Listen here, if as someone who is has been receiving end of the silent treatment, I have with my family including my sister who has been giving the silent treatment since 2021 in Jan till now. She treats me like a ghost like I don't exist. I tried to patch things up since 2021 and her attitude towards me hasn't changed. The silent treatment is emotional abuse, the side effects it has on your loved ones is deadly. I become depressed, suicidal, gained weight, my self esteem was impaired and severe headaches. Go research about it and read deeper into it why it is as bad as physical abuse even psychologists have noted that. But the saddest thing is that it ruined the perception I have of my sister to this point that when I graduated from varsity next year, I am permanently cutting off my sister out of my life because I don't need this energy in my life, even my own mother agrees with me about me letting her go out of my life because her behavior towards me has destroyed my wellbeing. But I won't lie this experience made me stronger to this point that I realize I don't crack under pressure but will NEVER I MEAN NEVER tolerate this type of behavior from anybody. Silent treatment destroys relationships with your loved ones.
I'm so sorry motswala, I can relate ❤. Only love from this side. You may have felt like you lost a loved one but look how many sisters and brothers you gained on here ❤
Eish* sorry for the grammar mistakes I was rushing to put down my thoughts that I didn't read it 5 times. But thank you guys for the sweet comments, like I meant to imply I'm moving out the house next year so I won't see her again for good.
I certainly dish out silent treatment when i feel i have expressed my concerns over again. I will not be addressing the same issues multiple times. One thing about it people know exactly what they are doing and you heard me the first time. So if you not prepared to act right I’m gonna stay silent. The thing is you cant mistreat people then expect them to treat you nicely
Interesting topic Kamo! Bathong nna I've learnt that some bonds don't overcome the silent treatment. In the absence of conflict, some people just stay quiet, for no particular reason as far as the connection is concerned. Weeks, months pass by, next thing it's a year later and things are no longer the same. I've learnt to adapt to the changes. As uncomfortable as it might get, sometimes. Adapt and live life.
Nothing grates my nipples like the silent treatment! It's one thing to take a pause and process because you want to be rational in your response to conflict, but it's not the same as burying your head in the sand of silence hoping the issue goes away.
I only go silent when i can't articulate what i'm feeling , i will speak when i've unpacked but i will let you know , i used to be the silent person who never spoke about what hurts me but i understood that doesn't serve anyone its better for people to know how they made you feel whether you meant to hurt them or not, whether they agree or not
Loved this❤❤❤ can the next chat be about "holding grudges or people not moving on and constantly bringing the same thing up no matter how many times you apologize." I have a lot on my chest 🤣
Yoh Kamo, this discussion is so vital… next thing people are just pretending to be okay with one another instead of confronting the elephant in the room!
Motswala after a long time of playing this "Tom and Jerry "game I told myself that if a person cannot tell you what you did wrong or use silent treatment when you speak up for yourself, sista remove yourself ooo! I'm not going to be matching energies .I'll still do good to you and God will handle it . I aint finna miss my mark to get to your mark . Having a relationship with God will also get you together . Remove yourself nah...you can't go back to a snake and ask why it bit you.
It’s happened to me with a friend I dearly DEARLY loved! They just stopped talking to me, I asked what happened they answered “Nothing”. Worst thing she was also a classmate, I had to see her daily and didn’t even greet me. From communicating from when I wake up until I fall asleep for total silent treatment. I would’ve appreciated if they told me what I did and just said they did not want to be friends, would be a better thing. Yho, I’ll never let anyone hurt me like that.
I'm sad that you think you did something wrong? Forgive yourself for thinking that you were the cause for the shift and focus on the connections that choose to stay. Maybe it was meant to be a short journey. I'm of the firm believe that your people will always gravitate towards you. ❤️✨
Nothing is more degrading than silent treatment, its a reflection of a bad communicator, open your mouth express yourself. I used to even apologize for things i never did. It triggers me
I prefer to immediately talk about it or 2 day max of silent treatment. In the past I've gone silent on a best friend, the hurt was too deep and I felt didn't even deserve me discussing the disconnect. I still love her dearly but the hurting was just a huge huge red flag.
