السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Can you please do a short video for the brothers encouraging pre marital counseling? 1. why there is a need for it 2. How to pick a qualified mediator and examples of them 3. What topics/advices need to be addressed in these sessions Barakallahu feekum jazakallahu khair
I have the tendency towards human psychology: People have the awareness of the effects of innate jealousy between one another. So, in circumstances where I have easily and readily identified an individual who attempts to use jealousy to gage my attraction to them or my potential to invest in a commitment with him, I immediately lose that interest and attraction and feeling of fidelity, because I have lost a certain level of admiration and respect to them. To me, you are attempting to emotionally manipulate me and I don’t want any of that. As for the individual who has a role in it, I can ignore them all together because you cooperated in this deviously devised effort.
As salaam alaikum i, what about if the two intends to get married and tends to do a Mutaa or Misyar to prevent zina and yet if the two is actually have this succuessful short term marriage then go for the full nikah
This is baatil and oppression as if one gets attached and the other doesnt and a child is produced the consequences are major. So it is best to marry someone you are happy with and if it doesn't work then divorce after reconciliation.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Can you please do a short video for the brothers encouraging pre marital counseling? 1. why there is a need for it
2. How to pick a qualified mediator and examples of them
3. What topics/advices need to be addressed in these sessions
Barakallahu feekum jazakallahu khair
Super needed for the brother
I have the tendency towards human psychology:
People have the awareness of the effects of innate jealousy between one another. So, in circumstances where I have easily and readily identified an individual who attempts to use jealousy to gage my attraction to them or my potential to invest in a commitment with him, I immediately lose that interest and attraction and feeling of fidelity, because I have lost a certain level of admiration and respect to them. To me, you are attempting to emotionally manipulate me and I don’t want any of that. As for the individual who has a role in it, I can ignore them all together because you cooperated in this deviously devised effort.
I’m from Masjid Al Sabereen in Harrisburg I would to meet you one day and chop it up inshallah
The prophet peace be upon him was also with Khadija and didn’t get any other wife
This is some great useful information to pass on to my daughters. Thank you, Brother
Oh now you wanna do it like Dis!😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣MaashaaAllah
Shadeeds sarcasm is off the chain lol
Wa'aleikum salaam warahmatuLahi wabarakaatuh
AA brother Marshall allah bless you and your family . How can find man like to married him
How do I order your book?
I ordered mine and have been consumed since it arrived. Sis you will love it InshaaAllah. imamshadeedmuhammad@gmail.com
I'm divorced and my children contact me all the time, so imagine if I was with their father and he had another spouse.
As salaam alaikum i, what about if the two intends to get married and tends to do a Mutaa or Misyar to prevent zina and yet if the two is actually have this succuessful short term marriage then go for the full nikah
This is baatil and oppression as if one gets attached and the other doesnt and a child is produced the consequences are major. So it is best to marry someone you are happy with and if it doesn't work then divorce after reconciliation.
Alhumduallah