I had a coworker who had a crush on me. She was working and my sister came in and she walked over to her and asked if I'd like to hang out. It made it pretty awkward whenever me and her worked only because I liked her back and was too nervous to ask her out. She would compliment me all the time, she knew I liked tea and gave me a couple packets. Unfortunately she quit and we lost contact and now she has a boyfriend. Biggest mistake of my life because she was gorgeous!!!
1. They say hi to you every morning without fail. 2. She ask you about your evening and weekend. 3. She call you and ask for help... @1:05 4. She tells you about her family and friends and their plans 5. She ask about your friends and family 6. She makes an effort to sit with you during meetings 7. She often offers to work with you 8. She notice small changes in your appearance 9. She ask you if you want to do something out of work 10. She asks to grab lunch together 11. She might ask you to walk with her to car 12. She brushes you when walking by 13. Her legs happens to brush yours 14. She catches your gaze across the room 15. She buys you cute trinkets or buys breakfast for you @4:14 16. She remembers your birthday 17. She often sings your praises to other workers 18. She will defend you to other workers 19. She has given you a cute nickname 20. She remembers what you like 21. She worries about you 22. Other co-workers mentioned that they notice she likes you 23. She asks you out
she doesnt do many of these things, but i can tell by the way she smiles at me. my god, its the brightest happiest smile ive ever seen and it makes me giddy.
I work in a warehouse so some of the office stuff can't happen. I'm fairly certain though this co worker has a crush on me. Randomly one day she walked up to me and said she liked my shirt and walked off. Every single day after that she's said hi, about a week ago she started asking me if I'm working in my usual department, or how I'm doing. If I'm not there I've caught her casually trying to see if I'm there. And now her hi's include a very enthusiastic waive. Could just be a shy person being more comfortable, but I'm pretty sure she "likes" me. Excellent video!
I do this at work with everyone, even females. Starting to see why one of my male co workers thought it was ok to ask me out even though I told him I was taken. Now I avoid him at all costs and dont talk to him at all
michelle richardson ok what if she telling she single, always touch me, sometimes trying to find me to say hello to me and I got her number. Should I ask her out or she only being friendly?
michelle richardson ok last question; I text her last night, we talk about 30 mins and I ask what she was doing at the moment. She never answered to that question but did respond to my previous message. I just left like that and we stop texting. Base on your past experiences, are did I mess up or are we still cool? I also like to point out we been talking at work for the past 2-3 months, but this last 2 weeks we been getting more closer
Yep! If she smiles and holds eye contact that may be a sign but…some people are just nice like me. I care about my co workers so it may come across as me liking them or getting to know them not because I want something from them just wanting to get to know them.
This is my first time having a mini crush on a woman.. I’m generally shy but she says “Hi” everytime we see each other but she’s probably just being nice 👍🏻
@@lukehart7225 yeah that's what i mean but only do it outside of work,so that way it won't look awkward or embarrassing in front of others at your job.Cause y'all wouldn't want to get into trouble so it's best to be discreet about it man.
@@manofsteelgoodmanll7925 thanks for the advice Superman! That’s true, I wouldn’t want to embarrass myself. One more thing, WHAT IF the person is alone, would l be able to make a move then?
I dated a beautiful Puerto Rican single mother at work 🥰. But when we had a man argument she went straight to HR 💀. I was encouraged to “resign” from the company. Don’t do it guys, it’s not worth it.
Also called " how to get your ass fired because one of your female coworker blamed you for sexual harassment" ...Nice, but hey it's not 1980 anymore...
Well for me I’m awkward I’ve gotten better over the years and now that I’m older I don’t care what people think of me and it’s helped. But if I even get one female coworker to speak to me I assume she likes me cause I’m so awkward lol. I know they are being nice but still it crosses my mind but I don’t do anything just nicely talk back but it’s not like I think about it.
In high school there was a girl who was a friend of another girl told me she likes me. When I talked with the other girl she told me I reminded of someone she knew. I told her I really don't need any friends. One reason I thought she had other boyfriend. She cried....I guess she really liked me...but I didn't want to date her. The end.
This girl sending me mixed signals tho she would flirt and touch me and i was ok with it …So i tested the waters by touching her and she said “ dont touch me , only i can touch you” it clicked to me right away that she was just leading me on and told her to back off and stop touching me. I gained me ground back! 👊
I noticed these signs when I was younger and single, working in an office with young single females, but was afraid to make a move because we worked together.
Fellas dont get involved with women at work itll be such a boring relationship being around each other all the time you need space away from each other e.g when you're at work
Luckily we don't live together and yeah we game online together, but we only actually have one day off together, and that's our date day, do far its been a great 5 months! Actually makes me look forward to work!
Thanks for the good tips or what to watch out for if a co worker likes me. I got a women at work that does some of the things you mentioned in your video. But I not sure if she is just being friendly or interested.
Can’t say I do all of those things, I do about 4 of them.. I am so attracted to this guy at work and we have unbelievable eye contact which sends all sorts of feelings through my body but that’s all it could ever be which Is sad.. oh very sad 😞
I do not know why this is video is in the recommended list for me. I have no coworkers on my shift. I work completely alone from 2100 to 0500 at night. I see nobody save the security guard at the guard house that lets me in at night.
I really like Anna's content and her advice but I also find soo much humor in her demonstrative style and I could not hold back my laughter at the 0.45seconds portion where she has her hand behind her head trying to mimick someone making excuses as to why they came by your desk to get coffee. Obviously Anna would be a perfect cast for several movies when I think of it. Not sure if she is already in movies but yeah she is smart, relatable and very very very funny. I think we should do more to share her content with the rest of the world for those missing out. She is a 💫.
I do non of these things.... Just so you know. I'm so scared of him finding out I have a crush on him, I will do the complete opposite. I'll secretly watch him from across the room. Got forbid he talks to me, my IQ will drop to 0.
