Disappointing to see so many people questioning why Amelia is trying EMDR in the comments. She clearly said she knows it's a method used against trauma and she needs help with that herself. Trauma is not competitive. It's not our business to know what her trauma is or for strangers on the internet to decide if her trauma is traumatic enough. People can be so unkind.
People can be so sensitive and out of order. Just because someone’s social standing is different to others, doesn’t invalidate their feelings. What happened to “be kind” and more importantly, mind your own damn business
It’s hard enough to share you’ve faced trauma. Be vulnerable, also you judge yourself thinking is your situation that bad . So having strangers adding to that doesn’t help
I love your relationship with your grandma & I love how she cooks for you and makes it so fancy!!! She’s also nice and dressed and has her makeup on looking gorgeous after cooking all day!!!! She’s amazing
Amelia I love how honest you are being about your therapy & EMDR journey x Glad you’re getting the help you need .I would love to hear more about it. I loved this vlog , loved your hair , your makeup your energy ❤ looking forward to your next vlog !!Have to check out the podcast you did with Suzie & what a beautiful friendship you both have!!
I have had EMDR treatment for severe trauma . It was incredible, trust the process is my advice but it us working for me and it made me relax for the first time in years. I hope it works for you ❤ xx
Was it hard to explain though? Seems like just making things difficult that don’t need to be…Feels a bit clickbaity….😅 No hate, love Amelia, just no need for making things hard in a world that’s already so hard for so many ….❤
I can no longer go to my granny’s 🥲 she is hanging with my doggie in heaven tho ! So it was wonderful getting to see you at your chic , granny’s home . Love the food set on the sideboard .. the plates , bowls , the laughter .. a real joy ! Thank you
I’m glad you are taking care of your mental health Amelia. I hope that it’s helping you. ❤ I like long podcast’s, hopefully Suzie will keep most of it in it. I enjoy all of your vlogs and content Amelia! Have a good day and week!
Hopefully EMDR helps ❤ I found it really helpful after I had recurrent misscarriages, I only had 5 or 6 sessions and felt like it soon helped me process and 'file away' the trauma ✨️
I've done EMDR it was very helpful. It's nothing to be scared about but it is very intense at the start and gets better over time. Probably wouldn't recommend doing it on a packed day of work and take time to wind down in the early sessions. Hope it goes well for you❤
Loved the video Amelia, was so cute seeing your family time in your grandma’s house. I’m just about to start EMDR too, I don’t know anyone else who’s tried it so I loved that you have just started it and mentioned it so openly ❤
I love you hun xxx ❤ Iam dealing with mental health and I've been sober for 7 years I really learn alot in therapy everyone is totally different in how they deal with trauma, loss and suffering it's just whatever works for you Much loves to all 🙏😍 Many blessings have a awesome week 😊xxx
Love your videos Amelia! Have to check out podcast you do with Suzie and lucky you both have a friendship that has spanned 10 years and still going strong 🥰🥰🥰
I have had EMDR for a traumatic experience. I was very unwell and never thought I would ever not feel traumatised. EMDR worked. I would say that we are all individual as are our experiences. However, I think it is important to give yourself time pre and post EMDR appointments especially after a session. It can be extremely draining. Lots of self care. I needed at least a couple of hours but my experience is not representative of all. If you struggle to follow the hand movements I know psychologists successfully use hand tapping during EMDR.
the night and a few days after a EMDR session were quiet tough for me, it triggered nightmares and restlessness. I gave up after trying it for 3 months. I hope it works better for u xx
Am I awake at 5 am (U.S.) watching this? Yes. Yes I am 😎 Also, everyone has different levels/interpretations of trauma. No one should judge or question why she’s in therapy. I think what’s important is someone with her platform is talking about it and working to better her mental health. 😊
EMDR? Highly recommend it, it helped me a lot. Essentially what it does is it helps the brain reprocess trauma from the emotional side of the brain to the logical side of the brain where you can actually deal with it. It’s hard, first because you have to relive the trauma, second because you have to try to examine your trauma as you relive it. Theory is that each time you relive it, your brain transfers more and more of the memory from that emotional side to the logical side of your brain. Therefore, each time you re-examine the memory the less emotional you’ll be about it, and the less harmful it will become for you. Sort of like internal exposure therapy. I found the process both exhausting and elating all at the same time, and I mean that in both the physical and emotional sense. It is not a therapy that should be performed without a trained and licensed professional, because that professional is your guide and they are best equipped to handle anything negatively impactful that might occur. I highly, highly recommend, but again only under the guidance and supervision of a trained licensed therapist/ psychiatrist. Best of luck Amelia, be kind to yourself during the process. It can be long and hard but when you’re done you will realize that you’re stronger and more resilient than you ever thought you were.
