Girls picking on guys is not being frowned upon by society at all. This is where a lot of the false arrgoance of young women these days stems from. Guys, remember: Just because nobody supports you, doesn't mean that you are worthless. Don't take shit from anyone and stay strong. This world is hostile by default and the sooner you come to terms with it, the better for your long time health.
Some of those words are so true: just because nobody supports you doesn’t mean you’re worthless. Lots of people are really focused on having a sense of belonging or acceptance that leads to the opposite, or worse chasing acceptance from a bad group. Be you and be strong, lead the way and anyone good enough can and possibly will follow.
This girl was throwing insults at me for like 5 minutes because we got into an argument and I indirectly called her fat and she starting crying lol. She told the teacher but there were many witnesses and she got in to trouble
Had the confidence to tell my female friend at the time I was sexually assaulted when I was a kid and she straight up told “I find that hard to believe, doesn’t really happen to guys”
This happened about eight years ago. I had an ex tell me that she aborted my kid without telling me (supposedly everyone know before I did). Being a good father for me is the apex of achievements, the most important thing a man could do. She lied about it or it was true. Ether way, that is the most vile thing anyone has done to me!
@@dannyfenton9529 that is messed up, it shouldn't be that way. If men have no say in that decision then we shouldn't be needed to support that child either
@@dannyfenton9529 I would of told her I'll take care if him or her myself, I would ANYTHING for the kid!!! I would be be willing to take a bullet for my kid! That child deserved to have a chance at life. If we really want equality between the the sexes, we really have to have the dad involved in major ways too! Where were my reproductive right? They were ripped away from me! Killed my kid without telling me. (If she was telling me the truth)
"Don't compare yourself with your sister. She has far more potential then you will ever have" - MOM and she wonders why i don't want to spend time with her when she visits the city .
She should stay with the "high potential" sister then. Parents who compare their children are not parents at all. She can spend her life in a retirement home or with her "high potential" daughter and not bother you. Good on you for cutting that toxic creature out of your life decisively. Good for you! Stay safe! Live well!
doesn't make too much sense to be honest if what she meant is you're not good enough for a relationship, okay that's hurtful but makes sense, but why would anyone not be good enough to be cheated on? if anything it's the opposite...
@@unocualqu1era mental gymnastics of a person trying to justify what they are doing and at the same time trying to put down the person they are doing it with.
The one guy who looked like his dead brother- I just realised this is why my mother has always hated me, I look like my dad and his extended family. They stayed together til he died but she always hated him. I could never figure out why she has always hated me, and still does. Makes sense now I guess.
I think I'm in the same boat, to a lesser extent. When we were kids, my mom always said I looked like our dad, and my brother looked like her. She does everything for him, and didn't deny it when I said he was her favorite. Generally ignores my existence, though. On the few occasions we do talk, it's rather unpleasant. Just last week she came to my house and within five minutes of talking to me, was asking me why she ever bothered having kids, and why I make life so difficult (I wasn't asking for a favour or anything like that, she just didn't like an answer I gave to her question). Made me feel pretty crappy having my own mom ask me why she had kids.
After my Uncle and Brother died from diseases my mother told me that it was all my fault and that should would have had a better life if I wasn't born. I haven spoken to her since. Worst part was was I was trying to comfort her the entire time cause she was suicidal and even spent more time with her that year than my wife back then girlfriend. Luckily my wife was so amazing and understanding. My mother-in-law has been treating me like a better son than my own mother and even told me how she felt happy that I asked her daughter to marry me. Just goes to show how different two people can be.
I just don't understand why some people get a kick out of daring someone to kiss or ask out someone else. It hurts so much for the person on the receiving end, it's awful.
It's all about the ego. Bitchy girl cliques are an absolute plague upon society. I have myself been victimized by them no less than three times in Final Fantasy 14 the past 2 years, all because their bitchiness ruined the guilds I was in.
It’s what she did really I was a kid 10 years old had the biggest crush on neighborhood girl we played together a lot one day she asked me to be her bf I was so happy cause I was alone as a child no family really felt like life couldn’t get any better not shitting you ten seconds later she breaks up wit me that’s when i realized life is gonna suck .....a lot
I used to give my ex-girlfriend literally hundreds of compliments all the time with none in return. I asked for her to compliment me once and instead she told me "it's not about looks for me". That one hurt.
In high school there was this girl that liked me a lot. She asked me out one time. I am a driven student and dating was the last thing on my mind, plus she was just not my type of girl. She was always overly emotional and desperate for a boyfriend so I politely turned her down. She was fine, the second I did this she went for another guy. However, her friend had the audacity to tell me “you should have taken her when you had the chance, she’s like the only girl that would ever go for you”. Hearing this as an older person, who’s dated an amazing girlfriend for years, sounds like bs and a stupid thing a kid would say. But for sophomore me, those words cycled in my head for months and did a huge number on my confidence.
@@vegetableman3911 I totally get that... I watched my mom abuse my dad for years and nothing was done about it even when the cops were called. The inequality is truly disgusting...
For me it was more or less: "You're awkward to talk to, not that exciting to be around anymore, and we don't have anything in common." We had been dating for nearly 3 and a half years......
@Hoppy the Mad Pencil The breakup was a year and a half ago so I'm fine at this point. The 6 months following the breakup were pretty dreadful though. I got to where I stopped eating as much and ended up dropping to 135 lbs (considered underweight at my height). Lost motivation to attend my classes, so my GPA dropped from a 3.6 to a 3.0 in one semester. Thankfully that summer I met a group of guys that changed my life. I started to workout for the first time since highschool, and I'm currently up to 175 lbs, and I got my motivation for school back and my GPA is now back up to a 3.4
"Why are you crying? You're a man for christ's sake stop acting like a little girl" My mom to me in 8th grade when i couldn't take any more bullying at school. And it's not even that she's a bad mom, she's very caring actually. She just doesn't understand that men can be emotionally hurt too, that's all she ever heard when growing up i guess, that depression isn't real and men who cry are automatically sensitive weaklings. Although, because of her comments i started doing boxing and grappling at 9th grade which greatly boosted me physically and mentally so uhhh.... Thanks mom. Lol
Im in 8th grade now. My mom has been like this since i was 10. It's caused me to not be able to tell her much of anything. In my case, my dad is the only person in my family who i care for.
