The person that wrote this quote "Don't fall in love, be in love. Everything that falls breaks." It's so absolutely brilliant. Never would have come up with it by myself.
Still in love with a girl I haven’t spoken to in nearly 7 years. The only person I ever felt appreciated me, everything was easy with her. How dare she be so perfect is so fitting.
If you trully feel like that person was that special to you , you should just try to hang out or just talk...everything can get good....maybe she is thinking the same :)) , take care !
I get it, but you can’t go on without communicating. She might be a whole new person now, and I get that it would be heartbreaking to see that, but maybe she is still the girl you love! Find a way to contact her, hang out, and hope/pray for the best
To all my brahs out there going through a harsh breakup: All that matters in the end, is that you loved. Is that you could, and are able to love. That you were truly invested and were capable of giving your heart to another person. If things went like this, it means that you either weren't meant for each other, or that they don't deserve the very gift you gave them. You are awesome, and you deserve the same.
It went like that because you didn't fight for her. Most women test you in that situation and because women are confusing by nature men can never know what there thinking or feeling so men make the mistake of not fighting and just leaving. She still loves you but when you leave her that's an insult the biggest insult ever to them and it makes them resent you. If you love a woman fight for her. Don't go to the next piece of ass that's willing to get you wet. Fight for her. Break down her walls. When she says let me go you say no I'm not letting you go. She will invite you back into her heart because you were smart enough to know exactly what she was doing and that was testing you. If she says let her go you do the opposite and stay. Women are confusing and they test us men all the time. If you leave she feels like you never loved her it's an insult. If you stay you prove to her that you really love her.
@@fatwalletoobe792 or maybe idk, if she tells you to let her go, do it? trust me, women dont "test men". tf? and everyone is confusing by nature, not just women. or,,, yk people fall out of love and they leave? bro you sound dense asf lmfao
I'm in love with my best friend... It hurts so much their fresh out of a relationship and I'm constantly comforting them.Telling them just how special they are and that anyone would be luckily to have them, only if they knew I was the one who truly wanted them, so Ren if you see this, love you
Honestly I’d tell them, before it’s too late. Better to be safe then sorry, trust me. There were a lot of girls that had a thing a for me in high school. Just make sure once you leave high school, that you get a good job and take care of that person. Don’t ever be a TH-camr or Twitch streamer, that shit takes condos and patients…. Those regrets will stay with me till I’m dead.
Take it from me, as I've been in that exact situation before: tell them. If you wait and wait and wait, you'll watch your chances rise and fall over and over and it will hurt more and more each time you miss one of those chances. If you really are their best friend, chances are they subconsciously (or in many cases consciously) feel the same way. I waited too long and lost my chance permanently. She's married and very happy. I've since moved on but it still stings every now and then when I think of the way I felt toward her. Don't be like me. Don't miss your chance, because you never know when it will be the last.
This song always makes me think of my wife. I never had deep trust for anyone but no matter how hard I tried to avoid trusting her, how hard I avoided falling in love with her (to avoid heart break) "I just couldn't stop myself, how dare she be so perfect" it just overwhelmed me and here we are 8 yrs later.
The best song to tell how i feel. Really strong lyrics. My girlfriend kissed another boy and then she said she feels nothing to me. I dont know what to do, but this song helped me a little bit. Thank you "My darkest days"
I'll tell you what to do. Don't let one person define your life, only you can do that. I can't imagine how that feels so take this with a bag of salt but just an advice (: I hope you are doing better
Breaking up with your hs sweetheart is a different kind of pain. You spend so much time thinking youre going into the next step. When its over you fall from heaven and suddenly everything is hell. Ever since then ive been a shell of who i used to be. Better or worse i have to go into the next stage of life. No matter how lonesome it be
I found this song unexpectedly and when I read the lyrics everything matched my life right now. I met a girl and she just does what she wants with me. I met her, we dated a little then she went to another city where she found a boyfriend while I was dying for her. I still loved her through all the bullshit and when she broke up with her bf she came right to me. She was so fucking weak and I just stood by her side. And then she met another boy and now she can't decide WHO to choose. "What gives her the right, to tear up my life?"
+Dimitar Kolev I feel for you dude but hey life moves on you just have to move on with your life trust me theres millions of girls out there just keep your head up
+Dimitar Kolev if she loves you that should have made her not love anyone else i have been in a similar thing like that and trust me if you try to keep loving her she will slowly leave you until there is nothing left of her move on now before it is too late
Also a little bit late but i know how you feel i felt the same thing once and it killed me, now i almost can't feel any love anymore and even if that was not enough i couldn't think anything good on some moments things like suicide where going through my head so everyone that had something like what was discribed in the song or what i had know that you're not alone there are other people that felt the same thing and if they didnt give up to this world then you shall not eather and at last im sorry for my bad english its not my main language XD
This song doesnt make me sad, not anymore. I was in love with a girl that this song could have easily been about. But i healed from that broken heart and now this song makes me think of my future and the girl im falling in love with now. This song makes me happy cuz i think of this perfect girl.
Juliuz Pulvera It may seem like it, but its still worth fighting for. God died and rose again for love's sake. That tells you how powerful and meaningful it is. Yes, it will chew you up and spit you out, but only love is worth it. At least, that's my take. I'm still trying to reach someone who apparently wants nothing to do with me, because she's the one girl I'm unable to walk away from, the only one I'm willing to fight for at almost any cost. As a Christian, I belong to God first and foremost, so that's where I draw the line. And contrary to this song, I don't blame the gal I'm chasing for being who she is. I do agree that maybe I shouldn't have fallen for her though, but you know how that goes. Some things you just can't resist. Dare to love anyway. I repeat, dare to love!
