It is all in the mind and about the mind my friend. Just relax , relax and relax and you will be OK. Getting it 6' o clock is not an eclipse .If you don't get it now then take a few deep breaths and exhale through the mouth .Tell yourself this is nit an exam but pleasure .
Using those meds and this issue share a common cause - one doesn't cause the other. So of course users will have more of this problem. That study needs two cohorts to be useful. Also check out the "Magnum" selections if you think you might even be slightly above average. They are not designed for horses, but rather the upper quartile.
No, it’s doesn’t. Stop fear mongering and spreading misinformation. Masturbation is completely normal, and there is no “too much”. It all depends on your body and your needs. Porn consumption on the other hand is also normal, and does not inherently cause lack of erection. Stop demonizing people.
I've found that it's helpful to have a woman apply the condom for me, rather than do it myself. However, aside from immediate sensation loss, the tightness does slowly cut off the circulation and eventually causes significant numbness and sometimes erection loss. Even with large size condoms.
Two observations from past experiences: 1. In college and in adulthood, when I've been the one to say "hold on, let me get a condom", women would get offended & dry up. So I stopped using. That was stupid and dangerous on my part. I learned the hard way. 2. Some women have told me that they are allergic to condoms. I personally think it was unlubed condoms that caused irritation... But they know their bodies better than me. So I stopped using with some people (most of the time only having one partner). I'm not sure if that was a way to force me to be monogamous. 🤔 But I offer to use other styles of condoms. Many women (that I know) aren't willing to experiment & choose to go raw. 🤷🏾♂️
Circumcision + Condom = Complete loss of sensation. But circumcision does not reduce sensation you say! Why then does the sensitivity of the glans become dull a few weeks after an adult is circumcised?
because its easier to lie to them to make them feel normal. who cares. as long as they are clean and healthy, and they feel satisfied. that can be their new norm.
Condom size in my and friends experience is the most important factor. The number of men and women I’ve met that don’t realize how 1- it’s a thing and 2- how important it is is staggering. I stopped having numbness or losing erections when I started wearing properly fitted condoms.
Thanks helpful answer at men stores you are not allowed to try on underwear and condoms to see if they fit but you are allowed to try on everything else.
The best comment on this vlog. Never mind about studies involving watching porn for 30 seconds or what have you. Ask the sample of men how many were aware of and had tried different sizes and makes of condom rather than grabbing the first one that came to hand. Once you know which is the brand / type / fit for you then you can stop the worries which affects your erection.
@@TheHappyLeperBeaver Don't use oil based lubes in latex or polyisoprene condoms because it will cause them to break. Water or silicone based lubes are the only safe types. Coconut oil, baby oil, mineral oil, butter, lotion, petroleum jelly or Vaseline, grease, and hair conditioner, can't be used with latex or polyisoprene. The only condoms that can be used with oil based lube are polyurethane (like Trojan Supra condoms) or nitrile (like FC2 Female Condoms, sometimes called internal condoms).
Definitely measure and find the correct size condom. I didn’t know this 20 years ago and I thought I had ED, when I was just using the wrong sized condom. I was also very overweight, so I thought it was early ED. I know now that it was likely a combination of both. But condom sizes are typically based on girth.
They were always "too tight" and irritated the skin. Much easier to know who your hooking up with(& habits and hygiene) rather than wear something that doesn't work in many ways.
Thank you for your videos. I just set up my second appointment with a Urologist. You are answering questions I never thought o to ask. These appointments often don't last long and I am the type who tries not to take too much of a professional's time. Perhaps you can also enlighten us as to the use of shots for ED. Something no one seems to talk about. If you have already, please direct me. Thanks again.
3:40 i had to learn to get the right size I'd been in pretty feminist circles in undergrad, & the overly simplified statements folks would point out ... Similar to my sex ed teacher, etc... would include for example that a condom can stretch over a watermelon I tried to use a normal size a long time, but it would literally just choke my erection away. It's true that condoms can stretch, but an erection is just flesh & not bone or rind or anything seriously rigid
Here's one for you, in my late teens through to being about 30 I was very sexually active (long term partners but just extremely regular several times a day every day), but since reaching mid 30's I get aroused really quick and no issues getting erect but within minutes of penetrative sex I feel bored and start to lose firmness, tried having a break from sex to see if I was just over doing it but it still remains the same (didn't matter if it was a break of a few days, weeks or months).
