I think the hookup for the washer and dryer are on the wall where the door could be so it wouldn’t work… I’m not 100% sure though. It would be a great idea if it could work 😊
I think it would be nice for that room to be big closet for the girls upstairs since it is on other side of the bathroom,or sitting room with t.v. Or office /studio
If Hannah gets a tiny home too, that room would suit Savannah. Then with Aurora downstairs near Evie, you could make the bedroom next to the laundry room into a spare bedroom. Then you have a room for your adult kids or other family to stay overnight.
I agree with the other comments. Since moving into the new house, I feel like the content has become more down-to-earth, similar to when I first started watching. I've always followed your journey, even after the move, but now I feel more connected and relatable to your content.
I have a suggestion for evie, i also have noise sensitivity. Something that helped me tremendously, even to get through graduation was loop ear plugs. They are small and you can attach a clip to the case so it doesn’t get lost. They are also a little discrete so nobody will point it out. I did have noise canceling headphones for like a shoot range but people would always point it out and it made me very anxious. But the loop earplugs look like earbuds for music. I wore them at graduation and it made the experience so much better. It filtered out the people talking around me. Even the popper they set off it didn’t even hurt my ears. I got the sleep ones because they filter out the most decibles but i take them everywhere. I put a little clip on it so i can attach it to my belt loop
They’re so great, they may be able to get a discount on multiple pairs if she likes them but still misplaces them despite the clips & stuff, as it’s really easy to lose them
@ true. They definitely are easily lost. Especially if you do take them everywhere. I’m super careful with mine because my anxiety has to constantly check make sure everything is there. Check everything before I even move. But it’s definitely easy to loose them. Or just one earplug falling o out of the case
Thank you for showing all the real life chaos and clutter. We just moved and it took us forever to settle things and put it all away. I feel like most vloggers just show the aesthetic part of life. It’s not real. lol. I appreciate it and that’s why I love watching your vlogs. Keep it crazy, crazy pieces. 😊
The beginning of this video really helped me a lot. My family is about to move from my childhood home and there is a lot of grieving and processing going on and realizing that home is where your family and love is has helped me so much.
I needed the growing pain speech. I quit my full time job after I had y son and became a stay at home mom. It has been by far the hardest and most rewarding job I’ve ever taken in. I love staying home with him and am so blessed to do it, but it has taken a major toll on my mental health. Going from working to staying home is a major change and is definitely giving growing pains. My focus is him and his well-being and for him to thrive, I know this is the best option. Thank you for your positive and uplifting mentality. I needed that reset today to remind myself of my goal and what’s most important.
I too stayed home for the forst year of my sons life. I enjoyed that time just me and him, but it did get lonely. I recommend finding your local mother and me things you can do. Library story time, music time, swim lessons, whatever it be. Go and get around other adults.
Thanks for explaining the room situation. I do understand it a lot better why which kid gets a certain room. I think it’s a great idea to move Aurora to Jamies room when she gets her tiny house so Savannah and Bella can still be next to eachother. I’m really excited to see how the sensory room will turn out!❤
But Aurora said in the first house video she didn't want to be in the basement. She may change her mind once she is use to the new house and not scared.
@ Yes, but Bella and Savannah may also not want to move to the basement. If someone has to go, I think Aurora may be the best option. I think Aurora would benefit from being next to Evie and the sensory room and in that way Bella and Savvanah van both stay upstairs and still be close/next to each other. I think since no one wants to move to the basement they need to look what’s best for everyone and I think this might be the best option
@@christinebaratta7117 Haha I was going to say to Kim, Aurora doesn't need sensory time, she never stops talking haha I mean that in the cutest way. That basement is cool though and has a kitchen. I thought the boys would be all over that.
I'm like Jaimie and Evie, I can't handle loud noises since I suffered my third concussion. I need peace and quiet too. Thank you for sharing how everyone got the room they received. You didn't have to but I know I saw some comments and people have so much to say about a situation they know nothing about. 😊
OH MY GOSH, do not apologize for the messy house, you're literally moving, things are going to be chaotic and second, don't apologize for how you guys choose to room decide your own home. Like that is so ridiculous that people who don't live in the actual house, want to judge for literally no reason. You guys are doing the best you can in this crazy situation right before Christmas, no less. I completely relate to not wanting to live in chaos and the stress and anxiety it can cause, but you'll get through it one day at a time. You've got this!
I completely agree 👍 I have read some chapters that I don’t agree with they seem kinda mean maybe they don’t want to sound like that but it’s the way I took it like they are trying to tell you how to give who what room it’s your house and your kids and I know that you’re going to do what is right for your family I would bet that these people don’t have as many children as you do and the compromise of everyone involved I love the new house it reminds me of St John’s You can have chickens again when the time is right for you guys I know you have so much to do and it will come together in a little while I wish I could come help you out but I live far away from you guys but it would be great to get away from the snow belt 😂
How exciting! I can’t imagine the stress of moving such a large family, but I see so much positive where you are now! ❤ So happy for you all! Hang in there Crystal!
Love the ideas you have for switching things around in the master bath. Removing the outdated tub and putting in a huge shower will be a huge upgrade to the cave shower. You also might still be able to put a tub in that shower space. The shower would be like a wetspace with a freestanding tub inside it against the back wall and showers next to it. It wouldnt have to be typical bathtub shape, you could do smaller circular soaking tub. Worth considering! Sometimes a soak is a welcome treat or helpful for muscle soreness, monthly cramps, cool soak with vinegar for sunburn or oatmeal for skin rash.
