RELATIONSHIPS in the Philippines CAN IT WORK? FOREIGNERS & FILIPINOS

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 มี.ค. 2024
  • #philippines #travel #life
    Can Foreigners and Filipinos find Love in the Philippines? What is the trick to making a relationship work..? In this vlog I talk to several people about what it takes to make a relationship work and ask how their relationships have been going and for how long. Come along and listen in to their responses and hear a little bit from Anne and I about our relationship...
    #chubsdubc #friends
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  • @dmg8304
    @dmg8304 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    chubb you have a great girl she is waiting for you to pop the question

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      neither of us are very excited in the concept of marriage, we’ll see how things play out 👍

  • @JohnJuan2129
    @JohnJuan2129 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I'm glad to see you're back at and feeling better ! Till the next one cheers!

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes me too 😁
      that was getting old not able to talk 😬

  • @robbydad4321
    @robbydad4321 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Smoking actually is the stupidest thing anyone can do for one’s health. Let us not forget though that the rotten tobacco industry at that time was covering up smoking’s ill effects.

  • @mikefoodee7846
    @mikefoodee7846 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bill has such a friendly demeanour. We love you guys. Great video.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes he does 😁💪 great gentle giant

  • @irabankston3390
    @irabankston3390 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Chubs you've done well in being patient, no hurry bro. So many expats just dive in, not understanding the contract😊Been married to same Filipina for 38 years. I enjoy the culture n the people. Love it here, thanks

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you and yes no rush no pressure things will work out the way they are supposed to 👍 Anne and i are working towards some goals… all too often people jump without smelling the Roses 😃

    • @irabankston3390
      @irabankston3390 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally agree, they start getting laid n lose they mind😅😅😅

  • @Kuya_Tom67
    @Kuya_Tom67 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love to hear Bill’s advice. Your insight has really helped me grow and be more aware of what I am looking for.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      great to hear 👍 i appreciate your comment and glad it offers some insight

  • @adriansmith2091
    @adriansmith2091 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bill is always a terrific guest. Thanks Chad

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes he is 👍 so glad to have met Bill and that he doesnt mind offering insight now and then 😁

  • @Ronsilk-pu5hr
    @Ronsilk-pu5hr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    OMG Chad I really hope you and Anne never break up because I know I will take it hard and most of your guys fans will too
    You 2 are a great team and I have loved Watchung your relationship grow.
    I see such a difference in Anne's confidence now compared to when you first met her.
    Anyways love ya both.
    Take care always and god bless you both

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      very nice words Ron thank you 🫶
      this is just the beginning and we appreciate you following along 😁
      Anne has impressed me as well, i knew right away she was different ❤️

  • @craigmalone6111
    @craigmalone6111 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bill always has a big smile

  • @FOCUSonASIA13
    @FOCUSonASIA13 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mr Bill laying down how it is, finding your own peace and tranquility

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      love Mr Bill and his insight 😁

  • @copaul71
    @copaul71 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Interesting switch up on this upload. Glad you are felling better. All the best to you and Anne.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i try and bring some personal vlogs as well and will be doing more 👍 thank you

  • @TheDercomiszar
    @TheDercomiszar 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of your best videos

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much 🫶

  • @minimalistation
    @minimalistation 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    More in depth interviews/chats with foreigners and their relationships with local women and vice versa would be good......................

  • @nikoa7936
    @nikoa7936 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    love the video

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you 🫶

  • @peppermo
    @peppermo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    One of the best videos that you have produced! Honest words from Bill (I really like that guy). Anne’s face when she here’s Danny met his girlfriend when she was 14….! My grandma was married when she was 15 (Georgia).
    Excellent vlog and you didn’t have to use a white board, or threaten to move!!
    Thanks !!!

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks Mo 🫶 it’s fun and informative and yes the Danny and early age marriage was crazy 😮 Bill.. always a pleasure to hear what he has to say 😁

  • @arnoldjohnson3317
    @arnoldjohnson3317 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys seems to be doing good they way you are doing it. So far, you’ve lucked out with Anne.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes i have 😁 thank you

  • @allsmilz7234
    @allsmilz7234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    *Thx4share good fun ChubsDubC* 👍

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😁👍✌️🫶

  • @Nana-qt1sz
    @Nana-qt1sz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Chad. When you first introduced us to Anne a while back, l told you she was a “keeper”. I had no doubt then and after over a year, I am more confident now. Do you still have any doubts? If so, then let her GO. If not, then tie the KNOT. Remember “there is no rush” has a flip side, which is “ why wait” 😁😁😁