Do you think you could share with us the facial treatment you get done ? I’m looking into getting laser or microdermabrasion but unsure about what to get 😅
Some of the comments are ridiculous. Just because someone is financially comfortable, doesn’t mean they don’t have feelings. It doesn’t mean they haven’t experienced bad things in the past. Mind your own damn business and wish her well! Amelia - well done you for seeking the help you need to make you mentally strong 💪🏼
I’m desperately trying to find it! I thought it might be Soru but it’s not! Searching all of Amelia’s fave jewellery websites 😂 netaporter done, soru, byalona etc!
Hello Amelia. Thanks for this vlog. You're supposed to spray Serozinc onto your face not on a cotton pad then let it dry. It's more efficient and you don't waste product. Have a nice day 😊
I’ve done EMDR therapy for almost a year now and it has changed my life. Sorry, I know this is a bit of a late comment but I think it’s great that you’re doing it. I love hearing/seeing more people explore different kinds of therapy! I hope it’s working as well for you, as it has for me 😊 Also, I hope this is not me overstepping in any means but as someone who suffered severely from IBS for many years, through emdr and other forms of therapy, I learned it was mainly due to my trauma. I know you struggle with IBS as well and was wondering if you had looked into your stomach issues possibly being a factor of previous traumas. Again, so sorry if this is overstepping/assuming on my part. I just wanted to share because it was something I was unaware of for so long and has helped in my recovery journey! ❤️❤️
"I go far ... A little kid comes up to me and I'm like WHAT DO YA WANT?!" I'm laughing hysterically right now, totally relate. I live in downtown Chicago and I'm the same way, on edge, my fuse lit! I'm also laughing at Suz's "French Daddy" - now that's branding! ;)
It won’t take long for you to be proficient at tennis but it’ll take a while to be excellent. However you can play whilst at a decent proficiency and no one would question your ability. Go for it!
Good evening beautiful amelia babe I hope you your lovely family duke and leo are well it's so lovely to see you again thanks so much for sharing your wonderful vlog stay safe babes xxxx
So enjoyed this vlog and always great to see you and a fellow TH-camr vlogging together. Mama Rachael is wonderful, a true Lady in every sense of the word. Have a wonderful week lovely Amelia ❤xx
I paused this video to go on a 40 min hunt for Susies earrings, came back and the next thing you say Amelia is that we need a link to those earrings. So help a girl out, where are they from??? Thanks :)
Liam is my crush. 😍🥰 I love he’s the action man later in life too. He’s so dreamy. 😁🤩 Trie to buy your same glasses and they’re out. 😭😭😭😭 Love your channel and new subbie form Carlsbad, California 🌴🌊🐚🌞❤️
I had EMDR after a motorway accident that sent me rolling down the M1 6 times. It was helpful but is generally used for PTSD - unless you have that I'm not sure what help it will be.
Yeah that's absolutely right! My therapist mentioned EMDR and when I researched it, realised it was for trauma and PTSD. That was absolutely NOT me and as much as my issues are my issues I was NOT thinking of this as trauma compared to why others should use EMDR, exactly as your story explained. I hope you are doing well and sending good vibes xx
@@charlottecharliechazsuper interesting you say that. For some reason I feel like EMDR is just now used as this hip/tendy thing. Super dope that people are looking into their mental health and looking into other options. As a mental health practitioner, it just frustrates me that people throw theses ideas around without really taking the time to stop/pause and research what they are getting into
I have seen other people say this on other videos and clearly you have decided to ignore it, but it’s worth putting out there. Kanye is a very good reason to boycott skims. You seemed to get this. In fact, you were one of the first people I saw speak out about it. So your stance now is really disappointing. There is a massive difference between you, a person with a significant public platform, continuing to wear and even buy skims while keeping it to yourself, and repeatedly telling the world how great their products are while giggling about how you know you said you were boycotting them. I mean, you were talking about a bra today ffs. Literally nobody would ever have known, but you gave them positive publicity anyway. It’s very sad.
