You can always tell that Jim was raised by a bunch of women. He is always so respectful and kind to women in his life. Congrats guys. And Sarah, don't listen to the naysayers. Much more of us wish you happiness!
I’ve been in a similar situation. Was married and divorced after just a few years. Met someone soon after divorce and found that I was happy. Been married for 25 years with my first date after divorce. Best to you both.
It makes me sad that you have to even comment on your previous relationship. Relationships end, people grow as they get older and sometimes you just drift apart. It’s natural and if you mature and had a relationship end then you can understand this. Wishing you and Sarah all the best, fabulous couple and so right for each other. 💓
dear Jim, you really do not need to explain. This is your life and Sarah's, you are both beautiful people and I hope you have a great future ahead full of love x
Don’t get me wrong.. I’m still gutted that you and Tanya split as my teenage years were spent watching you both and I have many fond memories but Im also pleased that you have found love again and that you and Sarah are both so happy and so in love. I hope you both have a happy, fulfilled life together xx
I remember how I was so heartbroken for you at the time when you were still living in your sister's place and looking for a new house; not necessarily because you and Tanya broke up but because I know how a break-up really affects every aspect of your life and it's just sad no matter the circumstances. So to see you pick yourself up again, open your life to a new love, and pursue it with all your heart - it's damn beautiful and we're all here for it! Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts on how the press addresses your life, it was very well-said.
Jim, I am one of those who have watched you and Tanya for many many years, I think it must add up to 12 years or something (is that possible?! wow) and therefore I am glad for your explanation in this video. You don't owe me anything, it's not that. It's just... The Internet is a strange thing for making you able to see so much of somebody else while you've never met them. It feels a bit like friendship - though of course it is not. I'm sure you understand me. Anyway, this is why it felt strange to suddenly see you two broken up and Tanya deleting all her videos and you not talking about it at all. It felt as if I had just dreamed everything and like I had lost - not just one but two imaginary friends.^^ It felt a bit weird. I know and respect that you only share what you want and I always knew that things (your and Tanyas TH-cam channels) would not go on and on forever the same way. But. But it feels nice to hear you talk a bit about the why and how of the change. It really does. I wish you all the best. :-)
I felt the same! also regarding the 12 years, man I was in school when i stated watching them, for me the OG youtubers are jim and tanya, ingrid, luke, fleur, zoe and alfie... I feel like I'm forgetting someone..... anyhow really can't believe its been this long!
Really happy for you, have watched you for years and can see how happy you are. Just wish you would address what happened to Martha? She was such a big part of your lives and you seem to delete every comment asking about her, I hope you won’t delete this one, just would be nice to know what happened to her?
Jim I have always appreciated your professionalism and authenticity with your audience. I feel so happy to be part of your community and most importantly, congratulations to you both! It's lovely to see you happy and I'm glad we get to celebrate you!
Life is for living. You were very young first time round, being married once does not mean you can’t forever more be married again. We all deserve happiness, I’m chuffed for you and you both seem very happy x
I’ve watched you and Tanya for 10 years. It was a shock when you separated and it was a little bit devastating to see the relationship just end like that. I really thought I was going to dislike any other woman you dated after Tanya. But honestly...I was so surprised and glad to see that wasn’t the case. I knew immediately that Sarah was such a special woman. You can tell that straight away. She’s so likeable, warm and kind. I’m so glad that you found her- I can’t imagine anyone better suited to you. I’m honestly so pleasantly surprised at how everything has turned out. I could not be happier about your marriage and I wish you two the absolute best ❤️
Why does time matter, Love is love! When I met my husband we moved in together after two weeks, engaged after a year, married after two years and baby after three years we’ve now been together 8 years with two beautiful girls ❤️ we both just knew ❤️
God, I used to watch Jim all of the time, but stopped a few years ago. I’m not sure why, but sometimes people just stop watching certain TH-camrs. Anyways, today I just suddenly remembered him and decided to search him up, and look at this!! I’m so happy for you Jim!!
It is so wonderful to see how happy you are with Sarah. It's a happiness and a side of you that us viewers have never seen before. You two compliment each other and bounce off of each other in such a unique way. Anyone can see that this is pure love and how well suited you are together. Sarah seems to have brought out a spark in you. It's a delight to see you both so happy!
Having not watched you for years, I came across your Instagram and thought ‘wow these two must be getting married soon’ and here you are! Congratulations guys! Wishing you all the best
Jim, I cannot even begin to explain how nice it is to hear you being honest. Not that you need to be, and you don’t have to really explain anything if you don’t want too. But as a LONG time viewer, who has become invested over the years. I am so happy to see you happy. And owning your happiness. All the absolute best to you and Sarah!
