@@64bitUnity So I am guessing if you go there for a visit it might be a good chance to get rid you your virginity? But how is the drinking according to women in the UK a woman that isn't sober can't make that choice making the man a you know what.
I'm Danish and I don't do that - I find it strange too. I very rarely drink alcohol at all (escpeccially beer, since i don't like the taste) - just not something I enjoy. That sometimes mean that I'm left out and get comments like "live a little". I'm so annoyed about the alchohol culture we have here - not something to be proud of I think.
Stop saying they all sound boring, Danish people are usually very awkward. They aren't into strangers trying to start small talk or ask them a random deep question. They are actually usually really fun people and make excellent drinking buddies. Plus sex shaming isn't okay in Scandinavia. Love Denmark!❤✋🏻
@@makisxatzimixas2372 as a danish person i can tell you she probably wasn't. Of all my friends who are in a relationship, most of them met their current partners through sex, that then evolved into a relationship. It usually goes sex -> relationship or more often i think it's friend -> sex -> relationship. She didn't sound fake to me at all
Honestly, this is the best way. When I spend too much time getting to know someone it kind of turns me off after awhile. Like great, we've been talking about your family and work for the past few days, now you're starting to feel like my sister and I'm rapidly loosing interest in making a move. Better get it out of the way first and you establish the correct frame from the get go.
lol when he said abut weird coloured clothing and said ''pink is not good in Scandinavia'' there was a little danish boy walking behind him in a pink top haha
My cousin and I visited Copenhagen about 3 years ago. The men are gorgeous!!!!!🥰 We couldnt keep a conversation between us, cause our eyes would go wondering!! We did meet some guys, they where fun! They invited us to a party and they where very polite! They dress so nice also!!
Im Canadian and have been with a Danish woman for almost 9 years, and she is the warmest, kindest most considerate person I have ever met. so theres that:)
plica06 not really, alot if danes to have acne, it just looks like the people in the video have perfect skin. like i don't have perfect skin at all just saying
how interesting seeing different standards in different countries... like here the men don't like over-dressed women or makeup while in other parts of the world that counts as a good thing cause it shows you put effort... interesting :D
Definitely the reason I decided to do these videos. It is so interesting to see that what one culture finds beautiful, the other finds unattractive. The colors thing was the funniest one for me personally to find out
Dating Beyond Borders same XD i didn't know someone hated pink :P cool! this really helps out those who travel a lot and want to date outside of their culture... which is a really good thing! thanks :D
I stopped whatching after "you're supposed to get drunk on the first date otherwise we won't talk." Yes, I only whatched the beginning and that was way enough for me. I feel sorry for that. I've spent one amazing week of my life in Denmark and found great people there, so no, I don't hate Danish people at all, on the contrary there's so much about their lifestyle that makes me like them more than my own people (Italians). I only hate the "alcoholic culture" there. Really... if you need alcohol to make friends, if you need alcohol to have sex or simply smile... that's sad. What kind of human connection is that?
Beatrice River we don't really. It's mostly people in Copenhagen but everybody is not like that. I don't understand the alcohol-thing here too. Just make friend without pressure or fakeness
I think the alcohol thing is a northern European thing. Due to weather you can't just go for a walk or to the beach etc so better stay somewhere indoor. And a pub/bar is somewhere casual with a beer or two helps to open up.
Thats how life here is in Scandinavia. If you are someone that dont drink its like you have a spider in your hair. It sucks, people have zero personality
The Scandinavians become your friend only if they have a strong connection with you. I made true friendships with them . They are sincere people. But they Italians usually don't go out with me and don't date me. On the contrary the Scandinavians often become my Friends and they don't drink. If they really like a Person they don't Need to drink.
As a dane I would say that much of this applies to the younger generations and mainly to more urban areas(This is for instance is shot in Copenhagen, the largest city in DK, where people are more 'free' in nature). Although the notion meeting someone while tipsy or in a social setting(out on the town) is pretty prevalent.
This is why I love your channel so much, it's so interesting to hear people from different cultures talking about dating, listening to these women I couldn't help but think how different they are to women here in Spain. Marina you look very pretty without make up, loved the video! Keep the hard work.
sex before coffee, yaaakkk horible. where is the logic in this ? girls there are like toilets, when men go to satisfed some biological need without comitment.
Okay, the first guy is too tall. That is a very high standard to beat. But this person said "Women here are independent. Don't expect them to cook, clean and take care of children." Those things have nothing to do with you being independent or otherwise. Crazy world!
Historically and pretty much currently taking care of children saps your independence and freedom as a woman. Maybe men are pitching on more where you’re from?
I don't understand one thing. Ok you can't talk to the strangers but if you are drunk you can ask someone to have sex with this person? How strange is it? No talking to strangers but having sex with a stranger but with some alcohol involved??
Because of shyness. They cant break the ice sober. And these are teens, teens everywhere use alcohol to break the ice, who doesnt go out to the club everywhere, start drinking and has sex honestly
Please, to every boy/girl/man/woman looking at this comment, listen to me. DO NOT let some stupid friends/dates or even this so-called clever society dictate you what to do. If you find getting drunk and having sex before coffee is fucking awful, then please, DON'T DO THAT. Some said that Danes are so shy hence they need to get drunk to open up, its fucking bullshit. There are a lot of nice, decent people out there who can have a normal date without involving alcohol or sex until they find the right one. One day, you'll know it when you find the right one, and sex will be more loving and intimate. So, please, don't give it up too easily. And listen, if you are old school, that's okay because you know what? One day you'll find that other one who you'll love so fucking much and you will be fucking happy that she/he is your first. Love, N ❤
very cool! it's good to hear what native/local people think, and you can find out if stereotypes are true or not. Great addition to the channel, hope you can do more of these in the future!
