Yep, I was going to make a comment, but then I Read your comment and that basically sums it up and nothing else has to be commented. Hahahahahahaha 😂!!!
Ohh wait, and now people all over the Nation know who he is and where he was found, and have all kinds of Assumptions of Why he went missing in the first place...
Guaranteed he never forgot them, he just got sick of the war with the mother to see them. What IS a shame is that family courts ALLOW mothers to weaponize their kids in this manner.
@Oldmane-420 and you know that this was his reason for walking away because of what?...... And men use not getting along with the mother as an excuse. It doesn't matter her feelings, take her to court to get some official custody on paper and she has to comply. Period. They use the mother is combative as an excuse to walk away from a responsibility. But if you want to be a part of your children's lives, you will be. I know men who have went to court and fought for custody no matter the woman's attitude. And that's the excuse they give the children later once their grown as to why they weren't around. They try to blame the mom. If you want something bad enough, you make it happen.
He’s already sending the checks! You know why I’m so sure? No one called him a deadbeat dad! Not in the news report, nor the mother during the interview, that would have been the bread and butter of this story if this were the case. No, this is a father who has given up in the war with the mother who has been fighting to keep him from seeing his children. I say this because1) he moved literally to the other side of the country 2) he never told anyone, not even his parents, that is a man in terrible, unbearable pain, who knows as all men know society doesn’t care if they hurt, your expected to suck it up and stop whining! Wouldn’t be surprised if you here he has ended himself, but that will never happen cause no one cares when men delete themselves, “they’re just weak, REAL MEN are supposed to just stand there and take women’s abuse
Unfortonately the father no longer cares about his children . That is why he chose to break off all contact with them . If he gave a damn about them he would have maned up and handled his business but he chose not to and decided to move forward with his life like they do not exist .
He still cares, he has just realized he is in a losing war with the mother in his efforts to see his children. The fact that he went to the other side of the country is clear indicator. You know he’s still paying support because no one called him a deadbeat dad, neither the news report nor the mother.
@@Oldmane-420 actually, he doesn’t care. He was commenting in another video news story and said that it was his prerogative to live his life the way he wanted. And he didn’t care about anybody, but himself. It’s his words.
That's really gross to do to people. You want to "disappear" at least let someone know so you don't end up a missing person with people worried about you. Your poor children.
You can’t make someone want to be “anything” your partner, parent, kid, friend, family member…does not matter….hurts really bad…but that’s just how some people are.
Exactly , only mature people honor this reality but i bet he showed red flags while dating and she still got pregnant cause she was in love by herself! If a man don’t want you move on !
He chose to have 3 kids and abandoned all of them. 72% of black children are fatherless. In the black community they blame this on black women. Sad to say but if you procreate with a black man you have a 28% chance of him staying around and a 72% chance of being abandoned.
@@august21xp Hi, I'm not sure if you watched the entire video. The woman at 0:13 is his ex-wife, I believe she has moved on hence why she is his EX-WIFE. 3 children were produced from their relationship. He last saw his children Christmas of 2023. He did not notify the mother of his children or his children that he made it home safely. According to his ex-wife, weeks went by and she still heard nothing from the father of her children. So she reached out to his father, brother, and a few friends all of which said they had not seen or heard from him. July of 2024 the Southlake police confirmed a missing persons report was filed. The missing persons report was transferred to the city of Austin because that's where he lived. As of the afternoon of Monday, September 9th, 2024 Austin Police have not released why that man was in California. Although he has been located he still has not reached out to his children after 9 months. I'm going to assume from what was presented in the video that one of if not the sole reason she is concerned about this man's whereabouts is because he is the father of her children. I could be 100% wrong though and the main or sole reason may be because she has not moved on. Also, the children ages 4, 7, and 13 are children so I am not sure how they should honor the reality that their father has taken a now 9 month break from fatherhood. Based on the video I believe the focal point is this man has not seen or spoken to his children in 9 months.
@@stargazer2.3 his ex-wife according to 0:13. So there's a possibility she did have all 3 children after the ring they did not state in the video when they married but her oldest is 13.