HINT In Hannah's room, you could change the lock to one that automatically locks when the door is closed. There are noise cancelling ear buds specifically made for autism with various modes; shift between Quiet, Experience and Engage modes to choose your volume in any setting.
Crystal, I am enjoying Hallie being in these videos. She is an absolute joy, so sweet, so mature. It's really nice to see her and I hope she continues to be in the videos. She greatly adds to the enjoyment of watching the videos! 💖
Crystal, deep breaths. You've only been in your new home for less than a week. This is your forever home. Take your time, and it'll get done. The kids all seem to love the new house.
The one time I got to redo my room as a teen my biggest regret was choosing is a double bed, so much space taken up in a small room! With a room like Luke and Jake it fits so well!
This home with all the acreage is wonderful. Of course it is messy because you just moved and you have a big family. I am so glad you found this house. I think it is great everyone felt it was home when they saw it. Your living room is much bigger than I thought it was. It will be fun to see how things change in your new home.
For sure there needs to be some clearing out. You can't downsize a house without downsizing your clothes and 'stuff'. Good luck. And good to see more Halie.
They're also best friends.. Aurora isn't a screaming 3-4 year old. She's 7 or 8 and knows better. Yeah I'm sure she'll still scream and stuff but not nearly as much as video game yelling
One more tiny house comment...while you are mapping out that area of the property you really really should factor in an extra building for storage and move out of extra paid storage elsewhere in town. What an unnecessary expense given the space offered by either house. Of course maybe the truth is you dont need so much stuff. But it's also true that your family seems to be in constant transition and don't need all the stuff you have at any one time. Please account for it into your new life.
When you close on the house- You should extended the hallway upstairs to make the Laundry Room Access easier. Then put a new wall up in that room, make it identical to Bella’s room. Make that bedroom separate access that way. I definitely agreed moving Aurora down to the basement next Evie. Savannah can have other room upstairs. Keep Hannah on the main floor! Make the basement toilet a female useable toilet.
Crystal, you're something else. So proud of you, I can't believe how much you accomplished(and your family too) in the last 4 weeks. LOVE the idea getting rid of the tub and putting in a glass shower and turning the other shower into Aaron's closet. He could have those bars in there that circulate his clothes too. Downsizing and minimizing is SO hard. I have been doing a little each yr since my momma passed away. I am getting there as like you, I cannot stand clutter or feeling trapped surrounded by things. Once you start I promise it will get easier and you will start loving all the room. Like Halie did yesterday, I took photos of all my things, including hundreds of pieces of paper with my music I wrote. Snap a photo and zapped them all through my shredder. Also, the less stuff you have laying around the less bugs you will have. Spiders and bedbugs love cardboard boxes(I'm a landlord so I know this) so the more boxes you get rid of the better. You never have to explain yourself who sleeps where and why. That's your personal business. I would love to see the front of your house but I understand why you do not show it. Maybe someday. And you're so lucky you're able to add the tiny homes to your property. Where I live you're not allowed right now, but they're trying to get it legal so we can.
I know Aurora doesn't mind other kids coming into her room to do laundry, but maybe once you own the house, you could remodel. Is there a possibility to make a doorway for the laundry in the hallway instead of Aurora's bedroom.
I think you should put a door on the laundry room from the hallway that way nobody has to go through the bedroom. Also I feel like aurora should be down in the basement as well. That makes more sense. But ultimately you should have put Jamie in the room aurora is in and then aurora in Jamie’s room so when Jamie moves out Savannah can just move into Jamie’s room so you don’t have to move 3 people around.
Surly, if you want to bring a family together, literally bring them together! 😅 The video of you all cooking together and then actually sitting together while you had dinner was beautiful! When my sons and I were living in a motel, then into a one bedroom apartment, we were in close proximity all of the time. When we moved into a 4 bedroom house, we were like a family of ducks. If I were in the kitchen, we ALL were in the kitchen. If I moved to the laundry room or living room, they followed. Thankfully, we are still very close. ❤
I appreciate your comment so much because at one time me and my two boys were living in an apartment where the kitchen and living space and bedroom space were one. Only the bathroom were separate. Those were the most joyful times. Lots of laughter and somehow I created a semi private space for each child. It was hard days but good ones. May your situation only gets better and more prosperous 💗
@cupcakesonrainydays Absolutely, and to you as well. We truly can learn to "make lemonade" in life when we think we don't have much. We are who we are because we struggled a time or two. 🩷
i know what you mean Crystal, we moved from an apt in NYC to my parents home (they passed away) in Ireland, and I can't get some things to fit. We didn't bring furniture, so this is just things. Things that need better organization and my bedroom is a mess and i can't stand it. but I have to say to myself things will fall into place soon, can't do the whole house in one day. One day at a time.
I feel the exact same way as Evie, loud noises are not good. I get to a certain time of night and I need to switch off from everything and everyone. The sensory room is awesome x
🌟Suggestion 4 Crystal!! You should wait on building Aurora’s large bed with the slide so that you don’t have to break it down and reassemble it for a 3rd time when she moves down to Jamie’s room when she gets her tiny house!!🥰👍🏼
Okay i actually love the downstairs idea I wasn’t sure at first as it’s smaller but now i see how Evies going to LOVE this. great for her needs. I am 20 and am on the spectrum and i would love this. This house is perfect good job Crystal it’s definitely got that homie vibe and its so fun!
