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- This might just change your entire perspective on life.
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Thank you so damn much for everything recently. YOU are awesome man (I know some of you needed that today).
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this is another one of these bullshit youtube templates you guys are following arent you? to make a bunch of nonsensical crap titled in this manner. have some originality. i have seen this from a bunch of youtubers now.
That was really life-changing...THANK YOU ❤
Im not a young teen watching this I am a 35 year old lady. and I fear death too and its been on my mind alot too. Thanks for this video hun! You are very insightful you deserve a hug lol and a ofc a lifetime of happiness!
This video legit helped me stop doom scrolling lmao
Thanks everyone man, glad this helped you. Watch my other videos yea (when ur free)
“Every man has two lives, and the second starts when he realizes he has just one” - Confucius
You only have 1 life and thats why my heart is my guiding key.
thanks yen sid
now.
Xdd
I do believe every man has 2 lifes though lol,the second one being way better (I am a Christian)
That's so true. Reminds me of my mom, it took her well over 50 years of life before she realized this and started living the way she wanted. Better late than ever but it serves as a reminder for the rest of us.
"Life is too important to be taken seriously," - Oscar Wilde.
Not really, life is not important.
@@ChinCo1 Literally the only thing you've got 🤨
Ahh I see, depressed for depression's sake. Interesting life strategy.
to be taken seriously or to not be taken seriously?
@@8bitglobe You won't know this without life. You would not be able to see the beauty of the universe without light hitting your eyes and soul.
Good advice young man. Keep this in mind, "When I was 20 years old, 40 seemed so far away." I'm now 39. I'd give almost anything to go back to my 20-year-old me.
yep, thank you bro
Don't worry, You are still better than someone who is at 79
"when I was 20 years old, 40 seemed so far away" as a 26 year old, I actually don't feel the same. 30 feels like it's coming faster than it should, and I know 40 is just another 10 years from that. I am currently taking steps, slowly but surely, to hopefully improve my life significantly within the next few years or so, but nothing is guaranteed. I know I'm still young, but I'd like to be well off enough soon enough to be able to enjoy my life to the maximum degree by my mid to late 30s for peak satisfaction, but idk if I'll get there in time. We'll just have to wait and see I guess. 40 is still a little over 50% of my life away after all.
@@codyhanson1344 I wish you a better life,work hard for yourself, your family, our society, and humanity and Enjoy the life at present 💝
@@codyhanson1344 You really don't know that, it's dangerous to give for granted your life percentage when diseases or fatal accidents happen. Haven't you ever heard of somebody randomly dying young? Nothing guarantees that "40 is over 50% of life".
The fact that you think already like this at your age makes you ahed of 99% of people and im 31 and only like 2 years ago I started to think this deeply.
I started to think this much deeply since last year when i was 19
I thought about this type of stuff when i was about 16 and think about it even more now that im graduated
Mine is age 17 ..when I started to think about these things
God bless you, I love you and Jesus loves you even more. Jesus can bring us joy, peace, hope, a fulfilling life and eternal life. Jesus died and rose to save us from our sins, bringing us back to God who made us. Do you want to know God and Jesus Christ and how we can love and live for God with the help of His Holy Spirit?
I started to think this deeply when i was 13 , and I used to cry while thinking about this stuff tbh
we never knew we were making memories right? we were just having fun.
yep
Hey, my friend! I have the most important message to share with you!! Please read EVERYTHING!
Bad news: we are all sinners, and as the punishment for all of our sins, we must spend eternity in hell after we die.
Good news: God still loves us far beyond measure, and he sent Jesus Christ, his only Son, to take the punishment for all of our sins instead, on our behalf, by dying on the cross. Then, on the third day, Christ rose back from the dead!
Jesus paid the debt for all of our sins (past, present, future) on the cross so that we wouldn't have to go to hell but be able to go to heaven!
However, God considers that the debt for all of our sins is paid *the moment we truly believe* that Jesus paid the debt for all of our sins on the cross. All we have to do is believe to go to heaven (John 3:16)! Therefore, please do so!
Praise and Glory to our God the most high!
I want to tell you that God is always there for you with open arms! We are all beautiful sons and daughters of the Most High. Each and one of us are extremely precious to him! God wants to give us the greatest happiness and joy that doesn't compare to what the world provides. God is the only one who can fill the void that we have in our hearts. God loves us far beyond measure! God wants a relationship with us! He wants to be our best friend! We simply have to be open and let him into our lives.
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Psalm 147:3
"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10
I love you, and God loves you so much more!! Have a wonderful day :)
Dude living in the present is so hard, but when you actually do, it's fun. Goddamn fun.
winnie the pooh quote that always hits
Dude is a fresh breath of air on internet. Not a follower, not a leader, just a sage with his own ideology and who is the beacon of his own life. I immediately subscribed as this guy hits home
thank you. i mean i do have "leader" (in quote marks) in my bio haha.
