"Everybody can be rich." If everyone is rich, then no one is rich. Everyone is the same. Rich means you have more than the average. If the average catches up to the rich, then the rich are now part of the average, making the rich not be a thing.
I think he meant to say anybody can potentially be rich, not that everyone can be rich simultaneously. That's the only logical way I can make sense of it anyway
@@jaheim2571 psychologists say no. It requires problems solving and reasoning ability, and that seems to be dependent on more than mere motivation and nurture. Listen to: Lex Fridman Podcast - Richard Haier - Ep. 302
That's Sneako's whole problem. He already had that question in mind while Aba was speaking, so he didn't even take the time to understand what Aba said before asking that.
When radicalization meets balance. "if you're not with us, you're against us." I think Sneako means well, honestly. 10 years from now, more than likely if he looks back on this debate he'll cringe at his younger self.
@@jelruv6721 only time will tell. But for must of us, we outgrown the angsty "will save the world from the 1%" teenager phase. We just accept the world and try to better our situation and community. I can't be mad at the young sneako, he's just passionate about is fellows men and wants better things for the world but he's simply misguided.
Bro the thing that kept getting under my skin was when Aba was explaining that he gets more fulfillment from spending time with his family over sleeping around and having Sneako trying to devalue that by saying he’s getting old and tired and losing his balls as a man. That shit is mad disrespectful and rude. Who tf is he to try and make less of a man who values his family. Not only that but trying to argue against that and say that shit is boring means shows he puts so little value in family relationships. Trying to say chasing bitches is more of a value than taking care of your family, spending time with your nieces and nephews, and even trying to simply the relationship a father has with his children to just some macaroni drawing on a fridge is the craziest shit I’ve ever heard.
Yet he’ll watch his gf get fucked by another man, that’s mental. Spending time with family is miles better then meeting different women or doing dumb shit like clubbing or hangin w dodgy friends
This is a prime example of the importance of having a positive male role model in your life. My dude made an internet opportunist his role model and is making himself look so dumb right now.
Sneako sounds like the type of guy who thinks that every nail needs a hammer, and fails to recognize that in some cases a nail sticking out of wood might just be a place to hang your hammer. Not every problem has an obvious solution, and some obvious solutions lead to more problems.
He's saying we ought all try. He's right. You don't find the solution by giving up without trying. Sure not everyone will be a good one but all the ones that don't try fail.
Facts And Sneako will learn this when he gets older I’m very near Shaq age, And your mindset becomes different I was Sneako age and I talked to much when I hit my 30’s I learned to listen and mature more now I’m 46 years old and married 24 wonderful years and in 10 more years I can retire from my job with A pension and 401K but it took me listening and less talking and it took me taking accountability for my wrong doing
It’s amazing that men with opposing ideas have discourse and can talk and disagree about things. Women on the other hand are just a monolith and don’t have a mind of themselves other than what society tells them
Let me make this pledge: "I want to come and show sneako this video after 7 years when he's 30 and watch him laugh at himself" Somebody please remind me later
He'll be exactly the same at thirty. He's the type to be fifty and surrounded by nineteen year-olds looking for the bag! More power to him, if that's what he wants. 🤷🏾♀️
I feel bad for the guy he’s literally what he describes that he hates and despises “brainwashed.” There’s things I dislike about the world but now that I’m much older and understand so much more the things that people understand the sense of them. Real life will never be sunshine and rainbows there’s things that happen we don’t want to do, have to do, and hate to do for society to function. Sneakos ideology doesn’t understand basic things and it’s alarming.
The level of narcissism is mind-numbing. This person's going around thinking that he knows better than everyone else. Much respect for Aba's level of patience.
That section where Aba was talking about how watching his niece walk and talk felt more reward then bangin a new girl, and Sneako with "you given up on your balls?" Like, wtf? This kid keeps this level of narcissism up he is gonna get brain damage.
It's sad watching him go downhill like this. I remember watching him years ago, and how intelligent & mature he seemed, now he's just a boy filled with hate that thinks he knows better than everyone.
