Crystal Kinchen who knows? This may hav led to her sickness.. Believe me i've seen this movie before, no pun intende, when my mother hid some despicable things from me and then i watched it literally eat her from the inside out with cancer cuz she had so many secrets.
W is the client and the only one that has to be in the same room as well today so I will be able to be there by the time we can meet up for a drink or something to do in the same room as well as the only thing I can think of is that ok or do to call me back from my trip to be at the same time and I hope it goes away and I will have to wait for my birthday is on the only one who is the case I will be there in the morning and will not be in the same time and I will call me when u know what we are at work and come back to work and come back to work and come
Just before Christmas we lost someone on our side of the family. He had a heart condition for years. Yet this last mishap really did a number on him. The hospital sent him home with meds but he knew this was to be his last Christmas.He went shopping a few weeks before to get his kids all their gifts but he passed on in the front seat of his truck . He didn't make it for his last Christmas but his will left instructions that they all get couriered a couple wks before Christmas and they did. The gifts made it. He still made it happen.
No, he and the kids did know she was sick. She took off the wig to show him how life is short and how she didn’t have much time left and she wanted him to forgive him and forgive also her before she died because she knows it’s her fault while their relationship is strained.
@@thecrazy1jeff260 Lance and the kids knew she was sick. She even says to him when he walks in on her and Harper talking "Harper knows" and even one of their kids say to Harper "She's a little better now". I think the wig thing is Lance just realising how weak she feels and looks now and he doesn't have much time left with his wife
@@moneymatters8457 thats why mia did it tho. she cheated on lance once with harper bc she knew it would hurt lance deeper than if she cheated on him with soke rando they way he be doin with her. she really did it to get back at him
@@Phat_336 that is like u cheating on your man and he sleeps with your best friend or he sleeps with your sister it's gonna cut deep. Mia knew if she slept with Harper that would cut him worse than if Murch or Q did it
no lie when she says " And im sorry that i choose him" its like WOW you can see it in lance face cause basically he went so many years being pissed off at harper without knowing the Whole Truth from mia's side
I think he knew because in Harper's book it said she came to him. I think he just stayed in denial and put it all on Harper so it would be easier to handle.
Lance really has no reason to be mad at Harper, let's not forget the fact he was cheating on Mia during college. He could've chosen not to marry her or at least tried to work on their relationship but he did and he didn't so he made himself suffer. I bet that if Mia had slept with somebody else Lance wouldn't have been so upset. Sorry I'm ranting, but that's my opinion.
thats actually true. idk y some men get like that. if they do it ..it aint that bad. we do it..its horrible. but yes lance was doin all kinds of cheating on her and she did cuz she was angry at him.
+Randy Jr. Tagoe Paybacks a bitch but he had it coming, he should be angry at Mia more than Harper cause it was her that cheated on him without hesitating and he didn't even put up a fight
I can totally understand why Lance is pissed at Harper and not Mia. Lance cheated on Mia and hurt her a million times so he can forgive her because he feels he deserved it. Whereas Harper was his best friend and he never did anything to warrant Harper hurting him so the betrayal is harder to let go of.
Shawn P. Right, women don't understand that tho, it's levels to it, yeah Dude cheated but he cheated with random females, not one of her friends like she did, you just don't do that
Auburn Perry Lance and Mia both should just chuck it up to the game. Lance cheated on her with a thousand chicks; and in Mia's eyes this one night with Lance was equivalent to the thousand times her heart was shattered by his infidelity. Was it right on either end? Hell no but when you do somebody wrong you have to reap what you sow. They both hurt each other, and lost touch with their closest friends in the process....
This goes to show you that a man can do things to hurt a woman to the core over and over again and a woman does one thing (not saying it's a small thing) and it can almost destroy him. She chose Harper most definitely because if you're going to hurt someone for hurting you you don't go chose a random person, you choose the person that means the most to him his best friend, his best man. Mia knew what she was doing but Lance was in denial about Harper and Mia thinking it was just Harper. Harper (as cave man as this sounds) was just being a man. Mia had an agenda and even after all of the women Lance slept with Mia only had to sleep with one...
Funny how this all works. All these years Lance had hard feelings against Harper for his actions while in denial about Mia’s part in it. That Mia is making Lance come to grips with it is huge
What I think people forget is that Mia was Harper’s friend also. He hooked them up knowing she was a virgin and that lance was a lady’s man. He felt like he played a part in breaking Mia’s heart and that’s why he slept with her. He was trying to make her feel better. Even though it was wrong. Forgiveness is everything.
Ya broads and ya delusion and I’m a woman saying this he didn’t sleep with Mia to make her feel better he did it for his own selfish reasoning. Sometimes it’s annoying knowing theirs so many women who place blame on the men when ya be at fault too no matter who started it. She could’ve slept with anybody in this world she wanted to sleep with Harper because it was always on the back of her mind
This my favorite part of the movie . Mia is so right although forgiveness is hard to do. That is why you need Jesus to help you through it. Let him take the burden of it. It also a divine intervention moment.