Great topic! Experience this over the last several years. I’ve had moments of putting it on later to avoid losing the erection, and taking it off early also. In most cases I say something to my partner to ensure if it’s safe and if she’s ok with it. However I don’t like making those judgement calls as being in the moment(horny) can cloud your better judgment. I usually am proud when I fight the urge to go unprotected because the condom process killed my mood and I’m potentially putting myself at risk without it**yikes which is why I believe this topic is good to touch on but also feel shitty bc I wasted her time and a condom(pack are like $10). It is interesting though to note that someone women find it attractive that you’re unwilling to have sex unless there’s a condom involved! Cause trust they hate condoms just as much if not more than we do! To the point of not having it if you pull one out
What should a guy in his 50's do dating with ED taking Trimix and sometimes can't hold long enough to put the condom on or while concentrating on putting it on kills him to?
This would happen to me until I got a larger condom. I had always been under the impression that i was of a "normal" size, but came to realize that the larger sizes were for girth and not necessarily length. I'm just slightly above the average as far as length but have a pretty big circumference. Trying to put on a normal size meant too much stretching and rolling it down seemed to squeeze the blood from my erection. Sometimes with some stimulation the erection would come back, but not always. Getting a larger size worked for me, but that may not be the case for everyone, but it's a good place to start.
or maybe just don't sleep with random people you don't know and when you leave a relationship get tested. Maybe the problem is that anyone that you think you need a condom for is kinda gross to you in the first place. Makes more sense to me.
Hey doc new to the channel? My question to you is what would be the best way for me to get the female to engage in having sex with me as I’ve been having difficulty getting them to do anything and I’m not very experienced as I am a late bloomer. And there hesitant as I only had a handful of experience’s. I’m about average when it comes to length but it’s the thickness that worries them. And with the lack of experience I’m not sure what to do. Is there any tips you can provide me with?
I agree. I have experienced this CAEL... Couldn't perform better after wearing condom.. Besides, it takes longer time to correctly wear the condom... upside-down & the width
The only time I ever put on a condom was when my girlfriend at the time got free condoms from a college campus. It was extremely painful, wouldn't go on, and caused me to lose my erection. I think it may have been too small. (I'm 6'8" tall with size 18 feet and I'm also above average on the sizes of my other body parts.)
I feel absolutely nothing when having sex while using a condom. Absolutely nothing. I've never had sex without one, so i guess that makes me still a virgin
Imagine beeing invited to the greatest all-you-can-eat-buffet in the city. And then, when you are really starving and want to start, someone comes up and tells you, that you only can have unsalted, plain rice. Yeah. Great...
it help me so much ty doctor. Like this happen to me when i well have sex for the first time. I feel so embarassing after that. However, with this video i feel so much better now and know what to do so Thanks again.
As expected before I clicked on this video, this ''doctor'' is completely beating around the bush. Loss of erection when using a condom is caused by the condom, plain and simple. For an erection to happen, the penis needs to be able to expend without obstruction. With a condom you are putting on a ''barrier''. It makes it more difficult to stay erect simply because you are fighting against a resistance. Also, a condom will numb a penis to the point you will loose almost all sensation. No sensation going to the brain = loss of erection. And yes, you will have these issues even with the correct size condom. Especially for circumsized men a condom will absolutely ruin sex.
Funny, until recently I hadn't realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's a relief! Although what he previously suggested was pretty good, it was a real pain to follow... I just go'ogled the latest by Mario Volpstein, it's so much easier and potent now!