They say guys are the liars. The cheaters. Well... I agree. Most are. But me.. I'm a lover and a keeper. It's the women who tease and lie and cheat. I'm dead inside because of this. My heart beats, but I don't feel. Not anymore. Women turn men like me into a liar. Into a cheater. If she ever accepts me.. I will never lie. Never cheat. But it will never happen. This song speaks to me.. Don't fall in love. It only tears your heart apart.
hey man, dont fall into this. she tore up my heart too. made me a liar. altough everything had an explaination. but she left. I never lied to her. but it doesnt matter now. its her loss. im a keeper and i desereve much better and so you are. you know you didnt lie. thats what fuckin important. i am dead inside too. but everything passes. with time, slowly. I hope you have a good friend with you since then and till now to make it go away, altough lots of time has passed. if not - reach out, im here for you dude. we can write about it or about anything. dont fall into this. love is cruel but only with the wrong person. you deserve better. remember it please.
I miss the my darkest days style of songs, like Matt is singing for tdg but the songs don't have the same feel, most tdg songs portray a lot more anger
I just heard this song three days ago, even though I use to be a huge fan of this band lol Heard it off an AVM of Villainous and it represented the love of two characters perfectly. Song is now a favorite of mine and honestly it makes me realize that I do have regrets, regrets that’ll haunt me forever.
Its been almost a year. Trust me, the pain fades. I felt nothing hearing this compared to how I would months ago. Give it a lot of time you'll be alright
Men and women do 2 each other and 4 me a woman did 2 me but I don't take it out on the next woman I date kauze all women are deffrent tho.and Should b respected but all women r krayzie 😊
I LOVE this band. I love their music. Their sound and presentation that goes with it. Absolutely one of my favorite bands. I couldn't help myself when it was both for me.
There seems to be a repeat of the quote “don’t fall in love be in love. Everything that falls breaks.” Flowery tea. When you fall in love, there’s someone there to catch you before you hit the ground. The proof is in the impact, what did you land on? Stone, or eternity. I love you. I hope you see this someday. ⚖️
José Manuel Rodarte Well, of course the whole song doesn't describe their story, but the concept is similar. After Mavis "died" due to the love they had for each other, that was pretty much the icing on the cake for how Zeref had already been feeling..... and... UGH, THE FEELS. T-T The song just reminded me a lot of them. They say the same thing, "I shouldn't have fallen in love at all."
This describes the situation I currently am in although I haven't gotten to date her... She just makes me happy everytime I see her but now.... After I find out she doesn't slightly feel the way i feel towards her... Just... The agonizing pain of hearing they don't feel the same way...
kollin seek well I was dating someone for a month then they left me for someone else I still have feelings for her and she's acting g like she cares then she doesn't I k ow how you feel
This days I wanted to listen to music but I couldn't find a single song that talked about how I feel, THIS is the song I was searching for I REALLY LOVE this song.
If indeed she is the one made from your ribs she will not be anything but perfect for you. It is called grace. We don't deserve anything but it's grace.
I love this song. this is incredibly soulful music. i can see how the real romantics who really loved in their lives once wrote this song. and matt can do any song perfectly.
This song I swear affects everyone that's ever been in love it's rare to find music like this anymore I just wish there was more like it these days oh well maybe one day
All soul contracts are cancelled. All deals/pacts with evil dissolved. All chains broken. Lord please forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us. In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen You are loved. You are wanted. You are not a mistake. You are a miracle. You are free. Escape. God bless
There's no person in this world is perfect. All are created by God with imperfections so that no one will boast. Maybe someone you know seems perfect to you (tho they are not) because they are different in some ways or some aspects in their life that you see in them and you compare them to (some) people you always accompanied with in your daily life.
3 years and I’m finally over her today, the feeling is freeing. I was with her just under a year. At the beginning, everything was perfect. Later she was suicidal and abusive. Once she told me I was one of the only things in the world stopping her from ending herself, a hell of a weight to put on a 19 year old. If had never met her, she probably wouldn’t be around today, but she’d never admit it. I put up with it all because of what she was going through, the loss of her Dad and her Grandmas suicide. Up until that point we were the only 3 people that had ever truly loved her. I wanted to give her everything but after so much abuse from her end it was never enough. She was terrified that I was going to leave her, so she tried to slowly break down my self esteem so that I’d never leave. All it did was create the reason we broke up. I asked to be treated with respect, she wouldn’t admit her wrongs and lashed out. After we broke up she stalked me on one occasion. Every Saturday she’d get drunk and send me paragraphs of abuse telling that I was the worst person on earth. She couldn’t understand how we had ended things, so she lied to herself and claimed that I’d cheated on her, so instead of feeling as though she lost me she could hate me instead. This week I finally forgave her. For 3 years the memories of that experience haunted me. I’ve had other girlfriends but everything fell through over time. That experience made me the person I am today. I’m not angry anymore. You never apologised for what you did and for the happiness you robbed from me. Your suicide attempts and abuse made me hurt like nothing else. But I’ve been okay for a long time now and I’ve moved on with my life. I’m building myself up again Indi, you weren’t a good person, but I forgive you, and I hope you find happiness
this is my life but I'm a girl and he is a boy... Three days grace helped me up out of suicide because of him then I found this song which describes my life!😂😭
You are a fucked up human being. You should never, EVER say that somebody else is responsible for your suicidal feelings. Those feelings come from your own cold heart. Take it from one that's already frozen n black. You gotta train yourself to not let people affect you like that, because it's simply not their fault when EVERYTHING has the ability to affect you like that. Pull a Dizzy Wright, and Train Your Mind. I still do every day.
