A Rant | Stress? Anemia? Hard water?

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  • @sumitjuneja6565
    @sumitjuneja6565 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    I experienced COVID that lasted a good 11 days. I thought I was ok but I started to notice a loss of more hair than normal. After doing some research, I am realizing it’s from the strain my body had during that time and also the shampoo that I was using. So I started doing yoga and meditation daily and changed my shampoo and conditioner to littleextraa cooconion anti hair fall kit. And today I don't face any hair fall.
    Thanks for this video! I feel so much more at peace.

    • @jasleenkaurMe32
      @jasleenkaurMe32 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I needed a hair oil that isn’t too sticky and has natural ingredients. The liittllextra coocoonion oil has proven to be excellent so I will order it again. The natural ingredients, such as coconut and rosemary, have reduced my hair fall.

  • @ng--
    @ng-- ปีที่แล้ว +30

    So happy you found out what was wrong,. I hope your hair makes a full recovery!💞

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you thank you! because I was truly at a loss, I really appreciate it, XOXO ❤️❤️❤️

  • @1GoldenBreeze
    @1GoldenBreeze ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm glad that you figured it out. We have hard water in my area also. Something else that may help is to get a filtered showerhead, between that and using a chelating shampoo once a month my hair is doing well even though I have CCCA. This is another whole issue that I'm working on with my dermatologist's help.

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you me as well ❤️ I definitely have to get a more effective filter and that hard water shampoo/conditioner worked so well, I'll be using them regularly as well. So very sorry to hear about your CCCA -- I've had several appointments with my derm for my bald spots, so I can understand ❤️ Sending love to you and your tresses 💕❤️

    • @1GoldenBreeze
      @1GoldenBreeze ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cockyretrospect4085 Thank you so much. Watching you flinch when parting in that area is what made me mention it. Sending love and prayers to you as well.💜

  • @randomgrannie
    @randomgrannie ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I had this issue. I was totally frustrated! My hair was tangled and matted, and wouldn’t fully detangle. The shedding was epic! It was taking hours to detangle when it usually took 10-15 minutes. I tried every treatment known to woman! Nothing worked. For me, it turned out to be major product buildup from using Jamaican Black Castor Oil as my sealant. Protein treatments made it worse. Never again! 😮 I started using a clarifying shampoo, followed by a moisturizing shampoo. Deep conditioned every week. Switched to grape seed oil and started shampooing once a week vs 2-3 times per week. Most frustrating 3-4 months of my life! But here we are. Healthy, happy, thick and curly. Good luck to you. Your hair is beautiful. You are beautiful and thank you for sharing your struggle. 😊❤

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for sharing! I've definitely heard protein treatments and certain oils wreaking havoc on hair. I'm so happy you made that connection and switched up your routine 🙌🏾 🙌🏾 I'm trying to be like you and be on the other side of this hill lolol But thank you for your kind words, I truly appreciate it ❤️❤️🤗

  • @kam1776
    @kam1776 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just got my water treated so all the running water in my house is soft and it really makes a difference. My skin is incredibly soft and the water is so clean and crisp I can drink from the tap.. and surprisingly it tastes better than my bottled water.

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really wish I lived in a house so I could do the same, I haven't ever had the tap water here lol But getting a water softening system would definitely be top priority if ever I could install one

  • @TheSharvell
    @TheSharvell ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We bought a shower head with a filter and it was game-changing❤

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've purchased two so far! lol which one do you have?

    • @TheSharvell
      @TheSharvell ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cockyretrospect4085 i cant remember the name but it came from lowes

  • @fefemyluv
    @fefemyluv ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel you. I think strong antibiotics/pain meds during my 45 day hospitalization contributed to my hair thinning. Honestly, it was devastating. But I’ve been praying about my crown and taking some remedial measures. I pray you get your desired results!

