NARCISSISTIC HUSBAND SIGNS: WAKING UP TO THE REALITY THAT YOU MARRIED A NARCISSISTIC MAN
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Narcissism, (as a common topic),😳 is trending like never before, and there are so many incredible TH-cam Channels and communities, and resources online (see below!).
❤️And, while it seems like none of us would marry an overt or grandiose narcissist as they are often described in literature or online, many of us do, often mistaking the signs, and alongside trying to heal our childhood wounds, we can feel we found a "home," in our narcissistic partners. But home, for us, was toxic.
❤️Even more challenging and more common, are the relationships and marriages we find ourselves in with narcissists, who initially just seemed confident, decisive and strong, but in reality were broken, controlling, hurtful selfish, and conditional men.
Because we really didn't see the signs, and in seeking to finally be cared for, and because of our own caretaking childhoods and natures, we are waking up to the reality that we are deep in a marriage or relationship with a Narcissistic Husband.
Staying or getting out of a marriage, especially with a Narcissistic or NPD man, can be one of the most painful and difficult things we will ever do.
💕💕💕This video explores some of the more obvious and less obvious signs that we married a narcissistic man, and hopefully it validates your experience and all you know to be true.💕💕💕.
You are worthy of being loved and seen for who you are, not for who the narcissistic husband or partner wants you to be.❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Awesome Narcissism/NPD Resources on TH-cam:
Dr. Ramani Durvasula
Dr. Todd Grande
MedCircle
Kati Morton
Dr. Tracey Marks
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The narc love bombs you and moves so fast that you are married before the bad behavior begins.
Narcissistic mother, narcissistic husband. He love bombed me, and no one, I mean no one, was talking about narcissism when I was falling in love with, marrying, and having children with him. People didn't start talking about it until I had already left him. I so wish this conversation had been going on 30 years ago. He has 20 of these 22 traits. I grieve the loss of a healthy life.
Yeah, narcissism wasnt brought up on a mainstream level until the last few years. I was married to one for over 20 years and I wish this was a common subject then so I would just refuse to be married to anyone.
If your gut tells you that things aren’t right with the way you feel.
Listen to your gut and start by setting firm boundaries and not accepting the way they speak to you and treat you.
This will create the space between you to regain your confidence and positive sense of self.
I married two narcissists because they made me feel sorry for them. I was entrapped by their victim acts. They both abused me.
I did the same exact thing...I feel so stupid for not realizing it before I married him. I really hate myself for thinking that he actually loves me and that it would change. Lately, it has gotten worse
My mother tried to warn me that I would have a life of a personal little hell with him and I didn't believe her. She was so right and my heart is broken, I'm so tired of his games, anger,control and cruelty.
Healthy ppl don't do that.
I feel like this is the most honest and accurate video I've watched about being married to a narcissist. Thank you.
I’m 79 married for 42 years to a very narcissistic. He has no morals but believes he is a Christian. Doctor, everything you have mentioned is exactly how my husband acts. Since I have been a senior, it has been so hard on me. I have put myself in the hospital twice, I’ve even talked to the police on his porn subjects that I thought was against the law. They could care less.
Praying for you 🙏🏽. Take care.
It is never too late to leave.
If you stay in a toxic situation, environment, you continue to self betray, self abandon.
Often if we have severe attachment wounds, we don't know our own value and that we have a right to needs/boundaries.
There are senior services, supports, communities, lower cost therapy. Please show up for yourself in this phase of life. Your husband isn't going to. You can't waste one more moment focused on him...but instead on how you can improve the next chapter. Inquire why you would tolerate that dynamic and heal that. That way you become empowered, and self advocating.
I wish you peace 💫
Mrs. Beasley don't loose hope. You're in my prayers tonight.
I wish for you the best and it would be to turn the page and leave him, applying the no contact ever again rule. It is never too late. Chronological age is just a number. Life is short for all of us. Think about yourself, you are so worth it.
How dare you be so cavalier with a 42 year marriage at the 11th hour of their lives. @@TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd
This brought me to tears. You truly get it. It took me years to come to realize who they real are beyond the charming facade. They lack true integrity and character. Thank you for helping victims of these clowns feel seen.
You shared many aspects of The story of my marriage/divorce....he took everything. It was too expensive to fight him as he is an attorney and self represented while I had to pay for my attorney. My attorney said he never saw a divorce like it and to run not walk away from the marriage. The only thing I would add is that my body knew better and didn’t believe the lies I told myself throughout our time together and I was continuously sick. Three years after our divorce I was diagnosed with stage three head and neck cancer. It is a miracle that I survived to tell the story!
