❤ yes Dom well said! 🎉 When I was single I remember an older married co-worker telling me that it is better to be single than badly accompanied. Now as a happily married woman myself, I can say to my single ladies, be very careful with your hearts because there are predators out there trying to take advantage. 28:04 Hang in there because real unconditional love is out there❤
We aren’t judging you love.. we’ve been thru the same some worse… I think being more transparent helps others see we do NOT have to go thru it! I use to feel like I almost had to deal with certain things, like that’s life.. but no ma’am..we can do BAD by ourselves! I’m so proud of you! You deserve all the good things and peace and love!
Because they wanted to use your money 😔.. I had a guy like that. His" bank account got frozen." Thought I was going to fall for that story. Sounds like personal problems 😂 to me.
Been there! Omg, my ex stole money from me, $20 too 🙄 And I was so in denial. I went to the police, bc I thought maybe someone skimmed my card at the atm or gas station. He was lying the whole time, and because he treated me good otherwise, it was so hard for me to believe he did it. And what hurt the most is he knew I would’ve given him anything, so idk WHY he chose to steal my money smh When I finally came to the realization it was definitely him, I broke up with his ass and all the missed red flags started coming to my mind thereafter. Don’t be hard on yourself because someone you loved took advantage of your kindness and good* heart. It was truly a learning lesson for me, 1- to not date down, and 2-to not ignore the red flags in the beginning.
Sissss embarrassed for what? Anybody over the age of 25 plus have been in some b******* with a damn man...Not everybody but many of us Girl my first husband got a chick pregnant okay. Don't be embarrassed.Share your story let them know life goes on. You are beautiful and successful it's his loss
Girl, I moved my ex in with me, didn’t help me pay for the mortgage for 6 months, very jealous and serial cheater, hoping I would lose my home. After asking him for months where’s his half for the mortgage. Why he had his momma call me as if there was an emergency 😂.(the day he was to finally give me his half. This fool handed me $90.00.😂😂, I said what the hell is this. Told me that’s why his momma was looking for him, he had to give her his portion of the mortgage for an emergency 😂😂 And that’s why he’s an ex😂Bye!!
I luv the unit. I admire you for getting on here discussing your life in full transparency. I think they are teachable lessons and I share them with the young women in my life. And living in this world we are going to have trials and tribulations. We all go through something some more than others. The point is that we learn about ourselves.
I make more money than my husband.. this is something he knew before we got married. Prior to marriage he had his own house, cars etc. After we got married it was like I had a kid he acted like I had to do everything for him. Take care of him and his grown azz kids. I finally had to walk away I didn’t mind sharing w him bcuz marriage is a partnership, but he got to the point where he did nothing for me. Never date down .. now I’m single and free
I love that you refuse to call him your ex lol cause period! lol your what I eat in a days got me in the kitchen. These experiences teach you how to protect yourself. He was “entitled” that’s why he never showed gratitude, that’s how takers are
❤ I hate you experienced that friend! Not a Capricorn thing. Just having a good heart that's taken advantage of! What's crazy is he was manipulating you when he STOPPED wearing the clothes! He did it hoping you'd notice & get more! I bet he started acting funny towards you after telling you he got reprimanded for dress code and you didn't offer to help! Sick! Been there & DONE with that! 😏💅🏾 Sending love to everyone GROWING thru it! 🥰
Omgoodness, Dom. Every time I hear a story time about this dude, he's so lowlife. I'm soooo happy you've broken away in every way from that energy snatcher. I remember when he made a big stink about your blue outfit, I think it was a swimsuit you'll were in Miani. You talk about him, and I get so ANGRY, which makes you want to gag. Love you sis you just keep pushing. I pray he watches your vlogs and feels so embarrassed that all has to hear and know about his disgusting behavior.
Gurl! You have no reason to be nervous about your story because we all have one. And as for the red flags, we’ve all collected a few in our lifetime. We’re only human so there’s no judgement here. All the crap we go through in these situationships are to teach us some things and to prepare us for our one true love. You know how many frickin frogs I kissed before I met my King?!? 😂😂😂 too many to count! You’re gonna be fine Boo.