As a guy, I feel that since we do mostly all the approaching. Women need to be somewhere away from an audience and away from friends so it makes it easier to approach you. Then all you'll need to do is make eye contact and we'll most often come to talk to you. If he doesn't approach you then, he's not interested or he's already in a relationship 💯
this comment just made my day get a lot better because there is a girl I like who does exactly what you do. it completely stumped me why she would stare at me but not talk to me nor let me tell to her. in spite of her acting that way she will continue to stare and even smile. and like you she is terribly shy. but now at least I know it's her fear that is making her act this way. she knows that I favor her over the other girls because she's the only 1 i check out but anyway thanks for cheering me up. note I know she isn't rejecting me but is simply afraid
This girl I talk to at work, gave me her number, we ate lunch together before and talk a lot. Also started teaching her how to drive at the moment! Hopefully she’s the one!
Switch genders and it's considered sexual harrassment. However, I had a (former) female coworker try this flirty stuff with me. She even went so far as to leave multiple notes on my desk to this effect. Well, after showing HR those notes, I'm proud to say she no longer works here. Sometimes, life is fair. 💯😂👍
I hope this is a joke..Why would you do that? Did you warn her to stop flirting before making the complain? Remember men can take those kind of rejections but for that lady you may have giving her depression..you acted like a woman by doing that.
@@programmingpersistence5716 er … excuse me…Men can take those kind of refusals…what kind of bull is that …. I personally have just come out of a 7 year friendship/relationship with what turns out to be a covert narcissist…,the final discarded has left me heartbroken and in utter confusion… had no idea what I was dealing with or w was what I had just been through… That guy had every right to stay clear …
@@deantaylor1512 i had my fair share of heartbreak...okay not all men can take it but my reply was directed to the fact that he reported her behavior when he could have used other means..and caused her to lose her job
Looks like something only a d!ck would do. These gestures are completely harmless and very sweet in my opinion. I had a co-worker who used to do some of the things in this list and it think it's sweet. Even cooked for my birthday and brought me food sometimes. Only a douche would complain to such gestures.
@@louieg7676 Of course, that is the point he is making. A lot of the behaviour that is considered "sexual harassment" is completely harmless. Yet, so man men have had their careers taken away from them because of HR complaints.
Misses when I am absent, ask to clean my area to sweeper, sits in front for long talks, smiles at me , remember my words , saves from other clever persons. , But Never Not touched. me.
In my opinion, most of those signs are way too overt for a woman. I would surmise that we are talking about a very high end guy, and above average girls to high end girls.
Office relationships can happen and work out..but they are much much more difficult ...the most important thing is protect your career first and foremost! if you are working a minimum wage job it won't be a big deal..if you are in a career that your reputation precedes you ...it can be devastating to your career if things go sideways... also make sure you consult HR or the rules of the company about relationships..you could find yourself transferred to Fargo ND all of a sudden.. those things things that she talked about in this video would be easy to explorer (i.e. if she likes you or not) if you do not work together..but at work the risk factor goes skyrocketing..what if you confuse her "signals" would she be able to get you fired? the above is especially true if you are her superior at work... @Anna i do not mean to say your video is wrong but people need to know that it comes with risk (especially for men) compared to getting in a relationship that has nothing to do with work...
Same here bro, I am waiting my gf to come here, she is stuck because of the lockdown. This colleague keep giving me attention and she likes me a lot even if she knows Im engaged because she saw my ring and we have been talking about it. but it can be dangerous, so watch out and stay loyal to your girlfriend!
Technically we're not coworkers, her company is employed to maintain the indoor plants, so we do "work" together. She started watering the plants in my section first, on the second floor last room on that floor. And watered the rest of the floor hours later, even though she had to passed all of them to get to where I was. She also looked at me, did the ear hair tuck then looked down. Later on the same day I was on the main floor collecting my returns and she was staring right at me, she was obviously smiling under her mask. When she returned to water the rest of the floor I finally introduce myself, said my name and nickname, she said hers showed both her palms and called me by my nickname.
What I’ve noticed is she likes to sit across from me or sit near my supervisor and has clear shot of me in her view. Also I’ve also noticed that if she hasn’t seen me around on the floor( we work a a mental health school) she will walk to see where I’m located
Personally I work very hard as other people I train in the gym 5days a week just increasing my performance more with some support.But I'm still working hard as I'm getting myself acclimated for both work and school of course.I'm usually busy most of the times though.
Every time I watch your videos, my mind always probes the numerous girlfriends I have and tries to narrow them down while listening and remembering the tiny details
Well, I have a female coworker who works in customer service and I work in IT. I would say only 3 or 4 things the girl in the video mentioned are true. This gal does indeed go out of her way to come to the 2nd floor, acting as if she is going to get something off the printer. As she walks by, smiling widely and tells me "Hi Mr. Glen", so I guess that's the "cute" name. she does not acknowledge anyone else in my area, only me. And, I have caught numerous times staring at me, but she looks away when she knows I saw her. And she does ask me about my weekends. And if this woman is working in the customer service window, she will wave at me and has a big smile on her face. So, I guess this woman does indeed have a crush on me. None of my coworkers has said anything to me, especially this one chick who works in my office area.
I like how she’s only talking about some of these things on if a girl dies this she likes you when it’s young kids type of things that they would be doing not grown young adults . And she’s only talking about only situations about a girl doing things around you if she likes you but to only be at a desk as if it’s that only one type of job when it could be at a grocery store you work at but in another department from hers
I got the touchy sign and she ask when we going to hang out but she’s never available to hang so very confusing and when I ignore her at work she asks me, “why I am ignoring her” she is so confusing. What should I do?