Thanks for the advice, And yes, I tried what I read the other day and it was mind blowing to see her writhing with pleasure and ready for anything. It started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest in Greyzar Drinbo's PE Solutiono and now she keeps dragging me back lol
Doctor Please reply fully. My case is Im 22 years old with height 175 cm and weight just 51 kg and i was using 1 ml of topical minoxidil for past 2 years and also last year 1 mg of finasteride everyday from july to september 2023. That is for 2 months. My case before taking finasteride was like i could only ej**cuate only on certain positions where there is more blood flow to the p*nis. I think i have sime signs of gastritis, Sometimes when i urinate it doesnt go fully too. Also there were little signs of ED even before taking finasteride. Now my case when i took finasteride for those 2 months was same as the before situation. But i decided to stop on September only due to some additional side effects which i experienced. Those side effects were: There was like 50 to 60 % reduced sensation when my p*nis is stroked, its like it got very much numb, the intensity of my org***sm was reduced largely, when i try to mstrb*te and im at the climax, the semen comes normally for few seconds then the e**jculation flow of semen is stopped for 1 or 2 seconds and then continues again at last for max 1 seconds. Means somewhere in between the pleasure and the flow of semen stops. (Like a short type of retrograde ejaculation). Now its been around more than 4 months since i stopped the medicine. The only side effect i could say which has been reduced among these is the retrograde type one. But that too not largely. Rest all side effects i think im dealing with it rigth now too. I have been continuing only 1 ml topical minoxidil. I had researched more than 100 videos atleast even just from this channel for the information of finsateride and my mind was prepared for taking finasteride too. Even adter getting sides i believed it will go away but it didnt. Im planning to take the medication again. So please answer. my questions are : 1.) Which all doctors should i consult for my each and every problems? 2.) Am i not an eligible candidate for this medicine. i dont wanna use topical finasteride instead use this oral finasteride itself 3.) Im planning to go to gym from next week will it progress my baldness more 4.) What all tests i should to check where i have any deficiency. Also what type of tests. Please tell all. Like testosterone test etc.. 5.)Day by day when i masturbate the intensity of my orgasm while ejaculating is getting worse. What reason might be this 6. Will finasteride affect my gym gains
I'll be the first one to say it...sometimes condoms have a "scent" that can be a little off-putting tho too.
the smell of most is terrible
Counter argument : the more sex with condoms, the more you can associate condom smell with sex, which can somewhat become a pleasing smell
The act of putting on the condom causes distraction which is the only cause.
It is all in the mind and about the mind my friend. Just relax , relax and relax and you will be OK. Getting it 6' o clock is not an eclipse .If you don't get it now then take a few deep breaths and exhale through the mouth .Tell yourself this is nit an exam but pleasure .
not only that... if it's not the right size condom that will absolutely affect it
Yo, I thought that was only me that this happens too, glad to know it’s normal lol.😂
Avoid sweets sugar chocolate watermelon etc to avoid lust feelings.😊😊😊
Bramhacharya since last 6 months. Try it and be hawas free👍😊
@@santosh34556 To bhai tu kr kya raha h is video pr.
Almost nothing we think medically only happens to us is rare to a medical doctor.
Thank you Dr. Malik. Now I understand more of my problem.
Using those meds and this issue share a common cause - one doesn't cause the other. So of course users will have more of this problem. That study needs two cohorts to be useful.
Also check out the "Magnum" selections if you think you might even be slightly above average. They are not designed for horses, but rather the upper quartile.
I love how knowledgeable you are.
Stress pressure probably
Avoid sweets sugar chocolate watermelon etc to avoid lust feelings.😊😊😊
Bramhacharya since last 6 months. Try it and be hawas free👍❤
On the condom package they just put medium or large. They never put small on there because they don't want hurt the guy's ego. Great video!
aggressive meat beating as well as excessive corn consumption causes this stuff.
No, it’s doesn’t. Stop fear mongering and spreading misinformation. Masturbation is completely normal, and there is no “too much”. It all depends on your body and your needs. Porn consumption on the other hand is also normal, and does not inherently cause lack of erection. Stop demonizing people.
Corn consumption? What's that?
@StepladdertoSausage71 what rhymes with corn ? It starts with a P
Yes I have high blood pressure and type two diabetes, yes I lost some weight starting to walk two miles a day.
I've found that it's helpful to have a woman apply the condom for me, rather than do it myself.
However, aside from immediate sensation loss, the tightness does slowly cut off the circulation and eventually causes significant numbness and sometimes erection loss. Even with large size condoms.
I could listen to you all day Dr. M - something in your voice holds my attention 🤔
Two observations from past experiences:
1. In college and in adulthood, when I've been the one to say "hold on, let me get a condom", women would get offended & dry up. So I stopped using. That was stupid and dangerous on my part. I learned the hard way.
