team, she was no longer 1 when they married. He said no. And nobody knows what kind resentment that child may or may not have. I would have just told her no to begin with.
@@ngm5819 he said no and she said yes. If they were truly a team they would be able to compromise. However, this is not a compromisable situation. It's either one way or the other and since it's her body, she makes the decision and the decision is yes. If it was his body, he makes the final decision. 🤷🏾♀️
@@ngm5819 Guess what. He doesn't have the final say and he's not her boss. Its her egg, her body and her cousin, thus its her choice, so Eff a "no". She can do it if she wants.
Yandy is selfish af. She doesn’t take anyone’s feelings or thoughts into account but only her own. This lady does the most for attention and that’s why she wants to be the surrogate. For attention, not to help. I don’t know any man who would openly agree to this in a marriage with kids of your own. Just ridiculous.
1000% TRUE honestly Yandy has always rubbed me the wrong way. Yandy has always been selfish. Everything she does isn’t from the goodness of her heart it’s all to “ make her look good”. First of all she didn’t even discuss the egg donation with her husband she just had it set she was not only going to do it but also help fund it smh. Mandeeses mama nd baby mother tried to warn everyone about her too. I can’t wait to see what happens because this is something I really don’t believe Mandeese is gonna give in to as he shouldn’t PERIOD!!
It’s not always that simple to someone who is in the position looking at their birth parent knowing they voluntarily gave them to someone else to be raised. It’s always deeper or people wouldn’t have messed up relationships with their biological family members now add other variables 🥵
BS!!! As a child whose mother was murdered when I was 6 months old this ain’t remotely close to the truth. You will always want your natural mother it doesn’t matter who the hell raised you. My aunt raised me and I loved her until she passed when I was 6. But once I found out about my real mother I carry her with me even more so than my aunt who was my mother and gave me all the good things about myself to this day. What you said is BS
@@catrinab888regardless of how it's told the truth will eventually be revealed. Naturally people want to know who their biological parents are if raised by someone else.
I think Yandy treats him this way because he was asked if the shoe was on the other foot and she had to do four years in prison would he wait for her like she waited for him and stuck by him while he did four years in prison and he said "I don't know what I would do"... Yandy was very upset and started crying...so I think that's why she treats him like she does and doesn't care about his opinion on important issues...
I wish that was the reason that she's doing this, but it's not. Yandy has been doing Mendeecees that way since they've been on this show. She always making big decisions before she talks to him.
He just mad she's doing something that doesn't directly benefit him and isn't about him. And he's not thinking about all the ways she's supported him when it didn't benefit her or make her look good. People looked at her crazy for taking that on but she did it for him.
I love that Brat challenged Yandy to consider her husband and not dismiss his feelings with this situation. A true friend will tell you the truth and not just what you want to hear.
That's right
I love that as well
I absolutely love that!
Yandy gon do what Yandy won't to do 😮
Yup say that for the ppl in the back again lol
Judy minding her bidness, lol!!!
Right’ she’s like, imma just sit here and paint my lil Punkin 😂
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Yesssss 😂😂😂😂😂
She minding her business because the same thing is happening to her and I’ve always thought since brat and Judy had a baby Judy doesn’t seem like a whole parent and more of a step parent.
I'm Judy!
Brat is a real friend...she told Yandy the truth with love!!!
And a sincere heart! Her face said it all..ily Brat
Agree to disagree although she along with Mendeecee both disagree
Exactly
That's the type of friend I need in my life 🥺
Yandy is full of it! I'm starting to feel like Mendecees mom feels now. A MOTHER KNOWS FOR SHO!
I'm beginning to think that she feels as though he owes her and she can do as she please because she stuck by him when he did his stint. SHE'S FULL OF CROCK! Her and her slick Rick azz sister whoever she is.
Da Brat is speaking facts.....you have to always make sure your spouse is comfortable. That is life changing for everyone.