Colours look great on suzi.the yellow bag brought youthful brightning touch to her face. If only she could drop the dead looking neutrals inspired by the kardashians and look into more colorful pieces😊
Trauma can come in many forms, a lot of the time in childhood. Most people have experienced it in some way or another so I guess it used a lot but with reason
@@Chatterbox037 did you see the ? what does that mean ? think about it ! yes a knife attack is traumatic but she did survive & thrives in life so no its time for society to stop using that word & as far as I can see, she doesnt overuse it either. Please be respectful of other peoples opinions & views. Perhaps consider the trauma the 9 year old kids just experienced in the US ?
@@Ericthegreat1483 theres many forms & levels of trauma but honestly it is used all the time by young adults, as a child psychologist this overuse places obstacles for the genuine victims .
She is naturally dramatic, I’ve noticed. Possibly very insecure especially when around other bloggers. Possibly why guys are put off. I do like her though.
Disappointing to see so many people questioning why Amelia is trying EMDR in the comments. She clearly said she knows it's a method used against trauma and she needs help with that herself.
Trauma is not competitive. It's not our business to know what her trauma is or for strangers on the internet to decide if her trauma is traumatic enough. People can be so unkind.
Exactly… I’m happy that she’s getting the help she needs to be mentally healthy. ❤
People can be so sensitive and out of order. Just because someone’s social standing is different to others, doesn’t invalidate their feelings. What happened to “be kind” and more importantly, mind your own damn business
It’s hard enough to share you’ve faced trauma. Be vulnerable, also you judge yourself thinking is your situation that bad . So having strangers adding to that doesn’t help
Amelia, those glasses suits you so well! It is like another fashion accessory!
I want to know where they are from ? Anyone know .. Love ❤
It’s linked. Bottega
I LOVE how open and honest you are being about your therapy & EMDR journey! It’s amazing & I would love to hear your thoughts on it! ❤️
ow thank you!
I love your relationship with your grandma & I love how she cooks for you and makes it so fancy!!! She’s also nice and dressed and has her makeup on looking gorgeous after cooking all day!!!! She’s amazing
Amelia I love how honest you are being about your therapy & EMDR journey x Glad you’re getting the help you need .I would love to hear more about it. I loved this vlog , loved your hair , your makeup your energy ❤ looking forward to your next vlog !!Have to check out the podcast you did with Suzie & what a beautiful friendship you both have!!
EMDR has changed my life! It is so beneficial in helping my mind and body handle stressful situations now. Wishing you all the best in this journey!
Finally a longer moment!!! Suzie at your house was so nice...would have loved more time with your grandmother and sister, but loved the Suzie visit!!!
I have had EMDR treatment for severe trauma . It was incredible, trust the process is my advice but it us working for me and it made me relax for the first time in years. I hope it works for you ❤ xx
explaining what is hard to explain starts at 20:25
Was it hard to explain though? Seems like just making things difficult that don’t need to be…Feels a bit clickbaity….😅 No hate, love Amelia, just no need for making things hard in a world that’s already so hard for so many ….❤
I agree not trying to be mean but that was too dramatic.
These titles just keep getting worse. After filming these videos for 10 years I guess they run out of good one liners. 😩
Good lord Thankyou 😄
Also I absolutely LOVE your curls & your hair and your everyday makeup Amelia, PLEASE do an in depth everyday tutorial! ❤
Yesssss ❤️❤️❤️
I have had my first session of EMDR, it’s intense! I’ve heard it gets better as you go so fingers crossed it does x
I can no longer go to my granny’s 🥲 she is hanging with my doggie in heaven tho !
So it was wonderful getting to see you at your chic , granny’s home . Love the food set on the sideboard .. the plates , bowls , the laughter .. a real joy ! Thank you
I’m glad you are taking care of your mental health Amelia. I hope that it’s helping you. ❤
I like long podcast’s, hopefully Suzie will keep most of it in it.