Yea everyone lives their own life. and ive stopped tryna control others because in the end thats what will control you.
watch my other content it'll help you out (especially the latest video)
Hi there! Jesus says to you today: "Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." -Matthew 11:28
May God bless you! 😊
I also recommend you Jak Piggott. He's also this type of content and he's relaxing to listen to
@@clementbarrieu oh yea Jak Piggott himself commented on my uncomfortable exercise video lol
Very Buddha-like sentiments from this video, i had similar outlooks when i was in my last two years of high school and felt great until basically being forced to enter the life of a workforce pawn. This was a good reminder of my original plans for myself.
"Time spent having fun is not time wasted, time spent doing things you love is time well spent."
Wise words.
At night I panic just thinking that one day Im going to lose everything because of death so I scroll on TikTok to cope. But this video really did change how I feel about life
Don't fear death, my friend, turn to Jesus.
@@lapisFarmAmen Brother✝️❤️
Same bro I get scared of how short of a time I have left before everyone leaves us
Don't fear death. What's most likely to happen is that in the end, you'll return to how things were before you were born. Just... Nothing. No consciousness to think, and so, no suffering. You won't even know it happened. So, instead of fearing it and letting your panic get the better of you, take a deep breath, and enjoy things in the moment. Live for the experiences, for the people, for the places. For the joy. That's what makes it all worth it.
I find it helps to refuse belief in an afterlife as well. This is the only life we have, which is why it's worth living. You only have one life to live, so live it well, just for the sake of living.
@@Arcanilumia Just Nothing ? u might want to seek for more info my friend
Think about the fact that this comment will be cemented in history. Forever. Isn't that just crazy? People may think once you're gone you're gone but a simple TH-cam comment can give you a footprint that will last forever, no matter how obscure it is, someone will find it one day
damn, crazy aint it
Until, TH-cam deletes your account.
well said, this video made me start overthinking at 3 am
Beautiful insights!
A German author, Erich Kästner, wrote: "Only those who grow up and remain a child are human."
My mom liked to quote that. Now 53, at the top of my list of important things is to do exactly that, or better yet, to stay that way. Living in the moment opens your heart and vice versa. I wish you the best of luck on your journey. No matter how rocky it gets, never forget how to laugh at yourself and your heart will keep its wings.
Thanks for sharing!
@@atomiumjae A pleasure. I wish I would have been half as wise as you at your age.
I'm 38 and this video is something everyone should watch.
damn I’m legit less than half your age
would like to chat with you, do you have a discord? Mine is @atomiumjae
When you're 20 yrs. old, 40 seems so far away, now look at us; 1 (me) and 2 yrs (you) away from 40!
@@atomiumjae are you 19?
Absolutely agree. I'm 38, and i spent most of my life in survival mode from trauma, too scared to try things, always telling myself i'd do it tomorrow (endlessly) so it never actually got done. I've wasted probably a good 20 years of my life. I'm married with kids now, bought my own home (which is exactly the goal i wanted for myself) but part of me still feels empty and unfulfilled. Not because of my family, they are amazing and bring joy to my world every single day. It's the impending thought that death comes for all of us, and I wasted so much time and only got maybe to 15% of my full potential. The silver lining is that I still have time, and that's the only thing that keeps me sane, but there's something that weighs heavy about knowing you could have been so much better, had you actually applied yourself rather than escaping life playing video games, partying, or scrolling TH-cam mindlessly. If you are young and reading this, please heed my warning... pushing things to the next day is always going to leave you unhappy. In some scenarios it might even leave you with immense guilt. My dad and I's relationship wasn't too good, and on one particular day I thought I should call him, but the procrastinator in me was playing some video games, and I told myself i'd finish my game and call him after. I never did call him that night, and the next morning my sister called me saying he passed away. This absolutely crushed me, but there's some good to this. I know make it a MUST every single day to let my wife know how much i love and appreciate her. She receives it very well and me being forced to come to face with my past failures made me learn to never ever mess up like that again. I now show gratefulness and appreciation for the things I do have, and am still working on fixing my mindset of not thinking about the past in the sense of "things I shoulda had, had i tried harder" as that's a road that just brings misery.
@@lighting4001 he's 16, it says so in his bio
The TH-cam algorithm is scary. I'm gonna be an adult soon and there are so many regrets I have. I feel like I didn't get to spend my childhood how I wanted because of studies and insecurities. This video did really change my views on life and how I should cherish the time I have because I still have time. Thanks, I really needed this. ❤
This will not happen suddenly. The number will change. You're changing smoothly, so you're adapting.
As a Palestinian supporter this guy is teaching atheism and yall being emotional to him is insane😂
When life goes bad
Really fucking bad
You lost job
Your wife left you wit the kids
And you siting there…what will you do? You have debt you have a boring job no friends and probably addicted to some bad things
You. are. in a downward spiral
What will think about?
