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    • @chanellbenson3822
      @chanellbenson3822 ปีที่แล้ว

      Had to get that off my chest

    • @leeshonlife
      @leeshonlife ปีที่แล้ว

      Im sorry but love and marriage Detroit is NOT streaming on discovery plus, nor is this season of ready to love. Anybody else with discovery plus experiencing this issue or is it just me?

  • @ivyind
    @ivyind ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Pinocchio obviously still has a grudge against Kolby and Russell because of the anniversary travesty

    • @IMissChele9
      @IMissChele9 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      No I think she was overstepping to assume she could jump in on an existing brand deal. That’s just not how things are done.
      Kristina wanted to collaborate on a fashion post, not give away half her bag that she negotiated. (& I like Kolby)

    • @societiesscapegoat8715
      @societiesscapegoat8715 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@IMissChele9well said!!! Kolby is too spoilt and entitled. Dead wrong!

    • @bunnyellison
      @bunnyellison ปีที่แล้ว

      You know what I didn't think about that

  • @cissy2194
    @cissy2194 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    If divide and conquer was a person it would be Brandon. He literally sewed seeds of doubt in his wife’s mind to get rid of friend who called him out. SMH

    • @kandisyoung9776
      @kandisyoung9776 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      That's exactly what happened!

    • @Its_Mechele
      @Its_Mechele ปีที่แล้ว +28

      He sure did light the match. Brandon is toxic.

    • @clarapeters6583
      @clarapeters6583 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He definitely did that but she will not see it until it’s too late. I really hate this for them. These are some beautiful women with a lot going on for themselves I pray they take time to cool of think and move forward in a positive.

    • @rashidawhite6617
      @rashidawhite6617 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes! He sure did.

    • @ashleytucker9472
      @ashleytucker9472 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I totally agree! It’s called deflection! To take the heat off of him, he planted the seeds of doubt to his wife about her friend!

  • @alexkj101
    @alexkj101 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Brandon has gotten all in her ear. He is going to isolate her from everyone who calls him out

    • @clarapeters6583
      @clarapeters6583 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That part…

    • @Nini_473
      @Nini_473 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So he can cheat in peace!

    • @Shea_Peace
      @Shea_Peace ปีที่แล้ว

      That part cause I honestly think Kristina and Kolby would've worked this out a little differently but Brandon has been kind of wanting that friendship to end since Kolby let the cat out the bag at the anniversary thing.

  • @SJW8788
    @SJW8788 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Kolbys voice when she gets riled up is like nails on a chalkboard😂

    • @NvturvllyChicYT
      @NvturvllyChicYT ปีที่แล้ว +4

      as if Kristina's natural voice doesn't sounds the same

    • @aprillindsey7225
      @aprillindsey7225 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So true!!! Both of them

    • @Godslight1970s
      @Godslight1970s ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Even when she's not riled up too 🙄

    • @chrissykidd7117
      @chrissykidd7117 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s Kolby’s jacked up lip liner and lipstick 💄 for me 😂

  • @lillym8678
    @lillym8678 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Kristina is right. She generated the idea and made the contact. She does not owe Kolby an explanation or have to call her about anything. Kolby was wrong to make that call and basically pitch Kristina’s idea as her own. Just because they talked about collaborating there has been no formal agreement about collaborating.

    • @brizy___
      @brizy___ ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Okay so why not communicate that with your “friend”? 🤔 Why not answer your “friend’s” phone call? Shady.

    • @lillym8678
      @lillym8678 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Kristina tried to talk to her that night but Kolby was not listening. It is even more shady to pitch another person’s idea to someone and then pretend there is a collaboration that does not exist. Kolby was operating on a lot of assumptions.

    • @mostlovely2c
      @mostlovely2c ปีที่แล้ว +37

      What I was getting from Christina, is she’s fine with collaborating, but she has the right to choose which projects to do so with. Kolby assumed that Christine would say it’s a go, based on their friendship. This is business, there’s a difference. Then Kolby gets super emotional and feels entitled.

    • @LawFirmMentor
      @LawFirmMentor ปีที่แล้ว +22

      1000% agree. Kristina did not want to do this deal. Period. Kolby was shrieking at her, in public, accusing her, talking over her… I wouldn’t engage with someone in that state either.

    • @dawnbrown3176
      @dawnbrown3176 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ​@LawFirmMentor why should you force someone into something that they did not agree on. Not because we are friends that does not Mean MUST and SHOULD do business together a lot of time that does not work out. She storming a way and uninviting them to her birthday party is so childish and entitled 🙄

  • @laleezeern6198
    @laleezeern6198 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    The husband's need to stay out of it..