Have you paused, even for a moment, to consider he may have done what he did because of the way she was treating him? It happens time after time, the mother is a phsycho witch from hell, so father leaves, than mother weaponize the children against him and family court backs her up! Think about this! He has already been coming to visit his children, why would he stop? Why did he move to the other side of the country, so far away? He’s obliviously still paying support, we know if he wasn’t, the mother and reporter would make him out to be a deadbeat dad. No. This is a father who does love his children, but he has reached a point where he knows, for his own mental well being he can’t keep subjecting himself to the abuse he is suffering, yet he can’t stop trying to visit his children. His solution, move so far away it becomes to difficult to visit. In my mind this is another man on his way to becoming a statistic, a very sad statistic.
@@S2KV men commit suicide at a rate of three to one compared with women and children. The vast majority of those suicides take place during or shortly after divorce involving children! Think about that! Now ask your self, was he abandoning those kids or was he saving himself? He moved literally to the other side of the country! WHY? He was visiting and spending time with his children. He’s still paying child support, we know that because it was never brought up during the story, yet he moved himself to someplace that makes it very difficult to see his children without a word to anyone! WHY !? He was already living in a different town from her and his children, if his intention was to abandon his children he didn’t need to move, just stop visiting. Why leave and tell no one? Once you seriously ask yourself that question, your opinion MAY change.
@@Oldmane-420 Like I said it is selfish of him, now it will be a domino effect with his kids. When they grow up and can't deal with it and bail too? Is that what you want them to learn from? Think about it. How about getting treatment or support to get his mind right and not damage his kids mind, Think about it...........
Girl, he doesn't want you and doesn't love his kids enough to stick around. He is just too cowardly to tell you because he knows that you will ask him to stay.
You ain't lying. Facts !!! 💯💯💯 When the children are finally adults. There will be no contact 4ever including from seeing grandchildren. It's clear this man is a deadbeat. He was trying to reset his life like a video game. With a new identity & location. Glad they found him. He needs to pay for the consequences.
No need to make this a news story. A lot of men walk away from their children and don't want to be bothered. The ex just seems really surprised its happening to her children.
This is his ex-wife, he owes no explanation to her about where he goes or if he decides to leave the state or country. However, at least get word to the kids that you're ok.
Its unfortunate when someone disappeared with the intent to start a new life without closing doors on the past life. If he wanted to started his new life...why not be honest....but just disappeared?
This is what happens when you think that because you are a WW you will be the exception and not the rule. When BW mentioned this, WW with BM would pour salt in the wound by saying “we are just better women, Blqck Women are not feminine and do not know how to treat a man, etc.” WW would view BW as beneath them but as usual, the tables will always turn. It’s always unfortunate for the kids.
She played the last card she had left; make police look for him and feel sorry for her and the kids. Very controlling, not demure lol She should know by now he found a new one in a richer city&state. This isn't news...
Love , commitment , marriage and relationships have become things of convenience now days and peoples word no longer carries any weight , they love you as long as loving you is beneficial to them but the moment they feel like they are no longer gaining anything from your presence they are out of there and moving on to their next victim . Mist of the time they've already lined the next one up so they jump head first into the new relationship like they never even knew you . The saddest part of all this is our society now accepts this kind of behavior as being acceptable , this is why we let people we know are liars act like they are trustworthy and can be taken for their word . When we know for a fact that you cannot believe a word they say or be counted on to do the right thing no matter what the situation is because we all know opportunists change right along with the situation they are in . They will always look out for # 1 whether or not you make it is luck of the draw .
Ye, typically of all men who don’t want to face responsibility, who are hiding their sexuality and or who have mental issues. Don’t try it. White ain’t always right ✌🏽
Deadbeat dads are the ones who don’t pay child support. This guy’s still paying! No one mentioned it during the article, if he wasn’t paying that would have been the focus of the story.