Well partly true. I'm form another region than these people but most women I meet are reserved (I think at least). I have never heard anyone so young say stuff like that IRL. Idk I'm kinda shocked myself from that shit haha I've never even kissed anyone else than my girlfriends I've had (and 4/5 I were in a relationship with before we kissed), many people are different, idk why some feel this way.
yeah, while I cant talk bad about the danish and their decisions to be so free, I must to agree this is pure shit. So cheap, so lack of fundamental in ´getting together´. It comes across like ´I have sex with whoever and then, whatever´.
That is in my view more ´probable to happen´. People are not what this video shows and yeah, even in a so liberal country, I guess people dont want feel like they have been used!
svwtsvfcb completely agree. don't expect women to cook, clean, to keep a good home, and take care of the kids? fine. then go to work, kill pests, fix the car, the fence, anything else that needs fixing, etc. yourself... lol trash
+Mandar Sane Here's the thing. Pretty sure they do do those traditionally male things. They're used to not going to get a dude to do those things for them and just doing them themselves.
Altrantis maybe a small percentage. the rest hire someone, usually a man to do it: they call the exterminator they have a mechanic they call the lawn GUY etc women, many women if not most, don't want to get their hands dirty because they don't have to. the only expectations society has of women are: to be pretty to be skinny to be nice to be supportive to be sex objects for men to be mothers literally everything else men are expected to do. that's why a lot of guys know how to do manual labor tasks as well as purely intellectually driven tasks, but women for the most part only know intellectually driven tasks. they expect men to help them but tell men not to expect women to do traditionally female tasks. it makes them useless really. unless a woman is fucking you or raiding your kids, there's no point in even having her around bc you are expected to do everything while she gets to choose whether she behaves traditionally feminine or not. why would any man want to put up that extra burden in his life?
"Sex before coffee? theyre all whores!" As a - asexual - dane id like to explain this a little more. In Dk sex is not a taboo, its a need for all genders. But sex does not equal love. But were also a quite reserved people, sure we wanna help strangers, but we do not like smalltalk. So danes go out for a beer or more, loosen up, and get their need satisfied. Of course not everyone hooks up on the first night of meeting, but most danes do not hold hands before haing sex. Love is something special for danes, its funny to see other cultures throw love around, danes dont do that, instead they have few very deep connections. Danes have more lifetime friends than other cultures. After months of hanging out and hooking up, then a relationship can bloom, and first at that point they will go out on "real" dates and hold hands for example. Ive heard from people from other cultures that it seems like danes relationships in their youth are fewer but longer. We dont jump into relationships just to be in it, but people have a need for sex as humans that needs to bwe satisfied, but when a great person shows up we will be with them for a longer time. As a asexual Its hard in the start of a relationship in Dk, but once youre in one you have a very loyal partner that you know is comitted to you, and i very much like that culture actually.
I think that 'sex before coffee' attitude is more about some young people not Danes in general. When I was younger, it was all about getting a bit drunk to get over inhibitions and I sometimes had the attitude of getting sex over and one with so we could go out. Now I realize this is not the way! That's just about a lack of self-confidence. If you do that as a woman, the man is not going to be as interested than if you wait a bit and let the tension increase. It just gives the impression you'd do that with anyone.
Danish guy here I now know what I have been doing wrong for all these years, I have been watching "american" dating videos, I had no idea about this! xD But yeah, it's kind of really weird, but apparently people are very reserved here and don't want to have personal relationships with people if possible, that only comes after knowing each other for years... It is really fucking weird in my opinion...
Old norms: hard to get sex but easy to get into relationship. New norm: easy to get sex but near impossible into relationship. That happens all across the modern world.
I'm Danish and all of my friends that are in relationships became good friends with their partners long before they became a couple. I don't know where she (the interviwer) finds all these 'sex before coffee' people ...
Considering that with each new partner your brain get reprogrammed further and further away from a chance to have a stable family relationship some time - good choice =) The West is doomed.
sounds like everything that i'm not - I would only sleep with someone I've been dating and I feel like there is potential for marriage (only one guy in my life) I go all out with my appearance: hair mu etc, i hate getting shit faced, i love hugging and holding hands and i expect the man to pay on the first date.
do they really have sex and then decide on going on a date or not? that's interesting! in my country people lose interest if u have sex on the first date
As a Dane: Many do lose interest if you're that "loose" aswell. Idk I'm from a different region than these people and we might be more reserved but in general, Danes tend to be too physical IMO before emotional stuff.
As a Dane I wouldn't recommend dating Danish girls, most, if not all I've met here in Copenhagen feel entitled and talk constantly about how relationships are about compromise, yet they won't compromise themselves at all. Also that is not an exaggeration, I've met women who claim I was sexist since I wanted her to get to work on a project instead of constantly take breaks. My best relationship were with a Japanese girl and several people I know just stop dating Danish girls since they are constantly talking about how they can do everything themselves. There was even state sponsored television programs about why so many Danish men go to Thailand and places like that, when there aren't a lack of "free women" back in Denmark. Obviously, despite these guys being very happy with their, a lot of the time beautiful. wives, it was concluded it was because they were losers. I knew an old hippie she told me that the problem for Danish men is that the women want a house cat by day and a lion by night. Which is pretty much two different people, in most cases.
I read somewhere that Danish women have no issue asking out men. Did it not bother you that in order to win over women from conservative countries, you have to flirt, compliment, tease and make first move on them?