Now I see what Lisa Raye meant in her interview with Carlos King, You Can’t Hang With Me🤣🤣🤣 Dominique he couldn’t hang with you and you was stressing him out🤣🤣🤣 we could tell he wasn’t for you. You still shine beautifully❣️
Gurl, my friend was dating a man that stole the loose change she was saving in a large jar by her bed. Change your locks, hide your pocketbook. Next they will steal your panties. 😅
Great job! Letting go is not easy but, as you now see it can be done! God loves and protects your heart for you, because it is so giving and graceful. Keep up the great work because I know you can do it! Stay strong, blessed and always prosperous. Amen
Dear Dom, We love you so much, there's nothing you can ever tell us and be embarrassed about. All your experiences are valid of what's currently happening on the dating scene......and sadly it's almost 2025🤷🏽♀️
Dude didn't like you nor care about you. He liked the things that you did for him. 💯 You were playing wifey too and that made it easy for him to take advantage you. 😡 Like the old saying goes"why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free". You are a good person and he took advantage of you, when you were vulnerable. He knew deep down that you were too good for him and was the best that he could have gotten. He wasn't on your level. Straight dusty. Glad that you got rid of him, because I couldn't stand seeing you go out like that and treat somebody wonderful when they weren't shit.
No sis I don’t get it. Even if I wasn’t on the lease with my partner I would definitely still go to the viewing if my schedule allowed it. He was definitely a hater
Your blessing is coming back to you from another person. “You’re not alone we all through test and trial of people who use us. We also trust people to much and they shit on us. I still help people when they’re in an emergency and could die or suicidal. Later in life I hear the person die I feel glad I help them. Now, I only help children, I work in jr. school so in am safe environment to be a blessing. I have retired from the “ black man association”! I live happy every day 😆
26:06 ok soooooo….. whole time I admit I have to go back and re-watch your videos bcz your hair be distracting me lol …. Stays laidddd …. Not to mention, your voice is like butter …. I can listen to you all day …. Have you ever thought of doing voice overs for like audio books or something ?
We all been in some sort of bad relationship. I think mine is worse than yours sis. If we all put our stories under this video. We’d all have a field day.. So the younger ladies and maybe older can pick up on the manipulation tactics
I'm glad to know that you cut ties with the ninja. Friend to Friend though you were dealing with a "HOBO-SEXUAL SAD TO SAY.. you're lucky he didn't try to hurt you..ijs.
Not me...replaced cash with cards and hand sanitizer on standby.... But sometimes when I'm driving I wish I had 💸 when I want to give someone homeless money 💰. One time I saw this young bro in his teens holding a sign, so I literally went to the 🏧 just give him money and tell him God 🙌🏾Bless....😢😢 Then I told a friend and he advised me that the kid could be on drugs....so now I have to be mindful of that.🙅🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🙎🏾♀️
One more thing, don't date down. You're beautiful and worthy of everything you deserve.
Your love language is how you want to be loved.
Now this statement hit home 😢😢
DON'T POUR INTO ANY PERSON THAT'S NOT POURING INTO YOU. GLAD, YOU FOUND YOUR PLACE OF PEACE😊
I’m glad that you didn’t let that experience change you and how you love
JOIN ME!
Have a happy thanksgiving!
What color lipstick??
❤ yes Dom well said! 🎉
When I was single I remember an older married co-worker telling me that it is better to be single than badly accompanied.
Now as a happily married woman myself, I can say to my single ladies, be very careful with your hearts because there are predators out there trying to take advantage. 28:04 Hang in there because real unconditional love is out there❤
We aren’t judging you love.. we’ve been thru the same some worse… I think being more transparent helps others see we do NOT have to go thru it! I use to feel like I almost had to deal with certain things, like that’s life.. but no ma’am..we can do BAD by ourselves! I’m so proud of you! You deserve all the good things and peace and love!
You are freeing yourself with the acceptance of your actions, and it's awesome to see.
Because they wanted to use your money 😔.. I had a guy like that. His" bank account got frozen." Thought I was going to fall for that story. Sounds like personal problems 😂 to me.
Been there! Omg, my ex stole money from me, $20 too 🙄 And I was so in denial. I went to the police, bc I thought maybe someone skimmed my card at the atm or gas station. He was lying the whole time, and because he treated me good otherwise, it was so hard for me to believe he did it. And what hurt the most is he knew I would’ve given him anything, so idk WHY he chose to steal my money smh When I finally came to the realization it was definitely him, I broke up with his ass and all the missed red flags started coming to my mind thereafter. Don’t be hard on yourself because someone you loved took advantage of your kindness and good* heart. It was truly a learning lesson for me, 1- to not date down, and 2-to not ignore the red flags in the beginning.