Sorry if I seem like a dick. But you have no idea what you are talking about, depression is often caused by biological issues such as hormone imbalances it is no one's fault if someone is feeling suicidal. Some people are more genetically disposed to such behaviours than others. Also you seem to be talking with near certainty about things you frankly have no way of knowing. Feelings don't come from your heart just so ya know. While I agree that suicide is almost never a reasonable solution, it's a better to not recommend solutions based on such a small amount of data as you'll cause more harm than good.
Jpython Lol, I have depression and anxiety and I don't know what I'm talking about? That's kind of ironic. She has every right to FEEL suicidal, I've been there, I think a lot of people have, but nobody should blame those feelings on other people. Simple as that. I'd like to know how that is a "recommended solution based on such a small amount of data." Lmfao that's petty.
matt10342 You also have a cardiac system doesn't mean you understand how it works. By small amount of data I meant that you have no idea why she feels that way which is true. All you know is that she felt suicidal after breaking up with her ex. Clinical depression is a medical issue it's not just a feeling, if you really have it I suggest you see a medical professional about it if you have not already. It could be something as simple as hormone imbalances based on diet or it could be something genetic. Personal experience is not as important as scientific consensus and critical thinking based on that.
Jpython Dude you're making yourself look conceded... I would just stop... It's fairly obvious that somebody with depression understands what depression is. It is a chemical imbalance in your brain. No shit feelings don't come from your heart, I don't know how long it took you to figure that out, but I don't care. Stop trying to be a self-proclaimed genius because it's not working.
I met this girl and she is the most beautiful person i ever met and shes been stuck with other guys and it causes me to have emotional outbreaks and even know she wont see this You are the best thing that ever happened to me
Love might be good for some, but for others, it's poison. It feels good to love somebody, but when they leave you for somebody else, your life falls apart and you're left all alone and not knowing what to do. Don't fall in love too quickly or you'll never learn if they truly love you back.
Long time I heard this song I gave it to my ex when we broke up and now I can listen to it without crying hey guys time will heal it it's fine to fall in love just know it was for a reason and you'll get over it in time ☺️ I'm here if u need someone to talk too
I dedicate this song to the one that got away. She's the one that introduced me to this band. Ironically, this song perfectly describes how I've been feeling. I will never forget you.
The only girl I ever dated was named memory this song is spot on she was perfect until she gave up the charade it turns out she just needed my money and had very little options I loved her with my whole heart and she used me. Thankyou for this song.
This is a perfect song to let my dad listen to because this song literally describes what he is going through and still wont get rid of this girl he likes. I also love the song
This song hit me so hard, it was almost like it knew what I when through... There's a girl who I have a huge crush on... we went out as friends a couple of times... it wasn't easy to get together, because sometimes something came up and she coud'nt come. One day we saw a movie in my house, I wanted to ask her out, but I thought "no, too soon, wait a little". But things kept happening, we didn't se each other... and on day, one lucky bastard asked her out from her work... they have little in common and they've been together 3 years... We are still friends, and she knows what I feel... she feels very sorry, but she's staying with the other guy... because she's in love... It's been long, but still hurts like hell. I don't know if I'm in love... I don't think I can afford it...
I'm almost in the same situation as you. I told this girl how i felt many times, I don't know why I keep doing and it always ends the same way with her saying she doesn't feel the same. She's not seeing anybody though but it's still hard, just seeing her. We were super close too, we used to talk everyday and now I don't even see her at all, it's really tough.
@@15bellb Wow! It's been long... Well, like a soap opera... I'll explain and I'll try to be "short"... I ended up been depressed and did some traveling and voluntary work. After... 2 years, we still talked, but very little... One day she says to me that she broke up with that jerk and wanted to see me. And because I was so in love... We ended up dating. We became a couple... for about 2 years. Then... She wanted to go to her country (Colombia) to study and find work. I let her go because I thought she was coming back and I didn't want to be THAT type of boyfriend who doesn't let his girlfriend do stuff... Well, a few months later she said that she was going to stay and... That she met someone else... She blocked me 2 times because the new boyfriend didn't like me talking to her and when she blocked the second time... I was done. "Ok, that's how you wanted? Fine! Thanks for letting me know". I blocked her in every way and I haven't spoken to her ever since. I thing it was halfway 2019 the last time I think. It hurt, but I can't have her in my life anymore. This was just a summary, more happend but this is what happend. Sorry the story doesn't have a happy ending. The song still fits. Thanks for taking an interest, I hope I satisfied your curiosity. ;)
the first time I really fell deeply he abandoned me and was silent anytime l was near. but love for him kept alive in me way after. what good is love, then, I thought, it takes you and then it leaves you with useless feelings. Later I learned true love is not somewhere that we fall, it is something that we do. So sad she never loved you like you deserved. That was not true love. My true love will erase her. You will be thinking and feeling for me and our endless love. Don't look back. Your heart is free to love again and we do love so much more than you ever did, than I ever did before. We will show them what love is.
Ahh... Well this resonates in a bittersweet way. I feel this way about a very special guy who lead me on hella deep then ghosted out of nowhere 😭 it's been 3 years and I still love him. No one else comes close, I just can't find myself attracted to anyone else. Feels like I'll be single for life after meeting him, I'd rather be alone than with anyone else 😂😅... Love is tricky but man it's worth it
I feel this so much but for a boy. “I shouldn’t have fallen in love with him ” and “how dare he be so perfect”😫 “what gives him the right to tear up my life” 😞 He is to perfect for me but I still feel attracted to him…it hurts so bad 😔
This song will always make me think of my ex. Who is out of my life now but I still love and miss him everyday of my life. and I'll probably always love him you truly did ruin me. Garret if you ever see this maybe you will bc I know you love this band too. and maybe you won't see it but I love you so much and always will.
