The SECRET to Approaching Girls - 11 BEST Ways to Approach a Girl

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  • @Mantelligence
    @Mantelligence  3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Check out the full blog post here: www.mantelligence.com/best-way-to-approach-a-girl/

  • @InvestingHustler
    @InvestingHustler 6 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Best way to approach a girl be confident and have a nice positive energy 👌

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Love it!

    • @zako8424
      @zako8424 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lies, its a T H I C C Big Full Lush roll of 💯 $.

    • @kibarinkiba3377
      @kibarinkiba3377 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I do the Congruent, Confident, Wingman, An Count to three.

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 6 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I think one of the best ways to approach a girl is to do the 3 second rule. The minute you see a girl, you have to approach her within 3 seconds otherwise most guys will not do it.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yo big man! Totally. It's (obviously) one of my favorite ways to approach girls, too. It cuts the BS out. Doesn't give you an option. Thanks for the comment!

    • @arielvagus1618
      @arielvagus1618 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ya, this 3 second rule is famously popularized by Mystery and it's very effective as well.

    • @shuc.8089
      @shuc.8089 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YAD - Ariel Vagus yeah count upwards (rrverse psychology) and go at 3. Works

    • @twiston43
      @twiston43 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mystery is weird.

    • @anasshahid224
      @anasshahid224 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Will try it tomorrow ☺️

  • @joostvanenkelen667
    @joostvanenkelen667 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    3:57 wow, you just mentioned all my fears

    • @iheb4898
      @iheb4898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The dark.. Really..

    • @seanandrews5329
      @seanandrews5329 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Iheb` yes I am very afraid of dark things

  • @BadSeed409
    @BadSeed409 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Too much thinking my brain. Hurts

    • @jeksixten5751
      @jeksixten5751 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol me too Just live on it

    • @lifemomentsca
      @lifemomentsca 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @JessicaRodriguez-gi2cl
      @JessicaRodriguez-gi2cl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe you should start by changing your name to something more positive Mr JayCut Throat lol

  • @MosesEmmet
    @MosesEmmet 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I think if you can get good at observing whether or not the girl is in a good mood and possibly interested in small talk, you will have much lower chance of rejection and a much higher chance of getting the digits.👌

  • @tovitheproud849
    @tovitheproud849 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'll be honest, I had very low expectations going it to this video. I normally don't watch this kind of stuff but when I have it's been utter nonsense. This video turned out to be very helpful. Most everything in it I already knew, but just didn't think about and/or put into action. I never had to, girls always came to me 😉. Anyway, great vid, I think I'll watch more.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mantelligence: rising about low expectations since 2017. We're glad you're here, brother.

  • @itsme_aqilah119
    @itsme_aqilah119 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Good video
    Next.. Sign woman are still single

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Definitely brother! Stay tuned!!!

  • @zako8424
    @zako8424 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Wing-Girl? that sounds like a Love Tiangle in the making.

  • @christianpanoy6472
    @christianpanoy6472 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome as always

  • @arielvagus1618
    @arielvagus1618 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The best way to approach a girl is being Congruent. Your body and mind needs to be in sync with one another. REMEMBER : It's not what you do, it's how you do it.

  • @JohnStockton7459
    @JohnStockton7459 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Instructions not clear, tried this and got chased out of the mall by a bunch of 26 year old women ended up going to prison for a year for causing a riot

  • @sethenriquez724
    @sethenriquez724 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video buddy, I found it really helpful. I have ideas for your future videos I hope you don't mind if I share them to you. As SJ Sounds already mentioned, different ways to ask a girl out, things to do to make a girl feel comfortable around you, how to gain their interest and what to do if someone introduced you to their friend and you like that friend of theirs. Thank you.

  • @medamine8276
    @medamine8276 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Really good video but i didnt understand none of this ways

  • @seanandrews5329
    @seanandrews5329 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes my confidence came naturally

  • @57_a_sarthak22
    @57_a_sarthak22 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Will i am shy around girls so this will definitely help me

    • @Pro-habits
      @Pro-habits 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      mrDIRTYSHOT 7 build confidence & remember eye contact is key

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let us know how it goes big man!!!