Oh God. This is sad. I’m crying 😭 while reading your comment... I pray I survive too.
I had to get a PFA when I divorced my husband. He made it evident he would never let me go. (Not physically abusive). He was caught taking photos of my teenage daughter sunbathing in our back yard and that gave me the leverage I needed. Even caught with evidence he denied any wrong I intent on his part. It was after that I realized how controlling and emotionally abusive he really was. That was my experience with a narcissist.
Oh wow! This is my husband of 20 years.
Same
Same🤦♀️ sending you all love💓
It doesn’t sound like they are capable of true love.
They aren't.
True love for themselves
I couldn’t tell if that was a cat or dog! Either way- what a beautiful animal!! Stunning
Dank you for this good video. My wife is narcissist, I found out 2 month ago. She does not really know that I found out, although we are married since 15 years. In this 2 month I learned to adjust my behavior and I do not tell her if I have some new money and I also do not have guilt anymore. This is really a big relief. Thank you. I mean the video was about narcissistic men, but for women it is quite similar 🤭🤫🥰
This is so validating... the guilt tripping went right over my head. I dealt with it from my mom my whole life but this new husband just skid the guilt tripping in
That’s not always true about a toxic home in childhood. An empath can be just that and a covert narcissist sought them out for their beautiful giving soul. They need that empath for their supply. The empath is so giving and loving they can’t imagine someone could deep down be so evil because they never experienced anything like that in their family. Some people just plain make poor choices in a partner. Even when their family saw the poor character and laziness or indifference in the guy, the empath thinks they can fix them or take care of them and they think they’ll never need that care in return. Just when a sickness or trauma happens with the empath, the narcissist checks out and wants nothing to do with caretaking of the wife or children. Then the abusive rages start because there is an expectation of them they can’t handle. And yes they are very good at lying and justifying everything they do or don’t do. It’s a sad existence for the empath. 😢
I agree with you and I’ve seen videos from Prof Sam Vaknin on TH-cam (personally I think he’s psych breakdowns of Cluster B personality disorders is the best online although Kims delivery is soul balm for me) and he says that most often, those with some form of childhood neglect and abuse will “find” narcissistic people but in some cases, it can be someone very maternal and caring without trauma, especially if they are young and inexperienced in the world. Such was my case at 22 and travelling overseas by myself for the first time. I’m almost 50 now and have had everything around me destroyed, live in a foreign country, he foreclosed on the mortgage, lost everything except our 4 kids and managed to hang on to most of my sanity. He still acts as though that never happened and we just “don’t discuss” his behaviour. I left his filthy-ass 7 years ago. Looking at him now objectively, actually all narcs, they are sad and pathetic humans that cannot exist in the world without sucking the life out of others in order to merely exist.
I hope they all find the thought of aging and being irrelevant a frightening prospect with little supply from others think they are as sad and pathetic as they behave. Because it is and will be for them and to that I simply say “ pass the popcorn!”
…and they think they’ll never need that care in return.
That part of your comment resonated with me. I’ve always lived like this, not needing much “tending to”. Apparently I was wrong. We all need care. It’s just never going to be reciprocal with the N. Thanks for your comment
Brilliant comment, you just described my husband an I relationship . He mentally tortures me and it took me 20 plus years to realise this because I am an empath and I find it difficult to spot vindictive narcissist people because I have not got one bad thought in my head or a bad bone in my body
I Am that Empath and he does crazy things to trigger me and he stares at me to see how I'm going to react.