Last 6 wks, a female vendor is at my busy job Tues/Thur (early a.m.) for 1-2 hrs. It’s a small delivery warehouse building. She’s thin, blonde, gorgeous w green eyes. Sorta looks like Christina Applegate. I had crush on her 2 min after we were introduced. We talk a few min each day about non work stuff, her dog, our mutual interests. She has 2 younger grade school kids. We talk before 95% of employees get there. And if still talk a little when everybody else is there but we are all super busy loading, staging delivery totes on racks. She’s never mentioned a bf or husband. She’s always in a good mood, smiling, kind & sweet. She’s lightly tapped my arm when talking or walking by me a few times. I haven’t noticed her touching other people. She gave me gift right before Xmas: a cat-eye bracelet, small crystal & rose crystal. I gave her small thank u gift next time I saw her. It was a beige canvas wallet w the Mexican day of the dead roses/skull and a small geode. She said she really liked it and has a tattoo on her leg of the same design. 5 min later before she left, she walked up behind me while I was fixing a shelf and stood next to me. She gently grabbed my forearm and said, “thanks again I really like them.” Does she want me to ask her out? Or is she just being friendly, really nice in a platonic way. I want to tell her “let’s grab a drink sometime.” What do u think I should do?
I'm a girl, and don't work In an office, and lemme tell y'all, if I like a guy, I will lean towards you, make eye contact when I can, bc I love looking into your eyes 😋 Im also hesitate to leave when I'm around you, and will love to be near you when you're around, and also play around a little
What is a hospital and not a office? I work in radiology and she's works in the ER. I made small talk then we talked about our nye plans and she has told me about her family , then how she got a new puppy. I asked her questions. She holds eye contact and smiles. It's been only a few times we get to actually have a convo. We both run around with patients so I haven't had the right time to ask her out. Should I wait?
It's my second day working at Walmart. She legit stops working & walk over to where I was greeting people as they walk in & said hey I think your hot. I stop and was like bro do she know I am a girl 😂
I have bipolar and im just up and down most of the time, sometimes i can be chatty and sociable but then other times i feel kind of out of place at my work and i put on a brave face and smile and say "alright", "hello" but im just not able to talk much. Ive gotten better with it but still can feel quite shut off. Anyway this girl who works in the office part ive noticed has flirted with me abit, i d just bought at new phone. A Samsung S10, and then like a few weeks later she bought the exact same phone, same cover too, "Prism White" like mine. When i walked in she was like "guess what i bought." And showed me, i was like "ohh nice, how much did you pay for it?" And we just ended up talking bout the different deals. Shes a nice person but i just think if she really got to know me she would like not be interested in the end, im too shut off, i cant seem to really connect with anyone. I just go to the pub after work sometimes and have a few drinks and play pool with my drinking buddy, it helps me relax and not like think about everything all the time. I think about things too much i think, it can be quite overwhelming. Sometimes you just want to just live life and just i dont know, sometimes i just dont feel normal in my self.
Hey man, I'm the same way. I always felt that whatever didnt work out for me, was because I was never myself, like ever. This girl seems to like you so I think based off your excpert she has some level of comfort around you and i think thats really hard to get through when talking to girls or anyone. If she feels comfrotable around you and vice versa then why not keep talking to her. Dont seek to connect with people, let it flow. I know its hard becasue i do too have bipolar, sometimes were super into talking and sometimes we dont wanna make eye conatct with anyone. Learning to accpet who you are will make it easier going forward, yeah you dont have to be out there talking to every girl but if theyre talkin to you, hey man keep it up, i always felt that when a girl talked to me that i was doing soemthing right. Cheers man, hope this helps, dont depend on your happiness in the hands of others. be you!
Man I have this girl tell me that she was flirting with me at work, then the virus hit and she was gone for like 3 months and dude I literally lost my hair in that time. She came back and it’s not the same, I’m like really ugly now out of no where so she probably changed her mind. She’s told me tons of times I’m really sweet and stuff, but idk I just do nice stuff for everyone. My grandma just passed away and she randomly bought me a fire stick and said this could help you take your mind off of it. I think she could just be being really friendly now and not interested in me the way she was before. Idk dude I’m so stupid and I never really have anyone like me like that, so I’m just going crazy. A lot of me wants to just ask her out, but I don’t have confidence, I don’t like even what I look like anymore and I probably sound stupid saying this stuff. Idk I really like her though and there’s tons of better looking guys that would be better for her so if she finds something and that makes her happy then whatever, I’ve been alone for so long anyways. I honestly am simping pretty hard lol, in my feelings so much. I just really like her and want to be there for her through anything but like I don’t wanna come off as some weirdo. Yeah idk sorry I too also have the problem of being shut in and stuff at times and I feel like that makes her not like me cause I don’t speak on that side of me too much. She’s such a great person though seriously it’s more than the fact that she is good looking to me.
Sadly I'm the guy who did all 25 not her...lol but usually I don't look for too many signs when I like a girl I just walk up to her and approach and see what happens. I actually approached my co-worker and she told me she isn't ready now but sometime in the future she might be
It’s not all about the office , other jobs are out there ! I’m a del driver and have a thing for a lady customer I del too , I like her and want to make a subtle move
I think maybe this girl at my work likes me a lot when i looks at her she looks at me sometimes. The One time She stood next to me for a while when i was talking with my friends at work and it seemed liked She looked at my and then went away like She wants to tell my something a bit crepy but nice cause i love her. The One time i walked out of a room rigth after She left the room and She looked at my rigth away when i also went trough the door out of the room. She also just walked passed my the one time when i was alone all by her self i look at her a lot. She is so nice to everyone realy helpful and calm. She always comes up with some funny jokes here and there her laughter is so funny she is laughing a lot. I realized that i loved her so much when She was away for my work for One weekend it was so quiet and then i realized it was because She is so funny and started missing her when She is sad it is like something seriosly wrong has happend. When She walks it looks like She own the whole world so confident dont mess with me i know what im doing. I realy hope we can be together sometime cause then i wil laugh and be so happy i realy want her in my life She is an true angel i wish her all the best in her life.❤️❤️❤️
Yeah... My coworker ran over and sat on my lap - in a classroom, bought me a bottle of whiskey, dragged me outside on my leaving do.... The rest is history. Nowadays I'm single and happier than I've ever been....!!!
