Still in love with a girl I haven’t spoken to in nearly 7 years. The only person I ever felt appreciated me, everything was easy with her. How dare she be so perfect is so fitting.
If you trully feel like that person was that special to you , you should just try to hang out or just talk...everything can get good....maybe she is thinking the same :)) , take care !
I get it, but you can’t go on without communicating. She might be a whole new person now, and I get that it would be heartbreaking to see that, but maybe she is still the girl you love! Find a way to contact her, hang out, and hope/pray for the best
This song always makes me think of my wife. I never had deep trust for anyone but no matter how hard I tried to avoid trusting her, how hard I avoided falling in love with her (to avoid heart break) "I just couldn't stop myself, how dare she be so perfect" it just overwhelmed me and here we are 8 yrs later.
To all my brahs out there going through a harsh breakup: All that matters in the end, is that you loved. Is that you could, and are able to love. That you were truly invested and were capable of giving your heart to another person. If things went like this, it means that you either weren't meant for each other, or that they don't deserve the very gift you gave them. You are awesome, and you deserve the same.
It went like that because you didn't fight for her. Most women test you in that situation and because women are confusing by nature men can never know what there thinking or feeling so men make the mistake of not fighting and just leaving. She still loves you but when you leave her that's an insult the biggest insult ever to them and it makes them resent you. If you love a woman fight for her. Don't go to the next piece of ass that's willing to get you wet. Fight for her. Break down her walls. When she says let me go you say no I'm not letting you go. She will invite you back into her heart because you were smart enough to know exactly what she was doing and that was testing you. If she says let her go you do the opposite and stay. Women are confusing and they test us men all the time. If you leave she feels like you never loved her it's an insult. If you stay you prove to her that you really love her.
@@fatwalletoobe792 or maybe idk, if she tells you to let her go, do it? trust me, women dont "test men". tf? and everyone is confusing by nature, not just women. or,,, yk people fall out of love and they leave? bro you sound dense asf lmfao
The best song to tell how i feel. Really strong lyrics. My girlfriend kissed another boy and then she said she feels nothing to me. I dont know what to do, but this song helped me a little bit. Thank you "My darkest days"
I'll tell you what to do. Don't let one person define your life, only you can do that. I can't imagine how that feels so take this with a bag of salt but just an advice (: I hope you are doing better
Breaking up with your hs sweetheart is a different kind of pain. You spend so much time thinking youre going into the next step. When its over you fall from heaven and suddenly everything is hell. Ever since then ive been a shell of who i used to be. Better or worse i have to go into the next stage of life. No matter how lonesome it be
This song doesnt make me sad, not anymore. I was in love with a girl that this song could have easily been about. But i healed from that broken heart and now this song makes me think of my future and the girl im falling in love with now. This song makes me happy cuz i think of this perfect girl.
I found this song unexpectedly and when I read the lyrics everything matched my life right now. I met a girl and she just does what she wants with me. I met her, we dated a little then she went to another city where she found a boyfriend while I was dying for her. I still loved her through all the bullshit and when she broke up with her bf she came right to me. She was so fucking weak and I just stood by her side. And then she met another boy and now she can't decide WHO to choose. "What gives her the right, to tear up my life?"
+Dimitar Kolev I feel for you dude but hey life moves on you just have to move on with your life trust me theres millions of girls out there just keep your head up
+Dimitar Kolev if she loves you that should have made her not love anyone else i have been in a similar thing like that and trust me if you try to keep loving her she will slowly leave you until there is nothing left of her move on now before it is too late
Also a little bit late but i know how you feel i felt the same thing once and it killed me, now i almost can't feel any love anymore and even if that was not enough i couldn't think anything good on some moments things like suicide where going through my head so everyone that had something like what was discribed in the song or what i had know that you're not alone there are other people that felt the same thing and if they didnt give up to this world then you shall not eather and at last im sorry for my bad english its not my main language XD
I miss the my darkest days style of songs, like Matt is singing for tdg but the songs don't have the same feel, most tdg songs portray a lot more anger
I LOVE this band. I love their music. Their sound and presentation that goes with it. Absolutely one of my favorite bands. I couldn't help myself when it was both for me.
Its been almost a year. Trust me, the pain fades. I felt nothing hearing this compared to how I would months ago. Give it a lot of time you'll be alright
This days I wanted to listen to music but I couldn't find a single song that talked about how I feel, THIS is the song I was searching for I REALLY LOVE this song.
Juliuz Pulvera It may seem like it, but its still worth fighting for. God died and rose again for love's sake. That tells you how powerful and meaningful it is. Yes, it will chew you up and spit you out, but only love is worth it. At least, that's my take. I'm still trying to reach someone who apparently wants nothing to do with me, because she's the one girl I'm unable to walk away from, the only one I'm willing to fight for at almost any cost. As a Christian, I belong to God first and foremost, so that's where I draw the line. And contrary to this song, I don't blame the gal I'm chasing for being who she is. I do agree that maybe I shouldn't have fallen for her though, but you know how that goes. Some things you just can't resist. Dare to love anyway. I repeat, dare to love!
This describes the situation I currently am in although I haven't gotten to date her... She just makes me happy everytime I see her but now.... After I find out she doesn't slightly feel the way i feel towards her... Just... The agonizing pain of hearing they don't feel the same way...
kollin seek well I was dating someone for a month then they left me for someone else I still have feelings for her and she's acting g like she cares then she doesn't I k ow how you feel
I love this song. this is incredibly soulful music. i can see how the real romantics who really loved in their lives once wrote this song. and matt can do any song perfectly.