Yho motswala I just saw the title and clicked I am currently going through the "silent treatment" my man's always throws his toys around and gives me the silent treatment it used to hurt me but now I'm just numb to it I just go silent as well especially when I've asked him what did I do and he went silent...it's been 6 days 🙄
I'm biiiiig on communication especially in relationship because are we not trying to be with each other and build and I say it from get go...so why can't we just talk and heal together?!👀 Anyways love you mostwala😘
I think you did this for me cause what the heck… I am always confrontational about things be it friends or my partner and i think it has made me toxic cause I end up saying things I really don’t mean but also the truth. So silence is being childish but also helps at times.
I get what you saying about expressing how bad your day was instead of keeping quiet & what not but sometimes you’d find that you express how bad your day was & how you not okay & the partner or whoever makes things about them all the time so now you find it difficult to say because you know it is going to spark conflict of which you don’t have the energy for it at that point of time. Yes silent treatment is wrong but sometimes you just resort to it because you feel unheard and misunderstood.
I do go silent when I have expressed how I feel about something that did not sit well with me, then we resolve it. Then you go back doing the same thing repeatedly after we have previously discussed. I feel that is disrespectful and do not see the need to be repetitive. You get people that would trigger you and make you look crazy
Someone who is very close to me did this to me at first I thought it's just a passing thing ngabona ukuthi ayy it's serious and I decided to block her because now it seems as if she's done with me,she knows how I hate silent treatment we've spoken about it so many times and she does it still
Yho as someone who experiences it and experienced it, from family, friends, partners, in life. I prefer to communicate, but that's also hard because my approach can be completely off, very emotional and passionate (based off of years of being silenced, misunderstood and so on and so forth and my inner child screaming at me to voice out my opinions and emotions ). So to be honest I feel like I over communicate, but ke setse alone on this side of communication still feeling silenced, unheard and misunderstood. So aketse Motswala 😔.
Also nothing like being the only one who communicates 🙁. Even that thing is taxing man nkari ke burden nou, because I'm talking ande wena you're silent. Yho I have a lot to contribute here, but mostly that I feel abandoned by the people in my life, who I have explicitly communicated with 😞💔
Even now, I spent time writing a message (communicating so that you don't feel a way) and I got a response that has me questioninh why I even took my time, why do I ever take my time yho Kamo 🙁. Mara batho ba hurtana weitsi
Mina it triggers me a lot because I’m one person who believes in communication and voicing my feelings and vice versa…. But if you silent treatment me oh hun I do it back in ten folds 😭😭😭… it’s more like a reciprocation of your behaviour
I was once in a relationship with a guy like that and listen that "relationship " didn't last even 5 months because excuse me princess who's suppose to baby you into talking about what's hurting you at your big age 🚮
I bought a friend a birthday gift she’s always been wanting she kept quite for like 3 days and all I got was.. thanks for the gift , in my mind I was I understand people get busy but guurl 3 days Yooh I was so hurt been quite since then ( maybe I take gifting too serious) and I can’t say I bought her what she didn’t like it’s what she wanted 🤷♀️ mind you we would speak on daily basis
Lmao not you talking about me, a friend is currently ghosting me, the last time we spoke it was nice and all, and the next day was her daughter's birthday, I called so many times no answer and I sent her text still no answer, many days later I sent a long text telling her that I don't appreciate what she's doing because we didn't have an argument or anything, last time we spoke was all fun, gathering ideas for her daughter's birthday party, next thing motho is silent, until today. This is the second time because first time she did and I told I didn't like that and she told me I had not done anything at all she was just going through some things.
