These are great, very reasonable expectations. Women want same thing. 7. They can't win, they can't make you happy - be clear what you want or don't want. 6. Emasculating them, criticism - be grateful and appreciative 5. Victim mentality and outsourcing responsibility - take responsibility. 4. Needy and insecure - meet your own. 3. Too Emotional without Logic or Rational - go beyond how you feel, think things through. 2. Sharing intimate information, protect his privacy. 1. Negative mindset & attitude
I know for myself that I start to not like a man, when I see that he often fails to respond in a loving way. I don't critize him, but when I critize him inside often, I know he is not the one for me. Certain things I ask for, certain other, I want him to be already on the same page, like emotional maturity. Otherwise, to explain everything and ask for everything, it's a big turn off. 😊
Brody, thank you so much!! Thiis information was exactly what I needed to hear. It was very helpful and it’s going to make a lasting positive impact on my life. Bless you and Antia millions of times!!!
Here's the feeling that's shared with me when I speak with a person like the one described in this video. th-cam.com/video/L1iTFUvUdzY/w-d-xo.html Nice isn't it?
My last boyfriend did #5 . It was too much pressure just as you stated. I often told him I felt too much pressure from him. He couldn’t stop and I had to end it.
If he isnt understanding he should be picking his girl up from a hospital while she is needing it..... wow drop the mike there, drop that p.o.s. No need to explain "why" And this guy feels a woman shouldn't say anything about it? Because God forbid to turn him off?! That's messed up on so many levels...
It is the other way around for me . You see I am married to a narcissist . With all the abuse , stonewalling , gaslighting, criticising , it had taken the toll on my health .?
Who run the word girls.. we don't have time for this... When you connect with the right man you won't have this problem.. If you are with the right man you don't have to say nothing Ladies you can speak to his spirit and mind... Tell his spirit what you want & need .. his spirit man will speak back if you are the right mate.. just sit sill & listen .. I pray and tell the Lord ...guess what he calls... Send me a romantic message.. I thank the Lord.. I talk to him (my man) this way all the time ..he speaks to me in the spirit all the time..if you are really close you can see him .... Sometimes even what he's doing..👀 guess what he'lll call... & say Hi babe 😘 that's a close connection.. you got to be in tune with yourself first confident.. no matter what if you know he's the one even if things aren't looking good..back off .. pray stay in faith ...stay faithful ... wait ...the goodtime will return he will come back to stay ... Let me tell you something your king can handle everythin needed for the relationship.. just like Jesus handles all our needs.. we are the weaker vessel our man a real man can handle it all ! Emotionally spiritually mentally physically and financially that's what he supposed to do and he will do it if it's the right one! God is the author of relationship..the creator of man and woman.. we have lost sight of this.. that's why the family is being destroyed... Get deep with the real problem going on with the man and woman... we just opened our selves to anyone especially on this internet.. Keep your power Ask plenty of questions.. a fake never want to ask questions.. He say I love ..ask why ..he won't answer (pray he won't tell one lie to me in Jesus name...or speak it words have power). If he say you sexxy I love you.. come on ...hrs a Court gesture....an Don't wear your heart on your sleeve Do not chase him if he don't return your calls if he leaves you being blessed let him go he was not for you.. Keep your legs closed Find a nice man who likes to date and will take you home give you a kiss on the forehead then leave get back to basics.. Wait on your blessing you a queen and you want a strong King and a king can handle everything not a court gesture.. not a night in shining armor he don't move unless a king tell him to... Have God on your side.. If you don't believe in God have morality every Man has a sense of right and wrong and if something is treating you wrong it's right to leave it alone... Always love yourself and put yourself first if somebody is not giving you what you need then that's not who you need... be a good woman and attend to your men's needs and believe me if that's the right man he will love you for it and sacrifice for you and be that strong King that will support you and care for you I know for sure because I experienced it it happened to me get your right King.... God bless us all... Same for a man 💃🕴️💕💯 We allow so much evil in our relationship pornography threesomes orgies you are allowing the enemy to come into your relationship and that's why it's been broke down if a man come to you or a woman come to you needing that type of thing they need Jesus and they need Deliverance and you need to run... If you are not a believer words have power if he's right for you ... speak him into your life and wait on him only... We are both to lean on each other ... Depend on each other for our emotional stability in a relationship ... come on we become one person ... Respect and love from each other... communication both parties should be open to this..if he's the right man ... Come straight up tell him if he doesn't address your emotions ..he's not the right man ... Let him leave ... We should not be doing all this coming together ...it because you are with the wrong man ... Ladies once you come together ... Its