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry to hear that, I hope you're doing well now ❤️❤️❤️ I've definitely heard of medications leading to thinning. Praying healing for your hair to make a full recovery as well and thank you so so much❤️❤️❤️

  • @lisaduhaney2500
    @lisaduhaney2500 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Also , sometimes if you're allergic to something, like a food could make your hair shed as well. You would have to monitor what you're intaking in your body. Also , not sure if you do already , but drink alot of water, eat fruits , and vegetables. THis is if you do not already . I found these even besides the hard water that my intake of certain foods affect my hair shedding and growth . Hope that helps !

  • @i3abikay
    @i3abikay ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've been going through similar issues with my hair and scalp. It's a lot to care for so I don't cause more damage. It's great you found reason and products to aid in your hair recovery. May the Lord bring your hair back full and glorious! Amen! ❤🤗

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm right there with you, the level of care is astronomical at this point 😭 But thank you, yea, I'm glad I'm actually able to rectify the issue. thank you so so much ❤️❤️

  • @Grace-pv9in
    @Grace-pv9in ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is literally my story. I now see a hematologist, I take Iron and chlorophyll. And drink a lot of water. I chose to just cut mines off, because it was everywhere.

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry this happened to you as well :( I had purchased chlorophyll a while back but its collecting dust in my cabinet, I should really take that now that you mention it! TY for reminding me. But I'm truly wishing you all the best with your tresses, I hope you make a full recovery healthwise as well ❤️

    • @Grace-pv9in
      @Grace-pv9in ปีที่แล้ว

      @cockyretrospect4085 thank you so much 💓 love watching your journey the liquid chlorophyll and liquid iron is very cool to put in your water or orange juice in the morning helped me be more consistent 😀

  • @GottaHandItToDani
    @GottaHandItToDani ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ever since I moved to this house a few years ago, my hair had been going crazy 😩 I’m so glad you talked about this! I tried cutting my hair because of thinning, changing my diet and taking supplements, but my hair never got back to how it used to. I figured it was hard water, so I bought a filter for my shower head. Idk if it’s the best, but you mentioning pH strips will definitely help me to determine that! I’m going to to the hard water packet and shampoo you shown. I hope your hair recovery journey goes well. I’m right here with you!

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for sharing! Just like you said, it's an easy thing to miss and assume it might be something else. Same on the shower filter, sometimes I can still see brown water coming from the spout 😅 but lmk if you end up getting a new one and which one it is! The packet helped me tremendously, so sending you positivity on your recovery as well!!! ❤️❤️❤️🤗

    • @GottaHandItToDani
      @GottaHandItToDani ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cockyretrospect4085 I definitely will let you know when I test out a new one. And thank you love! Positive energy and hair flourishing vibes to you as well 😄💕🤗

  • @rachelr2047
    @rachelr2047 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Glad you were able to find the root cause. I had the same exact thing happen to me with hard water. I bought a shower filter and used a hard water shampoo. It took 1.5 month for my hair to get back to normal. I also experienced thinning due to stress and my hair wasn’t growing back. I started taking a DHT blocker off of Amazon by the brand advanced trichology and my hair started growing in thicker and stronger. Even my stylist noticed and I had bald patches throughout my head. Hope your hair grows back and thrives I know how hard something like this can be. 💕💕

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to hear you got back to normal!!! 🙌🏾 a DHT blocker sounds promising, I'll look into that! and ty so much, I'm giving it all the tlc I possibly can

  • @Iamheretobeafriend8-
    @Iamheretobeafriend8- 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do have a shower filter that's what I utilize to combat hard water. I understand you, I have experienced a similar situation. Continue with iron vitamin D3+K2, multivitamins, and shower filter.

  • @christycollins9055
    @christycollins9055 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just wanted to give this tip. My daughters have really long hair as well so I no longer wash loose hair. After the pre pop I only wash and condition her hair in plaits ( not too tight thought). Then I blow dry or style from each plait while the others stay stretched. This has cut down the time drastically!

