Should you beat your child???🤔🤔🤔|| KULTURE SHOCK
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Beating children over school fees is not nice at all. It's not even their fault😢
"Don't beat out of anger" Holy Spirit told me the same thing when I asked why he wouldn't allow me to scold my kid bro. You are in the spirit sir.
Kulture shock, a topic suggestion - why do some believers post certain things like prayers and statements being directed to God on their WhatsApp status?
We then got to ask, does God view WhatsApp status?😁
Then it being personal, why do some of us bring it to social media?
26:30 My dad didn't beat us everyday, sometimes it was like once in 3 to 6 months but the punishments were scary: kneeling down in the dark living room while he's sleeping 😭. I'm still scared of him till date, anytime he gets angry I don't even want to be near him. But my mom hardly touched us, once in a while she'll do some light spanking and say some scalding words and these words I'd never forget. Ironically my dad was hardly home, leaves at first light and comes when we've slept already, my mom was stay at home till I was in SS1 or so. I've just realized that I wasn't so tough to raise, especially the beating part, that doesn't change me no matter the fear, my mother always used the scriptures to scold us, till date I can't rebel against them because "rebellion is like witchcraft" 😂😂😂. I've decided that each child should be dealt with according to their person. I'm a teacher, so I have kids already by proxy, I've realized that they've been beaten by other teachers a lot, and flogging even wastes the teaching time 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I have to make them feel pain a different way, maybe low scores or kneeling down while others are learning. For me my dad's beating and punishments were traumatizing. Let's all try to incorporate positive reinforcement
This topic captured my attention.
Remembering scenarios now, I've just been laughing. I can really relate with Mary about beating till your skin tears😅 I had one that prevented me from sitting for about two weeks.
I was a gentle girl in school so I didn't get much school lashes but was very stubborn at home.
Having grown up now, not yet a parent tho but have been privileged to handle children, I would most times not beat them while I'm still angry. There are times I just tell them to go first then calmly cane them later and of course I do a lot what Jeremiah said about having a discussion as to why they were flogged or about to be flogged with them and in the long run, they'll be like "I deserve it, just beat me."
That makes children see things from the adult's perspective. And most times helps them have a change of heart as regards the action that caused the discipline.
There are times when after I had calmed down, I really don't see a need to beat the child or maybe just get another means of discipline asides beating.
Getting to know each child is important, my big bro was the word type. Me, if I haven't been caned, I wouldn't behave. 😅
I've as well come to learn that discipline by beating has a stage limit. As children grow most especially teen age, I think there's the need to reduce the cane and have an understanding discussion instead.
Cos yeah, I said I wouldn't cane my children but I currently have some very stubborn children that I'll want to lash all my energy in but... I will hold my peace. So, I can't say if I won't cane them or not but I think I most likely will.
My mum would say: "Tí egba òbá yanjú òrò omo, oòwa gbàdúrà tìí" (If a child won't yield to disciplines take it up in prayers)
Well done Team Kulture Shock, the table fixers. 👍👍👍
This flogging matter ehn.
I was flogged with; "pankere", koboko, belt, hose, fan belt, plank, slap, broom, pot, ...
O boy, it was something else. How about the series of punishment styles!!
We thank God for life 😂😂
I feel like you did ciga obo😂
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But really some children don't need explanation.
Most times kids don't even need to be beaten imagine a child of 4 telling his mum "mummy we are going to your room and we'll spoil something" knowing fully well that he'll be beaten. As much as we discipline them we should pray for them
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My Parents always quoted scripture to show you the bible supported discipline and when I grew older and they switched from beating to talking I preferred beating because my dad’s words are weighty 😢😢
A week later you will still remember his words 😩😩
Every episode of Zion Kulture brightens my mood everytime. God bless you guys in Jesus Name.❤❤❤
As young people who have children and aspire to have, despite how we must have grown up, it's important to learn positive and negative consequences that we can do in raising children. Every action should have a consequence, if a child does something good there should be a positive consequence, to encourage good behavior and when a child misbehaves the negative consequences should come in such as, withdrawal of something important to the children, isolation in a corner....etc.