Good morning Crazy pieces 🎉do not doubt that your life adventures will be amazing, take a deep breath because you and everyone around, you will conquer this new adventure Much love too all🫶
This is just my suggestion on what to do when some kids move into the casitas. I don't know if I would put Aurora next to Evie. Evie wanted quiet and Aurora can be loud. I think that's why Evie wanted her own room in the old house. I would leave Aurora where she is at now. Especially since she doesn't mind about the laundry room. I would move Logan or Brody to the room Jamie has now. If Hannah moves into one of the casitas, I would move Bella into that bedroom. Then Savannah could stay in the room their in now. Then if Bella ever moves out, Savannah could move into her room. And then Rylan or Liam could have their own room. Of course this would all happen in the future. I love the idea of the sensory area in the basement. The lounge area upstairs is nice. Aaron's idea of getting rid of the Jacuzzi is smart. The both of you didn't really like your shower anyway. And I can't see you using that tub anyway. I'm looking forward to future videos of all the changes. Excited for you all
Change is a good thing, I needed to hear that, especially how you explained that its ok to feel anxious when one has to change something. I am going through that now. I know it is needed that I move back to my home state, but the process has me jittery and anxious. Hearing you share your experience made me more calm and realized that I need to make this change to move forward. It is a part of growth for me and for what my goal;s are. Again Thank You so much Crystal and hugs to you and MErry Christmas to the family.
If Hannah goes to a tiny house as well, savannah should get that room and then use the laundry room as an office space or something like a computer room 😊
I think getting new furniture that fits your new style would help you feel better, right now even in your bedroom you have modern furniture which went great with your last house! However you did mention decorating the house more farm chic, so I think once you get the house situated and in your new style that fits your goals will make you feel more sure on the move! It’ll make it feel like home!
I love the new house and can't wait for all the plans to come to life. The children looks happy. This new chapter is huge for all of them. In a good way. Enjoy the process even though its hard work. ❤
I’m not sure what they’re called, but the fire escape areas. They’d looked great with murals. Or if that isn’t an option, maybe like a colour to mimic the sky. Love the house btw! ❤
You need to embrace the minimalist mindset. Own only what you use. If you use a lot of stuff, you will have a lot of stuff. If you use a little bit of stuff, you will have a little bit of stuff. Minimalism is not throwing everything out.
I don't think it is a wise idea to put 2 developmentally delayed kids in the basement after Jamie moves out. Aurora needs more supervision due to her other health needs and having no older kids downstairs with her is not safe. There are only egress windows down there if their only other exit is blocked.
i agree either way you crystal- i am decluttering and downsizing and i feel the frustrations. i am getting through stuff the best that i can, by myself. i have an autistic child and i agree with your safety concerns. we actually put hotel hasp on our doors that go outside, just to make sure my kiddo would not go out- he is not an eloper, at home, but he has at school or a store. i would ask aurora about getting a new “big girl bed”. let her pick out something new and sell the other one on the marketplace. i did this with my son and he was so excited to get a “big boy bed”. i love that you all are making the sacrifices for your family. i love the new house being smaller and you all getting to be closer again. it’s gonna be a great house once you own it and can make the changes you want. and as the big kids move out, you can make room changes. crystal- it will all come together. you have aaron, your mom and the kids to help declutter and downsize your possessions, you’ll get there.
Just an idea maybe give brody a space in the basement sensory room for building his legos if logan can basically shut him out of his own room if he is streaming then brody deserves a space for his fun stuff plus their room is kinda small an i didn't see much space for his lego desk.
Aurora would be out that door so fast! LoL Yes some of the rooms looked smaller but now they have more room than the old house. ❤ Such a great time to change and follow your dreams!!
Yep. Blessed home and it was made for you all. You can just tell. And add in the projects and it only gets better and better. Endless potential. God is GREAT!!
Crystal, thank you, thank you, thank you, for this video!! I was wondering how the room selection worked with so many kids and so many different personalities. I really enjoyed it and it all makes sense now! 💖
What is going to happen if one of the older kids wants to come home for a bit or Melinda and Scarlet want to stay the night? Have you thought of putting a sofas that turn into beds into some of the extra living spaces?
Crystal, just remember, Rome wasn't built in a day...take a deep breath... everything will work the way it was meant to be. I have a system for decluttering...I look at an item and if I haven't used it in 6 months, I get rid of it...also rotate your clothes between summer and winter. Pack away what you won't be wearing...
If any of the kids eventually moving into tiny homes feel cramped you could merge 2 tiny homes to make a slightly bigger space for them. If you have the space that is. I can't wait to see everything all set up! 😍
PLEASE hire Kylie to come do the sensory area. She would do such a fantastic job. I also feel like Kylie would have some really great ideas on how to best set up Evie's room with some sensory tools. It's such a small space, so really taking time to plan it out would be amazing. Looooove this house so much -- so much potential!!
@@bbumbleb she does have a side business where she is doing this same stuff for paying customers. Add those on top of her also decorating the Middles home for CHRISTmas, including each bedroom. Plus, she’s also been working on her own home, over the summer months. She’s been pretty busy, she said that in a recent video.
