How To Stop Fights - Real Talk Episode 39 (ft. Nicole Chang Min)

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  • Fights are inevitable in relationships, no matter how small or big it is. But when does it turn into an "unreasonable fight"?
    The crew shares stories about the squabbles they've had with their partners and how they end settle them.
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ความคิดเห็น • 138

  • @cy182
    @cy182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1177

    hashy becoming more talkative but hoping she can talk more loud 🤣btw I love her outfit ❤️❤️

  • @adriantxl47
    @adriantxl47 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1080

    John’s intermittent fasting joke is under appreciated

  • @Juan-nz1gu
    @Juan-nz1gu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    I swear ur editor deserves a pay raise

  • @zannotra
    @zannotra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +590

    last time I was this early saffron was still here

  • @yxinz
    @yxinz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +453

    It takes a secured man to not cause his other half to feel insecured. And maturity and knowing what matters in life most will make a person do that.

  • @Annann91
    @Annann91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Hahaha
    “Why must you hug? Now got virus!”
    Dew: Win liao lor

  • @mikechang7403
    @mikechang7403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    Dew is the biggest anti-simp of the century.

  • @xsomili5501
    @xsomili5501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Ignoring is the worst way to deal with a problem. Like actual worst

  • @johndinhvo
    @johndinhvo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I really want to know how the couples handle relationships with in-laws, because I think the relationship is not just the couple. Other significant people in the couples' life also have a huge impact on their life.

  • @potpot2766
    @potpot2766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Why must u hug , now got virus " HAHAHA I FUCKING DIED THERE 5:20

  • @gibson4501
    @gibson4501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    for real guys this series needs to go on forever

  • @wanfenixx799
    @wanfenixx799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I agree with dew. When ignoring angry people, it really work out for me. Less stress, happy life.

  • @vinnyming
    @vinnyming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Nicole: Why must hug? Now got virus!
    -End of discussion-
    😂😂

  • @Jejdjejbfjf
    @Jejdjejbfjf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Can tell that John is a smart guy leh, from the way he talks about Stockholm syndrome and how to end fights and stuff lol

  • @Lady_KrissyY
    @Lady_KrissyY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Omg guysss are you able to post more frequently?? Haha. Have always enjoyed listening to you guys!!!!!

  • @AngSu
    @AngSu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Everybody feels insecurity at one point. When you’re in a relationship together, u have to reassure the other person so that they won’t feel insecure. People talk only to reply not to understand 🌝

  • @hugonlyme
    @hugonlyme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    Nobody:
    Hashy: *cries* 😭

  • @joelgan9472
    @joelgan9472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Nicole has the same crackhead energy as Saffron! love it love her love this episode! keep it up guys

  • @KelvinOoooi
    @KelvinOoooi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Heyyy yoooo hashy and nicole looking good in this episode!

  • @chinyeesiang6642
    @chinyeesiang6642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Suggestion topic : Easily triggered by love ones compared to friends

  • @milkyway3183
    @milkyway3183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They like represent the four different zodiac signs 🤣
    Hashy - water sign
    Nicole - air sign
    Dew - fire sign
    John - earth sign

  • @cael7919
    @cael7919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “he used to beat me up”
    dew: wow

  • @MatoyaLim
    @MatoyaLim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    this video should be renamed "Real Talk Crew Fighting for 11 Minutes Straight" HAHA

  • @jiwongchil
    @jiwongchil 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad to see Hashy speaking out more often. Hope you see this and feel encouraged!

  • @songhao4880
    @songhao4880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What killed me was the Why the guy even try?Dew so handsome😂😂😂

  • @yehezkielallen
    @yehezkielallen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Never have i tapped so fast to a video!

  • @xav5357
    @xav5357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    is it just me or does dew look like some private investigator

  • @muuuaaachz1012
    @muuuaaachz1012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love Nicole, she seems like a very comfortable person to be around

  • @Hmm-dh1qv
    @Hmm-dh1qv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Nicole: Why must you hug now got virus
    Dew reaction: Win liao lor

  • @thatlittlefaith
    @thatlittlefaith 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always a fan of real talk episodes and i love how Dew and John made the talk more casual and it’s just really nice!! Just wondering, if it’s possible to include the “questions” of the particular topic of the video on the description so that it’s easier for us to refer HAHA

  • @theflowergodleanne
    @theflowergodleanne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    john hit dew and dew’s soul left for a solid minute HAHAHAH FricK

  • @weenknee
    @weenknee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    1:56 Omg when John kicked Dew's sacais I held my breath