It's important to ask God for guidance to parent each child right.
Wow!!!!! Another episode on Zion Kulture shock, I've been impatiently waiting for this 🎉🎉to 🎉🎉🎉😅
It's a wonderful topic..... And I believe beating shouldn't be exempted from discipline, but it shouldn't be too much.
👍 to the most experienced 😂, you really tried 😂
Plenty lessons learnt.
The ending part got me 😂😂😂😂.
Thank you Zion Kulture.
😂😂😂😂I like the end Adam name the fish😂😂😂😂
Great show🤗🤗.
Please don’t talk over each other. Mary and Jeremiah couldn’t even finish their stories. Allow people to finish their stories before jumping around please. It’s probably editing but for viewers it looks somehow. That my opinion sha. Josh calm down please. Let people finish talking
There is a woman in my compound who always insults and curse her children upon every slightest mistake..now those children behave somehow.
19:08 That was exactly how my mom did hers. She'll tell us why she was going to beat us.
She was always like "I'm not beating just because what you did was bad but also because your action had consequences that I'll spend money to correct"😂😂
Nice watching Zion Shock 💯❤️
Only African children can relate to the beating and discipline 😅😅. Nah this parents wey disciplined you go still talk say make you no beat your children 😊. Kai, God bless our parents.
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Mom can't tell me that
she herself known she can't
@@weaponofwarefarechannelyou really need to heal sha
@@weaponofwarefarechannelyea you need to heal ❤
God bless you Jaymikee. Children should be given room for dialogue. It is not easy to keep quiet when ehat your parents are saying is wrong. They always assume based on what to think.
Always my favorite team of Zion Culture presenters...Mary's elocution 🔥
Very unrelated
But zion culture can you give us a list of mountzion movie recommendations that is in university/nysc setting. E.g: The bonds, Abbatoir etc
"Mary, we're together right? No we are not"😆😆🤣 That went shuuuuu
Ahh ahh "Adam named Titus the fish" 😂😂😂
First view!
I have a question:
What do you do in a situation where the child starts beating other children on school as a result of the method of disciple used by the parents?
Mary, we are together right?😅😅
Thumbs up my people 👍
Bros Jeremiah!
Ifa explain before beating him I'll not do the beating the way I want again 😂
The beating and fear lashed on us trimmed us to being better persons today... Our parent had little fear sending us out of the house to school and other places. The only thing they didn't do was showing us love and helping us build courage and strength
So this what I'll do better when I get to my stage of parenting..... I'll by God grace try to show my children love and build up their self esteem but beating... I won't let Dem go Scot free in terms of erring.
😂😂 4:34 justice for ife 😂😂
Beautiful lady, you have such great points and I really felt your hurt as you gave your story. I just wish you would speak in your natural accent as it would make it easier to hear and understand you.
God bless.
Words pained me the most😂, In school i was very mischievous but i always got out of trouble, i mean not everyone has that grace😂
they should re do this episode and invite me. My God!!!!!!
Jeremiah!!😂😂😂😂 seems like you had a very interesting childhood😂😂😂
Nice one
Discipline is key
God richly bless you for breaking and fixing this table 👌
Jeremiah really had experience😂😂
Concluding food for thought from Jaymikee😂
Nigerian children can relate
No ice cream for two weeks 😂
I laughed hard, almost crying tears in this eps. you guys are epic and hilarious
My favourite team of presenters. 💃💃💃
Beautiful perspectives😊we are learning . May God help us ❤🎉
Omor, I was so strong-willed, really.
There was one time my brother would not listen to me and I felt like he was reprimanding me in the wrong way so the teenage me who was asked to write an English essay I decided to teach my brother how he should discipline me the end result lemme not talk but thank God for salvation sha
Discipline is keyyyy💯
Ife James, Rev'd James is such a gentle father😢😂
There's also Ogo, back then.
