Why Do You Hate Yourself ?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2024
- Hello Guys,
We understand that marketing this episode as ADHD can be so misleading, especially since all 3 people here are only self Diagnosed. And it really can cause harm in the later part of life where people misuse this word and claim it for themselves without getting it checked out. This is now an entire conversation about "Why you hate yourself" and part of this conversation is BECAUSE you are not properly Diagnosed. We made a big mistake and a big error. We are sorry. We can only improve from this point forward. But in the mean time, I truly hope this episode still has something to offer for the people out there who are still in the Self Diagnosed stage.
Sincerely,
BorakSpace.
Hello Guys,
We understand that marketing this episode as ADHD can be so misleading, especially since all 3 people here are only self Diagnosed. And it really can cause harm in the later part of life where people misuse this word and claim it for themselves without getting it checked out. This is now an entire conversation about "Why you hate yourself" and part of this conversation is BECAUSE you are not properly Diagnosed. We made a big mistake and a big error. We are sorry. We can only improve from this point forward. But in the mean time, I truly hope this episode still has something to offer for the people out there who are still in the Self Diagnosed stage.
Sincerely,
BorakSpace.
the act of listening is so important in a podcast bcs i've listened to other podcasts where the host suka cut off ppl and cakap kuat kuat T.T Borakspace is so easy to listen especially this episode.
to more episodes to comeee!!
ayyy adib rambut baru lahh 😆
@@yayanadhirah1687 hihihhiii
Hi guys, a fan here. Just want to advise to be a little bit careful on discussing this mental health topic, to avoid people misusing(abusing) 'the term' such possibility to downplay the actual clinical problem to those who really been diagnosed medically. Awareness is good, but don't generalize to every "incompetency" or lack of disciplines relates to ADHD. Good if a disclaimer to seek a mental health expert is mentioned or stated.
tq sangat borak space❤ btul akim cakap,timing sgt btul,skrg ada masalah,and tgk ni baru tau ada adhd🥹and dapat tips utk recover balik
Me all the time watching this always say " yedooooooo " HAHAAHAHAH
Basically nabi² lain kecuali nabi Muhammad is pernah buat salah tapi bukan dosa soooo masa kat akhiratkan kalau kita jumpa nabi² lain dia kata aku tak boleh tolong kau ..sebab aku sudah buat salah di dunia ...dan akhir sekali kita jumpa baginda nabi Muhammad saw utuk dia beri syafaat kepada kita sebab nabi Muhammad tak pernah buat salah soo kat sini
Kita boleh tengok nabi and rasul takde dosa tapi pernah buat salah ...(Kalau nabi Muhammad pulak takde dosa dan takde buat salah )..soo itu sahaja penerangan saya kalau ada salah tegurlah ...semoga memberi manfaat😊
cuma nak betulkan sikit ye bang, yg pasal Nabi tu ,Baginda tak pernah buat dosa sbb Nabi itu bersifat "ma'sum" terhindar/terlepas dri dosa, so senanya peristiwa yg kita nampak cam Nabi buat dosa tu senanya ada hikmah yg Allah nak tunjuk dri peristiwa ii tersebut...Mohon betulkan saya kalau ada salah ye...pape pun borak space mmg mantap lagi ii ngan adib pehhh 🎉
Betul. Maafkan saya. Terima kasih tunjuk ajar. InshAllah improve in the future.
This is why you guys are my all time favourite podcast ever like how relatable & grounded perspectives you guys gave which so connected with me who is still struggling growing up & trying understanding myself. You guys help me a lot, may Allah blessed Borak Space sampai aku tua! Please jgn mati
I think the best thing to do rather than surrender to the symptoms, finding ways to accommodate the symptom/ executive dysfunction is much more viable ways to maneuver the ADHD pathways and seeing/finding grace in every part of your actions it's the way to be/ creating a better norms (a positive one) for yourself. My biggest struggle as fellow ADHD'er, was time blindness. The tendency to hyper fixates regardless of importance of certain events/activities but the communities help me overcome it by creating a habits that compliment my mental capacities by time blocking the activities rather than an action driven to -do-list which work for me like a charm. Having this kind convos was really important which bring everyone to one same understanding. Yeah, I really happy seeing people with the same struggles had their own way to copes and solves the problem in their own ways! Arigotou-nee Borak Space for bring this conversation up into the podcast! 🤯😀
Bang yedam!
Adib rambut baruuu
GET CLINICALLY TESTED FOR ADHD. DON’T JUST ASSUME YOU ARE. Aite Stay Healthy Babies ✨❤️
bang yedam mentioned 😝😝
but bile tgh eps malas tu, mmg akan auto buat kita rasa worthless. itu yg buat marah & the endless fight dgn diri sendiri :(
😢
Read somewhere that kita punya roh yg agree like “sign agreement” with God to go thru all the journey in our life. So kalau ada yang kurang.. you are the one who agree with that. So.. accept who you are.
Realize so many things, Thank You BORAK SPACE!❤✨
Tenkiu korang, relatable iler eps ni 😭 Ada komen² yg suruh get the diagnosis, i've tried emailing and calling Mentari, takde reply, tak angkat call. I really really wanna get the effing treatment, penattttt tau hidup dan struggles dengan thoughts yang macam ni.
