My Cheating Mom Falsely Accused My Dad Of Everything And Ruined His Life Both Financially And Emo...

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  • @vesnal7536
    @vesnal7536 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +150

    While OP couldn’t save her dad, she at least gave a modicum of vengeance. I can respect it.

    • @Lucas-vl8qc
      @Lucas-vl8qc 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      What is a "modicum" ?

    • @Mystic_countess
      @Mystic_countess 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@Lucas-vl8qc
      noun
      a small quantity of a particular thing, especially something desirable or valuable.

    • @Lucas-vl8qc
      @Lucas-vl8qc 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@Mystic_countess thanks you !

  • @Buldogg345
    @Buldogg345 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +153

    Story 1: I can't feel any sympathy for anyone in this story other than OP and her dad. The mom, F her. But others? They discarded OP's dad so easily that their apologizing to OP only makes them hypocrites. No matter what happens, unless you are 100% sure, everyone deserves to at least tell their side. F everyone else. I hope OP's dad is at peace and OP has a happy life. She's been through enough already.

    • @BayuNusantoro-w4j
      @BayuNusantoro-w4j 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      I Agree with You Bro.

    • @anthonymark2516
      @anthonymark2516 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's hard to feel sorry for the dad to be honest. This is what happens when a man has no self respect. And the whole thing about staying for the kids... well this is a good example of how that usually turns out.

    • @aenaen184
      @aenaen184 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@anthonymark2516 with how passive the dad was, I am guessing it was a thing that often happens: a person was turned into a victim (abusive parents, school bullies, whatever). Predators like the mom can sense this, insinuate themselves into the life of the victim and unleash their abusive personality to their heart's content. On the victim's part, it is learned behavior not basic personality, not something they were born with. So yeah, I don't blame the dad

    • @Morrowind4732
      @Morrowind4732 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I don't feel bad for the daughter. She knew how bad her father was hurting. How much her mom lied. How much her mom didn't care about her while her dad did. Yet she didn't stay in contact with her dad like she should have. She let him waste away without talking to him for days at a time. Showing the dad she doesn't really care about him that much.

  • @erickaennis2738
    @erickaennis2738 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +104

    The mom in story 1 was a certified sociopath. Wow. That poor man. Poor Op.

  • @sacrilegedoculus
    @sacrilegedoculus 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +91

    Story 1 - Confess to your mom that you are the one who leaked the letter that your dad wrote. This would be perfect ending for your revenge.

    • @FNaF-Fan-8893
      @FNaF-Fan-8893 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Bet then she could take OP to court for "emotional damage" and possibly others.

    • @Whooachannel
      @Whooachannel 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@FNaF-Fan-8893 it's not emotional damage when it's the truth

    • @FNaF-Fan-8893
      @FNaF-Fan-8893 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Whooachannel I am talking about the mother taking her daughter to court for emotional damage. I was trying to say it would be better for OP to avoid that.

    • @anthonymark2516
      @anthonymark2516 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@FNaF-Fan-8893 That still wouldn't work. As the letter is not fake. You can't take someone to court for telling the truth unless they committed a crime. You can try civil court for libel but again you would have to prove that what was written was false

    • @aenaen184
      @aenaen184 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Naw, that would just invite constant abuse and harassment from the mom, if she doesn't know already. But how can she notalready know? If she tried even a little, she would find out that a hand-written letter was attached to the email. and the email probably contained stuff only she, the daughter and the dad could have known. well, maybe she thought that the dad had used a delayed email service. or maybe she did not think about this at all. or ignored it. probably the last one. she seems to be a genuine sociopath. and not one of the nice ones. So yeah, best not to attract the mom's attention

  • @ynwmellymelo1255
    @ynwmellymelo1255 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    Ngl the S1 made me tear up. Op seems way too proud of her dad. Her fight to keep him alive in her heart and mind. She fought to salvage her dad’s name. She’s a goated daughter who was well educated by her dad

  • @thousandyardgavri2785
    @thousandyardgavri2785 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    Idk if this story is real or not but my feeling of sadness for dad is equal to my feeling of hatred and anger to the mom

  • @thorcadail5812
    @thorcadail5812 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    I'm kind of confused about the divorce and custody situation. When all of this happened, OP was 14. Idk which country this happened in but in America, child that age is allowed to testify and pick who they want to stay with. Granted, they can still be ignored and not believed but none of that was mentioned. Was OP able to say anything but was ignored or not allowed legally at all?