@bbumbleb she's kind of busy lol. Between renovations at her house and everything she does at her mom's she doesn't have any spare time. You don't ever see Crystal or anyone over at Kylies.
I love diffusers too but with animals quite a few essential oils are actually toxic for dogs and cats to inhale including lavender it can make them very sick unfortunately. I know you wont get the scent from it the same but pink Himalayan Salt Rock Lamps are really nice or if your insistant on essential oils they make essential oil necklaces or instead of lavender use the chamomile oil from plant therapy or young living thats one that is safe around your furbabies ❤
Crystal do not let people bother you about stupid stuff. The house belongs to you and Aaron people are just being plum stupid I’m sorry to say that but it’s the truth. Congratulations on your new home. I cannot wait to see what you and do to the house. Love you guys
Crystal it takes time to organize , you will be fine, understand how you feel , I also downsized when moving to Texas , miss my big house in Az. with so meny cabnets , change is hard , get a bx or two to sort out for donations, even if you did it before moving, when I moved on to my new smaller house , I too felt overwhelmed , take of yourself & try not stressing, this is a beautiful home 🎉😇🫶
You should get a sign for Jamie and Evies area that they can turn to say quiet zone or something so that the other kids know that’s when they need to be quiet in that area.
Slowly but surely everything will come together. Live watching your videos. I am excited to see what is to come, especially with what you will be doing with the mental health aspect. I am a huge supporter of mental health for all especially for the men. My some suffers and the stigma he gets is horrible. You are all so Amazing ❤❤
Crystal, I have to say if you get rid of the bath you will regret it, I'm not giving out but I went from a house with a bath to no bath at all and I miss my bath
it seems like savannah is always getting the “scraps”. never what she wanted. she said she would “hate” to be in a basement room so if she gets put in the basement that’s actually crazy. poor girl doesn’t even get a closet in her current room.
Great video Crystal and Halie. I love that you have ideas for everything. You are renting for now so I'm sure there are rules about what you can do till you close. But that gives you time to dream!!
How wonderful that Hallie has been so available and supportive for you. She's fun and adds a lot to the appeal. She is also very mature, calm and logical. Maybe there's a position for her in the family TH-cam business?
Your new home is cozy, but it looks sooo small, I miss your old home, I miss the kitchen, the two stairs, the front doors,😢😢, I can't wait to see your new home put all together, I love you guys 💋 God bless you all 🙏❤️
I love these types of videos where you explain everything. . I hope everyone who jumped to conclusions and had negative comments to give, are watching and feeling silly now.
I think you should it rent a container and put it in the back yard and use it as a storage until you decide what to do with..😊I'm having anxiety like you when things need to be done and messy 😮😢 You got this you are good on this one step at the time ❤🎉❤
I understand what Aaron is thinking about the master bathroom, but I will keep the shower where it is and have the extended closets where the bathtub is it could possibly work and then you’re still have a his side in her side closet and still have the big space of the bathroom
I was thinking if you're going to turn your shower into a closet, maybe think about having a stackable washer/dryer set in the corner if they fit since there's already a drain there so there will be about 3 landry rooms 🤔
SUGGESTION - once you buy the house, you should open a space for a door from the hallway so no one has to walk through the bedroom to do laundry
i also thought this that they can add a hall way in the room but then it would be smaller so on the outside it would make sense to close up the door
I would eventually just use the room as storage or a guest room
I think the hookup for the washer and dryer are on the wall where the door could be so it wouldn’t work… I’m not 100% sure though. It would be a great idea if it could work 😊
I think it would be nice for that room to be big closet for the girls upstairs since it is on other side of the bathroom,or sitting room with t.v. Or office /studio
Yes I agree , that's not hard
If Hannah gets a tiny home too, that room would suit Savannah. Then with Aurora downstairs near Evie, you could make the bedroom next to the laundry room into a spare bedroom. Then you have a room for your adult kids or other family to stay overnight.
I agree with the other comments. Since moving into the new house, I feel like the content has become more down-to-earth, similar to when I first started watching. I've always followed your journey, even after the move, but now I feel more connected and relatable to your content.
Love that Halie is spending so much time with you all. And such a big help.
all your kids should geta tiny home too.
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Love seeing Hallie as well
It's awesome that Evie is able to advocate for her needs
I have a suggestion for evie, i also have noise sensitivity. Something that helped me tremendously, even to get through graduation was loop ear plugs. They are small and you can attach a clip to the case so it doesn’t get lost. They are also a little discrete so nobody will point it out. I did have noise canceling headphones for like a shoot range but people would always point it out and it made me very anxious. But the loop earplugs look like earbuds for music. I wore them at graduation and it made the experience so much better. It filtered out the people talking around me. Even the popper they set off it didn’t even hurt my ears. I got the sleep ones because they filter out the most decibles but i take them everywhere. I put a little clip on it so i can attach it to my belt loop
They’re so great, they may be able to get a discount on multiple pairs if she likes them but still misplaces them despite the clips & stuff, as it’s really easy to lose them
@ true. They definitely are easily lost. Especially if you do take them everywhere. I’m super careful with mine because my anxiety has to constantly check make sure everything is there. Check everything before I even move. But it’s definitely easy to loose them. Or just one earplug falling o out of the case
Thank you for showing all the real life chaos and clutter. We just moved and it took us forever to settle things and put it all away. I feel like most vloggers just show the aesthetic part of life. It’s not real. lol. I appreciate it and that’s why I love watching your vlogs. Keep it crazy, crazy pieces. 😊
The beginning of this video really helped me a lot. My family is about to move from my childhood home and there is a lot of grieving and processing going on and realizing that home is where your family and love is has helped me so much.