How could any of that make him uncomfortable tho … he’s not having a baby he ain’t raising the baby his only concern is ego related he just doesn’t want his wife to do it … he’s not considering the baby or the lady who yandy is trying to help have a child …
He’s her husband and it’s a subject that needs to be discussed prior to it happening
He just trying to get an understanding. His concerns are valid
His concerns are definitely valid.
@@Theworldismine5a husband does have the right to vote. His opinion and his feelings are valid. She’s not a single woman and he’s not her boyfriend. She should have had a real sit down conversation with her husband before she agreed to anything with her cousin.
@@LIVETODAY_0 perfectly said which tells me you have good sense… likely great sense. Keep up the good fight 🤙🏾
@@Theworldismine5 he didn’t try to veto it, though he speaking in the commas most respectful voice a man is speaking and you’re still finding a problem with it. Some of you hurt people just need to go somewhere and be hurt. Don’t take any actions just be hurt.
His concerns are valid but he thinking of himself only. He don't care about her sister. It is not his sperm so he should be ok.
This is why you surround yourself with real people. Yea it’s for TV, but in real reality, Da. Brat is talking real ish. 💪🏿💯
Or know who you're marrying
I care about that stuff because I was adopt by my auntie and find out her sister was my mom 😢😢 that stuff hurt's smh.
@user-eo6dm8qg3f Dam bro, they trick phucked you. My patna 40 years old, we been friends since he was 8. We just found out he was adopted. I always wondered why he 6"4 and both of his parents were 5"6.
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@@scooterblack5355she wanted him so bad
"Who thinks about that type of stuff?" Clearly a logical person with foresight.
Mannnnn that was wild lol.
100.
Thank you
That’s our problem as a people we don’t collectively think like that
Without insight
I love Da Brat! She will never sugar coat anything to save anybody’s feelings. She is so authentic ❤❤❤
Just like her sister Lisa😂😂 cause she don’t hold back EVER!!
@@JermekaLaShaever!!
YES INDEED!!!!! #CHITOWN ✊🏾💪🏾✊🏾💯💜💜💜💜💜👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Da rat is the man in the relationship of course she agreed with mendecees that’s why dabrats girl sitting there ignoring the convo lol she like this some bs lol
Yandy did a righteous thing for her friend, yet in still she’s attached bc it’s her eggs. SMH , they are right Yandy chill
I love that the Brat had his back❤❤❤
Righ!!
Yes, True Talk ❤️🎉💯
Bang Bang 👑
Oh yeah what about the baby she just had when it gets older it's going to ask where my Daddy at
Yandy isn't considering anyone but herself. She's acting like she's not married with kids. Yandy you're not in this marriage alone. Take into account how your husband feels it's selfish and inconsiderate to you household. 💔
I love brat, cuz she's always going to give the best and real advice no matter who she's talking too, straight up with no chaser.
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Yandy keeps trying to explain this away! It's not fair to him! This is something that been a complete sit down to discuss this! He may have felt different if she had INCLUDED HIM FROM JUMP! 🥰
Yes
Yup
She’s a man lol of course she gonna agree with mendeecees her girls actions proves this … she knows dabrat has a man mentality lol
I love how Judy still painting like she not even there🤣😆
She’s just there to not get fined!
I know I would do the same thang
Right
That's a New Orleans thing baby. Your business your problem. It's called mind the business that pays you. Not saying mendeecee is not a real man ,but yandy is too masculine for him . Sometimes you just have to pick your battles wisely🤷🏽.
That's what I was thinking 🤣😆🤣😆she like " lalalalal I'm not going to get in that! That has nothing to do with me!!!" LMAO 🤣🤣🤣
I love how they had this conversation like intelligent adults. Everyone expressed themselves with love and respect. Even Judy's response was on point. 🤐😁
Y have several seats 😮
I agree one hundred percent...