To be honest I think it shows a lot of character and decisiveness to just bloomin dive in for the long haul. Some people are big into security and commitment and just don't mess about and I think it's a very attractive quality to have to want to dive in and have a life with someone properly. Congratulations!
Been subscribed for years! You can truly tell how deeply you both feel for one another. It’s your life! You don’t have to explain anything to us. You both seem incredibly happy. Congratulations!!!! Sarah seems incredibly smart, kind and she’s beautiful. You truly seem like a special couple. Here’s to your future!
So happy for you both! Never feel like u have to justify things, some people just have to say something negative. Enjoy the exciting time, we all need good things in our lives, now more than ever x
I'm so pleased for you both! Your authenticity and transparency shines through so much in this- you're a real credit to your brand, your channel and yourself. I truly wish you and Sarah all the happiness in the world and am so excited for your new chapter as an engaged couple! You radiate pure joy when you talk about her, and the way she looks at you is just bloody lovely to see. As for the misinformation from the press, I always think back to the Dr Seuss quote "Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind". All the love in the world as always x
Haven't checked your channel in ages. But after a video of Carrie Hope Fletcher talking about "old TH-cam" I just came to see if you're still here. Really liked this video, and to see you so still looking so genuinely nice and happy. Congrats on the engagement!
I think you'll be pleasantly surprised how many people are happy for you! We LOVE Sarah! I do know a few had a hard time with the divorce, but regardless many were understanding and accepting, and only wanted you to be happy. I've been a fan of you and Tanya together from the beginning, but I've always been a massive supporter of YOU! Your warmth, kindness, humility, humor, the way you love, and generosity. Thank you for sharing your mental health, life, and truth. You're a real one Mr. Chapman. I was so happy when you found Sarah. Congrats!🥰💖
When I don’t think I can respect more, you do this! Of course there has been the tabloids and you don’t have to say anything but you said what happened and defended your lady with class and respect..
First off, CONGRATS! Secondly, listening to this, I really feel for you and Sarah. It must be frustrating feeling a need to justify your healthy happy relationships. Anyway, I'm so excited because I'm moving from Brighton to Clapham soon and I hope one day I catch you on the street in London and can congratulate you and Sarah in person! And also tell you how a wonderful role model of a human you have been in my life. Sending you both good thoughts! Also, please share wedding details would love to see what you come up with.
I love Sarah, I’ve followed her on insta for a while and I love when she speaks to camera. She’s so calming and down to earth. Please get her to start a YT channel 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Let’s not lol let’s keep her out of the YT craziness and just have her appear periodically in Jim’s infrequent vids. I like the mystery of Jim’s beautiful and exotic looking wife to be ;) she is lovely tho and I enjoy hearing her with him.
First off, a massive congrats to you and Sarah on your engagement! I honestly have been off the radar with your channel for a long time now. Not for any particular reason. I did initially sub to your channel back when you and Tanya were newly dating, so i've clearly been out of the loop with you two breaking up. I'm so sorry you both have had comments thrown at you, that's not okay. Things happen and sometimes you grow apart with your partner, and that's okay. We're all human. Regardless of how long ago the break up was, it's frankly no one's business on how you decide to live your life afterwards. Your happiness is what matters. Anyway, end rant lol. I wish you and Sarah all the very best!
I rarely comment on videos BUT it made me really sad that you felt you had to explain your engagement 😔 I've watched your videos, Tanya's, Zoe, Alfies etc for years and loved you and Tanya as a couple but that doesn't mean I'm not happy for you now x kinda want you to take that part out as you owe no1 an explanation - it's always nice to see someone 'warm and fuzzy' x massive congratulations to you both ❤ x
Congrats Jim so thrilled for your happiness. Sarah seems lovely & knows how to maneuver in your world if that makes sense. All the best to the two of you. Your fans will be kind to her. Looking forward to seeing more videos. Thanks for sharing.
A few days before you announced your engagement I asked you on a “questions box” on Instagram if you were thinking about getting married again. Never felt like my sixth sense was so on point lol
I'm so happy for you Jim, and glad to see your followers here are also in support of you and know to look past the headlines. Your explanation was so not needed but is appreciated nonetheless from us long term followers, as we know you are very happy with Sarah and have had a mature separation from Tanya.
It’s a shame you would have to explain anything Jim, but you spoke really eloquently about it, and I respect you for it. Best wishes to the both of you :)
I love how maturely you handle this. Love is love at the end of the day no matter how quickly or fast it goes. Everyone will always have their opinion but it's how you handle it that matters.