    • @krystingrant6292
      @krystingrant6292 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree I'm glad kolby husband gathered dry tiny bun

  • @MuvaTwerks
    @MuvaTwerks ปีที่แล้ว +95

    So Man Bun defends his wife against Russell (who wasn’t disrespectful & attempting to defuse the situation), but rested in his femininity while Anthony berated her multiple times?

    • @UPPITYUNICORN
      @UPPITYUNICORN ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💕🤣💯

    • @jennifertookes
      @jennifertookes ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Straight PLANTED 🌱 in his femininity!! 😂😂

    • @MuvaTwerks
      @MuvaTwerks ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@UPPITYUNICORN 🤣🦄💗

    • @thegraced
      @thegraced ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yap! He rests in his feminity because his alpha male protector "friend" is always fighting his battles...

    • @daniellepint
      @daniellepint ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Basically 😂

  • @cassendracadeau
    @cassendracadeau ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "But what brands have YOU pitched?" 😬🍿

  • @angelinspired3333
    @angelinspired3333 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I meannnn... truth be told, I had a deal/idea that had nothing to do with a 3rd person, just bc you wanted to include yourself later is not me being selfish, you can come up with another idea to do afterwards with this person but dont interrupt mine!?!

  • @lili2u405
    @lili2u405 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I'm with Kristina on this one. You plan and agree to work on a collaboration together & ahead of time, not just seek to join in on a business venture someone has already started.

    • @stephaniemom1516
      @stephaniemom1516 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly!!

    • @JayBrooke
      @JayBrooke ปีที่แล้ว

      But why not communicate that? Once Kolby texted her and asked her if they could collab she acted like she didn’t know what she was asking then when Kolby called her she chose not to answer. That’s shady as hell and as her so called friend she should’ve had a conversation with her and told her what was up

    • @erickacolden692
      @erickacolden692 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree with Kristina also it's something about koby I don't care for every time her husband tries to kiss her she turns her head

  • @tmitchem81
    @tmitchem81 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Why is Kolby forcing this one brand deal...Kristina said she doesn't want to do it but is open to other ideas. She's right, they didn't pitch it together and I understand her not wanting to sacrifice her bag. Let's agree to to do something else where we go into it together with both eyes open. Calling her selfish because she doesn't want to collab on this one brand is childish. Also these husbands are the problem, because why are they speaking for either woman.

    • @raayynicole
      @raayynicole ปีที่แล้ว +18

      she definitely has the right to but when she was given the time to be honest she ghosted her to avoid that convo.

    • @brizy___
      @brizy___ ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@raayynicolethank you! Not sure what folks aren’t understanding about Kolby being upset at her “friend” for being shady 😅

    • @tmitchem81
      @tmitchem81 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @XOXOPinKs4evaN She didn't completely ghost her... She had real stuff going on in her life...Did we not see her husband didn't come home for 4 days... Marriage problems that could end in divorce will always take priority over a brand deal call.

    • @raayynicole
      @raayynicole ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@tmitchem81 that’s real, i honestly just saw this clip 😂 but from her words and body language it seems at the end of the day she would love to work with her but not on something she’s already put time into to create for herself. & i agree, boundaries are healthy.

    • @bridgetteking-whitney6560
      @bridgetteking-whitney6560 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because they don't know how to support quietly

  • @Its_Mechele
    @Its_Mechele ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Kolby just needs to stay in her own bag and not try to include Kristina. Brandon has gotten in her head that Kolby is trying to out do of take from her so she’s side eyeing Kolby now. She wasn’t talking like that before he said something.

  • @_brownsugaalifestyle
    @_brownsugaalifestyle ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Its business. I don’t think Kristina is wrong.

  • @Jasmine-eo9fo
    @Jasmine-eo9fo ปีที่แล้ว +93

    If someone is not answering your phone calls or texts repeatedly that’s not your friend kolby needs to get the hint never beg for friendship it should be reciprocated 💕

    • @Shea_Peace
      @Shea_Peace ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Basically and I think Kristina just shouldve told the girl point blank period I don't want to work with you. I can understand she doesn't have to work with her but I do feel ever since the anniversary thing it seems she is getting a push to end the relationship with Kolby ever since she let the cat out the bag abt that artist. Could be just how they've edited things but I will say Kolbys approach to business dealings didn't seem to be a problem with Kristina until it was a prob with Brandon

  • @lillym8678
    @lillym8678 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    People are blaming Brandon for defending his wife when his wife asked him to defend her more. And despite the issues between Brandon and Kristina he is right to point out that Kolby is copying what Kristina is doing. And as Kristina pointed out Kolby is not a contributor who has pitched any original ideas. When Kristina asked Kolby what she pitched Kolby had no answer. Brandon was merely taking note and pointing that out.