I am the friend that ghosts my friends, so I feel like I can relate to your friend. Sometimes you just need time to yourself, to just be by yourself, while sometimes depression gets the better of us , where you’re really sad and just want to remain in that funk. It’s wrong to not communicate that, but how do you communicate to your friend and explain how your feeling when you don’t even know how to stop yourself from feeling like that. It’s not silent treatment because we are not trying to punish the next person, but we don’t want to burden you with our feelings🤍 Please don’t be too hard on your friend, she might just be going through something like she says.🤍
@sylvia3249 It really hurts not knowing I said or did something she didn't like, it happened before and we spoke about it, now again? What makes issues worse is she posts on her stories and statuses but can't take tow minutes to say "Hey, you didn't do anything wrong I'm just going through some stuff", I'd understand and give her some space until she's fine. It's been exactly a month. Last time she did this for 4/5 months.
Tjo I talk a lot but should you give me silent treatment, my lawd I will forever keep my peace. I will pretend you not there and live my life right in front of you.
Or how about you just say, I'm not okay,may we please discuss it tomorrow to avoid saying things that will make the whole situation worse. That way I will not feel like I'm emotionally abused.....let's just be considerate in the midst of it all.
You look gorgeous babe ❤ where is the top from ? Sana ! If you are NOT my husband or mother’s child, you can go die 😒 I’m currently going through that with my cousin sisters. It’s not the first time, so I’m kinda’ aware of what’s happening now. I’m not sure when it really started, but first time I noticed was when I got my first good job. They were evidently not happy for me (other people hugged me to say congratulations, they didn’t) Second time - when I invited them to my lobola negotiations and they didn’t come. That hurt me so bad, cause I needed them. They didn’t call, they didn’t check and never asked, no WhatsApp messages- nothing. Now it’s worse cause my family and I have moved abroad, so you can imagine 😂 I’ve stopped trying. I give what I get now. I used to be the ‘get over it and move on’ type of person, but now I don’t have that time. The ladies are spot on - silent treatment is abuse, don’t accept it Love you K ❤
I give you a day or two, if you give me slient treatment for more then that. I won't even want to know why you ignored me in the first place anymore. I believe communication is important, we are the next generation of parents and adults. Slient treatment, no ways, girl/boy bye I'm GONE shame. It's worse if we are in a relationship how will I marry someone who cannot communicate🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Listen here, if as someone who is has been receiving end of the silent treatment, I have with my family including my sister who has been giving the silent treatment since 2021 in Jan till now. She treats me like a ghost like I don't exist. I tried to patch things up since 2021 and her attitude towards me hasn't changed. The silent treatment is emotional abuse, the side effects it has on your loved ones is deadly. I become depressed, suicidal, gained weight, my self esteem was impaired and severe headaches. Go research about it and read deeper into it why it is as bad as physical abuse even psychologists have noted that. But the saddest thing is that it ruined the perception I have of my sister to this point that when I graduated from varsity next year, I am permanently cutting off my sister out of my life because I don't need this energy in my life, even my own mother agrees with me about me letting her go out of my life because her behavior towards me has destroyed my wellbeing. But I won't lie this experience made me stronger to this point that I realize I don't crack under pressure but will NEVER I MEAN NEVER tolerate this type of behavior from anybody. Silent treatment destroys relationships with your loved ones.
Oh my goodness I'm so sorry babe. I hope you are okay ❤️🤍
Babe I’m sorry you’re going through this🥹🤍
I'm so sorry motswala, I can relate ❤. Only love from this side. You may have felt like you lost a loved one but look how many sisters and brothers you gained on here ❤
Eish* sorry for the grammar mistakes I was rushing to put down my thoughts that I didn't read it 5 times. But thank you guys for the sweet comments, like I meant to imply I'm moving out the house next year so I won't see her again for good.
We're your sisters now❤
Kamo you are honestly the big sister that i never had but desperately needed and still need (I'm only 22🤣) no pressure motswala🤣❤️❤️
😅Gotchu 🤝🏾🤍
I certainly dish out silent treatment when i feel i have expressed my concerns over again. I will not be addressing the same issues multiple times. One thing about it people know exactly what they are doing and you heard me the first time. So if you not prepared to act right I’m gonna stay silent. The thing is you cant mistreat people then expect them to treat you nicely
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Some disconnections are a blessing in our lives….
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Hey Kamo, absolutely loved this ❤. Can the next topic be emotionally unavailable friends and how to attract emotionally available friends.
