I like how Scanty said everything, Try and maintain what your partner like when he or she saw you. You don't own them a perfect body but try and look good
The lady in the dark colored dress said she doesn't like guys with pot belly and I respect her choice. She's however the same person saying a woman shouldn't be asked to go to the gym to lose weight, by her partner. If her partner started developing a pot belly in their relationship I'm sure she'd be unhappy and ask her husband to hit the gym. The irony! Let's not be hypocrites we are humans and have certain desires pertaining to how our partners should look. What matters is we advise our partners from a place of love and respect.
The truth needs to be stated. This thing about "dont let anyone tell u how u shud look" has an extent. Women naturally cant handle the truth. Wen u tell dem de truth dey say u are harsh especially wen it doesn't favor their delusional mindset. When samone is overweight, the person has to know buh in a polite way. We shouldn't create an environment where we make people who are overweight or abnormally skinny think its normal and they shud be proud of it.
Why do you think you have the right to tell someone what their body should be like? Whether their overweight or skinny is nobody’s business, maybe a close friend or family can chime in, but you can't tell someone what to do.
@@sugarplum6170 the topic of discussion is about a partner or friend not stranger so where is this from? And even if its so, you do have to check up on the person because some people need a push to get better. What happened to empathy?
The whole body positivity thing only works for women… as a man gain a pot belly and see how quickly they will leave.. the next best option is only a DM away so be there. Also Scanty and Brie it’s ok just get married at this point😂
Erm statistics show that women are left or abandoned more by their partners as compared to men! Especially, when it comes to looks and body!Women still stay with men no matter how they look! If they’re balding, if they get a pot belly, women stay more. On the other hand, the percentage of men who stay with women especially after they give birth (which bare in mind is a natural process) are very few! Stop the gaslighting
I'm amazed you're discussing a similar scenario I'm presently dealing with with my wife, whom I married 7 years ago. I understand that giving birth and all that will result in her having a bigger tummy, and I have begged her to train , but she has refused because of laziness. The problem now is she is lazy and feels kind of shy to train . Some of us are going through the topic and am glad that #kwadwosheldonstudios threw light on it to the general public
in your situation she thinks shes in a comfortable lead...women in marriage change when they feel there is a threat to her marriage...intentional create an atmosphere you enjoying staying out giving excuses and stuff...her mind would start thinking fast and she will go back to factory settings
@benandoh4774 This is a fantastic idea, and I would surely put it to use, but man, I get irritated and annoyed whenever I see that enormous tummy she has refused to work on. She finds it hilarious and continues to act as if she doesn't care despite the fact that I have said everything I can think of to say and have taken the necessary steps to involve closer people to speak with her but she wouldn’t listen
@@MultiMicheal14 sometimes its depression right after childbirth but after a year..its simply laziness and a sense of ease...so keep at it...be stayin out bits late..dont request for sex more often like u did...say u goin out with the boyz weeknd dress down and look good...her jealousy will pickup...but dont talk about the body again..she naaa wud start acting ways for u to be attracted back..but in da end make sure u compliment her on her effort cos she can giv up n make it 9 days wonder show
We all have preference but in a relationship there is something called compromise! No matter your fundamentals there will be certain times you will have to be flexible and not be too rigid on your stance. Body shaming is wrong but telling someone how they look like and saying it to address or get them to realize they can do something about it is not wrong to me. The approach, tone and delivery matters so that it's an advice or concern instead of it coming of as body shaming. Also, is it bad or wrong to encourage your partner to have a healthy lifestyle and eating habits ?