2. Some women have told me that they are allergic to condoms. I personally think it was unlubed condoms that caused irritation... But they know their bodies better than me. So I stopped using with some people (most of the time only having one partner). I'm not sure if that was a way to force me to be monogamous. 🤔 But I offer to use other styles of condoms. Many women (that I know) aren't willing to experiment & choose to go raw. 🤷🏾♂️
Circumcision + Condom = Complete loss of sensation. But circumcision does not reduce sensation you say! Why then does the sensitivity of the glans become dull a few weeks after an adult is circumcised?
because its easier to lie to them to make them feel normal. who cares. as long as they are clean and healthy, and they feel satisfied. that can be their new norm.
Yes, especially if there is a lot of scar tissue
@@helloeveryone0123 This video is about "them" not feeling satisfied and all I am doing is pointing to one of the reasons why.
Avoid sweets sugar chocolate watermelon etc to avoid lust feelings.😊😊😊
Bramhacharya since last 6 months. Try it and be hawas free👍😊
@@santosh34556 Heavens gate?
God bless yall on what yall do always
Condom size in my and friends experience is the most important factor. The number of men and women I’ve met that don’t realize how 1- it’s a thing and 2- how important it is is staggering. I stopped having numbness or losing erections when I started wearing properly fitted condoms.
Thanks helpful answer at men stores you are not allowed to try on underwear and condoms to see if they fit but you are allowed to try on everything else.
The best comment on this vlog. Never mind about studies involving watching porn for 30 seconds or what have you. Ask the sample of men how many were aware of and had tried different sizes and makes of condom rather than grabbing the first one that came to hand. Once you know which is the brand / type / fit for you then you can stop the worries which affects your erection.
Very informative
You can add a drop or two of lube inside of condoms before putting them on. They feel better & may be less likely to break.
What sorts of lube are good for condoms ? Any sort ? Is coconut oil ok ?
@@TheHappyLeperBeaver Don't use oil based lubes in latex or polyisoprene condoms because it will cause them to break. Water or silicone based lubes are the only safe types. Coconut oil, baby oil, mineral oil, butter, lotion, petroleum jelly or Vaseline, grease, and hair conditioner, can't be used with latex or polyisoprene.
The only condoms that can be used with oil based lube are polyurethane (like Trojan Supra condoms) or nitrile (like FC2 Female Condoms, sometimes called internal condoms).
Definitely measure and find the correct size condom. I didn’t know this 20 years ago and I thought I had ED, when I was just using the wrong sized condom. I was also very overweight, so I thought it was early ED. I know now that it was likely a combination of both. But condom sizes are typically based on girth.
They were always "too tight" and irritated the skin. Much easier to know who your hooking up with(& habits and hygiene) rather than wear something that doesn't work in many ways.
I dont wan to be the person against condoms but I rather know my partner... or use it only if I am going to be with someone I do not trust.
I didn’t even know this was a common problem thanks for the info
I love this channel!
Thank you for your videos. I just set up my second appointment with a Urologist. You are answering questions I never thought o to ask. These appointments often don't last long and I am the type who tries not to take too much of a professional's time. Perhaps you can also enlighten us as to the use of shots for ED. Something no one seems to talk about. If you have already, please direct me. Thanks again.
This was helpful
Yeah very true. Thx for the video.
It was the smell of them when I was a teenager. It killed it.
I wanna test this theory on Dr. Rena
3:40 i had to learn to get the right size
I'd been in pretty feminist circles in undergrad, & the overly simplified statements folks would point out ... Similar to my sex ed teacher, etc... would include for example that a condom can stretch over a watermelon
I tried to use a normal size a long time, but it would literally just choke my erection away.
It's true that condoms can stretch, but an erection is just flesh & not bone or rind or anything seriously rigid
Here's one for you, in my late teens through to being about 30 I was very sexually active (long term partners but just extremely regular several times a day every day), but since reaching mid 30's I get aroused really quick and no issues getting erect but within minutes of penetrative sex I feel bored and start to lose firmness, tried having a break from sex to see if I was just over doing it but it still remains the same (didn't matter if it was a break of a few days, weeks or months).
Start working out and take a break from sex. Anxiety kill it all.
Does working out really help??
Hi rena!😊
That's why I don't use condoms...