+Vincent van der Veen thanks I'm sorry you're feeling the same way it's not easy. I don't believe I'll ever love someone like I loved him but you know life goes on
+Vincent van der Veen i have the same men i love someone who is in love with a other, i always have this.. i never had a good girlfriend who loves my much, i want it i dint feel love now i need someone....
TH-cam suggesting me a masterpiece after 10 years of it's release. Oh f**k, this song made me miss her. Thought I was over her. TH-cam proved me wrong.
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How am I listening to this just now? Man I am 9 years late.
Same.
Dude same... we all make mistakes but this is a costly one
+1
Lmao same
Right
"Don't fall in love, be in love. Everything that fall breaks" ~My Friend
Yes
That sounds like some im14andthisisdeep post.
feathers don't.
My phones been dropped 1000000 times and it aint got a scratch😂😂😂😂
@@laurenmpage2683 same here
The person that wrote this quote "Don't fall in love, be in love. Everything that falls breaks." It's so absolutely brilliant. Never would have come up with it by myself.
He's friend said it, I strive to have friends like that
And there are people bashing the quote lmao.
@@daniloss1319 Ya I saw, I'm not blind lmao.
@@daniloss1319 I know his friend said it, I saw him say that his friend said it lol.
Sounds good on paper, but impossible to follow. If you’ve never fallen, you’ve never been in real love.
Still in love with a girl I haven’t spoken to in nearly 7 years. The only person I ever felt appreciated me, everything was easy with her. How dare she be so perfect is so fitting.
7 years bro you gota move on, she had no right being perfect so shes got no right to impact your life 7 years later or anytime after. Stay strong king
I hear ya man...
If you trully feel like that person was that special to you , you should just try to hang out or just talk...everything can get good....maybe she is thinking the same :)) , take care !
I'm happy and in a beautiful relationship but there will always be that one guy... I will always love him.
I get it, but you can’t go on without communicating. She might be a whole new person now, and I get that it would be heartbreaking to see that, but maybe she is still the girl you love! Find a way to contact her, hang out, and hope/pray for the best
Why the hell do I get in love with calm songs that are made by rock or metal bands?
Edit: bruh, I'm famous, people keep commenting after 5 years
SAME!!!
i have the same problem
I guess they're better than the crap pop songs
Exactly
YES!!!!
This has 8 years... Why did youtube recommend it?? But thanks, I loved it
same
it's a great song and beat🎼
Same but i think its a sign
Cause you tube knows ur pain🙂
@@brajeshmohanty2558 true
It's like nickelback mixed with three days grace and skillet. FUCKING AWESOME
Never heard this band before but those are my favourites and your right
With a hint of Daughtry
The lead singer is now the lead singer of three days have with his older bro who started three days grace
That's......
Yes.
I wanna see skillet and ice nine kills together
Ashes Remain, Starset, and Breaking Benjamin are now my favorite bands!
Wow! SAME! :D
+Jay All phenomenal bands.
+Jay I love all those bands, awesome taste
+Jay I like all of those too! But you posted this on an My Darkest Days video? lol...
+Jay Hell yeah! Starset for life! You, my friend, have an amazing taste in bands. ;)
To all my brahs out there going through a harsh breakup: All that matters in the end, is that you loved. Is that you could, and are able to love. That you were truly invested and were capable of giving your heart to another person. If things went like this, it means that you either weren't meant for each other, or that they don't deserve the very gift you gave them. You are awesome, and you deserve the same.
It went like that because you didn't fight for her. Most women test you in that situation and because women are confusing by nature men can never know what there thinking or feeling so men make the mistake of not fighting and just leaving. She still loves you but when you leave her that's an insult the biggest insult ever to them and it makes them resent you. If you love a woman fight for her. Don't go to the next piece of ass that's willing to get you wet. Fight for her. Break down her walls. When she says let me go you say no I'm not letting you go. She will invite you back into her heart because you were smart enough to know exactly what she was doing and that was testing you. If she says let her go you do the opposite and stay. Women are confusing and they test us men all the time. If you leave she feels like you never loved her it's an insult. If you stay you prove to her that you really love her.
@@fatwalletoobe792 This might be true if you're looking for a burden, not a reliability.
@@fatwalletoobe792 or maybe idk, if she tells you to let her go, do it? trust me, women dont "test men". tf? and everyone is confusing by nature, not just women. or,,, yk people fall out of love and they leave? bro you sound dense asf lmfao
thank you brah i needed this comment, we're all gonna make it
thanks bro i needed that
please My darkest days come back!!
The guy who’s singing is now the lead singer of three days grace
Matt won't come back, I like him in Three Days Grace better tbh. But I definitely miss My Darkest Days
I'm in love with my best friend... It hurts so much their fresh out of a relationship and I'm constantly comforting them.Telling them just how special they are and that anyone would be luckily to have them, only if they knew I was the one who truly wanted them, so Ren if you see this, love you
Damn I wish you luck hope they notice your affection
Honestly I’d tell them, before it’s too late. Better to be safe then sorry, trust me. There were a lot of girls that had a thing a for me in high school. Just make sure once you leave high school, that you get a good job and take care of that person. Don’t ever be a TH-camr or Twitch streamer, that shit takes condos and patients…. Those regrets will stay with me till I’m dead.