Please we’ll be waiting for this Topic ASAP: “Short Guys Lives Matters - Why women love Tall guys only & why Short guys find it difficult finding love.” This topic is very important because so many women are single & unmarried because of this topic
@@adwoaaddy Oh Adwoa its very true oo you guys should discuss it. I'm in the UK and to be honest some African women over her are also suffering finiding genuine men but these same women turn down proposals of some men(who could have been their soul mate) just because he's short. when this same lady is 30yrs+ then Yaw Dabo(pardon me: just a case study) is now her goal but at that stage that same short guy wouldnt want you because he will see you to be unreal #ShortGuysLivesMatter. please make this #tag go viral lol. Let me share my story: I'm relatively short about 5'.3''( although not extremely short) but my woman taller than me and to be honest she makes me feel like her king and she has made me feel real love over 8 months of dating her. She saw greatness in me although i wasnt her spec(which i knew before approaching cos every woman wants a tall guy). She accepted me because she sees something worth beyond height that probably the tall guy she might have dated in her past do not possess. she didnt think like how some random girls do. I have intentions of settling with her soon because this is the first time ever in my life feeling this genuine love.
Scanty's fact is true.. both sex don't do enhancements cos it's what they want buh it's what the people nowadays have grown a custom to...for them to feel accepted And for changes in the body it will definitely come...buh it's really up your partner to keep themselves in shape
The perfect body is what the guy saw and fell in love with in the beginning and thats what you must maintain for your guy. The natural growth that comes with aging is not the same as getting married to your partner while you were slim and then becoming obese just a couple of months after marriage. As a lady you owe yourself a healthy body, it makes you comfortable and feel in charge
Let us not forget that with exercise culture and lifestyle, you're doing it for you. No one else, you reap the benefits even if the motivation was something else...at the end you gain individually and fully. It's always for you! Exercising is an individual thing...people should develop a personal relationship with exercising. Life choices!!!
Scanty said it well to me. It’s what you see that attract you to get involved with someone, before the character and other things. As much as, there will be changes in the body, you’ll have to keep in line with how you’re.
Personally there is nothing like a perfect body but rather be in good shape. Used to have six packs but now deɛ eturn faded 3 n half packs. My wife is always happy when i put on suits so i have been hitting the gym to be in good shape to look good in suits for her likewise she knows i want her with a flat stomach and physically active so she tries to be in good health shape
A woman (or man) does not owe their partner a perfect body but if you're married you owe it to your spouse to take care of your health NOT for a perfect body but to keep a good quality of life and mental state which will help your overall marriage.
Put in the conscious effort to maintain it. If anything changes from the normal, either on both extremes, put in the conscious effort, with the help of your partner. Try your best.
U will get a partner who likes u slim and something happens or it doesn't go well and meet someone else who wants you to grow a lil fat. Don't break your neck for anyone. Look gud and confident for yourself. U will be happy
I don't think you necessarily owe your partner to be in the best shape, in my opinion PERFECT might be too much pressure. I believe that you owe yourself to be in the best shape, not for another person. For me if you are my partner, I'll tell you when you are getting out of shape. because i love you, being out of shape comes with complications as time goes on. You should love yourself enough to always put yourself in the best of shape. i dont support sculpting your shape artificially though, but work out and eat healthy. My problem with society now is that people are getting hurt too easily. if your partner should tell you that you are not in the best of shape, don't take it as an insult. work on yourself as much as possible, however dont do it to please your partner entirely but do it for yourself, that way you wont feel pressured to go to extreme measures to get yourself in shape. If your partner is giving you unrealistic body shape goals to reach better advice yourself and leave. As Adwoa said being fit is the best
Please go for someone you physically love. Don’t go for a chubby person and pressure them to lose weight. Have a difficult conversation on what level of weight gain or weight loss would be a turn off and respect each other. One cannot be putting in the effort to stay healthy and look nice while the other engage in unhealthy lifestyle to gain more weight or look lean
The other guy be someway papa tsww This “gentleman” and “elite” cards he dey play dey bore me waa. U date someone then she become obolo aa u for tell am make she get back on track. If ebi after childbirth, cool but late night eating weight gain de3 no bro go accept wai
Lol that's all right, my guy, but remember that we don't have to agree on everything, and that's okay too. It's acceptable for each of us to have different opinions.
I disagree with adwoa on the growing ugly. We don't grow ugly. We become uglier the more we neglect ourselves and don't pay attention to certain things.