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The way Judy NEVER STOPPED painting 😂😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Silence is golden and that was GREAT ADVICE
Because in her head she calling yandy all types dummies
I was thinking the same thing 😂😂
Judy knew nothing good could came from what she had contribute!! 😂
I love when adults can agree and disagree with love and grace. This is true friendship ❤
Chy, I've learned to "keep painting" on matters that don't concern me. Keeps my life peaceful. 💜
Judy is like: 👀.... "Lemme concentrate on coloring this here pumpkin cuz ion want NOBODY to ask me NUTHIN'!" 😂😂😂
You have to consider everything if he is not the father but his wife is the mother that's allot to things about because it's gone confuse the child
@leonawhite3202 it really won't. I know some folks who was in this position and the kid is 11yo now and he knows everything and he is super close to his auntie and calls her auntie. He even like to tell the story because he is so proud of how he got here and will tell you that. I'm not a Yandy fan but this is selfless and very much explainable. Children aren't stupid. If you tell them how they got here and why they understand. He doesn't feel funny at all because he was told the process and the feelings involved.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 right
Why did "...this here pumpkin" take me out? The look on Judy's face was exactly that!
Is Judy True’s bio mom or Brat?
That look Brat gave Judy 🤣 Judy saving all her words for when they get home off camera 😂😂😂😂 And Brat knows that 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Cuz she’s an Aquarius. I usually save it for home or in a more private setting. At least most Aquarius I know lol
? Judy didn’t look at her she was focused on painting her pumpkin.
😂😂😂😂
Memdecess cant have kids?
Yandi and her sister basically said SCREW WHAT HE THINKS
@peggybrooks5640 Why he left her.
Brat is so considerate and honest I love her❤❤❤❤
She’s an Aries ♈️ 🤣🤸♀️ we always keeping it real 🤷🏼♀️ not saying b*t he’s don’t lie lol but Aries are quite honest!
Consideration is everything! Brat is SPOT ON!! 🎯 💯
Brat is right
I think Brat been growing away from Judy in my opinion
Brat is absolutely right 💯
@@goldenglamglitter206 um where you get that from?
@@MarquishaFreeman6043 ion know it just seem like her maternal instincts as a woman kicked in and it’s matured and look good on her Judy not trying to slow down imo
She always has crazy stuff going on!
judy was holdin words chillld😂😂😂😂😂
Da Brat is 100% correct
This was a good conversation and shows how you can help/guide your friends to see another opinion in positive way! Loved it…..this is the kind of reality tv people need to see.
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Oh please...Brat & Judy wasn't concerned about what people thought about their situation! Yandy should have done this a long time ago...I know she is married and her husband has a right to feel the way he wants to feel!
I love how dabrat is being honest
The Brat always keeps it real! I applaud her honesty.
She should have told her husband 1st
Right and when he said no she should have told her no. She can adopt a newborn baby. There are thousands of children looking for a forever home.
You mean asked
Did she actually do it?
@@robertasmith3231TOLD!
Isn’t that what’s going on? They are asking and considering him. Respect!
Look at Judy minding her business 😂😂😂. I love it.
*Judy said her name is **#BenNitAndSheNotInIT**!!!!* 😅
Right she was like the brat got it 😅😅
I’d be sitting there doing the same..
She ain't in it
@@user-fe6rx5td9o wow that’s crazy
Judy is hilarious😂😂😂😂
Why?
@@MoDavI-sl7iy; B’coz she should be the one saying the most ; but she’s being so quiet like a church mouse 😂😂!!! Minding her pumpkin business!!
I love Judy's face right now🤣🤣🤣
When Mandeece said "Yall have this process with out me even knowing." Dabrat looked at Judy like "Beautiful, you heard that shit???" 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
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Exactly. Yandy dismisses Mandeece too much. She seems kinda sneaky with it too.🤔
@@karrynlflax5387it’s not sneaky. It’s effortless
Yancy and her cousin are related so the baby could look like Yandy. They don't even have to tell this kid that it was by egg donor.
Why on earth would any Wife make a life changing decision without consulting her Husband first?
I would without his decision and have.
Because they not really married
Because she has never had to ask him or consult him for anything she has done before because she's her own boss, and he's a momma's boy!
I agree with you
Because most people don’t understand Wife is a verb not just noun.