Are you sure your mom isn’t my mom? 50 years of insulting me and belittling me. Sometimes I wish she would just kick off but that might make me happy and that can’t happen
When I was in middle school, I was anorexic. So being a skinny, acne plagued boy with low self esteem or confidence, I tried my luck. I told a girl that I had feelings for her. She said "Ok," then told all her friends while laughing. I wanted to disappear after that.
I'm pretty sure she just knew as little how to react as you would do. I'm not saying that "she liked you but her friends, man!", I'm saying that were it not for the culture among some girls that being bitchy is cool (essentially the female version of machismo), she might have reacted better. Maybe.
Know the feeling. Looked like a typical spotty, skinny nerd. Had a crush on this girl for years. Her best friend walked up to me told me she had a crush on me and I should ask her out. So I did, and she said "Uh, NO!" in front of most of the school. Didn't ask a girl out for years after that. Glad to see she's fat and ugly now whilst I'm in great shape. It does get better once you get through it
mine was “sorry I don’t date fat guys” that literally broke my heart because she was my crush for 2 years and when I finally got the confidence to ask her out that happened. 4 years later I started working out, and now I have a nice body and very nice face and she started talking too me and I said “sorry I don’t date heartless bitches”
So there was a really pretty girl in middle school and her two best friends told me that she likes me, so me being the ladies man that I am, decided to sit by her in class and try to talk to her more, and I was nervous. It honestly looked promising and at the time it seemed like she might've liked me too. So after a little while of playing that game all of a sudden out of the blue she give me a note after class and said to me "Here read that" the note read as follows: "Look I dont know what Maddie and Marley told you but I dont like you. You're annoying and gross, I've never liked you and I never will." I went home after school, head hanging low as it could, I turned on some Staind, and wallowing in self pity and heartache for a little while. If I remember right she eventually apologized. To the women that may be looking at this, dont think a guy doesnt have a heart. Every one of us do, and if you're going around playing games a breaking hearts, especially after you keep leading him on and on and on, that screws with our heads. We take it alot better if you just say you're not interested and get on out of there
When I confronted my ex and told her I know you've been cheating on me she just stared at me and said "yeah, ok, so?" There was no surprise in her eyes more like relief I had found out. I then said "Are you not even sorry for what you've done?" She said " I'll say sorry if you want me to". To be told that someone doesn't even care about you or to have no regrets or a shred of remorse after 10 happy years is the biggest gut punch you could ever feel.
the first story made me feel. i was berated by my mother when i tried NOT to cry at my fathers funeral as a kid. I just didnt' want all the strange grown ups to keep staring at me. they probably kenw my dad and i was very sad and uncomfortable.
I once got a girls number in school , i was so exicting that i got a her number I waited to call her the next day only to her a grown man on the other line. I never spoke to hear since Edit: just remebered thats not the only time a girl made me feel bad. I once build a gun out of legos the next day i went to school i showed my friends and this one girl Hailey took one look and said"wow you really have no life at all do you."
I was friends with a girl who became absolutely insufferable when we got into high school. She was very good-looking, and never had to try to get a boyfriend. She soon got a reputation for treating them like crap, though, which is the biggest reason I quit talking to her. Some of the things she said to her boyfriends were, "I don't know why you even TRY to be funny. It's just embarrassing.", "I like to talk to you because you're nice to me, but I don't really want people to think we're dating." (This after they HAD been dating for 3 months!), and (to her friends, but right in front of her boyfriend) "I like him because he's not very smart and he doesn't stand up for himself".
In a Dear John letter she sent to me, she compared me to the man who r---d her and told me that I was only a good person on paper, and then if that wasn't enough she also tried turning my best friend against me, but fortunately he saw through her and ignored her. It's been 2 years and those words still haunt me every now and then, but therapy has helped me tremendously trying to deal with all of the emotional carnage I'm honestly still trying to salvage 2 years later.
I feel you, man. My wife left me a few months ago under the flimsiest of pretenses, after using & my parents for months, if not longer (because it quickly became apparent she had been planning this for a long time). She accused me of emotional & psychological abuse, saying something very similar about me thinking I am a good guy & I'm not, when I always tried so hard to be gentle & kind with her. After time in counseling, I now realize I had buried my head in the sand because I didn't want to see the signs, including the fact that any abusive behavior was coming from her. Shattered my heart & really messed with my head; still working through it all & coming to terms with the fact that the woman I loved so much is a horrible human being.
it just depends on what type you get. cause some people have terrible ugly glasses but as soon as they find the right pair for their face shape things get 10x better. trust me. coming from someone who's worn glasses their entire life.
When people set up something then no show or cancel at last minute on a regular basis, it tends to be a power move. They know what they are doing. If need be call them out on it ( they probably don't actually care any ways.) make it clear they are no longer a priority on your time schedule. Bonus points if you can catch them in the act and call them out on it.
I'm already well aware how cruel people can be. Usually I let it go like water off a ducks back. But this just makes me mad... I just can't listen to shit like this. Humans naturally hate injustice, so without knowledge of comeuppance to any of these horrible people (the first one specifically) it just makes you angry.
"You might want to lighten up a touch, might help with making friends" Said by my ex-boyfriend of 3 years. He was an emotionally abusive asshole when we were together and he dumped me over text because he was "gay". We were talking via email about giving him his laptop back. He knows I struggle to make friends. There was many a time I'd cried to him about how lonely I am. He knew exactly what he was doing when he said that. I didnt reply to that email. It's the last thing he ever said to me. Hes dead to me.
Its good that he is dead for you. , it was intentional to hurt you in the way it would hurt the most, don't worry just try to start any dumb conversations with ppl , and you will start making friends( some ppl will also be rude, don't mind them., you don't need 100 friends 3-4 are a lot and will take away your loneliness) , take care :)
The one about the guys mom dying with cancer makes me sick. My ex wife was like this as well. If you aren’t spending time with them you aren’t doing anything important. She was literally jealous over our own daughter. Disgusting bro. Wish that dude the best wherever he is.
“You’re different. I can talk to my host family about my new boyfriend instead of you. I didn’t lie about that, I just didn’t feel like telling you because it would hurt your feelings. Whatever. You deserve a better friend.” Said to me by a girl I dated for five months. Sent me into a spiral of depression and anger for months. Still kinda reeling from it.