@@shanegrayson7068 he been watching too much Andrew hate 😂😂😂 this how most the young dudes is man and I’m only 26. Start going around like they’re top dawg relaying verbatim the words of these redpill content creator without putting in a ounce of self work to become who they want character wise. That’s why you got successful dudes with money who are still corny as heck and gotta bash the shorties because at the core money and status can’t fix a corny character and they are still filled with hate from their pass rejections of the women who didn’t want them… so now you got this entitled “i got money and success every women should want me” and tho they will be women readily available considering they have a good amount of security and perceived status they are still bitter and hurt inside because I’m not sure if you know but some women are good at seeing through a facade and know when a man is quote on quote lame ….. I mean look at fresh and fit … I think the majority of us fellas with a rational mind can see how corny they are at the character.
Watching this really showed me what it's like for an older man with responsibility trying to teach a young buck a few things he is not ready for. These young kids today are not even close to to understanding life thru our eyes. I had children at Sneakos age. No way could he handle that responsibility the way he acts.
“Everybody can be rich if they have a phone” Sneako used his phone to learn how to become a streamer. What Sneako did not do, is use his phone to figure out how to get lucky enough that the Twitch algorithm pushes his stream over others. You are entitled to equal opportunity, but you’re NOT entitled to equal outcomes.
You aren’t even entitled to equal opportunity. Some people are born blind, or with mental illness, or get murdered by their parents as a kid or are born in a country without clean water.
“You are entitled to equal opportunity, but you’re NOT entitled to equal outcomes.” This is absolutely B R I L L I A N T. One of the single best sentences I have read in my entire life.
College mentality, when not in college. Hopefully he can develop ok but most students don't have so many people listening & praising them. I'm concerned for his development, hopefully he chooses to interact with the world & he can progress, him being willing to talk to Aba is a good sign.
He says no one else has anything original to say, and ironically all of his talking points are shit I've heard 100 times from the red pillers that came before him, who now, 5 or 10 years later don't give a shit about any of that
@@dieudonneenooitmeer4653 Not really we change every 7 years and brain maturity ends at 28 on average so give him like 6 years if he's 22 right now.I'm a completely different person from just a few years ago.
This is an example of a boy who thinks he's smarter than everyone vs a man who've experienced life and knows what he's about. Don't hate on sneako. It's part of his process to becoming who he really is.
I think you can critique sneako and it not be hate but we definitely should realize he is still growing into a man and he will have some bad moments in the process as most of us older men have
The issue with these "Man-o-sphere" people like Sneako, Andrew Tate etc. Is that in order for them to make a living they need an endless supply of depressed, sad, angry men. So they're incentivised to keep their audience aka customers unhappy by blaming everyone else for their issues.
And this is why for me, that shit is 100% phony. Those guys are making up and painting issues so they can provide the "solution". Give the poison and give the cure. Those guys are only in for themselve, they probably don't even believe half of what they are saying. They are creating a space/market where they can be the 1% of 1%.
100% agree, I think the younger people like Sneako don’t really realize this yet though. I’m not well versed at all on “Man-o-sphere” creators, but have seen the crazy impact they’ve had on the youth. I truly hope a genuine creator can blow up and actually push young men in the right direction and provide some light in the whole toxicity of social media.
In a way they’ve created their own “matrix” so to speak. All I want to know is, are they going to be as willing to “help” young impressionable men if there’s no profit to be made?
Sneako is the epitome of "missing the point." Not everyone is going to win. Hard work does not guarantee success. Most business ventures fail within their first 5 years. That doesn't mean give up. It just means, calm tf down cause nothing is certain.
Isn't it like 20% of small businesses fail within their first year? Ironically, something that Sneako could also learn from, is that to guarantee a better financial outcome it's wise to do a lot of research before reaching a conclusion, stick to what you know & are passionate about, as well as learn from those who went before you.
The way I see it ,hard work might grant you the access to the starting line, that's about it. Thinking that work will bring us success is comforting, but reality is much more chaotic.
