Great advice for life! Now at 40, it took some of my thirties to figure these things out. One quote I’ve found helpful in life is “You’ll worry what people think of you until you realize they don’t.” No idea who to attribute it too. Keep up the good work!
I'm 29 and trying to learn about the 30's in advance. However I am trying to learn and understand this statement as I haven't came to this realisation yet. A lot of things matter to me but how do I come to the concept of nothing matters? Is it more about grounding yourself and focusing on the now because the present moment is all that matters? and when we die, in 500 years...we will no longer matter? Is that your way of thinking?
@@tanyarenaissance8829 OMG I'm in the same boat! haha. I'll be 30 in September. From what I can take from the initial comment is that you shouldn't stress about things. Live in the moment that you are in and continue to find exciting, healthy, and impactful experiences in your life. Whether that is traveling, learning a language, exploring more of your passions, or even discovering cool and new recipes. :)
it means you don't matter either then. Why are you living then? People who say nothing matters are just upset they didn't find any meaning and try to reason it out but claiming nothing around matters either. Actually, everything matters. If it didn't, it wouldn't exist. Now look honestly at yourself and try do understand why there is no meaning in your life.
@@mikebluet yeah. as i also talk with more older people. they educate me how life is too short to fight over pointless things. because when we die, those things won't matter anymore
Just reach 30, i dont feel depressed, but like my best life is behind me, like my youth is over but at the end of the day its just how you think, biologically speaking 30 is not old you can still be strong and look younger than 17
@@jugg9140 You still in your youthful adulthood. You've only been an adult for 12 years and most of those 12 years you didn't know what you were doing in the first place. In your 30's is a magical time where your body is still very healthy and your mind is sharp to what ever you want. Also just fyi in the next decade or 2 there will come some longevity products that will either slow down or reverse aging, so just realize we will live longer than our parents did by a large margin. Just think you are 70 and look and feel 25? Sign me up. Enjoy your day!
@@kazykamakaze131 absolutely true, 30s is the magical year, 20s we were dumb and full of high spirit that we did not think clear, but in 30s we still have that high spirit but our brain grows a little more and yes our body is still fit and strong, nice words mate.
I still remember listening to blink 182's "What's my age again?" back in 8th grade when they say "nobody likes you when you're 23". While that sounds negative, I learned that in my early 20s nobody did "care" about you when you were 23 and that is about the time you realized that you are not 18 or 21 anymore, you are crossing that path to adulthood and truly claim independence, leaving the days of youthful late teens and start taking control of your life. I did not to start to feel like my "age" until I was 28 and realize my career is my life that will lead me into my 30s and beyond (because I love my profession). Everyone is different but I had less friends and only a few remained as close friends, you still keep in touch with old friends but your work schedule is your best friend and also your worst enemy. You are more inclined to stay at home and relax than going to the bars (some people really love to be out at the bars - especially if you are single) but I came from a life of party background and I didn't relax until I was 32 and called it quits on going to the bars. I am also in a long term relationship (with marriage potential) and I am with someone who is also in their 30s, no kids, has a profession and no rush to be in a marriage. The most important thing you can do in your 30s is to stay active. Exercise 3-4 times a week and keep the weight off because when you are in your 30s, it is really difficult to get the weight off unless you have an extremely good metabolism. Weight gain is easier in your 30s. Because you are not as "active" as you should be and your body takes a while longer to recover. If you have a career, dont get too overwhelmed and dont let stress take over your day and time. When you get out of work, you get your mind off of work. Unless you work in a profession that requires off duty attention such as a surgeon, dentist, law enforcement, military, business owner, on call service techs etc.. Always know that there are many 30 somethings in this world experiencing the same darn thing and keep your closest friend closer to your life because they are important to have. I have 4 long life best friends who I have been friends with since 8th grade. We are all in our 30s now and we make fun of each other of how old we are now but it still makes us happy that we know each other so well all these years and still going strong. Making new friends in your 30s is tough. Especially when it comes to males making friends with other males in your 30s because its a different approach. The last person I made friends with in my early 30s was 3 years ago and it was a former co worker who I ran into at a bar and we hangout here and there. Everyone is different and your experience may differ than mine. If you are still reading this, enjoy your life and really, dont let age get to you. Enjoy every moment of your 30s. Embrace it.