@@siddharthtripathi5806 Well this is like a 4 year old post but no, it never bothered me, in fact I prefer it that way. When dealing with Danish women I've experienced far more awkward situations if I were the one who asked first than with Asian or Middle-Eastern women. I think the dating scene in Denmark is incredibly awkward, there is simply too much confusion about who does what. I also think a lot of women are not as confident in being the "aggressors" as they claim and so you end up with situations where stuff goes nowhere and it becomes pretty awkward. My opinion on the entitlement aspect haven't changed, in fact it's only gotten worse. As the ideas of male privilege and political correctness are being copied from the US. Which is just chocking out Danish culture that were all about pushing the boundaries. So I don't see myself dating a Danish woman again and I've plans of finding a job in another country as well.
@@siddharthtripathi5806 From personal experience... Men. I don't have the statistics right here though, although there no doubt are some as Denmark is pretty famous for keeping tons of statistics on damn near everything. So I could be wrong.
Hehe yeah, it's pretty much 180 degrees from Italy. Every culture has it's ups and downs probably, and I think it's always interesting to experience unfamiliar social norms :)
Luckly, culture and stereotypes do not consider all the cases. Idk any danish, but I know some other scandinavian people who behave more Italian than I do lol. Every person is completely different from the others, and also when the couple is mixed (nationality) very often both agree to compromises between the two cultures and personality of the persons.
While I am uneasy about the effect the behavior might have, I can appreciate the attitude. In many cultures there are many names given to women who 'sleep around' but no such names are commonly given to men. In this culture at least men and women are equal and seemingly no negative connotation is assigned to the act.
@Radek OM People are mixed everywhere. In Scandinavia there are many Sami people and people of Irish, Dutch and Slavic origins. The Dutches aren't Germans at all: usually too much tall, with large nose and curly and reddish hair. In UK people are mostly Red not Always blond. However the Red people in UK are mostly of Celtic origins and are however Pure White
I checked this out to see how things lined up with my experiences of courting and being married to a Dane for 33 years. The modern world has made it's inroads. There was once a lot more getting to know a Danish woman before sex. That being said, once you got her engine revving there was no holding back.
Actually a lot of the young adults, teens and the ages in between are trying to make a different view, at the drinking culture that we have. We have campaignes, influencers and many young people trying to chance the view we have on drinking, like it’s okay to stay sober at a party, and it’s okay never even to drink, people are beginning to chance it, so it’s okay not to drink. Aaand you will still be accepted and 100% not judged. But again many does get a bit tipsy on the first date bc Danes are mostely really shy.
Finally someone summarised all their weirdness in one video 😆 Extremely attractive people, always fancied tall blonde guys, but I guess their marriages remind me of flatmates... sort of co-existence ... and sex before coffee sounds a bit primitive, compared to building up a connection, depth and spiking the interest without alcohol 😉
If it helps most danish couples actually start out as friends, then they have a drunken hookup (maybe multiple) and THEN they go out for coffee and start actually "dating"/be in a relationship. This is what happened to me and most of my friends that are in a relationship
@@Maria-nd8dy Would taking alcohol out of the equation affect the relationship building? I kind of agree with the OP. It reminds me of caveman times. But, I guess when you give humans 100% freedom the would act like that.
What a lame a** thing this is like just get drunk and lazy then take advantage of each others body for pleasure even when you don't know each other fick this place
Sex is so casual and women don't embrace their femininity, i would definitely not be able to fit in. I would love to one day get married and take care of my husband and kids, why is this so stigmatized.
"In Scandinavia we like fashion that is simple without too many weird colors... like pink," he says standing in front of yellow and pink apartment buildings, Lollll
You can't talk to people in the sober light of day but by all means have drunken sex with a stranger. Yall are on the wrong side of this dating strategy.
Sex before coffee, that is so messed up. No wonder when I met a woman from Denmark, she said the dating scene sucks and couldn't wait to leave Denmark. She was trying desperately to move to another country.
Okay. I think I could stop wearing pink if I found a guy like that hahaha As always, it is a pleasure to watch these videos, Marina. Thank you so much!
TPCWorld - Top 5 Space Videos! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 *legit how my laugh sounded* Oh well, I wouldn't mind if you wore pink, it's just very uncommon here😂
Spool frem til 1:35, den scene er episk sprogmisforståelse, når der direkte oversættes fra dansk til engelsk. (The guy on left isnt gay, but he translated danish direct to english, which makes the scene so funny).
I honestly I like the girl groups thinking. I’m American and I honestly made some men mad by paying my own meals, and things I want for myself on a date. Anybody can sleep with anybody, but if you want to KNOW me; there has to be some effort or mutual connection. It’s how I’ve always thought. I guess I’m Danish at heart 😂
"dating" is relatively new here, because of American movies. You just kind of get together. The Danish accent mixed with a very limited practical experience does make them sound... well, Danish accent in general isn't that charming :P
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If a single Danish woman was to pay for my meals and a few drinks inside of a restaurant in Denmark I would be very grateful and loyal to her and would do anything she asks of me!
"Women here are very independent, don't expect them to take care of the children". I hope that woman is just messing around 😆. Not really sure if she really realized what she said, but to me any woman that does not take care of her kids, well something is not right inside her head. And what does raising kids have anything to do with womens rights or her independence?
I've been living in Denmark for the last 5 years and I should say that this is one of the most realistic videos from your channel. Well done!