Great to see you back Jim and fabulous news congratulations 🌈❤️. Whilst you’re into explaining stuff please tell us what happened to Martha, we were so invested in her !
Congratulations Jim and Sarah! I agree wholeheartedly that love wins out! I’ve been a fan for a very long time and it was great to see your life today.
Congratulations:) I’m also engaged after having been married (quite young) for a few years. Even without an audience people can be really difficult around situations like this and just wanted to to share that I support your choices and am so happy to see you happy :) ❤️
Congrats! ✨ It was always going to be a 'difficult' thing to announce, if you were 60 and got into a relationship the press would still have something to say!
Love that you’re vlogging again! I’m sorry that you felt you had to come and explain yourself but it’s also sort of sweet that you leapt to Sarah’s defence. Such good news, so happy for you both🥰 please keep us updated with wedding planning
I’m so happy for you! Of course you wouldn’t want to waste time once you show she’s the one you want to marry! Wishing you all the luck in the world ❤️
I’ve like the vibe you and Sarah have had going right from the beginning. You’re over 30, definitely grown up, and you know what you want. And let’s face it: Sarah is fab. I see you growing old together and hopefully making beautiful babies :)
You never need to explain yourself to anyone Jim! I am so pleased for you, you and Sarah seem like you are made for each other! Congratulations on your engagement, wishing you a happy future together xxx
You owe no one an explanation. Your relationship is between you and Sarah. I hope the two of you are really happy and will have a wonderful life and marriage. You both seem so happy together and that's all that matters.
Congratulations to you and Sarah! I wish you didn't feel the need to explain but it's important to tell your side of the things instead of letting the audience think the press is correct on certain things. Have fun planning and tell Sarah that pie looks delicious!
I loved what you said about having been in love before and knowing it when you see it and grabbing hold. All the best to you two with your new engagement. :)
Congratulations to you both! Its so lovely to see how happy you both are, it makes me annoyed that there’s people that write negative comments especially about Sarah because she’s such a lovely girl and doesn’t deserve it. I hope people leave you both alone to be happy!! There’s nothing wrong with moving on and finding someone new 💜
Congratulations Jim & Sarah! PS: I honestly think you've explained this so many times, that it's becoming a bit stupid for the press or whoever is making such a big deal over you for being happy in your life. Lord knows we all deserve some happiness. Sarah seems like such a lovely person, people saying terrible things about her is a sign of their ignorance and possibly jealousy! Rant over. Lol. Here's to you both!
ah you've always been the loveliest most genuine person to watch and it makes me so happy to see you happy. what you deserve. all the best for you both x
It’s such wonderful news. You both deserve a whole word of happiness, why stop or pause your life for the fears of others opinion. You know it’s right and it certainly on the small snippet we see looks like. I’m so happy both have a great and happy future ahead! X
I'm so happy for you two! Jim I've been watching you for years and you deserve all the happiness as you seem such a genuine and honest guy. Also sharing your honesty to us about your previous relationship is so nice even though none of us ever wanted you to explain anything as like you mentioned why should you ever have to explain what you want to do with your life x
Congrats on your engagement! So pleased for you both :) Please can I ask (sorry if this is intrusive), about you wearing glasses again? I remember you got your eyes lasered a while ago so just wondered if there had been a change/if it's something that happens over time. Sorry if that's a personal question, just curious! xx
Congrats Jim! Really happy for you. And while you definitely don’t owe anybody an explanation, I personally appreciated it. Thank you, It helped to put a comforting closure on that chapter for me. I’m excited to continue seeing your adventures with Sarah!
People love to live of the negative and to bash people left right and centre! Massive congrats to yourself Jim and Sarah I hope ye have the world of happiness going forward. People fall in and out of love and marriages come and go and unless you’re in that situation or from from a “failed” marriage family you just realise there’s more to what people see and stories they put out. Looking forward to the content of the build up of the wedding. Massive congrats again guys 🥂🎉👰🏻🤵🏻
Congratulations, Jim and Sarah. I am wishing you a lifetime of happiness. You have a right to move on with your life. You really don’t owe any of us an explanation. The press lives off sensationalism. I can only imagine how hard that may be on someone who doesn’t live their life online. Love and light to you both.
Congratulations. The judgement is a symptom where people have not been able to work through their own past traumas yet and conditioning. They then project the insecurities on to you. Your happiness is your own and doesn't require validation, although some of the world will tell you it does. The fact their are people who have had troubles transitioning about somebody else's life is mind boggling. Congrats guys x
Congratulations! You deserve to be happy, and Sarah seems like a lovely woman, and it's clear that you're very happy together. You should never feel bad or feel like you have to apologize for going out and finding happiness in your life. Life is short, and for some critics no amount of time would be enough to move on. But their criticism is momentary. You live your life every day, and you deserve to live it happily - especially since you've never treated your previous marriage or Tan with anything less than the utmost respect.