I always find it interesting that the character Lance (and commenters) truly believes he is not partially to blame. “She cheated on him with his best friend, I wouldn’t have married her, he preyed on her, he was just a college kid...” Sounds like another “boys will be boys” excuse. Truth be told. She shouldn’t have stayed with him after all his cheating. She should have left. If commenters believe she’s not wife material, then he certainly isn’t husband material. We don’t see any instance of Lance apologizing for hurting her. His character thinks he’s beyond reproach. His temper is frightening (he could have killed Harper), but she still responds gently. Harper didn’t need to prey on her because he already knew her. If he really wanted to be with her, he probably could have. Lance saw a “virgin conquest” and asked his best friend to hook them up ( it’s why I don’t play Cupid; get your own date). I’m not saying that Harper and Mia weren’t wrong, but Lance isn’t without fault.
Something about when she took that wig off. It’s like God was showing Lance why he couldn’t hold on to it anymore. He was about to lose the love of his life while holding onto the anger.
this movie hit's so close to home. I remember watching my wife who was my gf at the time fighting for her life with cancer. That shit ate me up watching her go thru what she went thru, my heart was broken and aching everyday
LaTonia Thedford yeah girl it was rite up until everyone couldn't hang anymore n went home n left me home alone board spun n high AF LMAO. So now I'm home alone listing to old school r&😀b
Remember the cards scene from the first movie, Quentin's point about women being just as scandalous as men are. Well this scene proved it because Mia did make sure she chose to sleep with the man that would hurt Lance the most. I guess Quentin somehow also figured back then that not only did Mia & Harper hook up, but he figured it was Mia who took advantage of Harper! I want to make it clear that I don't believe all women would do this against their man, but this scene proved Quentin's point from that particular scene in the first movie was not an exaggeration though!
Joseph Harris obviously ALL WOMEM DO NOT, but quite a few do bro. Women are emotional creatures. Most cant harm men physically; but emotionally/psychologically they wanna eff a man up for life. Once a woman hurts, she wanna get back @ that man in the worst way and hits him where it hurts the most- in the sack!
Yeah I knew that part, but the other part he figured out that I don't know if the book revealed so clearly was that Mia intentionally slept with Harper to get back at Lance. However, it might have because I don't remember the scene of Lance reading that part to a T enough.
What I love about this scene is deep down lance knew MiA chose his friend but his love for Mia was so great he couldnt bring himself to accept that she had any culpability in the situation it's only when she says it and tells him she cant rest is when he opens his heart
I remember completely bawling at the movies watching this..... Whole movie is an emotional roller coaster. This year this time was a tough time for me but I learned my own strength after this year and I’m grateful because it made me who I am today.
then she should have broken the engagement in part 1. How was secretly getting back at him stop him from cheating on her ever again? 2 Wrongs don't make a right
@@missyadams nobody said it did...but as a young women...she did what she felt would help HER at the time. And if didn't. It still backfired. Why aren't you saying that Lance should have never cheated on her??
This is the most important part of the movie. Betrayal, acceptance, forgiveness, sadness, anger, love….all encapsulated so beautifully, and it also really gives us the REAL as to what happened between the 3 of them. EVERYONE in this movie did such an EXEMPLARY job!
Harper was the reason for Lance and Mia’s joy and pain at the same time... He introduced Mia to lance, he hooked them up, then turned around and slept with Mia and put it in his book which he then dedicated to them as a wedding gift... Now that is a FLAGRANT FOUL if I have ever seen one
Omg so true he did dedicate that book to them . Such a mess. It’s like Harper has no soul . Very interesting man .. it’s like he was holding on to anger as well. Like y’all not so perfect Sullivan family
When we think about it, the frustration that Lance was hiding all those years surfaced in this scene. He thought he knew the entire story but, just like the previous 'The Best Man', everything was pointed right at Harper. Mia was right to own up to what she did, yet Lance had the audacity to put it ALL on Harper until she said, "I'm sorry that I chose him (Harper)." Lance cheated plenty of times with women that Mia never knew. When she cheated on Lance one time with his best friend/best man, that's what really caused hell to break loose. I'm just glad Mia managed to try to make things right before she passed. Forgiveness is expensive, but it's worth it.
He cheated and she cheated back with his best friend. His wife cheating was his Karma. The husband was cheating the entire time while they was in college.
She knew it was her and that’s why they need to pay her extra ,she did so good on this and she loyal enough to tell him it was her we need more ppl like this 🕊🕊
The one thing about this part is that she knows she was dying and didn't want to go to her grave knowing Lance is still holding anger towards Harper for something she did towards him.
They did such a great job bringing this movie to life I forgot they were real people and got caught up to the point I started to cry just an amazing performance amazing I wonder if these people know how truly talented they are and how they changed people's lives by making them think before doing things out of hurt
This part will forever be so touching. I remember watching this movie in theaters their were so much emotions and tears. I felt this scene. Mia played a part in it too that she admit. I loved how she owned that and telling Lance he needs Harper more than anything 😢😢when she took off that wig maaannn nothin but tears
Best Man Holiday damn near broke me and my Wife down in that theatre because we never saw Mia's death coming and when it did damn near the whole theatre was sobbing...Damn ...I've loved them all since Best Man and I hope 🤞🏾Lee Daniels gets them all back up on screen for BM 3 once he's done with his projects as we're all EAGERLY awaiting I'm sure...."I know I am!!"