JUDY SAID " MY NAME IS BENNET AND I AIN'T IN IT" 😂😂😂😂
My name Nit, keep me out this shit!!
This made me love Btay so much more! Shows what kind of spouse she is,a good one❤❤❤❤
Dang, I agree with everybody, even Judy sitting there quietly just painting the pumpkin! 🙌🏽
Me toooo. I have mixed emotions on this. 💔
Judy like, this ain’t my show and this ain’t got shit to do with me 😅
Not really
❤️🎉💯
Exactly
Judy just don’t want her and Dabrat situation about their baby coming up in the conversation 😂😂
😂😂😂
This is definitely a conversation that needs to be had with your spouse, period! I’m glad Brat kept it 💯 with Yandy, your husband has a right to his opinion, especially when a child is involved.
Yandy has a very kind heart. ❤
exactly
Not his kid nor eggs. Her body her choice
@@louveniawilliast9178When you're married, you become one with your spouse. I'm sure she wouldn't be okay with him using his sperm to father a child with someone else. Let alone, not talking to her about it.
The truth if found out in the shadows hurts more than being told the truth!
The way Judy kept painting with her head down had me hollering 😂😂😂😂
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Judy like 😳 Just keep painting just keep painting 😂😂😂😂
Like, focus bish, this ain’t got shit to do with me!!! That’s me too!!! Mind my own struggling business lol!😂😂😂
@@tiffanybates6413 😂😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️
The way that Brat looked at Judy when he said that he didn't know 💀💀💀
Like nigga you ain’t concentrating that hard on painting I know you hear this!😂
Yandy and Mendecees are some beautiful people. His smile is so nice.
Yes, I agree. He has a beautiful smile and teeth.
He has always looked like Kanye to me but he talks & sounds just like Mase.
@@multidimensionalbrandy He looks waaaaaay better than Kanye. I see NO resemblance at all.
It sucks that they are on the verge of getting a divorce 😢I love them together 2 beautiful people with 2 big beautiful hearts all of them. I see why they are such good friends ❤❤❤I love all 4 of them!
@@shemikia6936 I agree.
Now that is a true friend that will keep it real. I know Yandy may have felt attacked but this conversation was straight love. Good conversation.
That’s what good friends are for, they help you reason better, think beyond your own mind set. Help u consider others.
😂and stereotypically she didn't listen
Talk!!! The Brat is dropping wisdom and knowledge. She is raising up a good point.
You can never think too far ahead when it comes to becoming a parent or being a donor.
Anything that may compromise your marriage is worth having an in-depth conversation with your partner.
This is the real question?! How about that part!!
INDEED
Auntie Judy and this purple pumpkin is how focused I am in life to mind my business outside of distractions ❤
I'm rolling. Judy said my name is minute, and I'm not in it. Look at my situation 😂😂😂
Brat has integrity and love her spirit.
I love Judy; That girl has emotional intelligence 😂🎉
@MykidsareonaFBIwatchlist2how can you read the mind of a person you’ve never met, and don’t know personally…all you seen is a 30 second clip on TH-cam and you know how she feels/thinks teach me cause id love to read minds like you
@MykidsareonaFBIwatchlist2 dam you reached WAYYYYY down for that one
@MykidsareonaFBIwatchlist2errr yea that’s a totally different dynamic than what they are taking about with yandy.
@@imanistrong9136discernment isn’t only used face to face it can be used from far away as well. I’m not saying this person is right I’m just saying it is a real thing to be able to read people and situations this well.
Da Brat is right. I totally agree with her.
That purple pearl dress Yandy has on is gorgeous!!!😁💅💜💜💜
Yandy is all about her self with that situation
ALL situations!!!
Agreed
I mean it's her egg I don't understand why she wouldn't be. Males donate sperm all the time while they're in relationships without taking to their partners.
@@marcystalling5185All!! Fr real. She never considers him or how he feels. It’s kinda like how his mother does him as well.
All situations! She's always been greedy and selfish.
❤❤ I live the way Da Brat loves and corrects her sister. She's appreciative of her family. ❤❤
Whose her sister? The only one I know about is not on here.