As a girl, I will tell all the guys not to feel worthless if something bad has happened. You are more than that. You're amazing, never forget that. Goes for girls who need it, too.
@Frank L imagine you go to a bar and suddenly you start talking to a girl, everything seems cool and one thing leads to another so you go get a room, you start kissing with that girl, everything is cool and when you are about to have sex she just says: you know i am not a girl right? Or like this other case in which you already went out with a girl for like a year and out of nowhere she says she is not a girl.
@@user-qv4fp9vm8u im my case it was the 2nd, i has a crush on a schoolmate and i asked her out and she was like *blush* "I'm not a girl" and after that she... im sorry he sent his friend to deliver me the message "I'm also not gay" and i cant believe but no one knew that from my class... i was like, wOaH and then i decided not to have a girlfriend ever again cuz she might have a dick hanging between her legs He also had a girly name cuz the first name was a boy name and his family name was a girl name, i just couldnt decide what was the first and the second so i just went with the looks I still remember my friend who helped me with the relationship (he also didnt know the thing), rolling on the ground and nearly dying of laughter. No joke we had to call the teachers cuz he almost suffocated
TL;DR: I spilled my heart out to a girl I thought liked. She said no. Fine. Sucks, but fine. Three days later, she texts me to say that we can't be friends anymore. Oh. I was already socially awkward, on the autism spectrum, and on a rebound from what I thought was a real relationship. But those words didn't just put me off dating. They put me off even trying to make new friends. It wasn't until four or five years later, looking back on it, that her reaction made sense. I'd invited her over to an empty house to watch a movie. Creepy enough. But instead of taking her home when the movie ended, I put on ANOTHER movie, hoping one of us would get the nerve to ask, because I thought she felt the same way. And this wasn't just wishful thinking on my part; it was absolute delusion! Why? She already HAD a boyfriend! Who she never said an unkind word about! But in my deluded teen brain, that didn't matter: She was a girl, we both liked similar things, and she didn't double over vomitting when she looked at me. It MUST be true love! (Sarcasm). So, yeah, she extricated herself from a scary situation, and set up a firm boundary to keep herself safe. It's not her fault that my lack of social context meant my own feelings, self-esteem, and any drive to expand my social circle, got completely nuked into oblivion in the process.
I'm a girl, I was bullied a lot, I didn't look attractive at all when I was younger but now I'd say I'm average looking. I'm always kind to people and it makes me upset when other people are mistreated. I'm sorry to all the guys that have been through these things. Please know that you deserve people that treat you better, and that better exists.
The first girl I had a crush on said this to me: "I was so regretted to have met you!", when we were having a fight. It has been 9 years, but such words would never fade. We are both now fine with each other, but such wound never heal.
"you hurt everyone around you, your rude and self centered ways have pushed everyone away from you, you should ask yourself the things you tell other people and admit you were wrong" -from someone I considered like an older sister (ex friends gf's best friend) after my ex best friend fucked me over for his new gf and got most people to hate me bonus I have PTSD (along with a few more mental disorders) and try and struggle super hard not to come off as an ass but that stung a lot.
Best I can describe that feeling is empty emotionalless and the memories fly past you and go into the "things that remind me of this pain" part of your brain and your heart feels like it cracks and shatters as it falls down through you and you just feel like crying and you feel alone as the space around you gets bigger and you feel like your sitting in an empty cold room wondering why or what did I do or what do I do now. This is from my experience and how it's felt but I'm curious to see how y'all can describe that feeling
God, I relate to this way too much. Almost exactly how I've been feeling since my wife left me several months ago. It's taken months of counseling for me to _begin_ to accept that I did the best I possibly could, that the woman I loved so much is a horrible person who manipulated & abused me. She shattered my heart & there have only been a handful of days when I haven't shed any tears.
Years of verbal abuse from multiple females of all relationship statuses caused me to build up a fort inside myself more secure than Ft. Knox. Situations like this is one of many reasons why I keep my true feelings at a distance so I dont get embarrassed
"The scars from words will never heal unlike those from weapons or burns" - part of a very famous saying in India. Its true. You can heal from an injury, eliminate a scar and move on BUT words will always make you suffer even years later unless you can resolve all the underlying issues and even then its hard. So please should really know to control their tongues.
"Is that all" My family was poor so I couldn't afford many legos and she obviously wasnt amused. It still kinda hurts to this day. Becky from third grade if you're reading this I have at least 5 totes full now. Get lost.
I've had a super conflicted feeling about something bittersweet a girl as a friend (and once my crush) said: "If you could just make like a statue and stop talking, we would've already dated. You already looked as good as one" Like it was extremely reassuring that a girl (by far the sexiest and most beautiful in my group at that) would be willing to be blunt and tell me that she believed I was objectively physically attractive, but my talkativeness was part of who I was as well as my disability (Asperger's and the associated social/charisma deficits) so that part still stung...
I got my first girlfriend fairly late, in my mid 20's. Eventually we were getting ready to do the nasty, and she asked me if I was only with her because I was a 2x year old virgin. We had been dating for about six months at the time, and things didn't last very long after that. In the next two months or so, she brought the same topic up twice more, after I had told her how much that hurt me. That was about a year ago and I still think about it quite frequently.
That insulting or being controlling of a guy doesn’t make you a “strong powerful woman.” It actually means you’re possessing many of the same qualities that make up toxic masculinity
Not me, but my dad. Youngest in a large family; when he was 6 he overheard his mother telling someone "oh, [name], we didn't plan for him at all, he was an accident". I think it says a lot about the kind of person he grew up to be. Rest In Peace dad, you taught me to never take shit from anyone.
If a girl said any of these to me it would let me know she cares enough to *want* to hurt my feelings in such a way. I would simply say I don’t even care enough about you to exhaust the energy insulting you.
As a girl I have something to confess with this... When I was in middle school I decided to go to my guy friends house to help him study. After I helped him he asked me if I wanted to play some video game. And he was really dedicated to gaming I mean he brought Minecraft and Mario stuff to school and spent 30% of his time gaming and being so dedicated looked down upon by elites just because he could made me like him. Anyway, so we start up this game I forgot the name of it was just low graphics. And start playing. After the first match I say. “ Ya know you don’t need to go easy on me just cause you think I’m new I’m up for a challenge!” Then he gets tears eyes and says. “ Alright then I need to to the bathroom brb.” He than goes to the other room talks with his sister and goes to the bathroom. His sister then enters the living room so I ask her why he’s a bit sad. She then says “ He was trying his best on the game and you hurt his feelings a bit.” After that I was too cowardly to talk to him and we just drifted apart and I feel bad about it that’s why I wrote this story.