    • @knightrider9876
      @knightrider9876 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      Abuse accusations probably meant he lost the custody case and male abuser bias

    • @hennessya96
      @hennessya96 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I do think abuse cases can have that overturned but that's usually only in very severe cases. Dad's lawyer must have sucked badly if he really never touched her.

    • @zackkatian3436
      @zackkatian3436 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      The mere accusation of abuse can ensure a father looses all custody rights due to extreme bias against men in divorce courts.

    • @Morrowind4732
      @Morrowind4732 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      They still would have talked to the kid. The fact that she never spoke up, or tried to correct it. And let so much time pass before even communicating over text, not even a voice call, showed him how much value he had.

  • @Whooachannel
    @Whooachannel 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I feel really bad for OP and her Dad. Everyone failed the 2 of them. ESPECIALLY his family and so called friends.
    You mean to tell me that after knowing this man for YEARS, DECADES even, sharing blood with him and growing up with him not a single solitary fucking person believed in him?!!
    Not a single person thought for a moment "hey that doesn't sound like him at all!" Instead they just blindly believed some woman without a SHRED of evidence or proof.
    This is why I don't subscribe to the creed of "believe all women"
    Sorry, not sorry, but no. I'm not just going to take your word for it that something happened to you. I need proof, evidence, something that ACTUALLY supports what you claim. Your word doesn't mean shit to me and things like this are why

  • @summerstorytrue
    @summerstorytrue 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is truly a heartbreaking story. It’s painful to see how dishonesty and manipulation can have such devastating effects on someone’s life, both emotionally and financially. It’s important to acknowledge that no one deserves to be falsely accused or have their life torn apart due to someone else's actions. Hopefully, sharing experiences like this can raise awareness about the importance of honesty, accountability, and the need for a fair justice system. Stay strong, and I hope healing and justice are found for everyone involved.

  • @yakuilts
    @yakuilts 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    As a brazilian I can say that the people in Rio Grande do Sul are still dealing with the aftermath of the floods to this day, and it happened back in march-april if I'm not mistaken, additionally, this woman's story isn't the only one where people stole clothes out of spite disguized as "I thought those were the ones you were donating" and stuff as such...

    • @AmaryInkawult
      @AmaryInkawult 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      One of my cousins was visiting his wife's family during that time, the destruction was surreal, I'd have assumed it was an exaggeration without the pics.

    • @yakuilts
      @yakuilts 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @AmaryInkawult it's not, I think there are still non-profit, governamental and non-governamental institutions that are still gathering donations for the victims of the floodings

  • @caffeinedelusions
    @caffeinedelusions 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Story 2: BPD is a heck of a disorder.
    It’s like having alien hand syndrome, only the alien hands are other people, and you just can’t get it through your head that they aren’t you, because your interpersonal boundaries are so diffused.