I have to agree with her. I've only been 30 for a few months and have felt more comfort and confident than I have ever felt. I don't take people's garbage anymore because I know who I am.
Love so much. This video is everything. I’m 29 and months out from 30. I just feel so incredibly grateful for this place in life. Even without everything being perfect, I feel so much more confident, in control, yet accepting of uncertainty. You summed it up expertly. Enjoyed this video and happy to know this is a wonderful season to enjoy.
I was in a relationship that sounded a bit like yours. After 7 years, the breakup with my boyfriend looking back was a blessing in disguise. The moment I stepped foot in a grocery store after my breakup, I didn’t know what to buy. I had to remind myself that I could buy… whatever I wanted. Looking back, my boyfriend had decided everything we bought for groceries while also judged me for any items I wanted to buy and in which case, I let him change my mind. Happy to be out of that relationship.
My biggest lesson was how credit scores worked and the importance of building credit. I spent my late teens, twenties, and early thirties in the military and never had credit cards or took out any loans. When I was medically retired at 35, I realized I had no credit what-so ever, and really wished I had of built up credit history. They really should teach that information in High School economics class.
A lot of this is excellent advice. I'd like to add my 2 cents to this topic even though I haven't quite hit 30 yet. 1. Quit concerning yourself over petty things. This is the main source of teenage drama, but it also happens among people in their early 20s. Distressing over something inconsequential can really detract from a greater goal or a bigger problem. I find that this can be resolved by asking yourself "Will all of this matter 5 days from now? Heck will this matter 5 hours from now?" 2. Have a variety of hobbies. I'm sure everyone has a favorite thing to do in their spare time, but doing it isn't always possible. It is also easier to get bored from doing the same thing over and over. I enjoy hiking and visiting national parks a lot, but when I am stuck at home I will read a book from my mini-library, or watch anime. 3. Stay fit and active. Try to get a gym membership, or go for a run a few days a week. Even simple calisthenics at home work. The benefits of staying true to a consistent workout regime will pay off. And don't forget a healthy diet, I find this harder to maintain than getting regular exercise.
Some really good advice here for you younger people. I am 51 now and wish I had heard this when I was in my younger days. I am glad you have found such a peaceful mental space to dwell in. It definitely shows in your work and interactions on scope. Keep on keepin' on!
Love this thank you :) I’m 24, going on 25. Wanting to go full time into real estate and quit my job t just scared! This was a great encouragement to just go for it because I have so many decades left
I’m glad this gave you encouragement! Real estate definitely seems like a “people” business. I would imagine that if you’re naturally good with people, you have the potential to succeed, depending on what market you’re in. Would you be keeping your current job and do real estate school at the same time and then quit your current job once you’re licensed? That’s exciting!!
Steph, I am so incredibly proud of you. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your growth and your journey. I’m learning from you and you’re helping me grow. We’re going to do even more great things, I just know it ♥️
Bless your heart, Steph! Being half way through my 40's I have learned a lot along the way as well. 2020 has really shown us to expect changes! I need a vacation trip so bad right now!!!
"It's totally okay to still not know what I want to do with my life." I nearly cried when I heard that because I really needed that validation. At 33, I still don't have it figured out what I want to do with my life and I always felt so bad about it.
What made you want to reveal yourself? Wow this is a very revealing and somewhat vulnerable video about yourself. I applaud you for your openness and heart-felt honesty. Thank you for the great advice.
@@StephTaylerLive no not really in most of your videos I have watched your really wysiwyg. What you see is what you get. You are genuinely a very humble woman and like my fishing buddies would often say "She's a Keeper" ;-) I can guess your age give or take a few years.
Thanks a lot for this amazing video, I'm currently in my 20s and your video has helped me to reflect on and figure out my own ways of living, and how to improve my life! Have a great day and an amazing life! :)
When you said that busy does not equal successful, that really resonated with me. I often had that thought when I was just working and working more, prior to Covid 19 happening. I really want to travel more while I'm still in my 30s. This video was inspirational, and a nice reminder that it's never too late to make changes in life, but to also accept change as it comes.
Isn’t it interesting how we (as a society/generation) think that having our calendars packed is going to bring us success? And it’s funny how many of us will wear it as a badge and compare who has more on their plate lol I’m glad this resonated with you!