Take it from me, as I've been in that exact situation before: tell them. If you wait and wait and wait, you'll watch your chances rise and fall over and over and it will hurt more and more each time you miss one of those chances. If you really are their best friend, chances are they subconsciously (or in many cases consciously) feel the same way. I waited too long and lost my chance permanently. She's married and very happy. I've since moved on but it still stings every now and then when I think of the way I felt toward her. Don't be like me. Don't miss your chance, because you never know when it will be the last.
Damn…I hope Ren 👀 this….
Go get her king 🤴
This song always makes me think of my wife. I never had deep trust for anyone but no matter how hard I tried to avoid trusting her, how hard I avoided falling in love with her (to avoid heart break)
"I just couldn't stop myself, how dare she be so perfect" it just overwhelmed me and here we are 8 yrs later.
The best song to tell how i feel. Really strong lyrics.
My girlfriend kissed another boy and then she said she feels nothing to me. I dont know what to do, but this song helped me a little bit.
Thank you "My darkest days"
That's epic bro
My girlfriend did the exact same but lied before she said truth but yeah again I’m brain dead
I'll tell you what to do. Don't let one person define your life, only you can do that. I can't imagine how that feels so take this with a bag of salt but just an advice (: I hope you are doing better
its been five years,how are you doing?
@@anja6605 fine, thank you for asking :) found love of my life. Changed the view to the relationship quite a bit though.
Breaking up with your hs sweetheart is a different kind of pain. You spend so much time thinking youre going into the next step. When its over you fall from heaven and suddenly everything is hell. Ever since then ive been a shell of who i used to be. Better or worse i have to go into the next stage of life. No matter how lonesome it be
I found this song unexpectedly and when I read the lyrics everything matched my life right now. I met a girl and she just does what she wants with me. I met her, we dated a little then she went to another city where she found a boyfriend while I was dying for her. I still loved her through all the bullshit and when she broke up with her bf she came right to me. She was so fucking weak and I just stood by her side. And then she met another boy and now she can't decide WHO to choose.
"What gives her the right, to tear up my life?"
it doesn't matter if she choose you, it still means that she doesn't love you, cause id she really does, she wouldn't have to choose
ik how u feel
+Dimitar Kolev I feel for you dude but hey life moves on you just have to move on with your life trust me theres millions of girls out there just keep your head up
+Dimitar Kolev if she loves you that should have made her not love anyone else i have been in a similar thing like that and trust me if you try to keep loving her she will slowly leave you until there is nothing left of her move on now before it is too late
Also a little bit late but i know how you feel i felt the same thing once and it killed me, now i almost can't feel any love anymore and even if that was not enough i couldn't think anything good on some moments things like suicide where going through my head so everyone that had something like what was discribed in the song or what i had know that you're not alone there are other people that felt the same thing and if they didnt give up to this world then you shall not eather
and at last im sorry for my bad english its not my main language XD
I love Matt's voice. It's so calming.
May this band rest with the legends.
i played this on LOOP when i was like 13 😭 i really thought having a crush on my best friend was the pinnacle of romantic drama
Weve all been there, it's part of growing up. I look back fondly on those days
This song doesnt make me sad, not anymore. I was in love with a girl that this song could have easily been about. But i healed from that broken heart and now this song makes me think of my future and the girl im falling in love with now. This song makes me happy cuz i think of this perfect girl.
I found this song an hour before my girlfriend broke up with me. For some reason I still love this song. It is an amazing song.
what about now? come here and listen
soo are you still single?
Matt, your one job is to keep three days grace alive
DON'T MESS IT UP!!!
How dare he be so perfect. I miss him.
Why did I fall for someone as cruel as her :(
Juliuz Pulvera Because you loved her and she played you
Love can be such a cruel emotion :(
Juliuz Pulvera I agree with you this reminds me of my ex boyfriend
Juliuz Pulvera It may seem like it, but its still worth fighting for. God died and rose again for love's sake. That tells you how powerful and meaningful it is. Yes, it will chew you up and spit you out, but only love is worth it. At least, that's my take. I'm still trying to reach someone who apparently wants nothing to do with me, because she's the one girl I'm unable to walk away from, the only one I'm willing to fight for at almost any cost. As a Christian, I belong to God first and foremost, so that's where I draw the line. And contrary to this song, I don't blame the gal I'm chasing for being who she is. I do agree that maybe I shouldn't have fallen for her though, but you know how that goes. Some things you just can't resist. Dare to love anyway. I repeat, dare to love!
They say guys are the liars. The cheaters.
Well... I agree. Most are.
But me.. I'm a lover and a keeper. It's the women who tease and lie and cheat.
I'm dead inside because of this. My heart beats, but I don't feel. Not anymore.
Women turn men like me into a liar. Into a cheater.
If she ever accepts me.. I will never lie. Never cheat. But it will never happen.
This song speaks to me.. Don't fall in love. It only tears your heart apart.
Your comment is so underrated. It needs more likes.
Same
hey man, dont fall into this. she tore up my heart too. made me a liar. altough everything had an explaination. but she left. I never lied to her. but it doesnt matter now. its her loss. im a keeper and i desereve much better and so you are. you know you didnt lie. thats what fuckin important. i am dead inside too. but everything passes. with time, slowly. I hope you have a good friend with you since then and till now to make it go away, altough lots of time has passed. if not - reach out, im here for you dude. we can write about it or about anything. dont fall into this. love is cruel but only with the wrong person. you deserve better. remember it please.
This comment is underrated.
Wow "most are." Yeah wayta generalize there
2018 and I am still here...
Eva Foxx jamming as we speak
I'm with you..