All these years, they never had this conversation. Mia knew that 2 great friends were damn near done and still said nothing. While this scene hurts, Mia basically didn’t have to deal with any backlash from no one for her part. Harp took all the blame
@Kennamszoey Yes he did many times, however she definitely got him back by choosing his best friend. He never messed with any of her friends. It was too close to home and caused years of strain.
y’all are forgetting that in the first movie , mia & harper were friends & knew other before lance & mia knew each other . mia and harper worked together & that’s when harper introduced lance to mia . you could tell mia liked harper more
Lawd, Morris was fione in this one! 😩 This one has me in tears every time I watch it. When he let’s go of her as they are lowering her casket into the ground and he breaks down, crying ...... breaks my heart each time.
@@AT-zl6dk I know right? The part before when Mia collapses on the floor when trying to put the ornament up on the tree. I just knew something was gonna happen when he hands were shaking when trying to do her little girls hair. When everybody finally knew had me in tears. And when Lance was coming out of the stadium and his boys were there waiting for him 😢💔💔
Lance cheated on her so many times. Just to show you, a man will cheat on a women because he is man. Once a women does it, his world shatters. This can honestly go both ways because I've seen men on the other side as well.
I was so glad she had finally apologized for her part in that mess. Because I always thought Lance shouldn’t have married her. Because she did it knowing it was going to kill him. The only reason I think they made it was because Lance never focused on Mia being in the wrong. Only Harper. By keeping Harper out their lives it made it easier for him to be happily married to Mia.
It was messed up but like she said they all played a part. She did it to hurt him. Just like all his cheating hurt her. Lance started this mess!! You can't keep hurting people and not expect to get hurt back! Karma is very real!!
@@mabien11 there;s a difference in hurt. Lance didn't sleep with her bestfriend, but she slept with his bestfriend. She was in the wrong, this is why he hates harper.
@@itsyaboi1846 Question how would you respond if someone you love continued to hurt you over and over again??? Most people eventually react in a negative way. It was easy to project everything on to Harper. It's simple, you get what you put out... Lance planted seeds of deceit and betrayal. Lance in return received deceit and betrayal. You can't play with folks hearts!!!
Lucresia Mabien so late I know, but what I will say is that Lance’s cheating did hurt her and she could have left him, but her cheating not only hurt Lance, it hurt others in their circle. So even if he left her, there would have been pain for others she’s close to. She cared about Harper and she cared about harpers love interest (nia long) so her actions could or did result in something far more tragic. Lance almost killed Harper, how would she have felt then? She could have slept with one of Lance’s football teammates, which would have hurt him greatly and even maybe affected his game, but his best friend who was also her friend and her close friends love interest? Too far and that’s how people end up on the first 48
He didn’t put a gun to her head and make her sleep with him. She wanted it just as much if not more than he did. Was Harper wrong for sleeping with Mia? Yes he was, but at the end of the day Lance only has himself to blame because he was the cause of all of it. You can’t be angry at the effect while ignoring the cause.
He cheated on her with random females . She cheated on him with his best friends . That's another level . She could've cheated with any random guy but chose harper cuz she knew it would burn..she one upped himn
This is a very powerful scene. And I absolutely agree. Great movie!!! Forgiving is always right. And that is key to moving on. I let nothing stop me from forgiving. But we should never forget. That people are who they are. You can do what is right to change you but you can't change the way others are. So you forgive and move on.
Yes Lance Sullivan did cheat on Mia that's true . But I don't think he cheated on her with someone she called friend. She knew damn well that Lance and Harper were like brothers. And she came in like a snake and destroyed a bond between two best friends
Black actors don't get the credit they deserve and we don't have enough other black actors with huge platforms talking about it. This scene was amazing
Colorfulcountenance Yees honestly it did. People don't realize gulit, anger, unforgiveness, etc. Can make you physically sick. You right on point! 🤔🤔💪👏👏☝
He absolutely had no right to react like that because he had been cheating on her throughout college and she and him had broken up because of it so she was technically free to pursue, Harper didn't know that was going to happen he didn't plan to do that with her it just happened the attraction was there before lance it just wasn't strong enough to override the innocent friendship they had; when lance cheated she was devastated and she wanted to rid herself of the pain he caused her so she turned to the only person who she trust that made her feel special that was Harper; it wasn't about revenge she admitted that wasn't what she was after it was about her feeling whole again and Harper provided that; their bond was something that went way beyond anything lance and the others could understand that's why that intimate moment happened between them they both were in need of a reminder of the love they want and deserve and in that moment they found it and shared it with each other; to be brutally honest I was actually hoping that they would get together instead because they were very close and had so much in common!
I’m not here to bring up old beef but lance was the cheater in the beginning and now he know what it feels like, to be hurt and betrayed. I mean yes! it was kinda messed up that it had to be his best man that slept with mia ( it’s a low blow, I get it) at the same time mia and harper never would’ve done this to lance had lance been faithful from the start. karma ain’t no joke 😂
I felt bad for Mia, but in a way Harper and Mia both did cheating at each other to get back on each other but over the years not once Mia felt guilty for what she's have done for breaking her friendship between Harper and Lance even before their marriage and after Mia felt reappointed for her actions all her guilt and suffering course her to have cancer and it's eating her away when Mia took off her wig you can clearly see how Mia really feel about the pain she's was going through for destroying the two people she's care the most and no amount off apologize can change for have happened during college but Mia was willing to let Harper to be angry at her then to him have forgotten to his friend Lance before she's past on knowing what she's did to him was wrong and wish she's could take it back to be with her family.