I enjoy all of your vlogs and content Amelia! Have a good day and week!
ow thats so kind thank you Jennifer
Have done emdr therapy and it has definitely helped me. Go for it!
YAY!
Hopefully EMDR helps ❤ I found it really helpful after I had recurrent misscarriages, I only had 5 or 6 sessions and felt like it soon helped me process and 'file away' the trauma ✨️
I've done EMDR it was very helpful. It's nothing to be scared about but it is very intense at the start and gets better over time. Probably wouldn't recommend doing it on a packed day of work and take time to wind down in the early sessions. Hope it goes well for you❤
Loved the video Amelia, was so cute seeing your family time in your grandma’s house. I’m just about to start EMDR too, I don’t know anyone else who’s tried it so I loved that you have just started it and mentioned it so openly ❤
ow thank you! good luck with EMDR x
Another wonderful vlog Amelia! Hope the EMDR is beneficial for you and I would love to hear more about it! Sending lots of positive thoughts❤❤❤❤❤
oww thank you lovely!
@@amelialiana 😘
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I love you hun xxx ❤
Iam dealing with mental health and I've been sober for 7 years I really learn alot in therapy everyone is totally different in how they deal with trauma, loss and suffering it's just whatever works for you
Much loves to all 🙏😍
Many blessings have a awesome week 😊xxx
Love your videos Amelia! Have to check out podcast you do with Suzie and lucky you both have a friendship that has spanned 10 years and still going strong 🥰🥰🥰
thank you!!
I have had EMDR for a traumatic experience. I was very unwell and never thought I would ever not feel traumatised. EMDR worked. I would say that we are all individual as are our experiences. However, I think it is important to give yourself time pre and post EMDR appointments especially after a session. It can be extremely draining. Lots of self care. I needed at least a couple of hours but my experience is not representative of all. If you struggle to follow the hand movements I know psychologists successfully use hand tapping during EMDR.
the night and a few days after a EMDR session were quiet tough for me, it triggered nightmares and restlessness. I gave up after trying it for 3 months. I hope it works better for u xx
Thank you god I’m so happy you do longer videos
Also please do a tutorial on how you did your hair on your aeroplane tiktok mini vlogs!! The waves were so pretty
Am I awake at 5 am (U.S.) watching this? Yes. Yes I am 😎 Also, everyone has different levels/interpretations of trauma. No one should judge or question why she’s in therapy. I think what’s important is someone with her platform is talking about it and working to better her mental health. 😊
owww thank you so kind x
I wholeheartly agree with you!
I love watching you & Suzie together - it’s lovely ☺️💕
Loved this. Where is your oven from?
OMG I cannot😃❤️ loved the vlog. Also, Suzi looks even more gorgeous than usual😃 she looks different filmed by you.
3:37 the way mama Rachel slaps her back tho 😹
EMDR? Highly recommend it, it helped me a lot. Essentially what it does is it helps the brain reprocess trauma from the emotional side of the brain to the logical side of the brain where you can actually deal with it. It’s hard, first because you have to relive the trauma, second because you have to try to examine your trauma as you relive it. Theory is that each time you relive it, your brain transfers more and more of the memory from that emotional side to the logical side of your brain. Therefore, each time you re-examine the memory the less emotional you’ll be about it, and the less harmful it will become for you. Sort of like internal exposure therapy. I found the process both exhausting and elating all at the same time, and I mean that in both the physical and emotional sense. It is not a therapy that should be performed without a trained and licensed professional, because that professional is your guide and they are best equipped to handle anything negatively impactful that might occur. I highly, highly recommend, but again only under the guidance and supervision of a trained licensed therapist/ psychiatrist. Best of luck Amelia, be kind to yourself during the process. It can be long and hard but when you’re done you will realize that you’re stronger and more resilient than you ever thought you were.
What is the sun necklace you’re wearing for the podcast? 😊❤
Love Susy Bonaldi! And you of course! You two make my day!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💕💕💕💕💕💕🌸🌼🌺
oww thats so kind thank you x
Aaawww…I’m obsessed with your friendship with Suzie ❤❤ love it 🥰
Do you think you could share with us the facial treatment you get done ? I’m looking into getting laser or microdermabrasion but unsure about what to get 😅
What do you use to curl your hair?
either my ghd platinum straighteners or babyliss secret wave!