Sneako a little bit reminds me of myself back in 2020 when I was 18 and I became a little red pill manosphere weird and then when the whole Aba And Preach vs Freak and Fit boy was happening. I realize that all that ideology was ridiculous ,but I did learn quite bit about looking around at both Feminists and Red pill fools realized they both have the same argument and lie a lot
One thing I can respect is even though you will criticize A&P in issues that you view as problematic, you are still willing to look at them with a level of nuiance and understand their redeemable qualities from a "left leaning" perspective.
Reality has yet to hit this guy. He operates on such extremes. Black or white. Many of us think we know everything in our early 20s when it couldn't be further from the truth. He'll learn eventually. Aba showcased the patience of a saint here.
This kid much like his idol Andrew Tate reminds me of the Christian Bale character in American Psycho. Andrew Tate is the culmination of the worst of the manosphere. These guy's have all been hurt by a woman rejecting them at some point. You don't need lessons from a pick up artist. Most of these guys are so pint up and in a rush to get their nut off when they approach women it comes off ass desperate or awkward. They just need to observe the atmosphere and find the woman that best suits them. Not all women are the same. Some are T.H.OT.S and play the field, but that's not all women. This guy and many others in the manosphere are the epitome of the quote "Hurt people Hurt other people"
@@jjscrilla3558 I don’t agree with a lot of shit Andrew says but he’s a grown ass man lol if that’s how he chooses to move he can, he’s Atleast lived thru soem shit. Sneako hasnt. He’s legit a product of his era and social media. He needs to be accountable for his own thoughts and views which he will be eventually
@@BasedBurrr Andrew Tate is going to do what he pleases no matter what. But just like Sneako it stop just being about them as an individual when they opened a social Media platform and began to sell or give destructive advice to the masses that may negatively affect a society of impressionable followers. Many people have been through a hell of a lot that are older than Tate. As an example, just because someone was molested as kid by an adult does not make it ok for them to repeat the same behavior. Just because an older person grew up in an era where it was ok to call someone a racist name, does not make it ok to do that now.
I absolutely applaud Aba for the amount of patience he has and for not giving up on explaining his points, lol At least you tried to talk some sense to him
Define Irony : someone claiming to be "awoken" and saying how everyone is being brainwashed and controlled fails to see how they are being brainwashed and controlled .
Wonder when people like him will realize that knowing everyone is controlled doesn't mean they're awakened, but that they're a lucid dreamer No slave in history was instantly free the moment they said "hey maybe I'm a slave", they were just slaves that knew they were 👀
no 23 year old is smart enough to stop and think about how weird it is that they're the only one who really knows the truth and that they're still just a baby. did this guy ever consider what it is that makes him so special that he just knows stuff without studying but somehow people three times his age who've studied their whole entire lives know nothing?
Yeah funny how he says everyone is just brainlessly regurgitating the lies they heard from the mainstream and at the same time he brainlessly regurgitates the biggest lie of them all: you can only be happy if you're rich and everyone can become rich.
From a teen to early 20's, I was like this guy, bitches, big house, fancy cars etc. Now I want a friend and a humble house. Aba is right, the older you get, the less you want all the fancy shit.
Like aba said: new pussy gets old. Bitches only means problem and noise. A big house only means more taxes, more stuff to clean and more empty space. Fancy cars need maintenance and lose more than 40% of their value by just rolling out of the dealership. More things doesn't mean better. A good loving partner, possibly some kids, a home, food and enough money to have holiday trips and projects that's all a man/woman really needs.
I want to be comfortable and have my loved ones around me. I also want a dog or two. I want to not worry about bills but I don't need to be flying to turks and caicos multpile times a year. I want to have abundance on my table and in my heart.
I’m just 23 and I want that. I’m totally satisfied where I think I am in life and where I’m headed. It doesn’t mean everything will easily fall in place, I still have to work to get what and where I want to be. But I’m satisfied knowing the real things I know will bring me happiness; family, friends, hobbies, experiences, fulfilling job, helping others… will not come from money, so im just trying to chill and enjoy the journey.