“There’s nothing about you that’s attractive,” some girl who I went on a bad date with, got ghosted by, and confronted her after she changed her relationship status on Facebook.
Coming from a girl, there are so many toxic people out in the world today. I really hope that you guys out there are doing alright :( it’s not fair to you that you’re treated like this
The harshest I ever got said by someone was "You are just not my type." For context, it was with a co-worker and basically half the office was heads over heels for her. When she said that out loud to me I was like "Oha!" and never said anything further regarding that. It stung a little, but that's just how life is. You can't have everything.
On behalf of all ladies everywhere gentlemen: I am so so sorry these things were said to you. These women hurt you more than they should have been able to because you loved them beyond what they ever ever deserved.
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sticks and stones may break your bones, but words can leave permanent mental scars.
In both cases they only do damage when you let them hit. Dodge a thrown stone, discount or ignore an unimportant comment.
@@feartheghus and in both cases, you cant dodge forever and eventually you will get fucked up.
@Galaxy Sniper bruh lol
~Timmy Turners dad
Jm 115 words cut deep deeper than any blade
Girls picking on guys is not being frowned upon by society at all. This is where a lot of the false arrgoance of young women these days stems from. Guys, remember: Just because nobody supports you, doesn't mean that you are worthless. Don't take shit from anyone and stay strong. This world is hostile by default and the sooner you come to terms with it, the better for your long time health.
Hill Billy@ your words are true I will remember them
Thank you king 👑
Some of those words are so true: just because nobody supports you doesn’t mean you’re worthless. Lots of people are really focused on having a sense of belonging or acceptance that leads to the opposite, or worse chasing acceptance from a bad group. Be you and be strong, lead the way and anyone good enough can and possibly will follow.
preach
Sorry sir but you dropped this👑 and this🏰
As a girl, I hope you guys are okay and sort things out. Not everyone is heartless and I wish you guys find someone who truly cares about you.
Thank you, as a guy I appreciate that
L no problem my dude.
Im un ok
Much thank
@@cypherkoro6553?
Man: Has depression and severe mental issues
Society: Man Up
That sounds like a society's problem to ignore mental illness and never taken seriously. I speak from experience due to severe depression
Ugh bro. Grow a pair.
Man: tells girl she is gaining weight
Society: now this is an avenger level threat
Night Shader
DEPRESSION IS JUST SADNESS GET OVER IT
PuLl YoUrSeLf Up bY yOuR bOoTsTraPs
@lesthervolution 11 SOCIETY
"If totally date you if you weren't 34."
I was 23 and balding from stress at the time.
Don't be upset man, when I was 12-13 my hair on my own head was rotting from stress
A lad who was taking IB was graying despite being in HS
@@ricechido1089 yea
Oh Jesus, ouch !!
Dam man I always said if I was ever gonna get that stressed I was shaving my head
My Grandma: "I Bet You Have All The Ladies"
Girls To Me: 0:00-16:04
Oof
Gabriel Lopez your profile pic elevates your comment
Gabriel Lopez Ouch.
Same
If you play 0:00 and 16:04 right after eachother it says “guys... and now shes fat” 😂😂
That last one "And now she's fat" made me laugh
They all end up that way, some sooner than others, once the looks fade karma gets 'em.
Me too
Guy's a champion!
A proper happy ending
@@florzinnha is what a sexist would say, no sexists here are there?
This girl was throwing insults at me for like 5 minutes because we got into an argument and I indirectly called her fat and she starting crying lol. She told the teacher but there were many witnesses and she got in to trouble
*Everyone liked that.
Dumbass, it’s like trying to rob a bank and then blame the cops it was the bank that stole the money but there were 20 cameras showing it was her
Karens these days
Justice has been served
Then they raise the same type of guy that starts a fight and calls the cops when they lose
Had the confidence to tell my female friend at the time I was sexually assaulted when I was a kid and she straight up told “I find that hard to believe, doesn’t really happen to guys”
damn bro im sorry for what happened to you. Hope you atleast got some justice.
these are the double standards that plague the court!
So sorry, man ❤️
Stay strong brother👍
Hey man, I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you're doing okay.
This happened about eight years ago. I had an ex tell me that she aborted my kid without telling me (supposedly everyone know before I did). Being a good father for me is the apex of achievements, the most important thing a man could do. She lied about it or it was true. Ether way, that is the most vile thing anyone has done to me!
What would you have done if she told you before she did it? You don't really have a say in that decision in the end.
Damn I'm sorry dude, that pain must hurt so much
Just promise yourself that you will find a better woman that wont do this to you
@@dannyfenton9529 that is messed up, it shouldn't be that way. If men have no say in that decision then we shouldn't be needed to support that child either
@@dannyfenton9529 I would of told her I'll take care if him or her myself, I would ANYTHING for the kid!!! I would be be willing to take a bullet for my kid! That child deserved to have a chance at life. If we really want equality between the the sexes, we really have to have the dad involved in major ways too! Where were my reproductive right? They were ripped away from me! Killed my kid without telling me. (If she was telling me the truth)
@@pinkrose7646 it was really an eye opener, I was a kid when it happened. Thanks for the wise worlds.
"Don't compare yourself with your sister. She has far more potential then you will ever have" - MOM and she wonders why i don't want to spend time with her when she visits the city .
Glad you stay away.
Wow mean mom :(
She should stay with the "high potential" sister then. Parents who compare their children are not parents at all. She can spend her life in a retirement home or with her "high potential" daughter and not bother you. Good on you for cutting that toxic creature out of your life decisively. Good for you! Stay safe! Live well!
wHy dOeS mY sOn hAtE mE
"Youre the guy people cheat with because youre not good enough to even be cheated on"
- girl who was cheating on a boyfriend i didnt know about
doesn't make too much sense to be honest
if what she meant is you're not good enough for a relationship, okay that's hurtful but makes sense, but why would anyone not be good enough to be cheated on? if anything it's the opposite...