I needed the growing pain speech. I quit my full time job after I had y son and became a stay at home mom. It has been by far the hardest and most rewarding job I’ve ever taken in.
I love staying home with him and am so blessed to do it, but it has taken a major toll on my mental health. Going from working to staying home is a major change and is definitely giving growing pains. My focus is him and his well-being and for him to thrive, I know this is the best option.
Thank you for your positive and uplifting mentality. I needed that reset today to remind myself of my goal and what’s most important.
I too stayed home for the forst year of my sons life. I enjoyed that time just me and him, but it did get lonely. I recommend finding your local mother and me things you can do. Library story time, music time, swim lessons, whatever it be. Go and get around other adults.
That bathroom configuration Aaron came up with is so perfect, great idea!
Thanks for explaining the room situation. I do understand it a lot better why which kid gets a certain room. I think it’s a great idea to move Aurora to Jamies room when she gets her tiny house so Savannah and Bella can still be next to eachother. I’m really excited to see how the sensory room will turn out!❤
But Aurora said in the first house video she didn't want to be in the basement. She may change her mind once she is use to the new house and not scared.
@ Yes, but Bella and Savannah may also not want to move to the basement. If someone has to go, I think Aurora may be the best option. I think Aurora would benefit from being next to Evie and the sensory room and in that way Bella and Savvanah van both stay upstairs and still be close/next to each other. I think since no one wants to move to the basement they need to look what’s best for everyone and I think this might be the best option
Yes but Evie likes her quite time and Aurora might not give her that wanting to play all the time.@@kimkuijpers
@@christinebaratta7117 Haha I was going to say to Kim, Aurora doesn't need sensory time, she never stops talking haha I mean that in the cutest way.
That basement is cool though and has a kitchen. I thought the boys would be all over that.
I'm like Jaimie and Evie, I can't handle loud noises since I suffered my third concussion. I need peace and quiet too. Thank you for sharing how everyone got the room they received. You didn't have to but I know I saw some comments and people have so much to say about a situation they know nothing about. 😊
OH MY GOSH, do not apologize for the messy house, you're literally moving, things are going to be chaotic and second, don't apologize for how you guys choose to room decide your own home. Like that is so ridiculous that people who don't live in the actual house, want to judge for literally no reason. You guys are doing the best you can in this crazy situation right before Christmas, no less. I completely relate to not wanting to live in chaos and the stress and anxiety it can cause, but you'll get through it one day at a time. You've got this!
I completely agree 👍 I have read some chapters that I don’t agree with they seem kinda mean maybe they don’t want to sound like that but it’s the way I took it like they are trying to tell you how to give who what room it’s your house and your kids and I know that you’re going to do what is right for your family I would bet that these people don’t have as many children as you do and the compromise of everyone involved I love the new house it reminds me of St John’s You can have chickens again when the time is right for you guys I know you have so much to do and it will come together in a little while I wish I could come help you out but I live far away from you guys but it would be great to get away from the snow belt 😂
Halie is being such a great support for you Crystal. I love that. Great job Halie❤
Amen, material things as temporary and things you won’t be able to take with you when u die. Memories and the love is eternal.
How exciting! I can’t imagine the stress of moving such a large family, but I see so much positive where you are now! ❤ So happy for you all! Hang in there Crystal!
Love the ideas you have for switching things around in the master bath. Removing the outdated tub and putting in a huge shower will be a huge upgrade to the cave shower. You also might still be able to put a tub in that shower space. The shower would be like a wetspace with a freestanding tub inside it against the back wall and showers next to it. It wouldnt have to be typical bathtub shape, you could do smaller circular soaking tub. Worth considering! Sometimes a soak is a welcome treat or helpful for muscle soreness, monthly cramps, cool soak with vinegar for sunburn or oatmeal for skin rash.
That's a great idea! I've never thought about that before.
Wet space is a great idea for that space 😊❤
I agree with that plan. That jet tub is old and doesn’t look good. Doing a new shower and closet is a good plan. ❤️🙏💙
HINT In Hannah's room, you could change the lock to one that automatically locks when the door is closed.
There are noise cancelling ear buds specifically made for autism with various modes; shift between Quiet, Experience and Engage modes to choose your volume in any setting.
The automatic ones like keyless entry
Crystal, I am enjoying Hallie being in these videos. She is an absolute joy, so sweet, so mature. It's really nice to see her and I hope she continues to be in the videos. She greatly adds to the enjoyment of watching the videos! 💖
Seriously, it seems like everyone is happy about the move. Can hardly wait to see your plans come to fruitation.
Crystal, deep breaths. You've only been in your new home for less than a week.
This is your forever home. Take your time, and it'll get done.
The kids all seem to love the new house.
The one time I got to redo my room as a teen my biggest regret was choosing is a double bed, so much space taken up in a small room! With a room like Luke and Jake it fits so well!
This home with all the acreage is wonderful. Of course it is messy because you just moved and you have a big family. I am so glad you found this house. I think it is great everyone felt it was home when they saw it. Your living room is much bigger than I thought it was. It will be fun to see how things change in your new home.