I can’t believe someone would think it’s disingenuous to agree with aspects and not fully subscribe to something. Where does your individuality come into play if you’re fully accepting one way to think? Applaud the level of patience Aba had here.
Or the other guy comes over so immature that it doesn't take much for Aba to come over real mature xD Nah Aba did great here, very calm and explaining, even giving the guy time to spew out his rants but cutting him short when explaining something. I wouldn't be able to to that, this guy is way to tiresome and brainwashed, ironically cause he accuses others of being brainwashed yet he truly believe Tate is some pussy god and all the shit the red pill guru's spew lol.
OR it's the young dude, who is immature well beyond his years... next to him aba sounds like the wise of the tribe. Though I think many men in thier 30s actually think like Aba. The young dude sounds like he stopped interacting with older people when he was 13.
Agreed. No hate to Sneako I used to rly like his videos, I think he’s an intelligent dude but he’s kind of lost himself. Aba respectfully showed he’s levels above this dude
Teenage mentality vs. Adult understanding, that's what this is. I'm 36 and every point Aba is making is speaking to me. Has always spoke to me since I was young. Yeah it'd be nice to be rich but I wouldn't be happy. I've seen it as I've grown up, Wealth and Fame doesn't equal Happiness. Having stability, the ability to make time for everyone you care, living a simple life brings more happiness then all the money in the world.
Jesus you all clown on him because of his age but spit the same talking points as aba. You're telling me a few extra in the bank wouldnt do anything for you? What if one of your family members was dying and that money was needed are you gonna sit here and say the same thing? Or if you're that happy then how about donating whatever you dont need to someone in need?
@@edwardrichard8093 How am I clowning him? He's 23, it's possible to still have a teenage mentality at that age, hell even I still had it up to 26. Also, I mentioned that it would be nice to be rich (or have a little something extra in the bank, maybe I didn't specify in my comment), but I'm working towards that now by sticking to my budget that I never stuck to when I was younger. Instead of making o0n the fly decisions with my money, I'm trying to make my money work for me when I earn my paychecks. As for having the money to keep family members from dying, I've already had plenty of family members die in the past from both sides of my family. Most importantly my Father, One of my 2 Aunts on my father's side, and just last year, my grandma. No amount of money could've saved them. But their memory lives on and they didn't have a lot of money but they made life memorable and happy. Money can't solve all those problems. And as for donating, I do it when I can never stated that I didn't, didn't think I had to but I do. Donating isn't for show, it's just to do a good thing Hell most people who do, don't make it a big deal and show off they donate. All the questions you've asked don't really effect people who understand that living life isn't about having money, it's about having the ability to learn grow, and have meaning experiences with people you care about. I don't need a legacy, I just need the experiences and the love of the people I care about for as long as I have the ability on this earth to have those things.
Sneako is 23 and Aba is 32, and I'm right in the middle at 28. But as someone who has 2 kids and had my first at 23 I completely agree with Aba. Your priorities change, and while it might sound "boring" to a young guy just tryna smash a bunch of girls becoming a dad has been the most rewarding thing I've done.
Sneako is slowly but surely losing his humanity, "being a dad is the most rewarding thing I've ever done" is apart of being a human and its one of the few things actually 'biologically hardwired' into our DNA (unlike most shit red pilled dudes would tell you), the fact that Sneako doesn't agree either means he's not old enough to have kids or he's not the kind of person who *should* have kids.
@@LethalByChoice what are you talking about lmao, most shit reds tell you have verifiable studies and evidence of being biologically hardwired but sure. Don't let being a dad give you "holier-than-thou" complex.
This makes me respect my elders more. They’re not clueless the way the world “works”. They just have other priorities. Once you have a family, there’s not enough time to fix the world. Just make sure your family is taken care of for as long as your breathing.