@@StephTaylerLive It is interesting. Right now, I feel like my job is more a means to an end. I'm 32 and still waiting to find a "calling." Lol. You should make a video about some of your top favorite international travel destinations, or maybe your time in the military! I think that would be cool!
omg. the whole collection of travel recordings is pure gold. you are above and beyond as you shared in your previous content. so maybe you could take this to another level and be a travel guide. actually set up travelling for others and get into the with others thing. i know you a super independant and that is where its at to master you craft. so what is next for you? i'd love to talk with you on the phone in the future. you are a total pro. ttyl............... m. :)
You will just realize that you can't drink like in your 30's, hehe. All jokes aside I am really enjoying my 30's and I am healthier than nearly all my friends and look and feel like my younger 20's. It goes to show if you look after yourself in your 20's and keep at it in your 30's that you will be rewarded for it.
At 24, I was diagnosed with ptsd, had SEVERAL spiritual awakenings, and traumatized by cults and getting shot at while being discriminated against. I’m 28 now, life has changed in SO many ways as I approach my 30s, growing up being able to drink, get tattoos, buy a car 🚙 and house 🏠 was the go to thing. Now people are more concerned about technology, iPhones 📱, iPads, etc. they rarely have wild parties anymore and technology has caused everyone to think differently. By the time you hit your late 20s to early 30s, yes you are grateful for your parents but you think about that differently too. Some of us might think 🤔 that we were raised wrong or right. By the time I was 24, I started to question the “friends” I had, they went from being nice and caring, to inconsiderate, angry jerks who faked being nice to me (some of them were cult members). I realized, I need blame to balance out the victories, I also learned you will never fully be good or fully be bad. All in all we don’t know how to live life always.
Hey Steph! Newbie here! Subbed as of your last video. I can't get enough of travel vloggers lol. Very pleased that lockdowns are easing (though in some places, sadly it seems to be happening too soon). This was wonderful, so candid, heartfelt, eloquently said. OMG I can relate to anxiety believe me. That on top of autism spectrum disorder..it can be like gasoline on a fire sometimes. No nerves watching you that's for sure! So happy to have found this channel. (btw not a fan of creme brulee either lol)
Lol. Loved this video. I absolutely love your look on life. You have this amazing confidence and it sounds like it took a lot of work to get there. Also, the anxiety section got me laughing. Youre also right with that too. Lol Anyway, thank you. I needed this today.
Hello, thank you for sharing and speaking it out. I hit most of the items that you've spoken of in this video in my 30ssss besides taking care of my body. I am getting to my late 30s now and life got busier at the moment. While in the progress of exploring and finding my true self is in my 30s, I accidentally found something more meaningful of my life from the volunteering experience. You can be a positive influencer, an example of anybody, contributing something in your own way to family, student, society, or people who in need. XD Thanks once again!
Truth, I’ve leaned all that in my mid 30s too. And I’m still learning about things till this day . I love learning and upgrading my self . What’s your most favorite thing you have learned so far ?
Shes cute.... personality is everything. 30's are great. save cash to travel, I save gold/silver for long term. Being single and comfortable in my own skin, learning, being humble and taking ownership of my life and actions.
I’m new here, thank you for your travel guides and tips on what to expect. Thank you for sharing your experiences good or bad and most of all your Positive Vibes. I feel we all need this in these times. Love Aways Wins! ☺️
travelling is in my blood....and in yours also...choose dubai for yur next destination...you will love this city of miracles.....i have been there eight times....
What i learned in my 40s is that i still look younger, stronger and healthier then those in their 20s. The movie Idiocracy was literally a documentary. Despite your makeup, your failings and aging face is obvious
Steph sensible advice and what did you studied at uni? It is so ridiculous the cost of tertiary education in the States compared to Australia where I am from. As well the medical expenses are astronomical that it beggars belief you are living in supposedly the richest country in the world. First world name but third world standards. So sad. Stay safe and hope to see you shoot more wonderful videos in the future.
Thanks. I’ve been told by people in the music industry that I have an “expensive voice” 😂 Should I start a podcast? No training other than news reporter training a few years ago.