about the family ... Love with the right man ...there are no sexual tension you would not be able to get enough of each other when you're with the right .. if you have to do all of this in a relationship I'm telling you that's not the right man that is not who you should be with that is not your king that is another woman's man..... a relationship is simple and easy and two people come together and they connect they communicate they understand each other's feelings God is in the midst of the relationship and they know how to come together... pray together ..and their relationship will be blessed.. you will have a death do us part relationship .. I know because I've experienced both hands being in two marriages the frist was not my husband..we divorced ( he remarried and is still with her today) I married to my right man it took two marriages before he found me his right wife lol l had a 30+ years with him .. I'm now a widow... I've been in a six year relationship and we still working it out together.. 💕 You do not have to cycle analyze not one man in your life... life it's easy you up and down and the right man will go through with you ... 💗 Be patient keep your legs closed .. 💃I say this all the time don't have sex with these men you're not married to..🕴️ you wait for that right man to come into your life & I can guarantee you will have situations appearing.. but you will know how to work them out together.. 💃🕴️ you will hear him speak in your mind he will hear you speak in your mind.. 🙏yes indeed your spirits will come together so deep sometimes you don't even have to talk yet you are know what each one is thinking and he will address whatever you said to him...he is come back and spoke to me every single word I sent to him this is connection!! I tell my man in the spirit to call me ..he dose... I'll speak to my guy... Sometimes I'll get this feeling to call him and he'd say I thinking of you.. baby you must have felt my spirit... I'm telling you ladies if you have to do all of this with a man that man is not for you! I understand what the life coach is saying and trying to help women understand me which is good... But we as women have to take our power back and know who are true king is and what he would do in our lives... Who run the world girls... A mom is the first woman he( our king)will love 😎👀💯🙏
I agree with the needing to not put ownership on others for your happiness and sense of value. But, they're not adding to your life and you're not benefiting from the relationship in any way, then what's the point? Woman's purpose isn't solely to be there to serve a man and what he needs what he needs to be fulfilled, while not expecting anything from him.🤷 I think it would be good for you to do a TH-cam video on valid expectations of your partner.
Good advice for the most part but please, please stop with the very false myth that women are more emotional and men are more logical. I’m an analytical INTJ woman and 90% percent of the time come into most conversations with a more logical approach. While some men I’ve been involved with 100% come in on pure emotions, make judgments complete on emotions and hormones versus true logic. Most men I’ve encountered go by their feelings and how you make them feel. A woman can be completely wrong for them but he may choose her over a great partner for him, because she makes him “feel”. While women actually base partnership on more objective reasoning. I would imagine many women have experienced the same. also there is deep rooted sexism with the perception that women are more emotional as doctors & psychologists in the past would use it to simplify their treatment of women.
I was a few of these points only due to a situation where we had to move on from lovers to friends (at a distance only over phone talk) and I made him pull away and now he is not taking my calls or texting me back. I know it's because of the situation and I couldn't handle it. Any advice please for redemption and how to re connect? I have been giving him space. But still no response. He did take a call once but I obviously failed there as my nerves got the best of me. Please advice. Help. This guy is very important to me and I want to remain friends with him.
Well it seems he doesn’t want to talk to you, so forget him! Go find yourself a better friend lol. Why would somebody who cares about you leave you in the dark? Again, forget him.
I think any man that truly cares about something or wants something... sure they need man cave space/time to think.. but how long has it been since he hasn’t talked to you? If you didn’t do anything to hurt him- instead, if you did something that annoyed him for whatever reason because you mentioned you were lovers turned back into friends... Girl, then you need to set your mind free of him. Release. He will come back when you let go. In that time you let him go, think about if you’re better off staying alone. Sorry I like being a little poetical sometimes but still! I mean that.
@@skylamei hey hun. He had been talking to me for awhile. Helping me ease into moving on. But I got way too repeatative. Being negitive when really I had it all in front of me. Fear took over. Along with control. Then he asked for space. I gave him 6weeks then I called he answered but I failed miserably with having so much fear and was very nervous. I should not of called. Dumb. Then I texted several times. But again dumb emotional sharing of my love for him some more. Like he didn't already know 🤦🏻♀️ anyways it's been a further 5 weeks I think. Tried calling no answer. It's very hard to let go of something that made you feel very loved. He also raised my self worth. Anyways Its a tough gig.