Your friend has such a great energy. I love the dinamics between you two
owww thats so sweet thank you!
What model and colour are these Bottega glasses please? Thankyou
Some of the comments are ridiculous. Just because someone is financially comfortable, doesn’t mean they don’t have feelings. It doesn’t mean they haven’t experienced bad things in the past. Mind your own damn business and wish her well!
Amelia - well done you for seeking the help you need to make you mentally strong 💪🏼
omg I loooveee your necklace with the sun. from where is it? xx
I’m desperately trying to find it! I thought it might be Soru but it’s not! Searching all of Amelia’s fave jewellery websites 😂 netaporter done, soru, byalona etc!
Tennis is played at all levels. You will love it from day one🎾🎾🎾
Hello Amelia. Thanks for this vlog. You're supposed to spray Serozinc onto your face not on a cotton pad then let it dry. It's more efficient and you don't waste product. Have a nice day 😊
oooh interesting!
I’ve done EMDR therapy for almost a year now and it has changed my life. Sorry, I know this is a bit of a late comment but I think it’s great that you’re doing it. I love hearing/seeing more people explore different kinds of therapy! I hope it’s working as well for you, as it has for me 😊
Also, I hope this is not me overstepping in any means but as someone who suffered severely from IBS for many years, through emdr and other forms of therapy, I learned it was mainly due to my trauma. I know you struggle with IBS as well and was wondering if you had looked into your stomach issues possibly being a factor of previous traumas. Again, so sorry if this is overstepping/assuming on my part. I just wanted to share because it was something I was unaware of for so long and has helped in my recovery journey! ❤️❤️
"I go far ... A little kid comes up to me and I'm like WHAT DO YA WANT?!" I'm laughing hysterically right now, totally relate. I live in downtown Chicago and I'm the same way, on edge, my fuse lit! I'm also laughing at Suz's "French Daddy" - now that's branding! ;)
EMDR worked miracles for me. Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it! Xx
How did it work miracles? Would love to hear more if you're willing to share :)
I LOVE the sun necklace you were wearing during the recording of the podcast 🌞❤️ Where is it from? Could you share a link perhaps? Thanksss 😄
It won’t take long for you to be proficient at tennis but it’ll take a while to be excellent. However you can play whilst at a decent proficiency and no one would question your ability. Go for it!
Do you know if your Cle de Peau code still works? Thank you!
I feel like mama Rachel has a really sassy side when she said ‘she got prettier as she got older” looool
Was dying at that - she said it so matter of factly as well 😂
Good evening beautiful amelia babe I hope you your lovely family duke and leo are well it's so lovely to see you again thanks so much for sharing your wonderful vlog stay safe babes xxxx
what is luci’s podcast called
The mama Rachel squeeze and slap 🥺
Suzie’s gonna need to drop the deets on the earrings. I don’t make the rules. 🤣❤️
Amelia, wheres your necklace from at 20:00 ?x
Thank you. Great video.
So enjoyed this vlog and always great to see you and a fellow TH-camr vlogging together. Mama Rachael is wonderful, a true Lady in every sense of the word. Have a wonderful week lovely Amelia ❤xx
ow this is so nice, thank you Gill!
For everyone asking about the necklace, it’s Raemi, but not on the website 😢.
EVERY DAY I try to convince myself that my outfit goes with my UGG slippers LOL, how much do we hate shoes
I used EMDR and it changed my life.
Definitely going to grab a copy of that book 👌
yes! let me know what you think of it!
Cute glasses 😊❤
I paused this video to go on a 40 min hunt for Susies earrings, came back and the next thing you say Amelia is that we need a link to those earrings. So help a girl out, where are they from??? Thanks :)
OMG I got lots of EMDR from therapist Paul Barrett in Chelsea, and it was absolutely life-changing! Good luck! : )
Amelia babe love your clear glasses so sophisticated
thanks lovely!!