Remember sis hurting people hurt other people of Their Own Heart..he was jealous of your success and your life. Love your story time ❤❤
Girl don’t be embarrassed! Many of us been through the wringer with some men . I could write a book . Literally. Never again though !
He not only didn’t love u, he didn’t like you… trust me I speak from experience… I had a bum like that as well
I was thinking the same thing. The scary part is she lived with him. I've been there and understand completely. My husband hated me for years.😢
Sissss embarrassed for what? Anybody over the age of 25 plus have been in some b******* with a damn man...Not everybody but many of us Girl my first husband got a chick pregnant okay. Don't be embarrassed.Share your story let them know life goes on. You are beautiful and successful it's his loss
Thank you for being so open and honest
Girl, I moved my ex in with me, didn’t help me pay for the mortgage for 6 months, very jealous and serial cheater, hoping I would lose my home. After asking him for months where’s his half for the mortgage. Why he had his momma call me as if there was an emergency 😂.(the day he was to finally give me his half. This fool handed me $90.00.😂😂, I said what the hell is this. Told me that’s why his momma was looking for him, he had to give her his portion of the mortgage for an emergency 😂😂 And that’s why he’s an ex😂Bye!!
You are helping bring light to something so dark.❤
Dom sometimes it helps to talk it ALl out. We are here.but always Protect your PEACE. Luv Ya❤
I luv the unit. I admire you for getting on here discussing your life in full transparency. I think they are teachable lessons and I share them with the young women in my life. And living in this world we are going to have trials and tribulations. We all go through something some more than others. The point is that we learn about ourselves.
I love your story times as I can relate! Please keep them coming ❤ ANDDDD THAT HAIR & MAKEUP IS FIRE as usual!
I make more money than my husband.. this is something he knew before we got married. Prior to marriage he had his own house, cars etc. After we got married it was like I had a kid he acted like I had to do everything for him. Take care of him and his grown azz kids. I finally had to walk away I didn’t mind sharing w him bcuz marriage is a partnership, but he got to the point where he did nothing for me. Never date down .. now I’m single and free
I love that you refuse to call him your ex lol cause period! lol your what I eat in a days got me in the kitchen. These experiences teach you how to protect yourself. He was “entitled” that’s why he never showed gratitude, that’s how takers are
don't cast your pearls before swine"?
Matthew 7:6
❤ I hate you experienced that friend! Not a Capricorn thing. Just having a good heart that's taken advantage of! What's crazy is he was manipulating you when he STOPPED wearing the clothes! He did it hoping you'd notice & get more! I bet he started acting funny towards you after telling you he got reprimanded for dress code and you didn't offer to help! Sick! Been there & DONE with that! 😏💅🏾 Sending love to everyone GROWING thru it! 🥰
Ooh Dom. Thank you for sharing. I am and have dealt with this situation. We live and we learn.
Good thing you pulled back
Omgoodness, Dom. Every time I hear a story time about this dude, he's so lowlife. I'm soooo happy you've broken away in every way from that energy snatcher.
I remember when he made a big stink about your blue outfit, I think it was a swimsuit you'll were in Miani. You talk about him, and I get so ANGRY, which makes you want to gag.
Love you sis you just keep pushing. I pray he watches your vlogs and feels so embarrassed that all has to hear and know about his disgusting behavior.
Gurl! You have no reason to be nervous about your story because we all have one. And as for the red flags, we’ve all collected a few in our lifetime. We’re only human so there’s no judgement here. All the crap we go through in these situationships are to teach us some things and to prepare us for our one true love. You know how many frickin frogs I kissed before I met my King?!? 😂😂😂 too many to count! You’re gonna be fine Boo.
I agree with you.
We have to recognize somebody is a just a taker in our lives
Now I see what Lisa Raye meant in her interview with Carlos King, You Can’t Hang With Me🤣🤣🤣 Dominique he couldn’t hang with you and you was stressing him out🤣🤣🤣 we could tell he wasn’t for you. You still shine beautifully❣️
I’m so happy for you! 😊
Gurl, my friend was dating a man that stole the loose change she was saving in a large jar by her bed. Change your locks, hide your pocketbook. Next they will steal your panties. 😅
Not the loose change!! 😂😂
Great job! Letting go is not easy but, as you now see it can be done! God loves and protects your heart for you, because it is so giving and graceful. Keep up the great work because I know you can do it! Stay strong, blessed and always prosperous. Amen
There are very few things I hate more than stealing. I just cannot deal with that, as I can’t trust you in ANYTHING, if you steal from me.