True...but a big majority is from abusive household
My narc husband of 33 years passed away last year, I took care of him during his last 4 months in hospice. Not to disappoint in true narc fashion, he thought it was a good idea to “come clean” on his way out and let us all know about his wh0re in Lake Havasu (36 years old single mother(I’m sure she found this 63 years old man with cancer super attractive 🤮). Every thing you say is true, pathological liar, cheater, abusive behavior, condescending, inappropriate, arrogant, sexually deviant, shallow, BUT, I made it out of that hellscsape,a little over a year ago and am finally at peace and happy
Morning! Hope you enjoy this video! I know there are many more signs too of NPD and Narcissistic traits! Please feel free to add your experiences so we can all feel validated and supported! Thank you so much! 🙏🏻❤️
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It was shocking listening to this - shocking because there was only one point that didn't resonate. And now I am left thinking about how I enabled 😔
Thought my ex was narcissistic. Because yes fights like once a month, where everything is my fault, critizing me and him being extremely sensitive to feedback and a sort of arrogance. Mostly fights where me thinking he was too strict as a father and him wanting me to support him in his being without questioning. But there is so many things I don’t recognise. Like the sex was the best sex I have ever had out of 7 partners, focusing just as much on my pleasure. Consistent with the Children, being there for them. Never Cheated, of course can you never be one hundred percent certain but i am like 95. Maybe he is more bpd, not that it change what I deserve but it gives me another perspective and better understanding. Most of the time when good he was supportive, me planning, spending my own money as I wanted, etc. But when he changes his mood like once a month or every second month it was like a completely different person, who went from being madly in love with me to hating me and thinking he is some kind of martyr and hero to deal with me.
Have you looked into autism, ASD1. A great resource for that is Mark Hutten, on TH-cam also.
My ex acted like a covert narcissist in some ways.
However, he also seemed pretty clueless to some aspects of life, even though he's a successful physician.
After a decade of being together, and our child was around 1, I insisted he get evaluated by a neuropsychologist. He tested strong 6/7 of the intensive 4 hour autism spectrum test for what used to be called Aspergers.
It was relieving and heartbreaking simultaneously. I had answers, but also realization of the massive limitations in the ability to cooperate, compromise, collaborate, communicate, in a team oriented way.
It's worth looking into.
I realize this is 2 years later..:but it still might be helpful!
Sending you hope for peace💫
So sex was greatest ever... cared for kids... was great overall... but every month he would blow up w sensitivity over your lack of support or just blow a fuse... yes.. you have it really rough.. si rough.. I got one who gets angry randomly, barely helps with kids.. checks out. Sex is maybe 2 or 3 tiles a year of I'm lucky . If I'm pregnant then it's sex once a year.. now he's on a pill which makes him some kind of gay man, he had no libido and now it's zero. Ur life ain't that rough. My husband comes alive occasionally with a gift on occasion if he's in mood. Usually a last minute thought of a gift he looked for did 15 min. Then he pats himself on back as if he worked hard for the year and sits back. U have it easy. The sex isn't the greatest either and he could care less about pleasing.. he's not even fat and works out but it's lazy af
I believe i has heard from one Doctor on YT regarding narcissism that to actually be diagnosed with the actual condition a person has to meet certain criteria and, for example, if there are 10 signs that a true narcissist has they have to have at least 8 to be deemed a TRUE NARCISSIST....can't remember exactly word for word BUT I am a RN but my area of study only gave me a semester in Psych so I know our dear Doctor here can fill us in. And I just wanted to agree with this comment and that my ex husband too has a some good qualities but I Def noticed the narcissistic narcissistic ones after about year 3 or 4. Of course he was exhibiting them all during our marriage AND BEFORE....I just did not know what I was seeing. Narcissism was covered very little in nursing school. I will say tho that once the "mask" slipped WOW did it slip and the man became out of control. The RAGE part of it....was like OUT OF THE BLUE ONE DAY! Something I had always did, never even said he had a problem with it...till THAT DAY! I guess I will never know what THINGS were put into motion for him but we were never the same.
I totally get the message of this video. The points are valid and real, and the main thesis that our childhoods can set us up for failure in relationships is a very powerful truth. My opinion is that in the future, many people are going to find themselves refusing to choose a lifetime partner all by themselves. They will require some type of extensive vetting, not different to how marriages of old centuries used to be conducted. Some people will draw comfort in the knowledge that their ultimate 'choice' was made by others in their own best interests. There's just too many covert dysfunctional people in our world today and we can't have healthy societies when they keep destroying otherwise capable and good individuals. Peace.
And I’ve heard young people say that they don’t want to commit to a relationship because of the reasons you stated.
The type of extensive vetting you imagine was done in previous centuries is crazy because it absolutely does not have a parallel to what we're talking about. The vetting previously was how much Dowry can they get, how many donkeys does she bring into the marriage etc - comparing those standards to the standards that we want in our mates now is absolutely ludicrous.
A bigger difference would be explaining to young people the difference between dating and courting, dating is for fun, courting is getting to know each other with the intention of marriage.
