How to Turn Any Toxic Experience Into a Glow Up

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  • @preetikalita20
    @preetikalita20 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    1) Become aware what you are attracting.
    2) You are no longer available for that experience ❤
    3) Gather knowledge on why this is happening.
    4) Start applying what you have learned into your actual life.

  • @aaroncastillo5598
    @aaroncastillo5598 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Toxicity can produce joy just the way fire/pressure turns coal into diamond. Perspective matters. Great video. New fan 🥰🤍

    • @EmilyRaskett
      @EmilyRaskett 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes! A few months ago I had a breakup and it has been such a motivation to build my dream life

  • @m_1011
    @m_1011 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    she's the big sister we all need fr

  • @lindsaypeek63
    @lindsaypeek63 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wrote in my gratitude journal today an affirmation that I am exactly where I’m supposed to be( use this affirmation to feel safe as I sometimes feel fight or flight from being behind or not in the right stage) then when you said on this video that no time was lost and we are actually jumping time I felt it in my soul. Thank you to God and you affirming that

  • @ITSMONA7777
    @ITSMONA7777 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awwlexis, Love You ♥️
    From Saudiarabia ♥️🇸🇦♥️

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello beautiful sending so much love to you 🤗

  • @maxineyu7666
    @maxineyu7666 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for this video ! A great reminder that going through something hard will lead to something better. I recently decided to end certain friendships and extremely sad these people won't be part of the biggest event of my life. ..My wedding! I had to create boundaries and no longer accept mediocre relationships. Its hard now but I know its for the best ❤❤

  • @UltralightQueen
    @UltralightQueen ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This video was meant for me and brought tears to my eyes! What you have is a true gift that I'm glad you shared with us all!

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so so much 🥺♥️🙏🏽

  • @maybesonoya
    @maybesonoya ปีที่แล้ว +8

    thank you alexis, for talking about this. being a child of narcissistic abuse can feel incredibly isolating and othering 😢 and navigating the impacts as an adult, the need for community is so real. grateful i came across your videos

  • @mercedescreates
    @mercedescreates ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I might not agree with you on all topics, but I sure do RESPECT how much light you're shining to uplift all ladies! Thanks for the content!

  • @raoniyati
    @raoniyati ปีที่แล้ว +3

    On spot ! Super gut n constipation issues due to fight n flight 🥲

  • @newvision7223
    @newvision7223 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks ! This video is exactly where I’m at the moment. I would apply what you stated to have healthier relationships and building myself as I’m healing

  • @theluxweddingco
    @theluxweddingco ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alexis… you be preaching girl! I say amen so many times throughout your videos. Thank you sis

  • @genteelcowgirl0119
    @genteelcowgirl0119 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you're helping me so much to release these patterns. :)

  • @SA_SHAmusic
    @SA_SHAmusic ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for always sharing your insight and wisdom with us all ❤️ it is truly inspiring, your words always touch me

  • @annabeavor3254
    @annabeavor3254 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would love if you could show us your outfit at the beginning of the video or live stream. ❤

  • @SaiTeadvuse
    @SaiTeadvuse 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a true answer for creepy old man story 😮 Now I get what's happening

  • @victorianunez4857
    @victorianunez4857 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I admire you ♥️ Thank for pouring your beautiful energy into us.

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you my sweet girl 🥰

  • @jewonnylife
    @jewonnylife ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you and your content. It is really helping me. Thank you Alexis! ❤

  • @hoaian.4
    @hoaian.4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You look gorgeous in straight hair 😍😍😍

  • @mdw.444
    @mdw.444 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would love for you to make a video on healthy habits Alexis!! It’s something I really struggle with even though I’ve craved a routine for what seems like my whole life
    I love your videos so much, they help ground and realign me when times are hard :) 💕

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful suggestion my girl! Thank you ♥️

  • @chandanavanam1123
    @chandanavanam1123 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wow such an eye opening video coming from the toxic household

  • @comfort_nelson
    @comfort_nelson ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Alexis how do you connect to your feminine energy and create your dream life if you still live in your toxic household and can’t afford to move out yet?