Being married doesnt mean shit. Trust me. I got female coworkers trying to get my validation and they have husbands. They are either interested in u or just playing games. Personally I ignore the flirtation. I've messed with coworkers in a previous job and it's just not worth it. These are professional jobs btw
Ha… be very very careful your not dealing with a covert narcissist… just had a 7 year deep friendship with one … loved boomed .. run down … discarded… on a constant cycle…. Hadn’t a clue what I was dealing with until the final discarded….be warned..
exactly right..for some of the people commenting how it is not a problem..that maybe true in the beginning but if the relationship goes sideways at some point and she wants to get revenge for you breaking up or seeing someone else..you may find yourself looking for another job pretty quickly ...
I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by greeting me every time she sees me (hey whenever I clock in for work and bye whenever I leave work), laughing at every time I make a joke whether it's a funny joke or corny/lame joke, offering to help me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?
You definitely need to let her make the move this time. Just respect yourself and focus. You made the first move so time for her to make the second one if she's interested. Don't get rejected twice.
Guys: in this day and age I'd avoid dating a coworker at all costs. I'm 57, so I was working in the mid 80s, and was dating a coworker in 1990 - it was and is a common place to meet people...but I wouldn't risk it these days, especially if you can't afford to lose your job. Times have changed, and more importantly laws have changed, and you can get screwed over for even a perfectly innocent compliment, much less actually getting involved. (Btw, I have dated coworkers twice since then, but one I took out to lunch on her last day before she moved to a new job - that lasted the better part of a year, and the next started a few months before I was planning to leave - and was looking - that ended shortly after I found the next job sadly (her decision), in neither case was I really puting my job at risk).
These are nice for office workers, but, I don't think any of these apply to working in the retail world. Doubtful that any of my femaie co-workers like me anyway. Heck, doubtful if any female AT ALL likes me.
So for guys who don't work in an office there aren't any signs to tell that a female coworker likes you? That's sad. Well, then I have to quit my current job, which includes getting my hands dirty on construction sites and get an office job. But when I think about it, then I wouldn't have the same female coworker around me anymore that I suspect of finding me attractive. Damn! Fooled by life once more.........
All you need is one way. I like you, want to go out? So many girls do some of these, half of these, it doesn't mean she likes you like that, if I girl is doing all these things and you still need this video then you are hopeless.
5:36 After hearing this, you decide to make the first move. One day later the boss calls you to have a chat immediately in his office for "sexual harassment" complain from a co-worker. 😂☠
Hey everyone!
Hii. Btw you look like Emilia Clarke
Everyone doesn't work in an office
Thank you so much! I'm a pretty dense guy! These help out a lot.
I had a coworker who had a crush on me. She was working and my sister came in and she walked over to her and asked if I'd like to hang out. It made it pretty awkward whenever me and her worked only because I liked her back and was too nervous to ask her out. She would compliment me all the time, she knew I liked tea and gave me a couple packets. Unfortunately she quit and we lost contact and now she has a boyfriend. Biggest mistake of my life because she was gorgeous!!!
Hey, very sound advice. Even in 2022 👏👏
Funny how in all these videos they assume everyone works in an office.
The majority of people do. If you want advice on how to attract fish wives then go and seek out an expert in fish factory love.
@@sandersson2813 plenty of people have over jobs
I know it’s annoying
@@sandersson2813 a fish factory lol
@@mariahconklin4150 LMAo right.
Fellas...if you like your job...not even that..if you NEED your job, stay away from work/ office romances at ALL costs
It can be done, both of you just need to be mature about it which can be difficult.
@@Leo-yn5fx emmhmm..until she decides not to be...
iPilott4411 That just proves my point why it can be difficult.
@@Leo-yn5fx 👍🏼
good guy 👍🏻
1. They say hi to you every morning without fail.
2. She ask you about your evening and weekend.
3. She call you and ask for help... @1:05
4. She tells you about her family and friends and their plans
5. She ask about your friends and family
6. She makes an effort to sit with you during meetings
7. She often offers to work with you
8. She notice small changes in your appearance
9. She ask you if you want to do something out of work
10. She asks to grab lunch together
11. She might ask you to walk with her to car
12. She brushes you when walking by
13. Her legs happens to brush yours
14. She catches your gaze across the room
15. She buys you cute trinkets or buys breakfast for you @4:14
16. She remembers your birthday
17. She often sings your praises to other workers
18. She will defend you to other workers
19. She has given you a cute nickname
20. She remembers what you like
21. She worries about you
22. Other co-workers mentioned that they notice she likes you
23. She asks you out
She tells me to shut up
Thanks bro
The hero we deserve :')
Had a coworker keep touching me and offering hugs too bad she was married
Yeah if you reciprocate and find yourself at HR for sexual harassment LoL
she doesnt do many of these things, but i can tell by the way she smiles at me. my god, its the brightest happiest smile ive ever seen and it makes me giddy.
Yeah. She's definitely gonna have to let me know directly. I can't afford to get FIRED. 🤫
it doesn't matter... don't pay any attention to them! it'll always go bad! trust me I learned that firsthand..
I'll remember that.
It wont always be bad some people marry from office romances
@@anthonyrocha7344 And some people have made it across mine fields.
I work in a warehouse so some of the office stuff can't happen. I'm fairly certain though this co worker has a crush on me. Randomly one day she walked up to me and said she liked my shirt and walked off. Every single day after that she's said hi, about a week ago she started asking me if I'm working in my usual department, or how I'm doing. If I'm not there I've caught her casually trying to see if I'm there. And now her hi's include a very enthusiastic waive. Could just be a shy person being more comfortable, but I'm pretty sure she "likes" me. Excellent video!