    • @Shea_Peace
      @Shea_Peace ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The way they edited things from the earlier episode it appears Brandon doesn't like Kolby already and not bc of any collabs. He only had issue with the collabs after the anniversary incident so the way its being portrayed is that the dude is kind of brain washing her .His wife didn't help matters bc when asked why would they say that after Kolby and Russell left she responded saying that's how he feels as if to say she doesn't feel that way.

  • @pagingdoctoradderley
    @pagingdoctoradderley ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I totally empathize with Kolby, holding back tears and arguing with a shaky voice because you not about to let no one punk you! Hold your own sis

    • @ritalyn589
      @ritalyn589 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Kolby needs to grow up! Her go to is to throw Temper tantrums to get her way!

    • @naphisa340
      @naphisa340 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@ritalyn589 we don't have enough evidence to say that...I don't see it..

  • @jasmineiam
    @jasmineiam ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I mean from the looks of it, Kristina really didn’t get to say much at all, Kolby doesn’t know how to shut up and LISTEN….

  • @clarissanickersonfourman
    @clarissanickersonfourman ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Kolby is giving entitled. All Kristina wanted to know was what did the partnership look like and Kolby couldn’t explain because she wanted Kristina to just say yes. Kolby is very childlike.

    • @laverdad8038
      @laverdad8038 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      she reached out to clarify and Kristina ignored her. How can you explain to someone who won’t have the conversation

    • @clarissanickersonfourman
      @clarissanickersonfourman ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@laverdad8038 she didn’t even let her talk, she is used to things going her way. Surprise everybody don’t owe you and don’t have to work with you.

    • @clarissanickersonfourman
      @clarissanickersonfourman ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cassius4177 she really is!

  • @ShesaGoddess91
    @ShesaGoddess91 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That man didn’t know how to defend his wife he tried 🤣🤣🤣kolby cat? 🤣🤣

  • @vsims5987
    @vsims5987 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I don't understand how your friend, goes behind your back and set up something, then wanted you to , force a collaboration. If she didn't want it, it should not be a problem. They're trying to jumb the band wagon. Off something someone has previously established! And Kobly husband is off the chain. He and they are wrong. The other couple should have stayed out of it. Talk about loyalty? I just watch the show, it seems like they're taking advantage of the situation to x out Brandon and make him look bad for having his wife's back.

  • @tiarahill4892
    @tiarahill4892 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    That man wasn't attacking your wife for u to defend her...he was referring to both of them as to how they can be better friends to eachother

    • @rashidawhite6617
      @rashidawhite6617 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Exactly!

    • @tmitchem81
      @tmitchem81 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But he was inserting himself in a conversation that had nothing to with him. Him addressing her about why she didn't pick up the phone, when she had already answered that at the beginning of their conversation made no sense. He wasn't helping.

    • @sweetlistenings3324
      @sweetlistenings3324 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@tmitchem81 If it has to do with his wife then it has to do with him.

    • @kweenz600
      @kweenz600 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tmitchem81 I don’t think she gave a good explanation for why she didn’t answer the phone

    • @tiarahill4892
      @tiarahill4892 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tmitchem81 he wasn't attacking her tho to come to her defense he can have a input as well but to come off defensive I think was unnecessary he obviously feels like he hasn't been there for his wife so he goin over board

  • @llw53one
    @llw53one ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I appreciate how Kolby’s husband was there to support his wife and called out Brandon. I’m a first time viewer and all I saw was this one clip but it was loaded. Brandon needs to have a conversation with Kolby & her husband.

  • @jeanicelewis510
    @jeanicelewis510 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Why does Kolby feel Kristina has to collaborate with her?

    • @Amberlashone
      @Amberlashone ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She doesn’t feel like that, Kristina told her she wanted to collab with her and when she reached out she ignored her

  • @lillym8678
    @lillym8678 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Kolby is behaving like discussing a collaboration is the same as agreeing to a collaboration.

  • @kymlove2006
    @kymlove2006 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    You don't force someone into a collaboration. You have to pitch and agree to what you are doing next.

    • @Ennui83
      @Ennui83 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      This is true, and also was not the root of the issue. Kristina should have just been direct at the moment that Kolby reached out. She didn't return phone calls and claimed confusion, when in fact she did not want to partner with her on that project. Just say that. Once Kolby realized that was the "confusion," then she was hurt about the subterfuge and the unwillingness to partner. I'm sure she could and would accept a no. That wasn't what she was reacting to.

    • @kweenz600
      @kweenz600 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      But you also can’t say you’re open to collaborating then act appalled when someone proposes a collaboration. It’s confusing.
      Just say you don’t want to do that…the first time your friend texts you. Not the third.