Interesting conversation!!!
Discipline is the focus though, not beating. We should remove the mindset of beating from our hearts and ask HolySpirit to give us wisdom to discipline our children.
We can utilise the spiritual rod (the Word of God) so well, that we will rarely need the physical rod.
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I just love the topics you guys address❤❤❤
Uncle Jay and team thank you so much for this timely message... I have a toddler of 2 and I would want to know the time and age best to start discipline and is crying and wailing all the time enough reason to discipline
Wholesome and educative show as always❤🎉
My mama was hard to deal with,we all was afraid of her,if she beat one of us the other of us will go hiding,one day from school I got home and I ask my mom a question because my class mate had ask me to pronounce something but I couldn't and they ask me to go ask my mother and I did when I got home,my mother gave me the beating of my life and for years I did not for anything or day ask her any question because I was afraid she will beat me again,not on till recently I thought let me test her if she have changed,and to God be the glory she had changed indeed and she was glad I ask her what I ask her after many years.
So I said to my self even if am going discipline my children that will be after question,if there warrant beating I will give to them and I have been doing that ,since I have younger siblings
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂,,,, ahahaha 😂 mu stomach oooo
Another slang is 'Abara'
This the best one ever ❤❤😅😅 life us Africa kids in our time hmm
8:36 😂😂😂 this story is straight up from Mr Bones 😂😂😂 remember when the fat guy went number 2 in the drum and the people living there turned on the light 😂😂
When I was eight, something happened and my uncle told my brother to make sure he disciplines me.
Guy gave me 200 strokes of Cain, I landed in the hospital with swollen body all over. Chai can't forget that beating in my life 😂.
Of course I forgave him few years after I got saved but then... The memory of me shouting " brother mi Ejo " and jumping from one room to another still lingers over 20 years after.😢
Oh my God
That one is abuse oo😮
Nothing was done to him 😢
Your brother was definitely beaten always that is why he felt the need to beat you merciselessly like that
It is disgusting!!!
For me it was definitely the words. Till now I'm sensitive to words.
The beating just made me more stubborn, they didn't know what to do with me in school.
As for expressing myself, I avoid talking to those older than me because expressing my thoughts is usually tagged as rude.
Bottom line the way we were raised did us good and a lot of bad.
It didnot do any good
I was well beaten..😂😂
A very big thank you to Zion Kulture for everytime, everyone who contributes to the growth of this us immensely blessed by God.
Here's a quick question that I have.
Do we instill the fear of repercussion on the children or the fear of the parents I mean the personality or both are to be instilled?.
I hope clarification to get clarification on this.
Thanks.
Fear of repercussion will instill healthy fear(reverence) for parents.
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My mom will beat me then take me to the clinic next morning 😂
The communication works for me and my children now
Well, folks call Ife James “Captain James”
my mom put peper rodo for my eye
not bully I too stubborn then
I love her that way
and my unborn children go hear d story practical if dey no wan behave the way that praise the Lord
You need to heal
Already dreaming about beaking kids you have not even given birth to is disgusting
37:33 I see my mum using that for our lastborn. 😂😂
I was beaten ehhhh😂
lai se messiah😅😅😂
Please help us with some English explanations, some of us can’t comprehend🙏
I was beaten by my mom with razor blades, I till have the mark up till now
Razor blade ke 😳😳 how???
Haba na!😶😲
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Please where can we get the link to register
I need knowledge, because I was beaten, my mom beats you while holding you suspended on one leg, where the energy comes from is divine, dad beat me and I ran away from home and no one wanted to house me in because they thought I was a thief that survived mob justice😂😂😂
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Can one person finish talking before another person starts interrupting, it's too much.
Trauma
How can I register for mount zion academy?
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Wait… he attended Adesina College???!!!!! He no chop pinch????😂😂💔💔 May our Proprietor’s would rest in peace ❤️ Man was that disciplinarian!!!
Discipline is keyyyy💯