The best thing someone can do if they've been cheated on is to never do what that person did to them. All it does is make you revengeful a liar and a cheat and makes you no better than the one who cheated first.
iove this scene so much, cause I love how Mia didn't try to play innocent she has owned up to her part this was really touching
MusicBlue22 immensely....She knew that it was destroying Lance inside and out...
I wish they resolved this before she got sick.
MusicBlue22 same here
Crystal Kinchen who knows?
This may hav led to her sickness..
Believe me i've seen this movie before, no pun intende, when my mother hid some despicable things from me and then i watched it literally eat her from the inside out with cancer cuz she had so many secrets.
Leonardo Braynen
Laser Guided Karma.
This wig is the best wig I've ever seen. and this is such an emotional scene
Kaliph Ikr. I thought it was her real hair...well sorta....UK what I mean lol
W is the client and the only one that has to be in the same room as well today so I will be able to be there by the time we can meet up for a drink or something to do in the same room as well as the only thing I can think of is that ok or do to call me back from my trip to be at the same time and I hope it goes away and I will have to wait for my birthday is on the only one who is the case I will be there in the morning and will not be in the same time and I will call me when u know what we are at work and come back to work and come back to work and come
@@marshekagallion844 what in the inglorious bastards is that about 🤣🤣🤣
@@dhottest1yet pm
It didn’t look like a wig at all
He's angry at Harper because he believes Harper took advantage of Mia, when it was really Mia that took advantage and used Harper.
exactly
Boom! Best Man Gospel!
MadWifey Hurt people...hurt people
Period
Like many women do.
Hearing her say "I'm sorry that I chose him" clearly was shot gun blast straight through the heart and you know Lance felt every single part of it.
You got that right
Damn right shaking on the ground twitching after getting hit with those words emotionally
That was the original intention. To get with someone close to him as payback for all the cheating.
True dat
This part broke my heart when she took off that wig. She knew that she didn't have much time left.
Alexis Williams 💯 😥
4/7/19
Yes,and just now watching this years later. Have y’all wondered how he didn’t know she been wearing a wig or been sick ? That part!
Just before Christmas we lost someone on our side of the family. He had a heart condition for years. Yet this last mishap really did a number on him. The hospital sent him home with meds but he knew this was to be his last Christmas.He went shopping a few weeks before to get his kids all their gifts but he passed on in the front seat of his truck . He didn't make it for his last Christmas but his will left instructions that they all get couriered a couple wks before Christmas and they did. The gifts made it. He still made it happen.
No, he and the kids did know she was sick. She took off the wig to show him how life is short and how she didn’t have much time left and she wanted him to forgive him and forgive also her before she died because she knows it’s her fault while their relationship is strained.
@@thecrazy1jeff260 Lance and the kids knew she was sick. She even says to him when he walks in on her and Harper talking "Harper knows" and even one of their kids say to Harper "She's a little better now". I think the wig thing is Lance just realising how weak she feels and looks now and he doesn't have much time left with his wife
Lance brought that on himself. He cheated left and right on Mia but couldn’t handle Mia’s and Harpers one night stand.
pineapple_coconut3768 Oh true but that was his best friend so I understand...
Men can dish it but can NEVER take it.
Karma came for him.
@@moneymatters8457 thats why mia did it tho. she cheated on lance once with harper bc she knew it would hurt lance deeper than if she cheated on him with soke rando they way he be doin with her. she really did it to get back at him
@@Phat_336 that is like u cheating on your man and he sleeps with your best friend or he sleeps with your sister it's gonna cut deep. Mia knew if she slept with Harper that would cut him worse than if Murch or Q did it
no lie when she says " And im sorry that i choose him" its like WOW you can see it in lance face cause basically he went so many years being pissed off at harper without knowing the Whole Truth from mia's side
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I think he knew because in Harper's book it said she came to him. I think he just stayed in denial and put it all on Harper so it would be easier to handle.
K Henderson 100% agree
@@MsYayMusic I agree as well. Lance went out of his way to not blame Mia for any of it.
Ajax Johnson 😂😂😂😂😂
when she took that wig I thought of Ebony from players club is back
+Darius Rose good..i was not the only one lol
Haha same
Darius Rose 😂😂😂
Darius Rose she has cancer?
Semaja Counsel Ebony is the character Monica Calhoun(Mia) played in the played in the Players Club.
Lance really has no reason to be mad at Harper, let's not forget the fact he was cheating on Mia during college. He could've chosen not to marry her or at least tried to work on their relationship but he did and he didn't so he made himself suffer. I bet that if Mia had slept with somebody else Lance wouldn't have been so upset. Sorry I'm ranting, but that's my opinion.
thats actually true. idk y some men get like that. if they do it ..it aint that bad. we do it..its horrible. but yes lance was doin all kinds of cheating on her and she did cuz she was angry at him.
+Randy Jr. Tagoe Paybacks a bitch but he had it coming, he should be angry at Mia more than Harper cause it was her that cheated on him without hesitating and he didn't even put up a fight
I can totally understand why Lance is pissed at Harper and not Mia. Lance cheated on Mia and hurt her a million times so he can forgive her because he feels he deserved it. Whereas Harper was his best friend and he never did anything to warrant Harper hurting him so the betrayal is harder to let go of.