Really appreciate this honesty. You of course deserve to be happy again, also the ‘16 months’ makes it sound like quite a long time... so not sure it sounds too dramatic or speedy anyway. Good luck with all the wedding planning!
A problem in the world, is that people can’t just mind their own business and not judge others. No one knows what’s going on in peoples lives and get off on belittling others. Congrats on the engagement! I hope to be able to find someone and be able to share the amount of love the two of you have for each other.
So happy for you and Sarah, congrats!! And thank you for the explanation, it’s always nice when you open up, nevertheless don’t ever feel like you have to explain yourself. All the best from Germany 🇩🇪
I’m so happy for you and Sarah! It’s an exciting and joyful time! Anyone with a lick of sense doesn’t trust what the press has to say! Sensationalism and shock value is how they roll. I’m just sorry Sarah has to learn to let it roll off her back, but I’m pretty sure she thinks you’re worth it! 🥰🥰🥰 Best wishes and congratulations again! 💗💗💗
Massive congrats 🎉🎉. I hate the way the media likes to set women against each other .. just terrible. The pastry thing is easy enough to happen ... the finished one looked yum ❤️
Please don't feel like you need to explain. Sarah is a lovely woman and I wish you both nothing but love and happiness and children and puppies and kittens and a house in the country.
Yay! So happy to see a new vid! It’s been difficult for some to understand that you and your ex remain friends, but thank you for taking the time to address it. Hopefully people will better understand now that you are happy with your new partner! Life is so short and unpredictable, so if you find love again in your life, you have to go after it! I’m currently going through a divorce at only 22 years of age so I can somewhat understand what it feels like, some days are a bit gloomy than others but you have pick yourself up and keep going. I’ve been watching you since 2013, I’ve seen your ups and downs. You’re such a genuine kind person Jim, you deserve to be happy ! And Sarah is lovely, wish you two so much happiness and hope to maybe see some little babies soon? :’) Sahara don’t feel bad, I make mistakes all the time in the kitchen but practice makes perfect 😉
I think you two a very well suited, mostly because you are both kinda nerdy in a lovingly normal way😉 (my kind of peeps). Wishing you years and years of joy and love ❤️
You can always tell that Jim was raised by a bunch of women. He is always so respectful and kind to women in his life. Congrats guys. And Sarah, don't listen to the naysayers. Much more of us wish you happiness!
i haven’t thought about jim chapman for years, why is this being recommended to me? anyways congrats
I’ve been in a similar situation. Was married and divorced after just a few years. Met someone soon after divorce and found that I was happy. Been married for 25 years with my first date after divorce. Best to you both.
It makes me sad that you have to even comment on your previous relationship.
Relationships end, people grow as they get older and sometimes you just drift apart. It’s natural and if you mature and had a relationship end then you can understand this.
Wishing you and Sarah all the best, fabulous couple and so right for each other.
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dear Jim, you really do not need to explain. This is your life and Sarah's, you are both beautiful people and I hope you have a great future ahead full of love x
Don’t get me wrong.. I’m still gutted that you and Tanya split as my teenage years were spent watching you both and I have many fond memories but Im also pleased that you have found love again and that you and Sarah are both so happy and so in love. I hope you both have a happy, fulfilled life together xx
I remember how I was so heartbroken for you at the time when you were still living in your sister's place and looking for a new house; not necessarily because you and Tanya broke up but because I know how a break-up really affects every aspect of your life and it's just sad no matter the circumstances. So to see you pick yourself up again, open your life to a new love, and pursue it with all your heart - it's damn beautiful and we're all here for it! Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts on how the press addresses your life, it was very well-said.
Jim, I am one of those who have watched you and Tanya for many many years, I think it must add up to 12 years or something (is that possible?! wow) and therefore I am glad for your explanation in this video. You don't owe me anything, it's not that. It's just... The Internet is a strange thing for making you able to see so much of somebody else while you've never met them. It feels a bit like friendship - though of course it is not. I'm sure you understand me. Anyway, this is why it felt strange to suddenly see you two broken up and Tanya deleting all her videos and you not talking about it at all. It felt as if I had just dreamed everything and like I had lost - not just one but two imaginary friends.^^ It felt a bit weird. I know and respect that you only share what you want and I always knew that things (your and Tanyas TH-cam channels) would not go on and on forever the same way. But. But it feels nice to hear you talk a bit about the why and how of the change. It really does. I wish you all the best. :-)
My thoughts exactly! ❤️
I felt the same! also regarding the 12 years, man I was in school when i stated watching them, for me the OG youtubers are jim and tanya, ingrid, luke, fleur, zoe and alfie... I feel like I'm forgetting someone..... anyhow really can't believe its been this long!