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"its your existence that triggers them" 👌💯
Interesting topic Kamo!
Bathong nna I've learnt that some bonds don't overcome the silent treatment.
In the absence of conflict, some people just stay quiet, for no particular reason as far as the connection is concerned. Weeks, months pass by, next thing it's a year later and things are no longer the same. I've learnt to adapt to the changes. As uncomfortable as it might get, sometimes. Adapt and live life.
Nothing grates my nipples like the silent treatment! It's one thing to take a pause and process because you want to be rational in your response to conflict, but it's not the same as burying your head in the sand of silence hoping the issue goes away.
Cause why don’t we talk about it & resolve it🥲
I only go silent when i can't articulate what i'm feeling , i will speak when i've unpacked but i will let you know , i used to be the silent person who never spoke about what hurts me but i understood that doesn't serve anyone its better for people to know how they made you feel whether you meant to hurt them or not, whether they agree or not
Makes so much sense 🤍
Loved this❤❤❤ can the next chat be about "holding grudges or people not moving on and constantly bringing the same thing up no matter how many times you apologize." I have a lot on my chest 🤣
LMAO this should be interesting, let’s make it our next conversation 🤍
Eish 🫣
Loved the video , you look stunning, love that top you wearing! Miss your fashion content
❤😊Honestly you master these sit downs love it 😊
Preciate it🙏🏽🥹
Yoh Kamo, this discussion is so vital… next thing people are just pretending to be okay with one another instead of confronting the elephant in the room!
Yk💔
Motswala after a long time of playing this "Tom and Jerry "game I told myself that if a person cannot tell you what you did wrong or use silent treatment when you speak up for yourself, sista remove yourself ooo!
I'm not going to be matching energies .I'll still do good to you and God will handle it .
I aint finna miss my mark to get to your mark .
Having a relationship with God will also get you together .
Remove yourself nah...you can't go back to a snake and ask why it bit you.
You’ve put it so well🙌🏽
It’s happened to me with a friend I dearly DEARLY loved! They just stopped talking to me, I asked what happened they answered “Nothing”. Worst thing she was also a classmate, I had to see her daily and didn’t even greet me. From communicating from when I wake up until I fall asleep for total silent treatment.
I would’ve appreciated if they told me what I did and just said they did not want to be friends, would be a better thing.
Yho, I’ll never let anyone hurt me like that.
I'm sad that you think you did something wrong?
Forgive yourself for thinking that you were the cause for the shift and focus on the connections that choose to stay. Maybe it was meant to be a short journey.
I'm of the firm believe that your people will always gravitate towards you. ❤️✨
They probably told you what’s wrong but you never listened. A person cannot be expressing what they don’t like over and over again n nothing changes
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@@lebohangm7252 shut up!
Thoroughly enjoyed this. ❤
That green under your eyes is stunning😍 definitely ate
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Welcome, hope you stay forever🤍
Nothing is more degrading than silent treatment, its a reflection of a bad communicator, open your mouth express yourself. I used to even apologize for things i never did. It triggers me
I can literally tell it does, I’m sorry🤍
I love you Kamoo❤ cannot stop watching your vlogs. New subie here...
Welcome, I hope you stay forever 🤍
We blessed kule fam lemme catch up motswala ❤❤
I prefer to immediately talk about it or 2 day max of silent treatment.
In the past I've gone silent on a best friend, the hurt was too deep and I felt didn't even deserve me discussing the disconnect. I still love her dearly but the hurting was just a huge huge red flag.