This is the one I've been waiting for...
Yeah she does none of these but then again I work in a warehouse not an office environment
She gets you fired because you don't fancy her
🤣🤣🤣
lmao ☹️
I do this at work with everyone, even females. Starting to see why one of my male co workers thought it was ok to ask me out even though I told him I was taken. Now I avoid him at all costs and dont talk to him at all
Thank you for commenting. That sounds like a difficult position to be in.
@@Joyanima no problem. He still tries to talk to me and ask me out I just tell him no and walk away lol
michelle richardson ok what if she telling she single, always touch me, sometimes trying to find me to say hello to me and I got her number. Should I ask her out or she only being friendly?
@@cjc4426 if she gave you her number then go for it.
michelle richardson ok last question; I text her last night, we talk about 30 mins and I ask what she was doing at the moment. She never answered to that question but did respond to my previous message. I just left like that and we stop texting. Base on your past experiences, are did I mess up or are we still cool? I also like to point out we been talking at work for the past 2-3 months, but this last 2 weeks we been getting more closer
Yep! If she smiles and holds eye contact that may be a sign but…some people are just nice like me. I care about my co workers so it may come across as me liking them or getting to know them not because I want something from them just wanting to get to know them.
I get a lot of smiles and stares at work. But I think they are just being nosey..
This is my first time having a mini crush on a woman.. I’m generally shy but she says “Hi” everytime we see each other but she’s probably just being nice 👍🏻
FACTS
Yeah but if she likes you a lot then go forward it.
@@manofsteelgoodmanll7925 with the signs in the video, if you notice them go forward it?
@@lukehart7225 yeah that's what i mean but only do it outside of work,so that way it won't look awkward or embarrassing in front of others at your job.Cause y'all wouldn't want to get into trouble so it's best to be discreet about it man.
@@manofsteelgoodmanll7925 thanks for the advice Superman! That’s true, I wouldn’t want to embarrass myself. One more thing, WHAT IF the person is alone, would l be able to make a move then?
I dated a beautiful Puerto Rican single mother at work 🥰. But when we had a man argument she went straight to HR 💀. I was encouraged to “resign” from the company. Don’t do it guys, it’s not worth it.
Workplace and a single mom? It can’t get much worse than that.
I work from home full time since the pandemic started No girls here in my apartment to get me in trouble anymore
Also called " how to get your ass fired because one of your female coworker blamed you for sexual harassment" ...Nice, but hey it's not 1980 anymore...
Well for me I’m awkward I’ve gotten better over the years and now that I’m older I don’t care what people think of me and it’s helped. But if I even get one female coworker to speak to me I assume she likes me cause I’m so awkward lol. I know they are being nice but still it crosses my mind but I don’t do anything just nicely talk back but it’s not like I think about it.
Thanks for commenting! Any subjects you'd like to see covered in future videos?
In high school there was a girl who was a friend of another girl told me she likes me. When I talked with the other girl she told me I reminded of someone she knew. I told her I really don't need any friends. One reason I thought she had other boyfriend. She cried....I guess she really liked me...but I didn't want to date her. The end.
Office spaces are a bit too specific. What about more blue collar jobs like restaurants, etc.
I like a guy at work unfortunately I didnt do anything from the things she said 😂 I’m so shy 😭
what if you work in retail?
I've done most of these things and he's done most of these things 😅🤣🤣🤣 I'm tempted to just say hey let's go get boba
This girl sending me mixed signals tho she would flirt and touch me and i was ok with it …So i tested the waters by touching her and she said “ dont touch me , only i can touch you” it clicked to me right away that she was just leading me on and told her to back off and stop touching me. I gained me ground back! 👊
I noticed these signs when I was younger and single, working in an office with young single females, but was afraid to make a move because we worked together.
Fellas dont get involved with women at work itll be such a boring relationship being around each other all the time you need space away from each other e.g when you're at work
Factssss i told a other guys this but they want to hear me
Luckily we don't live together and yeah we game online together, but we only actually have one day off together, and that's our date day, do far its been a great 5 months! Actually makes me look forward to work!
A very concise and thorough video. Good job!
Thanks for the good tips or what to watch out for if a co worker likes me. I got a women at work that does some of the things you mentioned in your video. But I not sure if she is just being friendly or interested.
Can’t say I do all of those things, I do about 4 of them.. I am so attracted to this guy at work and we have unbelievable eye contact which sends all sorts of feelings through my body but that’s all it could ever be which Is sad.. oh very sad 😞
I do not know why this is video is in the recommended list for me. I have no coworkers on my shift. I work completely alone from 2100 to 0500 at night. I see nobody save the security guard at the guard house that lets me in at night.
Not the most useful video for you I imagine! Thank you for commenting though :)
Dp you expect a video to know your work pattern? 🤣 🤣
is the security guard I bet!!!
I really like Anna's content and her advice but I also find soo much humor in her demonstrative style and I could not hold back my laughter at the 0.45seconds portion where she has her hand behind her head trying to mimick someone making excuses as to why they came by your desk to get coffee. Obviously Anna would be a perfect cast for several movies when I think of it. Not sure if she is already in movies but yeah she is smart, relatable and very very very funny. I think we should do more to share her content with the rest of the world for those missing out. She is a 💫.
Ya ok kiss ass😂 she's just another toxic little pretty girl spewing nonsense😂 way to simp and put her on a pedestal😂😂😂😂
So what's the best way to flirt back (or initiate flirting)?
Pull your pants down
work your way up to that
@@Lewisevans1618 😆 🤣 😂
I do non of these things.... Just so you know. I'm so scared of him finding out I have a crush on him, I will do the complete opposite. I'll secretly watch him from across the room. Got forbid he talks to me, my IQ will drop to 0.