I hate the concept of body shaming and what modernity has brought to our society. If you gain excessive weight after a guy marries you and you think he should accept who you no matter what then you're mediocre, will you stay if your man became jobless and lazy after marrying you and he told you accept him the way he is ?
It’s too generic, some women gain weight after childbirth, sometimes hormonal imbalances and sometimes medication can change your form. Your partner can extend grace in handling these chances, not in a condescending manner that gives her pain. You can help your partner work on it, it’s just a matter of being kind and supportive! You don’t owe any one shishiiii, when a woman is ready, she goes for what she want. No need to be mean to her
Team Scanty let all gather here 😂✊💯💯
Scanty mess up rough lol 😂
Scanty adey feel am pass 😂😂
Scanty b Don, blessup
I like how Scanty said everything, Try and maintain what your partner like when he or she saw you. You don't own them a perfect body but try and look good
Yh
Simple
The sound effects at 10:13 is killing me. Scanty has rendered Bri speachless🤣🤣🤣
I don't owe my partner any perfect body, but i owe myself a perfect body
Scanty will always be Scanty😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Next ep
Do men owe women the ability to live up to their unrealistic financial standards?
Lmfaooo 😂😂
@@adwoaaddy you're welcome for the new video idea😂😗
Facts ma nigga😂
😂 adɛn?
Thank you
with each and every topic, bri knows a friend or someone involved 🤣
Scanty dey like Brieeee low key ooh 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Look at Brie she said “YES “😂😂😂😂
Scantyyyyy❤ The Brotherhood is proud of you 😂😂😂
Scanty is always on point from perspective and in fact that’s the truth as well ❤❤
Yes ooo😂
This Aww Aww from the ladies dey kill me😂💔
I support scanty on what he's saying bcs I personally I love slim ladies so I'm expecting my lady to keep her body as slim as she is.
The lady in the dark colored dress said she doesn't like guys with pot belly and I respect her choice. She's however the same person saying a woman shouldn't be asked to go to the gym to lose weight, by her partner. If her partner started developing a pot belly in their relationship I'm sure she'd be unhappy and ask her husband to hit the gym. The irony!
Let's not be hypocrites we are humans and have certain desires pertaining to how our partners should look. What matters is we advise our partners from a place of love and respect.
The truth needs to be stated. This thing about "dont let anyone tell u how u shud look" has an extent. Women naturally cant handle the truth. Wen u tell dem de truth dey say u are harsh especially wen it doesn't favor their delusional mindset. When samone is overweight, the person has to know buh in a polite way. We shouldn't create an environment where we make people who are overweight or abnormally skinny think its normal and they shud be proud of it.
We should help inform people whiles encouraging them at de same time to become better people.
Exactly my guy
Why do you think you have the right to tell someone what their body should be like? Whether their overweight or skinny is nobody’s business, maybe a close friend or family can chime in, but you can't tell someone what to do.
@@sugarplum6170 the topic of discussion is about a partner or friend not stranger so where is this from?
And even if its so, you do have to check up on the person because some people need a push to get better. What happened to empathy?
@@leeking6939 thanks biqqq man.
Scanty is on point most women after they get married they don`t care anymore.
Yeah after giving birth is hard to maintain a good body men have it easier to stay fit
@@PatBoahenNo excuses
@@PatBoahenit is not difficult, it has just been accepted in society for too long you guys don't need to work on yourselves.
Scanty likes Brie period 😂❤
I think he likes Adwoa 😂😂
Aswear, he likes Brie ankasa 😅
Then he likes both of them 😅
Always happy to see my guy Scanty ❤ much love bro
Low key Scanty has actually made me addicted to this people 😢
Same here. I watch this segment sake of him
Before the argument even start if a man owes a woman a comfortable life then a woman also owes a man a perfect body
Thankyou
10:14 got me on the grounds😂😂😂
Aswer bro 😂😂😂
I like the way the first guy shared his view on this topic, he’s very good 😊👍🏾,
Ahahahaaaaa the intro alone! I can’t stop laughing beautiful
Chale Scanty de3 forget oh🤣🤣! He go tell you plain plain.