There's no person in this world is perfect. All are created by God with imperfections so that no one will boast. Maybe someone you know seems perfect to you (tho they are not) because they are different in some ways or some aspects in their life that you see in them and you compare them to (some) people you always accompanied with in your daily life.
This song I swear affects everyone that's ever been in love it's rare to find music like this anymore I just wish there was more like it these days oh well maybe one day
I just heard this song three days ago, even though I use to be a huge fan of this band lol Heard it off an AVM of Villainous and it represented the love of two characters perfectly. Song is now a favorite of mine and honestly it makes me realize that I do have regrets, regrets that’ll haunt me forever.
Damn, I never listened to anything from these guys but the bangers that made the radio, but damn I'm getting powerful Theory of a Deadman vibes and I love it.
If indeed she is the one made from your ribs she will not be anything but perfect for you. It is called grace. We don't deserve anything but it's grace.
I'm in love with my best friend... It hurts so much their fresh out of a relationship and I'm constantly comforting them.Telling them just how special they are and that anyone would be luckily to have them, only if they knew I was the one who truly wanted them, so Ren if you see this, love you
Honestly I’d tell them, before it’s too late. Better to be safe then sorry, trust me. There were a lot of girls that had a thing a for me in high school. Just make sure once you leave high school, that you get a good job and take care of that person. Don’t ever be a TH-camr or Twitch streamer, that shit takes condos and patients…. Those regrets will stay with me till I’m dead.
Take it from me, as I've been in that exact situation before: tell them. If you wait and wait and wait, you'll watch your chances rise and fall over and over and it will hurt more and more each time you miss one of those chances. If you really are their best friend, chances are they subconsciously (or in many cases consciously) feel the same way. I waited too long and lost my chance permanently. She's married and very happy. I've since moved on but it still stings every now and then when I think of the way I felt toward her. Don't be like me. Don't miss your chance, because you never know when it will be the last.
I dedicate this song to the one that got away. She's the one that introduced me to this band. Ironically, this song perfectly describes how I've been feeling. I will never forget you.
This is a perfect song to let my dad listen to because this song literally describes what he is going through and still wont get rid of this girl he likes. I also love the song
3 years and I’m finally over her today, the feeling is freeing. I was with her just under a year. At the beginning, everything was perfect. Later she was suicidal and abusive. Once she told me I was one of the only things in the world stopping her from ending herself, a hell of a weight to put on a 19 year old. If had never met her, she probably wouldn’t be around today, but she’d never admit it. I put up with it all because of what she was going through, the loss of her Dad and her Grandmas suicide. Up until that point we were the only 3 people that had ever truly loved her. I wanted to give her everything but after so much abuse from her end it was never enough. She was terrified that I was going to leave her, so she tried to slowly break down my self esteem so that I’d never leave. All it did was create the reason we broke up. I asked to be treated with respect, she wouldn’t admit her wrongs and lashed out. After we broke up she stalked me on one occasion. Every Saturday she’d get drunk and send me paragraphs of abuse telling that I was the worst person on earth. She couldn’t understand how we had ended things, so she lied to herself and claimed that I’d cheated on her, so instead of feeling as though she lost me she could hate me instead. This week I finally forgave her. For 3 years the memories of that experience haunted me. I’ve had other girlfriends but everything fell through over time. That experience made me the person I am today. I’m not angry anymore. You never apologised for what you did and for the happiness you robbed from me. Your suicide attempts and abuse made me hurt like nothing else. But I’ve been okay for a long time now and I’ve moved on with my life. I’m building myself up again Indi, you weren’t a good person, but I forgive you, and I hope you find happiness
They say guys are the liars. The cheaters. Well... I agree. Most are. But me.. I'm a lover and a keeper. It's the women who tease and lie and cheat. I'm dead inside because of this. My heart beats, but I don't feel. Not anymore. Women turn men like me into a liar. Into a cheater. If she ever accepts me.. I will never lie. Never cheat. But it will never happen. This song speaks to me.. Don't fall in love. It only tears your heart apart.
hey man, dont fall into this. she tore up my heart too. made me a liar. altough everything had an explaination. but she left. I never lied to her. but it doesnt matter now. its her loss. im a keeper and i desereve much better and so you are. you know you didnt lie. thats what fuckin important. i am dead inside too. but everything passes. with time, slowly. I hope you have a good friend with you since then and till now to make it go away, altough lots of time has passed. if not - reach out, im here for you dude. we can write about it or about anything. dont fall into this. love is cruel but only with the wrong person. you deserve better. remember it please.
Who would have guessed that Christmas 2020 this would be my most played song. This song describes my life perfectly right now, thanks My Darkest Days for actually writing my December 2020 anthem.
December is literally a cursed month for me. I have never held a relationship past this month. I don't like Xmas and I can't stand the cold. Fuck December
@@johnkongsaisy7014 sorry too hear, hope things get better for you soon. I can't do much for the cold, but hope you find someone that sticks by your side soon. One of these years will be different
@@PunGodFromOhio appreciate it man but the same shit just happened again. 3rd year in a row and counting. Tbh I wouldn't be surprised if I die in the month of December. In fact I'm low-key expecting it
@@johnkongsaisy7014 well, you got a 1 in 12 shot at it haha, but in all seriousness this life is a journey, sometimes you hit speed bumps and sometimes you crash, but you get back up and dust yourself off and go again. We don't know why things happen, but they do, we just gotta keep pushing towards better days.