That's how it is when you're younger, you're idealistic, your ideas of your ability to make a difference in the world are a bit exaggerated, as you get older you become a bit more realistic, you can't change the world but you can make your corner of it better or worse that's in your control, that's up to you. There's nothing wrong with idealism, but when you come to the point where you realise that you can't really achieve it you can go 2 ways, realism (affecting small change on a small scale by doing good for those around you) or cynicism (give in and succumb to the every man for himself type mentality), sadly I think most end up jaded and cynical.
@@cptsteele91 it's not that you can't change the world or dont have the ability to. You kinda can, and some people do (tho only a limited amount of people have the ability to do so). The question is: do you want to? Is it worth the sacrifice? Being "someone" come at a price, and it's not always enjoyable
@@Miam_miam_la_gauffre Honestly everyone/anyone can change the world. It really just depends on how you measure that change. In other words if you're measuring it by the thousands of people affected or helped. Then, maybe not everyone can change the world. But if you measure it by only a couple of people. As well as small changes that lead them to a much more positive outcome. Then I'd say yes, everyone can change the world. The world isn't solely the people, but it is comprised of people (among other things). If you can change a couple people, then you've definitely made a difference. Regardless of whether it be big or small, it's different, it's changed.
@@bilalpickid8436 yep I 100% agree. And anyway we need both things: people who make big scale changes (find out cure for disease, invent new theory, push for big cultural change, become a figure to follow in a time of crisis) and little hero too. Helping a friend overcome depression is a pretty fcking "heroic" and amazing thing to do. I'm not old rly I'm not even 25 but I've been wrestling with the prospect of pursuing the big change or settling for the little one. I don't think there is wrong in doing either one of the two, it come down to personality in the end. Big up to all those who invest there time making the life of people around them a little better everyday 👌
The way he refuses what Aba is saying its like that scene where Peter Pan refuses to grow up, when u grow up and experience things first hand, not like how u imagine they should be or what u wish they where ur perspective around the world changes. When u grow up u understand that not every women or man are worth the trouble for a short period of extase, not cause u are getting old, or ur level of testerone are low its cause u measure ur time and live better so u wont get out of your way to distabilize that u just chill.
And is surprised that people don’t believe in everything people say when it comes to an Ideology but says people shouldn’t believe in everything when they’re being told something make it make sense
I’m 25, and listening to Sneako is a great way to remind myself to be humble. I enjoy watching Red Pill content, and seeing someone so blindly parrot everything that’s being preached by some RP creators is really eye opening…and concerning.
What most people dont realize is that when they look around, their house, their food, the things they eat with, computer, electronics, floors, roofs, even the people delivering the food to your house, didnt come from twitch influencers. Even when you are rich, you still need your cook, and construction mates, and many others in society. People like sneako think the world would function if everyone were a bitcoin investor, or a content creator. Sneako would not have his ac, kitchen, house, or anything whatsoever if it wasnt for blues in society.
Still waiting for your argument that he's closed minded.. You need to argue that what he believes isn't true AND that he believes it because of brain washing rather than simply being wrong
@@chrisallum9044 I got you, saying “no woman wants to settle down” and “everyone is divided” isn’t true, because if any of you red pill geniuses actually went outside you’d find direct contradictions to both of those beliefs. Division is created, because people make everything black and white and don’t listen to the other side’s grey area.
@@TheAlphawolf6 In the stream Sneako pointed out that atleast 50% of marriages end in divorce (which was actually a rather low estimate, since it's between 60 and 80), and approximately 70-90% of those divorced are initiated by women (alot of it is financial incentive, but there's multiple reasons). Just saying: "duhhh go outside, duhhh look at all the couples holding hands" type answer is not an adequate or reasonable reaction or solution to the red pill observations that Sneako is reporting. The family unit over time in modern history has definitively, become in trouble in comparison to previous generations, some of it is intentional (consequences formed via law), but alot of it is not. Some of the other issues mentioned by Sneako mention echo Marx alienation hypothesis (as accelerated by COVID conditions) and the low ratio-replication rate among Americans (America and some other Europen nations are not reproducing and generating enough to repopulate, *because* of these very family issues, which Asian countries have no significant issue with) It is fair to say that red pillers don't describe issues and problems in the best way, and that they do have character issues and struggles. But simply dismissing these as real problems is only a device to maintain normie psychological stability and balance, and hide everything under the blue pill bus. If you need to cope by not being aware of reality, that's one of the best copes that normies have invented, but it won't work for Sneako).