You’ve found the right words to describe it 🙌🏻☺️👍🏻
Same here
thank you for putting into words what i have failed to express myself. this is exactly it. xx
Really happy for you, have watched you for years and can see how happy you are. Just wish you would address what happened to Martha? She was such a big part of your lives and you seem to delete every comment asking about her, I hope you won’t delete this one, just would be nice to know what happened to her?
Who is Martha?
Yes!! I’ve been wondering this too
Martha is still with Tanya! 😊
Martha lives with Tanya. What else do you want to know?
Jim I have always appreciated your professionalism and authenticity with your audience. I feel so happy to be part of your community and most importantly, congratulations to you both! It's lovely to see you happy and I'm glad we get to celebrate you!
Life is for living. You were very young first time round, being married once does not mean you can’t forever more be married again. We all deserve happiness, I’m chuffed for you and you both seem very happy x
I’ve watched you and Tanya for 10 years. It was a shock when you separated and it was a little bit devastating to see the relationship just end like that. I really thought I was going to dislike any other woman you dated after Tanya. But honestly...I was so surprised and glad to see that wasn’t the case. I knew immediately that Sarah was such a special woman. You can tell that straight away. She’s so likeable, warm and kind. I’m so glad that you found her- I can’t imagine anyone better suited to you. I’m honestly so pleasantly surprised at how everything has turned out. I could not be happier about your marriage and I wish you two the absolute best ❤️
Why does time matter, Love is love! When I met my husband we moved in together after two weeks, engaged after a year, married after two years and baby after three years we’ve now been together 8 years with two beautiful girls ❤️ we both just knew ❤️
God, I used to watch Jim all of the time, but stopped a few years ago. I’m not sure why, but sometimes people just stop watching certain TH-camrs. Anyways, today I just suddenly remembered him and decided to search him up, and look at this!! I’m so happy for you Jim!!
i feel you....
Bc nothing new happened. And we grew up.
All the og TH-camrs are gone tbh
Having been married, divorced and now happily engaged again myself, i wish you nothing but happiness!!! its so nice to be loved and to love.
Bottomline is happiness is everything and Jim looks happy so its a Congrats from me!❤️
It is so wonderful to see how happy you are with Sarah. It's a happiness and a side of you that us viewers have never seen before. You two compliment each other and bounce off of each other in such a unique way. Anyone can see that this is pure love and how well suited you are together. Sarah seems to have brought out a spark in you. It's a delight to see you both so happy!
Having not watched you for years, I came across your Instagram and thought ‘wow these two must be getting married soon’ and here you are!
Congratulations guys! Wishing you all the best
"I have a crush on you" "thanks darling" never heard anything more cute in my life
Jim, I cannot even begin to explain how nice it is to hear you being honest. Not that you need to be, and you don’t have to really explain anything if you don’t want too. But as a LONG time viewer, who has become invested over the years. I am so happy to see you happy. And owning your happiness. All the absolute best to you and Sarah!
So happy for both of you. Also I'm glad you and Tan are still friends despite going your separate ways. Love you both and glad you are happy
To be honest I think it shows a lot of character and decisiveness to just bloomin dive in for the long haul. Some people are big into security and commitment and just don't mess about and I think it's a very attractive quality to have to want to dive in and have a life with someone properly. Congratulations!
Been subscribed for years! You can truly tell how deeply you both feel for one another. It’s your life! You don’t have to explain anything to us. You both seem incredibly happy. Congratulations!!!! Sarah seems incredibly smart, kind and she’s beautiful. You truly seem like a special couple. Here’s to your future!
So happy for you both! Never feel like u have to justify things, some people just have to say something negative. Enjoy the exciting time, we all need good things in our lives, now more than ever x
I'm so pleased for you both! Your authenticity and transparency shines through so much in this- you're a real credit to your brand, your channel and yourself. I truly wish you and Sarah all the happiness in the world and am so excited for your new chapter as an engaged couple! You radiate pure joy when you talk about her, and the way she looks at you is just bloody lovely to see. As for the misinformation from the press, I always think back to the Dr Seuss quote "Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind". All the love in the world as always x
Haven't checked your channel in ages. But after a video of Carrie Hope Fletcher talking about "old TH-cam" I just came to see if you're still here. Really liked this video, and to see you so still looking so genuinely nice and happy. Congrats on the engagement!