Shawn P. Right, women don't understand that tho, it's levels to it, yeah Dude cheated but he cheated with random females, not one of her friends like she did, you just don't do that
Auburn Perry Lance and Mia both should just chuck it up to the game. Lance cheated on her with a thousand chicks; and in Mia's eyes this one night with Lance was equivalent to the thousand times her heart was shattered by his infidelity. Was it right on either end? Hell no but when you do somebody wrong you have to reap what you sow. They both hurt each other, and lost touch with their closest friends in the process....
This part right here. It gets me every time. So much truth right here. We all make mistakes and do dirty. Life is too short.
This goes to show you that a man can do things to hurt a woman to the core over and over again and a woman does one thing (not saying it's a small thing) and it can almost destroy him. She chose Harper most definitely because if you're going to hurt someone for hurting you you don't go chose a random person, you choose the person that means the most to him his best friend, his best man. Mia knew what she was doing but Lance was in denial about Harper and Mia thinking it was just Harper. Harper (as cave man as this sounds) was just being a man. Mia had an agenda and even after all of the women Lance slept with Mia only had to sleep with one...
Funny how this all works. All these years Lance had hard feelings against Harper for his actions while in denial about Mia’s part in it. That Mia is making Lance come to grips with it is huge
@Yemi Now, we don't know for sure that Faith slept with 2Pac
Men can't take it
@Nino-Da Blogger you better believe it. Don't dish it out if you can't take it
Oh laawd, just being a man? 🤔🤔 by banging his best friend girlfriend, you guys still using this bs excuse smh
What I think people forget is that Mia was Harper’s friend also. He hooked them up knowing she was a virgin and that lance was a lady’s man. He felt like he played a part in breaking Mia’s heart and that’s why he slept with her. He was trying to make her feel better. Even though it was wrong. Forgiveness is everything.
As many times as I’ve seen The Best Man, I never knew that Mia was a virgin.
Ya broads and ya delusion and I’m a woman saying this he didn’t sleep with Mia to make her feel better he did it for his own selfish reasoning. Sometimes it’s annoying knowing theirs so many women who place blame on the men when ya be at fault too no matter who started it. She could’ve slept with anybody in this world she wanted to sleep with Harper because it was always on the back of her mind
His voice when he said " You choose him" 😭🙌🏾 P.S I need that wig!
Yes, heartbreaking.
bbria28 aww
Lol
I Laughed When He Said You Choose Him 😭😭 These Ain’t Funny Or Nun , But Just The Way He Said It .
I felt so bad for that man
She’s such an underrated actress...what a great scene
"You chose him" gets me every time.
😥
A mess any man up
This my favorite part of the movie . Mia is so right although forgiveness is hard to do.
That is why you need Jesus to help you through it. Let him take the burden of it.
It also a divine intervention moment.
Shante Barze Jesus lol u mean cesare Borgia 😂u need to ask yahaweshi
Amen
Preach
Totally!!!
@@bells561 Shut up
I always find it interesting that the character Lance (and commenters) truly believes he is not partially to blame. “She cheated on him with his best friend, I wouldn’t have married her, he preyed on her, he was just a college kid...” Sounds like another “boys will be boys” excuse.
Truth be told. She shouldn’t have stayed with him after all his cheating. She should have left. If commenters believe she’s not wife material, then he certainly isn’t husband material. We don’t see any instance of Lance apologizing for hurting her. His character thinks he’s beyond reproach. His temper is frightening (he could have killed Harper), but she still responds gently. Harper didn’t need to prey on her because he already knew her. If he really wanted to be with her, he probably could have. Lance saw a “virgin conquest” and asked his best friend to hook them up ( it’s why I don’t play Cupid; get your own date). I’m not saying that Harper and Mia weren’t wrong, but Lance isn’t without fault.
He felt entitled by his popularity and success
The way Lance treated Mia (besides the earlier cheating when they were dating) is how a wife is supposed to be treated. Queen!
He grew up.
Unfortunately that’s what most wives go thru before getting that treatment
Thats not a queen, but a liar and a cheater
Something about when she took that wig off. It’s like God was showing Lance why he couldn’t hold on to it anymore. He was about to lose the love of his life while holding onto the anger.
Mia was his support😥 when she died that was the saddest part😭😭
this movie hit's so close to home. I remember watching my wife who was my gf at the time fighting for her life with cancer. That shit ate me up watching her go thru what she went thru, my heart was broken and aching everyday
LaTonia Thedford much better 4 yrs in remission. Thanks for asking dear
LaTonia Thedford 👌👍 damn u r up late tonight girl unless if u r in the west coast 😁
LaTonia Thedford I'm in Jersey I'm up cause I've been partying kinda hard tonight on this summer wknd opener LOL
LaTonia Thedford I'm in Jersey I'm up cause I've been partying kinda hard tonight on this summer wknd opener LOL
LaTonia Thedford yeah girl it was rite up until everyone couldn't hang anymore n went home n left me home alone board spun n high AF LMAO. So now I'm home alone listing to old school r&😀b
Remember the cards scene from the first movie, Quentin's point about women being just as scandalous as men are. Well this scene proved it because Mia did make sure she chose to sleep with the man that would hurt Lance the most. I guess Quentin somehow also figured back then that not only did Mia & Harper hook up, but he figured it was Mia who took advantage of Harper! I want to make it clear that I don't believe all women would do this against their man, but this scene proved Quentin's point from that particular scene in the first movie was not an exaggeration though!