@@eleniet I’m really sorry to hear that, I understand how that feels I’ve been there. It was quite embarrassing for me at the time, heartbreaking too of course. It’s so hard when the person you want to love, that made you feel loved, wants to go separate ways in life. I thought I would never be able to live without him, or go days without thinking about him, and now I just laugh at all of that. I’m sending you a lot of love Elenie💗💗💗 I believe everything will get better with time☺️
Thanks video very clear enformation guy you are all experience life romantic sexually relashinship is very better sin no blessing no success only one time enjoy thats no life.women connect in this prayer with faith and know that God don't back your life sins control your life God all blessed.
Really!? It is too high an expectation for me to rely upon my man to pick me up from hospital?? It's okay for him to forget!? What on earth do you teach men clients??? Doesn't sound too good from my female perspective.
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If I’m in the hospital, and my man doesn’t offer to pick me up, he’ll no longer be my man.
Very reasonable! :)
It happened to me! Stayed with him. Duh!! Got apologies but still!!... Next time he better have flowers and cooking skills!
These are great, very reasonable expectations. Women want same thing.
7. They can't win, they can't make you happy - be clear what you want or don't want.
6. Emasculating them, criticism - be grateful and appreciative
5. Victim mentality and outsourcing responsibility - take responsibility.
4. Needy and insecure - meet your own.
3. Too Emotional without Logic or Rational - go beyond how you feel, think things through.
2. Sharing intimate information, protect his privacy.
1. Negative mindset & attitude
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I know for myself that I start to not like a man, when I see that he often fails to respond in a loving way. I don't critize him, but when I critize him inside often, I know he is not the one for me.
Certain things I ask for, certain other, I want him to be already on the same page, like emotional maturity.
Otherwise, to explain everything and ask for everything, it's a big turn off.
😊
Communication is crucial! Respect is critical! Keeping things in confidence is very important!
Brody, thank you so much!! Thiis information was exactly what I needed to hear. It was very helpful and it’s going to make a lasting positive impact on my life. Bless you and Antia millions of times!!!
So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
If I am dating someone and he FAILS to pick me up from the Hospital, I am expected to NOT look at his sideways?!
Well said & appreciated & bookmarked!!
Very detailed and helpful. Thank you so much, Brody 👍
Glad it was helpful!
Awesome! Thank so much. That is sooo truth. My personal experience too.
So glad you liked the video Tyna and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
Very helpful, Brody.
Thank you!
So glad you liked the video Leaf and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
What you saying is so true
So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
He is good enough!no doubt.who got him that person will b lucky.he deserve best someone.
Men seem like a lot of work.
This one is lol
I imagine women seem like a lot of work to them too. Nothing saying someone has to make the effort.
@@LarryNewmanSusanNewman he talking about men on a video for women.
Great Work. But don't agree with everything 😕
What is your favorite point or top question from the video on the 7 subtle turn offs? 🤔
Here's the feeling that's shared with me when I speak with a person like the one described in this video. th-cam.com/video/L1iTFUvUdzY/w-d-xo.html
Nice isn't it?
I liked the point about being positive and like a sun, rose, light house.
My last boyfriend did #5 . It was too much pressure just as you stated. I often told him I felt too much pressure from him. He couldn’t stop and I had to end it.
I liked the point of coming to him with logic for things I want to plan with him or talk to him about.
I really like #1! And the ‘be careful what you talk about’ one! But they are all great and helpful to have a guy’s point of view 👏🏻
If he isnt understanding he should be picking his girl up from a hospital while she is needing it..... wow drop the mike there, drop that p.o.s.
No need to explain "why"
And this guy feels a woman shouldn't say anything about it? Because God forbid to turn him off?! That's messed up on so many levels...
Definitely a deal breaker to say the least! ;) Glad to have you as part of our community Olund!
Brilliant!!! You made me laugh aloud with the 'drop the mike'!
I was speechless when I heard the hospital bit, had to leave my own comment...
It is the other way around for me . You see I am married to a narcissist . With all the abuse , stonewalling , gaslighting, criticising , it had taken the toll on my health .?
It does take a toll on health alright
Who run the word girls..
we don't have time for this... When you connect with the right man you won't have this problem..
If you are with the right man you don't have to say nothing
Ladies you can speak to his spirit and mind... Tell his spirit what you want & need .. his spirit man will speak back if you are the right mate.. just sit sill & listen ..