I think you'll be pleasantly surprised how many people are happy for you! We LOVE Sarah! I do know a few had a hard time with the divorce, but regardless many were understanding and accepting, and only wanted you to be happy. I've been a fan of you and Tanya together from the beginning, but I've always been a massive supporter of YOU! Your warmth, kindness, humility, humor, the way you love, and generosity. Thank you for sharing your mental health, life, and truth. You're a real one Mr. Chapman. I was so happy when you found Sarah. Congrats!🥰💖
When I don’t think I can respect more, you do this! Of course there has been the tabloids and you don’t have to say anything but you said what happened and defended your lady with class and respect..
First off, CONGRATS! Secondly, listening to this, I really feel for you and Sarah. It must be frustrating feeling a need to justify your healthy happy relationships. Anyway, I'm so excited because I'm moving from Brighton to Clapham soon and I hope one day I catch you on the street in London and can congratulate you and Sarah in person! And also tell you how a wonderful role model of a human you have been in my life. Sending you both good thoughts! Also, please share wedding details would love to see what you come up with.
I love Sarah, I’ve followed her on insta for a while and I love when she speaks to camera. She’s so calming and down to earth. Please get her to start a YT channel 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Let’s not lol let’s keep her out of the YT craziness and just have her appear periodically in Jim’s infrequent vids. I like the mystery of Jim’s beautiful and exotic looking wife to be ;) she is lovely tho and I enjoy hearing her with him.
A little bit of the "old" Jim back. Love this type of vid. Congrats to you and Sarah!
First off, a massive congrats to you and Sarah on your engagement! I honestly have been off the radar with your channel for a long time now. Not for any particular reason. I did initially sub to your channel back when you and Tanya were newly dating, so i've clearly been out of the loop with you two breaking up. I'm so sorry you both have had comments thrown at you, that's not okay. Things happen and sometimes you grow apart with your partner, and that's okay. We're all human. Regardless of how long ago the break up was, it's frankly no one's business on how you decide to live your life afterwards. Your happiness is what matters. Anyway, end rant lol. I wish you and Sarah all the very best!
Jim you are a true gentleman- you respect women wholeheartedly. You deserve happiness my darling🤍 Sarah seems lovely so happy engagement xx
I rarely comment on videos BUT it made me really sad that you felt you had to explain your engagement 😔 I've watched your videos, Tanya's, Zoe, Alfies etc for years and loved you and Tanya as a couple but that doesn't mean I'm not happy for you now x kinda want you to take that part out as you owe no1 an explanation - it's always nice to see someone 'warm and fuzzy' x massive congratulations to you both ❤ x
Congrats Jim so thrilled for your happiness. Sarah seems lovely & knows how to maneuver in your world if that makes sense. All the best to the two of you. Your fans will be kind to her. Looking forward to seeing more videos. Thanks for sharing.
A few days before you announced your engagement I asked you on a “questions box” on Instagram if you were thinking about getting married again. Never felt like my sixth sense was so on point lol
I'm so happy for you Jim, and glad to see your followers here are also in support of you and know to look past the headlines. Your explanation was so not needed but is appreciated nonetheless from us long term followers, as we know you are very happy with Sarah and have had a mature separation from Tanya.
It’s a shame you would have to explain anything Jim, but you spoke really eloquently about it, and I respect you for it. Best wishes to the both of you :)
You seem happier and more relaxed than last time I checked in - made me smile :) Congrats on the engagement and all the best going forward
I love how maturely you handle this. Love is love at the end of the day no matter how quickly or fast it goes. Everyone will always have their opinion but it's how you handle it that matters.
Great to see you back Jim and fabulous news congratulations 🌈❤️. Whilst you’re into explaining stuff please tell us what happened to Martha, we were so invested in her !
Congratulations Jim and Sarah! I agree wholeheartedly that love wins out! I’ve been a fan for a very long time and it was great to see your life today.
Congratulations:) I’m also engaged after having been married (quite young) for a few years. Even without an audience people can be really difficult around situations like this and just wanted to to share that I support your choices and am so happy to see you happy :) ❤️
Congrats! ✨ It was always going to be a 'difficult' thing to announce, if you were 60 and got into a relationship the press would still have something to say!
I’m so happy you found love again and decided to make it forever.. Congratulations to Jim and Sara!!!