I'll still have my Hello Kitty stuff . When I turn 30. I don't care what anyone thinks😝 and if I get a prince charming a.k.a a man well let's just say he'll look good in hello Kitty stuff 😋🤪 WHAT ❓Guys wear Hello Kitty stuff too😊🌼 Yep I'm that 27 year old that is confident🤨 well sometimes 🙂 self supporting and knows what she wants. When she wants more hello Kitty stuff 😍🌼😁 yes I'm obsessed but I can afford to be 😋 Ok ok I got social anxiety issues too nobody's perfect🥴 Luv's💖ya Steph 🤗🌼💕💖
Take one free advice...Make your own family...Living with your parents shows how childish you are...Your family will support you even when your parents leave earth and go to stars...People make their family only because they have same life expectancy...
Great advice for life! Now at 40, it took some of my thirties to figure these things out. One quote I’ve found helpful in life is “You’ll worry what people think of you until you realize they don’t.” No idea who to attribute it too. Keep up the good work!
So true.
As a mid 40 something i can say nothing matters. Enjoy it, that's it. Do not worry about anything.
This! Im only just realizing this at 33
I'm 29 and trying to learn about the 30's in advance. However I am trying to learn and understand this statement as I haven't came to this realisation yet. A lot of things matter to me but how do I come to the concept of nothing matters? Is it more about grounding yourself and focusing on the now because the present moment is all that matters? and when we die, in 500 years...we will no longer matter? Is that your way of thinking?
@@tanyarenaissance8829 OMG I'm in the same boat! haha. I'll be 30 in September. From what I can take from the initial comment is that you shouldn't stress about things. Live in the moment that you are in and continue to find exciting, healthy, and impactful experiences in your life. Whether that is traveling, learning a language, exploring more of your passions, or even discovering cool and new recipes. :)
it means you don't matter either then. Why are you living then? People who say nothing matters are just upset they didn't find any meaning and try to reason it out but claiming nothing around matters either. Actually, everything matters. If it didn't, it wouldn't exist. Now look honestly at yourself and try do understand why there is no meaning in your life.
@@mikebluet yeah. as i also talk with more older people. they educate me how life is too short to fight over pointless things. because when we die, those things won't matter anymore
Both my parents had died by the time I was 29. Make the most of your parents. That's all I'm saying.
What i learned in my 40s is don't like life too seriously (negatives and positives). Everything can change in a moment and i have no control.
I definitely understand that!
Our 30's are the times that we hit our peak into maturity. 💯
So true I’m in my early 30s. I’m doing a lot better than I was in my early 20s.
@@Mark257380 I am too and I'm blessed to say that I'm doing better than I did back in my younger days. 💯
Just reach 30, i dont feel depressed, but like my best life is behind me, like my youth is over but at the end of the day its just how you think, biologically speaking 30 is not old you can still be strong and look younger than 17
@@jugg9140 You still in your youthful adulthood. You've only been an adult for 12 years and most of those 12 years you didn't know what you were doing in the first place. In your 30's is a magical time where your body is still very healthy and your mind is sharp to what ever you want. Also just fyi in the next decade or 2 there will come some longevity products that will either slow down or reverse aging, so just realize we will live longer than our parents did by a large margin. Just think you are 70 and look and feel 25? Sign me up. Enjoy your day!
@@kazykamakaze131 absolutely true, 30s is the magical year, 20s we were dumb and full of high spirit that we did not think clear, but in 30s we still have that high spirit but our brain grows a little more and yes our body is still fit and strong, nice words mate.