What will keep you going search atheists death by unal¡ving themselves theres no one worst than that there is the devil you will actually meet him and believe he’s real
But worst if you don’t believe in god you did very bad things
But if you trust god seriously just trust allah he’ll make whole he will make you better
We are same ❤
@@NIGHEGNFERBBC3522what? Has he said stuff about Palestine? What does this have to do with anything brother
Let me share my experience.
I’m 32 and I’ve heard the same“seize the day” type of advice many times and tried to practice.
What I learned from this is, this mindset can easily burn you out.
I tried to maximize my productivity, set my goals clearly and go like an unstoppable train.
I started churning out what my emotions want to do to achieve what rationality tells me. No doom scrolling, yes to practice and act effectively.
It looks so right, but I constantly suppressed inner conflict between emotion and rationality. Mental war rages in me everyday, everywhere.
Often I “win” and it gives some satisfaction, but I
was never able to stop the fight.
Eventually I got so tired that I felt like my dreams are no more fascinating and therefore useless. I lost passion and became numb. The habit of doom scrolling came back gradually.
After some time, I realized I can’t keep negating my unproductive emotions anymore. No matter how stupid it is, what I want is uncontrollable. Shame on me, but this is the reality I face.
So I let it go. But it was the time I started to recover.
The more time I spent unproductively, the more I can feel right. My brain started working again. Also I regained the interest for my dreams.
I still do scrolling mindlessly (so I find this video haha), yet I feel like I lead my life naturally.
TL;DR: don’t neglect your emotion to stop wasting your time. It will hurt you.
True you can't be on top 100% of the time
this was well spent five minutes, thank you.
Dude I can't believe how much information I actually learned in theese 5 minutes "Time spent having fun is not time wasted" thank you so much dude I needed that I really did
4:50 "Many people die wishing they'd chase their dreams, spent time with their loved ones, or fulfilled their purpose... I don't want that to be you." I think this video might actually change my life. I cannot state how much this has changed my mindset. Thank you.
“Then we will all just feel nothing”
I’d like to believe from watching so many NDE’s is one main shared experience and that is that when we go, it’s not a feeling of “nothing” but the biggest feeling of unconditional love beyond human words, feelings and expressions. It’s the complete opposite of “nothing”.
I do remember the last 2 shorts I watched. It on business coaching to do what want to do in life, not something that I feel like I ‘have’ to do to make money or waste my life away.
This. Exactly this is the type of content is what I pay my internet bills for❤ Thankyou for making this video buddy❤
np man, watch more of my videos yea
that last part was literally what i think of so often but i never want to actually tell my parents about anything like that
I am a young teen watching this, and my dad passed away in 2017. I wish he lived for even just a few more years, because although I know I would still be sad now, I would have more memories with him. The only thing I remember was his last vacation in the summer before he died, I don't remember anything else, even if I try really hard. And he wasn't around for half the trip because he was going to car auctions because he loved cars, he rarely went with us to the amusement park we were there to go to. He spent the last friday that we were there at the amusement park, and all i remember from that trip was walking on the sidewalk with him to a bakery in the morning and going on one of the rides at the amusement park with him. This trip wasn't even a happy trip either, he was drinking a lot (the cause of his passing), but I didn't know that. To have only one memory with your father is very sad. My message to any teenagers out there seeing this comment that are always like "mom, drop me off over here, i don't want them to see"; your life is too short for that, your parents life is too short for that, yes, your parents may be alive today, but you don't know what will happen. You never know how much time you have left with your loved ones. So, please, just let your mom drop you off and don't give a crap who sees. Nobody is ever going to remember that, because it's not important for them to remember it, it's not a problem. If you play video games a lot, set them aside for a bit each day and spend time with your family. The video games will not stop being there, they won't vanish. You may want to stay on the games now, but later on you'll regret not spending more time with your family, and you won't even remember playing those video games, or scrolling through TikTok, so please, go spend some time with your family. I know how it feels to get time cut short with someone. Make the most of the time you have with them, please.
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Thanks bro, and you can message me @atomiumjae on discord for a chat
“It’s tempting to linger in this moment, while every possibility still exists. But unless they are collapsed by an observer, they will never be more than possibilities.” - Solanum, Outer Wilds
Thank you, this was one of my favourite quotes, and I forgot it without realising it
Well said man, you never know when you are going to die, the least one can do is to leave all that and have fun, people say if you study/work hard for 20-30 years you will have the other 50 years full of fun, but even though it is the bitter truth, we can’t take our “time” for granted, we never know what may happen to us or what change of events will take place, just like you said, we need to have fun in our present, those are one’s memories, those small things in life make you feel how big your life was and how fun it was
If you watch until the end, I promise your viewpoint on life WILL change.