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hello love, last week’s video is exactly on this subject, it is called “Staying Connected to Feminine Energy in Toxic Situations” 🤗

  • @liviagap
    @liviagap ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This meant a lot to me. Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @drewpape4557
    @drewpape4557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so grateful 🎉 for you for this video❤

  • @sandranarouz
    @sandranarouz ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Alexis, you made this video at exactly the right time. Thank you 🙏🏼 For the topic recommendations you asked for, I would love to see a video about how to set boundaries and standards in a playful way whether it’s with family, friends or partners.

  • @aakankshajha2080
    @aakankshajha2080 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Alexis, although I am just a student right now , in future I will surely join the course. It's like my calling. I am learning so much from your videos. Can you make a video on how to heal your masculine energy?
    I just feel I can't take action or stay committed to my goals at this point. Thank you❤

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello beautiful! I can not wait to have you! And thank you for this wonderful suggestion, I will add it to my list! ♥️

    • @katew27
      @katew27 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel the same way.
      Can there be a video on how to balance your feminine and masculine energy without going too "soft life" that you get lazy or too masculine that you overwork yourself?

  • @chaiiwi
    @chaiiwi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Howdy Girlfriend,
    Thank You for being the angelic influence I didn't know I needed but now on the other side. A heartfelt Thank You for this solid content and for sharing your journey to create a safe space from within to explore.

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much sister ♥️🙏🏽

    • @chaiiwi
      @chaiiwi ปีที่แล้ว

      @@awwlexis Girl, I've been speaking up and hearing myself when I have the opportunity to say yes and how it comes out.
      Thank You, Thank You for empowering.

  • @kumababybear
    @kumababybear ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Questions for your brother:
    1. What does an ideal relationship look like for you? (How do you show up, resolve conflict, all that snazz)
    2. What are things that you consider to be “high value man” that you incorporate into your life?

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful, thank you!

  • @LizDavinciLand
    @LizDavinciLand ปีที่แล้ว

    You have a really interesting and helpful way of looking at things and explaining things. Thank you!! All the best, Liz

  • @kumababybear
    @kumababybear ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Alexis!! Thanks so much for this video. The segment about the bathroom wasn't too much and in fact, it helped me realize that the reason I couldn't go to the restroom was due to trauma too!!! I had SUCH a hard time using the restroom in public or on trips, I could never go even though my stomach was suffering. But since doing the healing work, I've been able to go in public LOL!

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha we totally relate on this! It is amazing how powerful inner work is! ♥️

  • @Jeanette-y
    @Jeanette-y ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed to hear this today! Thank you for your videos Alexis, they help me daily😊

  • @Billy33753
    @Billy33753 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your video’s

  • @anuradhiweerasinghe915
    @anuradhiweerasinghe915 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really needed. to hear this.Thankyou

  • @Ciastkoo0
    @Ciastkoo0 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guys, do you ever struggle with that feeling or the voice in your head that tells you that you're too old for something ? Like I'm trying to get over my personal disorder in some way (therapy, YT coaching etc) and sometimes when I think that I finally found my personal style of dressing the voice says I'm too old for it, and that people will tell me this and that, etc. and I'm happy I've found something I truly like but I don't know what to do about the feeling of being "too old" for something. And I know that maybe it is a bit "too childish" (not literally kids clothes, but I don't really see any girls my age dressing with many colours, wearing hair pins etc) but also it makes me happy to dress that way. Any advices on how to stop this voice telling me to "act my age" (28) or that my face stops looking "young enough" for a certain style ?I'd love some advices or a video about it or anything that mentions this case 🙏🏻🥹

  • @JasminRojas-b7z
    @JasminRojas-b7z 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I ❤ you!

  • @rosasoto8158
    @rosasoto8158 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Question for your brother, have you had uplifted/inspired some of your guy friends to heal wounded masculine energy and if so, how did you do it?

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful question, thank you ♥️

  • @fortunatentanjana2125
    @fortunatentanjana2125 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Lex, loving the insight, it's amazing 💕❤️
    You talk about an anxious attachment style, loving it. I think I have an anxious ditachement style, if there is such a thing, I am able to initiate friendships but when people return the love and attention I feel like running away 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️and start being kinda awkward, any idea how to get over this. 🤔🤭👀🤷‍♀️

  • @jabbersjay6871
    @jabbersjay6871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So glad to see another video

  • @halajarmolinska
    @halajarmolinska ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Alexis, I love your videos❤ Could you make a video how you healed your gut health?