Aba: "Now that I'm older, I don't care about sex that much. I care about things that matter to me like my family like my niece and mom" Sneako: "Oh so you don't care about your balls anymore??" Listening to Sneako talk is a struggle
I used to talk to a kid at work who is smart like Sneako but is so fixated on certain themes and desires they cannot see past what people are saying, they think simply arguing is engaging with someone, but they do not realize they are simply arguing, not discussing. They believe everyone has an ulterior motive.
I see it like a kid arguing to an adult about why working is boring and that he doesn't need to learn how to read because eating candy is much more fun. Sneako talks about tradition as if he's going to go out and hunt animals for food and has to fertilize multiple women because nature calls for it or something lol. Cherry picking certain traditional things for his own benefit, similar to many of the women he criticizes.
My cousin would talk like this all the time. Last year I took him out backpack camping. Hiking out in the wilderness 13 miles. And we had to live out there for 2 weeks. No internet, just you and your skills. That experience humbled him so much. Internet can be such a terrible thing. There's so much more in this world you won't find on a monitor.
agree, many people think they are so strong because they see something in their computer but when they live the real thing they realize they don't know 💩.
@@kazzuo32 EXACTLY. He thought he knew all this bullshit that was irrelevant. I constantly had to have him find his next meal. How is he going to make his fire. Real men shit. By the end of the whole experience he was just in awe of how much all this societal bullshit meant. It means nothing. What matters most is your health. Strong family dynamics and a will to thrive. He's a completely different person now.
I couldn’t agree more with Aba. I think it’s about time as a society that we stop bouncing from one extreme to another. The truth is often somewhere in between. Sneako accuses Aba of sitting on the fence when in actuality he’s forming his own opinions on all matters. He’s respectful, discerning, reflective and modest. Aba is the true top G.
Aba, I'm glad you were able to talk to this young man. I saw myself in Sneako. In his mannerisms, talking over, nihilistic world views, etc..You're speaking like the big brother I wish I had. My uncle, the role model I looked up to the most, died suddenly when I was in elementary school, and the other men in my immediate family were/are beyond toxic (bullies, gaslighters, screamers, etc). You've helped me and I want you to know that I'm grateful that you're out here. I hope you see this and that you continue mentoring others. There were times that I considered killing myself, yet I decided against it because of people like you.
Glad you're still here brother. Growing up without a strong masculine role model as a young man is detrimental and hard to work past. Aba among other positivive manosphere content creators have helped me open up to new information/perspectives as well.
The people in the live chat are just so damn angry, at being invisible to women, that they're all about their anger and people like sneako keep telling these guys not to look at themselves but to blame women and everyone else. I'm 23, been invisible to women since I can remember, being angry about shit don't do nothing for you, it's pointless as the anger just festers
I couldn’t identify what i was experiencing back when i was a young girl because men brain washed me to believe that toxic behavior was love & was normal. It’s not and it’s not okay. If women are not treating men that cruel neither should they. Bullies, gaslighters and screamers (like rage yelling) is what i experienced & i am incredibly mistrusting of new people because of the abuse i experienced in my past. Men have used me & shamed me for being young. I have a good partner now & i pray he marries me & we have kids together. I’m tired of being screamed at, ordered around & demanded to clean up after men. This is probably why women keep our distance from men & men are angry and lonely. They make women not like them. It’s not women. It’s the way men treated women for so long
My dad grew up without real male role models and he's one of the greatest role models I have, even in showing me what not to do with his flaws. Trust me man, you'll be worth your weight in gold to your children one day stay strong brother.