Screw liking or subscribing, just share this video so more people get this message. Thank you.
(also you can msg me @atomiumjae on discord, as of right now my friend links are open)
Reverse psychology?
@@Juno725 no, if I wanted likes and subscribers I would be making way more shorts
I invite you to read concept of death in the light of Quran
@@Juno725 if you're trying to find an ulterior motive behind every nice TH-cam video, it may be a sign that you're watching too either too many negative critique/expose videos/you're watching too many youtubers that do so and being around negativity isn't good as it warps the world view unless you balance it with videos like these.
- not that it's wrong to want likes/subscribers Because that just spreads message without sharing too + you can afford to make videos = it's smart & not an issue given that you're not after just money & pretty sure people that want views also want it so they can afford to keep doing what they do.
-If people look at things as black & white without nuances that can mean low attention span causing them to be lazy with deep thinking & wanting to make faster & easy decisions.
@@kizryuver yep
I’m 35 and this just hit way too hard how accurate the holiday analogy is. The things you do or don’t do will form who you become.
3:23 „Time spent having fun is not time wasted.” 👌
0:19 Bro, this is the exact same thoughts I have been thinking a lot, especially at night time when I go to sleep. I ve been having panic attacks at night, sometimes i cried until I fall sleep. I dont know what to do, except try not to think about it, Im always using my cellphone to distract myself, sometimes staying awake until 4am when my body just collapses for how tired it is. Never found a video that talks exactly what Ive been thinking until now. It felt nice to know that Im not alone. Im almost 22 (birthday is in july 5) so I don´t know if Im your target audience, but still thank you. Greetings from Peru, Paddington's new adventure (Yay!)
Happy early birthday! It’s July 3 for me so it’s almost July 5.
Happy birthday for the 5th bro, it's now the 18th (from the UK)!
Happy belated birthday bro! I hope you get some rest, sleeping is important :)
No te preocupes demasiado que vas a estar bien, amigo
I hope you can talk to someone you trust about this. It's the kind of thing that a lot of people think about, but if it's consuming your life, you deserve to get some extra support. I know it's not always easy, but for me making sure that I did things that I found enriching in my day, and planning my time so that I lived with purpose (even if I was too tired and I could only plan playing video games or watching TV - resting is good for you, and longer absorbing activities are better for your brain and sense of self than a lot of the short form content you get on the internet these days) distracted me from nastier thoughts, and brought my brain back to good things. I'm rarely kept awake by my thoughts spiralling these days (I also use a sleep podcast or familiar quiet music if I am caught in a spiral). I hope you get some peaceful sleep :~)
- Helen in Australia
@@helenm1085 This, about filling your life with more engaging things, is so important. I think this is absolutely the best way to combat these sorts of thoughts, to fill your life with other things that you end up really spending time to think about instead. But, even in the event that you can't, due to circumstances for example, you are still never powerless.
I personally also struggled with existential dread, and panic attacks because of that dread, every night for years as a teen. I was very sick and isolated, but I also just got so sick of that fear, I had to do something. I got sick of distracting myself all the time. I wanted life within my own headspace to not feel so terrifying all the time, and figure out how to confront these thoughts directly so that they could no longer have that power over me.
So...to do this, I turned to my self-talk. If you tell yourself something enough times, you will start to believe it. This is very personal, of course, so you have to figure out what feels most comforting to you. I started telling myself every night things that I find to be comforting related to death and existence. What has helped me most personally is to tell myself that existential dread is simply proof that I do not need to understand existence, or that I am not meant to, and this allows me to come up with my own reasons for existence, and my own purpose. Over time, I began to experience that I suddenly had much more control over my train of thought than before, able to redirect my thoughts away from that fear in a way I had never experienced before...because days of telling myself that became months became years, and I truly began to believe it was true.
I am no longer sick and isolated as I was, and am generally in a much better place. I still have to tell myself this every night to this day regardless. The ways my life has become richer all help occupy my mind, but even then every once in a while I still have moments of panic. And I have other somewhat odd triggers, such as that I can't even read or think about outer space because the idea of how small I am in such a vast universe brings me so much terror. I experience derealization due to the trauma of that isolation and that makes it even worse. But, again...that self-talk, which I have now been doing every night for about 6 years, makes it all seem so insignificant to my life in general. I am now very quickly able to ground myself as a result even when I do slip back into panic. Hope this all makes sense, tried not to ramble too much 😅 About distraction, I think it is still a more than valid (and often necessary) coping mechanism, but in my own experiences here, to always constantly attempt to distract rather than confront and redirect can end up backfiring, in which case I believe changing one's own mind in this way becomes a very useful tool.
this is the video i needed to see right now and i thank you for that. i hope i get to meet you one day in the future, and have a conversation about this video and the effect it will have had on me.