@@unocualqu1era mental gymnastics of a person trying to justify what they are doing and at the same time trying to put down the person they are doing it with.
@@ssa3101 ^This
The story abt the sister not believing her brother is sad. I feel really bad for him. Seems like a good dude
"I don't love you anymore." A girl can tell me anything and I can act tough and let it go but those words just... Hurt.
the "anymore" part definitely stings the most
What about " to be honest, i never loved you"
Me: don't you love me now
Her: nope
That's all she said. No winding answer to soften the blow.
@@ssa3101 damn that sucks , i can relate i hope you can get through this man
@@riadhgz1445 nah I got through it fine. Hurt like hell at that moment though. Wasn't my first breakup so I knew how to cope. I hope you are doing ok.
The one guy who looked like his dead brother- I just realised this is why my mother has always hated me, I look like my dad and his extended family. They stayed together til he died but she always hated him. I could never figure out why she has always hated me, and still does. Makes sense now I guess.
But why does she hate your dad?
I think I'm in the same boat, to a lesser extent. When we were kids, my mom always said I looked like our dad, and my brother looked like her. She does everything for him, and didn't deny it when I said he was her favorite. Generally ignores my existence, though. On the few occasions we do talk, it's rather unpleasant. Just last week she came to my house and within five minutes of talking to me, was asking me why she ever bothered having kids, and why I make life so difficult (I wasn't asking for a favour or anything like that, she just didn't like an answer I gave to her question). Made me feel pretty crappy having my own mom ask me why she had kids.
I used to get, 'You're just like your father.'
This is bs. Not a valid reason to hate someone smh
My ex-wife said "I do".
The suffering began immediately...
After my Uncle and Brother died from diseases my mother told me that it was all my fault and that should would have had a better life if I wasn't born. I haven spoken to her since. Worst part was was I was trying to comfort her the entire time cause she was suicidal and even spent more time with her that year than my wife back then girlfriend. Luckily my wife was so amazing and understanding.
My mother-in-law has been treating me like a better son than my own mother and even told me how she felt happy that I asked her daughter to marry me. Just goes to show how different two people can be.
I just don't understand why some people get a kick out of daring someone to kiss or ask out someone else. It hurts so much for the person on the receiving end, it's awful.
It's all about the ego. Bitchy girl cliques are an absolute plague upon society. I have myself been victimized by them no less than three times in Final Fantasy 14 the past 2 years, all because their bitchiness ruined the guilds I was in.
I've had it happen 3-4 times
It’s what she did really I was a kid 10 years old had the biggest crush on neighborhood girl we played together a lot one day she asked me to be her bf I was so happy cause I was alone as a child no family really felt like life couldn’t get any better not shitting you ten seconds later she breaks up wit me that’s when i realized life is gonna suck .....a lot
she was looking for assurance to boost her ego. That's all it was.
I want to like this comment, but it’s at 69 likes rn and I don’t want to be the one to ruin it.
Edit: Ok it’s not at 69 anymore I can like it now.
David Laranjeira yeah forever known as the guy who broke up my 69 😂
Maybe it happened because you don't know how to use punctuation
@@bananamonkeygaming14 wouldn't be suprised if it happened to you with that name or profile picture...
I used to give my ex-girlfriend literally hundreds of compliments all the time with none in return. I asked for her to compliment me once and instead she told me "it's not about looks for me". That one hurt.
In high school there was this girl that liked me a lot. She asked me out one time. I am a driven student and dating was the last thing on my mind, plus she was just not my type of girl. She was always overly emotional and desperate for a boyfriend so I politely turned her down. She was fine, the second I did this she went for another guy. However, her friend had the audacity to tell me “you should have taken her when you had the chance, she’s like the only girl that would ever go for you”. Hearing this as an older person, who’s dated an amazing girlfriend for years, sounds like bs and a stupid thing a kid would say. But for sophomore me, those words cycled in my head for months and did a huge number on my confidence.
Dang man. At least your over it now. I hope i find a wonderful partner like yours
Women know how to get under everyone's skin. They know to hurt you in the worst way possible. Men have strength, women have words.
Word👌
It’s a shame as well because men get less mental support when they need it just as much
@@vegetableman3911 I totally get that... I watched my mom abuse my dad for years and nothing was done about it even when the cops were called. The inequality is truly disgusting...
Emily Barclay a broken nose can take a month and heal fully a broken spirit can take years and never be the same
Perfectly balanced as all things should be.
For me it was more or less: "You're awkward to talk to, not that exciting to be around anymore, and we don't have anything in common."
We had been dating for nearly 3 and a half years......
@Hoppy the Mad Pencil The breakup was a year and a half ago so I'm fine at this point. The 6 months following the breakup were pretty dreadful though. I got to where I stopped eating as much and ended up dropping to 135 lbs (considered underweight at my height). Lost motivation to attend my classes, so my GPA dropped from a 3.6 to a 3.0 in one semester. Thankfully that summer I met a group of guys that changed my life. I started to workout for the first time since highschool, and I'm currently up to 175 lbs, and I got my motivation for school back and my GPA is now back up to a 3.4
She told me “He loves me more than you ever loved me and buys me anything I want!” He turned out to be abusive.
"buys me anything i want"
golddigger alert
holy damn
Mine is actually really simple: Who would ever like you?
Dorido nobody would like me
@@speedyy__ someone will
@@speedyy__ Don't say that to yourself! A wise friend once told me, "Every pot has a lid." Chin up king, your crown is falling.
Oucccch. Person was probably projecting though.
"Why are you crying? You're a man for christ's sake stop acting like a little girl" My mom to me in 8th grade when i couldn't take any more bullying at school. And it's not even that she's a bad mom, she's very caring actually. She just doesn't understand that men can be emotionally hurt too, that's all she ever heard when growing up i guess, that depression isn't real and men who cry are automatically sensitive weaklings. Although, because of her comments i started doing boxing and grappling at 9th grade which greatly boosted me physically and mentally so uhhh.... Thanks mom. Lol
Im in 8th grade now. My mom has been like this since i was 10. It's caused me to not be able to tell her much of anything. In my case, my dad is the only person in my family who i care for.