  • @chrissythecrafter3972
    @chrissythecrafter3972 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this ❤

  • @sbhm1108
    @sbhm1108 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your knowledge!

  • @jtl6528
    @jtl6528 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Alexis! Thanks for another amazing video! ❤ so much love for you for making this wholesome channel. May I ask if you could talk about the approach that you use to balance out your masculine and feminine energy during work/studies when activities within these fields are predominantly filled with ‘doing’ energy (catching up deadline, being structured and efficient etc.). In particular, I found it hard to balance the two energies when I am doing tasks are genuinely out of my scope of interest, and I’d automatically tune into my masculine as I just want to get things done. May I ask if you got any advices for this? Thanks xx

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautiful suggestion, thank you love! ♥️ I will add it to my list

  • @sylviachristine
    @sylviachristine ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Alexis! Thank you for another amazing video 🤍 these topics always seem to come at the perfect time ✨ I’m so looking forward to the upcoming video with your brother! These are some questions that came to mind:
    - What does a man in his divine/healthy masculine look for in a woman?
    - Would a healed man in his divine masculine want to be in a relationship with someone who’s still healing?
    - How/where to find healthy masculine men?

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Sylvia! And amazing, I will make a note of these 🥰

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984
    @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @Mariashahid17
    @Mariashahid17 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much

  • @sazzgab1705
    @sazzgab1705 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Alexis,
    In regards to the anxiety of feeling sexy as a Christian I do get that too. I get worried if I am making someone lust over me through being confident in my looks etc. You mentioned God wants us to channel the energy into something that creates beauty, as well as God creating us like this. May you please where it is mentioned in the Bible? That will be so helpful.
    Thank you

  • @Heartovermindd
    @Heartovermindd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Alexis! The app link seems to not be working. Is there a different way to access it?

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello love! So sorry to hear this, if you search in the App Store “spaces by Wix” that may help. I am not 100% sure which countries it works in, but you can also access the group page on thefeminineglow.com using this link: www.thefeminineglow.com/group/glow-girls-chat/discussion/827c5670-213f-450f-bd06-57fff467d5ed

  • @sophia-marcelle
    @sophia-marcelle ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m curious what your brother thinks about meeting women and where are the best places to meet good partners!

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great question love! ♥️

  • @adriannalewis8106
    @adriannalewis8106 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can anyone help me find the feminine glow app? I can’t find it😢

  • @AlexisBelon
    @AlexisBelon ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm literally so honored that you're my namesake! Btw idk if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine. Swing by, take a peek and stick around if you like. I’d be sooo grateful. 🙏

  • @aemsiw3798
    @aemsiw3798 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When I click on the link for the app, I get a message that says “there’s an issue with the invite link”.

  • @Hiddengem1925
    @Hiddengem1925 ปีที่แล้ว

    8:00

  • @jabbersjay6871
    @jabbersjay6871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m early!!!

  • @racheal74
    @racheal74 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️

  • @kristinal.1495
    @kristinal.1495 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤍🖤

  • @sazzgab1705
    @sazzgab1705 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Would love if you could incorporate the Bible more within your videos… like how what you’re saying aligns with the Bible. That’ll be very helpful and insightful❤️

  • @hyperballad_
    @hyperballad_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The knowledge you share is so insightful and perspective changing. I cannot express in words how helpful you have been to me. I don't say that frivolously or lightly. You're like the big sister I've always wanted. I've grown so much this year bc of u. I'm so excited to do the inner work and apply what I've learned now whereas before I was not.
    Thank you Alexis ❤️
    @awwlexis

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much beautiful. I am honored to be a part of your journey and so proud of the inner work you are doing ♥️🙌🏽 Sending you so much love

  • @ambrosia3233
    @ambrosia3233 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Alexis, this video came at just the right time I’m having such a hard time getting over a boy right now and I know your advice will help! I appreciate you so much as a creator 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sending you extra love my girl 😘♥️

    • @לימורחנניה
      @לימורחנניה ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also for me!❤

  • @drewpape4557
    @drewpape4557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much