Joseph Harris Quintin read Harper’s book before Lance did, in which Mia’s character slept with Harper’s character
Joseph Harris obviously ALL WOMEM DO NOT, but quite a few do bro. Women are emotional creatures. Most cant harm men physically; but emotionally/psychologically they wanna eff a man up for life. Once a woman hurts, she wanna get back @ that man in the worst way and hits him where it hurts the most- in the sack!
Joseph Harris Truth especially with laws stacked against men, women destroy you if they really want to
Yeah I knew that part, but the other part he figured out that I don't know if the book revealed so clearly was that Mia intentionally slept with Harper to get back at Lance. However, it might have because I don't remember the scene of Lance reading that part to a T enough.
Joseph Harris Lance read that part in the book. It clearly stated in so many words that Harper was payback for what Lance did to Mia.
What I love about this scene is deep down lance knew MiA chose his friend but his love for Mia was so great he couldnt bring himself to accept that she had any culpability in the situation it's only when she says it and tells him she cant rest is when he opens his heart
Only because she dying
I remember completely bawling at the movies watching this..... Whole movie is an emotional roller coaster. This year this time was a tough time for me but I learned my own strength after this year and I’m grateful because it made me who I am today.
yeah i saw you bawling them crocodile tears. i was sitting 2 chairs down.
Lance is part of the reason this all happened. He started it by cheating on her first and she wanted to get back at him
then she should have broken the engagement in part 1. How was secretly getting back at him stop him from cheating on her ever again? 2 Wrongs don't make a right
@@missyadams nobody said it did...but as a young women...she did what she felt would help HER at the time. And if didn't. It still backfired. Why aren't you saying that Lance should have never cheated on her??
@@shawneegirl1980 Ah, I'm not defending Lance. I'm just emphasizing how 2 wrongs dont make a right
Yep she did tell Jordon
Good girls never tell.. which is why their friendship wasn’t strong any longer
@@missyadams That happened when they were in college, there wasnt an engagement for Mia to call off lol
Lance My favorite but he had it coming. Karma does not discriminate.
That's not karma. And in the end karma came back on her
he hasn't fully forgive harper, that's why he all bent about what happened between harper and mia and I know something like is not easy to get over
Neither is him cheating on her with several women
This is the most important part of the movie. Betrayal, acceptance, forgiveness, sadness, anger, love….all encapsulated so beautifully, and it also really gives us the REAL as to what happened between the 3 of them. EVERYONE in this movie did such an EXEMPLARY job!
And guess what, she still looked beautiful
Most definitely
Best Man 1 and 2 are two of the greatest black films ever made.
Films period
Harper was the reason for Lance and Mia’s joy and pain at the same time... He introduced Mia to lance, he hooked them up, then turned around and slept with Mia and put it in his book which he then dedicated to them as a wedding gift... Now that is a FLAGRANT FOUL if I have ever seen one
Omg so true he did dedicate that book to them . Such a mess. It’s like Harper has no soul . Very interesting man .. it’s like he was holding on to anger as well. Like y’all not so perfect Sullivan family
To write all a book about his friends and his skeletons is just crazy .
When we think about it, the frustration that Lance was hiding all those years surfaced in this scene. He thought he knew the entire story but, just like the previous 'The Best Man', everything was pointed right at Harper. Mia was right to own up to what she did, yet Lance had the audacity to put it ALL on Harper until she said, "I'm sorry that I chose him (Harper)." Lance cheated plenty of times with women that Mia never knew. When she cheated on Lance one time with his best friend/best man, that's what really caused hell to break loose. I'm just glad Mia managed to try to make things right before she passed. Forgiveness is expensive, but it's worth it.
This scene was so deep it was epic. This movie deserved a best picture nomination.
Mia had cancer that just sad.😭😭😭😭
This movie was funny, joyful, and gut-wrenching all at the same time. This was one of the best scenes.
She played the hell out of this role
He cheated and she cheated back with his best friend. His wife cheating was his Karma. The husband was cheating the entire time while they was in college.
This scene had me really emotional
I love Monica Calhoun
Me too! Always have. She is so underrated, talented, classy, beautiful! 💕💕😍😍😘👑👑👑
She knew it was her and that’s why they need to pay her extra ,she did so good on this and she loyal enough to tell him it was her we need more ppl like this 🕊🕊
FORGIVENESS is a BEAUTIFUL thing because it sets you FREE!
The one thing about this part is that she knows she was dying and didn't want to go to her grave knowing Lance is still holding anger towards Harper for something she did towards him.
I loved the movie as well. I love it when Black Actors, & Actresses get together.
My Mom Died of Cancer in 1997.
Very sorry. Lost my mom to cancer, too.
Sorry for your loss Stephanie❤❤❤
I lost My Mom to Cancer in 2004!
Then I got it in 2007!
Life is Precious!
god bless ❤️🙏🏽
Stephanie Blackley sorry for that☹️😢😢🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
she went from mia to ebony in seconds!! I started looking for Ronnie, junior and trixy
She looks stunning with the wig off and on. Her face is perfect along with her acting.