The Anime Box same one time I was expressing the emotion of sadness and my mom called me a little girl baby
Are you sure your mom isn’t my mom? 50 years of insulting me and belittling me. Sometimes I wish she would just kick off but that might make me happy and that can’t happen
same, got that from my mum about a year ago when i was 18 (i cant remember what it was, because ive been doing it a lot lately)
Relatable
No One:
Not a Soul:
Not a Single Person:
Text-to-Speech: "Fas-seh-book"
When I was in middle school, I was anorexic. So being a skinny, acne plagued boy with low self esteem or confidence, I tried my luck. I told a girl that I had feelings for her. She said "Ok," then told all her friends while laughing. I wanted to disappear after that.
That's just.. th... Wow
I'm pretty sure she just knew as little how to react as you would do. I'm not saying that "she liked you but her friends, man!", I'm saying that were it not for the culture among some girls that being bitchy is cool (essentially the female version of machismo), she might have reacted better. Maybe.
Know the feeling. Looked like a typical spotty, skinny nerd. Had a crush on this girl for years. Her best friend walked up to me told me she had a crush on me and I should ask her out. So I did, and she said "Uh, NO!" in front of most of the school. Didn't ask a girl out for years after that. Glad to see she's fat and ugly now whilst I'm in great shape. It does get better once you get through it
mine was “sorry I don’t date fat guys” that literally broke my heart because she was my crush for 2 years and when I finally got the confidence to ask her out that happened. 4 years later I started working out, and now I have a nice body and very nice face and she started talking too me and I said “sorry I don’t date heartless bitches”
Yea bro maybe she was rude with yoi but she was on her right to date anyone he wanted.she has preferences too,no offense bro just sayin
@@marcowulliampopirers2216 its still heartful. And she could have done it a bit politer.
@@hk-ex4gw i know that was i was saying she was rude with himbut she was in her right to have preferences and standards
She could have said it politely
So there was a really pretty girl in middle school and her two best friends told me that she likes me, so me being the ladies man that I am, decided to sit by her in class and try to talk to her more, and I was nervous. It honestly looked promising and at the time it seemed like she might've liked me too. So after a little while of playing that game all of a sudden out of the blue she give me a note after class and said to me "Here read that" the note read as follows: "Look I dont know what Maddie and Marley told you but I dont like you. You're annoying and gross, I've never liked you and I never will."
I went home after school, head hanging low as it could, I turned on some Staind, and wallowing in self pity and heartache for a little while. If I remember right she eventually apologized.
To the women that may be looking at this, dont think a guy doesnt have a heart. Every one of us do, and if you're going around playing games a breaking hearts, especially after you keep leading him on and on and on, that screws with our heads. We take it alot better if you just say you're not interested and get on out of there
When I confronted my ex and told her I know you've been cheating on me she just stared at me and said "yeah, ok, so?" There was no surprise in her eyes more like relief I had found out. I then said "Are you not even sorry for what you've done?" She said " I'll say sorry if you want me to". To be told that someone doesn't even care about you or to have no regrets or a shred of remorse after 10 happy years is the biggest gut punch you could ever feel.
the first story made me feel. i was berated by my mother when i tried NOT to cry at my fathers funeral as a kid. I just didnt' want all the strange grown ups to keep staring at me. they probably kenw my dad and i was very sad and uncomfortable.
"...and now she's fat" Haha!
Even though these didn’t happen to me, these hit deep. I feel bad for all of the men that had experienced those things.
yeah same
I once got a girls number in school , i was so exicting that i got a her number I waited to call her the next day only to her a grown man on the other line. I never spoke to hear since
Edit: just remebered thats not the only time a girl made me feel bad. I once build a gun out of legos the next day i went to school i showed my friends and this one girl Hailey took one look and said"wow you really have no life at all do you."
F
That shit is infuriating
What a nobhead
Lmfao thanks for the uplifting comment this really cracked me up
Plot twist: She got one number wrong on accident and was wondering why you never called her or why you stopped talking to her. 😅
More reasons to never be vulnerable with a woman.
Very few truer words have ever been spoken
Amen
I was friends with a girl who became absolutely insufferable when we got into high school. She was very good-looking, and never had to try to get a boyfriend. She soon got a reputation for treating them like crap, though, which is the biggest reason I quit talking to her. Some of the things she said to her boyfriends were, "I don't know why you even TRY to be funny. It's just embarrassing.", "I like to talk to you because you're nice to me, but I don't really want people to think we're dating." (This after they HAD been dating for 3 months!), and (to her friends, but right in front of her boyfriend) "I like him because he's not very smart and he doesn't stand up for himself".
In a Dear John letter she sent to me, she compared me to the man who r---d her and told me that I was only a good person on paper, and then if that wasn't enough she also tried turning my best friend against me, but fortunately he saw through her and ignored her. It's been 2 years and those words still haunt me every now and then, but therapy has helped me tremendously trying to deal with all of the emotional carnage I'm honestly still trying to salvage 2 years later.
Hope youre doing better man! Some people are just like broken glass - they can only hurt you! Forget about her! Live well! Stay safe! All the best!!
I feel you, man. My wife left me a few months ago under the flimsiest of pretenses, after using & my parents for months, if not longer (because it quickly became apparent she had been planning this for a long time). She accused me of emotional & psychological abuse, saying something very similar about me thinking I am a good guy & I'm not, when I always tried so hard to be gentle & kind with her. After time in counseling, I now realize I had buried my head in the sand because I didn't want to see the signs, including the fact that any abusive behavior was coming from her. Shattered my heart & really messed with my head; still working through it all & coming to terms with the fact that the woman I loved so much is a horrible human being.
"You'd get a bunch of girls if you stopped wearing glasses"
took it has a compliment then but now it kinda hurts cuz I cant deal with contacts
A friend of mine told me that I didn't look nice without glasses. As in my real face is ugly. The complete opposite story of yours.
Both stories are messed up. Stay strong👍. Dont let it get to you.
it just depends on what type you get. cause some people have terrible ugly glasses but as soon as they find the right pair for their face shape things get 10x better. trust me. coming from someone who's worn glasses their entire life.
@@conscious_competence3703 idk this sounds like the nicer version of "man up, its not that bad"
"When I accepted you back then when you confessed, I actually didn't have any feelings for you"
When people set up something then no show or cancel at last minute on a regular
basis, it tends to be a power move. They know what they are doing. If need be call them out on it ( they probably don't actually care any ways.) make it clear they are no longer a priority on your time schedule. Bonus points if you can catch them in the act and call them out on it.