Yho motswala I just saw the title and clicked I am currently going through the "silent treatment" my man's always throws his toys around and gives me the silent treatment it used to hurt me but now I'm just numb to it I just go silent as well especially when I've asked him what did I do and he went silent...it's been 6 days 🙄
Sana?? I would perish 😭
@@prudence_segwapa motswala it used to hurt...not anymore hey I actually don't care anymore
@@bubbles4787I really hope we heal from such emotional tortures…Sending love & light🕯️❤️🫂
6 DAYS?!. Yhoo, sit him down. Face to face. Rather an argument erupts shame..
Omg , never think you going through things alone 😭😭👎🏼. It's been a month & at this point I'm single
Wow this was an eye opener, I'm one person who can't express themselves but after watching ngizozama ngempela, the damage it does to omunye umuntu 😢😢
Take your time🤍
I'm biiiiig on communication especially in relationship because are we not trying to be with each other and build and I say it from get go...so why can't we just talk and heal together?!👀
Anyways love you mostwala😘
LY down🤍
I think you did this for me cause what the heck… I am always confrontational about things be it friends or my partner and i think it has made me toxic cause I end up saying things I really don’t mean but also the truth. So silence is being childish but also helps at times.
Great video mama❤️❤️😁
I get what you saying about expressing how bad your day was instead of keeping quiet & what not but sometimes you’d find that you express how bad your day was & how you not okay & the partner or whoever makes things about them all the time so now you find it difficult to say because you know it is going to spark conflict of which you don’t have the energy for it at that point of time. Yes silent treatment is wrong but sometimes you just resort to it because you feel unheard and misunderstood.
I hear you
I do go silent when I have expressed how I feel about something that did not sit well with me, then we resolve it. Then you go back doing the same thing repeatedly after we have previously discussed. I feel that is disrespectful and do not see the need to be repetitive. You get people that would trigger you and make you look crazy
This makes sense 🙌🏽
Please she’s a starrr🌟😭❤️🔥
Love it here ❤️❤️
Our fire is back 😂😂😂🥰🥰
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Someone who is very close to me did this to me at first I thought it's just a passing thing ngabona ukuthi ayy it's serious and I decided to block her because now it seems as if she's done with me,she knows how I hate silent treatment we've spoken about it so many times and she does it still
“I’ll have a response for you after two business days” 😂😭
Please😭
Yho as someone who experiences it and experienced it, from family, friends, partners, in life. I prefer to communicate, but that's also hard because my approach can be completely off, very emotional and passionate (based off of years of being silenced, misunderstood and so on and so forth and my inner child screaming at me to voice out my opinions and emotions ). So to be honest I feel like I over communicate, but ke setse alone on this side of communication still feeling silenced, unheard and misunderstood. So aketse Motswala 😔.
Also nothing like being the only one who communicates 🙁. Even that thing is taxing man nkari ke burden nou, because I'm talking ande wena you're silent. Yho I have a lot to contribute here, but mostly that I feel abandoned by the people in my life, who I have explicitly communicated with 😞💔
Even now, I spent time writing a message (communicating so that you don't feel a way) and I got a response that has me questioninh why I even took my time, why do I ever take my time yho Kamo 🙁. Mara batho ba hurtana weitsi
This topic has affected a lot of people m wasn’t aware 🥺it’s a lot mama Yho
@@kamo_leslie 🤗❤️
A notification from Kamo on my birthday 🎉🎉the best❤
Happy birthday gorgeous 🎉
Love that top you wearing m'tswala, if u don't mind were is it from? ❤
Shein 🤍
Mina it triggers me a lot because I’m one person who believes in communication and voicing my feelings and vice versa…. But if you silent treatment me oh hun I do it back in ten folds 😭😭😭… it’s more like a reciprocation of your behaviour
I hear you🤝🏾
I was once in a relationship with a guy like that and listen that "relationship " didn't last even 5 months because excuse me princess who's suppose to baby you into talking about what's hurting you at your big age 🚮
Became what you mean we not gonna sit down & talk about what’s bothering you🥲
Ooh kamo o montle motswala ❤❤❤
Tanki hle😍
I bought a friend a birthday gift she’s always been wanting she kept quite for like 3 days and all I got was.. thanks for the gift , in my mind I was I understand people get busy but guurl 3 days Yooh I was so hurt been quite since then ( maybe I take gifting too serious) and I can’t say I bought her what she didn’t like it’s what she wanted 🤷♀️ mind you we would speak on daily basis
Ohh babe 🥺
@@kamo_leslie Yooh 🥹 it’s okay hun ❤️
Yhoooo guys shame im toxic cause silent treatment is my thing think it stems from my childhood my granny did it so much
Lmao not you talking about me, a friend is currently ghosting me, the last time we spoke it was nice and all, and the next day was her daughter's birthday, I called so many times no answer and I sent her text still no answer, many days later I sent a long text telling her that I don't appreciate what she's doing because we didn't have an argument or anything, last time we spoke was all fun, gathering ideas for her daughter's birthday party, next thing motho is silent, until today. This is the second time because first time she did and I told I didn't like that and she told me I had not done anything at all she was just going through some things.