Whoever is cutting onions in here needs to chill...
They did such a great job bringing this movie to life I forgot they were real people and got caught up to the point I started to cry just an amazing performance amazing I wonder if these people know how truly talented they are and how they changed people's lives by making them think before doing things out of hurt
This part will forever be so touching. I remember watching this movie in theaters their were so much emotions and tears. I felt this scene. Mia played a part in it too that she admit. I loved how she owned that and telling Lance he needs Harper more than anything 😢😢when she took off that wig maaannn nothin but tears
Best Man Holiday damn near broke me and my Wife down in that theatre because we never saw Mia's death coming and when it did damn near the whole theatre was sobbing...Damn ...I've loved them all since Best Man and I hope 🤞🏾Lee Daniels gets them all back up on screen for BM 3 once he's done with his projects as we're all EAGERLY awaiting I'm sure...."I know I am!!"
This movie , Ray , and why did I get married 2 had me sad in real life for weeks . I cried so hard in the movies as well
Wait this is a Lee Daniel movie? I didn’t know
@@KatGlo Actually no. Its a Malcolm D. Lee movie. He's another black director
@@Alpha8497 I knew it wasn’t Lee Daniels! Thanks
Malcolm D Lee, he is Spike Lee cousin
Wasn’t Lance cheating??!!! 😂😂 smh..
All these years, they never had this conversation. Mia knew that 2 great friends were damn near done and still said nothing. While this scene hurts, Mia basically didn’t have to deal with any backlash from no one for her part. Harp took all the blame
They probably never had the discussion because lance didn't want to face the truth that his wife wasn't as innocent as he thought.
@@LisaFrank39 exactly. So Mia got backlash for her part
“You chose him” … the pain
Didn't he cheat on her, what pain lol 😂
@Kennamszoey Yes he did many times, however she definitely got him back by choosing his best friend. He never messed with any of her friends. It was too close to home and caused years of strain.
that was so sad when she died. i thought they were doing movie 3.
me too.
sabres929 it has been post poned.
sabres929 thx for spoilin the movie for me! Geez man!
sabres929 They are doing a third mobie
They are. Quentin is getting married.
To error is human. To forgive is Devine
Powerful scene...love this movie
Men hurt women because men don’t think. They just act. Women hurt men because they do think how can I hurt this person.... and then they act
FACTS!!!
Lets not forget that before harper..lance was the only man mia had ever slept with and i think that is what hurt lance the most
Oh my Gosh! Freaking great scene. So many peaks and valleys. The wig that just made my heart drop to the ground!
y’all are forgetting that in the first movie , mia & harper were friends & knew other before lance & mia knew each other . mia and harper worked together & that’s when harper introduced lance to mia . you could tell mia liked harper more
But so the bag
Lawd, Morris was fione in this one! 😩 This one has me in tears every time I watch it. When he let’s go of her as they are lowering her casket into the ground and he breaks down, crying ...... breaks my heart each time.
Yes that part gets me every time and when Jordan tucks her in bed calm and strong then hid her tears in the bathroom ( that part is so me)
@@AT-zl6dk I know right? The part before when Mia collapses on the floor when trying to put the ornament up on the tree. I just knew something was gonna happen when he hands were shaking when trying to do her little girls hair. When everybody finally knew had me in tears. And when Lance was coming out of the stadium and his boys were there waiting for him 😢💔💔
Lance cheated on her so many times. Just to show you, a man will cheat on a women because he is man. Once a women does it, his world shatters. This can honestly go both ways because I've seen men on the other side as well.
Exactly
I was so glad she had finally apologized for her part in that mess. Because I always thought Lance shouldn’t have married her. Because she did it knowing it was going to kill him. The only reason I think they made it was because Lance never focused on Mia being in the wrong. Only Harper. By keeping Harper out their lives it made it easier for him to be happily married to Mia.
alamoja I agree with you
It was messed up but like she said they all played a part. She did it to hurt him. Just like all his cheating hurt her. Lance started this mess!! You can't keep hurting people and not expect to get hurt back! Karma is very real!!
@@mabien11 there;s a difference in hurt. Lance didn't sleep with her bestfriend, but she slept with his bestfriend. She was in the wrong, this is why he hates harper.
@@itsyaboi1846 Question how would you respond if someone you love continued to hurt you over and over again??? Most people eventually react in a negative way. It was easy to project everything on to Harper. It's simple, you get what you put out... Lance planted seeds of deceit and betrayal. Lance in return received deceit and betrayal. You can't play with folks hearts!!!
Lucresia Mabien so late I know, but what I will say is that Lance’s cheating did hurt her and she could have left him, but her cheating not only hurt Lance, it hurt others in their circle. So even if he left her, there would have been pain for others she’s close to. She cared about Harper and she cared about harpers love interest (nia long) so her actions could or did result in something far more tragic. Lance almost killed Harper, how would she have felt then? She could have slept with one of Lance’s football teammates, which would have hurt him greatly and even maybe affected his game, but his best friend who was also her friend and her close friends love interest? Too far and that’s how people end up on the first 48
Never cried so damn hard. She took that wig off and I lost it. Had to get up and go to the restroom and compose myself.
Why kill Mia? Not every emotional movie needs a heart wrenching death
William Phelps IKR DAMN
Wouldn't be a Tyler perry movie if real life events didn't happen. Tyler story lines speak kf real life tragedies happy and sad.