  • @cheryls.booker3336
    @cheryls.booker3336 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your transparency. I’m glad you found a solution to your hair thinning.
    I’ve always loved your hair videos. Continued success to you! ♥️

  • @avocadoqueen.
    @avocadoqueen. ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Recently discovered your channel, love your personality 😊 & SO happy you found the cause /solution! 🎉❤

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much and me as well! On to healing now ❤️❤️🤗

  • @shellbelz
    @shellbelz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm going through this at the moment and also have been dealing with significant hair thinning since 2021.
    I've bought a shower head filter but the water is so hard where I live, it's welded the old shower head on I'm not strong enough to remove it.
    Now I've seen this video I'm determined to get this filter on and increase my iron intake.
    Thanks for helping me feel not quite so alone and I hope you see great improvements 🙏🏾

  • @laearth0330
    @laearth0330 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I use sulfur 8 light grease to fight against my deficiency and anemia. Even when I stress, a lot of hair doesn’t come out like it used to. The grease helps to thicken up my hair

  • @letsbefruitful5457
    @letsbefruitful5457 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I pray all is well with you, i totally understand I’m on a setback with my hair as well! We will make it through this! ❤❤❤

  • @arealestshea5727
    @arealestshea5727 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Blackseed and fenugreek oils or deep condition with the powder itself it helps for me I hardly shed hair anymore,. And I've been moisturizing almost daily to retain lenght

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've heard blackseed is gold! I do have feenugreek and will definitely utilize it more ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @arealestshea5727
      @arealestshea5727 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@CockyRetrospect girl it works wonders together u won't regret it glad I can help

    • @arealestshea5727
      @arealestshea5727 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi hope all is well I did a bit of research and found that green tea , black tea rinse and horsetail herb tea help with hair fall pls try it they are all a dth blocker I have started to experience thining and it really help me out alot,.

  • @cheryls.booker3336
    @cheryls.booker3336 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video! I never would’ve thought it was the hard water. I think the water in my area is hard as well. Please continue to keep making these informative videos. You are the beat!!

  • @a.s.m.3246
    @a.s.m.3246 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's your crown girl glad you didn't cut it ! not that there's anything wrong with it .
    quote from a famous New Yorker 😅 and please don't be embarrassed you may have helped me to find the answer to my thinning tresses H20 is notoriously hard here in northern California 😬

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm glad it's bouncing back or else it would have been cut lolol But I'm so very happy if this did end up helping you! Very sorry to hear you're experiencing thinning as well. If the hard water is the culprit, the chelating products were chef's kiss, truly! Feel free to lmk if they do end up helping

    • @a.s.m.3246
      @a.s.m.3246 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cockyretrospect4085
      Thank you so much & please don't stop posting it's greatly appreciated, hopefully my hair too will be on the mend soon 😇

  • @laearth0330
    @laearth0330 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My hair broke off in 2020 after I grew it so long and beautiful. Didn’t know why that was but then got diagnosed with vitamin D deficiency iron deficiency folic acid deficiency and magnesium deficiency all of these together breaks off my hair

  • @tietete
    @tietete ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ive missed ur videos and im glad u figured everything out. I wish u the best

  • @andieshah
    @andieshah ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so sorry you had to go through this...... I watched some of your videos in the past and I really liked. Your hair will recovery. I have faith...remember God spoke, He directed

  • @Sumerianharp
    @Sumerianharp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If I use oil on my hair my scalp hurts. Also try the elizavecca cer 100 collagen ceramide coating treatment

  • @REVENGEbyNichole
    @REVENGEbyNichole ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy for you and you were missed ❤

  • @1love847
    @1love847 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through. Webbing? That would drive me nuts.