Ahh... Well this resonates in a bittersweet way. I feel this way about a very special guy who lead me on hella deep then ghosted out of nowhere 😭 it's been 3 years and I still love him. No one else comes close, I just can't find myself attracted to anyone else. Feels like I'll be single for life after meeting him, I'd rather be alone than with anyone else 😂😅... Love is tricky but man it's worth it
All soul contracts are cancelled. All deals/pacts with evil dissolved. All chains broken. Lord please forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us. In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen You are loved. You are wanted. You are not a mistake. You are a miracle. You are free. Escape. God bless
This song hit me so hard, it was almost like it knew what I when through... There's a girl who I have a huge crush on... we went out as friends a couple of times... it wasn't easy to get together, because sometimes something came up and she coud'nt come. One day we saw a movie in my house, I wanted to ask her out, but I thought "no, too soon, wait a little". But things kept happening, we didn't se each other... and on day, one lucky bastard asked her out from her work... they have little in common and they've been together 3 years... We are still friends, and she knows what I feel... she feels very sorry, but she's staying with the other guy... because she's in love... It's been long, but still hurts like hell. I don't know if I'm in love... I don't think I can afford it...
I'm almost in the same situation as you. I told this girl how i felt many times, I don't know why I keep doing and it always ends the same way with her saying she doesn't feel the same. She's not seeing anybody though but it's still hard, just seeing her. We were super close too, we used to talk everyday and now I don't even see her at all, it's really tough.
@@15bellb Wow! It's been long... Well, like a soap opera... I'll explain and I'll try to be "short"... I ended up been depressed and did some traveling and voluntary work. After... 2 years, we still talked, but very little... One day she says to me that she broke up with that jerk and wanted to see me. And because I was so in love... We ended up dating. We became a couple... for about 2 years. Then... She wanted to go to her country (Colombia) to study and find work. I let her go because I thought she was coming back and I didn't want to be THAT type of boyfriend who doesn't let his girlfriend do stuff... Well, a few months later she said that she was going to stay and... That she met someone else... She blocked me 2 times because the new boyfriend didn't like me talking to her and when she blocked the second time... I was done. "Ok, that's how you wanted? Fine! Thanks for letting me know". I blocked her in every way and I haven't spoken to her ever since. I thing it was halfway 2019 the last time I think. It hurt, but I can't have her in my life anymore. This was just a summary, more happend but this is what happend. Sorry the story doesn't have a happy ending. The song still fits. Thanks for taking an interest, I hope I satisfied your curiosity. ;)
I have tumor induced aphasia and this tune and lyrics are what is in my head constantly. Right now the whole world is in tune with this and several other popular songs. But I recognize some of these lyrics. Fortunately I liked this song when it was popular.
Long time I heard this song I gave it to my ex when we broke up and now I can listen to it without crying hey guys time will heal it it's fine to fall in love just know it was for a reason and you'll get over it in time ☺️ I'm here if u need someone to talk too
My ex broke up with me after Thanksgiving, then Christmas eve told me we shouldnt talk anymore. She said it was her not me, which i believe because shenever knew what a healthy relationship looked like or felt. I got a call from her not too long ago, she wanted to meet up and catch up. While we were out she let slip she still had feelings for me, and i told her outright i still love her. We havent spoken since that unforgettable night. She may be damaged goods, but so am i, and i look passed all that and see her for the beautiful woman she is.
Idk who needs to hear this but God put it on my heart to say this. I was born dead, the doctors did CPR and God brought me back. When I was 2 years old I was diagnosed with kidney cancer. Every doctor my parents took me to said I was colicky. God lead us to a doctor at childrens hospital and he diagnoses me with kidney cancer. I had a wilms tumor on my left kidney the size of a softball. I went through chemothereapy and eventually got my kidney removed. I've been cancer free for 12 years! I've also been saved since i was 8. Al we have to do to be saved is ask and mean it from our heart and we will go to heaven when we die. If you remember anything that I'm saying let it be that all we have to do to be saved is ask and that god loves you and so do i! Idk who needed to hear this but God put it on my heart to say this. If anyone needs any prayers just reply to my comment. God loves you and so do I God bless you all!
this is my life but I'm a girl and he is a boy... Three days grace helped me up out of suicide because of him then I found this song which describes my life!😂😭
You are a fucked up human being. You should never, EVER say that somebody else is responsible for your suicidal feelings. Those feelings come from your own cold heart. Take it from one that's already frozen n black. You gotta train yourself to not let people affect you like that, because it's simply not their fault when EVERYTHING has the ability to affect you like that. Pull a Dizzy Wright, and Train Your Mind. I still do every day.
Sorry if I seem like a dick. But you have no idea what you are talking about, depression is often caused by biological issues such as hormone imbalances it is no one's fault if someone is feeling suicidal. Some people are more genetically disposed to such behaviours than others. Also you seem to be talking with near certainty about things you frankly have no way of knowing. Feelings don't come from your heart just so ya know. While I agree that suicide is almost never a reasonable solution, it's a better to not recommend solutions based on such a small amount of data as you'll cause more harm than good.