@@amelialiana amelia babe you are so welcome thanks so much for your lovely reply stay safe babes xxx
Amelia babe have a wonderful time at your grandmothers
Where did Suzi get her earrings, love ‘em
I love Suzie´s earrings!!! Does anyone know where they are from?
They look like the Bottega drop earrings
How many products can u push in one video?!! Wow
Liam is my crush. 😍🥰 I love he’s the action man later in life too. He’s so dreamy. 😁🤩
Trie to buy your same glasses and they’re out. 😭😭😭😭
Love your channel and new subbie form Carlsbad, California 🌴🌊🐚🌞❤️
I stop my Netflix movie to watch you 🤣🫶🏾
WOW haha thank you
What car is this?
Love your relationship with your gram❤❤❤❤
There are at least 2 of the chanel pvcs on the real real rn although not the same color way
Amelia Love Spending Time with you On a Sunday. Xx 😘😊
Maldives vlog????
She’s not going to post that
I had EMDR after a motorway accident that sent me rolling down the M1 6 times. It was helpful but is generally used for PTSD - unless you have that I'm not sure what help it will be.
Yeah that's absolutely right! My therapist mentioned EMDR and when I researched it, realised it was for trauma and PTSD. That was absolutely NOT me and as much as my issues are my issues I was NOT thinking of this as trauma compared to why others should use EMDR, exactly as your story explained. I hope you are doing well and sending good vibes xx
@@charlottecharliechazsuper interesting you say that. For some reason I feel like EMDR is just now used as this hip/tendy thing. Super dope that people are looking into their mental health and looking into other options. As a mental health practitioner, it just frustrates me that people throw theses ideas around without really taking the time to stop/pause and research what they are getting into
Where is your black ruffle cardigan from xx
Revolve! linked in description x
Awesome
I think that takes a long time to get good at most things that are really impressive and worth doing :)
Chag Sameach for Pesach.
I always thought ur “guy” friends were a couple and you are the 3rd wheeler lol
PAHAH
Susie in a singlet & you in polo & coat ?!!
Merci
Hi Amelia, the Farfetch code doesn't work.
valid for your first purchase!
Any new Raemi to save my coins for??? 🙂
Asking for myself 👋🏼💓
It didnt work for me. Sadly.
I hope it will work for you. ❤️🙏🏻
Amelia babe have you got sky glass wow ?
Same here
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I have seen other people say this on other videos and clearly you have decided to ignore it, but it’s worth putting out there. Kanye is a very good reason to boycott skims. You seemed to get this. In fact, you were one of the first people I saw speak out about it. So your stance now is really disappointing. There is a massive difference between you, a person with a significant public platform, continuing to wear and even buy skims while keeping it to yourself, and repeatedly telling the world how great their products are while giggling about how you know you said you were boycotting them. I mean, you were talking about a bra today ffs. Literally nobody would ever have known, but you gave them positive publicity anyway. It’s very sad.
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U look so hyper in this video! 😂
Why not gift this bag to your sister then? If ur not too keen on it?
elvis is really gut
Colours look great on suzi.the yellow bag brought youthful brightning touch to her face. If only she could drop the dead looking neutrals inspired by the kardashians and look into more colorful pieces😊
Hi suzie babe xx
This Suzie is in everyones vlogs lately...
Yay 1st like nd comment 💟💟
too dramatic for no reason, unnecesary clickbait
trauma ? like Prince Harry ? seriously that word is used too much !
Trauma can come in many forms, a lot of the time in childhood. Most people have experienced it in some way or another so I guess it used a lot but with reason
Exactly, trauma is very individual, but also, she was robbed with knife held to her so please be more respectful about other people’s mental health❤
@@Chatterbox037 did you see the ? what does that mean ? think about it !
yes a knife attack is traumatic but she did survive & thrives in life so no its time for society to stop using that word & as far as I can see, she doesnt overuse it either. Please be respectful of other peoples opinions & views. Perhaps consider the trauma the 9 year old kids just experienced in the US ?
@@Ericthegreat1483 theres many forms & levels of trauma but honestly it is used all the time by young adults, as a child psychologist this overuse places obstacles for the genuine victims .
She is naturally dramatic, I’ve noticed. Possibly very insecure especially when around other bloggers. Possibly why guys are put off. I do like her though.
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