It was really nice to see Aba try his best, meet him at his level, despite frustration. As a woman almost the same age as Sneako, I've met men struggling to get out of this mindstate. I try to be really open and have good conversations to understand and start some questioning at least, and get a bit more nuanced. But male role models will have more impact. But what I found is that there's some stuff here logic can't really solve, a lot of it is strong emotional responses that are hard to unlearn: fear, anger, and paranoia.
@@katmossa3503 15 year olds aint getting laid like that though and if they are, their mothers are still in the streets and their fathers are still out getting the milk in another state, from behind bars or in the ground
Honestly, in my 19 years of being here on this reality, I wholeheartly agree with Aba. I have been fortunate enough to live in a good family, have a good relationship, and contributing to the world in the way I value. Being rich is more than just having money, like SNEAKO said, its just numbers on a screen. To be actually rich, or wealthy, its more than just having money, its the abundance of love from those who matter most to you, its about the ability to take out your parents to dinner and not worry about the bill, its about being able give the cash in your wallet to someone begging by a traffic light. At the end of the day, we don't take money with us to bed, we don't take money with us to the afterlife, and we are more than just the money you make.
Yes, I agree. But the reason why a lot of young people or people in the red pill community following guys like Andrew Tate, or (back then) Dan Bilzerian, because they flaunting and flexing money and women. In this extreme capitalist society, no matter how f up you are, as long as you rich (or look rich), people would justify and listen whatever you do. It's all about Throne/Power, Money, and Sex.
this kid is SO hard to watch, but it's important to note that he is making so much money from people who follow his ideas. this is a great platform to point out the good and the bad and highlight just how grey the world is and no matter how hard you yell at someone it's not black and white, much love Aba for the patience
This guy is 100% correct. About the priorities and perspectives changing over time and I am not that old I am 22 and I already see some of that. But I will say you don’t need kids to see this change it just happens and I do believe some people aren’t meant to be parents..
I'm sad for him. That anger and hatred will erode him from the inside. Also it must be a nightmare to be in a relationship with someone that thinks the way they think is absolute truth and only think a person is being is genuine when they hear what they agree with.
Don't worry too much about him. He is still young and I think that deep down he means well. Just in a topical angsty teenager way. He will grow and learn
This interview showed how intelligent a young man can be without actually holding knowledge. Aba tried to explain "life" ten different ways. But the kid "didnt" want to get it.
Aba: watching your niece grow up and learn how to walk and say her first words is a really enriching experience. Shneako: so you have given up your balls? The rest of us: whaaaaaaaat
Why lie. Sneako said he agrees dat there are important moments on life he is just saying are you doing it because society claims it to be the proper mood of being or are you doing it because you understand
@@blackmanwithcomputer do you understand something is good because you intrinsically understand why it’s good or do you do so because society tells you it is and it’s a safety net for you and your understanding of how life should be
"My student loans are being paid off this week, I'm technically in debt." Is he implying that rich people don't have debt? Also good for him for getting his loans paid off that fast at such a young age, but that is not the norm for most people nor will it ever be.
Rich people stay rich because they manipulate debt! It’s not only used constantly; it’s encouraged for you to NEVER use your own money for business or projects. This kid is frustrating.
@@dreamersunlimited8005 Exactly. Most people get rich by selling shares, not by leveraging debt. Leveraging debt is how the wealthy stay rich, but without money it’s a recipe for bankruptcy
I think sneako is saying that he has more student loan debt than yearly revenue. Therefor he's technically in the negatives. Rich people dont have that large of a debt to revenue ratio, or else they wouldnt be rich. And they definitely don't have student loan debt which is different than credit card debt or stocks.
@@JJ808 There's no way. Watch from 19:55. He acknowledges he makes more than 6 figures and also says his student loans are being paid off *this week*. At 23 years old that's pretty good. Unless he misspoke and even if his yearly income is just above six figures that is more than enough to put large dents in student debt to pay it off in a couple years. Rich people can have student loan debt and still make bank - doctors go through years of schooling and rake in a large debt (~$200k on average) but when they get out they can quickly make up to 6 figures and pay it off quickly. Having large debt does not mean you aren't rich, no matter what type of debt it is.