I miss the my darkest days style of songs, like Matt is singing for tdg but the songs don't have the same feel, most tdg songs portray a lot more anger
Eva Foxx sameeeeeeee
@@jarrodc.7876 meh i listen them since adam was there but thats what i love about tdg
♡♡i shouldnt have fallen in love at all... but i couldn't stop myself♡♡
"It's better to have loved and lost than it's to have never loved at all"
Some old drunk dude.
13 year old me just thought the song sounded cool, 20 year old me understands it a little too much 😂
Legit me.
I completely understand, I'm 22 and can't believe how hard this song hit me!
Same. Only 16/24
I'm only 15 and I understand the song.... 😅
I just heard this song three days ago, even though I use to be a huge fan of this band lol Heard it off an AVM of Villainous and it represented the love of two characters perfectly. Song is now a favorite of mine and honestly it makes me realize that I do have regrets, regrets that’ll haunt me forever.
Oh this song -.- I love it this exactly what I went through
Happens to everyone at one point. It's a part of life.
I'm going through it right now
Esha Antone stay strong. Just got out of it.
12 YEARS OLD AND THIS ONLY NOW POPS INTO MY TH-cam FEED?!?! WHERE HAS THIS IS A BANGER HOLY HELL
Phenomenal Song, so true and relateable. Love you My Darkest Days!
Favorite Line: *How dare she be so perfect*
Perfect. ..even her flaws...were perfect. ..🔥
This is a good song.. can connect to a lot of people.
Its been almost a year. Trust me, the pain fades. I felt nothing hearing this compared to how I would months ago. Give it a lot of time you'll be alright
I Miss This band Sooooo Much!!!❤ One of My Favorites Ever!
He's in three days grace now.
Does anyone else feel that Matt is better here than with Three Days Grace??
2019 💕
Been listening to this song for 4 years now
Still listening in 2021?
Always ❤️
Omg I didn't expect you to reply, or still have the same TH-cam account
Love my collection of favourites on TH-cam too much to change anything
Behind every woman who acts hard as hell theres usually someone who made them that way
candice tennyson so true.
If only we gave the same courtesy to men
Goes both ways
Oh yeah 🤗
Men and women do 2 each other and 4 me a woman did 2 me but I don't take it out on the next woman I date kauze all women are deffrent tho.and Should b respected but all women r krayzie 😊
I LOVE this band. I love their music. Their sound and presentation that goes with it. Absolutely one of my favorite bands.
I couldn't help myself when it was both for me.
You have your space,,, I have mine!!
There seems to be a repeat of the quote “don’t fall in love be in love. Everything that falls breaks.” Flowery tea. When you fall in love, there’s someone there to catch you before you hit the ground. The proof is in the impact, what did you land on? Stone, or eternity. I love you. I hope you see this someday. ⚖️
WAHH! ZEREF AND MAVIS! THIS IS TOTALLY THEIR STORY IN ZEREF'S EYES.
+Christiana Jacinto Fairy tail :3
damn right Zervis!!! gosh so much feels
Aloosh Sabah ALL THE FEELS.
I don't think so but It's a good song for most part of the story
José Manuel Rodarte Well, of course the whole song doesn't describe their story, but the concept is similar. After Mavis "died" due to the love they had for each other, that was pretty much the icing on the cake for how Zeref had already been feeling..... and... UGH, THE FEELS. T-T
The song just reminded me a lot of them.
They say the same thing, "I shouldn't have fallen in love at all."
This describes the situation I currently am in although I haven't gotten to date her... She just makes me happy everytime I see her but now.... After I find out she doesn't slightly feel the way i feel towards her... Just... The agonizing pain of hearing they don't feel the same way...
I know the feeling
kollin seek well I was dating someone for a month then they left me for someone else I still have feelings for her and she's acting g like she cares then she doesn't I k ow how you feel
Stay strong, brother!!
this
This days I wanted to listen to music but I couldn't find a single song that talked about how I feel, THIS is the song I was searching for I REALLY LOVE this song.
Man oh why this is 10 years old . We have to fall for this 10 years earlier
It's 2018 and I'm still here. This song is master piece. Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷
wow 90% of the lyrics matches with my thoughts
New year, the first thing in my recommendation. NO REGRETS FINIDNG THIS
This song has so many quotes that hit so deep and so hard.
For further statements, I think “lines” is the best word to use here, God bless.
If indeed she is the one made from your ribs she will not be anything but perfect for you. It is called grace. We don't deserve anything but it's grace.
I love this song. this is incredibly soulful music. i can see how the real romantics who really loved in their lives once wrote this song. and matt can do any song perfectly.
This song I swear affects everyone that's ever been in love it's rare to find music like this anymore I just wish there was more like it these days oh well maybe one day
When you tell the girl you love that you cant talk to her anymore because you know there is no possible way you will move on if you do :(
Aaron Martin or that moment when you cant even say that because you cant live without her :'(
CiausTheShadowLord i can relate so much ;c
*hugs*
CiausTheShadowLord to you too ;c
CiausTheShadowLord i know the feeling
How dare he be so perfect. What did I do to deserve this?
I haven't cried since the day he left me.
I know that feeling, except she texted and not face to face...
All soul contracts are cancelled. All deals/pacts with evil dissolved. All chains broken.
Lord please forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us. In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen
You are loved. You are wanted. You are not a mistake. You are a miracle. You are free. Escape. God bless
There's no person in this world is perfect. All are created by God with imperfections so that no one will boast. Maybe someone you know seems perfect to you (tho they are not) because they are different in some ways or some aspects in their life that you see in them and you compare them to (some) people you always accompanied with in your daily life.
