I had no one to leave my kids with when I went to Saudi, I rent a house for them - Mary Ann
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ต.ค. 2021
- After years of an abusive marriage, Mary Ann decides to call it quits. To support her children, she decides to look for the opportunities in the UAE but has no one to leave her kids with. She says that her own mother refused to look after her children.
Almost five years in the UAE now, Mary Ann decided to send her kids to boarding school and when they close, she rents a house for them and entrusts them to the care of a house help. In this show, MaryAnn helps us to look at this thorny issue of women who are leaving their children behind to go to foreign countries for the wellbeing of the same children!
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That's my mum alikataa kunisaidia akiwa na pesa nikamwabia anikalie na mtoi nikatafute kazi akakataa,bt mungu ni Nani
My mother in-law alinikalia na mtoi na akampeda kabisa ata kuliko watoto wa wasichana wake, I really thank God for her ,Mimi ata nikienda ushago siendagi kwetu naenda kwenye mtoto wangu ako(Kwa mother in-law) every month lazima nitume kitu ata kaa mtoi ako shule juu ako high school na niyeye amemlea adi akafika apo saa hii ako form 4,, since form 1 sijai lipa school fee mother in-law makes her rich daughter pay for my girl juu alisema ata my late husband ndie aliwasomesha wakafika apo so lazima pia wao walipie mtoto wake ,,,may God bless my mother in-law she's one ina million
Indeed she is one in a million
Absolutely true..1 in a million
May God bless her
Aki mungu niwakushukuriwa.
God bless her
Aki the things ladies go through for the sake of their kids.All I can say is that God's grace is sufficient. Team gulf May grace carry us through🙏🙏.
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Amen Amen Amen and Amen.
Amen Amen and Amen
AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
Pitieni kwangu pia
Those people that lives in abroad and invest thru their families without any problems are so blessed !!
Ooh yes I must count myself blessed
Please say that again
Yeah ivyo ndio ninafanyia my dada zangu na bros walioko gulf.ata mtu nnje siwezi kumuacha maana nazijua shida za gulf.ufanye kazi gulf kisha uje kenya mikono mitupu inauma sana.mungu awape imani.
@@winsletndusya8851 blessings to them you are ❤️
@@blessedmama5367 ameen
The strength of a woman. God bless these mothers.
Amen
The message to the mother is heartbreaking. MaryAnn you are a champion and a great mother. We celebrate you
Those who are saying she should sell the plot and start a business should know not all people are business minded.
Such a strong woman i appreciate the fact that my mum didn't abandon my son when I left him some parents are not supportive and they don't understand us 😭😭😭😭 respect to all the ladies tu wenye wako gulf it's never easy but we have to work for the sake of our kids❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
i clearly understand her pain when she mentions her mother...
Most of us have mothers but can never relate with them..Mothers lets guide,support and love our kids unconditionally..
Aki this really touched me,lakini Monicah huwa hatuendi gulf kwa raha ni shinda,for example in Kenya I was earning 7k a month and I have twins girls now in form 2,now surely 7k,hata watoi hawangeenda sec,may God bless our husle in Jesus mighty name
Amen amen God bless the work of our hands
Good gal , 4 bn a realist
Tafta pesa weka biashara lea watoto mum aki hao watoi 😭😭😭 najua wanaumia roho but can't express themselves 😭😭😭😭😭sad
Why would a birth mother wish the worst for her child? I admire this lady for loving her children. 💕
Spirit of rejection is really bad, Wairimu you have done well. Being a single mum and a provider it's challenging.
First Congratulations for working hard and investing for the future ,now that you have something on your name kindly consider staying with your children. You can sell one plots and start business coz money will never be enough .
Very true.
True 👍
Wao that's nyc Mary,Ngai niwe umareraga wihe hinya,
Mtu akikosa kwa kuwacha mtoi niletee. I was born alone na nitafurahia kuwa auntie. Bora unilipe hiyo ya kukulelea mtoto.
Am late bt am inn...ka wangige much love form Bahrain...am proud of my mum she's taking care of my daughter 3yrs far from home I thank God for my mum
I salute my big sis, she's really took good care of my daughter. May you live long sis
Wairimu you are hard working
But now come back to your kids
Somethings r jus funny to understand. Last part of taking the kids to boarding why not get a boarding school in mombasa once the school closes u stay with them.
I feel your pain baby gal..NGAI agitire twana tuu..nawe uthereme nginya thu cituike arata in Jesus name 🙏
May God bless her in a mighty way and open doors for her which no man can close. She is a go getter
You are a strong woman...I celebrate you MaryAnn 👏
Maryann, may God come through for you. I know one day God will ensure you and your children live in together. Mungu azidi kukuzidishia maishani mwako.
