My current relationship has their Pluto on my ascendant- and all of this resonates deeply. It is often exhausting. I have left more than once , but we are like magnets! It’s super intense, possibly even traumatic at times . My own Pluto is conjunct my natal ascendant , and hers is opposite her natal ascendant, so we are also both heavily influenced by Pluto on an individual level …I keep waiting for a pivotal change, because the intensity is not sustainable. We are both struggling but neither wants to let go
Reset the poles of the magnet. I believe that's where the transformation is. Letting go of the relationship set us both free. It was painful, but getting beyond the emotion and the strong feeling is key. Becoming emotionally sober as a way of resetting yourself. That's also what brought us back together in a healthy way. It took us a few years but we cherish each other even more now. Differently, better...and we still learn so much from each other, the transformation with this aspect never ends I am not saying it works like this for everyone, but that was my journey. xx
I have this aspect with someone I just met. It feels like a past life connection almost fated. My question is, now that the connection is in a healthier state, has it become platonic or romantic once more? @rubydaniela
Thank you very much for your video ❤️ Lots of astrologers talk about lust, power of desire come with this aspect, etc. (and they are right) but it is you only who told the truth about its hurshness. Things are really painful and crazy with this aspect. I have Pluto conj my Asc in my natal and Pluto is my chart's ruler. My crush has Pluto square Sun, and Pluto square Venus in his natal so it turned to be really tough. So, we have his Pluto (Scorpio) conj my Asc (Scorpio) in our synastry, his Pluto in my 1st house, his Mars is in my 1st house, as well. On the top, his Pluto (Scorpio) conj my Jupiter (Scorpio), my Jupiter trine his Pluto, my Venus (Virgo) sextile his Pluto, his Mars (Scorpio) conj my Mars (Scorpio), my Sun (Virgo) conj his Moon (Virgo) , my Venus quintile his Mars and vise versa (double aspects), Venus conj Moon, Moon trine Venus, my Uranus conj his Mars, his Moon square my Neptune, his Lilith opposite my Mars, trine my Sun and has a lot of minor aspects to another outer planets, my Lilith sextile his Pluto and trine his Moon, etc. That might have been a firework of passion, but we still do nothing but cautious dansing around each other. But I'm really nuts inside, and he sometimes acts very strange (stare at me when he thinks I cannot see, for example, or complain he didn't see me for too long (two weeks actually but "it was like 6 months", as he said). I truly cry a lot and it is always ups and downs (I've never ever cried so much before in my previous relationship)... I gravitate to him and sometimes it seems he's really obsessed, too, but I never know for 100%. Interesting, anyway. Ps. You're so sweet and beautiful, many thanks once again for your explanation :-)
Definitely painful and crazy . I’m also the ascendant person (also have Natal Pluto conjunction my ascendant) . I think this gives me the strength to deal with this relationship. The will power. Otherwise not sure I could take the constant pain and demanding nature of the relationship
Yes, it's an energy you are very familiar with so you can handle it 'well'. As well as one can handle Pluto ☺ There is an instinctual physical component to this aspect that makes it hard to actually separate for good, especially when you came very far together and realise the growth and evolution that came from being with that person. It's almost like you need more of it. (Pluto -Obsession) Also it's so important to take all other placements into consideration. If there are many harmonious aspects it can bring more balance. ❤ @@Heathcliffe123
Nice video… i have this in exact aspect, also an exact ascendant square ascendant… but the rest is very positive(mostly soft aspects with venus like moon trine venus, sun sextile venus, uranus sextile moon etc) and lots of 5th house synastry (venus, mars and mercury) with my internet boyfriend that I haven’t met yet, so maybe the harsh aspects won’t be that important
Thank you for sharing. Any ascendant aspect is a physical aspect that will reveal itself in the flesh ...if you know what i mean ;) How long have you two known each other?
I love seeing it from your perspective as the ascendant because I just met this guy who at first I honestly had no attraction to then the other day it kind of just hit me out of nowhere and I looked up our chart. His Pluto conjunct Venus is on my ascendant directly as well as Chiron is there. So I've really been trying to figure out how this would manifest if something happened between us. I'm assuming with Venus that will help soften the blow.