Glad I'm not the only one to come across this band 9 years late!
Still in love with my girlfriend who died in a car crash in 2015...lost her a week before my sister passed away.
Just can't stop listening, it's so catchy!
Dude i iust discovered this group right now because i listen to three days grace for 10 years and i saw that matt was the singer in here as well!!
12 years and here i am admitting this lyrics are exacly my words.
Never let him go... How dare he be so perfect...
how dare i be so late to this song
Years later and this song still feels the same..
3 years and I’m finally over her today, the feeling is freeing. I was with her just under a year. At the beginning, everything was perfect. Later she was suicidal and abusive. Once she told me I was one of the only things in the world stopping her from ending herself, a hell of a weight to put on a 19 year old. If had never met her, she probably wouldn’t be around today, but she’d never admit it. I put up with it all because of what she was going through, the loss of her Dad and her Grandmas suicide. Up until that point we were the only 3 people that had ever truly loved her. I wanted to give her everything but after so much abuse from her end it was never enough. She was terrified that I was going to leave her, so she tried to slowly break down my self esteem so that I’d never leave. All it did was create the reason we broke up. I asked to be treated with respect, she wouldn’t admit her wrongs and lashed out. After we broke up she stalked me on one occasion. Every Saturday she’d get drunk and send me paragraphs of abuse telling that I was the worst person on earth. She couldn’t understand how we had ended things, so she lied to herself and claimed that I’d cheated on her, so instead of feeling as though she lost me she could hate me instead.
This week I finally forgave her. For 3 years the memories of that experience haunted me. I’ve had other girlfriends but everything fell through over time. That experience made me the person I am today. I’m not angry anymore. You never apologised for what you did and for the happiness you robbed from me. Your suicide attempts and abuse made me hurt like nothing else. But I’ve been okay for a long time now and I’ve moved on with my life. I’m building myself up again
Indi, you weren’t a good person, but I forgive you, and I hope you find happiness
You are a better man end me good job
Song makes so much Sense now thank you Whitley Thacker
this is my life but I'm a girl and he is a boy... Three days grace helped me up out of suicide because of him then I found this song which describes my life!😂😭
You are a fucked up human being. You should never, EVER say that somebody else is responsible for your suicidal feelings. Those feelings come from your own cold heart. Take it from one that's already frozen n black. You gotta train yourself to not let people affect you like that, because it's simply not their fault when EVERYTHING has the ability to affect you like that. Pull a Dizzy Wright, and Train Your Mind. I still do every day.
Sorry if I seem like a dick. But you have no idea what you are talking about, depression is often caused by biological issues such as hormone imbalances it is no one's fault if someone is feeling suicidal. Some people are more genetically disposed to such behaviours than others. Also you seem to be talking with near certainty about things you frankly have no way of knowing. Feelings don't come from your heart just so ya know. While I agree that suicide is almost never a reasonable solution, it's a better to not recommend solutions based on such a small amount of data as you'll cause more harm than good.
Jpython Lol, I have depression and anxiety and I don't know what I'm talking about? That's kind of ironic. She has every right to FEEL suicidal, I've been there, I think a lot of people have, but nobody should blame those feelings on other people. Simple as that. I'd like to know how that is a "recommended solution based on such a small amount of data." Lmfao that's petty.
matt10342 You also have a cardiac system doesn't mean you understand how it works.
By small amount of data I meant that you have no idea why she feels that way which is true. All you know is that she felt suicidal after breaking up with her ex. Clinical depression is a medical issue it's not just a feeling, if you really have it I suggest you see a medical professional about it if you have not already. It could be something as simple as hormone imbalances based on diet or it could be something genetic. Personal experience is not as important as scientific consensus and critical thinking based on that.
Jpython Dude you're making yourself look conceded... I would just stop... It's fairly obvious that somebody with depression understands what depression is. It is a chemical imbalance in your brain. No shit feelings don't come from your heart, I don't know how long it took you to figure that out, but I don't care. Stop trying to be a self-proclaimed genius because it's not working.
Im 9 years late but damn i love your sound. My darkest days, your music is amazing
This hits different when experiencing the same situation.
My pain is constant and sharp and I can never hope a better world for anyone
I met this girl and she is the most beautiful person i ever met and shes been stuck with other guys and it causes me to have emotional outbreaks and even know she wont see this
You are the best thing that ever happened to me
Love might be good for some, but for others, it's poison. It feels good to love somebody, but when they leave you for somebody else, your life falls apart and you're left all alone and not knowing what to do. Don't fall in love too quickly or you'll never learn if they truly love you back.
words to live by
Long time I heard this song I gave it to my ex when we broke up and now I can listen to it without crying hey guys time will heal it it's fine to fall in love just know it was for a reason and you'll get over it in time ☺️ I'm here if u need someone to talk too
Ur right bro. 2 Tru
Are you still there tho?
@@thegamingmattizer9245 yes
@@icewolf3100 danggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg
you are not alone i got used by ex as well she is reason i have not show emotion in collage for 3 years
Wow... This song couldn't have shown up on my youtube at a more perfect time in my life...
I dedicate this song to the one that got away. She's the one that introduced me to this band. Ironically, this song perfectly describes how I've been feeling. I will never forget you.
Rise In Love❤️🔥❤️🔥
Why So Perfect?🪞
⚡🌪️⚡🌊⚡
THE ONLY THING THAT WILL LAST FOREVER. IS THE *FACT* THAT NOTHING LASTS FOREVER...