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you make it sound like family is the only thing in this world to live and drive towards, it is a goal but not the only thing

  • @CoachDarren
    @CoachDarren 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chubs i love the way you beat to your own drum. Ann seems like great girl but don't rush into marriage because like you say you don't know what the futures holds. The gut telling you to get married havr kids and leave Ann the money that was too funny...lol.. Loved the way you handled that. You and Ann keep enjoying each other you both seem like wonderful people. I am here in Angeles hope to meet you both soon to say hello.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much 🫶 yes no rush everything’s new let it unfold as it will 😃
      Our paths shall cross someday soon Coach 👍

  • @squatch1464
    @squatch1464 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have been married to a Filipina for 33 years and have given her tens of thousands of dollars to her and her family over the years and it has been worth every penny. She has always been there for me and taken care of my every need. I now have some health issues and she continues to take care of me and the smallest of task. The funny thing is that they treat you so well, you will want to help them out. You can't go wrong with a good Filipina wife!

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      so true 👍 Filipinos are the most caring without complaint people there are 🫶 thank you

  • @slevinmarkusreadings6162
    @slevinmarkusreadings6162 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing, I think I saw Ann on Friday at drake hotel front entrance?

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes you most likely did 👍 she is working there.. thank you

  • @johnallen4461
    @johnallen4461 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chad you found a good one with Anne. She is very caring and loving and take's good care of you. I hope you two make it last for as long as you can.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you John 🫶
      we make a great couple, so rewarding for both of us 😁❤️

    • @darransumpton7385
      @darransumpton7385 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So how long You 2 been together ❤❤

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @darransumpton7385 15 months now 👍😁

  • @curtiscagle6261
    @curtiscagle6261 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YES ! It's not in the bar.

  • @myretirementlife8731
    @myretirementlife8731 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think most places in South East Asia the relationships between locals and foreigners work the same way, you have to be prepared to do some paying, but I wouldn't change my choice of an Asian wife.
    It must be nice that everywhere you go there everyone speaks English, that's a drawback here in Thailand, unless you are in the bigger cities, you need to learn at least a little bit of Thai or keep your translation app on the phone open.

    • @edwardgriffin6042
      @edwardgriffin6042 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not everyone speaks English here, (including school children).

    • @hungarianaussie
      @hungarianaussie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think if you live in a foreign country you have to learn to speak their language..At least you are making an effort to assimilate into the local culture..

    • @myretirementlife8731
      @myretirementlife8731 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@edwardgriffin6042 OK, I guess he just finds the English speakers on the videos.

    • @myretirementlife8731
      @myretirementlife8731 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@hungarianaussie I agree, I am learning slowly

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      that was a big reason i didnt choose Thailand as a possible place to retire.. the language barrier 👍

  • @kevinagee5403
    @kevinagee5403 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Danny brings up a very good question. I understand the non-marriage. But as far as passing one never knows. So, to have something in writing just in case is not a bad Idea. Your soon to go home n sure will have some thought process time and seeing family n friends n what's changed in the US/MN. But I just say this as if you were to unexpectly pass. the above is something good to have in place for your significate other. Just thoughts...

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes its always good to prepare for anything 👍

  • @1292buzz
    @1292buzz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bill was a beast as worlds strongest man

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hells ya 💪 so fun to watch when young 😮😁

  • @jamescrabill7345
    @jamescrabill7345 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chad communication is key for a lasting realtionship. When I quit smoking in 1997 I believe it was abouit 3.50 a pack.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👍 yes it is James thank you 😁
      i quit when they hit $5

  • @deadbugdoug
    @deadbugdoug 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    did you get your Ray-Bans in the states? 6-12" of snow forecast here in Chaska tomorrow.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      no i bought those blue Maui Jims at SM ($230)👍
      i heard the weather was crap again.. it is March madness time and i suppose high school sports 😬

  • @ricksdestinationcebu
    @ricksdestinationcebu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We cant wait for our final move back to Cebu.Tampo happened here once and only once..I should sell the secret..😊

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cebu 👍
      yes you could make a fortune on the Tampo cure