until then, let’s stay present 🙏❤️🔥
“Enjoy your worries, because you may never have them again” is a song I really like. I feel like it’s fitting here
I ain't gonna be on my deathbed wishing I didn't play more video games. I enjoy them, most of the time, but when I don't I stop playing. It's okay to have things you do for leisure, as he said time enjoyed is not time wasted. Just be less judgemental of yourself, you can either look at it as I played this game for 1000 hours, what a waste, but usually when you look back you remember the fun times you had playing, you can also look at it as you spent 1000 hours enjoying yourself and having fun. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that
yea the problem is for a lot of people (including me) we barely remember any of the hours we spent. Like the video said, time spent having fun is not time wasted
You made me laugh, get teary-eyed, feel relieved, reflect on myself and inspired me in a 5 minute time span. Thank you for your words.
damn, thanks man. Watch my other videos too yea
Thanks for this. I’m in my 20s and this helped a lot. When I’m depressed I’m gonna watch it. Such a simple concept communicated so effectively
Im 23 and I definetly wish I'd put more effort in my studies, I've still passed and succeded but not nearly to my fullest potential, additionally having fun is definetly not time wasted and you should use the advantage of youth to discover your passions, Interests and make as many great memories as you can. 😊 because when you look back and think of the life you've lived you will be satisfied when you remember the wonderful memories you have made you will feel better in the present its a beautiful mood booster and I say this from experience.
Also as someone with a very small group of friends who all live long distance, don't be scared to go out and have fun by yourself. Take yourself out ,explore the world (your corner of it at least) and live life actively. When you do meet up with your closest friends make the most of it.
yes, but trust me when you do find friends who you truly fw, you will be so much happier
I read Marcus Aurelius meditations, and it focused a lot on the topic of death. Its actually surreal to think that there will be a last time for everything; a last time to argue, a last time to forgive, and a last time to hug... I have recently been appreciating life gifts more, and Im glad for all the things I have. Life is just a mere flux of time... a visit in a strange land.
Nice video! I remember I was 22 when I thought I was gonna die that one night in June, and I was like so this is it?
My body was paralyzed, my head aches as my vision kept spinning, and I was struggling to breathe. Memories flashed through my mind in an instant, and all of it was how I take life too seriously. I realized I hadn't enjoyed my time in elementary, high school, and college because I was too focused on grades and achievements to make my parents proud. In college, I experienced depression, and after graduation, I faced burnout which is why I choose a menial job despite graduating with honors. I missed out on enjoying my youth because I was so afraid of the future and worried about falling behind others.
I'm a woman and everyone is pressuring me to work hard as much as I can so I would have a good family. But that night I can't even control my body, I was crying and my mom is yelling at me to stop while massaging me. I felt alone and I told God that giving me a few more years will be a gift and I'll try to enjoy life. Right now I'm less anxious compared before 😂 Know to differentiate doing your best vs pushing yourself so hard
I like this saying that I found somewhere and it stuck with me, "Dance the dance of life."
Wow you're an awesome human being lil man, thank you for that reminder 💛💛
Really needed to hear that 💯
2:50 this hits hard
I lost a very close friend just over a month ago, and while I’m not one to focus on the past, but right now it’s practically unavoidable for me. I’ve promised myself that no matter what happens, I’d keep fighting until my very last breath. No matter what happens in my life, that’s the one promise I’ll keep. Even if it may be difficult, I try to live life to the fullest. Even if it may be difficult, I WILL continue, and I WILL challenge fate.
I needed this, I’m starting my junior year when the summer and I’ve drifted away from my friends, I’m scared because I want to look back on high school with good memories, and I want to meet people, I need to step out of my comfort zone
Nobody wants their gravestone to read "if I had only scrolled more."
0:26 "I won't just wake up in the *morning* for forever". That is true for me even if I don't die.
And here I am and a lot of other people who either actively think about wanting not to exist or wouldn't mind dying. It feels comforting in a sense, but it also sucks so many of us are in a dark place.
I also take glee in knowing that also the evil and powerful people will die someday :D love nature, it rules us all
Wow, I feel ya there bud
you deserved a subscriber. this really is changing my life.
Im not scared of dying, im scared that my loved one dies. the only thing that i would be sad about when i'll die, is that my loved ones will cry about my death.
Im not a teen, Im 27 already thanks for this vid brother, rly appreciate it, u got a new subscriber 🙏
thank you bro, u can join my discord too
I needed to hear this. you pretty much just perfectly described what i've been feeling lately. thinking about death, stuck in the past, not living in the present. going to high school in a couple days and I needed to hear this advice. I'll live in the present, and appreciate the fun times.
np man, please just watch my other videos too yea
i started crying at this, honestly, you’re so right. thank you for this, because it genuinely made me reflect back on my childhood and made me realise i need to do things i enjoy more
Was dumped too weeks ago, working a dead end job, and in a degree where it won't guarantee me a job. I guess it isn't so bad, insightful and much needed. Thank you!
remember its not your fault, but its your responsibility. whats the alternative? rot away?
you can message me @atomiumjae on discord. you look like someone with lots of experience i can learn from bro. we can learn from each other
@@atomiumjaeRemember it’s not YOUR fault, but it’s YOUR responsibility. What’s the alternative? Rot away?