    • @TheodoreBakes
      @TheodoreBakes ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@kweenz600exactlyy!!

    • @kymlove2006
      @kymlove2006 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kweenz600, I agree, but she didn't really pitch a collaboration.

    • @JayBrooke
      @JayBrooke ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠​⁠@@terickastidbits2342When did they mention that Kristina told her her idea and she took it? The owner told Kolby that their ideas are similar so they should collaborate together. When she asked Kristina about it she ignored her and then acted confused knowing she didn’t wanna do the collab with her and instead of being honest she tried to make up excuses

  • @Ashley_Magnolia
    @Ashley_Magnolia ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Russell had no business getting involved. This escalated when the men started talking to each others wives. Let them sort that out. Politely suggest a better time and place but that’s it.

  • @000014161
    @000014161 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A husband should protect his wife, but also check her when she's messy and wrong. Anthony always talking about the men movement but he's messy and acts like a big B

  • @fanatiquemusique
    @fanatiquemusique ปีที่แล้ว +31

    It looks like Colby is trying to ride Christina's coattails. Colby needs to negotiate her own brand deals that doesnt include Kristina. Money and friendships dont mix.

    • @emayan06
      @emayan06 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Um noooo

  • @kellymaps8128
    @kellymaps8128 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Kristina doesn’t owe Kolby any business opportunities. She’s not your manager nor your legal business associate. Get over yourself 😅

  • @Ricky__35
    @Ricky__35 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Brandon trying to defend Christian was nothing but messy as hell& his own thought& feelings!!

  • @virgieroundtree4323
    @virgieroundtree4323 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Y'all, what's up with that Anthony dude??? Something is off 🤔 uuggh, eewwh...

  • @Stillunbothered
    @Stillunbothered ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Kolby is def giving crazy stalker vibes, why is she so obsessed with Kristina????

  • @simplebutfitdedication6522
    @simplebutfitdedication6522 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Brandon don’t like kolby because she put them in blast so Christine is brainwashed by someone who really don’t want her and she’s doing anything to save her marriage kolby genuinely looked up to her

  • @brandit5046
    @brandit5046 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Brandon we see you

  • @bettycolon6525
    @bettycolon6525 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Christina It's right

  • @TheMiss600
    @TheMiss600 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why is Kolby speaking so loudly and repeating herself over and over? It's hard to listen when you disagree and you don't like it but we would all be better off we just listened sometimes. Help me do better🙏🏽

  • @peachieglover7046
    @peachieglover7046 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why go behind her back and setup a collab without her knowing if your so much of a friend wrong.

  • @ritalyn589
    @ritalyn589 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Anthony is so messy! He shouldn't be the mentor of anyone..he needs to mind his own business 🙏🏾

  • @mirabella2154
    @mirabella2154 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Can't relate at all to that "influencer" bubble... Such a strange, meaningless world.

    • @Kaylasymoneprice
      @Kaylasymoneprice ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You don’t need to understand that world because that world is just like any other business. You must communicate in a healthy way in order to have a successful friendship and/or collaboration with anyone.

    • @mirabella2154
      @mirabella2154 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Kaylasymoneprice "You don't need to understand that world because that world is just like any other business."
      No, it's not.

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@Kaylasymoneprice being an influencer is not a real job and it's meaningless and superficial.

    • @laverdad8038
      @laverdad8038 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@See-if_I_carehow is not a real job if they are gettin paid real money and signing real contracts 😂😂😂 Influencing is not a new concept or new career choice if you don’t understand it then say that

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@laverdad8038 Lol it's not a real job!
      That like saying dogs who gets to be seen on adverts and be on TV is doing a real job 🤣🤣🤣
      Girl bye with all of that!

  • @dorisdey9074
    @dorisdey9074 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Kob is a very selfish young lady. I do not understand why he said she's not a selfish person when clearly you can see it every time you watched the show😮.

    • @dawnbrown3176
      @dawnbrown3176 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kobycat looks like she's really copying Kristina base on the pictures on their page, the looks are kinda like the same😂😂😂. You can't be doing the same look.

  • @niyah_jordan3147
    @niyah_jordan3147 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Everybody seems to be defending Kolby, but from the few episodes they’ve had Kolby ruined her anniversary and then we find out every time she mentions a business idea Kolby goes behind her back and does the exact thing. That’s how we move as “sisters” nowadays??

    • @Ennui83
      @Ennui83 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Brandon lying ruined his own anniversary. We have not seen and Kristina has not voiced things that Kolby allegedly copied. Brandon was the one who said Kolby copies Kristina in two scenes. People might be gravitating toward Kobly despite not being focused in the argument, because Kristina deliberately did not just tell her no and then tried to turn around the conversation without first being direct. Kristina basically ambushed Kolby. Her approach matches Brandon's energy. We now can see why they are married. Kristina sat back and let Brandon attack Kolby instead of voicing her own concerns directly .