14:54 t'he way you know people, people also know you oh' so so true. The way we give example with people...most times we are blind to our flaws
It's sad that someone as beautiful as Adwoa was once left behind as other guys spoke to her friends😂😢 Girl you're a queen❤️
Awww 🥹❤️
You can just use the traditional way “wo body aba oh na eduane b3n na wodi” ? 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂arh
Scanty spoke very well on this topic.
But on the serious note ,we need to accept the opinions of others.
scanty was hitting the nail on the balls , whilst nerd was tryna move with the girls
25:54 this part killed me Eeii scanty 😂😂😂
The whole body positivity thing only works for women… as a man gain a pot belly and see how quickly they will leave.. the next best option is only a DM away so be there. Also Scanty and Brie it’s ok just get married at this point😂
Exactly, they want to hold men to a certain standard but don't want us to do so.
Erm statistics show that women are left or abandoned more by their partners as compared to men! Especially, when it comes to looks and body!Women still stay with men no matter how they look! If they’re balding, if they get a pot belly, women stay more. On the other hand, the percentage of men who stay with women especially after they give birth (which bare in mind is a natural process) are very few! Stop the gaslighting
Reason I barely compliment ppl....
I'm amazed you're discussing a similar scenario I'm presently dealing with with my wife, whom I married 7 years ago. I understand that giving birth and all that will result in her having a bigger tummy, and I have begged her to train , but she has refused because of laziness. The problem now is she is lazy and feels kind of shy to train . Some of us are going through the topic and am glad that #kwadwosheldonstudios threw light on it to the general public
in your situation she thinks shes in a comfortable lead...women in marriage change when they feel there is a threat to her marriage...intentional create an atmosphere you enjoying staying out giving excuses and stuff...her mind would start thinking fast and she will go back to factory settings
@benandoh4774 This is a fantastic idea, and I would surely put it to use, but man, I get irritated and annoyed whenever I see that enormous tummy she has refused to work on. She finds it hilarious and continues to act as if she doesn't care despite the fact that I have said everything I can think of to say and have taken the necessary steps to involve closer people to speak with her but she wouldn’t listen
@@MultiMicheal14 sometimes its depression right after childbirth but after a year..its simply laziness and a sense of ease...so keep at it...be stayin out bits late..dont request for sex more often like u did...say u goin out with the boyz weeknd dress down and look good...her jealousy will pickup...but dont talk about the body again..she naaa wud start acting ways for u to be attracted back..but in da end make sure u compliment her on her effort cos she can giv up n make it 9 days wonder show
Bro you people go make the woman suspect say your man dey cheat 😂😂😂😂
@@jhay2747 dats da agenda...let her mind overthink..thats what they want..she go ovatink taya no evidence
Sometimes I wish they can go live ,the ladies 😂mostly talk from experience 😂they don’t want to accept the fact
I wish i could record an audio here😂😂
That bre girl be lowkey flirting with scanty 😂😂. Or ebi content?
We all have preference but in a relationship there is something called compromise! No matter your
fundamentals there will be certain times you will have to be flexible and not be too rigid on your stance.
Body shaming is wrong but telling someone how they look like and saying it to address or
get them to realize they can do something about it is not wrong to me. The approach, tone and
delivery matters so that it's an advice or concern instead of it coming of as body shaming.
Also, is it bad or wrong to encourage your partner to have a healthy lifestyle and eating habits ?
I just like how scanty is real even camera 📸 Allah my type that. Big ups scanty ❤
Brie stunning as usual
You people Brie has left us oo. Cobra! ¡
Frankly speaking Scanty no dey fear anyone 😂😂
Please we’ll be waiting for this Topic ASAP: “Short Guys Lives Matters - Why women love Tall guys only & why Short guys find it difficult finding love.”