I am a dane, and i have to agree.. it fucking blows here, people have sex very quickly and almost expect it to come shortly after the first date/dates
@@64bitUnity So I am guessing if you go there for a visit it might be a good chance to get rid you your virginity? But how is the drinking according to women in the UK a woman that isn't sober can't make that choice making the man a you know what.
But what if the girl gets pregnant?
haha I'm not really into girls right now. GOOD for him focusing on his studies.
or other men.
Hahahaha
It's 8th grade. Studies mean literally fuck all, until you advance to Gymnasiums (Highschool)
Noughtie you hit that spot on! xD
channel Change I’m the same age as him, and everyone in my class has girlfriends and does stupid shit. So I’m super surprised
Sleeping with a person on the first date, and requirement of alcohol for a normal conversation? That's just sad.
Venatix_ 92 That fact angers me so much. I don’t understand why people think doing that is so great and wonderful.
So they’re too chickensh*t to be honest without alcohol?
Nah, it sounds fun
Dont be a buzzkill
I'm Danish and I don't do that - I find it strange too. I very rarely drink alcohol at all (escpeccially beer, since i don't like the taste) - just not something I enjoy. That sometimes mean that I'm left out and get comments like "live a little". I'm so annoyed about the alchohol culture we have here - not something to be proud of I think.
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Stop saying they all sound boring, Danish people are usually very awkward. They aren't into strangers trying to start small talk or ask them a random deep question. They are actually usually really fun people and make excellent drinking buddies. Plus sex shaming isn't okay in Scandinavia. Love Denmark!❤✋🏻
Do you think the girl who said sex before coffee was lying out of awkwardness? She sounded kind of fake.
what if you dont drink alchohol then you cant respect that can you
@@makisxatzimixas2372 as a danish person i can tell you she probably wasn't. Of all my friends who are in a relationship, most of them met their current partners through sex, that then evolved into a relationship. It usually goes sex -> relationship or more often i think it's friend -> sex -> relationship. She didn't sound fake to me at all
Honestly, this is the best way. When I spend too much time getting to know someone it kind of turns me off after awhile. Like great, we've been talking about your family and work for the past few days, now you're starting to feel like my sister and I'm rapidly loosing interest in making a move. Better get it out of the way first and you establish the correct frame from the get go.
Can they be interesting without substance?
She said that it's creepy if someone approach you randomly and ask you on a date, but she also said sex first before coffee.
Im so confused
Danes don't normally meet out on the street...however, a lot of their inhibitions go right out the window after a few drinks.
@@inorite4553 then how do you date??
@@safiazad2865
They date friends when they get drunk 🤣
Quite complicated
lol when he said abut weird coloured clothing and said ''pink is not good in Scandinavia'' there was a little danish boy walking behind him in a pink top haha
The interview took place at the most touristy spot in Denmark - so most of the people walking past him were probably tourists :)
You need to get your eyes checked, that was a little girl with a hair bun.
Finally, it is the Pink that meets the soft moist Pink for Pleasure.
Lol , I noticed
@@pollutingpenguin2146 anyway as a man i really like use pink sometimes i dont feel less male or something lol
My cousin and I visited Copenhagen about 3 years ago. The men are gorgeous!!!!!🥰 We couldnt keep a conversation between us, cause our eyes would go wondering!! We did meet some guys, they where fun! They invited us to a party and they where very polite! They dress so nice also!!
Hehehe...I thought the same about the women.
Just by looking at pictures of them, I can attest that lol
Im Canadian and have been with a Danish woman for almost 9 years, and she is the warmest, kindest most considerate person I have ever met. so theres that:)
The Danes have good skin.
plica06 right? i'd like to take it off and use it as a carpet in my room
plica06 not really, alot if danes to have acne, it just looks like the people in the video have perfect skin. like i don't have perfect skin at all just saying
plica06 water has less chemical over there
...unlike the damn british people
That's because the sun fucks with your skin and in Denmark we hardly have any sun so we don't have that problem.
how interesting seeing different standards in different countries... like here the men don't like over-dressed women or makeup while in other parts of the world that counts as a good thing cause it shows you put effort... interesting :D
Definitely the reason I decided to do these videos. It is so interesting to see that what one culture finds beautiful, the other finds unattractive. The colors thing was the funniest one for me personally to find out
Dating Beyond Borders same XD i didn't know someone hated pink :P cool! this really helps out those who travel a lot and want to date outside of their culture... which is a really good thing! thanks :D
Pardon me but by "here" you mean Denmark?
couldn't agree more, it's really intriguing how the environment affects someone's mentalities.
I stopped whatching after "you're supposed to get drunk on the first date otherwise we won't talk." Yes, I only whatched the beginning and that was way enough for me.
I feel sorry for that. I've spent one amazing week of my life in Denmark and found great people there, so no, I don't hate Danish people at all, on the contrary there's so much about their lifestyle that makes me like them more than my own people (Italians). I only hate the "alcoholic culture" there.
Really... if you need alcohol to make friends, if you need alcohol to have sex or simply smile... that's sad. What kind of human connection is that?
Beatrice River we don't really. It's mostly people in Copenhagen but everybody is not like that. I don't understand the alcohol-thing here too. Just make friend without pressure or fakeness
I think the alcohol thing is a northern European thing. Due to weather you can't just go for a walk or to the beach etc so better stay somewhere indoor. And a pub/bar is somewhere casual with a beer or two helps to open up.
Thats how life here is in Scandinavia. If you are someone that dont drink its like you have a spider in your hair. It sucks, people have zero personality
The Scandinavians become your friend only if they have a strong connection with you. I made true friendships with them . They are sincere people. But they Italians usually don't go out with me and don't date me.