You already have 5 plots. Sell 2 of them and use that money to start a business, and settle down in Kenya and live with your kids. They need you. You have enough to succeed. There are women with less who are raising their children. Money will never be enough.
Akiiii True those kids r suffering woiiiii 🙄
Very true
U have said as it is...utawachilia watoto mwishoye they will ask you one hurtful question..'where were you when we needed you most '..?
Selling a property of late is not easy.
Very true
As a mother i don't understand... i don't get it at all. What this kids have gone through.... only God knows. Even if u buy hundreds of land, it can't match ur time with ur kids. 😔
A toxic mother n sibling rivalry is quite evident in Maryanns story. I feel this lady's pain. But ogopa mungu. He is the father to the fatherless. Maryann God got your back. He is the friend that sticks closer than a brother.
This one has touched me God got us.
Kagoni kindly tafutia huyu mama job Kenya,,,,,,ndio atulie na watoto wake.
I feel for the kids😭😭😭
She have 5 plots auze mbili ama moja ajisaindie
@@sarahfranky2896 Yeap,,,,hope she will do so.
Great idea!
Here ready to watch part two of this episode, watching you from Greece👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
I feel this lady 😥cz am going through the same am in Saudia Arabia I hv 3kids Monica when I come kindly plz I would like you to host me. cz ladies who are in outside countries go through alot thank you gal for being openly and on our belf🤝may God bless you abundantly 🙌
Niletee nikulelee unilipe.
That story was a touching one thanks Monica
Be careful of buying plot with certificate. Buy the one with title deed
I salute this woman .she is very strong.
Spirit of rejection😭😭😭 This lady is strong!
Worst feeling aki I'm also rejected in my family .I'm a young mum infct but currently working in gulf is has not been easy mtoi wangu ata sjui ako aje sai
I clearly understand when she talks bout her mom.. Some of us have toxic parents.... But most of us are strong....God will take her places
She is a very strong lady 😍 she encouraged me so much when i was in kenya
Wow! This woman is a Champion. Her energy is likeble
the way I love kids 😭😭 growing up without parents Aki....I once confronted my neighbor mistreating her sisters kid juu alikua saudia....if tunajuana hao watoto ningekaa na hao kwanza huyo anasema hataki boarding am feeling the pain anway mama please try to settle Sasa recover the time gone bond..money is never enough
Wairimu you are a strong woman,one thing you should do is to settle down now when you are strong,no matter how you strain,the younger kids might never understand the sacrifice if she won't get a mother's love,all in all hats off to you
Aki hao watoto aki, then later on mtoto atakuja kublame alifundishwa lesbianism or something else na wasichana wa kazi, my God, it's somehow a loss aki 😭😭😭
@@gracemutugi2870 God forbid back to the sender
Very strong woman! Be strengthen,!
Wairimu you sound stable now,just stay in your own country and start up a business to grow up your bond with the kids it’s very important and I don’t see the reason as to why you are waiting to seek sympathy in future! I don’t get the sense as to why you keep compiling plots when you could settle with two and build your own house first…wake up honey otherwise your story will never change,hugs
Rejection of the highest order... sorry mama for the struggle.... you are strong woman and you have taught us not to give up.. hugs there is more to life.
She is such a strong woman.God bless the work of her hand
A touching story. Strong lady indeed.
Metha kagoni great Powerful interview I like to listen her in my life now today.
Very painful story....Mary Ann keep on fighting and let God take care of your kids. Leaving your kids was the best decision you made in the circumstances - all I see is a strong woman and wish you all the best in life. Your kids are blessed and God who sees the sacrifice you have made will watch over them and they will come out right. Please forgive your mother, your siblings, your husband and in-laws. Let God judge them and deal with them. May God bless everything you lay your hands on.......you are blessed girl.
Very focused and courageous lady be blessed ur going far, monicah kagoni ur great
If you can build rentals by selling 2 and then you can stay with your children you can also start a small business to keep your self busy that way you will able to stay with your children
I know it's hard...nmejaribu kutafuta solution hapa nkakosa,i salute you sababu your intentions ni pure for a better future of ur children...i hope mtakuwa stable soon
I salute my Late Dad and My mum and also my younger Bro they really took care of My son I left when he was 8yrs and came back at 12yrs and am great ful for them Sana.. MAY GOD BLESS THEM FOR ME
Wa some parents aki... Your grandkids.... I salute my mum aki amekaa na watoto wangu jfor ten yrs ...may God bless you gal
Let's not judge this lady coz we can never fully understand what made her leave her kids. But I guess it will be good to solve issues between you and your dad. Wishing u the best in everything Wairimu.♥️
I think it’s not judging but kids safety is paramount people are struggling with their kids in Kenya .what’s the point of getting money but kids are not given attention ..money doesn’t bring love..she shd concentrate with her kids now.