Theres alot of reasons someone leaves and cuts off all contact , he probably did it because he didnt want no part of that stress anymore it happens to everyone, i did the same thing , i couldnt stand my marriage and stepkids anymore it was absolute hell dealing with it all , i honestly dont blame him for leaving , it sounds like shes overbearing and controlling and is trying to force something on him he just doesn't want to be part of , you can never know the true full story till you actually see and hear it with your own ears and eyes
LOL typical he went out for Menthols and a 3 dollar bottle of Nighttrain ....... LOL Have you not learned anything From OJ Bill Cosby Puffy Every singel NFL player with a contract ....LOL They aint like the TV commercial sugar
If that was a woman, and she left her family and then was found, she would be going to jail, but when it’s a man, oh he left, and we found him. . .🤦🏾♀️
This is why Im so glad the system of child support was made. They blame women but it was a system of men who made in . The amount of men who just upped and disappeared leaving mothers to fend for themselves has been happening for decades. Their always blaming women which isnt the truth. One man left and built a whole new family using a dead mans identity. Ppl dont even know Serena Williams dad had 5 kids before them that he abandoned until a daughter of his blasted him.The word tells us in these last days men would be lovers of themselves and its coming to past.
He went no contact the mother must be a MALIGNANT NARCISSIST... Malignants NEVER CHANGE.. he oughta stay in California and heal. His kids will find him one day ..
He is wrong, but my question is do the teenage son have his own cell phone or all communication must go through the Ex-wife; her tears toward the end were more Her pain not the children she is projecting her pain onto her children.
Your right! There are a lot of missing fathers! But even more prevalent are the blocked fathers. Those are the ones who are prevented visitation with their children because phsycho mother has made false DV charges or just plain won’t allow fathers their visitation rights with their children! To further address you comment, how many of those missing fathers aren’t really missing but simply defeated men who have realized that no matter how hard they try there is no hope of ever getting to see their children again so they stop trying and go away?
he wasn’t missing, he didn’t wanna be found
Yep, I was going to make a comment, but then I Read your comment and that basically sums it up and nothing else has to be commented. Hahahahahahaha 😂!!!
Ohh wait, and now people all over the Nation know who he is and where he was found, and have all kinds of Assumptions of Why he went missing in the first place...
That part right there‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
Its everyone's perogative to vanish if they choose to. No explanation required.
😂😂😂😂... that's not right. Trying to skip out on dad responsibilities 🙄
Tried to skip out on those child support payments.
I SAID THE SAME EXACT THING LOL
3 kids to support. And he wants to go missing. 🙄
Exactly
He never stopped paying! You know how I can say that? It was never mentioned once in the news story nor by the ex wife.
@@Oldmane-420 WHAT? GO AWAY SIR!
It’s a shame how some fathers begin a new life and forget about the lives they helped make
Yes yes yes..thank you
Guaranteed he never forgot them, he just got sick of the war with the mother to see them. What IS a shame is that family courts ALLOW mothers to weaponize their kids in this manner.
@Oldmane-420 and you know that this was his reason for walking away because of what?......
And men use not getting along with the mother as an excuse. It doesn't matter her feelings, take her to court to get some official custody on paper and she has to comply. Period. They use the mother is combative as an excuse to walk away from a responsibility. But if you want to be a part of your children's lives, you will be. I know men who have went to court and fought for custody no matter the woman's attitude. And that's the excuse they give the children later once their grown as to why they weren't around. They try to blame the mom. If you want something bad enough, you make it happen.
@@Oldmane-420You’re projecting; we don’t know any of that to be true.
What ever job this Man gets send his paycheck to Texas!!Child support!!
He’s already sending the checks! You know why I’m so sure? No one called him a deadbeat dad! Not in the news report, nor the mother during the interview, that would have been the bread and butter of this story if this were the case.
No, this is a father who has given up in the war with the mother who has been fighting to keep him from seeing his children. I say this because1) he moved literally to the other side of the country 2) he never told anyone, not even his parents, that is a man in terrible, unbearable pain, who knows as all men know society doesn’t care if they hurt, your expected to suck it up and stop whining! Wouldn’t be surprised if you here he has ended himself, but that will never happen cause no one cares when men delete themselves, “they’re just weak, REAL MEN are supposed to just stand there and take women’s abuse
Unfortonately the father no longer cares about his children . That is why he chose to break off all contact with them . If he gave a damn about them he would have maned up and handled his business but he chose not to and decided to move forward with his life like they do not exist .
He's a smart guy.
He still cares, he has just realized he is in a losing war with the mother in his efforts to see his children. The fact that he went to the other side of the country is clear indicator. You know he’s still paying support because no one called him a deadbeat dad, neither the news report nor the mother.