  • @fury5502
    @fury5502 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the big things you have to consider is the culture difference. The Filipino has one of the biggest hearts ever and I have never been looked after so well in all my life, however they are very jealous when it comes to relationships and very protective over these. You have to look at the big picture here and understand the background of some of the people to the reason why they are like this then you will understand. As a partner I do not think you will ever get better as long as they are in it for the right reasons, Bill was bang on the nail what he said, a very wise man, total respect.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes true to all 👍 and thank you for the comments 😁 biggest hearts is right, we can all appreciate that ❤️
      background is important to fully understand 👍

  • @reidadams4277
    @reidadams4277 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In Iowa at my parents age and grandparents it wasn't uncommon for girls at the age of 14 or 15 to get married. And the average age gap was 10 years.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i know it was a different era for our parents and especially grandparents 👍
      at 14 i was in 8th grade or so 😮 i still cant grasp the idea of marriage at that age.. thank you for the comment

  • @davidchadwick6816
    @davidchadwick6816 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So my British wife comes home from shopping. You like my 5 k pesos dress you bought me. And you can take me to dinner also . Your loving sweet Filipina wants 5 k to send home now and again, we're so lucky to live here..

  • @deantucker1464
    @deantucker1464 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just fyi, Chad...Grace and I will probably have children. I'll be the one saying I'm 68 and my wife is pregnant. She'll live long past me so good to leave her with children to care for her. I swear...you are so blessed. You couldn't have ended up with a better woman than Anne. She needed a strong but gentle man to help her through the trauma she experienced. God bless you both...we'll see you two sometime in June or July.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you 🫶 yes we are both blessed 🙏 things happen for a reason and these reasons are coming to light for all to see 😁 Anne has had tuff times so thank you again for understanding..
      we look forward to seeing you and Grace soon 😃

  • @timhnc75
    @timhnc75 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Secret to dealing with a Filipina when she gets upset feed her 😁

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👍 there ya go 😁

  • @edwardgriffin6042
    @edwardgriffin6042 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have googled but no definite answer; what are the advantages/disadvantages of an old foreigner bringing his much younger American gf/wife here and if she is young, blond and pretty? Is she in danger if she is out alone?

  • @Brenttravels
    @Brenttravels 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Getting into Angeles on Friday the 29th , being a very religious holiday are the bars still open?

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes bars should still be open 👍 Filipinos might not be able to drink but foreigners are ok

    • @Brenttravels
      @Brenttravels 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chubsDubC Thanks for reply , hoping to run into you! 🍻🇨🇦

  • @dave-d-grunt
    @dave-d-grunt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    48 years.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      wow amazing 👍👏 congrats

  • @bbaalliibbaaggoo
    @bbaalliibbaaggoo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i'm 73

  • @Mahdi_G-888
    @Mahdi_G-888 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If you take your time you can find a good filipina who will love and take good care of you as long as you treat her well and you're not a bar hopping womanizing POS.
    Shout out request for my good friend Dave in Denver.

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      well said my friend 👍😁

  • @Rhandlezz
    @Rhandlezz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yea..just 1 kid to lock that money in. 😅😂

  • @craigmalone6111
    @craigmalone6111 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Smokes over 50 a pack in Australia

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      oh my 😮
      thats crazy and smart 👍

  • @LeeStenstrom-lc3my
    @LeeStenstrom-lc3my 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What.... why did you cut Kieth out?!?! Feel like I missed the best part of the video. Has he found a special someone yet????

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      no he hasnt found anyone just small talk 👍

    • @davidchadwick6816
      @davidchadwick6816 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Great guy Keith...he boxes clever haha. Love Dave and Abby..

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes Keith is a great guy 😁

  • @shanegrant2359
    @shanegrant2359 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    There is no benefit of getting married 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @chubsDubC
      @chubsDubC  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      👍

    • @Nana-qt1sz
      @Nana-qt1sz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are so, so wrong. Getting married means a pathway for citizenship for her children and with it, an abundance of opportunities for them to choose from. Not saying all Filipinos want to make it to America but I doubt you could find a handful that would turn it down

    • @jonreedau81
      @jonreedau81 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Nana-qt1sz Chad would have to adopt her children for a path to citizenship or they would all have to return to the US for 5 years plus and Anne would have to naturalize and her boys receive derivative citizenship through her- do you know of another way?

    • @Nana-qt1sz
      @Nana-qt1sz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @jonreedau81 Those were my two choices too, although it would be very challenging to adopt those kids since their dad is still around and could make it difficult. The easiest method is, as you mentioned, by way of Anne’s naturalization. The only caveat is that they need to spend at least 30 months out of a 5 year period physically in the US. Or three years if you are married to a US citizen.