As a guy, I feel that since we do mostly all the approaching. Women need to be somewhere away from an audience and away from friends so it makes it easier to approach you. Then all you'll need to do is make eye contact and we'll most often come to talk to you. If he doesn't approach you then, he's not interested or he's already in a relationship 💯
this comment just made my day get a lot better because there is a girl I like who does exactly what you do. it completely stumped me why she would stare at me but not talk to me nor let me tell to her. in spite of her acting that way she will continue to stare and even smile. and like you she is terribly shy. but now at least I know it's her fear that is making her act this way. she knows that I favor her over the other girls because she's the only 1 i check out but anyway thanks for cheering me up. note I know she isn't rejecting me but is simply afraid
This girl I talk to at work, gave me her number, we ate lunch together before and talk a lot. Also started teaching her how to drive at the moment! Hopefully she’s the one!
Avoid female coworkers, if they flirt with you... RUN!!!
I noticed all the signs…. But I don’t s***t where I eat. And I’m blunt about it at work (when asking),
Switch genders and it's considered sexual harrassment. However, I had a (former) female coworker try this flirty stuff with me. She even went so far as to leave multiple notes on my desk to this effect. Well, after showing HR those notes, I'm proud to say she no longer works here. Sometimes, life is fair. 💯😂👍
I hope this is a joke..Why would you do that? Did you warn her to stop flirting before making the complain? Remember men can take those kind of rejections but for that lady you may have giving her depression..you acted like a woman by doing that.
@@programmingpersistence5716 er … excuse me…Men can take those kind of refusals…what kind of bull is that …. I personally have just come out of a 7 year friendship/relationship with what turns out to be a covert narcissist…,the final discarded has left me heartbroken and in utter confusion… had no idea what I was dealing with or w was what I had just been through…
That guy had every right to stay clear …
@@deantaylor1512 i had my fair share of heartbreak...okay not all men can take it but my reply was directed to the fact that he reported her behavior when he could have used other means..and caused her to lose her job
Looks like something only a d!ck would do. These gestures are completely harmless and very sweet in my opinion. I had a co-worker who used to do some of the things in this list and it think it's sweet. Even cooked for my birthday and brought me food sometimes. Only a douche would complain to such gestures.
@@louieg7676 Of course, that is the point he is making. A lot of the behaviour that is considered "sexual harassment" is completely harmless. Yet, so man men have had their careers taken away from them because of HR complaints.
i'll start by getting a desk...
I fully agree with you. I had been noticing these signs time and again.They definitely have a crush on me.
let you
Misses when I am absent, ask to clean my area to sweeper, sits in front for long talks, smiles at me , remember my words , saves from other clever persons. , But Never Not touched. me.
In my opinion, most of those signs are way too overt for a woman. I would surmise that we are talking about a very high end guy, and above average girls to high end girls.
Interesting take, thanks for commenting Daniel. Any subjects you'd like to see covered in future videos?
Office relationships can happen and work out..but they are much much more difficult ...the most important thing is protect your career first and foremost! if you are working a minimum wage job it won't be a big deal..if you are in a career that your reputation precedes you ...it can be devastating to your career if things go sideways...
also make sure you consult HR or the rules of the company about relationships..you could find yourself transferred to Fargo ND all of a sudden..
those things things that she talked about in this video would be easy to explorer (i.e. if she likes you or not) if you do not work together..but at work the risk factor goes skyrocketing..what if you confuse her "signals" would she be able to get you fired?
the above is especially true if you are her superior at work...
@Anna
i do not mean to say your video is wrong but people need to know that it comes with risk (especially for men) compared to getting in a relationship that has nothing to do with work...
It’s happening to me, and I’m engaged to another girl, so it’s kinda awkward
Lay down the law (reject) or lay down that pipe brother
I’m single and can’t even get something, here you are getting two of them lol. Maybe it’s because I’m a bald loser, but idk.
Same here bro, I am waiting my gf to come here, she is stuck because of the lockdown. This colleague keep giving me attention and she likes me a lot even if she knows Im engaged because she saw my ring and we have been talking about it. but it can be dangerous, so watch out and stay loyal to your girlfriend!
Do the right thing and lay down the law so you won't let it become dangerous...it's better to be honest then to be a liar.
"I'm engaged"
First mistake right there...
Marriage is a bad idea for men these days, in the west especially.
Technically we're not coworkers, her company is employed to maintain the indoor plants, so we do "work" together. She started watering the plants in my section first, on the second floor last room on that floor. And watered the rest of the floor hours later, even though she had to passed all of them to get to where I was. She also looked at me, did the ear hair tuck then looked down. Later on the same day I was on the main floor collecting my returns and she was staring right at me, she was obviously smiling under her mask. When she returned to water the rest of the floor I finally introduce myself, said my name and nickname, she said hers showed both her palms and called me by my nickname.
What I’ve noticed is she likes to sit across from me or sit near my supervisor and has clear shot of me in her view. Also I’ve also noticed that if she hasn’t seen me around on the floor( we work a a mental health school) she will walk to see where I’m located
Personally I work very hard as other people I train in the gym 5days a week just increasing my performance more with some support.But I'm still working hard as I'm getting myself acclimated for both work and school of course.I'm usually busy most of the times though.
I have an argument with myself every day.
Quiet life v. Life unfulfilled.
For me it was all these 25 signs but I was stupid ,naive, and scared, now I lost her forever.
If 23 of the 25 boxes are ticked and then she says she doesnt line you in that way
Every time I watch your videos, my mind always probes the numerous girlfriends I have and tries to narrow them down while listening and remembering the tiny details
Well, I have a female coworker who works in customer service and I work in IT. I would say only 3 or 4 things the girl in the video mentioned are true. This gal does indeed go out of her way to come to the 2nd floor, acting as if she is going to get something off the printer. As she walks by, smiling widely and tells me "Hi Mr. Glen", so I guess that's the "cute" name. she does not acknowledge anyone else in my area, only me. And, I have caught numerous times staring at me, but she looks away when she knows I saw her. And she does ask me about my weekends. And if this woman is working in the customer service window, she will wave at me and has a big smile on her face. So, I guess this woman does indeed have a crush on me. None of my coworkers has said anything to me, especially this one chick who works in my office area.