Jpython Lol, I have depression and anxiety and I don't know what I'm talking about? That's kind of ironic. She has every right to FEEL suicidal, I've been there, I think a lot of people have, but nobody should blame those feelings on other people. Simple as that. I'd like to know how that is a "recommended solution based on such a small amount of data." Lmfao that's petty.
matt10342 You also have a cardiac system doesn't mean you understand how it works. By small amount of data I meant that you have no idea why she feels that way which is true. All you know is that she felt suicidal after breaking up with her ex. Clinical depression is a medical issue it's not just a feeling, if you really have it I suggest you see a medical professional about it if you have not already. It could be something as simple as hormone imbalances based on diet or it could be something genetic. Personal experience is not as important as scientific consensus and critical thinking based on that.
Jpython Dude you're making yourself look conceded... I would just stop... It's fairly obvious that somebody with depression understands what depression is. It is a chemical imbalance in your brain. No shit feelings don't come from your heart, I don't know how long it took you to figure that out, but I don't care. Stop trying to be a self-proclaimed genius because it's not working.
This song is amazing it's been 2 weeks that I've been single and coming across the song is pretty darn awesome everything that I've been feeling this song says it all. Thank you
How am I listening to this just now? Man I am 9 years late.
Same.
Dude same... we all make mistakes but this is a costly one
+1
Lmao same
Right
It's like nickelback mixed with three days grace and skillet. FUCKING AWESOME
Never heard this band before but those are my favourites and your right
With a hint of Daughtry
The lead singer is now the lead singer of three days have with his older bro who started three days grace
That's......
Yes.
I wanna see skillet and ice nine kills together
"Don't fall in love, be in love. Everything that fall breaks" ~My Friend
Yes
That sounds like some im14andthisisdeep post.
feathers don't.
My phones been dropped 1000000 times and it aint got a scratch😂😂😂😂
@@laurenmpage2683 same here
Still in love with a girl I haven’t spoken to in nearly 7 years. The only person I ever felt appreciated me, everything was easy with her. How dare she be so perfect is so fitting.
7 years bro you gota move on, she had no right being perfect so shes got no right to impact your life 7 years later or anytime after. Stay strong king
I hear ya man...
If you trully feel like that person was that special to you , you should just try to hang out or just talk...everything can get good....maybe she is thinking the same :)) , take care !
I'm happy and in a beautiful relationship but there will always be that one guy... I will always love him.
I get it, but you can’t go on without communicating. She might be a whole new person now, and I get that it would be heartbreaking to see that, but maybe she is still the girl you love! Find a way to contact her, hang out, and hope/pray for the best
This has 8 years... Why did youtube recommend it?? But thanks, I loved it
same
it's a great song and beat🎼
Same but i think its a sign
Cause you tube knows ur pain🙂
@@brajeshmohanty2558 true
Why the hell do I get in love with calm songs that are made by rock or metal bands?
Edit: bruh, I'm famous, people keep commenting after 5 years
SAME!!!
i have the same problem
I guess they're better than the crap pop songs
Exactly
YES!!!!
This song always makes me think of my wife. I never had deep trust for anyone but no matter how hard I tried to avoid trusting her, how hard I avoided falling in love with her (to avoid heart break)
"I just couldn't stop myself, how dare she be so perfect" it just overwhelmed me and here we are 8 yrs later.
please My darkest days come back!!
The guy who’s singing is now the lead singer of three days grace
Matt won't come back, I like him in Three Days Grace better tbh. But I definitely miss My Darkest Days
To all my brahs out there going through a harsh breakup: All that matters in the end, is that you loved. Is that you could, and are able to love. That you were truly invested and were capable of giving your heart to another person. If things went like this, it means that you either weren't meant for each other, or that they don't deserve the very gift you gave them. You are awesome, and you deserve the same.
It went like that because you didn't fight for her. Most women test you in that situation and because women are confusing by nature men can never know what there thinking or feeling so men make the mistake of not fighting and just leaving. She still loves you but when you leave her that's an insult the biggest insult ever to them and it makes them resent you. If you love a woman fight for her. Don't go to the next piece of ass that's willing to get you wet. Fight for her. Break down her walls. When she says let me go you say no I'm not letting you go. She will invite you back into her heart because you were smart enough to know exactly what she was doing and that was testing you. If she says let her go you do the opposite and stay. Women are confusing and they test us men all the time. If you leave she feels like you never loved her it's an insult. If you stay you prove to her that you really love her.
@@fatwalletoobe792 This might be true if you're looking for a burden, not a reliability.
@@fatwalletoobe792 or maybe idk, if she tells you to let her go, do it? trust me, women dont "test men". tf? and everyone is confusing by nature, not just women. or,,, yk people fall out of love and they leave? bro you sound dense asf lmfao
thank you brah i needed this comment, we're all gonna make it
thanks bro i needed that
Ashes Remain, Starset, and Breaking Benjamin are now my favorite bands!
Wow! SAME! :D
+Jay All phenomenal bands.
+Jay I love all those bands, awesome taste
+Jay I like all of those too! But you posted this on an My Darkest Days video? lol...
+Jay Hell yeah! Starset for life! You, my friend, have an amazing taste in bands. ;)
The best song to tell how i feel. Really strong lyrics.
My girlfriend kissed another boy and then she said she feels nothing to me. I dont know what to do, but this song helped me a little bit.
Thank you "My darkest days"
That's epic bro
My girlfriend did the exact same but lied before she said truth but yeah again I’m brain dead
I'll tell you what to do. Don't let one person define your life, only you can do that. I can't imagine how that feels so take this with a bag of salt but just an advice (: I hope you are doing better
its been five years,how are you doing?