Nak pergi private, duit tak ramai. Pergi Mentari, depa tak respon. Seeking help pun memenatkan. Give up.
apa benda la . for me society creates new name for normal human behavior/habits. bukan nak memudah/meremehkan sesebuah kondisi. tapi kalau seseorang pandai control (problem) yang korang hadap with something new, adakah korang akan rasa benda tu struggle/problem? masalah besar mana pun akan selesai. cepat atau lambat je. jangan rush korang punya life, membesar dengan normal. jangan letak korang dalam sesebuah penyakit tu. chill, keluar dan berkawan la dengan ramai orang. buat hobby baru whatever it takes dan jangan letakkan diri korang dalam sesebuah kelemahan.
Setengah orang boleh live their lives that way. Setengah orang tak boleh. Kami faham abang nak menasihat, tapi nasihat tu tak perlu datang dengan Nada memerli. Abang maybe boleh control the narrative of your thoughts. Tapi ramai lagi kat luar sana yang struggle dengan benda macam ni. Ramai kat situ perlu diagnose, faham step hidup diorang dan sebagainya. Cara abang hidup, adalah cara abang hidup. Tapi tak semua orang boleh ikut cara abang. Otak manusia semua lain2. Adib dan Harith ada jauh lagi ramai kawan dari saya, jauh lagi banyak hobby dari saya. Tapi diorang ada dilema untuk menerima kekurangan diorang. Itu je point episode ni bang.
Benda tu struggle bang. Sebab nya dia menggangu kehidupan seharian orang yg ada ADHD. Kadang bos panggil then dia bagi kerja dekat kita. Then taksampai 5 minit kadang aku lupa apa yang bos aku suruh buat bang. Lepastu aku stress sendiri. Kadang esoknya baru teringat. Kadang bos aku yang tanya "kerja dah siap ke?". Sebab kadang aku dah takleh refresh otak aku and aku terus malas nak fikir, dia buat kita jadi penat. Faham takk ?!
So you jangan nak meremehkan org mcm ni. Sebab kau takde dekat tempat mereka.
Done membebel. Bye
@@OMGHakimParker you said it yourself towards the end of this topic. benda tu kita yang control. mungkin nada saya salah, but i was just saying my thoughts as another human being yang hidup in same world as you. salam
@@nursabiha7652 salam and dear adik, i know the struggle which i have face it too. but itu dipanggil phobia atau takut sampai lupa, tiada niat atau prasangka buruk. maafkan saya jikalau terlihat/kedengaran kasar/meremehkan. niat saya cuma menyampaikan pendapat saya yang juga lalui masalah2 yang ada di muka bumi tanpa specified jenis2 penyakit libatkan mental. akhir kata, maaf jikalau adik memandang ke perspektif berbeza. salam
@@user-gw2lo7bp6z its okey. Takpelah bang. Saya memang phobia dengan semua benda bang. Nak bernafas pon saya malas. Bye
ADIB NCEMMM RAMBUT BARU!
berapa kali siot aku menangis tngk episode ni 😭 bnyk kali aku tanya org mcm mana kau baca buku? mcm mana kau study? kat skolah dulu mcm mana kau paham cepat sngt cikgu ajar? all the voices kacau focus. bila org kata kosong kan fikiran "clear your mind" aku pn mcm ape benda kau merepek ni? mana boleh kosongkan pikiran sbb ada je suara bercakap dalam kepala non stop
Kaaannnn?!! Macam mana diorang buat. Rupanya baru tahu otak diorang lain kita lain. Kalau nak best boleh check Jaden animation - adhd ni pun hakim sendiri suruh saya tengok!
thanks already summarize a lot nih, illah !
Saya ingin berkongsi, saya tak pasti adakah kisah yg dicerita sama dengan yang ingin saya kongsi.
Tentang nabi tak cakap Insya-Allah.
Pembesar2 Quraisy ingin bertanya tentang roh dan berjanji akan memeluk Islam. Nabi sangat teruja dengan pertanyaan dan hajat mereka, baginda bersungguh mahu menjawab sehingga tidak mengucapkan Insya-Allah.
Wahyu ditunggu sehingga pembesar Quraisy mula mengatakan dimana wahyunya?Tiada jin yang hantar? Kemudian Allah menurunkan wahyu yg mengisahkan tentang Zulkarnain, Surah Al-Kahfi.
Tak tengok lagi tapi best.
thanks for opening my eyes do
WOO BANG YEDAMMM
cakap pasal dah boleh tidur tu. aku buat yg macam hakim pernah cakap, yg main game sambung2 huruf dlm kepala tu. nak bagitau, jadi weh, kejap je dah tidur.
samaaa, jdi cepat tidur dri biasaa.. thankyou do hakimm🥹🫶🏻
saya suka adib muah
Yeeee do. Mcm aku sorang technician computer. But interest dlm programming. Skrang dh lihai 😂. Cuma xda orang nak pandang kami. But ye do
paling geram eh ada guest lain juga meow tuuuu
Saya penghidap ADHD setiap bulan. Ada Duit Habis Duit
BANG YEDAM GAISEKK YEE BOYFIEE SAYAAAA 😭🫶🏻❤️🔥
PERTAMA!
Yeahh adib maybank
struggle jugak inside voice tu
Boleh ganti f**k kepada perkataan yg lebih baik. Content dah bagus. Terima kasih.
Hurm i wonder, good argument haha self diagnosed doesn't gonna answer your uhuhh,oooo,aaa..dia 'umpama memandai-mandai' so its better to stop thinking what youre thinkin, get your ass up leave it to the doctor. Go to gov hospital rediagnose quite cheap tho rm5 per visit im sure about the price it was 3-4 years ago lol.. so hope that helps Asalamulaikum
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