Currently going through this tbh, hoping to stay friends though but the relationship h u r t because of this.
Met a decent co-worker she told me "I'm only to talking to you cause ur mom paid me to be your friend " and I never talked to her again .
Fin
I'm already well aware how cruel people can be. Usually I let it go like water off a ducks back. But this just makes me mad... I just can't listen to shit like this. Humans naturally hate injustice, so without knowledge of comeuppance to any of these horrible people (the first one specifically) it just makes you angry.
"You might want to lighten up a touch, might help with making friends"
Said by my ex-boyfriend of 3 years. He was an emotionally abusive asshole when we were together and he dumped me over text because he was "gay". We were talking via email about giving him his laptop back.
He knows I struggle to make friends. There was many a time I'd cried to him about how lonely I am. He knew exactly what he was doing when he said that.
I didnt reply to that email. It's the last thing he ever said to me. Hes dead to me.
Its good that he is dead for you. , it was intentional to hurt you in the way it would hurt the most, don't worry just try to start any dumb conversations with ppl , and you will start making friends( some ppl will also be rude, don't mind them., you don't need 100 friends 3-4 are a lot and will take away your loneliness) , take care :)
i’m paraphrasing a tad
“i don’t care if he’s my ex, you’re not more important than him.”
i’m glad i am no longer with her
The one about the guys mom dying with cancer makes me sick. My ex wife was like this as well. If you aren’t spending time with them you aren’t doing anything important. She was literally jealous over our own daughter. Disgusting bro. Wish that dude the best wherever he is.
When she literally said "hurtful" to me. Its a password used by Bigfoot hunters
That just means you're hard to find!!
“You’re different. I can talk to my host family about my new boyfriend instead of you. I didn’t lie about that, I just didn’t feel like telling you because it would hurt your feelings. Whatever. You deserve a better friend.” Said to me by a girl I dated for five months. Sent me into a spiral of depression and anger for months. Still kinda reeling from it.
As a girl, I will tell all the guys not to feel worthless if something bad has happened. You are more than that. You're amazing, never forget that. Goes for girls who need it, too.
"Im not a girl"
It's a trap!!
This shit happens waaaay too much
@Frank L imagine you go to a bar and suddenly you start talking to a girl, everything seems cool and one thing leads to another so you go get
a room, you start kissing with that girl, everything is cool and when you are about to have sex she just says: you know i am not a girl right?
Or like this other case in which you already went out with a girl for like a year and out of nowhere she says she is not a girl.
@@user-qv4fp9vm8u im my case it was the 2nd, i has a crush on a schoolmate and i asked her out and she was like *blush* "I'm not a girl" and after that she... im sorry he sent his friend to deliver me the message "I'm also not gay" and i cant believe but no one knew that from my class... i was like, wOaH and then i decided not to have a girlfriend ever again cuz she might have a dick hanging between her legs
He also had a girly name cuz the first name was a boy name and his family name was a girl name, i just couldnt decide what was the first and the second so i just went with the looks
I still remember my friend who helped me with the relationship (he also didnt know the thing), rolling on the ground and nearly dying of laughter. No joke we had to call the teachers cuz he almost suffocated
@@user-qv4fp9vm8u And then you man up and say, "I'll try anything once"
Told someone I liked them, she said ok while texting on snapchat
My ex in a nutshell
lmao ok
PFFF how is that hurtful?
@@agostinacoronel2901 hey do you have an accomplishment thatbyou will always remeber
@@agzzradface3113 what?
TL;DR: I spilled my heart out to a girl I thought liked. She said no.
Fine. Sucks, but fine.
Three days later, she texts me to say that we can't be friends anymore.
Oh.
I was already socially awkward, on the autism spectrum, and on a rebound from what I thought was a real relationship. But those words didn't just put me off dating. They put me off even trying to make new friends.
It wasn't until four or five years later, looking back on it, that her reaction made sense.
I'd invited her over to an empty house to watch a movie. Creepy enough. But instead of taking her home when the movie ended, I put on ANOTHER movie, hoping one of us would get the nerve to ask, because I thought she felt the same way.
And this wasn't just wishful thinking on my part; it was absolute delusion!
Why?
She already HAD a boyfriend! Who she never said an unkind word about!
But in my deluded teen brain, that didn't matter:
She was a girl, we both liked similar things, and she didn't double over vomitting when she looked at me. It MUST be true love! (Sarcasm).
So, yeah, she extricated herself from a scary situation, and set up a firm boundary to keep herself safe.
It's not her fault that my lack of social context meant my own feelings, self-esteem, and any drive to expand my social circle, got completely nuked into oblivion in the process.
As what Zabuza said to Naruto. “Your words cut deeper than any blade.”
@Naruto Uzumaki well you married a hyuga princess and have 2 kids
@Communist Naruto Uzumaki don't worry bro, his things are totally nonsense
Tip for anyone do not ask someone out, ask for their number, or flirt with them as a joke. Spoiler:
*_its not funny_*
I'm a girl, I was bullied a lot, I didn't look attractive at all when I was younger but now I'd say I'm average looking. I'm always kind to people and it makes me upset when other people are mistreated.
I'm sorry to all the guys that have been through these things. Please know that you deserve people that treat you better, and that better exists.
"Don't worry about it anymore." As she handed me a receipt of an abortion clinic.
I... I don't have words for this... I'm soo sorry dude...
The first girl I had a crush on said this to me: "I was so regretted to have met you!", when we were having a fight. It has been 9 years, but such words would never fade. We are both now fine with each other, but such wound never heal.
“You wouldn’t even care, let alone cry, if your mom died”
Woooow that a low a really low blow that hurt myself and it wasn't even directed to me... Hope your doing Ok
"you hurt everyone around you, your rude and self centered ways have pushed everyone away from you, you should ask yourself the things you tell other people and admit you were wrong" -from someone I considered like an older sister (ex friends gf's best friend) after my ex best friend fucked me over for his new gf and got most people to hate me bonus I have PTSD (along with a few more mental disorders) and try and struggle super hard not to come off as an ass but that stung a lot.
Best I can describe that feeling is empty emotionalless and the memories fly past you and go into the "things that remind me of this pain" part of your brain and your heart feels like it cracks and shatters as it falls down through you and you just feel like crying and you feel alone as the space around you gets bigger and you feel like your sitting in an empty cold room wondering why or what did I do or what do I do now.