  • @sayurik
    @sayurik 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t mean any malice towards Dew but what he described about the way he deals with conflict is to “be alone and Shuts everyone out” and “ignoring his gf’s insecurities” is a very serious issue called “stonewalling”. And this is a defensive or coping strategy learnt in childhood and it can cause serious emotional harm to an adult relationship. Where communication and understanding is needed. Unfortunately, by doing this the problem would not go away and would in turn make the other partner be more anxious and insecure because they are not receiving any feedback or solution from their partner and they would feel trapped in their issue. I think Dew is a great person and host but he probably needs to look into the way he deals and resolves conflict or else it would be very hard for him to be in a emotionally healthy relationship

  • @elleberedai
    @elleberedai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    9:25 Hashy started to defend herself but no 1 listen 🤣. So cute la Hashy

  • @amirul141
    @amirul141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Can u guys discuss about how sometimes men doesn't show their affection but they believe what they did is for the future of the relationship but if she's the one she would probably understand it without u telling a words and she's gonna support u instead of fight with u of not giving enough attention

  • @ileen5
    @ileen5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really relate with Hashy’s coping mechanism hahaha cry then think about what’s happening then face the situation after that

  • @hohoberto
    @hohoberto 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always a pleasure watching this. thank you for continuing the show despite of all these gloom.

  • @abbhilashsivananthan218
    @abbhilashsivananthan218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ayyy new episode. Made my day! Keep up the great work!💯

  • @sabrinak.8386
    @sabrinak.8386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Why does Hashy sound like a pisces or a cancer horoscope LOL

  • @errrwoof8301
    @errrwoof8301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    1:58 dew's 500usd shoe gets kicked xD

  • @masterofcards2948
    @masterofcards2948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hashy is so shy and cute

  • @EarthShaxer
    @EarthShaxer 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always enjoying watching every episode.
    Next episode probably can talk about whether is your love's one family background matters and how to handle and overcome in-laws

  • @rabbit5000
    @rabbit5000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this series so much, please do more relationship advice stuff!!

  • @vibhasheenansree1337
    @vibhasheenansree1337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    John's matte black cup looks so damn cool!!
    Is it from starbucks??

  • @PM-qr7sy
    @PM-qr7sy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    you should try intermittent fasting then you'll only cry twice😂😂😂😂

  • @1233bone
    @1233bone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wa when John kicked Dew's white Sacai Waffles 😫

  • @lol4eva224
    @lol4eva224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    at 2:03 did nicole say “at least she don’t fart” 😂

  • @duonhuyenofficial
    @duonhuyenofficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i agreed the one with fight comes with sex later. yes it feels forgetting the fight n love closer each other. maybe insecure or something

  • @blisa1259
    @blisa1259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I died when dew did that bird hoot

  • @chu2348
    @chu2348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Does anyone know where hashy’s dress is from? Looks amazin’

  • @xgarettz
    @xgarettz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    4:32 yooo john is such a good friend tho

  • @isabelhong3345
    @isabelhong3345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    during this whole video hashy was just like 🥺🥺🥺

  • @jasoncody6444
    @jasoncody6444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Our prayers have been heard, NICOLE is back!
    Now we just need to pray for more episodes 🙏

  • @luquier599
    @luquier599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    John: wah you still got ulti ah
    😂

  • @greatdiablo6988
    @greatdiablo6988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dew literally made the girls shut up when it comes to girls starting a argument looool fcking KING la wei😂

  • @raymondhartono
    @raymondhartono 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dew is so right it's funny. The light hearted girl is entertaining and Hashy's the best

  • @lois2906
    @lois2906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yay new episode!!!

  • @benjaminchee9615
    @benjaminchee9615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yes after so longgggg

  • @qwer334
    @qwer334 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn y’all got to make part 2 of this episode

  • @pip4432
    @pip4432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I lost it at 2:14 HAHAHAHAHAHHA PAT DOES A MATING CALL AFTER A FIGHT HAHAHAHAHAH (btw Dew, daaaamnnnn you look hot papi!)

  • @yinkim97
    @yinkim97 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hashy getting more talkative!! I like it 😁😁

  • @StanleyAditya
    @StanleyAditya 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo huge props to your vid editor, so funny la!

  • @tantessa4318
    @tantessa4318 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    out of all the episodes, I've never seen Dew so angry :O

  • @kaylim4433
    @kaylim4433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    me and my bf argue bcuz of food more than 10 times, sometimes we argue until we end up going home and eat cup noodles instead ... .-.