@@anja6605 fine, thank you for asking :) found love of my life. Changed the view to the relationship quite a bit though.
Matt, your one job is to keep three days grace alive
DON'T MESS IT UP!!!
Breaking up with your hs sweetheart is a different kind of pain. You spend so much time thinking youre going into the next step. When its over you fall from heaven and suddenly everything is hell. Ever since then ive been a shell of who i used to be. Better or worse i have to go into the next stage of life. No matter how lonesome it be
May this band rest with the legends.
I love Matt's voice. It's so calming.
i played this on LOOP when i was like 13 😭 i really thought having a crush on my best friend was the pinnacle of romantic drama
Weve all been there, it's part of growing up. I look back fondly on those days
This song doesnt make me sad, not anymore. I was in love with a girl that this song could have easily been about. But i healed from that broken heart and now this song makes me think of my future and the girl im falling in love with now. This song makes me happy cuz i think of this perfect girl.
I found this song an hour before my girlfriend broke up with me. For some reason I still love this song. It is an amazing song.
what about now? come here and listen
soo are you still single?
Dude i iust discovered this group right now because i listen to three days grace for 10 years and i saw that matt was the singer in here as well!!
I found this song unexpectedly and when I read the lyrics everything matched my life right now. I met a girl and she just does what she wants with me. I met her, we dated a little then she went to another city where she found a boyfriend while I was dying for her. I still loved her through all the bullshit and when she broke up with her bf she came right to me. She was so fucking weak and I just stood by her side. And then she met another boy and now she can't decide WHO to choose.
"What gives her the right, to tear up my life?"
it doesn't matter if she choose you, it still means that she doesn't love you, cause id she really does, she wouldn't have to choose
ik how u feel
+Dimitar Kolev I feel for you dude but hey life moves on you just have to move on with your life trust me theres millions of girls out there just keep your head up
+Dimitar Kolev if she loves you that should have made her not love anyone else i have been in a similar thing like that and trust me if you try to keep loving her she will slowly leave you until there is nothing left of her move on now before it is too late
Also a little bit late but i know how you feel i felt the same thing once and it killed me, now i almost can't feel any love anymore and even if that was not enough i couldn't think anything good on some moments things like suicide where going through my head so everyone that had something like what was discribed in the song or what i had know that you're not alone there are other people that felt the same thing and if they didnt give up to this world then you shall not eather
and at last im sorry for my bad english its not my main language XD
Oh this song -.- I love it this exactly what I went through
Happens to everyone at one point. It's a part of life.
I'm going through it right now
Esha Antone stay strong. Just got out of it.
Phenomenal Song, so true and relateable. Love you My Darkest Days!
Favorite Line: *How dare she be so perfect*
2018 and I am still here...
Eva Foxx jamming as we speak
I'm with you..
I miss the my darkest days style of songs, like Matt is singing for tdg but the songs don't have the same feel, most tdg songs portray a lot more anger
Eva Foxx sameeeeeeee
@@jarrodc.7876 meh i listen them since adam was there but thats what i love about tdg
I LOVE this band. I love their music. Their sound and presentation that goes with it. Absolutely one of my favorite bands.
I couldn't help myself when it was both for me.
Its been almost a year. Trust me, the pain fades. I felt nothing hearing this compared to how I would months ago. Give it a lot of time you'll be alright
♡♡i shouldnt have fallen in love at all... but i couldn't stop myself♡♡
2019 💕
Been listening to this song for 4 years now
Still listening in 2021?
Always ❤️
Omg I didn't expect you to reply, or still have the same TH-cam account
Love my collection of favourites on TH-cam too much to change anything
You have your space,,, I have mine!!
This days I wanted to listen to music but I couldn't find a single song that talked about how I feel, THIS is the song I was searching for I REALLY LOVE this song.
I Miss This band Sooooo Much!!!❤ One of My Favorites Ever!
He's in three days grace now.
I was enjoying this song until 0:58- now the only thing going through my head is the thought of her with someone else…
It's 2018 and I'm still here. This song is master piece. Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷
Perfect. ..even her flaws...were perfect. ..🔥
How dare he be so perfect. I miss him.
Why did I fall for someone as cruel as her :(
Juliuz Pulvera Because you loved her and she played you
Love can be such a cruel emotion :(
Juliuz Pulvera I agree with you this reminds me of my ex boyfriend
Juliuz Pulvera It may seem like it, but its still worth fighting for. God died and rose again for love's sake. That tells you how powerful and meaningful it is. Yes, it will chew you up and spit you out, but only love is worth it. At least, that's my take. I'm still trying to reach someone who apparently wants nothing to do with me, because she's the one girl I'm unable to walk away from, the only one I'm willing to fight for at almost any cost. As a Christian, I belong to God first and foremost, so that's where I draw the line. And contrary to this song, I don't blame the gal I'm chasing for being who she is. I do agree that maybe I shouldn't have fallen for her though, but you know how that goes. Some things you just can't resist. Dare to love anyway. I repeat, dare to love!
I forwarded a bit and the first thing I saw of this song was Shrek (0:31). I know I'm in for a wild ride.
damn bro
This describes the situation I currently am in although I haven't gotten to date her... She just makes me happy everytime I see her but now.... After I find out she doesn't slightly feel the way i feel towards her... Just... The agonizing pain of hearing they don't feel the same way...
I know the feeling
kollin seek well I was dating someone for a month then they left me for someone else I still have feelings for her and she's acting g like she cares then she doesn't I k ow how you feel
Stay strong, brother!!
this
This is a good song.. can connect to a lot of people.