Crystal just relax and breathe. Take a moment for yourself. It will all work out .
For sure there needs to be some clearing out. You can't downsize a house without downsizing your clothes and 'stuff'. Good luck. And good to see more Halie.
Wait… so Evie wants peace and quiet and you want to put Aurora next to her?? 🥴
But Evie speaks up when she needs to do so, I think that it will be fine. They love each other to bits.
They're also best friends.. Aurora isn't a screaming 3-4 year old. She's 7 or 8 and knows better. Yeah I'm sure she'll still scream and stuff but not nearly as much as video game yelling
One more tiny house comment...while you are mapping out that area of the property you really really should factor in an extra building for storage and move out of extra paid storage elsewhere in town. What an unnecessary expense given the space offered by either house. Of course maybe the truth is you dont need so much stuff. But it's also true that your family seems to be in constant transition and don't need all the stuff you have at any one time. Please account for it into your new life.
Paying a year of storage fees for xmas stuff just boggles my mind😂
When you close on the house- You should extended the hallway upstairs to make the Laundry Room Access easier. Then put a new wall up in that room, make it identical to Bella’s room. Make that bedroom separate access that way. I definitely agreed moving Aurora down to the basement next Evie. Savannah can have other room upstairs. Keep Hannah on the main floor! Make the basement toilet a female useable toilet.
Can not wait see how the rooms come out.
CRYSTAL, You are creative and you have skills young lady. I know in a year from now the new house is going too be GORGEOUS. I just know it.
Crystal, you're something else. So proud of you, I can't believe how much you accomplished(and your family too) in the last 4 weeks. LOVE the idea getting rid of the tub and putting in a glass shower and turning the other shower into Aaron's closet. He could have those bars in there that circulate his clothes too.
Downsizing and minimizing is SO hard. I have been doing a little each yr since my momma passed away. I am getting there as like you, I cannot stand clutter or feeling trapped surrounded by things. Once you start I promise it will get easier and you will start loving all the room. Like Halie did yesterday, I took photos of all my things, including hundreds of pieces of paper with my music I wrote. Snap a photo and zapped them all through my shredder. Also, the less stuff you have laying around the less bugs you will have. Spiders and bedbugs love cardboard boxes(I'm a landlord so I know this) so the more boxes you get rid of the better.
You never have to explain yourself who sleeps where and why. That's your personal business.
I would love to see the front of your house but I understand why you do not show it. Maybe someday. And you're so lucky you're able to add the tiny homes to your property. Where I live you're not allowed right now, but they're trying to get it legal so we can.
Honestly Evie ! I don’t blame you girl . I’d want my own space downstairs too 😂 !!
I know Aurora doesn't mind other kids coming into her room to do laundry, but maybe once you own the house, you could remodel. Is there a possibility to make a doorway for the laundry in the hallway instead of Aurora's bedroom.
I think you should put a door on the laundry room from the hallway that way nobody has to go through the bedroom. Also I feel like aurora should be down in the basement as well. That makes more sense. But ultimately you should have put Jamie in the room aurora is in and then aurora in Jamie’s room so when Jamie moves out Savannah can just move into Jamie’s room so you don’t have to move 3 people around.
Surly, if you want to bring a family together, literally bring them together! 😅
The video of you all cooking together and then actually sitting together while you had dinner was beautiful!
When my sons and I were living in a motel, then into a one bedroom apartment, we were in close proximity all of the time. When we moved into a 4 bedroom house, we were like a family of ducks. If I were in the kitchen, we ALL were in the kitchen. If I moved to the laundry room or living room, they followed. Thankfully, we are still very close. ❤
I appreciate your comment so much because at one time me and my two boys were living in an apartment where the kitchen and living space and bedroom space were one. Only the bathroom were separate. Those were the most joyful times. Lots of laughter and somehow I created a semi private space for each child. It was hard days but good ones. May your situation only gets better and more prosperous 💗
@cupcakesonrainydays Absolutely, and to you as well. We truly can learn to "make lemonade" in life when we think we don't have much. We are who we are because we struggled a time or two. 🩷
@@MH-jg1wy Thank you🥰
If Aurora is going to be near Evie, she should be told not to go intoEvie’s room if she is not there or if she is, she should wait to be invited.
i know what you mean Crystal, we moved from an apt in NYC to my parents home (they passed away) in Ireland, and I can't get some things to fit. We didn't bring furniture, so this is just things. Things that need better organization and my bedroom is a mess and i can't stand it. but I have to say to myself things will fall into place soon, can't do the whole house in one day. One day at a time.
I feel the exact same way as Evie, loud noises are not good. I get to a certain time of night and I need to switch off from everything and everyone. The sensory room is awesome x
Yes, Hannah is legally an adult being 18 but that is still very young. That is still a teenager. Be safe out there at night guys.
True but in other countries 18 year olds can go clubbing which means they’re out until 5/6am so it’s not a big deal really
I am sure everything will come together for you. I bet you do get stressed, which is understandable. I am just so happy for you all. ❤
Crystal dont allow people opinion get to you ,they arent in your life .your doing great ❤
🌟Suggestion 4 Crystal!!