I pray and tell the Lord ...guess what he calls... Send me a romantic message.. I thank the Lord.. I talk to him (my man) this way all the time ..he speaks to me in the spirit all the time..if you are really close you can see him .... Sometimes even what he's doing..👀 guess what he'lll call... & say Hi babe 😘 that's a close connection.. you got to be in tune with yourself first confident.. no matter what if you know he's the one even if things aren't looking good..back off .. pray stay in faith ...stay faithful ... wait ...the goodtime will return he will come back to stay ...
Let me tell you something your king can handle everythin needed for the relationship.. just like Jesus handles all our needs.. we are the weaker vessel our man a real man can handle it all ! Emotionally spiritually mentally physically and financially that's what he supposed to do and he will do it if it's the right one!
God is the author of relationship..the creator of man and woman.. we have lost sight of this.. that's why the family is being destroyed... Get deep with the real problem going on with the man and woman... we just opened our selves to anyone especially on this internet..
Keep your power
Ask plenty of questions.. a fake never want to ask questions..
He say I love ..ask why ..he won't answer (pray he won't tell one lie to me in Jesus name...or speak it words have power). If he say you sexxy I love you.. come on ...hrs a Court gesture....an
Don't wear your heart on your sleeve
Do not chase him if he don't return your calls if he leaves you being blessed let him go he was not for you..
Keep your legs closed
Find a nice man who likes to date and will take you home give you a kiss on the forehead then leave get back to basics..
Wait on your blessing you a queen and you want a strong King and a king can handle everything not a court gesture.. not a night in shining armor he don't move unless a king tell him to...
Have God on your side..
If you don't believe in God have morality every Man has a sense of right and wrong and if something is treating you wrong it's right to leave it alone...
Always love yourself and put yourself first if somebody is not giving you what you need then that's not who you need...
be a good woman and attend to your men's needs and believe me if that's the right man he will love you for it and sacrifice for you and be that strong King that will support you and care for you I know for sure because I experienced it it happened to me get your right King.... God bless us all... Same for a man 💃🕴️💕💯
We allow so much evil in our relationship pornography threesomes orgies you are allowing the enemy to come into your relationship and that's why it's been broke down if a man come to you or a woman come to you needing that type of thing they need Jesus and they need Deliverance and you need to run...
If you are not a believer words have power if he's right for you ... speak him into your life and wait on him only...
We are both to lean on each other ... Depend on each other for our emotional stability in a relationship ... come on we become one person ...
Respect and love from each other... communication both parties should be open to this..if he's the right man ... Come straight up tell him if he doesn't address your emotions ..he's not the right man ... Let him leave ...
We should not be doing all this coming together ...it because you are with the wrong man ...
Ladies once you come together ... Its about the family ... Love with the right man ...there are no sexual tension you would not be able to get enough of each other when you're with the right ..
if you have to do all of this in a relationship I'm telling you that's not the right man that is not who you should be with that is not your king that is another woman's man.....
a relationship is simple and easy and two people come together and they connect they communicate they understand each other's feelings God is in the midst of the relationship and they know how to come together... pray together ..and their relationship will be blessed.. you will have a death do us part relationship ..
I know because I've experienced both hands being in two marriages the frist was not my husband..we divorced ( he remarried and is still with her today) I married to my right man it took two marriages before he found me his right wife lol l had a 30+ years with him .. I'm now a widow... I've been in a six year relationship and we still working it out together..
💕 You do not have to cycle analyze not one man in your life... life it's easy you up and down and the right man will go through with you ...
💗 Be patient keep your legs closed ..
💃I say this all the time don't have sex with these men you're not married to..🕴️
you wait for that right man to come into your life & I can guarantee you will have situations appearing.. but you will know how to work them out together..
💃🕴️ you will hear him speak in your mind he will hear you speak in your mind..
🙏yes indeed your spirits will come together so deep sometimes you don't even have to talk yet you are know what each one is thinking and he will address whatever you said to him...he is come back and spoke to me every single word I sent to him this is connection!!
I tell my man in the spirit to call me ..he dose... I'll speak to my guy...
Sometimes I'll get this feeling to call him and he'd say I thinking of you.. baby you must have felt my spirit...
I'm telling you ladies if you have to do all of this with a man that man is not for you!