أنت صغير في العمر ولكنك تحمل الحكمة، شكراً لك كم أنا فخورة بوجود أمثالك في هذا العالم وبهذه العقلية في هذا العمر الصغير … أنا أبلغ من العمر 41 عاماً وسعيدة جدا لأني سمعتك… ❤❤❤
hey i just finished Ur vid and I just wanted to say how beautifully you have said your words, you're good at speaking. I hope you make more vids like this.im really happy I came across Ur channel
thanks bro, better content soon. U can msg me @atomiumjae on discord
this made me subscribe. that was truly inspiring and beautiful 💜
changed my perspective. Appeared on my homepage, thank you
It's not about you. It's about loving and helping others especially those in poverty :-)
🤎👍🏾!
This is brilliant. Thank you for your beautiful thoughts. I hope your 1.3 million viewers truly learn from this video, and not just teenagers, us middle-agers too.
thank YOU man, you can watch my other videos too yea
you can join my server if you wanna chat with me
This video is a SCAM, cause when i checked my calendar, it was still 2024 and not 2019. I'm very disappointed
When you see this comment like it please so I can come back and watch it again
Watch the video again
congrats on a million views bro! you deserve it
Getting this at midnight oml im gonna go to sleep in like half an hour or smth and then this video bro T°T
You are wise beyond your years. Thank you for that video.
I'm 25 years old, and I've known all of this since I was around 10 or 12 years old. I have always lived by the saying, "The nature of living is to live."
The purpose of humanity? For me, it is to live. Ever since I never wanted anything BIG or wanted to be someone BIG. Just enjoy and have fun. The phrase "enjoy the little things" is really corny, but it is one of the best pieces of advice I've heard as a child. I took it to heart.
I’m 37 now and I’m constantly struggling, feeling like I screwed up my life, like I’m not good enough… it’s brutal. Getting older is so difficult…
I'm only 13 and I've been overthinking death like this ever since I read the book "they both die at the end" by Adam Silvera. I try to spend my short time being young and on this earth in well ways but the soul-crushing reality of death is just always there in the background. I really do want to spend my time well, but it's hard when I'm so conscious of my time here that's it's so hard. Even though I know that its good to be intelligent like this especially for my age I find myself wishing I could just have the ignorance and bliss I had before back, even though I didn't get to experience it for that long. My anxiety and overthinking is going to get me someday, and I'm just trying to learn how to live with it until, eventually, I don't get to live anymore.
I personally am not religious, but I found that the book "The five people you meet in heaven" was actually a really interesting read that covers the same general topic as The both die at the end. You might like it, and it's surprisingly short.
great book 10/10 would recommend
As a Christian, I don't fear death because I know whoever repents and is baptized is saved. Mark 16 16
3:19 is what I really needed to hear. I’ve been thinking no about death a lot recently and wondering why haven’t I already ended it? Not in like a suicidal way, but feeling I have no difference or making any difference. Something that’s helped me a lot though is that it’s kinda a blessing we get to die. It’s also a blessing that we have no meaning either. Eventually these very earth will just explode and everything as we know it will be gone. Everything know and unknown would be left. Just pure. It makes you kinda have a choice on what your meaning is yk? I have no fucking difference no matter what so I mine as well do something fun. Express things that I love. Tbh I think this is the only video about death that has changed my perspective. Thank you for posting.
(Sorry for the yap)
"No more stress, no more worries, no more anxiety either. The only thing we will all feel is *nothing* ."
Maaan, that sounds so tempting.
Resist the call of the void;
Channel it into art.
Afflict the comfortable,
Comfort the afflicted.
Life sucks.
Ergo: commiserate.
Empathize.
Be a real _human being,_
Not a _human, doing._
Wanna be nothing?
Start by *doing* nothing.
(And may God bless your time well-spent.)
Enjoy life whilst it lasts
Been enjoying life recently, spending more time as best as i could with my broken family, get out of the cage holding me back for years, just be a better me, ofc those numbing stuff always slip into my mind but hey im happier now, thank you for your kind words, wish ya all doing great your self, enjoy the ride! 😆
You didn't make me waste time
You made me realize the truth
Thank you man, I'm subbing
John 11:25 NKJV
[25] Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live.