@@Oldmane-420 actually, he doesn’t care. He was commenting in another video news story and said that it was his prerogative to live his life the way he wanted. And he didn’t care about anybody, but himself. It’s his words.
@@Oldmane-420You're really weird. You're all over the comment saying the same thing over and over. Is this you Perry??
That's really gross to do to people. You want to "disappear" at least let someone know so you don't end up a missing person with people worried about you. Your poor children.
Lol
He didn’t care. The kids are better ff without him.
His family knew where he was.
He left you without a word. It is clearly not a mistery, here! what a horrible man, and lousy father.
You can’t make someone want to be “anything” your partner, parent, kid, friend, family member…does not matter….hurts really bad…but that’s just how some people are.
Exactly , only mature people honor this reality but i bet he showed red flags while dating and she still got pregnant cause she was in love by herself! If a man don’t want you move on !
She got pregnant 3 times with no ring. Its time for her to take accountability. As Black Men say , she shouldve chose better.
He chose to have 3 kids and abandoned all of them. 72% of black children are fatherless. In the black community they blame this on black women. Sad to say but if you procreate with a black man you have a 28% chance of him staying around and a 72% chance of being abandoned.
@@august21xp Hi, I'm not sure if you watched the entire video. The woman at 0:13 is his ex-wife, I believe she has moved on hence why she is his EX-WIFE. 3 children were produced from their relationship. He last saw his children Christmas of 2023. He did not notify the mother of his children or his children that he made it home safely. According to his ex-wife, weeks went by and she still heard nothing from the father of her children. So she reached out to his father, brother, and a few friends all of which said they had not seen or heard from him. July of 2024 the Southlake police confirmed a missing persons report was filed. The missing persons report was transferred to the city of Austin because that's where he lived. As of the afternoon of Monday, September 9th, 2024 Austin Police have not released why that man was in California. Although he has been located he still has not reached out to his children after 9 months. I'm going to assume from what was presented in the video that one of if not the sole reason she is concerned about this man's whereabouts is because he is the father of her children. I could be 100% wrong though and the main or sole reason may be because she has not moved on. Also, the children ages 4, 7, and 13 are children so I am not sure how they should honor the reality that their father has taken a now 9 month break from fatherhood. Based on the video I believe the focal point is this man has not seen or spoken to his children in 9 months.
@@stargazer2.3 his ex-wife according to 0:13. So there's a possibility she did have all 3 children after the ring they did not state in the video when they married but her oldest is 13.
One thing to leave a Partner. But YOUR CHILDREN?🤬🤬
He's living his zest life. Sad for the kids
His Brother had to have known that he left to CA.
I guess you can run away from home no matter what your age is!
Exactly!😳
Such a loser dad to do that to the kids.
Have you paused, even for a moment, to consider he may have done what he did because of the way she was treating him? It happens time after time, the mother is a phsycho witch from hell, so father leaves, than mother weaponize the children against him and family court backs her up! Think about this! He has already been coming to visit his children, why would he stop? Why did he move to the other side of the country, so far away? He’s obliviously still paying support, we know if he wasn’t, the mother and reporter would make him out to be a deadbeat dad. No. This is a father who does love his children, but he has reached a point where he knows, for his own mental well being he can’t keep subjecting himself to the abuse he is suffering, yet he can’t stop trying to visit his children. His solution, move so far away it becomes to difficult to visit. In my mind this is another man on his way to becoming a statistic, a very sad statistic.
@@Oldmane-420 So do the right thing instead of ruining a growing kids life. Do you not think the kid will grow up doing the same thing?
@@S2KV men commit suicide at a rate of three to one compared with women and children. The vast majority of those suicides take place during or shortly after divorce involving children!
Think about that!
Now ask your self, was he abandoning those kids or was he saving himself? He moved literally to the other side of the country! WHY? He was visiting and spending time with his children. He’s still paying child support, we know that because it was never brought up during the story, yet he moved himself to someplace that makes it very difficult to see his children without a word to anyone! WHY !? He was already living in a different town from her and his children, if his intention was to abandon his children he didn’t need to move, just stop visiting. Why leave and tell no one?
Once you seriously ask yourself that question, your opinion MAY change.
@@Oldmane-420 Like I said it is selfish of him, now it will be a domino effect with his kids. When they grow up and can't deal with it and bail too? Is that what you want them to learn from? Think about it. How about getting treatment or support to get his mind right and not damage his kids mind, Think about it...........