What sister only sister is Lisa raye
@@truthspeaks281right
@@Tanneishafoxrivera that's what I thought too! Maybe they're saying friends are sisters. Hell idk and was waiting for a response.
Are they related
I like how Judy minding her business painting
Judy will be going thru the same thing in up coming years
@@jebarlee because she knows her and dabrat kid is her biological child and not brats so she don't want stir the pot imo it was really selflish of Judy to not carry to save her brought body.since she has kids already and dabrat doesn't have any biological kids. It always confuses me when ppl say True favors brat when he looks like Judy and her father. I was surprised brat didn't think to use a sperm donor from her family instead of a white sperm donor. Their choice.
Brat WANTED to have the child BIRTH Experience!!! They used a donor so there's no KNOWN father!
Because they are going to have to answer some of the same questions when their child is old enough
@@denisedavis6709on the Tamron Hall show, they explained that it's a very low percentage of black sperm donors. They wanted a black donor but there were few and the few they found didn't match up to what they were looking for - level of education of the donor, diverse life experiences etc.,
😂😂 the brat should be the last one worrying about the child asking questions when the child grows up 😂😂
My first thought but this convo not about that I guess😏
I agree with DaBrat and she didn't even tell him damn
Not shocked she didn't tell him that's what our women do the disrespect be incredible
@@BLUEGATORBOYZMeanwhile there is a Black woman literally on this clip speaking up for him and the commenter you are commenting under is a Black woman and I am a Black woman but that’s what “we do” huh?. Who’s really the disrespectful one?, My goodness I never seen a grown male with such a birdbrain as yourself.
I love how DaBrat thinks about others feelings not just their own feelings whomever is involved especially a marriage both husband n wife or spouses, partners should know about whatever the situation is therefore everything is on the table and everything will be shared
Yandy wasn't expecting for Brat's opinion,but she invited them there
The brat is so real🌺
Aries Vibes gotta love it.
@@LacyGoode
Definitely ♈ Aries.
We're going to keep it real, regardless.
I love me some Brat 💞
@@BlessedOneKymLmaoo I was about to say the same thing !!! She’s an Aries ♈️!!! We are very blunt, honest and open!!! Whether you like it or not, whether you asked for it or not 🤣🤸♀️‼️
She needs to get a man/husband or whoever is a male and hv a biological babies of her own
@@BlessedOneKymBrat needs a man simple and all this solves
Yandy has always been selfish, then acts surprised when people call her out on BS
She Never Consult That Man Bout NOTHING😭
True story 👏🏾👏🏾
Does he consult her😢?(Really don't know, not aware of their interactions)
@@misswalls8412But we’ve seen her more than once trying to spin something around Mandecee. She either feels like his input doesn’t matter, or that she’s more important than him. She’s low key sneaky.
Because sometimes he's discouraging. I don't feel like her helping her cousin with having a family of her own is wrong. Maybe I am being biased, but as a woman, a man can't tell a woman what to do with her reproductive system BECAUSE men can not reproduce! Yandy never said she wanted him to be a sperm donor OR volunteer to be a surrogate! She's simply sharing her eggs that she isn't planning on using anymore. That is just the same as her freezing them for someone else to possibly use in the future 🤷🏽♀️
@@OliviaRos3This thought process is why black women are at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to dating and marriage.
Judy is like "only witness I got at this table is making sure this Pumpkin is happy."
I swear the Camera man don't miss nothin.
Children will ALWAYS look for where they came from/belong. No matter what, they’ll know you are biologically their mother.
Yup.!! I'm adopted ..as a little girl
I Always Knew my mommy dearest wasn't my Real mom , as an adult I found out I Was indeed adopted & I long to know my Real Parents and Family..
@@christianadams7872 I was adopted too. Just curious, do you really call your biological mom your "real mom?"
@@along58no matter how you put it….. the biological mom or dad is technically the real mom or dad
@@Mika-wn5vw “real” in this case as actually relative. In my opinion as someone who was adopted, my real parents are the ones who parented me. My biological parents are my biological parents.