@@megmurugi8056 what benefits wen you stay with your kids yet no sch no enough food but stress and hurts
@@aishawangui6635 even me I was in Kenya b4 I relocated to Uk.. I know the struggle I have Bn there I once contemplated to go dubai but people are hustling in Kenya &looking after their kids.leaving them cause more damage than good .it’s not all about money&comfy life.we grew up struggling but our parents stayed with us.kids safety is important especially if you got no one trusted to look after your kids.if u have go get capital come back spend time with ur children.money can’t buy that.
@@megmurugi8056 I understand you but our situation were different no parent wish to leave their kids unattended..but circumstances force us but for me ihave no parents that's why I rent ahouse and leave my babies alone ..
@@aishawangui6635 ok I pray you get capital &go back to ur children.so you don’t. Miss any part of their growing .plus these days you can’t trust people so much with ur kids watu wanekuwa wambaya aki.so much child abuse.
Strong woman I salute you mamaa aki,and for those who have good parents and relative thank God don't take for granted.
Here I am wangu nimerent nyumba naniko Qatar saii supporting my kids hadi saii let me say only God 😭😭😭mom yuko hai na bro na sis but they dont care about them now am talking my son ananiambia hes sick
Where is he . I can check on him if he is around Nairobi
@@jobent6117 thanks nilimtuma hospital private saii nimekall ako poa Monday anarundi shule yuko form two .
Na mwingine form one
Thirdborn class 7
Forth class 4
Is not easy hii life kuishi far na watoi kwanza kwa rental house but Inabidii
Ok. Wish you well. God bless
A child appreciates the invaluable things in life....presence, love,time,commitment. Valuable things can never mould a child.
excatly when they get older she might regret???she needs to come home before they become teenagers..otherwise she will comeback and they will be messed up
God I thank you for Wairimu May you continue to bless her and bring reconciliation with her parents and siblings. May your favor surround her life and her children in Jesus name.
MaryAnne you are a strong woman even after facing alot in the abusive marriage and rejection from the family.I know if they watch this video it will make them jealous for what God is doing for you no matter how hard it is coz they expected you to fall but God disappointed them.Siku moja watakutafuta Mary.Barikiwa zaidi wazidi kushangaa.
Kairitu ur very strong 💪, woiye God tusaidie sisi wana gulf tutoke na maplots huku aki.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌👌👌
Congratulations 👏🎉🎉👏🎉 your story is such a great motivation
She is a strong woman...May God bless my mum aki I left my daughter akiwa 3 months and now she is 9 years
Proud of you namesie👌some family's waaah....this story makes me appreciate my mum plus my elder sister ❤ they have never abandoned my son and also my other sister whom also has left her 2 kids!
This lady is very strong and determined
Mary Ann we are sailing kwa same boat..siko gulf but nko Asia tu .nmewaachia wazazi watoi wangu but on how I was raised up ,waaahh im praying 🙏 so hard to figure my issue out...
l thank God for my sis she takes good care of my son.but aliteseka 4yrs kwa wale nilikuwa na waachia.mwenye hana mtu wa kuachia mtoto anione kando tusaidiane
God bless you mum,you're one in a million mums no Matterwhat you went through,you're more than a conqueror
Hii life,kumbe it's a blessing to be Born in a family that loves you,the way my mum loves her grandkids can't imagine
kudos namesake....tuko gulf for the sake of our kids am proud of you my mother may God bless you nigwitikira ngutigire ciana Ngai witu angiroguturia matuku maingi mami witu ..
Woow kairitu k wangigi,much love from tiktok,nakukumbuka kwa chai ya dada Sarah
I understand her, many who are overseas faces that situation
Team strong.keep going KAZI lazima tufanye coz watoi wanataka food.
U are Soo strong my dear 💓......I thank God for my parents mom ,dad thank God for u, always taking care of my son ,and my big brother jaja thanks
I think the father to this children should be made some responsibility.
Exactly
God will keep those kids safe,me too I left my kids with my mother in law,now its 21/2 years I understand your pain coz its similar to mine,but am in Jordan. Our God is great 🙏
Wazazi wakikuyu wegine ni kama wanjama..all the best kairetu..kawagige
MaryAnn God bless you and protect your Kids,Thanks God for giving me a Caring Mom and my big Sister You took care of my daughter from day 1 until today she's 18,Only God can pay you.🙏🙏
It hurts so bad to leave your child for economic reasons. I went through it I understand her 💯
You are strong woman wairimu
Keep up
Sell 2 Plots and start a small Business and you still have 3 remaining Plots. Kaa na watoto wako.