Omg this video was under recommended so I checked it out and I can't believe I've never heard this band before or song...Love 😍
Man oh why this is 10 years old . We have to fall for this 10 years earlier
New year, the first thing in my recommendation. NO REGRETS FINIDNG THIS
Im 9 years late but damn i love your sound. My darkest days, your music is amazing
wow 90% of the lyrics matches with my thoughts
How dare this song be so perfect ❤
Just can't stop listening, it's so catchy!
"It's better to have loved and lost than it's to have never loved at all"
Some old drunk dude.
also i just noticed the page at 1:33 says "never let let her go"
*_Beautiful Lyric!_*
I Love This Song !
I love this song. this is incredibly soulful music. i can see how the real romantics who really loved in their lives once wrote this song. and matt can do any song perfectly.
There's no person in this world is perfect. All are created by God with imperfections so that no one will boast. Maybe someone you know seems perfect to you (tho they are not) because they are different in some ways or some aspects in their life that you see in them and you compare them to (some) people you always accompanied with in your daily life.
Very nice song and when i focused on the text... muuuch better, nice song!
This song I swear affects everyone that's ever been in love it's rare to find music like this anymore I just wish there was more like it these days oh well maybe one day
13 year old me just thought the song sounded cool, 20 year old me understands it a little too much 😂
Legit me.
I completely understand, I'm 22 and can't believe how hard this song hit me!
Same. Only 16/24
I'm only 15 and I understand the song.... 😅
I just heard this song three days ago, even though I use to be a huge fan of this band lol Heard it off an AVM of Villainous and it represented the love of two characters perfectly. Song is now a favorite of mine and honestly it makes me realize that I do have regrets, regrets that’ll haunt me forever.
Damn, I never listened to anything from these guys but the bangers that made the radio, but damn I'm getting powerful Theory of a Deadman vibes and I love it.
If indeed she is the one made from your ribs she will not be anything but perfect for you. It is called grace. We don't deserve anything but it's grace.
Great sound! One of my favorite MDD's songs! 🎤 🎶 🎼
I'm in love with my best friend... It hurts so much their fresh out of a relationship and I'm constantly comforting them.Telling them just how special they are and that anyone would be luckily to have them, only if they knew I was the one who truly wanted them, so Ren if you see this, love you
Damn I wish you luck hope they notice your affection
Honestly I’d tell them, before it’s too late. Better to be safe then sorry, trust me. There were a lot of girls that had a thing a for me in high school. Just make sure once you leave high school, that you get a good job and take care of that person. Don’t ever be a TH-camr or Twitch streamer, that shit takes condos and patients…. Those regrets will stay with me till I’m dead.
Take it from me, as I've been in that exact situation before: tell them. If you wait and wait and wait, you'll watch your chances rise and fall over and over and it will hurt more and more each time you miss one of those chances. If you really are their best friend, chances are they subconsciously (or in many cases consciously) feel the same way. I waited too long and lost my chance permanently. She's married and very happy. I've since moved on but it still stings every now and then when I think of the way I felt toward her. Don't be like me. Don't miss your chance, because you never know when it will be the last.
Damn…I hope Ren 👀 this….
Go get her king 🤴
Fuck this is so accurate... damn I don't know what to think.. I HATE EVERYTHING
About you... ;)
daxteralex506 Nah, not only myself...
StahliCell He ment the song from Three Days Grace.
Oops didn't notice...
@@StahliCell yikes
How dare he be so perfect. What did I do to deserve this?
I haven't cried since the day he left me.
I know that feeling, except she texted and not face to face...
I dedicate this song to the one that got away. She's the one that introduced me to this band. Ironically, this song perfectly describes how I've been feeling. I will never forget you.
This is a perfect song to let my dad listen to because this song literally describes what he is going through and still wont get rid of this girl he likes.
I also love the song
3 years and I’m finally over her today, the feeling is freeing. I was with her just under a year. At the beginning, everything was perfect. Later she was suicidal and abusive. Once she told me I was one of the only things in the world stopping her from ending herself, a hell of a weight to put on a 19 year old. If had never met her, she probably wouldn’t be around today, but she’d never admit it. I put up with it all because of what she was going through, the loss of her Dad and her Grandmas suicide. Up until that point we were the only 3 people that had ever truly loved her. I wanted to give her everything but after so much abuse from her end it was never enough. She was terrified that I was going to leave her, so she tried to slowly break down my self esteem so that I’d never leave. All it did was create the reason we broke up. I asked to be treated with respect, she wouldn’t admit her wrongs and lashed out. After we broke up she stalked me on one occasion. Every Saturday she’d get drunk and send me paragraphs of abuse telling that I was the worst person on earth. She couldn’t understand how we had ended things, so she lied to herself and claimed that I’d cheated on her, so instead of feeling as though she lost me she could hate me instead.
This week I finally forgave her. For 3 years the memories of that experience haunted me. I’ve had other girlfriends but everything fell through over time. That experience made me the person I am today. I’m not angry anymore. You never apologised for what you did and for the happiness you robbed from me. Your suicide attempts and abuse made me hurt like nothing else. But I’ve been okay for a long time now and I’ve moved on with my life. I’m building myself up again
Indi, you weren’t a good person, but I forgive you, and I hope you find happiness
You are a better man end me good job
This song has so many quotes that hit so deep and so hard.