@@Oldmane-420still reach out to your kids
Oh crap he forgot the milk he gotta go again
😂😂😂😂
Girl, he doesn't want you and doesn't love his kids enough to stick around. He is just too cowardly to tell you because he knows that you will ask him to stay.
This is truly sad and I hope his kids realize its him not them. He wants to be a deadbeat dad. He's going to be lonely in his old age. 😅😅
That’s when he will be contacting them for support.
You ain't lying. Facts !!! 💯💯💯 When the children are finally adults. There will be no contact 4ever including from seeing grandchildren. It's clear this man is a deadbeat. He was trying to reset his life like a video game. With a new identity & location. Glad they found him. He needs to pay for the consequences.
🗣 I'll be right back. 🚶🏾➡️✈️ 🌎
I'm just glad that he's safe.
I’m not he hurt his children. Screw him. He didn’t have to leave like that.
I’d like to recommend my son’s dad for a news report. Haven’t seen that man in years. Heard he’s drunk in Florida.
Sad situation.
There is a lot of missing fathers in the black community. Glad one was found but something tells me he will still be “missing.”
However, this isn’t the Black Community. This is the white community. White Women have become the new face of single motherhood.
Now, these same men are missing in the white community. 👀🧐😱
Well now there’s one missing in the white community.
Well, this one is now missing in the white community.
No need to make this a news story. A lot of men walk away from their children and don't want to be bothered. The ex just seems really surprised its happening to her children.
I disagree. Men (and women) who abandon their families/responsibilities without valid reason should be outed and shamed.
@@SinaAla 💯
She said he didn't check-in....
Yeah, that part was weird. Is she his PO? There's a reason why his family didn't tell her where he was.....
She got the same Black Man🤣🤣🤣👀
THAT PART
He was just picking up milk.
He didn’t want to pay child support
He IS paying child support!
This is his ex-wife, he owes no explanation to her about where he goes or if he decides to leave the state or country. However, at least get word to the kids that you're ok.
Its unfortunate when someone disappeared with the intent to start a new life without closing doors on the past life. If he wanted to started his new life...why not be honest....but just disappeared?
OMG
Poppa was a rolling stone 🪨 wherever he laid his head was his home....
Why is this even in the news???
Probably because he was reported as a missing person.
@@ItsmeCR-g8j because she's a white woman and not used to his shenanigans... She could have easily reached out to his mom or a sibling.
Seriously 🤦🏽♀️
This is what happens when you think that because you are a WW you will be the exception and not the rule. When BW mentioned this, WW with BM would pour salt in the wound by saying “we are just better women, Blqck Women are not feminine and do not know how to treat a man, etc.” WW would view BW as beneath them but as usual, the tables will always turn. It’s always unfortunate for the kids.
My god you folk are exhausting.
That is a crock. BM see the WW as means of conquering WM in many cases.
I don’t know how they will be conquering white men with 3 abandoned biracial children.
She played the last card she had left; make police look for him and feel sorry for her and the kids. Very controlling, not demure lol She should know by now he found a new one in a richer city&state. This isn't news...
@@sugarfree8303 what does that have to do with anything?
It looks like he didnt want to be found he probably has a new life
He went out to get milk
Love , commitment , marriage and relationships have become things of convenience now days and peoples word no longer carries any weight , they love you as long as loving you is beneficial to them but the moment they feel like they are no longer gaining anything from your presence they are out of there and moving on to their next victim . Mist of the time they've already lined the next one up so they jump head first into the new relationship like they never even knew you . The saddest part of all this is our society now accepts this kind of behavior as being acceptable , this is why we let people we know are liars act like they are trustworthy and can be taken for their word . When we know for a fact that you cannot believe a word they say or be counted on to do the right thing no matter what the situation is because we all know opportunists change right along with the situation they are in . They will always look out for # 1 whether or not you make it is luck of the draw .
He went to the corner store
Orange County?! He's on an extended vacation with someone new, hon. Move on with your life, ma'am and stop embarrassing your children.
Exactly!🤷♀️Lord have mercy!🤦♀️🙄
What is up with black fathers?