I still remember listening to blink 182's "What's my age again?" back in 8th grade when they say "nobody likes you when you're 23". While that sounds negative, I learned that in my early 20s nobody did "care" about you when you were 23 and that is about the time you realized that you are not 18 or 21 anymore, you are crossing that path to adulthood and truly claim independence, leaving the days of youthful late teens and start taking control of your life. I did not to start to feel like my "age" until I was 28 and realize my career is my life that will lead me into my 30s and beyond (because I love my profession). Everyone is different but I had less friends and only a few remained as close friends, you still keep in touch with old friends but your work schedule is your best friend and also your worst enemy. You are more inclined to stay at home and relax than going to the bars (some people really love to be out at the bars - especially if you are single) but I came from a life of party background and I didn't relax until I was 32 and called it quits on going to the bars. I am also in a long term relationship (with marriage potential) and I am with someone who is also in their 30s, no kids, has a profession and no rush to be in a marriage. The most important thing you can do in your 30s is to stay active. Exercise 3-4 times a week and keep the weight off because when you are in your 30s, it is really difficult to get the weight off unless you have an extremely good metabolism. Weight gain is easier in your 30s. Because you are not as "active" as you should be and your body takes a while longer to recover. If you have a career, dont get too overwhelmed and dont let stress take over your day and time. When you get out of work, you get your mind off of work. Unless you work in a profession that requires off duty attention such as a surgeon, dentist, law enforcement, military, business owner, on call service techs etc.. Always know that there are many 30 somethings in this world experiencing the same darn thing and keep your closest friend closer to your life because they are important to have. I have 4 long life best friends who I have been friends with since 8th grade. We are all in our 30s now and we make fun of each other of how old we are now but it still makes us happy that we know each other so well all these years and still going strong. Making new friends in your 30s is tough. Especially when it comes to males making friends with other males in your 30s because its a different approach. The last person I made friends with in my early 30s was 3 years ago and it was a former co worker who I ran into at a bar and we hangout here and there. Everyone is different and your experience may differ than mine. If you are still reading this, enjoy your life and really, dont let age get to you. Enjoy every moment of your 30s. Embrace it.
I have to agree with her. I've only been 30 for a few months and have felt more comfort and confident than I have ever felt. I don't take people's garbage anymore because I know who I am.
Love so much. This video is everything. I’m 29 and months out from 30. I just feel so incredibly grateful for this place in life. Even without everything being perfect, I feel so much more confident, in control, yet accepting of uncertainty. You summed it up expertly. Enjoyed this video and happy to know this is a wonderful season to enjoy.
I was in a relationship that sounded a bit like yours. After 7 years, the breakup with my boyfriend looking back was a blessing in disguise. The moment I stepped foot in a grocery store after my breakup, I didn’t know what to buy. I had to remind myself that I could buy… whatever I wanted. Looking back, my boyfriend had decided everything we bought for groceries while also judged me for any items I wanted to buy and in which case, I let him change my mind. Happy to be out of that relationship.
Things I learned in my 30’s. 1) what AM radio is. 2) What hangovers really feel like. 3) what it is to love unconditionally. Yw
Nice. I discovered #2 & #3 but I’ll try and revisit the first one. I only tune to AM channels for road emergencies or event traffic.
My biggest lesson was how credit scores worked and the importance of building credit. I spent my late teens, twenties, and early thirties in the military and never had credit cards or took out any loans. When I was medically retired at 35, I realized I had no credit what-so ever, and really wished I had of built up credit history. They really should teach that information in High School economics class.
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A lot of this is excellent advice. I'd like to add my 2 cents to this topic even though I haven't quite hit 30 yet.
1. Quit concerning yourself over petty things. This is the main source of teenage drama, but it also happens among people in their early 20s. Distressing over something inconsequential can really detract from a greater goal or a bigger problem. I find that this can be resolved by asking yourself "Will all of this matter 5 days from now? Heck will this matter 5 hours from now?"
2. Have a variety of hobbies. I'm sure everyone has a favorite thing to do in their spare time, but doing it isn't always possible. It is also easier to get bored from doing the same thing over and over. I enjoy hiking and visiting national parks a lot, but when I am stuck at home I will read a book from my mini-library, or watch anime.
3. Stay fit and active. Try to get a gym membership, or go for a run a few days a week. Even simple calisthenics at home work. The benefits of staying true to a consistent workout regime will pay off. And don't forget a healthy diet, I find this harder to maintain than getting regular exercise.
All 3 of those are very important 🙌🏼 I agree completely.
Sage advice that for any age.
Some really good advice here for you younger people. I am 51 now and wish I had heard this when I was in my younger days. I am glad you have found such a peaceful mental space to dwell in. It definitely shows in your work and interactions on scope. Keep on keepin' on!
Thank you. I like being in this place ☺️
I'm turning 30 tomorrow, thank you for this💜!