Love that you’re vlogging again! I’m sorry that you felt you had to come and explain yourself but it’s also sort of sweet that you leapt to Sarah’s defence. Such good news, so happy for you both🥰 please keep us updated with wedding planning
I’m so happy for you! Of course you wouldn’t want to waste time once you show she’s the one you want to marry! Wishing you all the luck in the world ❤️
Congrats Jim and Sarah! I’m sorry that you felt the need to explain everything about your relationship :( but am so happy for the two of you!
Most compelling and honest video I’ve seen from you. Fair play mate
I’ve like the vibe you and Sarah have had going right from the beginning. You’re over 30, definitely grown up, and you know what you want. And let’s face it: Sarah is fab. I see you growing old together and hopefully making beautiful babies :)
I think usually, "never complain, never explain," is attributed to Henry Ford II.
You never need to explain yourself to anyone Jim! I am so pleased for you, you and Sarah seem like you are made for each other! Congratulations on your engagement, wishing you a happy future together xxx
Jim, you're an absolute angel. You seem like such a great man! I wish you all the happiness in the world with Sarah!!
I’m so happy for the both of you! I hope you’ll share a little of your wedding planning with all of us. Cheers! 🥂
You owe no one an explanation. Your relationship is between you and Sarah. I hope the two of you are really happy and will have a wonderful life and marriage. You both seem so happy together and that's all that matters.
Congratulations to you and Sarah! I wish you didn't feel the need to explain but it's important to tell your side of the things instead of letting the audience think the press is correct on certain things. Have fun planning and tell Sarah that pie looks delicious!
I loved what you said about having been in love before and knowing it when you see it and grabbing hold. All the best to you two with your new engagement. :)
Massive congratulations to you both! 💍🥂🙌🏻💜 No need to explain, you're all adults, and deserve to be happy wherever you're in your lives!
Congratulations to you both! Its so lovely to see how happy you both are, it makes me annoyed that there’s people that write negative comments especially about Sarah because she’s such a lovely girl and doesn’t deserve it. I hope people leave you both alone to be happy!! There’s nothing wrong with moving on and finding someone new 💜
Congratulations! Every bit of happiness is welcome in this poop of a year. So glad you have managed to find a ray of sunshine to cheer us all up
BTW "I'm so fortunate to have been in love before so I can recognise it when it comes along" is an absolutely beautiful way of describing it x
Congratulations Jim & Sarah!
PS: I honestly think you've explained this so many times, that it's becoming a bit stupid for the press or whoever is making such a big deal over you for being happy in your life. Lord knows we all deserve some happiness. Sarah seems like such a lovely person, people saying terrible things about her is a sign of their ignorance and possibly jealousy! Rant over. Lol. Here's to you both!
I appreciate that you explained even though you didn’t have to. I already wished you both well on your post but congrats to you both again
Congratulations Jim and Sarah ❤
ah you've always been the loveliest most genuine person to watch and it makes me so happy to see you happy. what you deserve. all the best for you both x
Congratulations! So exciting that there is still joy & celebrating in the world.
The house looks grand!! I love the tiles y’all chose.
It’s such wonderful news. You both deserve a whole word of happiness, why stop or pause your life for the fears of others opinion. You know it’s right and it certainly on the small snippet we see looks like. I’m so happy both have a great and happy future ahead! X
I'm so happy for you two! Jim I've been watching you for years and you deserve all the happiness as you seem such a genuine and honest guy. Also sharing your honesty to us about your previous relationship is so nice even though none of us ever wanted you to explain anything as like you mentioned why should you ever have to explain what you want to do with your life x
Live your life mate! Haters gonna hate...and people feed off of other people's supposed drama. Happiness to you both and to Tanya too...
Such lovely, lovely news! I’m so happy for you both. You’re a lovely couple and I wish you every happiness 💖
I wish you both a lifetime of Happiness. Congrats!
Interesting colour combination in the bathroom you would think they wouldn’t work but they do, some with the patterns.
I’ve never seen you more happy ❤️ been following for so many years and I can’t express how happy I am for you.
Congrats on your engagement! So pleased for you both :) Please can I ask (sorry if this is intrusive), about you wearing glasses again? I remember you got your eyes lasered a while ago so just wondered if there had been a change/if it's something that happens over time. Sorry if that's a personal question, just curious! xx
Congrats Jim! Really happy for you. And while you definitely don’t owe anybody an explanation, I personally appreciated it. Thank you, It helped to put a comforting closure on that chapter for me. I’m excited to continue seeing your adventures with Sarah!
Excellent News Jim sir - Congratulations to both of you - stay safe and be happy.
People love to live of the negative and to bash people left right and centre! Massive congrats to yourself Jim and Sarah I hope ye have the world of happiness going forward.