On the contrary the Scandinavians often become my Friends and they don't drink. If they really like a Person they don't Need to drink.
@@kirstinemajlund352 me too!!!!!!!
Well apperently I can't date in denmark, I don't drink
Lina Dudak Exactly my view and i too live in Sweden but don't drink at all. i am doomed :(
That's silly, ofc you can :)
KatsLife Then you never been to Scandinavia i can assume :)
Hsi S Been to? Well, I'm born here. However, I am not from Copenhagen :)
KatsLife Well then you must know this better than me. Do you agree with most of the stuff, referred in this video?
As a dane I would say that much of this applies to the younger generations and mainly to more urban areas(This is for instance is shot in Copenhagen, the largest city in DK, where people are more 'free' in nature). Although the notion meeting someone while tipsy or in a social setting(out on the town) is pretty prevalent.
I see thanks.
This is why I love your channel so much, it's so interesting to hear people from different cultures talking about dating, listening to these women I couldn't help but think how different they are to women here in Spain. Marina you look very pretty without make up, loved the video! Keep the hard work.
Thank you, Felipe! Always nice to get genuine compliments. Got your email and love your questions.
Haha that guy at 1:52...
I'm only in 8th grade right now so I'm not really into girls at the moment....
wait what????
awkward look... haha
haha I had to keep that in. It was quite sweet, actually
+Dating Beyond Borders haha that's fine.
Any Chance of you know you're dating a kiwi when.. (New Zealand)
He's a new generation and into boys... Yay, the new standards of reality :-D
ST4CK The West is doomed.
Jaedyn Katene
poor lad probably meant that he's not looking for a relationship because he's not ready yet.
Sex before coffee ? Im going to denmark asap
yea, the girls are easy and want no commitment.
Well, thats not true. Not all danish women are like the blonde girl in the video
sex before coffee, yaaakkk horible. where is the logic in this ? girls there are like toilets, when men go to satisfed some biological need without comitment.
im looking like an actor, but im not that rich ^^ 90%/99% is very accurate ;) And sorry for my bad english
+VogueHaven really?
Okay, the first guy is too tall. That is a very high standard to beat.
But this person said "Women here are independent. Don't expect them to cook, clean and take care of children."
Those things have nothing to do with you being independent or otherwise. Crazy world!
Historically and pretty much currently taking care of children saps your independence and freedom as a woman. Maybe men are pitching on more where you’re from?
Your video always make me think of different perspectives. LOVE IT!
Thank you, thank you! :D
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I don't understand one thing. Ok you can't talk to the strangers but if you are drunk you can ask someone to have sex with this person? How strange is it? No talking to strangers but having sex with a stranger but with some alcohol involved??
Introverts + Alcohol = Outroverts
@@nobewayo „outroverts“😂
@@majorroger147 Not extroverted, but not really introverts. Outroverts.
Weak PPL lol
Because of shyness. They cant break the ice sober. And these are teens, teens everywhere use alcohol to break the ice, who doesnt go out to the club everywhere, start drinking and has sex honestly
Please, to every boy/girl/man/woman looking at this comment, listen to me. DO NOT let some stupid friends/dates or even this so-called clever society dictate you what to do. If you find getting drunk and having sex before coffee is fucking awful, then please, DON'T DO THAT. Some said that Danes are so shy hence they need to get drunk to open up, its fucking bullshit. There are a lot of nice, decent people out there who can have a normal date without involving alcohol or sex until they find the right one. One day, you'll know it when you find the right one, and sex will be more loving and intimate. So, please, don't give it up too easily. And listen, if you are old school, that's okay because you know what? One day you'll find that other one who you'll love so fucking much and you will be fucking happy that she/he is your first. Love, N ❤
very cool! it's good to hear what native/local people think, and you can find out if stereotypes are true or not. Great addition to the channel, hope you can do more of these in the future!
Thank you.I'm glad you liked these. New series coming ;)
So theoretically speaking you must keep sleeping with everyone(while drunk) until someone wants to go on a second date with you? Yeah sounds 💩
Yep, and the most disturbing part is that they consider it normal.
Well partly true. I'm form another region than these people but most women I meet are reserved (I think at least). I have never heard anyone so young say stuff like that IRL.
Idk I'm kinda shocked myself from that shit haha I've never even kissed anyone else than my girlfriends I've had (and 4/5 I were in a relationship with before we kissed), many people are different, idk why some feel this way.
yeah, while I cant talk bad about the danish and their decisions to be so free, I must to agree this is pure shit. So cheap, so lack of fundamental in ´getting together´. It comes across like ´I have sex with whoever and then, whatever´.
That is in my view more ´probable to happen´. People are not what this video shows and yeah, even in a so liberal country, I guess people dont want feel like they have been used!
Maria and the diseases the people would get from sleeping around, grossssss😬
Don't feel like dating in Scandinavia after watching this video and the other one...
svwtsvfcb completely agree.
don't expect women to cook, clean, to keep a good home, and take care of the kids?
fine.
then go to work, kill pests, fix the car, the fence, anything else that needs fixing, etc. yourself...
lol
trash
how disturbing was this video...seriously..."don't expect women to take care of their kids?" what is this world turning into?
+Mandar Sane Here's the thing. Pretty sure they do do those traditionally male things. They're used to not going to get a dude to do those things for them and just doing them themselves.
