What Is Medical School REALLY Like When You're Married?

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  • @BusisiweMsikisi
    @BusisiweMsikisi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I'm a 4th year medical student in South Africa and recently engaged. Seeing your videos encourages me to know I can pull through.

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You can definitely do it! Congratulations on your engagement! I’m excited for you and your partner to go through this journey together and honored that my videos have been encouraging for you!

  • @rbellamy804
    @rbellamy804 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I just started business school being a husband with two kids and a full-time job myself. Having a strong support system around you is key. You have an understanding and supportive wife which is a huge blessing and marker for success. Best wishes to you and yours!

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! I couldn’t agree more. Wishing you the best as you navigate business school with a family and full time job! 🙏🏽

  • @thenurseelizabeth
    @thenurseelizabeth 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I’ll be graduating this year as an RN!! I’ve been documenting my journey and I know I’ll be going back to further my education. I’ve just been pondering how it’ll affect me and my relationships including my family. Can’t wait to continue. Thank God! And good luck to you!

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Congratulations on nearing graduation! I hope this video was gave you some encouragement on how you may be able to navigate your education and family! 🙏🏽

  • @darinekataylor5570
    @darinekataylor5570 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Not a med student (future School Psych here), but thanks for tackling this topic! This fall I'm starting my Masters while married with a future Kindergartner and preschooler. Praying for y'all.

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m so happy you were still able to resonate with it! We appreciate the prayers and will be praying for you and your partner too! Yall got it!! 🙏🏽

  • @sunnybunni
    @sunnybunni 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This is a really great conversation. I hope there’s more support groups and ministries created to support medical professionals in marriage and family planning.

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m glad you enjoyed our conversation! And hopefully more support groups like that can be formed in the future!

  • @pitokooooo
    @pitokooooo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am a med student in Brazil, same age, and I am planning to take this big step next year. It's great to see people like you guys sharing this subject plain and clear that there are a lot of chalenges and insecurities, but a lot hope in a better future and lots of confort to rely on. Thank you and best wishes.

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We’re so happy you’ve found a bit of clarity on this topic with our video! There are challenges, but it’s worth it! Good luck as you take that big step!!

  • @SyreLikeAFire
    @SyreLikeAFire 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    you guys have a relationship to aspire for!

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much!! 🙏🏽

  • @BlanCoco808
    @BlanCoco808 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Can't thank the algorithm enough for this video. Could you make a video of how you balance their attachment style and medical school? The only thing keeping me from pursing medical school is the fear of losing my partner through lack of time that will lead to them feel neglected (date nights, intimacy etc.). My partner has an anxious attachment style but with a full medical school plate, I worry that I won't be able to carve out enough time for them. Thanks!

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m so happy you found this video too! I’m not too familiar with attachment types, but I could look into it! I think if you and your partner come into medical school with a plan and the right expectations, you guys will succeed. I think Madison and I will do more videos like this to share more strategies that we’ve used to make it.

  • @BrandonGRawlins
    @BrandonGRawlins 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hey JR! I just got into Mayo az/fl! I wanted to thank you for making these videos serving as a source of inspiration and guidance for myself and many others. Wishing you the best as you move closer to match day!

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulations!! That is amazing news! Thank you for sharing your success with me and I’m so happy my videos have been helpful for you! You’re going to do incredible things at Mayo AZ!!

  • @e.m.g3
    @e.m.g3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Madison seems like the sweetest human being ❤❤❤ , i want this from a pov of a female med student 😭 cuz i can't get my life together 😢

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She really is!! 🥹 We're wishing you luck! It gets better as time goes on!

  • @JayFriedrichs
    @JayFriedrichs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’ll be going to NP school this next year, and although it’s nothing like medical school- it does have a lot of time management challenges too. A long with trying to date in this current dating world and grow as a person, it’s a lot to take on. Thanks for some perspective

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m so happy this video was able to provide some perspective and hopefully encouragement for you! It’s definitely a lot to take on, but it’s possible! Wishing you all the best in NP school and in your relationships!

  • @sarahaghani7663
    @sarahaghani7663 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Madison is such a gem! I wish you all happiness ❤ such a beautiful family 👏🏼 I’ll be starting med school next year (just got accepted!!!) Hope to find a partner who’s as supportive and understanding as your wife

  • @heatherwyman7376
    @heatherwyman7376 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for taking the time for this video! I’m starting medical school in July and my long term boyfriend of 7 years is coming with me. Of course, I have worries about the relationship during this exciting time but this gave me some clarity of what to do to try to maintain a healthy relationship with him.
    I appreciate your videos and keep up the awesome work!