Me.too, especially when at work
@@akunformalitas😂😂😂
I have used many different cundums over the years and found that the MAGNUM XXXL's fit and feel perfect
Glad to know this is a normal thing.
Great video. I fall into the category of losing my erection when wearing a condom, sometimes when just putting it on. This was a helpful video
Great topic! Experience this over the last several years. I’ve had moments of putting it on later to avoid losing the erection, and taking it off early also. In most cases I say something to my partner to ensure if it’s safe and if she’s ok with it. However I don’t like making those judgement calls as being in the moment(horny) can cloud your better judgment. I usually am proud when I fight the urge to go unprotected because the condom process killed my mood and I’m potentially putting myself at risk without it**yikes which is why I believe this topic is good to touch on but also feel shitty bc I wasted her time and a condom(pack are like $10). It is interesting though to note that someone women find it attractive that you’re unwilling to have sex unless there’s a condom involved! Cause trust they hate condoms just as much if not more than we do! To the point of not having it if you pull one out
What should a guy in his 50's do dating with ED taking Trimix and sometimes can't hold long enough to put the condom on or while concentrating on putting it on kills him to?
It is all in the mind.
Only one minute of a film?
And where do you got the light from?
What are these for books in the background?
This would happen to me until I got a larger condom. I had always been under the impression that i was of a "normal" size, but came to realize that the larger sizes were for girth and not necessarily length. I'm just slightly above the average as far as length but have a pretty big circumference. Trying to put on a normal size meant too much stretching and rolling it down seemed to squeeze the blood from my erection. Sometimes with some stimulation the erection would come back, but not always. Getting a larger size worked for me, but that may not be the case for everyone, but it's a good place to start.
same for me
Very true
Thank you Dr. Malik!
Please do a video covering nymphomaniacs.
I can't be the only one that went through that.
Yes it happens to me often.
Definitely!
Would you advise using a constriction loop in conjunction with a condom?
I have problems with condoms especially with extended time duration condoms.
Never used one guess that why I had 6 kids . Never played the field, so I guess I am good.
How about us old men
Hey there is a saying in my country India : Horses ,& Men never get old. Just see the population of our country 😀
Can you do a video about condoms that make premature ejaculation ? Which are the solutions about that ?
It's because they are so damn difficult to put on!
or maybe just don't sleep with random people you don't know and when you leave a relationship get tested. Maybe the problem is that anyone that you think you need a condom for is kinda gross to you in the first place. Makes more sense to me.
Hey doc new to the channel? My question to you is what would be the best way for me to get the female to engage in having sex with me as I’ve been having difficulty getting them to do anything and I’m not very experienced as I am a late bloomer. And there hesitant as I only had a handful of experience’s. I’m about average when it comes to length but it’s the thickness that worries them. And with the lack of experience I’m not sure what to do. Is there any tips you can provide me with?
Wrong channel to learn how to score with women..
I agree.
I have experienced this CAEL...
Couldn't perform better after wearing condom..
Besides, it takes longer time to correctly wear the condom... upside-down & the width
The only time I ever put on a condom was when my girlfriend at the time got free condoms from a college campus. It was extremely painful, wouldn't go on, and caused me to lose my erection. I think it may have been too small. (I'm 6'8" tall with size 18 feet and I'm also above average on the sizes of my other body parts.)
the dropped of sensation is a major cause too
I feel absolutely nothing when having sex while using a condom. Absolutely nothing. I've never had sex without one, so i guess that makes me still a virgin
Imagine beeing invited to the greatest all-you-can-eat-buffet in the city. And then, when you are really starving and want to start, someone comes up and tells you, that you only can have unsalted, plain rice.
Yeah. Great...
I lose it immediately with condom.. what causes loss of sensation to the penis as I get older?
I associated it to the chemical used in the condoms rather then the things mentioned. I’ll have my partner put them on.
Answer me this, why is Australia not mentioned in this way? Just asking???
it help me so much ty doctor. Like this happen to me when i well have sex for the first time. I feel so embarassing after that. However, with this video i feel so much better now and know what to do so Thanks again.