I assume you didn’t presume her?
I like how she’s only talking about some of these things on if a girl dies this she likes you when it’s young kids type of things that they would be doing not grown young adults . And she’s only talking about only situations about a girl doing things around you if she likes you but to only be at a desk as if it’s that only one type of job when it could be at a grocery store you work at but in another department from hers
Never dip your pen in the companies ink.
It can get complicated Anna.
Thank you Anna!🥰
cant resist this one😂 she strangles you in the bosses,chair in the dinner break and slowly feeds you chips and curry 😂😂😂👍
Cant apply any of these because of our work environment itself. We work in a restaurant. Im back of house (dishpit), and shes front of house (busser).
I got the touchy sign and she ask when we going to hang out but she’s never available to hang so very confusing and when I ignore her at work she asks me, “why I am ignoring her” she is so confusing. What should I do?
Good morning Anna u really make my day ❤❤
how do you read the signs if you work remotely
Last 6 wks, a female vendor is at my busy job Tues/Thur (early a.m.) for 1-2 hrs. It’s a small delivery warehouse building. She’s thin, blonde, gorgeous w green eyes. Sorta looks like Christina Applegate. I had crush on her 2 min after we were introduced.
We talk a few min each day about non work stuff, her dog, our mutual interests. She has 2 younger grade school kids. We talk before 95% of employees get there. And if still talk a little when everybody else is there but we are all super busy loading, staging delivery totes on racks. She’s never mentioned a bf or husband. She’s always in a good mood, smiling, kind & sweet. She’s lightly tapped my arm when talking or walking by me a few times. I haven’t noticed her touching other people.
She gave me gift right before Xmas: a cat-eye bracelet, small crystal & rose crystal. I gave her small thank u gift next time I saw her. It was a beige canvas wallet w the Mexican day of the dead roses/skull and a small geode.
She said she really liked it and has a tattoo on her leg of the same design. 5 min later before she left, she walked up behind me while I was fixing a shelf and stood next to me. She gently grabbed my forearm and said, “thanks again I really like them.” Does she want me to ask her out? Or is she just being friendly, really nice in a platonic way. I want to tell her “let’s grab a drink sometime.”
What do u think I should do?
i hope you got that drink.
its all about satisfactory and selfless acts...... or simply just dont get quote✌️😘😉🥰
If i want see something beautiful i land here thank you Ana amazing human being 😊😊😊for your videos
I'm a girl, and don't work In an office, and lemme tell y'all, if I like a guy, I will lean towards you, make eye contact when I can, bc I love looking into your eyes 😋 Im also hesitate to leave when I'm around you, and will love to be near you when you're around, and also play around a little
Thanks beautiful Anna.
What is a hospital and not a office? I work in radiology and she's works in the ER. I made small talk then we talked about our nye plans and she has told me about her family , then how she got a new puppy. I asked her questions. She holds eye contact and smiles. It's been only a few times we get to actually have a convo. We both run around with patients so I haven't had the right time to ask her out. Should I wait?
How to get your a$$ fired immediately. I'll pass.
It's my second day working at Walmart. She legit stops working & walk over to where I was greeting people as they walk in & said hey I think your hot. I stop and was like bro do she know I am a girl 😂
Well there are gay people so....
I have bipolar and im just up and down most of the time, sometimes i can be chatty and sociable but then other times i feel kind of out of place at my work and i put on a brave face and smile and say "alright", "hello" but im just not able to talk much. Ive gotten better with it but still can feel quite shut off.
Anyway this girl who works in the office part ive noticed has flirted with me abit, i d just bought at new phone. A Samsung S10, and then like a few weeks later she bought the exact same phone, same cover too, "Prism White" like mine. When i walked in she was like "guess what i bought." And showed me, i was like "ohh nice, how much did you pay for it?" And we just ended up talking bout the different deals.
Shes a nice person but i just think if she really got to know me she would like not be interested in the end, im too shut off, i cant seem to really connect with anyone. I just go to the pub after work sometimes and have a few drinks and play pool with my drinking buddy, it helps me relax and not like think about everything all the time. I think about things too much i think, it can be quite overwhelming.
Sometimes you just want to just live life and just i dont know, sometimes i just dont feel normal in my self.
Hey man, I'm the same way. I always felt that whatever didnt work out for me, was because I was never myself, like ever. This girl seems to like you so I think based off your excpert she has some level of comfort around you and i think thats really hard to get through when talking to girls or anyone. If she feels comfrotable around you and vice versa then why not keep talking to her. Dont seek to connect with people, let it flow. I know its hard becasue i do too have bipolar, sometimes were super into talking and sometimes we dont wanna make eye conatct with anyone. Learning to accpet who you are will make it easier going forward, yeah you dont have to be out there talking to every girl but if theyre talkin to you, hey man keep it up, i always felt that when a girl talked to me that i was doing soemthing right. Cheers man, hope this helps, dont depend on your happiness in the hands of others. be you!
Man I have this girl tell me that she was flirting with me at work, then the virus hit and she was gone for like 3 months and dude I literally lost my hair in that time. She came back and it’s not the same, I’m like really ugly now out of no where so she probably changed her mind. She’s told me tons of times I’m really sweet and stuff, but idk I just do nice stuff for everyone. My grandma just passed away and she randomly bought me a fire stick and said this could help you take your mind off of it. I think she could just be being really friendly now and not interested in me the way she was before. Idk dude I’m so stupid and I never really have anyone like me like that, so I’m just going crazy. A lot of me wants to just ask her out, but I don’t have confidence, I don’t like even what I look like anymore and I probably sound stupid saying this stuff. Idk I really like her though and there’s tons of better looking guys that would be better for her so if she finds something and that makes her happy then whatever, I’ve been alone for so long anyways. I honestly am simping pretty hard lol, in my feelings so much. I just really like her and want to be there for her through anything but like I don’t wanna come off as some weirdo. Yeah idk sorry I too also have the problem of being shut in and stuff at times and I feel like that makes her not like me cause I don’t speak on that side of me too much. She’s such a great person though seriously it’s more than the fact that she is good looking to me.