You should wait on building Aurora’s large bed with the slide so that you don’t have to break it down and reassemble it for a 3rd time when she moves down to Jamie’s room when she gets her tiny house!!🥰👍🏼
Okay i actually love the downstairs idea I wasn’t sure at first as it’s smaller but now i see how Evies going to LOVE this. great for her needs. I am 20 and am on the spectrum and i would love this. This house is perfect good job Crystal it’s definitely got that homie vibe and its so fun!
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Crazy pieces 🎉do not doubt that your life adventures will be amazing, take a deep breath because you and everyone around, you will conquer this new adventure Much love too all🫶
This is just my suggestion on what to do when some kids move into the casitas. I don't know if I would put Aurora next to Evie. Evie wanted quiet and Aurora can be loud. I think that's why Evie wanted her own room in the old house. I would leave Aurora where she is at now. Especially since she doesn't mind about the laundry room. I would move Logan or Brody to the room Jamie has now. If Hannah moves into one of the casitas, I would move Bella into that bedroom. Then Savannah could stay in the room their in now. Then if Bella ever moves out, Savannah could move into her room. And then Rylan or Liam could have their own room. Of course this would all happen in the future. I love the idea of the sensory area in the basement. The lounge area upstairs is nice. Aaron's idea of getting rid of the Jacuzzi is smart. The both of you didn't really like your shower anyway. And I can't see you using that tub anyway. I'm looking forward to future videos of all the changes. Excited for you all
Change is a good thing, I needed to hear that, especially how you explained that its ok to feel anxious when one has to change something. I am going through that now. I know it is needed that I move back to my home state, but the process has me jittery and anxious. Hearing you share your experience made me more calm and realized that I need to make this change to move forward. It is a part of growth for me and for what my goal;s are. Again Thank You so much Crystal and hugs to you and MErry Christmas to the family.
storage wise you should move out seasonal clothes when not wearing them and put them in storage bags under your bed or in your storage !
Timy homes and a few storage sheds. There is plenty of room in the backyard.
If Hannah goes to a tiny house as well, savannah should get that room and then use the laundry room as an office space or something like a computer room 😊
I think getting new furniture that fits your new style would help you feel better, right now even in your bedroom you have modern furniture which went great with your last house! However you did mention decorating the house more farm chic, so I think once you get the house situated and in your new style that fits your goals will make you feel more sure on the move! It’ll make it feel like home!
I love the new house and can't wait for all the plans to come to life. The children looks happy. This new chapter is huge for all of them. In a good way. Enjoy the process even though its hard work. ❤
I’m not sure what they’re called, but the fire escape areas. They’d looked great with murals. Or if that isn’t an option, maybe like a colour to mimic the sky. Love the house btw! ❤
I actually had that same thought! Thanks for the suggestion!
Great minds think alike! 😂🥰
You need to embrace the minimalist mindset. Own only what you use. If you use a lot of stuff, you will have a lot of stuff. If you use a little bit of stuff, you will have a little bit of stuff. Minimalism is not throwing everything out.
I don't think it is a wise idea to put 2 developmentally delayed kids in the basement after Jamie moves out. Aurora needs more supervision due to her other health needs and having no older kids downstairs with her is not safe. There are only egress windows down there if their only other exit is blocked.
i agree either way you crystal- i am decluttering and downsizing and i feel the frustrations. i am getting through stuff the best that i can, by myself.
i have an autistic child and i agree with your safety concerns. we actually put hotel hasp on our doors that go outside, just to make sure my kiddo would not go out- he is not an eloper, at home, but he has at school or a store.
i would ask aurora about getting a new “big girl bed”. let her pick out something new and sell the other one on the marketplace. i did this with my son and he was so excited to get a “big boy bed”.
i love that you all are making the sacrifices for your family. i love the new house being smaller and you all getting to be closer again. it’s gonna be a great house once you own it and can make the changes you want. and as the big kids move out, you can make room changes.
crystal- it will all come together. you have aaron, your mom and the kids to help declutter and downsize your possessions, you’ll get there.
Just an idea maybe give brody a space in the basement sensory room for building his legos if logan can basically shut him out of his own room if he is streaming then brody deserves a space for his fun stuff plus their room is kinda small an i didn't see much space for his lego desk.
Aurora would be out that door so fast! LoL
Yes some of the rooms looked smaller but now they have more room than the old house. ❤
Such a great time to change and follow your dreams!!
Such an insightful video. Your humble approach makes it accessible.
Yep. Blessed home and it was made for you all. You can just tell. And add in the projects and it only gets better and better. Endless potential. God is GREAT!!
Crystal, thank you, thank you, thank you, for this video!! I was wondering how the room selection worked with so many kids and so many different personalities. I really enjoyed it and it all makes sense now! 💖
What is going to happen if one of the older kids wants to come home for a bit or Melinda and Scarlet want to stay the night? Have you thought of putting a sofas that turn into beds into some of the extra living spaces?
Crystal, just remember, Rome wasn't built in a day...take a deep breath... everything will work the way it was meant to be.
I have a system for decluttering...I look at an item and if I haven't used it in 6 months, I get rid of it...also rotate your clothes between summer and winter. Pack away what you won't be wearing...
Can’t wait for the tiny homes so cool hope it’s sound proof … the traffic noise is loud
You know with that Sensory room , you can make it into a little Library with Reading nooks as well. :D good plan Crystal........
If any of the kids eventually moving into tiny homes feel cramped you could merge 2 tiny homes to make a slightly bigger space for them. If you have the space that is.