Altrantis maybe a small percentage. the rest hire someone, usually a man to do it:
they call the exterminator
they have a mechanic
they call the lawn GUY
etc
women, many women if not most, don't want to get their hands dirty because they don't have to.
the only expectations society has of women are:
to be pretty
to be skinny
to be nice
to be supportive
to be sex objects for men
to be mothers
literally everything else men are expected to do. that's why a lot of guys know how to do manual labor tasks as well as purely intellectually driven tasks, but women for the most part only know intellectually driven tasks.
they expect men to help them but tell men not to expect women to do traditionally female tasks.
it makes them useless really.
unless a woman is fucking you or raiding your kids, there's no point in even having her around bc you are expected to do everything while she gets to choose whether she behaves traditionally feminine or not.
why would any man want to put up that extra burden in his life?
Altrantis raising, not raiding
"Sex before coffee? theyre all whores!"
As a - asexual - dane id like to explain this a little more. In Dk sex is not a taboo, its a need for all genders. But sex does not equal love. But were also a quite reserved people, sure we wanna help strangers, but we do not like smalltalk. So danes go out for a beer or more, loosen up, and get their need satisfied. Of course not everyone hooks up on the first night of meeting, but most danes do not hold hands before haing sex. Love is something special for danes, its funny to see other cultures throw love around, danes dont do that, instead they have few very deep connections. Danes have more lifetime friends than other cultures. After months of hanging out and hooking up, then a relationship can bloom, and first at that point they will go out on "real" dates and hold hands for example. Ive heard from people from other cultures that it seems like danes relationships in their youth are fewer but longer. We dont jump into relationships just to be in it, but people have a need for sex as humans that needs to bwe satisfied, but when a great person shows up we will be with them for a longer time.
As a asexual Its hard in the start of a relationship in Dk, but once youre in one you have a very loyal partner that you know is comitted to you, and i very much like that culture actually.
Love you danes! You are the best of scandinavia. Greetings from spain!
this channel is growing so fast!
So excited to reach 100K!!
"I'm only in 8th grade so i'm not into girls right now" 😂😂
gay indeed lmao
Lol sex is on your mind 90% of the time at that age. Definitely not into girls, nor will he ever be
In his 8th grade class, the majority of the girls already have had a double-digit number of partners
I think that 'sex before coffee' attitude is more about some young people not Danes in general. When I was younger, it was all about getting a bit drunk to get over inhibitions and I sometimes had the attitude of getting sex over and one with so we could go out. Now I realize this is not the way! That's just about a lack of self-confidence. If you do that as a woman, the man is not going to be as interested than if you wait a bit and let the tension increase. It just gives the impression you'd do that with anyone.
Danes, please explain this 'sex before any other encounter' concept.
Or even better, can a non-Dane who didn't understand it but now does explain it?
Danish guy here I now know what I have been doing wrong for all these years, I have been watching "american" dating videos, I had no idea about this! xD But yeah, it's kind of really weird, but apparently people are very reserved here and don't want to have personal relationships with people if possible, that only comes after knowing each other for years... It is really fucking weird in my opinion...
Old norms: hard to get sex but easy to get into relationship.
New norm: easy to get sex but near impossible into relationship.
That happens all across the modern world.
Interesting answers from both of you.
I'm Danish and all of my friends that are in relationships became good friends with their partners long before they became a couple. I don't know where she (the interviwer) finds all these 'sex before coffee' people ...
Sex before coffee. XD
Considering that with each new partner your brain get reprogrammed further and further away from a chance to have a stable family relationship some time - good choice =) The West is doomed.
I hope it was a joke about "reprogrammed brain".
Анастасия Корр Social studies.
Its very true, the more people you sleep with the more likely you are to end up alone.
i think that's why we're the happiest poeple in the world
I love this channel so much!!!
Love you for saying something so sweet!
sounds like everything that i'm not - I would only sleep with someone I've been dating and I feel like there is potential for marriage (only one guy in my life) I go all out with my appearance: hair mu etc, i hate getting shit faced, i love hugging and holding hands and i expect the man to pay on the first date.
I wish I find girls who think like you in my life
Same here that is why I stay single... Most of men are not serious.
do they really have sex and then decide on going on a date or not? that's interesting! in my country people lose interest if u have sex on the first date
As a Dane: Many do lose interest if you're that "loose" aswell. Idk I'm from a different region than these people and we might be more reserved but in general, Danes tend to be too physical IMO before emotional stuff.
Heim á Húgr it might be better to test if you're compatible i guess
jeremy emilio that's sexual assault
Amalia Boura The same in my country. That is why women have to play hard to get because we want a serious relationship but some men are horrible.
jeremy emilio you are gross
I dated outside Denmark. My problem with Danish boys: most of them are too fast before a real relationship... 😥
As a Dane I wouldn't recommend dating Danish girls, most, if not all I've met here in Copenhagen feel entitled and talk constantly about how relationships are about compromise, yet they won't compromise themselves at all. Also that is not an exaggeration, I've met women who claim I was sexist since I wanted her to get to work on a project instead of constantly take breaks. My best relationship were with a Japanese girl and several people I know just stop dating Danish girls since they are constantly talking about how they can do everything themselves. There was even state sponsored television programs about why so many Danish men go to Thailand and places like that, when there aren't a lack of "free women" back in Denmark. Obviously, despite these guys being very happy with their, a lot of the time beautiful. wives, it was concluded it was because they were losers. I knew an old hippie she told me that the problem for Danish men is that the women want a house cat by day and a lion by night. Which is pretty much two different people, in most cases.
I mean WTF. Use proper punctuation please, I could barely read your text.
I read somewhere that Danish women have no issue asking out men. Did it not bother you that in order to win over women from conservative countries, you have to flirt, compliment, tease and make first move on them?