  • @homewithcrissy
    @homewithcrissy ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey hun, maybe you could wash your hair in twist all through instead of taking it out and washing loose. I think the hair tangles way easier & faster with hard water when it is loose

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey hey ❤️ I've tried both ways! The last time I washed in twists, it got so tangled it took forever to take down the twists so I could moisturize, and that was after I'd already detangled during prepoo 😔

  • @gerelinevlogs
    @gerelinevlogs ปีที่แล้ว

    I am new here. I live in the Netherlands and we have hard water here too. Maybe this will sound weird, I went to Curaçao for two weeks with braids in my hair. I went swimming in salt water in the blue beautiful oceans there. One time I dipped my whole body from head to toe in it. I washed my hair the next day and took care of it with grease al over my strands of hair. Normally I would have washed it the same day but, it became to late and I didn't want to sleep with wet hair. When I came back to the Netherlands I instantly bought a water filter, because the sun, sea and shower water there are not hard and it made my skin feel very soft. I took out my braids, detangled and I washed them. I was shocked, because of how soft and manageable my hair was. I think the sea took out all the hard water out of my hair and gave it a type of detox I guess. If you want you can try it. You can also imitate it with distilled water and add seasalt in it. If you are in doubt, you can try a little section to see what will happen. Hope this works wonders on you hair too. Love your video's and I love that you are transparent, your can't do everything on your own. Asking for advice or help should not have to be an issue. Sorry for my long story tried I to explain my experience the best as possible😊❤️

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for that!! I did actually go to the beach but was afraid of wetting my hair because I was sooo afraid of it tangling! But that sounds wonderful, I'll definitely give it a try. Thank you so much for the suggestion!! ❤️❤️❤️🤗

    • @gerelinevlogs
      @gerelinevlogs ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cockyretrospect4085 You are welcome. Try it with a protective style so your hair wouldn't tangle much😉

  • @Daizetta
    @Daizetta ปีที่แล้ว

    I live in Florida. Hard water is definitely a problem. I use cocaknotz hair products. She has a TH-cam channel (cocaknotz) and she talks about using her products to help with hard water. I love her products.

  • @tania0070
    @tania0070 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The twists themselves are what's killing your hair. You need a new protective style and you have to switch up the protective styles. Get some Aphogee, good light moisturizer and keep your hair in a satin bun and 2 braids for 3 months. Trust me.

  • @rannym6504
    @rannym6504 ปีที่แล้ว

    I use. Malibu swimmer conditioner

  • @snowwaffles0583
    @snowwaffles0583 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah it’s biblical for a woman to not shave off her hair. Because it is her glory, a women should never cut off her glory.

  • @HouseofOrganicBeauty
    @HouseofOrganicBeauty ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl, welcome to the hard water club. I am a youtuber as well and I was documenting my hair loss journey and associated it with me stress shedding but I was wrong! I was loosing hair because of my water. Now I use distilled water. 6 gallons of water. It's on my channel so you can take a look. Good luck girl! It's been 2 going on 3 yrs and I am still growing out my hair. It got a lot better though so keep hope alive! 😊❤️
    O and everything you used, I used. I still use distilled water till this day and I invested in a portable shampoo bowl (I am also a hair dresser so I had no choice) but if you need advice, please feel free to ask. I get it girl.

  • @mochachina1
    @mochachina1 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you don't get the results you are looking for, I would strongly urge you to see a dermatologist and or a Trichologist. My sister had similar problems, if it is something similar you will need to act quickly in order to stop or at least slow the progression.
    I hope everything works out in your favor. God bless.

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you thank you ❤️❤️ I wanted to see a trichologist but they aren't covered by ins and are tres expensive around me lol but yes, I'll definitely keep looking!

  • @HouseofOrganicBeauty
    @HouseofOrganicBeauty ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. I just watched the whole video and girl.... 👀 , I went through the same exact thing. Wow. It's bringing me bk. I just made a post so you can see my before hair and my now hair😢. It's so sad but it got aloooottt better. I use 6 gallons of water. I bought a big black bucket from Amazon and wash my hair in the tub now because I miss washing my hair in the tub. Long story lol. I will make a current video updaing everyone on my new hair, post well water routine and me growing out my hair. Stay tuned! 😉