She wont. She is there for herself, not her kids. If her kids mattered that much she would stay with them
@@Divambi correct
Sell what? What if the business fail? remember business is Not for everyone
She should sell 2 and build house on the other ones, But Not starting business
@@danielkaruga7770 how will she survive without an income
Was waiting these part 2
God has really blessed you Wairimu, well three plots, keep the two, try and build a simple home for yourself and start a business, you stay with your children. God bless u.
*i meant, sell the 3plots and keep two.
I know MarAnn ,,how we have been suffering here just to feed our children,,the moment umetaja kukaa na watoi I found my self in tears 😭,,,, thanks for standing with me best friend ever,,,
Hello my sister,can I make it to Arab countries as the male,,,I need a job there kindly direct me
strong woman stay with your kids God will open a door for you
My advice would be kwanza ukae na watoto wako for two years so that you may bond and then you can go back. You can work things out where by you stays with kids for a certain duration and then make your way to gulf. May God help you make the right decision for the sake of your children.
Kama sio wewe mimi singekua Bahrain saa hii,, Thanks darling umenisave alot. Nakungoja unishuke braids😍🇧🇭❤️
Waauu that's so encouraging and sad at the same time I have no words to say🙏🙏
Hope ata Mimi nitatoka na ploti aki .I say thanks coz nimeachia my grandmother my son naanamwangalia vizuri and she iz over80s God bless my shosh aki
Oiye,mungu alinde watoi wako
@@mercynjagi2307 thanks a lot God will do so he will protect them for me
Struggling za single parents.... Maryann hanging in there 🙏🙏🙏God is faithful
Wairimu so far it looks you've done your best and God has blessed you and now you can settle here and bond with your children and give them a better life and mothers love and I've no doubt you'll make it coz you've shown hard work and God is with you may God bless you with your children, lots of love, hugs and kisses. Monica we appreciate you for job well done God bless you too much. 🙏❤🔥🤗🤭👍💯
Niletee hai watoto my sis is just alone at home in buru buru u will never regret by the end of the day mambo itakua poa u are a hero u kids are in the hands of Allah
I'm encouraged by Wairimu's story.
Can someone connect me to this lady. I am in Gulf too and my mum lives in Githurai. She recovered from cancer a few months ago. If she has no one to take care of her kids she can call her any day
Kairitu ka wanginge drop the mentality ya kusema ati lazima serikali ikupatie kazi..just believe in your self anzisha biashara ata ya ku supply mayai ama biz ya food ,na hutawai kosa Mungu yupo na ukimwamini hatawai kuachilia 🫂🫂🫂🫂
I wish she can listen 😰
Monica, leo upo tofauti. Sio yule Monica wa siku zote. Are you sick? Did you have enough sleep the previous night?
I salute my baby sister...she is really a supernatural woman..God bless you and live long
Woiiii kairitu ka wa Ngigi
God bless you aki nuharitu gutiga Shiana no tuike atia
Ngai niamagitagire
Kumbe ni kairetu umerudi home 🏠 beautiful story umewahi nisonga nywele bravo girl
U are a strong woman ,God bless you ,coz umenifudisha mengi sana Niko gulf umenitia nguvu
I salute you dear.
I talked about my rejection story. Families especially mothers have failed 😢
I so sad that a mother can treat a daughter like that. Maryann May God give you more strength
Very strong lady, may God bless the work of our hands sisi wamama wa gulf,
I can't stop thinking about the kids. Those kids would rather have their parent around than inherit plots.
The problem is that they will go hungry
Woii she is a strong lady. God bless you Wairimu.
She is strong, she didnt have a choice at first but now that she has invested,I think its time to settle in Kenya and be closer to her kids..
sad story pole sana siz you have gone through a lot but one thing is God will never forsake you keep going... watching you from Bahrain
She is a very strong woman. I would like to work in the gulf. What is the best agency to work with? I will really appreciate your help
Watching from Saudi... Mary Ann is such a strong lady aki... Na ni qweli we leave our kids so that we try and make ends meet😭😭but God is faithful allows
You are real mother who really needs to be congratulated for the good work done ✅👍💯🖐️❤️ you're a great woman outside there just plan for a brighter future of you and your children i parsonally congratulate you God 🙏 bless you and your children richly in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ Amen Amen 🙏 🙏🙏 always trust, believe and thank God 🙏 who sees us through all the time in our lives.