I can't wait to see everything all set up! 😍
I’m confused, why does savannah have to move to auroras room or the basement why doesn’t Bella move?
PLEASE hire Kylie to come do the sensory area. She would do such a fantastic job. I also feel like Kylie would have some really great ideas on how to best set up Evie's room with some sensory tools. It's such a small space, so really taking time to plan it out would be amazing. Looooove this house so much -- so much potential!!
Why doesn’t Kylie come around more
She already has a sensor area k Kylie was supposed to help with the make over room for evie but she was busy doing her home & her parents home
@@bbumblebshe hardly did go if was not a birthday party or special event that was involving crazy middle
@@bbumbleb she does have a side business where she is doing this same stuff for paying customers. Add those on top of her also decorating the Middles home for CHRISTmas, including each bedroom. Plus, she’s also been working on her own home, over the summer months. She’s been pretty busy, she said that in a recent video.
@bbumbleb she's kind of busy lol. Between renovations at her house and everything she does at her mom's she doesn't have any spare time. You don't ever see Crystal or anyone over at Kylies.
I am always a follower... But, now it's just exploded.. I can hardly wait to tag along on all these brand new adventures 🌞
an essential oil diffuser for the sensory room with lavender oil would be very relaxing
I love diffusers too but with animals quite a few essential oils are actually toxic for dogs and cats to inhale including lavender it can make them very sick unfortunately. I know you wont get the scent from it the same but pink Himalayan Salt Rock Lamps are really nice or if your insistant on essential oils they make essential oil necklaces or instead of lavender use the chamomile oil from plant therapy or young living thats one that is safe around your furbabies ❤
so exciting! Ik things will fall into place even if it takes time. just really proud and happy for u guys! 💞
NEW Beginning is always good in life do not look back the best is coming
Crystal do not let people bother you about stupid stuff. The house belongs to you and Aaron people are just being plum stupid I’m sorry to say that but it’s the truth. Congratulations on your new home. I cannot wait to see what you and do to the house. Love you guys
Yayyy the long anticipated vid!!!!!!!!❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
What about your office/studio???
Crystal it takes time to organize , you will be fine, understand how you feel , I also downsized when moving to Texas , miss my big house in Az. with so meny cabnets , change is hard , get a bx or two to sort out for donations, even if you did it before moving, when I moved on to my new smaller house , I too felt overwhelmed , take of yourself & try not stressing, this is a beautiful home 🎉😇🫶
You should get a sign for Jamie and Evies area that they can turn to say quiet zone or something so that the other kids know that’s when they need to be quiet in that area.
Slowly but surely everything will come together. Live watching your videos. I am excited to see what is to come, especially with what you will be doing with the mental health aspect. I am a huge supporter of mental health for all especially for the men. My some suffers and the stigma he gets is horrible. You are all so Amazing ❤❤
Clutterbug and Minimal Mom can be your new buddies. 😆
Crystal, I have to say if you get rid of the bath you will regret it, I'm not giving out but I went from a house with a bath to no bath at all and I miss my bath
I love, how Hallie helps her mother out by using words to explain. Crystal can get flustered with her words.
it seems like savannah is always getting the “scraps”. never what she wanted. she said she would “hate” to be in a basement room so if she gets put in the basement that’s actually crazy. poor girl doesn’t even get a closet in her current room.
Love y’all , y’all are amazing, give everybody a hugs for me .
If Hannah moves out you should use that for an office.
Great video Crystal and Halie. I love that you have ideas for everything. You are renting for now so I'm sure there are rules about what you can do till you close. But that gives you time to dream!!
How wonderful that Hallie has been so available and supportive for you. She's fun and adds a lot to the appeal. She is also very mature, calm and logical. Maybe there's a position for her in the family TH-cam business?
I think its great u let them choose the rooms
Longer videos pleaseeeee!💖!!!!!!!!!!
Sounds like a lot of movement but a family your size is dynamic and nothing stays the same. God bless
Your new home is cozy, but it looks sooo small, I miss your old home, I miss the kitchen, the two stairs, the front doors,😢😢, I can't wait to see your new home put all together, I love you guys 💋 God bless you all 🙏❤️
I love these types of videos where you explain everything. . I hope everyone who jumped to conclusions and had negative comments to give, are watching and feeling silly now.
So exciting for all of you!
I think you should it rent a container and put it in the back yard and use it as a storage until you decide what to do with..😊I'm having anxiety like you when things need to be done and messy 😮😢
You got this you are good on this one step at the time ❤🎉❤
Congrats on this! Your honesty is what makes this stand out. Keep going!
Aurora is such a sweet young lady and I am so happy that she no longer has seizures. Congratulations on that.
I understand what Aaron is thinking about the master bathroom, but I will keep the shower where it is and have the extended closets where the bathtub is it could possibly work and then you’re still have a his side in her side closet and still have the big space of the bathroom
Enjoying seeing Hailey in your videos 😊
Sounds all like normal large family dynamics. Awesome how it's all worked out. Good idea with the bathroom. Moving forward whohoo 🤗
I was thinking if you're going to turn your shower into a closet, maybe think about having a stackable washer/dryer set in the corner if they fit since there's already a drain there so there will be about 3 landry rooms 🤔
How come you guys edited out the part where Aurora says Evie should go in the basement room in your moving video?????
I can’t wait to see the actual setup of each room. Hugs💕💕