To me this sounds like worth and value stuff that may come up here. ‘Am I giving enough?’ ‘Am I enough?’ ‘When is enough enough?’ Chiron usually makes it about past ‘wounds’ we have to work through.❤️❤️
I would read that differently. There are similarities, but the 8th house and Pluto are not exactly the same. I was actually planning a video talking about the ascendant through the partner's house. Should be out in the first week of April 🤗
Are your ascendant and his Pluto in the same sign or is this an out of sign conjunction? The nature of Pluto aspects is always unconscious. Pluto represents the underworld, the unconscious ❤️
@@rubydaniela Well I am a cap rising (at the cusp), but his pluto is in sag. Does this change things? I mean I would have this aspect with a lot of people who are also 1 year younger than me.
@@hahahaha-zv5bx yes, out of sign conjunctions have a different flavour as we are dealing with different elements and modes, that doesn’t mean thought that this type of conjunction is less potent. In fact a close out of sign conjunction can feel even more intense because of the disharmonious elements and modes coming together. The intense drive for change that Pluto in Saf brings can feel threatening to the Capricorn nature …as Capricorn likes and needs a certain kind of stability. But maybe the stability needs to be found within the change. Maybe that’s where the lesson is. 🙏❤️
This will definitely depend on what positive and negative means to you. And where you are at on your journey of self-discovery. Personally, I look at everything as an opportunity to grow and this aspect helped me understand so many deeper layers much better. Even though there was a lot of hardship (not gonna lie) I believe this aspect showed me growth and evolution like not many others could. Remember though, every relationship chart has many different aspects so we have to look at the synastry of two people from many different angles (aspects) to fully understand the compatibility, potential and lessons ❤️❤️
@@rubydaniela Yeah that makes sense. As for the physical change in the appearance does the ascendant person usually look healthier or unhealthier afterwords?
@@rayeeiffel480 this as well would depend on the way the ascendant person utilises the transformative potential. I would say it can go both ways. Free will Is a powerful tool 😉
Pluto conj ascendant is felt intensely on a physical level (in form of body aches) because the ascendant describes our physical body. Pluto Venus is more of an worthiness aspect that can also be felt physical but more on an emotional ‘am I worthy of this’ kinda level. It may also be wrapped up in guilt and shame. I can imagine how intense this relationship must be 🙏❤️
That's quite intense. what sign do you have it in? I would count the 7 degree orb to the ascendant ...because you already have the 2 degree orb with the same aspect. You two definitely came together to transform each others worlds
Thank you for sharing @@Elif-ed8gf To me this sounds very much like learning to stand in your own power. Understanding what you actually want and not just allowing the other to mow all over you. Having someone that has your best interest in mind and that cares for you is one thing, but having them dictate your every move might not be that beneficial. I know it's hard to find the middle way with pluto. it is generally all or nothing, but that's also where the lesson is hidden. Finding your own voice is paramount. I am not saying turn into a feminist and do what you want, but show him your limits. That's super important with all this Pluto energy ❤
Yes, but it requires a lot of inner work. Generally, I believe every aspect can work if you work it.(if you know what i mean 😉) A certain level of consciousness is required with every Pluto aspect... in both parties... and a willingness to overcome your own set limitations and worthiness wounds. this is an aspect that requires an identity shift in both people , which can be hurdle to big for some people❤
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My current relationship has their Pluto on my ascendant- and all of this resonates deeply. It is often exhausting. I have left more than once , but we are like magnets! It’s super intense, possibly even traumatic at times . My own Pluto is conjunct my natal ascendant , and hers is opposite her natal ascendant, so we are also both heavily influenced by Pluto on an individual level …I keep waiting for a pivotal change, because the intensity is not sustainable. We are both struggling but neither wants to let go
Reset the poles of the magnet. I believe that's where the transformation is. Letting go of the relationship set us both free. It was painful, but getting beyond the emotion and the strong feeling is key. Becoming emotionally sober as a way of resetting yourself. That's also what brought us back together in a healthy way. It took us a few years but we cherish each other even more now. Differently, better...and we still learn so much from each other, the transformation with this aspect never ends
I am not saying it works like this for everyone, but that was my journey. xx
I have this aspect with someone I just met. It feels like a past life connection almost fated. My question is, now that the connection is in a healthier state, has it become platonic or romantic once more? @rubydaniela
Thank you very much for your video ❤️ Lots of astrologers talk about lust, power of desire come with this aspect, etc. (and they are right) but it is you only who told the truth about its hurshness.