    • @letsgobrandon6014
      @letsgobrandon6014 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch Steezy Kane and DickaroundDylan on TH-cam.
      You will find many ways to pickup girls.

  • @Ace-ek4bf
    @Ace-ek4bf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What if you dont know her or anything about her and you just know that she's in your school

    • @Blaze77717
      @Blaze77717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly my problem my dude

    • @n3rc849
      @n3rc849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Blaze77717 my problem is “be the life of the party” how am I supposed to just change into a child who has spent my whole life having fun in parties and stuff and knowing how to be exciting, I have no idea

    • @papawuise6820
      @papawuise6820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It feels like these videos give you advice on how to approach someone you've already approached. If I already approached them, I wouldn't have this goddamn problem!

    • @skatedrop7975
      @skatedrop7975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha same im scared but ima try tomorrow

    • @RIPDixie1865
      @RIPDixie1865 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@skatedrop7975 Did you do it? I always wonder if people actually follow up on these kinds of comments lol

  • @edwardmuimi9583
    @edwardmuimi9583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow thank you .. am approaching my boss .. wish me good luck guys...

  • @letsgobrandon6014
    @letsgobrandon6014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why can't this be easy peasy like Cheezy Steezy?

  • @Th3leG3ndx
    @Th3leG3ndx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best way to keep her,
    Be mysterious and nonchalant...
    Spontaneous too

  • @cybertu7114
    @cybertu7114 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U r channels underrated..dude

  • @nathandillard6886
    @nathandillard6886 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great

  • @zleepyjan
    @zleepyjan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Now i want to approach a girl after watching this lol

  • @vladtheimpalertaylor
    @vladtheimpalertaylor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That blonde in the thumbnail 11/10
    Great vid as always

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yoo brother! Thank you! Glad to have you on the channel + in the community!

    • @husskiii
      @husskiii 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      False lmao she deadass like 7/10

  • @aryansachdeva7551
    @aryansachdeva7551 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I took 1st tip literally 😂😂😂 lol

  • @felixw8004
    @felixw8004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cool that a woman, who doesn't have to appoach anyone gives advise how to appoach a girl

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah yes, but the men who write the scripts that our voice actor then reads certainly do

  • @Ridebmxindia
    @Ridebmxindia 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts facts facts I am all in when I am going its make it or break it.

  • @ishaboy5090
    @ishaboy5090 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great, now I have to talk to women to get a wingman AND to get a girlfriend

  • @lateatlife999
    @lateatlife999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mantelligence where do you find these photos that you use in your videos ???
    ☺😅

  • @shreddedflesh1865
    @shreddedflesh1865 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have social anxieties towards talking to girls

  • @nikkkk11031310
    @nikkkk11031310 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What to do when she is interested in you and giving you the signs but she has her male friends around?

  • @derexano88
    @derexano88 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is awesome

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yoo big man! Glad to have you on the channel + in the community!

  • @fratelliditalia9985
    @fratelliditalia9985 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Italians are good at flirting girls as you know😎🇮🇹👍🏻

  • @tyjo2593
    @tyjo2593 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I tried getting a girls number a few months back and she rejected me. But my friend told me she was playing hard to get. What should be my next move?

    • @spectre2381
      @spectre2381 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      XXX Favor find another girl.

    • @balthazarmccohen4435
      @balthazarmccohen4435 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you are really serious about her and you think she is the one for you, then listen to the advice from an old man such as me: propose and get married. Talk to her father, introduce yourself as the young respectable fine man you appear to be, receive his consensus and take her to the altar.

  • @stepvan22
    @stepvan22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 61, so every time the video say girl I need to insert “women “? Also does the 3 second rule apply when she’s with other people, even other Men??

  • @litobakzcozykc7616
    @litobakzcozykc7616 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:31 whats the name of the guy, please? I need that haircut so much! I’ve been looking for that look for a long time...