People fall in and out of love and marriages come and go and unless you’re in that situation or from from a “failed” marriage family you just realise there’s more to what people see and stories they put out.
Looking forward to the content of the build up of the wedding. Massive congrats again guys 🥂🎉👰🏻🤵🏻
Nothing but excited for you both, no reasons needed. Congratulations to the both of you!!!
Congratulations, Jim and Sarah. I am wishing you a lifetime of happiness. You have a right to move on with your life. You really don’t owe any of us an explanation. The press lives off sensationalism. I can only imagine how hard that may be on someone who doesn’t live their life online. Love and light to you both.
Congrats Jim and Sarah! I've been a viewer for more than half a decade through all the ups and downs, wishing you both all the best x
Congratulations to you both!!! Yay to new beginnings!! I’m sorry I may have missed it but what happened to Martha??
Congratulations!! I’m so happy for you guys
Congratulations. The judgement is a symptom where people have not been able to work through their own past traumas yet and conditioning. They then project the insecurities on to you. Your happiness is your own and doesn't require validation, although some of the world will tell you it does. The fact their are people who have had troubles transitioning about somebody else's life is mind boggling. Congrats guys x
Congratulations! You deserve to be happy, and Sarah seems like a lovely woman, and it's clear that you're very happy together. You should never feel bad or feel like you have to apologize for going out and finding happiness in your life. Life is short, and for some critics no amount of time would be enough to move on. But their criticism is momentary. You live your life every day, and you deserve to live it happily - especially since you've never treated your previous marriage or Tan with anything less than the utmost respect.
I have loved seeing Jim grow through the years that I've watched him for. I'm so happy for them both! 💕 Congrats 🎉
WHOA! WHOA! WHOA! I need to go back and catch up on past videos. I've missed some things.
Really appreciate this honesty. You of course deserve to be happy again, also the ‘16 months’ makes it sound like quite a long time... so not sure it sounds too dramatic or speedy anyway. Good luck with all the wedding planning!
Congratulations Jim. You re a good guy. I have been following you for many years, listening to your channel is like listen to a friend talking.
A problem in the world, is that people can’t just mind their own business and not judge others. No one knows what’s going on in peoples lives and get off on belittling others. Congrats on the engagement! I hope to be able to find someone and be able to share the amount of love the two of you have for each other.
Sarah is beautiful and seems like such a lovely person, congratulations on both of you!! 🥂
So pleased for you and Sarah! She seems lovely and you both seem so happy xx
Congratulations to you both!! Can we please get more vlogs I always enjoy them even when your just doing normal everyday stuff.
Congratulations to both of you!! So happy for you all and love the remodeling of the house. Thanks for sharing with us. #BeHappy
I am happy you guys are happy and there is no reason why you should explain yourself! Wish you guys all the best xxx
So happy for you and Sarah, congrats!! And thank you for the explanation, it’s always nice when you open up, nevertheless don’t ever feel like you have to explain yourself. All the best from Germany 🇩🇪
I’m so happy for you and Sarah! It’s an exciting and joyful time! Anyone with a lick of sense doesn’t trust what the press has to say! Sensationalism and shock value is how they roll. I’m just sorry Sarah has to learn to let it roll off her back, but I’m pretty sure she thinks you’re worth it! 🥰🥰🥰 Best wishes and congratulations again! 💗💗💗
I’m going to cry
Massive congrats 🎉🎉. I hate the way the media likes to set women against each other .. just terrible. The pastry thing is easy enough to happen ... the finished one looked yum ❤️
Please don't feel like you need to explain. Sarah is a lovely woman and I wish you both nothing but love and happiness and children and puppies and kittens and a house in the country.
Yay! So happy to see a new vid! It’s been difficult for some to understand that you and your ex remain friends, but thank you for taking the time to address it. Hopefully people will better understand now that you are happy with your new partner! Life is so short and unpredictable, so if you find love again in your life, you have to go after it! I’m currently going through a divorce at only 22 years of age so I can somewhat understand what it feels like, some days are a bit gloomy than others but you have pick yourself up and keep going. I’ve been watching you since 2013, I’ve seen your ups and downs. You’re such a genuine kind person Jim, you deserve to be happy ! And Sarah is lovely, wish you two so much happiness and hope to maybe see some little babies soon? :’)
Sahara don’t feel bad, I make mistakes all the time in the kitchen but practice makes perfect 😉
I think you two a very well suited, mostly because you are both kinda nerdy in a lovingly normal way😉 (my kind of peeps). Wishing you years and years of joy and love ❤️