Love this thank you :) I’m 24, going on 25. Wanting to go full time into real estate and quit my job t just scared! This was a great encouragement to just go for it because I have so many decades left
I’m glad this gave you encouragement! Real estate definitely seems like a “people” business. I would imagine that if you’re naturally good with people, you have the potential to succeed, depending on what market you’re in. Would you be keeping your current job and do real estate school at the same time and then quit your current job once you’re licensed? That’s exciting!!
Steph, I am so incredibly proud of you. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your growth and your journey. I’m learning from you and you’re helping me grow. We’re going to do even more great things, I just know it ♥️
Be yourself, everyone else is already taken. This is one of my favorite quote. BTW my 30s has already gone a long time ago, Haha.
Yes! I love that quote!
Bless your heart, Steph! Being half way through my 40's I have learned a lot along the way as well. 2020 has really shown us to expect changes! I need a vacation trip so bad right now!!!
Why no, Honey, bless YOUR heart! Yes, I think we all will appreciate vacation so much more.
"Travel as much as you can" is the best thing of being single ✈️👍🏻 You inspires me a lot you have a great matured mentality 😊
Very true! Thank you 😊
"It's totally okay to still not know what I want to do with my life." I nearly cried when I heard that because I really needed that validation. At 33, I still don't have it figured out what I want to do with my life and I always felt so bad about it.
What made you want to reveal yourself? Wow this is a very revealing and somewhat vulnerable video about yourself. I applaud you for your openness and heart-felt honesty. Thank you for the great advice.
Is it really that much of a surprise though? I still wasn’t specific about my exact age, but I’m not about to try and pretend I’m in my 20s 😂
@@StephTaylerLive no not really in most of your videos I have watched your really wysiwyg. What you see is what you get. You are genuinely a very humble woman and like my fishing buddies would often say "She's a Keeper" ;-) I can guess your age give or take a few years.
Thanks a lot for this amazing video, I'm currently in my 20s and your video has helped me to reflect on and figure out my own ways of living, and how to improve my life! Have a great day and an amazing life! :)
Oh to be in my 30’s again 😋. Always positive vibes with you Steph, thank you.
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Well in the next decade or so you just might actually get to be in your 30's or 20's cell age wise with the new longevity research that is coming out.
When you said that busy does not equal successful, that really resonated with me. I often had that thought when I was just working and working more, prior to Covid 19 happening. I really want to travel more while I'm still in my 30s. This video was inspirational, and a nice reminder that it's never too late to make changes in life, but to also accept change as it comes.
Isn’t it interesting how we (as a society/generation) think that having our calendars packed is going to bring us success? And it’s funny how many of us will wear it as a badge and compare who has more on their plate lol I’m glad this resonated with you!
@@StephTaylerLive It is interesting. Right now, I feel like my job is more a means to an end. I'm 32 and still waiting to find a "calling." Lol. You should make a video about some of your top favorite international travel destinations, or maybe your time in the military! I think that would be cool!
Agree with you 💯 %! I embrace your positiveness and the the way you presented this video! Short, sweet and to the point!♡
Thank you, Steph! 😇🙏
omg. the whole collection of travel recordings is pure gold. you are above and beyond as you shared in your previous content. so maybe you could take this to another level and be a travel guide. actually set up travelling for others and get into the with others thing. i know you a super independant and that is where its at to master you craft. so what is next for you? i'd love to talk with you on the phone in the future. you are a total pro. ttyl............... m. :)
Hi! I am turning 30 next month and your video helped me to embrace my 30s and live my best life possible. Thank you for the advice :)
What I learned in my 30s was that I couldn't drink like I was in my 20s anymore 😔
Looking forward to what lessons my 40s will teach me 😁
Omg so true 😩😩😩😂
You will just realize that you can't drink like in your 30's, hehe. All jokes aside I am really enjoying my 30's and I am healthier than nearly all my friends and look and feel like my younger 20's. It goes to show if you look after yourself in your 20's and keep at it in your 30's that you will be rewarded for it.
At 24, I was diagnosed with ptsd, had SEVERAL spiritual awakenings, and traumatized by cults and getting shot at while being discriminated against. I’m 28 now, life has changed in SO many ways as I approach my 30s, growing up being able to drink, get tattoos, buy a car 🚙 and house 🏠 was the go to thing. Now people are more concerned about technology, iPhones 📱, iPads, etc. they rarely have wild parties anymore and technology has caused everyone to think differently. By the time you hit your late 20s to early 30s, yes you are grateful for your parents but you think about that differently too. Some of us might think 🤔 that we were raised wrong or right. By the time I was 24, I started to question the “friends” I had, they went from being nice and caring, to inconsiderate, angry jerks who faked being nice to me (some of them were cult members). I realized, I need blame to balance out the victories, I also learned you will never fully be good or fully be bad. All in all we don’t know how to live life always.