    • @niyah_jordan3147
      @niyah_jordan3147 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Ennui83 Brandon started, but in REAL life, I’m telling my “big sis” I supposedly look up to, about her husband before the show airs…Boom, that’s y’all storyline. It’s fake to really know a person IN REAL LIFE and tell them about their husbands situation when y’all get in front of the cameras. She knew what was going on and what she was doing. Then to top it off you copying everything I do…ion trust her, she’s a PK too 🙅🏽‍♀️😂

    • @kweenz600
      @kweenz600 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@niyah_jordan3147Kolby seemed to think Christina already knew. Which is a fair assumption since most husbands aren’t lying about their work to their wives (I would hope). Plus she seems to be unaware of the previous affair, so why would she assume this was shady/not up for public discussion?

    • @creedcreed1368
      @creedcreed1368 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Totally agree with you . Kolby can’t be trusted and seems to be messy .

    • @janjishakes85
      @janjishakes85 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Boom 💥 💥 💥 u said it 👏 on point

  • @kymlove2006
    @kymlove2006 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Brandon said too much.

  • @jrb7756
    @jrb7756 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kolby mad because her husband doesn't respect her enough to discuss possibly buying whole businesses and starting theology school to be a preacher BEFORE he starts to do it... like SHE said he considers her feelings opinions involvement like a girlfriend not a wife... he's the decider 🤔🤔🙄🙄... don't project all those 'rage" tears on Kristina project them to your man where they belong... Kristina tried to talk to you in person about serious issues not over the phone like grown people should do and all Kolby can scream is "call my husband again call my husband again" ... girl bye

  • @jbrown5463
    @jbrown5463 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can see from both sides. Kristina doesn’t owe anyone anything especially if it was her idea, but Kolby obviously thought because they were friends it was gonna be cool, and if your my friend why didn’t you talk to me. Both need better communication skills.

  • @krystingrant6292
    @krystingrant6292 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This show gives me a headache they all seem miserable

  • @nursedeewiththetea
    @nursedeewiththetea ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How are you going to get mad at Christina about a deal she found and bagged, when you’re not evening pitching collaborations for y’all to do together. She’s not obligated to pull you in on her deals, go find your own. It’s looking like you just want to bite off her success especially when your going behind her to the deals she bagged and pitching her ideas too. Too entitled for me. Friendship don’t pay the bills, you seem like a hater.

  • @waterfallgoddess8913
    @waterfallgoddess8913 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Brandon know not to mess with Russell.

  • @jamicadogan3074
    @jamicadogan3074 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Brandon is wicked, like it’s actually sad too watch. Isolation is the next step😢

  • @apriljoy425
    @apriljoy425 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Loved Kolbys guy got her out of there and said Don’t say anything else to her.

  • @gossip.girl103
    @gossip.girl103 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I never seen these people before in my life and I’m from Detroit or this skating rink 😂❤

  • @HappyHappy-xr7qb
    @HappyHappy-xr7qb ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Brandon was right, sneaky Kolby.

  • @tiffsmith9483
    @tiffsmith9483 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    KOBE CAT😂😂😂😂😂😂LOVE IT❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @emayan06
      @emayan06 ปีที่แล้ว

      Trash line, Kolby looks way more put together than Kristina.

  • @singularity553
    @singularity553 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why does no one realize that Kolby wasn't even trying to originally do this with Kristina? she only reached out one the owner told her it sounds like she was trying to do the same things Kristina was then Kolby told her it shouldn't be an issue were friends. Meaning if she gave the ok Kolby would've done it by herself also Kolby never brought a brand deal to the table nor an idea she did that Kristina mentioned.

  • @cassondrad2280
    @cassondrad2280 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I so wish these ladies can have a nice discussion, detail it out, treat it like a business and don't allow emotions to get involved because they tend to get louder and louder like a shouting match. Treat it like a business matter, State your issues and look to resolve them. That's what real business people do. You're supposed to be professional lets act as such. Rolling my eyes...

  • @janjishakes85
    @janjishakes85 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dr Latoya's judgement trying to justify defend Kolby Cat's behavior and reaction says a lot about her questionable opinion 'Dr' hope your patients get better...
    Kolby 'cat' a is sneaky opportunist ...
    Talking about sisterhood when she is fake... cloud chase that lacks decorum... behaving
    in like a mean messy girl trying to aggravate a problematic marriage, telling Russell she stands by what she said deliberately ruin their Lavender Anniversary ...
    If she was sisterly
    Should have made that comment or had that discussion in pvt elsewhere with Kristina!