This is from my experience and how it's felt but I'm curious to see how y'all can describe that feeling
God, I relate to this way too much. Almost exactly how I've been feeling since my wife left me several months ago. It's taken months of counseling for me to _begin_ to accept that I did the best I possibly could, that the woman I loved so much is a horrible person who manipulated & abused me. She shattered my heart & there have only been a handful of days when I haven't shed any tears.
Years of verbal abuse from multiple females of all relationship statuses caused me to build up a fort inside myself more secure than Ft. Knox. Situations like this is one of many reasons why I keep my true feelings at a distance so I dont get embarrassed
"The scars from words will never heal unlike those from weapons or burns" - part of a very famous saying in India. Its true. You can heal from an injury, eliminate a scar and move on BUT words will always make you suffer even years later unless you can resolve all the underlying issues and even then its hard. So please should really know to control their tongues.
The worst thing a girl has said to me is ‘my mum says that everything happens for a reason, and you aren’t the one for me’
"Is that all"
My family was poor so I couldn't afford many legos and she obviously wasnt amused. It still kinda hurts to this day. Becky from third grade if you're reading this I have at least 5 totes full now. Get lost.
LMAO
I've had a super conflicted feeling about something bittersweet a girl as a friend (and once my crush) said:
"If you could just make like a statue and stop talking, we would've already dated. You already looked as good as one"
Like it was extremely reassuring that a girl (by far the sexiest and most beautiful in my group at that) would be willing to be blunt and tell me that she believed I was objectively physically attractive, but my talkativeness was part of who I was as well as my disability (Asperger's and the associated social/charisma deficits) so that part still stung...
The one with the father and his sister really got to me. I really hope he gets to re connect with his son.
Those famous 3 things!
*"I. LIKE. YOU."*
And this is why when we get complimented, we remember it forever
*my mother to me* "You should carry around a plant to replace the Oxygen you waste"
Damn😭. I'm sorry but it's funny. You should use it as an insult to her on her death bed some day tho 😭😂💔
"You're not special anymore."
16:00 “Never spoke to her again, and now she’s fat” literally the hardest I’ve laughed in a long time 😂😂😂
3:52 the appropriate response is "Are you challenging me?"
when a girl said brb to me she never came back
And this is why I’m single. Power on, Gents! The world is yours, with or without a significant other!
I got my first girlfriend fairly late, in my mid 20's. Eventually we were getting ready to do the nasty, and she asked me if I was only with her because I was a 2x year old virgin. We had been dating for about six months at the time, and things didn't last very long after that. In the next two months or so, she brought the same topic up twice more, after I had told her how much that hurt me. That was about a year ago and I still think about it quite frequently.
"don't talk to him, he's just the janitor" while working maintenance at a Marriott.
That insulting or being controlling of a guy doesn’t make you a “strong powerful woman.” It actually means you’re possessing many of the same qualities that make up toxic masculinity
Toxicity knows no gender. Whether it's an asshole who beats his girlfriend or a bitchy banshee emasculating her boyfriend, none of it is cool.
@@CidSilverWing You gotta defend yourself no matter who. Even from yourself
It means you're an insecure evil person no matter who you did it too
"I never had feelings for you in the first place."
Not me, but my dad. Youngest in a large family; when he was 6 he overheard his mother telling someone "oh, [name], we didn't plan for him at all, he was an accident". I think it says a lot about the kind of person he grew up to be. Rest In Peace dad, you taught me to never take shit from anyone.
😿😿
Men hit with their fists.
Women hit with their words...and sometimes also their fists.
If a girl said any of these to me it would let me know she cares enough to *want* to hurt my feelings in such a way. I would simply say I don’t even care enough about you to exhaust the energy insulting you.
As a girl I have something to confess with this...
When I was in middle school I decided to go to my guy friends house to help him study. After I helped him he asked me if I wanted to play some video game. And he was really dedicated to gaming I mean he brought Minecraft and Mario stuff to school and spent 30% of his time gaming and being so dedicated looked down upon by elites just because he could made me like him. Anyway, so we start up this game I forgot the name of it was just low graphics. And start playing. After the first match I say. “ Ya know you don’t need to go easy on me just cause you think I’m new I’m up for a challenge!” Then he gets tears eyes and says. “ Alright then I need to to the bathroom brb.”
He than goes to the other room talks with his sister and goes to the bathroom. His sister then enters the living room so I ask her why he’s a bit sad. She then says “ He was trying his best on the game and you hurt his feelings a bit.” After that I was too cowardly to talk to him and we just drifted apart and I feel bad about it that’s why I wrote this story.
at lest you are honest
"I'm breaking up with you because I've been dating (guys name)." The guy was like my best friend.
“There’s nothing about you that’s attractive,” some girl who I went on a bad date with, got ghosted by, and confronted her after she changed her relationship status on Facebook.
9.45
Hits me hard man and sometimes I over think about it.
Please help
Always a good comeback. "If people without feet don't wear socks, than why the hell do you wear a bra?"
A girl once said to me:
“Now I see why you’re dad left.”
That hurt different not gonna lie.
Coming from a girl, there are so many toxic people out in the world today. I really hope that you guys out there are doing alright :( it’s not fair to you that you’re treated like this
"And now she's fat." Lol😂
"And now she's fat" killed me
“Who are you and why are you in my bedroom”
"why are you even still trying with me?"
" and now she's fat " lmao what a god
4:57 well i did get told "I should have had an abortion" so that was about near that.
"I wish I never would have had this kid with you"...immature people don't understand the impact of words.
The harshest I ever got said by someone was "You are just not my type."
For context, it was with a co-worker and basically half the office was heads over heels for her. When she said that out loud to me I was like "Oha!" and never said anything further regarding that. It stung a little, but that's just how life is. You can't have everything.
At least that last guy managed to get the last word good for him
On behalf of all ladies everywhere gentlemen: I am so so sorry these things were said to you. These women hurt you more than they should have been able to because you loved them beyond what they ever ever deserved.
Courtney Murphy
Never apologize for what you have never done.
You know it’s times like this I’m glad I made it work with my high school sweetheart. Idk how you can consider half these “hurtful girls” human.
"You were just a plaything"