Hey Steph! Newbie here! Subbed as of your last video. I can't get enough of travel vloggers lol. Very pleased that lockdowns are easing (though in some places, sadly it seems to be happening too soon). This was wonderful, so candid, heartfelt, eloquently said. OMG I can relate to anxiety believe me. That on top of autism spectrum disorder..it can be like gasoline on a fire sometimes. No nerves watching you that's for sure! So happy to have found this channel. (btw not a fan of creme brulee either lol)
Hey, Scott! Welcome to the clan 😉 I’m happy to have sparked some inspiration ❤️
I’m slowly approaching my 30s now. Man, my 20s have been a wild ride.
Another great video, Steph. Great advice and inspiring message. Very well done!
Thanks, Chuck 😊
casual bachelor? anyone here?
Lol. Loved this video. I absolutely love your look on life. You have this amazing confidence and it sounds like it took a lot of work to get there. Also, the anxiety section got me laughing. Youre also right with that too. Lol
Anyway, thank you. I needed this today.
Thank you! It’s been an interesting ride, but I’m happy with where it brought me 😊 Glad it helped!
I think I can relate to every single point...I turned 30 this year
The way you say "oh honey bless your heart" 😂😂😂
Hello, thank you for sharing and speaking it out. I hit most of the items that you've spoken of in this video in my 30ssss besides taking care of my body. I am getting to my late 30s now and life got busier at the moment. While in the progress of exploring and finding my true self is in my 30s, I accidentally found something more meaningful of my life from the volunteering experience. You can be a positive influencer, an example of anybody, contributing something in your own way to family, student, society, or people who in need. XD Thanks once again!
Truth, I’ve leaned all that in my mid 30s too. And I’m still learning about things till this day . I love learning and upgrading my self . What’s your most favorite thing you have learned so far ?
Favorite thing is that I’m comfortable with being myself 😊
she rode that CC in her 20's until the wheels fell off smh 🚗
Shes cute.... personality is everything. 30's are great. save cash to travel, I save gold/silver for long term. Being single and comfortable in my own skin, learning, being humble and taking ownership of my life and actions.
Excellent.
I’m new here, thank you for your travel guides and tips on what to expect. Thank you for sharing your experiences good or bad and most of all your Positive Vibes. I feel we all need this in these times. Love Aways Wins! ☺️
I can relate! feels so good to be 30! love this video!
I love your thinking and how you embrace things! It’s admirable❣️
You again
Hi Steph,
After watching this it sure made me feel good about myself.
Thanks for sharing this !!
Your voice is so soothing 😍
Thank you ☺️
Congratulations - your soul sounds fulfilled and free. All the best and happiness. Scott (from Michigan)
you are simply the best dear Steph
Thank you for this video, I just turn 30. Kind of struggling but this encouragement made my day! God Bless!
You are doing awesome things Steph 🙌🏻 you are very wise
Thanks, Matthew 😊
This is soooo comforting ❣️thank you
Perfect video. Thanks.
Im in my 20s and i cant wait to be 30
Good to hear, thank you
Fantastic video Steph.....a lot of wisdom in this video😊
Thanks 😊
DAMN! your super hot for 30, i'm 32 and I look like a crippled grandad haha
Excellent video, everyday is a gift!
Thanks! So true!
travelling is in my blood....and in yours also...choose dubai for yur next destination...you will love this city of miracles.....i have been there eight times....
Dubai is high on my list!! 🙌🏼
@@StephTaylerLive if you feel like i will be there to accommodate you.....accompanied you....November to March ..best time to visit
Imagine living through a trend of fanny packs and parachute pants and you’ll be glad to be passed your 20s.
But wait long enough and all that ishh comes back lmao
Steph Tayler Live Truth! 😱 😂
What i learned in my 40s is that i still look younger, stronger and healthier then those in their 20s.