Too many young people fall into relationships/marriages because they were dating, without courting/marriage even in consideration, let alone agreeing on what their future would look like, where they would live and how they would collectively raise their children etc etc
I think we just need to be better communicators with each other, of our wants, needs and boundaries.
Thank you Kim for this video. Everything you said is true. I was a victim of childhood SA and emotional neglect. I got married very young at the age of 20. I was pregnant and I wanted to provide a stable and loving home for my child and so I really thought that my husband was the answer to everything. After a few years the cracks started to appear in the relationship but I felt trapped because by then I had 3 children. I kept trying to make it work because I didn't want to fail my kids and I ended up having 3 more children. I love all of my kids so much but I was well and truly trapped in a toxic marriage because he never changed, he never kept any promises and he did exactly what he wanted to do all the time. He used every tactic that you mentioned on me to keep me in my place. I stayed way too long (37 years) until I finally left 4months ago. Now I am totally alone, at least that's how I feel now because my adult kids do not understand what I have been through and what I have put up with. They know that their father is very controlling but they don't have to live with it like I did. They just wanted me to stay and keep the family together. They hardly ever contact me to see how I am doing. It's early days so I have hope that they will eventually adjust to the situation. I feel heartbroken and alone at the moment because my dreams and wishes have been shattered when I woke up and realised that my husband is a narcissist. I am slowly healing myself by watching videos on this subject and I hope to seek out therapy eventually when I get my own car.
We are here for you Often just telling your story to others helps most. I realised that the best friend, the love of my life that I married 30 years ago and have 3 wonderful boys, has been hating me for 20 years. To make it worse, his mom supports her cheating son. She is adamant in destroying me and my sons except one, the youngest, at 23, has an anxiety and sleep disorder. Poor him, he is an empath too and he finds it very hard to deal with the situation.
@Forrestier I am so sorry to hear about what you have been through. Yes, sharing our stories with others is very healing especially when others show that they care. I feel for you and your son's and the younger one who struggles the most because of his deep empathy and everything else that he deals with. It is usually always the empaths who are abused and suffer a lot in life. I pray for you and hope you heal soon and can eventually see that you are a stronger person because of it.
Yes they believe their own lies! And the mess of a 42 year marriage was all my fault. We’ll finally have escaped. Moving on and moving forward. Lots of love and grace for myself 💕🙏🏼🙌
I think so many of us struggle with is he just really selfish or is “something” bigger than that.
My ex husband (father of my children) was narcissistic “lite.” I don’t think he had necessarily cruel intentions, I got the cruel behavior in my remarriage and subsequent divorce.
I just didn’t know what narcissistic abuse was 30 years ago and certainly didn’t understand the connection to my upbringing. I do know if you don’t start taking a super hard look at your childhood and the dynamic that what was imprinted on you(my unpredictable rage filled father- that I adored-behavior was explained by him being hungry or hot or tired and anything other than complete compliance - you were labeled as too sensitive or ungrateful. I became a MASTER people pleaser. Healthy people are uncomfortable around a super pleaser. It feels off. But, a manipulator will gulp it up. ) you will keep unconsciously seeking what you are trying to avoid.
Hey..your comment was super insightful! You know your subject! God bless!
The signs you have a narcissist husband ….my husband ticks all of them ….wow😢
And all these years I was thinking that I was the crazy one
I still sometimes think I have caused or done something very bad for this to happen to our marriage. I've been gaslit so much. I never thought of him as narcissistic, until now, when he got found out with his text messages with erotic masseurs and he now has a tinder account. Poor women on there. Or maybe some like to date married men.
I love that Maple always receive an intro.
Wow, you are amazing! Thank you for your help and support!
Your videos are helping me so much! Thank you for all you do! By the way, you are so classy and elegant, I love your style!❤
Wow, you are explaining who I am with and trying to leave. Thank you for this.
I SO appreciate the frankness of this video. It’s so crucial to hear these real accounts of experiences & especially from your specific perspective as many women experience this type of abuse in such ways that can be subtle to external eyes. Thank you for choosing to be so vulnerable in your videos to help so many humans in this experience. Much love! xo
I feel so validated. 🙏
I relate to so many of these signs. I will be looking for other videos and resources that can give me tools to manage this relationship. Just yesterday he capitulated on something that was a rule he had set in stone, and gave me so much grief for expressing hurt and confusion, he just could NOT even contemplate being held accountable for ditching his own rule, instead I was the bad guy for questioning why he would capitulate for something I used to do that he would berate me for! Then woke me up to say sorry and have sex with me, and I once again have to dust myself off and be warm and affectionate and let it all slide off my back. Anyway, thanks for letting me rant a little here. Thanks for your insight, Dr. Sage.