IDK. I guess the same with White Asian, Hispanic, and any race of fathers that abandon their children. 🙄
Doesnt want to pay child support !!
He IS paying child support!
Bro disappointed he was found. Lol.
He went out for smokes when he found out his gf was pregnant and moved to cali. Very rare they actually find him LMAO
Typically not around
Ye, typically of all men who don’t want to face responsibility, who are hiding their sexuality and or who have mental issues.
Don’t try it. White ain’t always right ✌🏽
Another deadbeat father. Trying to play “gone girl “🙄
Deadbeat dads are the ones who don’t pay child support. This guy’s still paying! No one mentioned it during the article, if he wasn’t paying that would have been the focus of the story.
Please come get him we already have too many homeless in CA.
There’s a lot of 👨🏿🦱”missing fathers”
THAT PART
Theres alot of reasons someone leaves and cuts off all contact , he probably did it because he didnt want no part of that stress anymore it happens to everyone, i did the same thing , i couldnt stand my marriage and stepkids anymore it was absolute hell dealing with it all , i honestly dont blame him for leaving , it sounds like shes overbearing and controlling and is trying to force something on him he just doesn't want to be part of , you can never know the true full story till you actually see and hear it with your own ears and eyes
LOL typical he went out for Menthols and a 3 dollar bottle of Nighttrain ....... LOL Have you not learned anything From OJ Bill Cosby Puffy Every singel NFL player with a contract ....LOL They aint like the TV commercial sugar
If that was a woman, and she left her family and then was found, she would be going to jail, but when it’s a man, oh he left, and we found him. . .🤦🏾♀️
WHAAAT???
Sad😢
Ahhhh Becky lost her king! Well I guess now she has to find a new one.. tears tears tears tears tears tears whatever
He helped make those kids , he needs to support them!
@glohawkWell you know I don't feel anything for the preferences, they know what they do to black women!.
Only took a couple of years for APD to solve it. That must be a speed record for APD.
Ask the Dad what his issues are that he doesn’t keep in touch with the kids. They are such a beautiful family .
A texas judge is probably his issue.
🙏🏿🙏🏿
Another "usual" dead beat dad
Sounds like a textbook case of toxic woman constantly harassing, until the father just gives up and stops trying!
😒
🤔 Strange
Man, you can't even ghost your ex family these days... 1984 has arrived.
Mud sharks have to learn.
This is why Im so glad the system of child support was made. They blame women but it was a system of men who made in . The amount of men who just upped and disappeared leaving mothers to fend for themselves has been happening for decades. Their always blaming women which isnt the truth. One man left and built a whole new family using a dead mans identity. Ppl dont even know Serena Williams dad had 5 kids before them that he abandoned until a daughter of his blasted him.The word tells us in these last days men would be lovers of themselves and its coming to past.
He went no contact the mother must be a MALIGNANT NARCISSIST...
Malignants NEVER CHANGE..
he oughta stay in California and heal. His kids will find him one day ..
He is wrong, but my question is do the teenage son have his own cell phone or all communication must go through the Ex-wife; her tears toward the end were more Her pain not the children she is projecting her pain onto her children.
Did he have a mental breakdown or just wanted to disappear, but what about the children he never contacted?
Kids don’t make anyone stay , stop getting pregnant for no reason ! You were in love with yourself !
Your right! There are a lot of missing fathers! But even more prevalent are the blocked fathers. Those are the ones who are prevented visitation with their children because phsycho mother has made false DV charges or just plain won’t allow fathers their visitation rights with their children!
To further address you comment, how many of those missing fathers aren’t really missing but simply defeated men who have realized that no matter how hard they try there is no hope of ever getting to see their children again so they stop trying and go away?
We don't know all of the details... and this isn't new... 🧐🤷♀️
Sounds like he was just looking for a way out of the relationship without maning up, and just saying so 🫣
2 sides to every story!
He probably with another woman in California
Running from responsibilities I see😅😂😂
LMAO
D U S T Y
He went to get milk because she chose welfare over him. Damn welfare ruining the communitah 😂😅😂
She got the same blkmn, hahaha😂
Lol
I mean.... he's black...soooo
😂Wth
@blessedbeauty5411 lol you know they abandon their kids at high rates
Well she should have known better than to mess with a🥷🐢
LMAO