Good advice man! That's why I love being Muslim, because we believe that once this life end another will immediately start, so wok hard, be kind and win both lifes 😉
Hearing this coming from such a young mind instills hope in my young adult heart. Thank YOU. From YOU in the future
0:51 -- "The only thing we will all feel is nothing" -- This is not true, my friend. For those who are saved in Jesus Christ they will have eternal life. Those who are not saved will be eternally separated from God where there will be much weeping. I urge you to listen to the words of Jesus for 5 minutes and you could get more than 5 years of your life back... You''ll get eternity.
“For this is how God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. God sent his Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through him. “There is no judgment against anyone who believes in him. But anyone who does not believe in him has already been judged for not believing in God’s one and only Son." - John 3:16-18
I do believe in a higher being, it’s just that for what we know we only have one life on this earth
yeah, it really does suck we're going to die one day. so that's why we have to relish the time we have left, and not cry for the inevitable, but rather accept it and learn to live happily anyways. time is precious, after all
Hey Jae I saw you comment on one of my videos and saw someone reply saying you made some yourself, I just watched this and man. Needed this today, hope you are doing well❤️
yo did not expect to see you here, thank you so much man. I've been watching you for easily a year, and now that i quit cr and have less time i dont watch every single one, but I appreciate you man for always having smth for us.
I'm not usually this deep or like philosopher sounding, but i guess a lot of people liked this one
wonder what you think of my channel man, my goal with it is to help inspire my generation (like Jak Piggott) and retire my mom
@@atomiumjae retiring mom is a dream for everyone for sure, looks like we have the same one :)
I've always thought about this stuff too, currently 27, I've always struggled to get the grasp the idea of the present and how each moment instantly becomes the past and even as I write this comment I will then upload it and then it is in the past and I can never be in that specific moment again and as you finish reading this comment it is now in the past.
Not to self project, but the holiday metaphor isn't the best example for everyone. The point of going on a vacation is to relax, not to see shit, not to fit as many tourist spots, it's to relax. We seem to think that life is about fitting as much experiences as possible, but this doesn’t garunteed anything. Personally, just do what you want. Scroll in the hotel if that's what you want. Realizing how much time you have is the true need to a better life
Believe in the Lord....
The past is indefinitely definite and the future is infinite in possibilities, so instead of wishing you had done things differently or stressing about what comes next, live in the moment, let yourself be happy, leave your anxiety behind you and be excited for what is ahead of you.
Thank you. I needed this
just turned 14 and i can say its one of the toughest parts of my life i feel so lonely yet i do have a good pal but i feel depressed for some reason
Well said 👏, u have prob saved 5 years of my life
The fact that you acknowledge the reality of death and what it truly means and how imminent it is is the right start. It's something that modern culture and social norms tend to supress either conciously or unconciously. Understanding that this means we have to seize the moment and ponder what's genuinely important to us in life is a step in the right direction. But it's not the ultimate conclusion to this idea. The fact is that even if one were to theoretically live a perfect life, the life would last for an utmost maximum of 130 years, while what comes after the life is infinite. Not a million years, not a billion years, infinite. Infinity is something the human mind can't even actually grasp, yet it's what follows death. So, no matter what your position or worldview is, the obvious conclusion is that however important it is to seriously search for answers regarding this temporary period, it's even more important to search for answers regarding the eternal period. I would say to search like your life depends on it, but that's not even accurate-a whole lot more than just your life depends on it.
You are a fucking genius. Don't let anyone tell you that you aren't one. Love you brother!
never thought a guy with an amogus pfp in 2024 could make my day with nothing more than a simple comment
Thanks for making this video. I needed to see this. I didn’t search for it tho it just appeared on my feed right when I needed the most❤
What amazing timing for this video. I needed to hear this and going through the comments and reading everyone's feelings and stories has really made me feel seen.
I gotta say man, I got really absorbed into your video. So much so that I didn't notice the time go by... Which I guess is poetic in a way. I understand what you mean. Thank you.
This video made me grateful to be here, I as well as others appreciate your advice and perspective of life. This has given me a lot to think about and I have you to thank. Thank you and I hope your doing well and continue to enjoy life and love yourself!!!
np man, just watch more of my videos yea :)
I just turned 40 dude. When I was your age, I didn’t think about all the things you mentioned. Heck, I don’t think about stuff like that today. But I applaud you for sharing your thoughts. Be well, you’re doing fine and you *will* be fine.
I needed this. I was recently thinking what is the point of life. Not in a bad way but genuinely questioning it. Then this video comes up and I think it’s god trying to tell me that I need to use my time as much as possible
np man, just watch more of my videos yea
how did you get so smart, bro? thanks for this reminder. also, this comment section is full of beautiful, intelligent people and it's been awesome reading their thoughts.
Powerful video, you just earned yourself a new subscriber. Thank you so much for going out of your way to get this message out🫶
np man, just watch more of my videos yea
*TOP 5 REGRETS OF THE DYING.*
1. "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me."
2. "I wish I hadn't worked so hard."