Things are really painful and crazy with this aspect.
I have Pluto conj my Asc in my natal and Pluto is my chart's ruler. My crush has Pluto square Sun, and Pluto square Venus in his natal so it turned to be really tough.
So, we have his Pluto (Scorpio) conj my Asc (Scorpio) in our synastry, his Pluto in my 1st house, his Mars is in my 1st house, as well.
On the top, his Pluto (Scorpio) conj my Jupiter (Scorpio), my Jupiter trine his Pluto, my Venus (Virgo) sextile his Pluto, his Mars (Scorpio) conj my Mars (Scorpio), my Sun (Virgo) conj his Moon (Virgo) , my Venus quintile his Mars and vise versa (double aspects), Venus conj Moon, Moon trine Venus, my Uranus conj his Mars, his Moon square my Neptune, his Lilith opposite my Mars, trine my Sun and has a lot of minor aspects to another outer planets, my Lilith sextile his Pluto and trine his Moon, etc.
That might have been a firework of passion, but we still do nothing but cautious dansing around each other. But I'm really nuts inside, and he sometimes acts very strange (stare at me when he thinks I cannot see, for example, or complain he didn't see me for too long (two weeks actually but "it was like 6 months", as he said). I truly cry a lot and it is always ups and downs (I've never ever cried so much before in my previous relationship)... I gravitate to him and sometimes it seems he's really obsessed, too, but I never know for 100%.
Interesting, anyway.
Ps. You're so sweet and beautiful, many thanks once again for your explanation :-)
This is incredible. Thank you so much for sharing and also for your kind words. 🥰🙏
Definitely painful and crazy . I’m also the ascendant person (also have Natal Pluto conjunction my ascendant) . I think this gives me the strength to deal with this relationship. The will power. Otherwise not sure I could take the constant pain and demanding nature of the relationship
Yes, it's an energy you are very familiar with so you can handle it 'well'. As well as one can handle Pluto ☺ There is an instinctual physical component to this aspect that makes it hard to actually separate for good, especially when you came very far together and realise the growth and evolution that came from being with that person. It's almost like you need more of it. (Pluto -Obsession) Also it's so important to take all other placements into consideration. If there are many harmonious aspects it can bring more balance. ❤ @@Heathcliffe123
Please do Venus square Pluto. I like the depth of your explanation.
Thank you ❤ I will add it to the list for early January ☺
Nice video… i have this in exact aspect, also an exact ascendant square ascendant… but the rest is very positive(mostly soft aspects with venus like moon trine venus, sun sextile venus, uranus sextile moon etc) and lots of 5th house synastry (venus, mars and mercury) with my internet boyfriend that I haven’t met yet, so maybe the harsh aspects won’t be that important
Thank you for sharing. Any ascendant aspect is a physical aspect that will reveal itself in the flesh ...if you know what i mean ;) How long have you two known each other?
@@rubydaniela hi, sorry for the late reply :(
I love seeing it from your perspective as the ascendant because I just met this guy who at first I honestly had no attraction to then the other day it kind of just hit me out of nowhere and I looked up our chart. His Pluto conjunct Venus is on my ascendant directly as well as Chiron is there. So I've really been trying to figure out how this would manifest if something happened between us. I'm assuming with Venus that will help soften the blow.
To me this sounds like worth and value stuff that may come up here. ‘Am I giving enough?’ ‘Am I enough?’ ‘When is enough enough?’ Chiron usually makes it about past ‘wounds’ we have to work through.❤️❤️
Thank you for the video, can you make pluto square ascendant synastry?
Yes, I will add it to the list 😊
I have this with my entire generation just at a different degree all control freaks 😂
@@themoonbleu627 which sign does it fall in? Scorpio?