I am the friend that ghosts my friends, so I feel like I can relate to your friend. Sometimes you just need time to yourself, to just be by yourself, while sometimes depression gets the better of us , where you’re really sad and just want to remain in that funk. It’s wrong to not communicate that, but how do you communicate to your friend and explain how your feeling when you don’t even know how to stop yourself from feeling like that. It’s not silent treatment because we are not trying to punish the next person, but we don’t want to burden you with our feelings🤍
Please don’t be too hard on your friend, she might just be going through something like she says.🤍
@sylvia3249 It really hurts not knowing I said or did something she didn't like, it happened before and we spoke about it, now again? What makes issues worse is she posts on her stories and statuses but can't take tow minutes to say "Hey, you didn't do anything wrong I'm just going through some stuff", I'd understand and give her some space until she's fine. It's been exactly a month. Last time she did this for 4/5 months.
This makes a lot of sense
Watching it with my cup of tea 🥰
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I think in your next life you should be Nigerian I love that accent you make 😂😂😂😂
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Silent treatment hurts... So this other guy and myself would talk and all of a sudden he doesn't talk to me..
Personally I can't handle silent treatment, I prefer we address the issue now and move on😊
Finally!!! Where have u been girl💃💃💃
Silent treatment is the worst yhuu haa.aa 😩😪💔. I will Leave shem
It really sucks
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Tjo I talk a lot but should you give me silent treatment, my lawd I will forever keep my peace. I will pretend you not there and live my life right in front of you.
You give me silent treatment you’re out. Period. Coz you’re grown, talk. Tell me if you want space. Talk! I’m very strict honestly.
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Or how about you just say, I'm not okay,may we please discuss it tomorrow to avoid saying things that will make the whole situation worse. That way I will not feel like I'm emotionally abused.....let's just be considerate in the midst of it all.
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Silent treatment is abusive,pls. Had an ex who would do that and you know whaaaat !? 😢
How are u reacting to this silent treatment kodwa I’m giving it to my patner
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You look gorgeous babe ❤ where is the top from ?
Sana ! If you are NOT my husband or mother’s child, you can go die 😒
I’m currently going through that with my cousin sisters. It’s not the first time, so I’m kinda’ aware of what’s happening now.
I’m not sure when it really started, but first time I noticed was when I got my first good job. They were evidently not happy for me (other people hugged me to say congratulations, they didn’t)
Second time - when I invited them to my lobola negotiations and they didn’t come. That hurt me so bad, cause I needed them. They didn’t call, they didn’t check and never asked, no WhatsApp messages- nothing.
Now it’s worse cause my family and I have moved abroad, so you can imagine 😂 I’ve stopped trying. I give what I get now. I used to be the ‘get over it and move on’ type of person, but now I don’t have that time.
The ladies are spot on - silent treatment is abuse, don’t accept it
Love you K ❤
Thanks for sharing😊… I got the top from Shein🤍
0:06 Hi Cc kamo m an upcoming youtuber so would like you to do a vlog on how to grow your channel/Do & Don’t as a #smallyoutuber…Thank you 😊😊
Hey. you can watch this video th-cam.com/video/The2PxwjnGU/w-d-xo.htmlsi=qxlEODyhqwVuMsCj
I give you a day or two, if you give me slient treatment for more then that. I won't even want to know why you ignored me in the first place anymore. I believe communication is important, we are the next generation of parents and adults. Slient treatment, no ways, girl/boy bye I'm GONE shame. It's worse if we are in a relationship how will I marry someone who cannot communicate🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
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