    • @rytis3005
      @rytis3005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Loa cheka jonny sins

  • @kolehollis5852
    @kolehollis5852 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t exactly get the first one I wish you’d explain that better

  • @icursedvader1144
    @icursedvader1144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The girl I’m trying to talk to is always by herself during recess and lunch and idk why

    • @mermaidman961
      @mermaidman961 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well consider yourself lucky, usually the girl I'm interested is always surrounded by her group of friends.

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @iCuresedVader go up and talk to her!

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @mnb323 that's tough man. It's always intimidating to try and talk to a girl when she's with her crew.

  • @castle4328
    @castle4328 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Number 5..So true

  • @jeremylister89
    @jeremylister89 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    These days you've got to be careful..and honest.
    So my opening line is 'Hi I find you really attractive, but I have to check: you're not transexual are you?'
    I've learned to avoid the slap/punch. What's a guy to do these days..?
    Why don't people just wear a wristband or NFC device that gives basic info.

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes this video sounds like me 99% ! This reads me perfectly!

    • @meganmorgan4227
      @meganmorgan4227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bryan McCallum Kevin Malone I am from California,Irvine.. And would love to make new friends !!!

    • @bryanmccallum4614
      @bryanmccallum4614 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@meganmorgan4227 be new friends how?

    • @meganmorgan4227
      @meganmorgan4227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bryan McCallum Lol, Would just like to make new friends..Maybe we can be very cool great friends from different cities!

    • @bryanmccallum4614
      @bryanmccallum4614 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@meganmorgan4227 I am on Facebook if you want to chat?

  • @SJSounds
    @SJSounds 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A good video would be 10 ways to ask a girl out.

  • @SimonB.
    @SimonB. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Approaching women is way easier for me than being in a room with a spider

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dude no way. Spiders are terrifying.

    • @ZiroTheGameplayCoder
      @ZiroTheGameplayCoder 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For me, being in a room with a spider is _waaaay_ easier!
      - Ziro out.

  • @jakeadler3905
    @jakeadler3905 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    #11 wait to approach
    #5 approach at first site

  • @colehara
    @colehara 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    First.....tape $100 bills all over your body.....

  • @jesterperez5152
    @jesterperez5152 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The thing is I dont know what to say when I approach her....

  • @nikhil7170
    @nikhil7170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You speak very fast

  • @nobodysperfect06
    @nobodysperfect06 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you think all women need to know or learn is how to screen guys, how to avoid being used? Since I don't see what type of dating skills women need to know or learn in terms of how to get a guy since they didn't have to initiate anything or escalate anything or "make anything happen" with a guy

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think that's probably a big part of it, but there's also more to it than that. They might not initiate the first conversation very often, but there's so much happening after that first introduction.

    • @nobodysperfect06
      @nobodysperfect06 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mantelligence well not only that, besides not having to initiate the first conversation, women aren't expected to do the asking out either or planning and setting up dates either, escalating or initiate sex either

    • @nobodysperfect06
      @nobodysperfect06 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mantelligence what type of skills do women need to learn or know then?

  • @magicmerlin3709
    @magicmerlin3709 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best way to approach a girl is don't have an ugly face if you have an ugly uneven face you should approach women after you get 100k worth of plastic surgery on a facelift if your face isint very symmetrical that my friends is how you approach women

  • @vickyloveschickensoup
    @vickyloveschickensoup 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    First video I ever disliked. Dont overthink it and just be yourself, even if it is awkward. I find honest shyness and awkwardness in a guy super attractive, cause I can see they are scared to talk to me but still do it anyways. Just be kind and polite and dont overthink it.