Anthony Dattile that’s also some good advice man ty
Sadly I'm the guy who did all 25 not her...lol but usually I don't look for too many signs when I like a girl I just walk up to her and approach and see what happens. I actually approached my co-worker and she told me she isn't ready now but sometime in the future she might be
Cracking sort 👍
It’s not all about the office , other jobs are out there ! I’m a del driver and have a thing for a lady customer I del too , I like her and want to make a subtle move
I think maybe this girl at my work likes me a lot when i looks at her she looks at me sometimes. The One time She stood next to me for a while when i was talking with my friends at work and it seemed liked She looked at my and then went away like She wants to tell my something a bit crepy but nice cause i love her. The One time i walked out of a room rigth after She left the room and She looked at my rigth away when i also went trough the door out of the room. She also just walked passed my the one time when i was alone all by her self i look at her a lot. She is so nice to everyone realy helpful and calm. She always comes up with some funny jokes here and there her laughter is so funny she is laughing a lot. I realized that i loved her so much when She was away for my work for One weekend it was so quiet and then i realized it was because She is so funny and started missing her when She is sad it is like something seriosly wrong has happend. When She walks it looks like She own the whole world so confident dont mess with me i know what im doing. I realy hope we can be together sometime cause then i wil laugh and be so happy i realy want her in my life She is an true angel i wish her all the best in her life.❤️❤️❤️
I've got a co-worker who must like every single person in the office based on this list.
watch these in 1.5 speed, seriously
Never date a coworker. When you break up, that's when the rumors start. And it ends up all bad.
Peace and love from Chicago !
Thanks
Yeah... My coworker ran over and sat on my lap - in a classroom, bought me a bottle of whiskey, dragged me outside on my leaving do.... The rest is history. Nowadays I'm single and happier than I've ever been....!!!
What if she shows me all the sings,but she's married?
@???Q I think what she wants from me is one night of love making , cause she's always giving me compliments about my "hot body"
Being married doesnt mean shit. Trust me. I got female coworkers trying to get my validation and they have husbands. They are either interested in u or just playing games. Personally I ignore the flirtation. I've messed with coworkers in a previous job and it's just not worth it. These are professional jobs btw
Ha… be very very careful your not dealing with a covert narcissist… just had a 7 year deep friendship with one … loved boomed .. run down … discarded… on a constant cycle…. Hadn’t a clue what I was dealing with until the final discarded….be warned..
Best advice I can give you is, NEVER GET INVOVLED WITH A COWORKER SEXUALLY OR KN A RELATION. period.
don't shit where you eat. good advice
exactly right..for some of the people commenting how it is not a problem..that maybe true in the beginning but if the relationship goes sideways at some point and she wants to get revenge for you breaking up or seeing someone else..you may find yourself looking for another job pretty quickly ...
@@MickeyMousePark it's not a problem if you work at burger king
@@Runny117 very true!!
Yeah, because dating a coworker is a great idea.
My Main Manager praises me all the time with coworkers 🙏how a good job I done and everything nice I glad I stop and listening to the video
Yes I know thank u❤️👍
I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by greeting me every time she sees me (hey whenever I clock in for work and bye whenever I leave work), laughing at every time I make a joke whether it's a funny joke or corny/lame joke, offering to help me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?
You really are being a simp, your post is everywhere
You definitely need to let her make the move this time. Just respect yourself and focus. You made the first move so time for her to make the second one if she's interested. Don't get rejected twice.
Let them make the first move. Don't get set up.
It's amazing how nobody shows me these signs. I guess I'm that unattractive lol
Same sadly
Never date someone at work.
Nice your voice
According this list, looks like no one like me! Oh well!
At least you will keep you're job
Agreed.
Guys: in this day and age I'd avoid dating a coworker at all costs.
I'm 57, so I was working in the mid 80s, and was dating a coworker in 1990 - it was and is a common place to meet people...but I wouldn't risk it these days, especially if you can't afford to lose your job. Times have changed, and more importantly laws have changed, and you can get screwed over for even a perfectly innocent compliment, much less actually getting involved. (Btw, I have dated coworkers twice since then, but one I took out to lunch on her last day before she moved to a new job - that lasted the better part of a year, and the next started a few months before I was planning to leave - and was looking - that ended shortly after I found the next job sadly (her decision), in neither case was I really puting my job at risk).
These are nice for office workers, but, I don't think any of these apply to working in the retail world. Doubtful that any of my femaie co-workers like me anyway. Heck, doubtful if any female AT ALL likes me.
I am still waiting for the sign that she does all my office work for me.
So for guys who don't work in an office there aren't any signs to tell that a female coworker likes you?
That's sad.
Well, then I have to quit my current job, which includes getting my hands dirty on construction sites and get an office job.
But when I think about it, then I wouldn't have the same female coworker around me anymore that I suspect of finding me attractive.
Damn!
Fooled by life once more.........
Your voice gotta sub outta me
Good way to end up in HR and lose your job. Don’t do it.
All you need is one way.
I like you, want to go out?
So many girls do some of these, half of these, it doesn't mean she likes you like that, if I girl is doing all these things and you still need this video then you are hopeless.
So the co worker I have a crush on does like half of this list. Now I’m scared how to proceed.
Office???? Not everyone works in a damn office
5:36 After hearing this, you decide to make the first move. One day later the boss calls you to have a chat immediately in his office for "sexual harassment" complain from a co-worker. 😂☠
Damn I don’t work at an office so I guess she doesn’t like me