@@ladyo8297 this is not a Tyler perry movie lmao
@@ladyo8297 Tyler Perry? 🤣🤣🤣
Don't disrespect this movie as a Tyler Perry film please
Morris at 1:12 his acting is so on point 👏🏽
He didn’t put a gun to her head and make her sleep with him. She wanted it just as much if not more than he did. Was Harper wrong for sleeping with Mia? Yes he was, but at the end of the day Lance only has himself to blame because he was the cause of all of it. You can’t be angry at the effect while ignoring the cause.
They were married all that time and never discussed it. WOW!!
Lance cheated on her mad times then got mad when she cheated on him 🤦🏾♀️
typical jock he is
He cheated on her with random females . She cheated on him with his best friends . That's another level . She could've cheated with any random guy but chose harper cuz she knew it would burn..she one upped himn
Such a Beautiful scene
This is a very powerful scene. And I absolutely agree. Great movie!!!
Forgiving is always right. And that is key to moving on. I let nothing stop me from forgiving. But we should never forget. That people are who they are. You can do what is right to change you but you can't change the way others are. So you forgive and move on.
This is beyond acting. This is truth.
All I can say is karma was measured back to both her and Harper full circle .. This is movie is real deep
Fabulous acting!
Mia’s accountability is top tier here
This was superb acting.
this movie was sooo good.....the only movie with a long break in between that was like it never ended a flawless continuation
I must say as a man, this movie made cry, especially this part right here
Lesson: “Two wrongs, or in this case, THREE wrongs, don’t make a right.”
Don’t let a terminal disease force you to face accountability.
This movie made me cry
You know what, Lance got a lot of nerve to be mad at Harper when He cheated on Mia a thousand times. But I understand he being betrayed by Harper.
The guilt and shame she carried all those years turned to cancer 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Yes Lance Sullivan did cheat on Mia that's true . But I don't think he cheated on her with someone she called friend. She knew damn well that Lance and Harper were like brothers. And she came in like a snake and destroyed a bond between two best friends
Black actors don't get the credit they deserve and we don't have enough other black actors with huge platforms talking about it. This scene was amazing
Maybe I’m reaching, but I feel like the massive amount of guilt that Mia had, led to her getting so sick 🥺😞
I agree
Colorfulcountenance Yees honestly it did. People don't realize gulit, anger, unforgiveness, etc. Can make you physically sick. You right on point! 🤔🤔💪👏👏☝
Makes for a good conversation topic. Never thought of it that way
Agree
Girl gtfoh!! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
He absolutely had no right to react like that because he had been cheating on her throughout college and she and him had broken up because of it so she was technically free to pursue, Harper didn't know that was going to happen he didn't plan to do that with her it just happened the attraction was there before lance it just wasn't strong enough to override the innocent friendship they had; when lance cheated she was devastated and she wanted to rid herself of the pain he caused her so she turned to the only person who she trust that made her feel special that was Harper; it wasn't about revenge she admitted that wasn't what she was after it was about her feeling whole again and Harper provided that; their bond was something that went way beyond anything lance and the others could understand that's why that intimate moment happened between them they both were in need of a reminder of the love they want and deserve and in that moment they found it and shared it with each other; to be brutally honest I was actually hoping that they would get together instead because they were very close and had so much in common!
Lance look at me.......IM BALD HEADED ASF. YOU GONE FORGIVE THAT MAN DAMMIT
Ahasâi OMG! I just hollered!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao
You know what 🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣😂
"you chose him" 😪
I’m not here to bring up old beef but lance was the cheater in the beginning and now he know what it feels like, to be hurt and betrayed. I mean yes! it was kinda messed up that it had to be his best man that slept with mia ( it’s a low blow, I get it) at the same time mia and harper never would’ve done this to lance had lance been faithful from the start. karma ain’t no joke 😂
Mia also hurted Jordan too because she knew Harper and Jordan we’re soulmates
this part so sad😢💔 learn how to forgive ppl
They never talked about it! I was wondered if she knew that he found out!
That wig should have won an Oscar !
Worst thing is lance knew she was someone.but not his best friend and brother
I felt bad for Mia, but in a way Harper and Mia both did cheating at each other to get back on each other but over the years not once Mia felt guilty for what she's have done for breaking her friendship between Harper and Lance even before their marriage and after Mia felt reappointed for her actions all her guilt and suffering course her to have cancer and it's eating her away when Mia took off her wig you can clearly see how Mia really feel about the pain she's was going through for destroying the two people she's care the most and no amount off apologize can change for have happened during college but Mia was willing to let Harper to be angry at her then to him have forgotten to his friend Lance before she's past on knowing what she's did to him was wrong and wish she's could take it back to be with her family.
When she took off her wig i thought Ebony from tha Player's Club was finna come up out of her....
The best thing someone can do if they've been cheated on is to never do what that person did to them. All it does is make you revengeful a liar and a cheat and makes you no better than the one who cheated first.
The comment I made is if and only if the individual plans on staying with the cheater.
Mankind is going to learn... that whatever heart break you cause , you get it back 2fold.
Dam I'm still crying and it's 2020... that wig took me out 😂🤣😓😢😭
The way he looked at her when she took off the wig made me cry