3. "I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings."
4. "I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends."
5. "I wish that I had let myself be happier."
Thanks, Harry Potter
yeah because at that moment, their survival skills have failed them and wished like fools to not have bothered with them at all
the truth is, hating yourself will build enough character to take the world on
@@ceoofselfish huh? im sorry im having a stroke reading this help💀
@@skippy4905 _Avada kedavra,_ brother
@@ceoofselfish This isn't about their survival skills failing them. This is different for every individual especially for those individuals who had very un-supportive parents for their dreams. My mom is a bit more supportive than my dad in terms of me wanting to follow my dreams. And my dad is def. supportive to some level, but an example is that he never once allowed me to pursure the creative arts fields when I went to community college. I *easily* could have pursued various careers within the entertainment industry and nope, he didn't support me taking music courses and things like that-creative course I know for a fact that I *would* have succeeded in.
I did succeed in other courses, but not the ones that could have gotten me super far in life. I will never stop loving music let alone singing, but I def. get super shy when it comes to singing. Both parents and friends alike need to learn how to say things that can actually help those they care about. I prob. took this too deeply, but I'll never forget when my dad told me this: "Photography is a really hard industry to get into right now,"-he knows I def. have the skills for that, but that statement alone-what will that do to one's mentality? For some, it makes them take major action and pursue it further, but for others like myself, it's literally just another "dream" that gets shut down tbh. My family might not agree w/my decisions, but the least they can do is at least Trust me and Support me...idk abt the trust part, but I feel like I don't have the support I need in regards to things like that. My original pursuit was going to be something to do w/Science until my dad made me drop a course back in high school-and yes, ik I'm dwelling on the past which can't be changed now since I was totally pushed towards creative arts fields instead & creative arts is expansive.
"Days might be long but decades are short "
well said
what
Attachment to anything will make people suffer whether mental or physically health
Very true
👍👍
"Time spent having fun is not time wasted" thank you for this.
but sadly just playing games or having fun doesnt give you money
@@Sneaky_racoon_sly its not always about the money. memories and experiences will always be much more valuable than money
@@nemrichu7290 i know but like i said. you have to pay your bills and just having fun is not working
@@Sneaky_racoon_slyHow vapid of you
@@nemrichu7290so by what you are saying, we need memories and experiences to live and survive in this world? Seems a bit lame for me.
I hate how I only ever find inspirational videos like these at 2am when the best thing I can do for myself is go to sleep
Real it’s like 2:23 am I can’t process all this rn
save to watch later and watch ....... later 😊
Sleep and wake up to remember it thru the day appreciate it and take it as your starting morning thought
REAL
@@Skittle_editz75703:10am lol
"I assume you're a young teen if you're watching this"
me, 22: yea...
I'll be 32 this year ~~
and me here with 33? :T
24 over here lol
me 51 😉
I'm actually 35 years old :P So I was shocked when he said, "you're 35" xD hehe
i'm not a young teen, i'm 32 and i just felt like a kid watching a young teen telling me shit i always forget
thank you bro
thank YOU
Same am 35. I used to think about death a lot as a teen. And even now. But I figured the best way to prepare for death is by living and enjoying as much as possible.
lllpp@@NightinGal89
@@NightinGal89 death doesn't have to be the end. atleast we Muslims don't believe so. Maybe try looking into the Quran? you never know maybe the answers you're looking for are there.
@@cozycoffee953what about the people who belief in reincarnation? (And no I’m not referring to Hinduism where people are reborn as animals). More like starting over into another life with another family. Just the past life memory’s are gone.
"Ask yourself at every moment, 'Is this necessary?' " - Marcus Aurelius
Update: This quote may mean many different things to different people, to me, it's simply this: Is what you're doing "right now" good for you/for other people? Is what you're doing rn making you a better person than yesterday? If not, it's unnecessary.
Thank you for the likes
yep
What if you don't know the answer
@@coolboysgaming307 then question yourself will this matter in next 5-10 years ?
plz don't say this while im studying for my physics exam
@@Syeda_Fizzah_Azeem It does affect your tomorrow
I actually NEEDED this video. I've been having thoughts of death as well. I want to try to have fun in life. I want to try to make every second worth it.
My P.E teacher used to always lecture my class and tell us to "live like tomorrow is your last day". I should have taken his words seriously. now I will.
thank you man, watch more yea
this would now prompt me to ask myself everytime
“is this time well spent?”
yep, go ask yourself that
you’re pretty @CheasterSeville
@@atomiumjae Easy crippling anxiety to only achieve and never relax unlocked
@@ConeTheBoss559 already got that unlocked because I know I'm wasting my time but my issues don't help me with changing that in a second :')
I always ask myself that, yet I always don’t answer it properly
(Aka idk’s/this feels like wasting time/I should do something more productive/this feels repetitive)