How Men Play Dumb And Win

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  • @marya3823
    @marya3823 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Waiting till marriage can help you get to know a man on a deeper level. Celibacy is wonderful! It can help weed out those males that are not serious.

    • @kameshiam1674
      @kameshiam1674 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Marriage is when my ex husband's mask slipped.

    • @July-ola
      @July-ola 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kameshiam1674mine too.

  • @RacilleAshley-sf7yv
    @RacilleAshley-sf7yv 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Men are VERY smart.

  • @smores8982
    @smores8982 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I can attest to some men playing dumb. One of my exes played dumb. In hindsight he was very cunning and strategic. Again, this is not all men - so be discerning. And run from men who refer to women as “females”

  • @GenChanger
    @GenChanger 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Great video! Women are very egotistical indeed and try to control another person's will. Impossible. A man even wrote the book- "He's Just Not That Into You" . Yet, women refuse to acknowledge and accept the obvious truth and sometimes waste years.
    The ego leads to a lot of delusional thinking and self-abandoning actions. Men are great at looking out for their own best interests, looking out for number 1. Do the same and stop saying men are stupid when their words and actions are saying they don't care about you or want what you want. Vote with your feet - walk away. Simple.

  • @InspiringYoungLady
    @InspiringYoungLady 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I rarely wish I could like a live several times ✨️🙏🏾

  • @yudollia
    @yudollia 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    An invaluable video. Thank you

  • @wanjikukariuki285
    @wanjikukariuki285 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Chengi giving the game ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

    • @wanjikukariuki285
      @wanjikukariuki285 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The next park date I’m thinking of wearing heels 😂

  • @Litthrudarkness
    @Litthrudarkness 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I LOVE the all of a sudden

  • @Love_Lacie
    @Love_Lacie 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I looooooove love love love when you address the heterosexual dynamic in the US. ✨💕

  • @RacilleAshley-sf7yv
    @RacilleAshley-sf7yv 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I AM CELIBATE AND ABSTINENCE, I'm thinking about becoming a nun.
    But I am very HAPPY! I SEE how some WOMEN , do not know, what to do , or who to turn to. Their whole existence i noticed is about A. MAN. Some, woman, have SO MANY Problems, and are unhappy and depressed.and sad.and overworked, like a maid . some women, ARE treated Good by a man, but that's only some.
    It's a game. A mind game.

  • @moniq7777
    @moniq7777 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Forget the backlash! We need that one😂😅

  • @hope-miracles
    @hope-miracles 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mama swan id love a video about cross cultural dating. I finally decided to give it a try & im learning so much about myself & ways in which I had my own blockages & fears about who I thought was attracted to me in a genuine way. Finally opening myself up & listening with my heart & not just my eyes. Would love to hear your perspective on being assertive not aggressive as a black woman dating cross culturally. 🥰🌎🎉

  • @PumpkinpieTam19
    @PumpkinpieTam19 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Excellent teaching

  • @Hazel007
    @Hazel007 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    A class act as always sis ❤

  • @UgoUgolaice
    @UgoUgolaice 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you ma'am, wonderful vid.
    But some of us still do it for ourselves. If he likes it, it's a plus. I personally dress up and make up going no where ( staying at home )

  • @annywalessa6433
    @annywalessa6433 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Chengi. I just love your playful yet insightful delivery😊
    Chuckled @ 24:05 and 46:22 😅😅

  • @July-ola
    @July-ola 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good points, but I recommend writing out your thoughts before filming. It will make the videos shorter and more concise, and much more watchable.

  • @ruthkaunda3343
    @ruthkaunda3343 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @angel33333333
    @angel33333333 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What’s the consequences or standard for a man who asked to see you ( not necessarily a date explicitly) but suggested a time and location and date ( you accepted ) but since his date was a bit last minute ( a week before) you suggested a date for a month in advance ( clearly set) and he accepted. But 2 days before the meet up : hang out .. he says “ hey what about we don’t hang out Saturday and , not the week after or week after but x day “ and you say sounds good but … are kind of annoyed he knew one month ahead… and then 3 weeks later he’s asks what ur doing on Saturday and this time you say Saturdays not a good date and don’t offer a counter day. Is that enough ? What are consequences for my scenario?????

  • @davidcorbett7041
    @davidcorbett7041 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Huh watcha talkin bout 😂

  • @RacilleAshley-sf7yv
    @RacilleAshley-sf7yv 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    They GET you, in the END.

  • @RacilleAshley-sf7yv
    @RacilleAshley-sf7yv 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    THERE ARE DECENT MEN OUT THERE!!!
    SOME. WHERE.

    • @MzzTPC
      @MzzTPC 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂

    • @WildAntics13
      @WildAntics13 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Where ? In hell?

    • @July-ola
      @July-ola 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      In heaven and his name is Jesus

    • @MzzTPC
      @MzzTPC 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @July-ola 🤣🤣🤣

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your talking about worldly men. Godly, righteous men don't do this.

  • @briannamcspadden
    @briannamcspadden 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’ve watched this 4x and get a new nugget EVERY TIME.
    Your relational IQ is OUTRAGEOUS 🤯
    I love that you can be posh, playful and alarmingly analytical - all in one video 💙💜🩷