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulations on getting into medical school!! That is amazing and I’m so happy this video was able to give you some clarity on succeeding in both your relationship and studies! Never hesitate to reach out if any questions come up along the way!

  • @JarrodWoodland1
    @JarrodWoodland1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    See, here you go again being the most down to Earth, knowledgeable, soon to be orthopedic doctor, awesome husband and dad, again

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awww this is so sweet and encouraging! I appreciate you Jarrod!!

  • @elliottslade
    @elliottslade 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow what an incredible and vulnerable video. I appreciate you sharing this point of view so much. Thank you ❤️

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so happy you enjoyed this video and our vulnerability!! 🙏🏽

  • @MDForTheCulture
    @MDForTheCulture 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My guy I’ve been watching your videos for four years, wow.

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s crazy!! You’re a real one! I appreciate your continued support! ✊🏽

    • @MDForTheCulture
      @MDForTheCulture 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@EvolvingMedic most definitely king, I love your energy God bless you and your family, and much success in the future.

  • @joseandressilvamartinez778
    @joseandressilvamartinez778 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for all of your videos, when I am studying for exams they really motivate me to continue in this journey to become a great Dr, Thank youu

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is so encouraging to hear! Thank you for sharing that and I’m so happy my videos have helped!

  • @pinkberry04
    @pinkberry04 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Off topic, but your baby is adorable. I wish u and ur beautiful family the best

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much!! He really is something special 😊

  • @World_core
    @World_core 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good video! Keep up the good work!👍🏾

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! Will do!

  • @s.francis5434
    @s.francis5434 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Watching your videos is truly an inspiration to me. ❤

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so happy you’ve found inspiration in my videos! Thank you for the encouraging comment!

  • @KookinHaole
    @KookinHaole 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mayo Clinic.
    Damn!

  • @asands6029
    @asands6029 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would like to know more about the away rotations, is that mandatory? Why would someone do an away rotation?

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They are essentially mandatory for the more competitive specialties (eg, all the surgical ones). You do these because it increases your chances at matching at your top choice programs and gives you the opportunity to experience different programs throughout the country.

    • @asands6029
      @asands6029 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @EvolvingMedic thank you, if you don't mind, could you do a video on your experience and where you went?

  • @MM-ob8ti
    @MM-ob8ti 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Do you have any young children? If so, just wondering how u manage the study and play time with them?

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We have a 2.5 year old. We try to keep certain time sacred, like dinner together as a family. Consistency can be tough when my schedule isn’t consistent lol, but I just try to make sure the time I do have I’m 100 percent present. So the quality of the time spent is always high

  • @musacamara6865
    @musacamara6865 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow this is inspiring

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So happy you enjoyed our conversation!!

  • @mystique1834
    @mystique1834 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How are you guys affording her staying home? Loans or saved money?

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A little bit of both!

  • @Dturner24
    @Dturner24 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr. Umar face @ 3 min mark 😂

  • @adamelias2563
    @adamelias2563 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video!
    How old are you both?

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! We’re 28

  • @yunzhu4815
    @yunzhu4815 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To be honest, only struggle I’ve heard when entering any school is when you have 2 or more little kids😂

  • @monyeawilliams8646
    @monyeawilliams8646 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How old were you when you started med school?

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was 24

    • @ThabieM-M
      @ThabieM-M 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m 36 y.o married with kids. One of the kids has Adhd. I cannot imagine how busy I’m going to be given my current situation. I’m interested in getting into med school.

  • @jamaljulien7469
    @jamaljulien7469 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She’s a real one

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is indeed! 🙏🏽

  • @MNP208
    @MNP208 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m confused… is your wife in Med school too?

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nope! She was an elementary P.E. teacher but now stays home with our child

  • @dr.nouramajidallabban7707
    @dr.nouramajidallabban7707 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What's about being both medical student?

    • @EvolvingMedic
      @EvolvingMedic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My wife isn’t a medical student. She was an elementary PE teacher but now stays home with our son

  • @dr.nouramajidallabban7707
    @dr.nouramajidallabban7707 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Medicon is also started medical school?