Imagine going to kiss someone and sticking a plastic bag over their head first then telling them that they won't know they're wearing it 😬
Dr. Malik is pretty
She cannot provide diagnosis or medical advice from comments on a TH-cam video. Go see a local urologist
As expected before I clicked on this video, this ''doctor'' is completely beating around the bush. Loss of erection when using a condom is caused by the condom, plain and simple. For an erection to happen, the penis needs to be able to expend without obstruction. With a condom you are putting on a ''barrier''. It makes it more difficult to stay erect simply because you are fighting against a resistance. Also, a condom will numb a penis to the point you will loose almost all sensation. No sensation going to the brain = loss of erection. And yes, you will have these issues even with the correct size condom. Especially for circumsized men a condom will absolutely ruin sex.
Funny, until recently I hadn't realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's a relief! Although what he previously suggested was pretty good, it was a real pain to follow... I just go'ogled the latest by Mario Volpstein, it's so much easier and potent now!
Please give a reply to this comment. Is testosterone level 5.8 ng/ml in a 30 year old Male low ?
i HATE condoms !!!!! 😠
Agreed. Bare or don't bother.
Does this have anything to do with bears?
Just asking... No reason.
Thanks for the advice, And yes, I tried what I read the other day and it was mind blowing to see her writhing with pleasure and ready for anything. It started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest in Greyzar Drinbo's PE Solutiono and now she keeps dragging me back lol
It’s because condoms literally destroy the enjoyment of sex!
Dr Malik you look very tired. What’s going on? Talk to us…
And i thought i am the only one who experiences Erection loss after putting Condom on ..
just get married and don't worry about "unprotected sex"
👊❤ *What Three Words Woman say that can ruin a Good thing?* *I Love You!*
Or make it hotter.
Yall r very beautiful young women
Olaf! Keep your carrot out of this!
I don't get the horn now anyway so no Johnny's for me.
🥃📡🥃
🥵🤕🤮😴🥶🥴😵😵💫
hello dr Rena Malik. M.D. i see but not good me want say no my not good sorry say M.D. Rena need lehp me
❤💍👩❤️👨🙏☦️ GOD HAVE MERCY ON US SINNERS ☦️🙏🕊️😭💪
Wrong video dude the mythology section of TH-cam is in the complete opposite direction of science based videos
Wtf
Doctor Please reply fully. My case is
Im 22 years old with height 175 cm and weight just 51 kg and i was using 1 ml of topical minoxidil for past 2 years and also last year 1 mg of finasteride everyday from july to september 2023. That is for 2 months. My case before taking finasteride was like i could only ej**cuate only on certain positions where there is more blood flow to the p*nis. I think i have sime signs of gastritis, Sometimes when i urinate it doesnt go fully too. Also there were little signs of ED even before taking finasteride. Now my case when i took finasteride for those 2 months was same as the before situation. But i decided to stop on September only due to some additional side effects which i experienced.
Those side effects were:
There was like 50 to 60 % reduced sensation when my p*nis is stroked, its like it got very much numb, the intensity of my org***sm was reduced largely, when i try to mstrb*te and im at the climax, the semen comes normally for few seconds then the e**jculation flow of semen is stopped for 1 or 2 seconds and then continues again at last for max 1 seconds. Means somewhere in between the pleasure and the flow of semen stops. (Like a short type of retrograde ejaculation). Now its been around more than 4 months since i stopped the medicine. The only side effect i could say which has been reduced among these is the retrograde type one. But that too not largely. Rest all side effects i think im dealing with it rigth now too. I have been continuing only 1 ml topical minoxidil. I had researched more than 100 videos atleast even just from this channel for the information of finsateride and my mind was prepared for taking finasteride too. Even adter getting sides i believed it will go away but it didnt. Im planning to take the medication again. So please answer. my questions are :
1.) Which all doctors should i consult for my each and every problems?
2.) Am i not an eligible candidate for this medicine. i dont wanna use topical finasteride instead use this oral finasteride itself
3.) Im planning to go to gym from next week will it progress my baldness more
4.) What all tests i should to check where i have any deficiency. Also what type of tests. Please tell all. Like testosterone test etc..
5.)Day by day when i masturbate the intensity of my orgasm while ejaculating is getting worse. What reason might be this
6. Will finasteride affect my gym gains
You do know you can just go to a general practitioner, and they will assign specialists...... so much easier than YT comments sections.
You need to see an MD, in person, for medical advice.
Thanks, Dr. Malik.