I understand what the life coach is saying and trying to help women understand me which is good... But we as women have to take our power back and know who are true king is and what he would do in our lives...
Who run the world girls... A mom is the first woman he( our king)will love 😎👀💯🙏
Wisdom 🌹
Waow, really powerful and inspirational 👏
@@blessingsaflow4854 Thank You
blessingsaflow...I just seen your message sorry for the late response ...
Happy Holidays stay blessed 🙏 🌹💗
@@lauriemeerlarock5649 Amen 🙏... sorry for the late response I just seen your message..
God bless &
Happy Holidays 🙏💗🌹
I agree with the needing to not put ownership on others for your happiness and sense of value. But, they're not adding to your life and you're not benefiting from the relationship in any way, then what's the point? Woman's purpose isn't solely to be there to serve a man and what he needs what he needs to be fulfilled, while not expecting anything from him.🤷
I think it would be good for you to do a TH-cam video on valid expectations of your partner.
Good idea for a future video, may make it in the near future! 🥰
When she doesnt ever dress feminine around him.
Good advice for the most part but please, please stop with the very false myth that women are more emotional and men are more logical. I’m an analytical INTJ woman and 90% percent of the time come into most conversations with a more logical approach. While some men I’ve been involved with 100% come in on pure emotions, make judgments complete on emotions and hormones versus true logic. Most men I’ve encountered go by their feelings and how you make them feel. A woman can be completely wrong for them but he may choose her over a great partner for him, because she makes him “feel”. While women actually base partnership on more objective reasoning. I would imagine many women have experienced the same. also there is deep rooted sexism with the perception that women are more emotional as doctors & psychologists in the past would use it to simplify their treatment of women.
Men are more logical?! 😂🤣Have you ever met a female Capricorn?! ♑️
Are you talking about women or men? I saw those 7 turn offs in men! 😂
Yes I think they apply equally to both for the most part :)
I was a few of these points only due to a situation where we had to move on from lovers to friends (at a distance only over phone talk) and I made him pull away and now he is not taking my calls or texting me back. I know it's because of the situation and I couldn't handle it. Any advice please for redemption and how to re connect? I have been giving him space. But still no response. He did take a call once but I obviously failed there as my nerves got the best of me. Please advice. Help. This guy is very important to me and I want to remain friends with him.
Well it seems he doesn’t want to talk to you, so forget him! Go find yourself a better friend lol. Why would somebody who cares about you leave you in the dark? Again, forget him.
I think any man that truly cares about something or wants something... sure they need man cave space/time to think.. but how long has it been since he hasn’t talked to you? If you didn’t do anything to hurt him- instead, if you did something that annoyed him for whatever reason because you mentioned you were lovers turned back into friends... Girl, then you need to set your mind free of him. Release. He will come back when you let go. In that time you let him go, think about if you’re better off staying alone. Sorry I like being a little poetical sometimes but still! I mean that.
Best of luck to you ❤️☘️
@@skylamei hey hun. He had been talking to me for awhile. Helping me ease into moving on. But I got way too repeatative. Being negitive when really I had it all in front of me. Fear took over. Along with control. Then he asked for space. I gave him 6weeks then I called he answered but I failed miserably with having so much fear and was very nervous. I should not of called. Dumb. Then I texted several times. But again dumb emotional sharing of my love for him some more. Like he didn't already know 🤦🏻♀️ anyways it's been a further 5 weeks I think. Tried calling no answer. It's very hard to let go of something that made you feel very loved. He also raised my self worth. Anyways Its a tough gig.
@@eleniet I’m really sorry to hear that, I understand how that feels I’ve been there. It was quite embarrassing for me at the time, heartbreaking too of course. It’s so hard when the person you want to love, that made you feel loved, wants to go separate ways in life. I thought I would never be able to live without him, or go days without thinking about him, and now I just laugh at all of that. I’m sending you a lot of love Elenie💗💗💗 I believe everything will get better with time☺️
Thanks video very clear enformation guy you are all experience life romantic sexually relashinship is very better sin no blessing no success only one time enjoy thats no life.women connect in this prayer with faith and know that God don't back your life sins control your life God all blessed.
So, be clear about what’s annoying you but don’t criticize a man.
I think there need to be more videos about the type of man WOMEN look for. Enough of this. Lol
Really!? It is too high an expectation for me to rely upon my man to pick me up from hospital?? It's okay for him to forget!?
What on earth do you teach men clients???
Doesn't sound too good from my female perspective.