Anyway, I was just asking another adopted person about how they refer to each set of parents, so you’re more than entitled to your perspective. Nothing wrong with that
Not true not all children care. Plenty of adoptive kids and donor kids are perfectly happy with the family that raised them
Thank you Brat for shedding some light on this situation, we love this couple and pray that they stay together in love and let nothing and no one come between them. Trust each other’s love and stay committed forever. ❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😀
And she was right!!!! The fact that Yandy had it in her mind that she didn’t have to even consult her husband, or his feelings about all of that, is an indication that she doesn’t respect him or his opinion, and I’m glad that Brat told her the truth and not some BS she wanted to hear.
I think she respects him. She just wanted to help a friend who can't bare children .I do think she respect his opinion or else that marriage would be over
@@AngelitaNeil-lg9pwto piggyback on your comment, she knew if she had asked him, he wouldn't have been down with it.
It speaks volumes about yandy's mo. I'm not condemning Yandy but you can sense that there's a part of her character that likes to act without consulting with their husband.
@@esseen100wich is disrespectful
Absolutely and Yandy stopped checking for his opinion and respect a while ago. I think she finally saw the red flags when that man told her that he wouldn't do for her, everything she did for him. He publicly let it be known that he used her.
Brat is a real one! She gave her opinion with love💛
Love the fact Da Brat is being fair and not just agreeing with Yandy. Yandy do need to consider Mendecees feeling and input as well. Brat always keeps it real from what’s been displayed from her on tv
Mendeecee is like I'm leaving as soon as my money right. His face expressing is saying I'm out
I love Judy minding her own business 😂😂😂
Yandy is being very selfish and controlling in this situation!! Mandecees is 💯 correct in this situation. You can't be in a marriage making decisions like your single. I'm glad brat spoke sense to her.
She always been like that
That's why his moma dont like her
Yandy is the man😂
Mandeece just there
How can anyone not like brat she is a true class act she really marks every box❤
I always loved Brat so much I named my daughter after her (Shawntae)
One of the realest convos I heard in a min. All great point of views as far as parenting and marriage conversations that need to be had. Its their business....but good to hear back and forth dialog trying to come up with positive solutions. Well done crew 😎
No judgment here. Bless everybody involved.
Brat is just the best all around, she is very nice and pretty in person
I love how Judy is minding her purple painting pumpkin business😂😂
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
TELL HER BRAT BECAUSE YOU KNOW IT'S NOT RIGHT BECAUSE YOU BEEN THROUGH IT WITH YOUR WIFE YOU MADE SURE SHE WAS OK WITH IT YOU BOTH DECIDED IT TOGETHER YANDY STOP YOUR HUSBAND IS NOT OK WITH IT
I just love how Judy was very non verbal in this conversation. 😂😂😂😂 she said I’m focused on this 🤬 pumpkin… 🤣🤣😂😂😂🤭
How is his question too far away but yours isn’t?
That’s weird behavior. Didn’t she adopt a kid while he was gone too and he wasn’t ok with it? What’s the point of having a partner if you don’t consider their thoughts?
Crazy 🤪 😜 🤪
But that child was damn near 18 and besides the way he said " If you went to jail I don't know if I could hold you down"
Doesn't he have other children outside of their relationship/marriage since they've been together?
@@adoreivette7373👀
Because their not legally married
Judy tryna mind her business 🤣
Not really. She would've stayed home or stayed out of the scene if that was the case
I love how that brat is being so honest much love n respect ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
People be selfish and create our own downfall, then we say it's bad luck. She's selfish.
Judy with her head down and her pumpkin is a whole vibe! LOL
Listen Judy be MINDING HER BUSINESS 😂😂😂😂😂
Do. Not. Lie. To. Your. Children. Period.