  • @jessiehughes9432
    @jessiehughes9432 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best way to approach a woman is not too.👌👌

  • @ronaldsprowal9978
    @ronaldsprowal9978 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can u do a video on Trying to move on from a special woman that was in your life.....But I can't found a new woman I tried do everything y'all told me to do and women still don't like me. ..WHAT CAN I DO ?? HELP PLEASE

    • @erikdeboer4091
      @erikdeboer4091 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had a girlfriend for 2,5 years, we broke up in November, i also struggled with it for weeks if not month, but you'll get your shit together if you just talk to other girls after the sad weeks. I also tought it couldnt be fixed but it just takes a while. It's 10 months now from the break up and I almost have a new girlfriend.

    • @ronaldsprowal9978
      @ronaldsprowal9978 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@erikdeboer4091 The issue with me Me her and sister hangout I really like hanging with her...We stopped talking over a miss understanding ......ALL I DO IS THINK OF THEM 24/7 .....even tho we never was GF/BF....I REALLY MISS THEM......I try going out ....But women seem to have a problem with me they act like something is wrong with me...I smile be nice around them when out do everything this video tell me and women still act like something is wrong with me. . I'M trying move on ..But How if Women run from me and Don't like me at all. .I'M REALLY TRYING BUT I FEEL SO TRAPPED

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think a video on moving on is a great idea, Ronald. But let me tell you how it would start...
      Moving on is not about finding another woman, it's about finding yourself again. When a relationship that means a lot to you ends, it can affect you on the deepest levels. You need to take the time to do a little internal inspection. Take stock of who you are and how you've changed. Decide if you like the person you are, and if not change it. Don't look for a new girl to make you feel better about your old one, because it won't work for long. And don't ever get involved with sisters.

  • @zeppelinfloyd6292
    @zeppelinfloyd6292 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My parents never got divorced although I begged them to....

  • @benjerryhaagendaz
    @benjerryhaagendaz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    HEYY, not cool bro, not cool.

  • @saint-5419
    @saint-5419 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just say be yourself.before approaching her make deep eye contact that’s really it if your like me you can be bold but your not really and just by looking at her she ain’t just be yourself I just stay who I am cos she might like a trait for example your approach her smiling looking like you love life but you have depression for example and she is all happy for real she is just liking who acting to be not who you really are

  • @sosoronald1172
    @sosoronald1172 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I dont like girls with bruises or holes either

  • @Cheese_cheesecheesecheese
    @Cheese_cheesecheesecheese 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's funny because a girls talking

  • @m3gascope801
    @m3gascope801 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    To sad my parents are both blind

  • @timgodin6428
    @timgodin6428 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd actually be interested in these vids if I could still get wood, but damn meds. Kills my mojo. 😱😵😂😁😕😬😡😈😉😯😦😶😰😩😨😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @mariovukovic8841
    @mariovukovic8841 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video has more contradictions than the bible.

  • @Calamity8
    @Calamity8 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a boy

  • @ultimobw
    @ultimobw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is arguably the worst advice on approach out there

  • @Mr.Helper.
    @Mr.Helper. 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Too much trouble

  • @username6135
    @username6135 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi. wanna go out ? yea now you want to go out. :xxx

  • @purejokes3951
    @purejokes3951 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best way to approach is being confident, that way you don’t care about rejection or friend zone. Must be an alpha male

  • @drakerocky7808
    @drakerocky7808 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't understand shit

  • @jeymcn7065
    @jeymcn7065 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    WoW

    • @Mantelligence
      @Mantelligence  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yoo big man! So glad that you liked the vid! Glad to have you on the channel + in the community!

  • @RS-io6vm
    @RS-io6vm 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Give her chocolate

  • @Ldizzil5000
    @Ldizzil5000 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm afraid of rejection

    • @JimmyCarter223
      @JimmyCarter223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Larry Mandaville don’t be afraid dawg, the worse she can say is no

    • @Ldizzil5000
      @Ldizzil5000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JimmyCarter223 you're right

    • @braydenc750
      @braydenc750 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      LilDeezy Carter or she could say “ew wtf no thanks”

  • @ECO473
    @ECO473 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yawn...Snore...ZZZZZ. More false hope for sale.

  • @satyagiri331
    @satyagiri331 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Second comment