  • @naturalhairkhronicles5790
    @naturalhairkhronicles5790 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    have you tried seamoss gel n moringa Powder. As you get sometimes you need more supplements to help internally. I went from bra strap to waist length with those supplements. have you tried bentonite clay treatments??? I make my own products I'll do a bentonite clay and deep condition with my herbal sheabutter

    • @lifeisagamble3615
      @lifeisagamble3615 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oooo please share

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว

      I haven't tried seamoss gel or Moringa powder, but definitely have done bentonite clay which was just ok tbh

    • @naturalhairkhronicles5790
      @naturalhairkhronicles5790 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cockyretrospect4085 try seamoss gel internally n moringa powder. Seamoss gel has 92 out 102 our bodies need..The Bentonite clay I add more to mines like avacado oils, rhassaul clay, amla powder and palm oil.. I hope everything works out well

  • @RainBows-jh9km
    @RainBows-jh9km ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your hair is beautiful, you helped me take care of my hair even better ❤❤🎉

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much and happy to hear that! ❤️❤️🤗

    • @RainBows-jh9km
      @RainBows-jh9km ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cockyretrospect4085 I hope your hair gets a full recovery, grows thick and healthy. With time❤️❤️

  • @ayomibh
    @ayomibh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honest video 🥺
    It's seems like a demarcation of your hair is thicker than the lower part
    Thank you Lord for answering her prayers 🤎

  • @crazymeetsweird
    @crazymeetsweird ปีที่แล้ว

    Does a filter help with hard water too? 😮

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! I just haven't found one thats effective yet, I'm on my second shower filter already 😬

    • @crazymeetsweird
      @crazymeetsweird ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cockyretrospect4085 oh wow ok. I wonder which ones are best.

  • @urban_geographic
    @urban_geographic ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn Im sending you lots of love bc ive been dealing w long term hairloss on and off since beginning of 2020 too, and even tho it may have been for diff reasons the pain and frustration of the result is the same, I feel so seen rn like wow I know you were anxious af but THANK YOU for this video.
    Excessive hair tangling is a THING. And I cope w my bald spots by using a dark eyeshadow powder lol. I have 3b/c low porosity, fine to medium strands. Some products that have helped mitigate tangling have been the Mielle babassu and mint deep conditioner, its less effective on my hair now idk why, but when I first started using it literally would melt my tangles away, the Oyin Handmade hair dew leave in conditioner, really softens my hair but is a bit on the heavy side so use sparingly if youre sensitive to oils in your products, and Amazinghairsaviour scalp oil that helps with the baldspots. I hope this helps someone

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing and for the love as well and I'm so sorry to hear that. Sentiments are the same, it's devastating and I'm sending you all the love and positive energy back ❤️❤️❤️ I'll definitely look into those product suggestions, I really do appreciate those as well! I truly hope for healing for the issue causing your particular hair loss, much much love to you ❤️💕

  • @isissherman4107
    @isissherman4107 ปีที่แล้ว

    plz try revair for a video

  • @Ceeflowers
    @Ceeflowers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey girl you good? Miss your chnnel

  • @indigo57
    @indigo57 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Invest in a shower head filter.

    • @cutenobi
      @cutenobi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you have a house, it’s good to invest in a water softener.

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've had 2 so far and they haven't helped, but I've been looking into others that might be more effective

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't lol but if I ever do, that'll literally be first on my list

  • @CurlCola
    @CurlCola ปีที่แล้ว

    have you looked into ayurvedic herbs? hennasooq has amazing natural products to save hair! also clove water helps too!

    • @CurlCola
      @CurlCola ปีที่แล้ว

      btw not spon i've just personally have been using ayurvedic products and really saw a difference in the health of my hair! God bless and will keep your hair in my prayers :3

    • @cockyretrospect4085
      @cockyretrospect4085  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! But I haven't been consistent lol I definitely will continue to look into their different products, but thank you for the push! Ayurveda does look very beneficial and happy to hear they've really made a difference for you. Thank you for your kind words and the prayers ❤️❤️🤗🤗🥰