Of Course He is Wise To Think About Those Things. From What I Understand Yandy Agreed To Do That For Her Sister Without Even Bringing it Up To Mendeecee. That is Not How Making Big Decisions Go. A Marriage is a Partnership and Every Decision Effects Both Parties. 9x💯
I gotta cousin who was born like this...he being the donated egg...he is a 37 year old man struggling with the fact that his "bio mom" (egg donor) didn't raise him but raised his other siblings. He somehow feel that she just didn't want him. It has affected his mental health A LOT because the mother he always knew (his actual aunt) has passed away and he was her only child. He feels like he has no one now. Yancy better think about who else is affected when she donate this egg.
Right. Thank you for sharing this.
No offense to your cousin but that is just crazy people do this all the time. Why would anyone be upset with the woman that donates her egg but not upset with a man that donates his sperm?? All these comments make absolutely no sense to me. I'm not saying your cousin's feelings are not valid but they really are A little inconsiderate. Why would he feel that way even after being told to process. Knowing that the woman's egg was just a donor. I'm currently going through this to where I am trying to decide what to do and how to do it with the same process and this is the first time I have heard so many negative things about this process in particular. All of the children produced from this process that I have talked to are very happy and healthy and understand wholeheartedly how they even came into this world and are extremely in very thankful. The women egg donors husbands agreed to the process because they understood some women just cannot produce. I think it's the selflessness in the clothes mindness of a lot of people who just want to be stuck up pricks
There are plenty of stories like this out in the world. Her husband is just being extremely selfish and most of the children I met from these most of the children I met from This process are very happy and very healthy and as adults they fully understand what the process was, how it went and whom their egg donors are. I have also met other women doing this same process but has to go to a sperm bank and those adult children are also happy and healthy some of them with their own families now. Y'all are some inconsiderate pricks in these comments
@raychelgray8217 I think the difference is that the relationship is too close. This child will likely play with and or grow up around Yandy's children who will technically be their siblings. The child may start to compare thier life to the life of thier siblings (legal cousins) and become resentful. It's very different from picking out a donor in a book that you have zero connection to and never know.
@raychelgray8217 "No offense to your cousin" but then continue with offensive words?? Remember, you are the one LOOKING for an egg donor not the "egg" itself. Until you wear those shoes you need to STFU! You might know people born out of a donor situation that is happy but now you see the opinions/situations of others who aren't. You're saying that Yandy's husband is selfish and so are you! You gotta be selfish to want what you want instead of taking the hand you got dealt. Now IF you find a donor you better hope everything work out and you have a happy kid because my cousin struggle with unaliving himself over this very thing.
It will definitely be a point of contention now and in the future. And it's a lot to think about "before " you do something like this.
And that's why I love da brat she kept it real with her friend.
I understand his concerns and Yandy hasn’t done a good enough job to ease his concerns. I think it’s a beautiful thing that she’s over her egg to her sister, and hopefully he sees that as well❤
I adopted my niece….
Then she had a daughter….
I adopted her as well….
They know I am biological there aunt…
But I am the legal mother….
We living an amazing life NEXT!
And that’s how you do it!!! Tell the kids the truth!!!! Now imagine if you told them you was they real mother, and they found out otherwise. As a kid that was a ward of the court this is the only way to do it
consulting and being considerate of her husband...
Two different things tho😂😂
@@ladylowe3917 not when it comes to raising the child and the child knowing the truth.
Be it adoption , custody, guardianship , sperm bank or egg donation. It’s all the same in the end. It’s my/our child. Period
@@ladylowe3917Exactly! 😂 Like what?!?
Girl no! He said no
She should have the final decision when it comes to her body, but he should have at least known before she did that 🤷🏾♀️
@@brookeh21they are team, she was no longer 1 when they married. He said no. And nobody knows what kind resentment that child may or may not have. I would have just told her no to begin with.
@@ngm5819 he said no and she said yes. If they were truly a team they would be able to compromise. However, this is not a compromisable situation. It's either one way or the other and since it's her body, she makes the decision and the decision is yes. If it was his body, he makes the final decision. 🤷🏾♀️
@@ngm5819 Guess what. He doesn't have the final say and he's not her boss. Its her egg, her body and her cousin, thus its her choice, so Eff a "no". She can do it if she wants.