If everything is on his terms, or everything is on her terms, then the marriage is a mess.
Wow, this is spot on.
Dr. Kim can you do a video on narcissistic rage.
I’m wondering if a good way of fighting a narcissistic husband back is to just beat him at his own game by mirroring everything he does back to him. I’m sure it’s probably not recommended but I wonder what would happen 🤔 like what if I start gaslighting him the way he gaslights me? I actually want to try it 😬
Its exhausting!
Your sweet little dog looks like part Pomeranian, part fox and part cat :)
Your videos are amazing, thank you so much.
wow... this is so on point... sex, babies, jealousy, super sensitive, hypocrisy, no boundries...walking naked, touching me in public...everything is so true...only thing is my husband is NOT successful in anything he does...he can work with others...we lost everything.
My husband is a narcissist that gaslights me constantly. Case in point today he locked me out of the car so I hitched a ride home with a random lady. He built up some narrative in his mind that I whored myself out to some dude to get home. I didn't let him add me to his delusional reality. I am great at calling his bull. I will not be cowed. Of course he tried to flip it around that I was the ass for not dealing with his power trip and got my own way home. He was more upset that I showed his true colors to strangers than me feeling like shit that I had to ask people to call an Uber
I hope you can find a way out of this.. if he’s doing THAT to you he could easily put his hands on you. Stay safe out there sis
Very informative thanks a million!
Excellent video describes my husband to a tee
Thank you for this video. It was extremely helpful. ❤
Thank you for this video.
SAHM here..my husband guilts me if I want to buy something bc we “don’t have the money for it”…yet I’ve noticed that we always have money for food, bills, etc
You got me, Doc.
Oh, hell ... I'm in major trouble 😢 😭 I gave up the F word for Lent ... but I'm screaming it in my mind... I'm officially scared!
Errrr..this is sickening...i have known some people like this.
I knew something was off but ignored the warning my late father tried helping me out but I was afraid to live on my own
With my ex it was all about me myself and I ! Yes when my son was born he had an affair. he took me away from my friends and family so he could control me and kept me a hostage you are so right!
Totally true! I experienced exactly every the same things except for marriage or children part during my 3 month dating with a narcissist.
Every thing is absolutely true
Controlling nature can happen in males/females, colleagues at work and parents with children due to needing control and having bad self esteem...so many humans this way.
I have talked once to someone like this and he was very shady in real life and still tried to be nice to me. But over text message he was disgusting, tried to manipulate me into thinking i will always be alone and that he will tie me to his bed to use me with bdsm stuff until i bleed. It made me feel sick and i blocked him. Gag! I will never ever let such psychos into my life again.
Oh my God. This is exactly my lives for 20 years. Including the multiple cheatings. Except i am the bread winner, which makes it even worse.
Why no counselors or pastors are braved enough to tell me this? That it is a personality disorder.
They keep telling me to pray for my husband and the holy spirit could change.
I am sick to my stomach.
please do not stay god has great plans for you without the narc they do not change 38 years of hell get out!!
Yeeks leave him! Don’t listen to people, listen to God he will direct you.
Thanks Mom and Dad! 😭
I have never had so many on point statements in one video!! Wow! Now I'm really a mess! I dont know what to do.
Completely true
Unfortunately this is completely accurate and I feel stuck in it now
Sounded like this was personal for you. You described a “simp” of a guy for a husband. Both husband, wife, and children have needs, wants, desires, and boundaries. . If there is compromise, balance, and respect, in all directions, then a little more or less of something can be navigated.
THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!!
Oh! Thank you for this. You are describing my ex husband!
Still living with one! Not sure if he is exactly one but definitely has a character trait. When the baby was born he was irritated at the baby and me and often did not like me breastfeeding the baby. In the 19 years of our marriage, anytime we argued the fault is always mine! His anger goes out to control when he is upset! But yet he is very nice to everyone else, whether it be church, family etc. He is nicer to me as long as I don’t irritate him so it’s confusing if he is narcissistic or not.