  • @Kittiaeep
    @Kittiaeep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Can I know where Hashy got her dress 🥺

  • @DarrenFletcher11
    @DarrenFletcher11 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAHAHAHA when Dew kept trying to get an answer out of the girls but Nicole kept avoiding answering

  • @teebaharan9554
    @teebaharan9554 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice guys.. Frequent episodes will be great guys... Hope you guys may consider.. Great content..

  • @plutoniumf1y
    @plutoniumf1y 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOL i had to turn on the CC to comprehend the 'zao xia'

  • @LivingwithLONG
    @LivingwithLONG 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    New respect for Dew!!!

  • @edisonlian-homes
    @edisonlian-homes 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow awesome channel! great work

  • @Utubesensation
    @Utubesensation 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tbh theres a lot of different ways to solve or deal with problems, if you simply object the way the other person deals with things and you cannot stand it, just don’t be with that person la, if not the same argument will always occur again and again. For example, Im totally like dew, i hate it when i want to be left alone when i see no end to the fight and the other party keeps probing which makes me even more annoyed instead. Thats just how diff people deal with their problems, it may not be the best, but if you are unable to compromise then simply don’t be with the person. Most importantly, to people who are very insecure, you need to take yourselves seriously first before anyone else can take you seriously. For example, if you see your bf flirting with other girls and he says theyre just friends, you have to do the objective judgement yourself whether theres really nothing going on. If your bf is really flirting, I don’t even understand you you’re with that person ah. But if theyre just friends and youre jealous, or you know the girl might like your bf but he definitely doesnt like her back, then just be confident and face your rival head on (not fight or scold please just mark your territory politely) This will definitely not start a fight and also not spoil any relationships :) Fighting!!

  • @chasonyu53
    @chasonyu53 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Dew, Where you buy your sunglasses? Damn nice

  • @SuperGeeena
    @SuperGeeena 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nicole is damn good. Pls keep her haha

  • @joelconolly5574
    @joelconolly5574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Send love from Malaysia

  • @hayleyhyj525
    @hayleyhyj525 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    hashy’s dress is so cute

  • @JasmineTilman
    @JasmineTilman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg Nicole and Hashy really so pretty!!!!!

  • @goodluv15
    @goodluv15 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed this~

  • @dannyhuong2449
    @dannyhuong2449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the bird sound kill me hahaahahahhahaha!!!!

  • @arielhoh1582
    @arielhoh1582 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hashy is so relatable

  • @stellaleck5763
    @stellaleck5763 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Next topic want talk about, "Independent at work"? Does everyone feel stress? Responsibility is on you. Simple mistakes cannot be repeated.

  • @jackieng8874
    @jackieng8874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nicole is so funny HAHHAH want to see her more on the show

  • @jeffersoncheong5847
    @jeffersoncheong5847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish your could talk about national athletes or the local sports scene! It would be so cool and relatable to me!

  • @amiruldaniel9076
    @amiruldaniel9076 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    so sad that real talk is being discontinued...

  • @shazam1373
    @shazam1373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Eh Dew nice spec tho. The shady blue looks good on you.

  • @haizalloca114
    @haizalloca114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Topic about: What you have to do, to be ready to get married?

  • @bbhee
    @bbhee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never easy to close an episode, dont pressure Hashy!

  • @jingenng1062
    @jingenng1062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NEXT EPISODE TALK ABOUT FASHION!!!! SURE GOT A LOT STUFF TO TALK

  • @fahim9782
    @fahim9782 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dew is the real one 🤩👍🏻

  • @breski1303
    @breski1303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hashy is my favourite 🙃

  • @TaeNy35v
    @TaeNy35v 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hashy is starting to fit in more in the convo...

  • @Enricarenee
    @Enricarenee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Nicole is a great addition to the cast

  • @joannegreen1612
    @joannegreen1612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm loving Nicole. KEEP HER FOREVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

  • @rabbit5000
    @rabbit5000 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dew and John are hilarious lol

  • @aaa11882
    @aaa11882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    toxic rellationships up nex please!!

  • @kinhan95
    @kinhan95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Nicole quite cool. A bit like sot sot one but good addition.

  • @xobrook
    @xobrook 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m like hashy, I cry hehe

  • @deadpaulrandom6798
    @deadpaulrandom6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All looking good

  • @mr.pachaku3463
    @mr.pachaku3463 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fuck laa I keep repeating this 5:20 part sia so funny ah Nichole 😂😂

  • @iMysteryTube
    @iMysteryTube 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    hashy is my spirit animal

  • @IamEdwinHii
    @IamEdwinHii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    cutie hashy !!