@@siddharthtripathi5806 Well this is like a 4 year old post but no, it never bothered me, in fact I prefer it that way. When dealing with Danish women I've experienced far more awkward situations if I were the one who asked first than with Asian or Middle-Eastern women. I think the dating scene in Denmark is incredibly awkward, there is simply too much confusion about who does what. I also think a lot of women are not as confident in being the "aggressors" as they claim and so you end up with situations where stuff goes nowhere and it becomes pretty awkward. My opinion on the entitlement aspect haven't changed, in fact it's only gotten worse. As the ideas of male privilege and political correctness are being copied from the US. Which is just chocking out Danish culture that were all about pushing the boundaries.
So I don't see myself dating a Danish woman again and I've plans of finding a job in another country as well.
@@six2make4 In Denmark who are dating foreigners more, men or women?
@@siddharthtripathi5806 From personal experience... Men. I don't have the statistics right here though, although there no doubt are some as Denmark is pretty famous for keeping tons of statistics on damn near everything. So I could be wrong.
Honestly... I don't like this Danish culture of love.
Hehe yeah, it's pretty much 180 degrees from Italy. Every culture has it's ups and downs probably, and I think it's always interesting to experience unfamiliar social norms :)
Luckly, culture and stereotypes do not consider all the cases. Idk any danish, but I know some other scandinavian people who behave more Italian than I do lol. Every person is completely different from the others, and also when the couple is mixed (nationality) very often both agree to compromises between the two cultures and personality of the persons.
you are right i'm from Portugal and i behave like a Swedish or Danish, but i would pay the first date to be a gentleman
While I am uneasy about the effect the behavior might have, I can appreciate the attitude. In many cultures there are many names given to women who 'sleep around' but no such names are commonly given to men. In this culture at least men and women are equal and seemingly no negative connotation is assigned to the act.
neither do I -comming from a dane
so all along I've been dating Danish-style and never knew it...interesting.
a.k.a. slutty style....
I'd love to see more videos like this one! One in Russia, Norway or Poland.
I love how they're so independent
3:23 He tries to pull her in and she moves away.
Love the Danish People. They do not play games and are not superficial and positve.
I hope there will be more if this how not to date, really liked it :D
One coming next week :)
Cool, looking forward to it :D
I'm sorry but, having sex while drunk before even having a proper conversation is normal? it kinda sounds disgusting to me :/
Ningxia And yet, whatever country your in, tinder still thrives
Normal for a lot of Danes, especially the young people, to get drunk and hook up while drunk.
BUT it's very often with someone they already know!
It’s ok in Denmark
Spot on!
Hygge > Netflix & Chill
How are they all so hot ?
Love these videos btw, so interesting to see the contrast between the cultures
Viking genes;)
Thanks so much for the kind words
They are hot as hell. Love it. Love Danish guys.
Viking genes? Imma viking lol
@Radek OM People are mixed everywhere. In Scandinavia there are many Sami people and people of Irish, Dutch and Slavic origins. The Dutches aren't Germans at all: usually too much tall, with large nose and curly and reddish hair.
In UK people are mostly Red not Always blond. However the Red people in UK are mostly of Celtic origins and are however Pure White
why everyone looks so good
I checked this out to see how things lined up with my experiences of courting and being married to a Dane for 33 years. The modern world has made it's inroads. There was once a lot more getting to know a Danish woman before sex. That being said, once you got her engine revving there was no holding back.
Im visiting Denmark in 2 months..I cant wait...
1:24 this man is beautiful, damnnn :3
OhheyitsSoumy But can't marry to a Muslim lady as they don't want to convert to Islam which is the most illiberal ideology af!
+strongyang chill i didn't say i wanted to marry him, i just said he's cute... holy shit
I was looking for this comment hahahs
strongyang wtf dude
@@strongyang we dont force the religion im a muslim man and i will not force my wife to join islam, it's all about love dude
Favourite video by far,I died from laughter.Danish guys are cute.
Wow. Guess this will be a good new series then
Thank you.
Sex is their cup of coffee 😂😅
It's a Scandinavian thing! Anyway imma Norwegian.
Vilena Banana Only the hippies Danes!
Actually a lot of the young adults, teens and the ages in between are trying to make a different view, at the drinking culture that we have.
We have campaignes, influencers and many young people trying to chance the view we have on drinking, like it’s okay to stay sober at a party, and it’s okay never even to drink, people are beginning to chance it, so it’s okay not to drink. Aaand you will still be accepted and 100% not judged.
But again many does get a bit tipsy on the first date bc Danes are mostely really shy.
Finally someone summarised all their weirdness in one video 😆 Extremely attractive people, always fancied tall blonde guys, but I guess their marriages remind me of flatmates... sort of co-existence ... and sex before coffee sounds a bit primitive, compared to building up a connection, depth and spiking the interest without alcohol 😉
If it helps most danish couples actually start out as friends, then they have a drunken hookup (maybe multiple) and THEN they go out for coffee and start actually "dating"/be in a relationship. This is what happened to me and most of my friends that are in a relationship
@@Maria-nd8dy Would taking alcohol out of the equation affect the relationship building?
I kind of agree with the OP. It reminds me of caveman times. But, I guess when you give humans 100% freedom the would act like that.
