My own list: 1. He or, she has gotten on your last nerve for the very last time, 2. They should have divorced many years before but stayed together for the sake of the children. 3. He's chased women for years and finally caught one who he thinks is a "keeper". 4. They were unequally yoked (religious background) from the beginning thinking this essential element didn't matter. 5. Their relationship was never maintained. They've essentially lived separate lives.
Thank you for this gray divorce video, great point! And also, there are loads of therapists promoting narcissism but they don’t know what they’re doing to our society. In the 80s, 90s, 00s, we abused psychopaths and sociopaths, now we abuse narcissistic tendencies! There’s no such thing as ‘narcissists’, just people who are sick, like mental health problems , for a moment, etc! Those who are promoting and condemning narcissism are the narcissists themselves because they keep bashing and condemning people without consideration or compassion, and it keeps dividing people as if everyone is a narcissist , and people are believing it as if it’s gospel truth, and when people break up they automatically say, he or she is a narcissist like I did with my ex, he was a narcissist etc, and that’s why we broke up etc, when this happens, the world is like a narcissistic place to live, that’s why we stopped narcissistic games like Gladiators 2000 years ago! So this ‘ high five to the self ‘ by Mel Robbie is uniquely uniting one’s self and people together. So well done for this Mel! So proud of you for doing this and uniting people together, families, friends, and strangers! Best compassionate tool ever! That’s why for thousands of years, Asian people in general and Buddhists put both hands together when they say thank you, even when they’re alone etc! I’m so pleased you’ve arrived at something that can unite people’s perception of themselves in the mirror! Self worth, esteem etc especially when they are alone in this horrid robotic society ….
True that narcissist topics everywhere and they are wrong about it. There are 2 sides to everything, and people will put up narc tendencies based upon their view of situations. Although there are people out there who are truly narcs at the core.
She doesn't "need" him anymore. With maturing investments she is set and a breadwinner is superfluous. Unfortunately health can throw a curve and you may need your spouse for more than a wallet or maid. Divorce is universally dumb for both parties but not realized for a half dozen years post break. You're 50+ how about growing up?
80% of divorce are filed by women and main motive is money. Most men spend productive life to support family financially and once the kids are grown up. Women dump men. Menopause is also another reason. So never make women the top priority in life and be a simp husband.
My own list: 1. He or, she has gotten on your last nerve for the very last time, 2. They should have divorced many years before but stayed together for the sake of the children. 3. He's chased women for years and finally caught one who he thinks is a "keeper". 4. They were unequally yoked (religious background) from the beginning thinking this essential element didn't matter. 5. Their relationship was never maintained. They've essentially lived separate lives.
Thank you for this gray divorce video, great point! And also, there are loads of therapists promoting narcissism but they don’t know what they’re doing to our society. In the 80s, 90s, 00s, we abused psychopaths and sociopaths, now we abuse narcissistic tendencies! There’s no such thing as ‘narcissists’, just people who are sick, like mental health problems , for a moment, etc! Those who are promoting and condemning narcissism are the narcissists themselves because they keep bashing and condemning people without consideration or compassion, and it keeps dividing people as if everyone is a narcissist , and people are believing it as if it’s gospel truth, and when people break up they automatically say, he or she is a narcissist like I did with my ex, he was a narcissist etc, and that’s why we broke up etc, when this happens, the world is like a narcissistic place to live, that’s why we stopped narcissistic games like Gladiators 2000 years ago! So this ‘ high five to the self ‘ by Mel Robbie is uniquely uniting one’s self and people together. So well done for this Mel! So proud of you for doing this and uniting people together, families, friends, and strangers! Best compassionate tool ever! That’s why for thousands of years, Asian people in general and Buddhists put both hands together when they say thank you, even when they’re alone etc! I’m so pleased you’ve arrived at something that can unite people’s perception of themselves in the mirror! Self worth, esteem etc especially when they are alone in this horrid robotic society ….
True that narcissist topics everywhere and they are wrong about it. There are 2 sides to everything, and people will put up narc tendencies based upon their view of situations. Although there are people out there who are truly narcs at the core.
She doesn't "need" him anymore. With maturing investments she is set and a breadwinner is superfluous. Unfortunately health can throw a curve and you may need your spouse for more than a wallet or maid. Divorce is universally dumb for both parties but not realized for a half dozen years post break. You're 50+ how about growing up?
Reason 5 - menopause
Andopause is a good hormonal reason for women to leave.
What about over 68 and already one spouse is collecting his pention?
Go after his SSI Benefits.
80% of divorce are filed by women and main motive is money. Most men spend productive life to support family financially and once the kids are grown up. Women dump men.
Menopause is also another reason.
So never make women the top priority in life and be a simp husband.
My wife is entangled with our property. My wife has uni gree and earns good money.