This topic is very important because so many women are single & unmarried because of this topic
Ei this topic dierh 😂😂
U mess up ooh😂
@@adwoaaddydo wild give we
@@adwoaaddy Oh Adwoa its very true oo you guys should discuss it. I'm in the UK and to be honest some African women over her are also suffering finiding genuine men but these same women turn down proposals of some men(who could have been their soul mate) just because he's short. when this same lady is 30yrs+ then Yaw Dabo(pardon me: just a case study) is now her goal but at that stage that same short guy wouldnt want you because he will see you to be unreal #ShortGuysLivesMatter. please make this #tag go viral lol.
Let me share my story: I'm relatively short about 5'.3''( although not extremely short) but my woman taller than me and to be honest she makes me feel like her king and she has made me feel real love over 8 months of dating her. She saw greatness in me although i wasnt her spec(which i knew before approaching cos every woman wants a tall guy). She accepted me because she sees something worth beyond height that probably the tall guy she might have dated in her past do not possess. she didnt think like how some random girls do. I have intentions of settling with her soon because this is the first time ever in my life feeling this genuine love.
@@richkhalifa99_ Josh ebe serious issue ooo! so many women are single just because of this topic
First of all, I don’t like the way the question is put… Men also owe their partners a perfect body as well
I come here mainly because of scanty’s suggestions but Damn my crush on Adwoa Addy is on different levels, I just like how slim she is she my type tho
Scanty's fact is true.. both sex don't do enhancements cos it's what they want buh it's what the people nowadays have grown a custom to...for them to feel accepted
And for changes in the body it will definitely come...buh it's really up your partner to keep themselves in shape
Adwoa is people that will make you feel what you wanna feel...
The perfect body is what the guy saw and fell in love with in the beginning and thats what you must maintain for your guy. The natural growth that comes with aging is not the same as getting married to your partner while you were slim and then becoming obese just a couple of months after marriage. As a lady you owe yourself a healthy body, it makes you comfortable and feel in charge
Always look good for your partner
Scanty is just brilliant that’s all…
I just dey feel scanty😂😇
Scanty is shocked the Guy is saying he's single, there's something wrong somewhere" in scanty's thought"😂
😂😂😂
Seeing the effort to maintain yourself is sexy. That alone if fine. Scanty adey your back.
Scanty always knows somebody 😅
That look 😂😂😂😂Ey scanty
Scanty ❤
Is the look for me🤣🤣🤣
Interesting discussion here 😊
Let us not forget that with exercise culture and lifestyle, you're doing it for you. No one else, you reap the benefits even if the motivation was something else...at the end you gain individually and fully. It's always for you! Exercising is an individual thing...people should develop a personal relationship with exercising. Life choices!!!
Scanty said it well to me. It’s what you see that attract you to get involved with someone, before the character and other things. As much as, there will be changes in the body, you’ll have to keep in line with how you’re.
men want fit, feminine and friendly women. every mans definition of fit differs
I like the new guy’s idea 😘
Personally there is nothing like a perfect body but rather be in good shape. Used to have six packs but now deɛ eturn faded 3 n half packs. My wife is always happy when i put on suits so i have been hitting the gym to be in good shape to look good in suits for her likewise she knows i want her with a flat stomach and physically active so she tries to be in good health shape
Scanty words make I weak 26:41😂😂
I really don't like it when people tell me that, you have Gain weight 😢
This is why so many women get surgery because their partner never change yourself for someone. Change for yourself
A woman (or man) does not owe their partner a perfect body but if you're married you owe it to your spouse to take care of your health NOT for a perfect body but to keep a good quality of life and mental state which will help your overall marriage.
Thank you
Put in the conscious effort to maintain it. If anything changes from the normal, either on both extremes, put in the conscious effort, with the help of your partner. Try your best.
BBL because I’m curious. Lol!… something will definitely stimulate that curiosity.