    • @benzemamumba
      @benzemamumba 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wait what?! 🤨

    • @caffeinedelusions
      @caffeinedelusions วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@benzemamumba Borderline Personality Disorder. I've known a few people with it, and it can be a REAL psychological problem for people with it that don't take their therapy seriously and manage it mindfully. The best text describing it for the layman is "I hate you, don't leave me" by Hal Straus and Jerold J. Kreisman.
      It's probably best described as a failure to develop a fully coherent sense of self due to neglect during early stages of upbringing. The Borderline person, not having a clear sense of who they are, develops a tendency to define themselves RELATIONALLY rather than individually, identifying themselves based on who they know rather than who they've decided they are. They've also got a tendency to seize on any identifier they can (even up to the point of psychosomatically reproducing behavioral patterns of other disorders if they get it in their heads that they have those conditions, even if they didn't before). They're often the type to go hard into any stereotypes they may fall under because it helps them feel like they know who they are.
      Their relational identity means that they have a tendency to see the people they're attached to not as people, but as extensions of their own identity... and if you don't behave the way they think you're supposed to behave, it can make them genuinely flip out, because it's messing around with who they think they are. You being an independent person that makes your own decisions without consulting them sets off their Identity Protective Response. Consequently, they have a tendency to experience a psychological 'split' in relation to people (not QUITE a disassociative identity/multiple personality, but more like two different versions of the same core identity that simply have a different set of opinions about the same thing), generally along the pattern of idolizing their attachments on the one hand ("so and so is SUCH A GOOD FRIEND, I love them!"), and villainizing them on the other ("So and so is an ABSOLUTE MONSTER, I never want to see them again!"). They'll tend to fall into whichever split most closely aligns with the situation that person most recently left them in, idolizing them if the person helped them feel secure in the attachment (thus helping them feel secure in their identity), or villainizing them if the person asserted independence from them.
      Having a person with untreated BPD in your life can genuinely fuck you up, because they often become extremely good at psychological abuse tactics that enable them greater levels of control over their attachments. If they won't recognize their behavior as a problem and seek treatment, oftentimes the best way to protect yourself is to go no contact.

  • @Michael-nz2qg
    @Michael-nz2qg 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Glad story one is fake 😢

    • @benzemamumba
      @benzemamumba 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why are you sad that if it is fake?
      Seems to me that you are just in denial.

  • @gabiegbeauty8605
    @gabiegbeauty8605 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This mad me cry so much

  • @jhonnysins5282
    @jhonnysins5282 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Story 1 is a nice creative story.

    • @benzemamumba
      @benzemamumba 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I don't understand why you charlatans always scream fake at literally every story. 🤦

    • @pewdiepie_1232
      @pewdiepie_1232 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is quite literally a fake story tho 😭 , look at the way this story is written + the dialogues
      No one fucking says I got consumed with anger 😭😭 this shit is just written really well

    • @worstdudeever
      @worstdudeever วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@pewdiepie_1232still fun to read it even though I know this is prolly an AI-generated reddit post

    • @mr.giggles2051
      @mr.giggles2051 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@pewdiepie_1232​ you're right no one SAYS that but a lot of people write that down you took a huge awesome leap and still missed

  • @kaidenskibidiarc
    @kaidenskibidiarc 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    i dont like people like the father in story 2

  • @clarkabeast8136
    @clarkabeast8136 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Finally a different background

  • @grandparedpill2695
    @grandparedpill2695 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This sounds like a control issue with your stepmother. As the product of being raised by a narcissistic step monster, I can empathize with you.

  • @soundwaveravagesuperior
    @soundwaveravagesuperior วันที่ผ่านมา

    There’s bad people… and then there’s MONSTERS like the mom in S1

  • @leedavis-m2o
    @leedavis-m2o 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a cool video, thank you.

  • @panetapes
    @panetapes วันที่ผ่านมา

    Story 1: OP's mom is the worse kind of Narcissist 😢

  • @szklanylabirynt151
    @szklanylabirynt151 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What's the game being played in the background? Thanks in advance for any info.

  • @ValeryKamov
    @ValeryKamov 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1st story: Let's say it all out loud boys! - Women ☕

  • @thousandyardgavri2785
    @thousandyardgavri2785 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tell ur mom u ruined her life.

  • @henryfebrino1873
    @henryfebrino1873 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Dont get married guys, protect yourselves.