  • @soleil2269
    @soleil2269 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How you gonna force someone to collaborate

  • @chrisc1896
    @chrisc1896 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kolby cat 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tamikadaniels6556
    @tamikadaniels6556 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That friendship will never be the same again after this.
    The drama that started because of a unhappy husband.

  • @GGM77263
    @GGM77263 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s like two little girls fighting over a Barbie 😂😂😂

  • @janjishakes85
    @janjishakes85 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kolby's embarrassed she's was called out at that event by Katrina who clearly said she had already launched with Harper Ray and confused why Kolby called after knowing the fact to initiate collaboration
    Didn't Kolby brag that her style is different from Katrina's
    she knew about Katrina project
    Before she
    approached Harper ray ' after the fact' to get on-board to be included in Katrina gig yet trying to seem she created the opportunity trying to be sisterly...definitely sounds opportunistic... hence unfortunately Kolby cat
    Katrina perhaps should have responded prior with a her response but this is her creating drama she's paid to do by avoiding to reply huh
    !

  • @allthingskia9424
    @allthingskia9424 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sad her husband put that negative seed in her heard about kolby. But i get kristina..U cant pitch to the same brand as me..Kolby definitely being defensive tho

    • @TheodoreBakes
      @TheodoreBakes ปีที่แล้ว

      Anyone would be defensive if someone you look up to amd want to work with is ignoring you and then calling you a copy cat or shall I say Kolby Cat which lets me know youve been harboring that feeling for a while so much that you thought of a nickname. Thats hurtful!

  • @mikepark3747
    @mikepark3747 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve been to comment this on other videos: First and foremost, I’ve seen comments of people saying Latoya is the breadwinner bc she is a Doctor, etc. What?! Latoya is NOT a medical Doctor! Additionally, she studied physical therapy (PT) and happened to get extra credits, but she is not a DR. The fact that she insisted on being called a “doctor” screams insecurity to me. The PT at my school also got extra credits in PT and his program happened to call it a “Dr oF PT”, but it was only 3 years of schooling. The PT made 60k (capped amount) on his good year in WA. Sorry but I just dislike people who INSIST on being called a Dr when they aren’t a medical Dr, nor do they have a PhD/PsyD, etc. Maybe she has a private practice, who knows. I also felt compelled to write this comment because her husband, Anthony, is such a little B--h!!! Ugh! He is worst than a woman! Imagine him behind closed doors. And I don’t think Latoya is innocent either (like how she caused more drama by inserting herself) bc “like attracts like”, if you know what I’m saying. - Mikelle

    • @creedcreed1368
      @creedcreed1368 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t pay much attention to Latoya but her husband is Bit much . Always arguing and crying about something. I do not like how he talks to women . Total Bitc_!

    • @LivingLife-y7c
      @LivingLife-y7c ปีที่แล้ว

      So, there are programs where you get a PhD in Physical Therapy. Or there’s DPT Doctor of Physical Therapy. The degree needed to be a PT is a Doctorate……period! It has nothing to do with extra classes it’s the program in its entirety. I guess a Pharmacist shouldn’t be allowed to call themselves Dr. either since their PhD doesn’t make them a medical doctor. Or a principal is with a PhD in educational leadership has no right to call themselves Dr. This comment doesn’t make sense. Dr. can be carried in professions other than medicine. It’s not insecurity it’s their earned title.

    • @mikepark3747
      @mikepark3747 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LivingLife-y7cYes, many medical Drs don’t feel any of those aforementioned careers deserve to be called a “Dr”. Take it up with them😊.

    • @mikepark3747
      @mikepark3747 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LivingLife-y7cYou’re incorrect: you don’t need a doctorate to practice PT in a public school, for example. Their program is called a “Dr of PT”, but it’s not necessarily a Doctorate. The “Dr of PT” is only 3 years long, not the typical 5-6 years it takes to for a doctoral program, for example.

    • @monicabro0404
      @monicabro0404 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So the lady is a PA or Pt not actually a doctor right. To be a doctor is 10 years not 3

  • @PJ-hs5gl
    @PJ-hs5gl ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Brandon is an insecure sis, he went about that wrong and Kristina knows by the way she looked back at him.

  • @Godslight1970s
    @Godslight1970s ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He is my type of guy, smooth with it but so firm.

  • @creedcreed1368
    @creedcreed1368 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    OMG! Kolby is dead wrong . She is yelling as always at everyone and never takes accountability of being messy . In regards to loyalty , you don’t bring up mess at someone’s anniversary you claim you care about . The Drama seems to follow Kolby even with her husband . Why did Russell not admit to his wife that he asked Brandon and his wife not come to his wife’s party . Tired of people blaming the wrong people . Watch out Christina it appears your friends are not really your friends ! Looks like you guys are the punching bag this season .