Exactly how i feel
Everyone's like yes I relate to this and I'm like "yea that's me and my ex" "but i am the girl" "How dare i be so perfect" "jerk"
Yeah how dare you!
yea really
Me too lmfaooo
lol it dosent matter how it goes both sides take a pretty big toll either way
The only girl I ever dated was named memory this song is spot on she was perfect until she gave up the charade it turns out she just needed my money and had very little options I loved her with my whole heart and she used me. Thankyou for this song.
This is a perfect song to let my dad listen to because this song literally describes what he is going through and still wont get rid of this girl he likes.
I also love the song
Esta canción jamás se vuelve vieja
This song hit me so hard, it was almost like it knew what I when through... There's a girl who I have a huge crush on... we went out as friends a couple of times... it wasn't easy to get together, because sometimes something came up and she coud'nt come. One day we saw a movie in my house, I wanted to ask her out, but I thought "no, too soon, wait a little". But things kept happening, we didn't se each other... and on day, one lucky bastard asked her out from her work... they have little in common and they've been together 3 years... We are still friends, and she knows what I feel... she feels very sorry, but she's staying with the other guy... because she's in love... It's been long, but still hurts like hell. I don't know if I'm in love... I don't think I can afford it...
I'm almost in the same situation as you. I told this girl how i felt many times, I don't know why I keep doing and it always ends the same way with her saying she doesn't feel the same. She's not seeing anybody though but it's still hard, just seeing her. We were super close too, we used to talk everyday and now I don't even see her at all, it's really tough.
Harman Nahal Sorry to hear that, hopefully we will meet somebody new or things will get better... don't know, it's hard and we need to wait...
I really hope we do too. I just hate how hard it is to get over someone, even after knowing that they will probably never feel the same way.
So how did it turn out for you two. I read the comments and I’m invested.
@@15bellb Wow! It's been long... Well, like a soap opera... I'll explain and I'll try to be "short"... I ended up been depressed and did some traveling and voluntary work. After... 2 years, we still talked, but very little... One day she says to me that she broke up with that jerk and wanted to see me. And because I was so in love... We ended up dating. We became a couple... for about 2 years. Then... She wanted to go to her country (Colombia) to study and find work. I let her go because I thought she was coming back and I didn't want to be THAT type of boyfriend who doesn't let his girlfriend do stuff... Well, a few months later she said that she was going to stay and... That she met someone else... She blocked me 2 times because the new boyfriend didn't like me talking to her and when she blocked the second time... I was done. "Ok, that's how you wanted? Fine! Thanks for letting me know". I blocked her in every way and I haven't spoken to her ever since. I thing it was halfway 2019 the last time I think. It hurt, but I can't have her in my life anymore.
This was just a summary, more happend but this is what happend. Sorry the story doesn't have a happy ending. The song still fits. Thanks for taking an interest, I hope I satisfied your curiosity. ;)
Now the vocalist is in a different band, "Three Days Grace". I miss these days but also really like the new TDG stuff
How dare he be perfect and im here broken
the first time I really fell deeply he abandoned me and was silent anytime l was near. but love for him kept alive in me way after. what good is love, then, I thought, it takes you and then it leaves you with useless feelings.
Later I learned true love is not somewhere that we fall, it is something that we do.
So sad she never loved you like you deserved. That was not true love. My true love will erase her. You will be thinking and feeling for me and our endless love. Don't look back. Your heart is free to love again and we do love so much more than you ever did, than I ever did before. We will show them what love is.
I'm addicted to this song 😭🖤
Ahh... Well this resonates in a bittersweet way. I feel this way about a very special guy who lead me on hella deep then ghosted out of nowhere 😭 it's been 3 years and I still love him. No one else comes close, I just can't find myself attracted to anyone else. Feels like I'll be single for life after meeting him, I'd rather be alone than with anyone else 😂😅... Love is tricky but man it's worth it
Very nice song and when i focused on the text... muuuch better, nice song!
If she/he hurt you that bad, then she/he can't be so perfect/amazing
Painful yet pleasant to listen too.
I feel this so much but for a boy. “I shouldn’t have fallen in love with him ” and “how dare he be so perfect”😫 “what gives him the right to tear up my life” 😞
He is to perfect for me but I still feel attracted to him…it hurts so bad 😔
This song will always make me think of my ex. Who is out of my life now but I still love and miss him everyday of my life. and I'll probably always love him
you truly did ruin me. Garret if you ever see this maybe you will bc I know you love this band too. and maybe you won't see it but I love you so much and always will.
Sounds like my feelings towards my ex I'm sorry for you girl keep strong you will find a man who really loves you
+Vincent van der Veen thanks I'm sorry you're feeling the same way it's not easy. I don't believe I'll ever love someone like I loved him but you know life goes on
+ilovedatherinetopieces. xx Yeah that's right but I still feel like I can not live without her :(
+Vincent van der Veen i have the same men i love someone who is in love with a other, i always have this.. i never had a good girlfriend who loves my much, i want it i dint feel love now i need someone....
I hope you moved on your life ❤️
Worst thing is experiencing love, wanting love, but gets rejected all the damn time.
Pain.
Do you succeded?
TH-cam suggesting me a masterpiece after 10 years of it's release.
Oh f**k, this song made me miss her. Thought I was over her. TH-cam proved me wrong.
so many thoughts... so many memories
Great sound! One of my favorite MDD's songs! 🎤 🎶 🎼
*_Beautiful Lyric!_*
I Love This Song !
Who here in 2021
Me
I'm here in 2021
This is one of my favorite bands
Just discovered that the vocalist now sings for my favorite band... but I like this band just as much
Why am I just listening to this band? like wow, they are awesome.
You were sending this to her last year and year before!! You know u love her she's not old!