The movie Idiocracy was literally a documentary.
Despite your makeup, your failings and aging face is obvious
Found the incel!
@@kp361 truth hurts huh?
Get used to it. You have a whole the size of it and its going to get repeatedly rammed in there
30 is young.
‘Tis.
Steph Tayler Live , because I am over 50 and my youngest nephew is 34. 😅😅😅
Thank you for this video that i appreciate. Taking care of ourself is important in order to be a better person :-)
U r a stunner 💖! I absolutely agree with ur outlook in life!
Thank you ☺️
I love your Dress/Top by the way and thank you for this video
Please do a video of you doing voices. You are brilliant!
Like, impressions? 😂 That would be fun!
@@StephTaylerLive yes!
lol, not everyone gets into debt, not everyone has a failed marriage.
Fantastic as usual 👏👏👏👏
Thanks Layne 💕
Wow , you are amazing! I like everything you have spoken.
Thank you 🙏
@@StephTaylerLive : I'm honest and speaking the truth ☺️.
Steph sensible advice and what did you studied at uni? It is so ridiculous the cost of tertiary education in the States compared to Australia where I am from. As well the medical expenses are astronomical that it beggars belief you are living in supposedly the richest country in the world. First world name but third world standards. So sad. Stay safe and hope to see you shoot more wonderful videos in the future.
I love you already. I love women who are conformable in their own skin.
This video was on point.
Thanks so much
Nailed it girl
You have great diction, very clear and nice cadence, soothing timbre. Formally trained or self taught?
Thanks. I’ve been told by people in the music industry that I have an “expensive voice” 😂 Should I start a podcast? No training other than news reporter training a few years ago.
Steph Tayler Live you could the next Barbara Walters.
Live yourself be free.
Hey what happened to you? No new videos anymore? Hoping your ok and looking forward to new adventures 😀 stay safe out there
I'll still have my Hello Kitty stuff .
When I turn 30.
I don't care what anyone thinks😝 and if I get a prince charming a.k.a a man well let's just say he'll look good in hello Kitty stuff 😋🤪
WHAT ❓Guys wear Hello Kitty stuff too😊🌼
Yep I'm that 27 year old that is confident🤨
well sometimes 🙂 self supporting and knows what she wants.
When she wants more hello Kitty stuff 😍🌼😁 yes I'm obsessed but I can afford to be 😋
Ok ok I got social anxiety issues too nobody's perfect🥴 Luv's💖ya Steph 🤗🌼💕💖
You, my friend, are perfect 💕 🐱 ❤️
Looking so pretty. God bless you and your family. I am Adeel Riaz from Karachi
Don't worry about it...you're so beautiful.
Not worried about it at all 😊 Thanks!
Your voice it's good
You forgot to put at the top of the list "GOD FIRST"
💖
Love you 💕 🤗
What is the name of the song in the beginning?
Lol, a whole video about feelings
interesting!! at this time the video has 11,111 viewsn and if I remove "Jun" it's left with 22, 2020.
Being single in your 30s is the best don't know if I will every get married or have kids
Hi are you in Athens ?
You're from Texas, aren't you? Bless your heart.
I’m not, but have family in Tennessee and Georgia 😂
@@StephTaylerLive I always thought that was what a Texan woman said implying you're a moron. 🤣
You have a beautiful mind
You Bobby should consider a full-time relationship.
Omg your so cute, beautiful. You seem like the type of strong women I want to be!
Thank you ☺️💕 I’m sure your strength is there!
He was rich right , now you are his whole.
Btw. What did you have for dinner? Also, never assume you have 7 decades, assume you have 8. 😉
YES. And I had an egg spinach shiitake scramble for dinner.
Why would anyone get married if there was no intention of having children?
Focus on yourself
I feel like I’m 100 years old but I’m actually a 30 year old
Take one free advice...Make your own family...Living with your parents shows how childish you are...Your family will support you even when your parents leave earth and go to stars...People make their family only because they have same life expectancy...
I'll eat all the creme brulee
You can haz 🥴
I’m going to be 30😭😭😭
Cuántos años tienes !? 😲 Te ves muy joven ...
I wonder where she is now…
Steph, I though you were 20 something.
Thanks 😊 I am, according to this 👉❤️ and this 👉🧠