Hmm
Scanty ❤❤
Adwoa stop living in the abstract
10:14 😂😂😂😭😭
This thing eh its all about maintenance
Why is it that Adowa doesn't accept scanty opinions why 😢
U will get a partner who likes u slim and something happens or it doesn't go well and meet someone else who wants you to grow a lil fat. Don't break your neck for anyone. Look gud and confident for yourself. U will be happy
It’s getting interesting 😂😂
next topic "do narcissist deserve love?"
Eiii Scantyyy🫡👑🔥🔥🔥
You don't owe no one a perfect bodyyy😏😏😏😏
No body is perfect; also women owe themselves a healthy body.
Eii scanty I love my brother
10.14 priceless
Adwoa paa you saying pray to God for self love. If people don't talk about it how will you know
I don't think you necessarily owe your partner to be in the best shape, in my opinion PERFECT might be too much pressure. I believe that you owe yourself to be in the best shape, not for another person. For me if you are my partner, I'll tell you when you are getting out of shape. because i love you, being out of shape comes with complications as time goes on. You should love yourself enough to always put yourself in the best of shape. i dont support sculpting your shape artificially though, but work out and eat healthy.
My problem with society now is that people are getting hurt too easily. if your partner should tell you that you are not in the best of shape, don't take it as an insult. work on yourself as much as possible, however dont do it to please your partner entirely but do it for yourself, that way you wont feel pressured to go to extreme measures to get yourself in shape. If your partner is giving you unrealistic body shape goals to reach better advice yourself and leave. As Adwoa said being fit is the best
Yo I know say what adey come talk go hit hard on some of you. So if the curvaceous women no b the order of the day like who go be the order?
Amazing effect 😂😂
Aburi mountain 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please go for someone you physically love. Don’t go for a chubby person and pressure them to lose weight.
Have a difficult conversation on what level of weight gain or weight loss would be a turn off and respect each other.
One cannot be putting in the effort to stay healthy and look nice while the other engage in unhealthy lifestyle to gain more weight or look lean
girls like money boys like body me i like food can we just agree these are the laws of the universe and move🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DO MEN OWE THEIR PARTNERS A DEEP POCKET?
Interesting one
@@adwoaaddy😂😂😂😂, Adwoa it’s not the answer oooo, yes or no? 😂😂😂
The other guy be someway papa tsww
This “gentleman” and “elite” cards he dey play dey bore me waa.
U date someone then she become obolo aa u for tell am make she get back on track. If ebi after childbirth, cool but late night eating weight gain de3 no bro go accept wai
Lol that's all right, my guy, but remember that we don't have to agree on everything, and that's okay too. It's acceptable for each of us to have different opinions.
eat well and gym simple solution
If you are fat you are fat. The truth hurts 😂. Take it or leave it
who knows Bri's social media handle??
Adjoa is off track
I disagree with adwoa on the growing ugly. We don't grow ugly. We become uglier the more we neglect ourselves and don't pay attention to certain things.
Oh okay
That’s bs we get “ugly” as we get saggy skin wrinkles and it gets hard to stay fit as metabolism is not as good as we grow older.
@@PatBoahen my point is, these very things you are talking about worsen the more you neglect yourself.
Some girls from high school were very beautiful,15 years later,they are not Any beauty close to how they were .
scanty is making a lot of sense. The rest are just being hypocritical. Everyone has specs so try and maintain them for your partner.
Herr women😂
Y'all should stop saying stomach ... It belly ..... Stomach is for storing food temporally and some form of digestion
I hate the concept of body shaming and what modernity has brought to our society. If you gain excessive weight after a guy marries you and you think he should accept who you no matter what then you're mediocre, will you stay if your man became jobless and lazy after marrying you and he told you accept him the way he is ?
Exactly
It’s too generic, some women gain weight after childbirth, sometimes hormonal imbalances and sometimes medication can change your form.
Your partner can extend grace in handling these chances, not in a condescending manner that gives her pain.
You can help your partner work on it, it’s just a matter of being kind and supportive!
You don’t owe any one shishiiii, when a woman is ready, she goes for what she want. No need to be mean to her
Scanty 😅😅😅😅