    • @lovelyjoy.01
      @lovelyjoy.01 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I see alot of immaturity on this show and they're young still, and looking for Christina and Brandon are the older ones that suppose to set an example for the other couples, Anthony is just involved him self with the other couple problems and his wife just on a band wagon when she really don't know none of them really smh, I'm over this show already

    • @janjishakes85
      @janjishakes85 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💣💥💥💥💥💥💫

    • @janjishakes85
      @janjishakes85 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@lovelyjoy.01
      sillyness petty yes yes agreed 10000% noted that in my initial comment when it first aired

  • @GIRLY4293
    @GIRLY4293 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So Brandon got all this energy for Russell but none for his booty bandit Anthony; interesting he picks and chooses. Kristina honey speak for yourself not what Brandon tells you smh.

  • @MsBTate
    @MsBTate ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Kobe needs to take note and see that Kristina does not want to work with het. She is now your opps because she went directly to the negative. She even told her husband that you was a copy cat.

    • @tmitchem81
      @tmitchem81 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So her not wanting to work on this one brand deal together is now she doesn't want to work together at all. This 0-100 mentality is childish. They didn't pitch the deal together and Kritsiana even suggested other ideas they could collab on. Or why not just pitch an idea togther w/ a different brand. Why keep forcing this one brand deal, that she already had in place. Someone not accepting your idea because you want it isn't selfish.

    • @singularity553
      @singularity553 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why does no one realize that Kolby wasn't even trying to originally do this with Kristina ?she only reached out one the owner told her it sounds like she was trying to do the same things Kristina was then Kolby told her it shouldn't be an issue were friends. Meaning if she gave the ok Kolby would've done it by herself also Kolby never brought a brand deal to the table nor an idea she did that Kristina mentioned.

  • @hi-xf7cj
    @hi-xf7cj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you've seen one of these Love & Marriage shows you're seen them all. It doesn't matter what city it is. Unfortunately I was born in one of them. But as soon as I was able I got the hell out and never looked back.

  • @sheenah8638
    @sheenah8638 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Russell, now that's a MAN, you back your wife up, and idk why the other husband felt like he was trying to talk to his wife a certain way, all he said was they are both friends etc

    • @CEOMommy
      @CEOMommy ปีที่แล้ว +9

      EXACTLY! I love how Russel handles situations I don’t see them staying with this shady franchise for long

  • @7102cc
    @7102cc ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Anthony is just like a female. Always in stuff and creating drama

  • @v.private5038
    @v.private5038 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Never a great idea to do business with friends. If a call is not returned then move on. Don't cry and act like you were owed anything. Thank God this happened at the beginning and not months later. They both got their husband involved to take sides. Move on and do you. Because when you can do things on your own, you move on with grace. Show what you can do on your own...

  • @ksteel7284
    @ksteel7284 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Maybe the guys should have stayed out of the discussion between the women. And Anthony didn't help by running to fan the flames with Russell about what he would have done if it was him. Yeah, Anthony was giving feminine and messy vibes with he behavior. Not a good look.

  • @bettycolon6525
    @bettycolon6525 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kolbi she is out of control. She has a nasty temper and immediately. Start yelling And She also lies just like Anthony. They are both the same kind of people.

  • @Deebaby-14
    @Deebaby-14 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kolby husband said it perfect

  • @sweetrose_5
    @sweetrose_5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🤦🏽‍♀️What happened to the days where the men" stayed out of it or got there wives and walked away

  • @trajohnadams1772
    @trajohnadams1772 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i love Kristina and Kolby my fav Detroit cast 💙💙

  • @02tallbaby
    @02tallbaby ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kolby playing a game a victim game at that smh eventually all hands will be expose

  • @tirzahharmony551
    @tirzahharmony551 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is just foolishness. Some people just dont need to be on TV.....She didnt call or text you back, because she didnt want you inviting yourself to her Gig! Kopy Kat Kolby knew it, but wanted to force a reply because she is entitled. Look how she talks to her husband!!!

  • @cazdiamond1359
    @cazdiamond1359 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kristina said at first she called the new business owner but when she was confronted she said her agent pitched them hmmm

    • @sweetlistenings3324
      @sweetlistenings3324 ปีที่แล้ว

      You may be on to something.

    • @iiceeglam
      @iiceeglam ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pitched the makeup artist. Not the brand. Don’t revise what she said.