@@ngm5819 Were they a team when he broke the law and got sent to prison? Didn't think so, so hush.
Da Brat is keeping it real, Yandy Check!!! 😂
This woman is selfish, manipulative and her husband needs a backbone. This is so disrespectful I just can’t wrap my head around her thinking.
Judy was like 😮😮😮😮😮 lol she just kept painting lol
Yandy is selfish af. She doesn’t take anyone’s feelings or thoughts into account but only her own. This lady does the most for attention and that’s why she wants to be the surrogate. For attention, not to help. I don’t know any man who would openly agree to this in a marriage with kids of your own. Just ridiculous.
Soooooooo selfish!!!!!
She makes me sick
Yes I agree 👍 💯
VERRRRY !! Only cares bout herself & her money !! Flash bak to the 2nd season on L&H NY.
1000% TRUE honestly Yandy has always rubbed me the wrong way. Yandy has always been selfish. Everything she does isn’t from the goodness of her heart it’s all to “ make her look good”. First of all she didn’t even discuss the egg donation with her husband she just had it set she was not only going to do it but also help fund it smh. Mandeeses mama nd baby mother tried to warn everyone about her too. I can’t wait to see what happens because this is something I really don’t believe Mandeese is gonna give in to as he shouldn’t PERIOD!!
JUDY HAS A LOT TO SAY AND THANK YOU BRAT FOR FOR BEING TRUTHFUL AND NOT BEING A GO ALONG FRIEND. ❤
YANDY IS OUT OF COMPLETE AND TOTAL ORDER!
That she is. Women need to let the man head the house. That's God's order not the other way around. This isn't good at all.
DaBrat your going to have your own QUESTIONS from your child ???
Da Brat is being logical❤ love the way she speaks her mind unapologetically
Brat is right. She always had good sense.
Yandy is a handful and treats her husband as if he’s a child😂😂
He always acted like 1.
He acts like one
He wanna run everything let that woman help her sister and get over it damnn😅
Mendecee had a baby on Yandy but he tripping about her donating a egg to her family member 😂you can't make this shit up
Yet they dont want to talk about that ❤❤❤❤@@louveniawilliast9178
Yandy doesn't move like she's married, like he said, yandy do what she wants to do
Brat is DOPE!!! She spit truth regardless. Which is why I love my sis!!! She keep it real.❤
A mommy is also who raised you, not just conceived and birthed. Simple
It’s not always that simple to someone who is in the position looking at their birth parent knowing they voluntarily gave them to someone else to be raised. It’s always deeper or people wouldn’t have messed up relationships with their biological family members now add other variables 🥵
@@morgan8274 simple referring to how it could be told.
Right cause some of the ones who raised you is there before the 1 that birth you 💯💯💯💯
BS!!! As a child whose mother was murdered when I was 6 months old this ain’t remotely close to the truth. You will always want your natural mother it doesn’t matter who the hell raised you. My aunt raised me and I loved her until she passed when I was 6. But once I found out about my real mother I carry her with me even more so than my aunt who was my mother and gave me all the good things about myself to this day. What you said is BS
@@catrinab888regardless of how it's told the truth will eventually be revealed. Naturally people want to know who their biological parents are if raised by someone else.
I think Yandy treats him this way because he was asked if the shoe was on the other foot and she had to do four years in prison would he wait for her like she waited for him and stuck by him while he did four years in prison and he said "I don't know what I would do"... Yandy was very upset and started crying...so I think that's why she treats him like she does and doesn't care about his opinion on important issues...
I remember that! Wow, that sounds like she carries a grudge. Good observation
Bingo
Makes sense
Bingo
I wish that was the reason that she's doing this, but it's not. Yandy has been doing Mendeecees that way since they've been on this show. She always making big decisions before she talks to him.
He just mad she's doing something that doesn't directly benefit him and isn't about him. And he's not thinking about all the ways she's supported him when it didn't benefit her or make her look good. People looked at her crazy for taking that on but she did it for him.