For further statements, I think “lines” is the best word to use here, God bless.
Wow... This song couldn't have shown up on my youtube at a more perfect time in my life...
How dare he be perfect and im here broken
No idea why TH-cam recommended this to me now after so many years....but I'm glad IT DID❤
Glad I'm not the only one to come across this band 9 years late!
Exactly how i feel
Esta canción jamás se vuelve vieja
Why am I just listening to this band? like wow, they are awesome.
word for word 1 million percent resonated and is so relatable..been almost 1 year and im way better now...still a good song..vibey and nostalgia..
Never let him go... How dare he be so perfect...
They say guys are the liars. The cheaters.
Well... I agree. Most are.
But me.. I'm a lover and a keeper. It's the women who tease and lie and cheat.
I'm dead inside because of this. My heart beats, but I don't feel. Not anymore.
Women turn men like me into a liar. Into a cheater.
If she ever accepts me.. I will never lie. Never cheat. But it will never happen.
This song speaks to me.. Don't fall in love. It only tears your heart apart.
Your comment is so underrated. It needs more likes.
Same
hey man, dont fall into this. she tore up my heart too. made me a liar. altough everything had an explaination. but she left. I never lied to her. but it doesnt matter now. its her loss. im a keeper and i desereve much better and so you are. you know you didnt lie. thats what fuckin important. i am dead inside too. but everything passes. with time, slowly. I hope you have a good friend with you since then and till now to make it go away, altough lots of time has passed. if not - reach out, im here for you dude. we can write about it or about anything. dont fall into this. love is cruel but only with the wrong person. you deserve better. remember it please.
This comment is underrated.
Wow "most are." Yeah wayta generalize there
how dare i be so late to this song
Rise In Love❤️🔥❤️🔥
Why So Perfect?🪞
⚡🌪️⚡🌊⚡
Who would have guessed that Christmas 2020 this would be my most played song. This song describes my life perfectly right now, thanks My Darkest Days for actually writing my December 2020 anthem.
December is literally a cursed month for me. I have never held a relationship past this month. I don't like Xmas and I can't stand the cold. Fuck December
@@johnkongsaisy7014 sorry too hear, hope things get better for you soon. I can't do much for the cold, but hope you find someone that sticks by your side soon. One of these years will be different
@@PunGodFromOhio appreciate it man but the same shit just happened again. 3rd year in a row and counting. Tbh I wouldn't be surprised if I die in the month of December. In fact I'm low-key expecting it
@@johnkongsaisy7014 well, you got a 1 in 12 shot at it haha, but in all seriousness this life is a journey, sometimes you hit speed bumps and sometimes you crash, but you get back up and dust yourself off and go again. We don't know why things happen, but they do, we just gotta keep pushing towards better days.
Years later and this song still feels the same..
This hits different when experiencing the same situation.
Ahh... Well this resonates in a bittersweet way. I feel this way about a very special guy who lead me on hella deep then ghosted out of nowhere 😭 it's been 3 years and I still love him. No one else comes close, I just can't find myself attracted to anyone else. Feels like I'll be single for life after meeting him, I'd rather be alone than with anyone else 😂😅... Love is tricky but man it's worth it
All soul contracts are cancelled. All deals/pacts with evil dissolved. All chains broken.
Lord please forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us. In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen
You are loved. You are wanted. You are not a mistake. You are a miracle. You are free. Escape. God bless
12 YEARS OLD AND THIS ONLY NOW POPS INTO MY TH-cam FEED?!?! WHERE HAS THIS IS A BANGER HOLY HELL
I'm addicted to this song 😭🖤
When you tell the girl you love that you cant talk to her anymore because you know there is no possible way you will move on if you do :(
Aaron Martin or that moment when you cant even say that because you cant live without her :'(
CiausTheShadowLord i can relate so much ;c
*hugs*
CiausTheShadowLord to you too ;c
CiausTheShadowLord i know the feeling
This song hit me so hard, it was almost like it knew what I when through... There's a girl who I have a huge crush on... we went out as friends a couple of times... it wasn't easy to get together, because sometimes something came up and she coud'nt come. One day we saw a movie in my house, I wanted to ask her out, but I thought "no, too soon, wait a little". But things kept happening, we didn't se each other... and on day, one lucky bastard asked her out from her work... they have little in common and they've been together 3 years... We are still friends, and she knows what I feel... she feels very sorry, but she's staying with the other guy... because she's in love... It's been long, but still hurts like hell. I don't know if I'm in love... I don't think I can afford it...
I'm almost in the same situation as you. I told this girl how i felt many times, I don't know why I keep doing and it always ends the same way with her saying she doesn't feel the same. She's not seeing anybody though but it's still hard, just seeing her. We were super close too, we used to talk everyday and now I don't even see her at all, it's really tough.
Harman Nahal Sorry to hear that, hopefully we will meet somebody new or things will get better... don't know, it's hard and we need to wait...
I really hope we do too. I just hate how hard it is to get over someone, even after knowing that they will probably never feel the same way.
So how did it turn out for you two. I read the comments and I’m invested.