What a lame a** thing this is like just get drunk and lazy then take advantage of each others body for pleasure even when you don't know each other fick this place
The faces those dudes made when that one guy said he wad not into women right now 😂
They probably though he turnt gay for a moment🤣
Sex is so casual and women don't embrace their femininity, i would definitely not be able to fit in. I would love to one day get married and take care of my husband and kids, why is this so stigmatized.
katsan88 I can relate! and I'm an American. Wow! What?! Can you believe that? :p
Lauren Gray Baby just stay in America then
So sympathetic people!😊 Greetings from Germany
Greetings back ;)
Dating Beyond Borders 😁👋
"In Scandinavia we like fashion that is simple without too many weird colors... like pink," he says standing in front of yellow and pink apartment buildings, Lollll
@Dating beyond borders, who is the artist you frequently use in your videos about dating in Denmark and such? Love the beat, vibe, etc, good sounds.
DJ Quads. I leave links for his songs in the description :)
Danish people are so stunning 😍😩♥️
You can't talk to people in the sober light of day but by all means have drunken sex with a stranger. Yall are on the wrong side of this dating strategy.
The world's turned upside down.
Sex before coffee, that is so messed up. No wonder when I met a woman from Denmark, she said the dating scene sucks and couldn't wait to leave Denmark. She was trying desperately to move to another country.
Okay. I think I could stop wearing pink if I found a guy like that hahaha
As always, it is a pleasure to watch these videos, Marina. Thank you so much!
As always, thank you for your comments, Evelyn :D
like the part about not using too many colours, the drinking habit before going out and the sex before really dating hahah
Victor Mignone I should wear pink just to piss everyone in scadinivia
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*legit how my laugh sounded*
Oh well, I wouldn't mind if you wore pink, it's just very uncommon here😂
Is it true that the Danes are the tallest people in Europe?
The Dutch are the tallest
Actually Serbians are the tallest
Ireland
The Dutch are the tallest yes. And in Montenegro too. The two people have the same origins.
Why is there NO VERSION of "you know you're dating a Danish man when", please make a video with it.
Something that I have noticed about Scandinavians is that they barely have an accent when speaking English, very cool.
Spool frem til 1:35, den scene er episk sprogmisforståelse, når der direkte oversættes fra dansk til engelsk. (The guy on left isnt gay, but he translated danish direct to english, which makes the scene so funny).
I am sober and I am not really shy. Which is better Denmark or Sweden?
1:30 "like pink, that's not good in Scandinavia" as a child with a pink jacket walks by.
lol, children are exempt from that rule. we're not monsters
I don't drink, I love dressing colorfully and I don't have s*x outside of relationships, oh no one in Denmark would like me 😂😅
Does anyone really truly fall in love?
I honestly I like the girl groups thinking. I’m American and I honestly made some men mad by paying my own meals, and things I want for myself on a date.
Anybody can sleep with anybody, but if you want to KNOW me; there has to be some effort or mutual connection. It’s how I’ve always thought. I guess I’m Danish at heart 😂
"Pink is not a good color for Scandinavia"
*is gonna wear every pink color* xD
"First sex, then coffee" :D
Copehangen feels like living in a sailor's town
well, in France it's kinda the opposite I'd say but it's still nice to learn about their manners!
"dating" is relatively new here, because of American movies. You just kind of get together.
The Danish accent mixed with a very limited practical experience does make them sound... well, Danish accent in general isn't that charming :P
Danish guys are very tall and handsome
Man! I need one in my life haha :)
I'm moving to Denmark, the men there OMG
Wow what the three girls are saying about casual sex is discussing and scary....
Wow I'm from the netherlands their accents are almost identical, I did know it of Norwegians but danish not.
Do one for Swedish guys and gals!
i love this country , i am trying to migrate if any one can help pls write me
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1:59 It was at this moment when he realized that he had fucked up.
They have a pretty strong danish accent. I like the Christian blonde danish lady the lady interviewed on the second frame.
Moving to Denmark!
Twee Pixie Its cold in the winter and very expensive
@@aljack1979 not if you work in denmark haha
@@MrNasrudin123 really? My dad work their and he told me it's too expensive !?
@@safiazad2865 well compared to other countries we are exspensive, but that's only because there is a high wage.
@@safiazad2865 that's why some of us just takes a trip to deutschland, and get LOADS of stuff like beer and shittt.
I MEAN IT'S REALLY CHEAP THERE
The south of Argentina, what are called Patagonian Provinces like, Rio Negro, Neuquen, Chubut, Santa Cruz, Tierra del Fuego, need people in many quiet villages where you can develop tourism ventures, or computer poles, etc., could create a Dinish community numerous where live all those who have dreams of undertaking a life project through ecology.
If a single Danish woman was to pay for my meals and a few drinks inside of a restaurant in Denmark I would be very grateful and loyal to her and would do anything she asks of me!
wow their English is so good! I'm impressed
subbed thanks for this wonderful channel
YAY! Welcome!
"Women here are very independent, don't expect them to take care of the children". I hope that woman is just messing around 😆. Not really sure if she really realized what she said, but to me any woman that does not take care of her kids, well something is not right inside her head. And what does raising kids have anything to do with womens rights or her independence?
Love your videos!! Please do a video of how eastern european men are (specifically, Bulgarian if possible :D )
Thank you, Daniela. Will get to that eventually
Love this channel.. +Dating Beyond Borders your facebook page and instagram is not working.
Could you do videos about dating in New Zealand and Australia?
I think Australia is a lot more diverse. Would love to learn about Auckland though. I have heard some horror stories.
@@Blaze72sHOh really, like what?
Not enough people are having any babies in Denmark!
I love your videos!
Thank you, Julia!!
Does it mean Denmark has the best coffee in the world all along?
its so hard to answer a qeustion like that unless you have dated in other countries
Dating in Sweden be like: sex before coffee. Noted.
I noticed that people are mostly wearing black and white in that video. Is it casual there?🤔
I know where I’m going hubby hunting in the future 😫💕