  • @jbgra2566
    @jbgra2566 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What's the name of the game? It looks interesting

    • @icemask6949
      @icemask6949 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Platform 8

  • @alienrockinheadd8969
    @alienrockinheadd8969 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Stay single men.

  • @oneuup2490
    @oneuup2490 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    1st story: I understand that Opie is grieving and sympathize with her in his her situation.
    No child should ever have to go through situations like this with a toxic parent in a weak parent.
    That being said the father was weak. The mother didn't turn like this overnight she was already this disgusting human being. She was already this evil person so it wasn't a shock.
    What I am disgusted about is Opie's father he kept her which is Opie in that situation with that toxic woman. He allowed that woman to walk all over him and degrade his manhood.
    I guess the father did not know the saying that "A person is only going to go as far as you allow them to." And that's what happened with the father.
    He did not put his foot down he had no backbone he never opened his mouth as a husband, a human being, a parent should have.
    Now of course he became destitute because of the situation but he gave up too easy he let this woman win because of her foul acting skills and honestly hope he didn't help out either because nothing was brought up about her affair and they knew she was having one.
    You expect respect, but do not respect yourself.

    • @assassami839
      @assassami839 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Wtf is this take. First most of the time toxic relationships are fine in the beginning and she probably only changed when they had a kid and it was too late to go back. Especially with how compassionate he sounds he would do anything and everything he could to protect his kid. I’m guessing the idea of family with both parents was key. Especially if he was understanding how evil she was thought of her doing that but after she was servered would be a point for him not too. Also unless u battle with serious depression can truly say if it’s right or wrong. As it’s more or less a battle of outlook on life.

    • @FaizatheTempest
      @FaizatheTempest 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Would you be berating OP's dad if he was a woman? The disrespect towards male abuse victims is infuriating.

    • @HeliosX28
      @HeliosX28 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@@FaizatheTempest I would... I keep the same energy for both sides 😂

    • @benzemamumba
      @benzemamumba 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@HeliosX28stop being a bull5hitter. 🤡

  • @2rad008
    @2rad008 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    What game is being played in the video

    • @Demonic_Culture_Nut
      @Demonic_Culture_Nut 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Platform 8.

    • @2rad008
      @2rad008 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Demonic_Culture_Nut Thank you!

  • @icemask6949
    @icemask6949 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bro why this game XD

  • @michaelalanbaker7339
    @michaelalanbaker7339 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The OP's father, sadly enough, was a doormat and pushover, and it ultimately ended up in tragedy.
    Lads, learn from this: Don't be a pushover, don't be a doormat.
    Oh, and don't even date women. They're not worth it.

    • @animebabe44
      @animebabe44 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ok women shouldn't date men then right? Because despite the tragedy of s1 men are still OVERWHELMINGLY the perpetrators of violence against women. By your logic, men aren't worth dating. My life isn't worth risking for someone's sad, insecure ego. All incels like you do is perpetuate the gender divide. You don't need to date a woman, you need therapy to unpack your issues

    • @gamingwityaboicolby1217
      @gamingwityaboicolby1217 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It goes for men and women. This generalizing shit needs to go. Fuck off with it.

    • @AnActualCadaver
      @AnActualCadaver 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      that’s why I date other men

    • @michaelalanbaker7339
      @michaelalanbaker7339 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @AnActualCadaver Gotta respect that, haha.

    • @rekslegiune6004
      @rekslegiune6004 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      LOL

  • @valeriecomplex9685
    @valeriecomplex9685 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This story is so obviously generated by AI

    • @benzemamumba
      @benzemamumba 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There's always that charlatan who claims that the story is fake. 🤦😅

  • @alwaysright3943
    @alwaysright3943 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Story 1 is painfully fake

    • @benzemamumba
      @benzemamumba 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      There's NOTHING fake about it.

    • @alwaysright3943
      @alwaysright3943 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ What AI prompts did you use? Maybe I can give you a few tips OP.