Thank you for this video. I journaled the red flags in the beginning and all the way through, it took 2 years to finally leave which was tremendously hard to do. We got married in 2019 and I left in 2020 during Covid. A part of me was recognizing and journaling and another part of me desperately wanted the facade life. I thought he was the best and the worst husband at the same time. His dysregulated rages really triggered my childhood trauma from my dysregulated step mom. I left all the gifts there. I didn't know it was narcissism I've learned so much these three years since I walked out.
Hi Dr Sage, did you say you were going to do a video about recognizing these signs early on in your partner? Thanks for everything you are doing and thanks for being cute Maple.
Yes! It's on my list!💕
Yes, Maple is so cute!
13:33 now I understand why my "father" was spoiling me with toys. It went as far as I could even demand this and that. But this was little compensation for the mind control he was doing to me. I knew it was fake but there was a why in the back of my mind that was not answered.
Very. True
I’m so sad that this video has validated my feelings. I just wish my husband would watch this and acknowledge that he has a problem so we can deal with it. He doesn’t cheat on me though so at least I have that.
Same here. No cheating, takes care of me very well (so he can get the praise), and is extremely jealous of anyone who does well.
Thanks
I have read about good men and narcissistic men. The difference.
These can apply to women too.
Ha there is always one isn’t there. All men are abusers.
This might sound somewhat cynical but it's not, facing reality is helping me a great deal. Fact is we still live in a patriarchal society so no wonder there are more men who are narcissistic, though that does not mean there are no narcissistic women but it's a secondary effect to the patriarchal society we are living in.
Just so I heard you correctly Dr. Kim: "The father of your kids cannot handle your rejection, and will suffer greatly by your abandonment, but remember his pain is not evidence of your betrayal, its his toxicity."
Is one trait of not being close or no intimacy?
Your dog though
Yes yes yes
The poutiness gives me a really uncomfortable feeling in my stomach. 25 years and counting.
My husband!!
Make a podcast about resilience for me and my son.
He is almost 3 years.
My husband is narsistic
Please...would you..would be nice huh doc?lol
What is the difference between narcissists and psychopaths?
Will you do a video on narcissistic women? Men suffer tremendous abuse, but we are to blame never the woman.
women get away with sooo much men are getting cleaned out especially the real nice ones
Hi
And Wives
Exactly. Speaks so bad 😭
If you are possibly married to a narcissist, what kind of professional help should u seek first?
OMG
It's been a big challenge to work out my interactions with PW NPD, but I'm getting there. My ex husband was a neglectful covert narcissist, he breadcrumbed and gaslit and future faked control over me. I was required to do all the financial, emotional, and physical work while he dictated our activities to the last detail,. When his financial control got blatant, and I was literally coming home from work each day to lie on the bed crying, that's what it took to get me thinking about leaving him. At first we were just going to separate, until he revealed what his idea of separation was (seeing each other regularly). He got very upset when I asked him to spend time with me doing things I actually like, after doing it once he got mad and gave me the silent treatment to punish me until, in his words, he could 'forgive' me taking his time away from comic books and his grad thesis. Oh, and Magic: The Gathering. Just ugh, if my family of origin had taken responsibility for themselves and their toxic behaviours, my life could have been much differnt.
Is narcissistic shares their wife
I’m a single mom of twins ( from my previous marriage) first husband was super drug addicted and narcissistic as well . Second time I got married with much hope and happiness but unfortunately the second one is far more higher in narcism . He degrades me every now and then making me feel like I’m unworthy . I’m useless mom useless wife ( actually a salve who just need to clean and cook and giving him blowjob as well as taking care of his bby from his previous marriage )
Even after doing everything for him he says I’m a stupid idiot I’m not intelligent as he was thinking and im selfish . I’m u ungrateful to him because I have mentioned that I’m tired and I need appreciation love care . Unfortunately I’m dying now . I’m so broken so broken and so alone . Second marriage and this narcism . I wish I was forever single rather than loving a narcissist
Seems like the common denominator in this situation is you. There are basic things required from a woman in a relationship. Kindness, support and sex (stay fit). If this is provided a man will give more in return. Wake up! Get therapy and self reflect.
@@cre8tivexchange I can't believe what you are saying. Are you joking? This poor woman sounds like she has provided all those things and has done the self reflection. She probably does need therapy after what she's been through. I hope she gets the help she needs and leaves this situation.
@@cre8tivexchangescummy person.
@@cre8tivexchangeyou back up an abuser.
@@susanfernandez5817I’m not surprised. Only a MAN could say this kind of stuff and think it is justified.
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Narcissism = Conceit
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