Your Spirit is sooo different (happy)Now, I remember how😏you would side eye him a lot🤔 it All Makes sense now. Happy Holidays 🎄 #blessing
Hi sis I understand what you are saying thank you for the Vlog Happy Thanksgiving ❤❤
It's so familiar. I'm happy that you took your process to move forward. Whew!
very dusty, bum behavior, sorry you had to deal with that.
I'm happy you didn't let that
Stop.
Being you
I’m with you, I cannot stand an ungrateful person , partner , family or anyone else …urghh
Dear Dom,
We love you so much, there's nothing you can ever tell us and be embarrassed about. All your experiences are valid of what's currently happening on the dating scene......and sadly it's almost 2025🤷🏽♀️
He was disrespectful towards you and probably doesn’t respect women in general
Happy Thanksgiving
Love this 🖤
He was a thief AND he smoked cigarettes!!! Yuck! I’m glad you left him!
This story time happens a lot … been there done that …
$20 god dam dollars? 🤔😶tweaker steal from you then help you look for what THEY stole! Remember that
Dude didn't like you nor care about you. He liked the things that you did for him. 💯 You were playing wifey too and that made it easy for him to take advantage you. 😡 Like the old saying goes"why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free". You are a good person and he took advantage of you, when you were vulnerable. He knew deep down that you were too good for him and was the best that he could have gotten. He wasn't on your level. Straight dusty. Glad that you got rid of him, because I couldn't stand seeing you go out like that and treat somebody wonderful when they weren't shit.
DOM, I'M ❤️🔥 LOVING 💞 the throwbacks! Janet and movie Ghost.... Whoopi...."Molly, you in danger guurrll"! 😂😅
This hurts to listen to 😮💨😵💫😣
Dom where did you get your necklace from. I love it and I have looked everywhere for it!
No sis I don’t get it. Even if I wasn’t on the lease with my partner I would definitely still go to the viewing if my schedule allowed it. He was definitely a hater
Your blessing is coming back to you from another person. “You’re not alone we all through test and trial of people who use us. We also trust people to much and they shit on us. I still help people when they’re in an emergency and could die or suicidal. Later in life I hear the person die I feel glad I help them. Now, I only help children, I work in jr. school so in am safe environment to be a blessing. I have retired from the “ black man association”! I live happy every day 😆
Hey, the link to the hair isn’t the same hair in the video.
You have to match me or more but I refuse to date down If I wasn't still married. I'm not doing it I'll be by my damn self
26:06 ok soooooo….. whole time I admit I have to go back and re-watch your videos bcz your hair be distracting me lol …. Stays laidddd …. Not to mention, your voice is like butter …. I can listen to you all day …. Have you ever thought of doing voice overs for like audio books or something ?
We all been in some sort of bad relationship. I think mine is worse than yours sis. If we all put our stories under this video. We’d all have a field day.. So the younger ladies and maybe older can pick up on the manipulation tactics
❤❤❤
Don't carry cash
Dom you sound just like me
Can we get to the meat & potatoes… I would love a story time on coming out to your mom
He’s a BUM
I’m here!!!!!
😮
I'm glad to know that you cut ties with the ninja. Friend to Friend though you were dealing with a
"HOBO-SEXUAL SAD TO SAY.. you're lucky he didn't try to hurt you..ijs.
He was on power drug I had I man that did the same thing an he was on cocain
Cocain is crazy lol
Not me...replaced cash with cards and hand sanitizer on standby....
But sometimes when I'm driving I wish I had 💸 when I want to give someone homeless money 💰. One time I saw this young bro in his teens holding a sign, so I literally went to the 🏧 just give him money and tell him God 🙌🏾Bless....😢😢 Then I told a friend and he advised me that the kid could be on drugs....so now I have to be mindful of that.🙅🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🙎🏾♀️
God blee for sharing your story, and giving the great advice at the end (I needed that part lol)! 🫶
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