  • @Jumanlifestyle
    @Jumanlifestyle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like it because they started they drama

  • @blackcherry6877
    @blackcherry6877 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are some beautiful, intelligent Black American Women on this show 🤎🤎🤎

  • @DDTHEGREAT9900
    @DDTHEGREAT9900 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The wives voices are annoying 😮

  • @lisasparks154
    @lisasparks154 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man bun needs to shut up. Brandon is addressing everyone not just Kristina

  • @YanziAKA
    @YanziAKA ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kristina is not Kolby's friend. Its common for influencers to help one another and use the same company. It doesnt mean youre going to have the same content. Its enough social media followers to go around. Kristina should've told Kolby how she felt instead of pillow talking behind her back. That seems to be a common theme on this show.

    • @singularity553
      @singularity553 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why does no one realize that Kolby wasn't even trying to originally do this with Kristina she only reached out one the owner told her it sounds like she was trying to do the same things Kristina was then Kolby told her it shouldn't be an issue were friends. Meaning if she gave the ok Kolby would've done it by herself also Kolby never brought a brand deal to the table nor an idea she did that Kristina mentioned.

  • @laverdad8038
    @laverdad8038 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brandon is weak and a weak man will ruin you every single time

  • @kelil1750
    @kelil1750 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I don't like Colby

    • @Amberlashone
      @Amberlashone ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Nobody cares 😂

    • @KESHIAb00
      @KESHIAb00 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Amberlashone😅😅

    • @terryjared3090
      @terryjared3090 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Kolby want to steal a collaboration

  • @Spider-Manfan555
    @Spider-Manfan555 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much

  • @kiranholt3296
    @kiranholt3296 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kristina and Brandon are liars and they bring the drama with them wherever they go and then they try to play the victims. They deserve eachother for sure.

  • @angeliacampbell8678
    @angeliacampbell8678 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl stop whining because someone told you the truth ✌️🍿🍷

  • @cinquebrown965
    @cinquebrown965 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everyone needs to own they wrong been interfering in each other marriage. Some jus more outspoken bring out at wrong time. Russel u been wrong ask for apology. Brandon don’t open his mouth get thrown around cuz his height. Got lot of talk for his wife but the men he don’t. It’s petty but Russel once again your wife is cause of a few situations. Everyone know right or wrong going to speak up for their mate famous or not. See they hurry correct their mate from being done wrong.

  • @Amberlashone
    @Amberlashone ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The way he tried Kolby was out of line. It was him defending her to a women but not those group of men attacking her and him joining in. He can attack a women but not men. He got the wrong one though because Russell not about to play about Kolby.

  • @KatVB462
    @KatVB462 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Man Bun is so devious and ill-intentioned, but “Kolby-Cat” was a funny play on words.
    I don’t think Kolby is a copycat. I just think she lacks confidence in herself & really looks up to Kristina & would like guidance from her.

    • @TheodoreBakes
      @TheodoreBakes ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly she looks at her like a big sister so i think she was really more hurt than anything that she didnt want to work with her. Because she still hasnt given her a good reason as to why not nor was she upfront about it. Shady af!

  • @Missabra24
    @Missabra24 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kristina and Brandon are clowns. That man wanted to be messy.

  • @vetgirl71
    @vetgirl71 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Russell for shutting down Brandon! Well done 👏🏾👏🏾🎯

  • @amberdelaney4240
    @amberdelaney4240 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is one of the most boring arguments I've ever seen on reality televison. Hopefully, Own doesn't renew Love & Marriage Detroit for another season because these cast members aren't interesting.

    • @amberdelaney4240
      @amberdelaney4240 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@user-xd2nx9mh1j And haven't we seen this redundant storyline on reality television? Out of all the women on the Love & Marriage Franchises the Detroit women are the least interesting.

    • @amberdelaney4240
      @amberdelaney4240 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nomthimalunga7880 👍

    • @lili2u405
      @lili2u405 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's only four episodes in😂

    • @amberdelaney4240
      @amberdelaney4240 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lili2u405 It's still a snooze fest lol.

    • @amberdelaney4240
      @amberdelaney4240 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nomthimalunga7880 You're a weirdo that's too invested after only watching four boring episodes. Now go to bed lonely fan, and stop messaging me you pathetic exscuse of a woman.

  • @curtisjackson6378
    @curtisjackson6378 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow.... Brandon's wife sounds like him

  • @therealday5036
    @therealday5036 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kolby got her a good man lol

  • @eccentriclocs
    @eccentriclocs ปีที่แล้ว +6

    OWN I have cancelled this show on my end. Please cancel it on your end or give us more interesting couples. Manbun, reverend, mr power bottom and those wives are so uninteresting😴 choose another city or a new cast please!

  • @Abundanceisallmine
    @Abundanceisallmine ปีที่แล้ว

    If your husband is trying to defend you why are you quiet? Seems fake to me! 😒