@@15bellb Wow! It's been long... Well, like a soap opera... I'll explain and I'll try to be "short"... I ended up been depressed and did some traveling and voluntary work. After... 2 years, we still talked, but very little... One day she says to me that she broke up with that jerk and wanted to see me. And because I was so in love... We ended up dating. We became a couple... for about 2 years. Then... She wanted to go to her country (Colombia) to study and find work. I let her go because I thought she was coming back and I didn't want to be THAT type of boyfriend who doesn't let his girlfriend do stuff... Well, a few months later she said that she was going to stay and... That she met someone else... She blocked me 2 times because the new boyfriend didn't like me talking to her and when she blocked the second time... I was done. "Ok, that's how you wanted? Fine! Thanks for letting me know". I blocked her in every way and I haven't spoken to her ever since. I thing it was halfway 2019 the last time I think. It hurt, but I can't have her in my life anymore.
This was just a summary, more happend but this is what happend. Sorry the story doesn't have a happy ending. The song still fits. Thanks for taking an interest, I hope I satisfied your curiosity. ;)
Just found this and damn does it hit home.
I have tumor induced aphasia and this tune and lyrics are what is in my head constantly. Right now the whole world is in tune with this and several other popular songs. But I recognize some of these lyrics. Fortunately I liked this song when it was popular.
Love this love their music
I shouldn't have fallen in love at all... but I couldn't stop myself... u.u
Long time I heard this song I gave it to my ex when we broke up and now I can listen to it without crying hey guys time will heal it it's fine to fall in love just know it was for a reason and you'll get over it in time ☺️ I'm here if u need someone to talk too
Ur right bro. 2 Tru
Are you still there tho?
@@thegamingmattizer9245 yes
@@icewolf3100 danggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg
you are not alone i got used by ex as well she is reason i have not show emotion in collage for 3 years
My ex broke up with me after Thanksgiving, then Christmas eve told me we shouldnt talk anymore. She said it was her not me, which i believe because shenever knew what a healthy relationship looked like or felt. I got a call from her not too long ago, she wanted to meet up and catch up. While we were out she let slip she still had feelings for me, and i told her outright i still love her. We havent spoken since that unforgettable night. She may be damaged goods, but so am i, and i look passed all that and see her for the beautiful woman she is.
"Perfect" and "Can't Forget You" by My Darkest Days, fit so perfectly hand I hand together the describes a true heart break
Now the vocalist is in a different band, "Three Days Grace". I miss these days but also really like the new TDG stuff
Everyone has at least one person that this song reminds them of
this reminds me of my ex D: and its been 4 years and im still in pain
i feel you...
Be like that sometimes
:(
I am so sorry.
Do you feel better now?..I hope so
I listed to this so much when it came out and I was in my emo phase. Never thought I'd be coming back full circle after a heartbreak 😔
so this is Matt from three days grace Wow my first time hearing this and this is just great ! I love it 😉
Idk who needs to hear this but God put it on my heart to say this. I was born dead, the doctors did CPR and God brought me back. When I was 2 years old I was diagnosed with kidney cancer. Every doctor my parents took me to said I was colicky. God lead us to a doctor at childrens hospital and he diagnoses me with kidney cancer. I had a wilms tumor on my left kidney the size of a softball. I went through chemothereapy and eventually got my kidney removed. I've been cancer free for 12 years! I've also been saved since i was 8. Al we have to do to be saved is ask and mean it from our heart and we will go to heaven when we die. If you remember anything that I'm saying let it be that all we have to do to be saved is ask and that god loves you and so do i! Idk who needed to hear this but God put it on my heart to say this. If anyone needs any prayers just reply to my comment. God loves you and so do I God bless you all!
just amaizing
this is my life but I'm a girl and he is a boy... Three days grace helped me up out of suicide because of him then I found this song which describes my life!😂😭
You are a fucked up human being. You should never, EVER say that somebody else is responsible for your suicidal feelings. Those feelings come from your own cold heart. Take it from one that's already frozen n black. You gotta train yourself to not let people affect you like that, because it's simply not their fault when EVERYTHING has the ability to affect you like that. Pull a Dizzy Wright, and Train Your Mind. I still do every day.
Sorry if I seem like a dick. But you have no idea what you are talking about, depression is often caused by biological issues such as hormone imbalances it is no one's fault if someone is feeling suicidal. Some people are more genetically disposed to such behaviours than others. Also you seem to be talking with near certainty about things you frankly have no way of knowing. Feelings don't come from your heart just so ya know. While I agree that suicide is almost never a reasonable solution, it's a better to not recommend solutions based on such a small amount of data as you'll cause more harm than good.
Jpython Lol, I have depression and anxiety and I don't know what I'm talking about? That's kind of ironic. She has every right to FEEL suicidal, I've been there, I think a lot of people have, but nobody should blame those feelings on other people. Simple as that. I'd like to know how that is a "recommended solution based on such a small amount of data." Lmfao that's petty.
matt10342 You also have a cardiac system doesn't mean you understand how it works.
By small amount of data I meant that you have no idea why she feels that way which is true. All you know is that she felt suicidal after breaking up with her ex. Clinical depression is a medical issue it's not just a feeling, if you really have it I suggest you see a medical professional about it if you have not already. It could be something as simple as hormone imbalances based on diet or it could be something genetic. Personal experience is not as important as scientific consensus and critical thinking based on that.
Jpython Dude you're making yourself look conceded... I would just stop... It's fairly obvious that somebody with depression understands what depression is. It is a chemical imbalance in your brain. No shit feelings don't come from your heart, I don't know how long it took you to figure that out, but I don't care. Stop trying to be a self-proclaimed genius because it's not working.
I'm addicted 💕
This song is amazing it's been 2 weeks that I've been single and coming across the song is pretty darn awesome everything that I've been feeling this song says it all. Thank you