Does this apply if someone’s ascendant is in another persons 8th house?
I would read that differently. There are similarities, but the 8th house and Pluto are not exactly the same. I was actually planning a video talking about the ascendant through the partner's house. Should be out in the first week of April 🤗
We have this aspect in 3 degrees and his pluto falls in my 12th house(sag). So this transformation would be completely unconscious😩?
Are your ascendant and his Pluto in the same sign or is this an out of sign conjunction? The nature of Pluto aspects is always unconscious. Pluto represents the underworld, the unconscious ❤️
@@rubydaniela Well I am a cap rising (at the cusp), but his pluto is in sag. Does this change things? I mean I would have this aspect with a lot of people who are also 1 year younger than me.
@@hahahaha-zv5bx yes, out of sign conjunctions have a different flavour as we are dealing with different elements and modes, that doesn’t mean thought that this type of conjunction is less potent. In fact a close out of sign conjunction can feel even more intense because of the disharmonious elements and modes coming together. The intense drive for change that Pluto in Saf brings can feel threatening to the Capricorn nature …as Capricorn likes and needs a certain kind of stability. But maybe the stability needs to be found within the change. Maybe that’s where the lesson is. 🙏❤️
@@rubydaniela Alright thank you☺️I will investigate more into this
@@hahahaha-zv5bx 💖
is it a positive change or a negative one?
This will definitely depend on what positive and negative means to you. And where you are at on your journey of self-discovery. Personally, I look at everything as an opportunity to grow and this aspect helped me understand so many deeper layers much better. Even though there was a lot of hardship (not gonna lie) I believe this aspect showed me growth and evolution like not many others could. Remember though, every relationship chart has many different aspects so we have to look at the synastry of two people from many different angles (aspects) to fully understand the compatibility, potential and lessons ❤️❤️
@@rubydaniela Yeah that makes sense. As for the physical change in the appearance does the ascendant person usually look healthier or unhealthier afterwords?
@@rayeeiffel480 this as well would depend on the way the ascendant person utilises the transformative potential. I would say it can go both ways. Free will
Is a powerful tool 😉
i wouldn't mind a 180 complete reinvention of me
Buckle up ;)
I’m dating someone who’s Pluto conjuncts my ascendant, and my Pluto trines his Mars, sextiles his Venus and Sun. Hot 🥵
Thanks for the video... his pluto conjunct my asc at 0,2 degrees and my pluto his venus at 0,4. its so painfull....
Pluto conj ascendant is felt intensely on a physical level (in form of body aches) because the ascendant describes our physical body. Pluto Venus is more of an worthiness aspect that can also be felt physical but more on an emotional ‘am I worthy of this’ kinda level. It may also be wrapped up in guilt and shame. I can imagine how intense this relationship must be 🙏❤️
I feel your pain- I am an ascendant person, my partners Pluto exactly on my ascendant . It has been at many times , intense agony on a different level
my pluto conjunct my boyfriends ascendant in 7orb does that count? also his pluto conjucnt my ascendant in exact degree.
That's quite intense. what sign do you have it in? I would count the 7 degree orb to the ascendant ...because you already have the 2 degree orb with the same aspect. You two definitely came together to transform each others worlds
Thank you for sharing @@Elif-ed8gf To me this sounds very much like learning to stand in your own power. Understanding what you actually want and not just allowing the other to mow all over you. Having someone that has your best interest in mind and that cares for you is one thing, but having them dictate your every move might not be that beneficial. I know it's hard to find the middle way with pluto. it is generally all or nothing, but that's also where the lesson is hidden. Finding your own voice is paramount. I am not saying turn into a feminist and do what you want, but show him your limits. That's super important with all this Pluto energy ❤
@@rubydanielathank u. 🥹
Can this relathionship aspect work?😮❤
Yes, but it requires a lot of inner work. Generally, I believe every aspect can work if you work it.(if you know what i mean 😉) A certain level of consciousness is required with every Pluto aspect... in both parties... and a willingness to overcome your own set limitations and worthiness wounds. this is an aspect that requires an identity shift in both people , which can be hurdle to big for some people❤
@@rubydaniela Thank you very much for your video and your reply .