@@vanh0lio I didn't interpret that as all of his student loans are being paid off this week. I thought he meant this week was the time he has to pay student loans? So I'm not too sure. But im just saying its possible he could make over six figures but his student loan debt is also six figures. Having that much debt compared to your yearly revenue doesn't make you rich In that moment. Doctors making 200,000 a year aren't "rich" if they have 200,000$ in debt. Especially if they intend on paying that debt off quickly. Paying 200,000$ off quickly, as you probably know, takes alot of money. Plus you still have bills, daily expenses, maybe children, etc. I would say the doctor in your example is moreso "well off". Ultimately I'm saying, if sneako still has mkoe than 100,000$ of student loan debt he could have a negative net worth.
I’m just at a loss for words. The entire conversation just has me at a loss. I commend Aba for trying to speak to this person, they clearly aren’t ready for this conversation yet.
You have to look at the young man and see that he is young. That his opinion is entirely shaped by his perspective, and that he is incapable therefore of anything else. So patience is not required, nor is forgiveness, one just understand that what he sees and believes is entirely a result of what is capable of seeing and that is determined in part by who he is but more so by where he is. If in ten or twenty years he has not progressed forget the patience, write him off. But for now he is like all of us mostly a product of where he is, of his environment. So save your exasperation and frustration for someone who could do better but does not, if the reasons justify it.
@@jasperlawrence5361 but i am younger than him and even i understand that my opinions and beliefs are only based on my limited experience which is why they could be completely wrong or change as i learn more information or get more knowledge about life. This dude, however, said it himself..that he feels like he knows EVERYTHING aka the "truth" and is reluctant to even LISTEN to what an elder has to say let alone changing his mind about his beliefs. At that point, is being young really an acceptable excuse for this kind of behavior?
I kind've feel bad for the guy. A lot of us say stupid/cringe shit in our early 20s but in 10 years this guy is still going to have this immortalised in front of hundreds of thousands of people.
The brutal irony of his mindset is he validates his entire masculinity by women and the consumption. He's actually the opposite because his identity is created by people outside of himself. It's actually hilarious. I've seen redpill rage this is a great example of redpill delusions
And in the previous video he went as far as calling other people essentially brainwashed and he has the power to “ wake them tf up” with his platform. He equates his masculinity to nothing more than his sex drive which is quite frankly the saddest thing I’ve ever heard. Calls others brainwashed while he’s clearly chasing women to validate his identity like the majority of young men in this era but thinks somehow he is so enlightened to the shortcomings of western societies when he is a prime example of said shortcomings.
You have the patience of a saint... Because there's no way in hell I would have sat through all of that and managed to keep my composure whilst being interrupted. My blood pressure is so high from watching this and I'm only 22.
@@Firstname_Surname Because some people are affected by what they see, hear, touch, smell, taste and feel. And sense. Even when it's someone else's life. Why are you moved to respond to someone else's life's response to someone else's life?
This young man is insanely arrogant. It's one thing to be confident in how you're living, but to talk about older men's motivations when he clearly didn't have their experience, is incredibly disrespectful.
the effort you put in "new pussy" is sometimes not worth the squeeze. especially after the deed, talking to a girl who has nothing to say gets really old. however, when i was early 20s cant blame him. youth is wasted on the young
Yes. I appreciate his honesty. This is what I like about conversations like this. Honesty speaking. I understand his frustration and his attempt to relieve his frustration with new sex.
8:05. Sneako has a lot of growing to do. If people always are expected to agree with every single point of a movement or group, the latter is a CULT. It is not disingenuous to agree with some things someone says but disagree with others
To be honest, depending on where he lives, those numbers are pretty close to poverty sadly. I mean with that kind of salary, I would barely survive in like London or Zurich or San Francisco.
@@sportyeight7769 granted, but he lives in the US and with the exception of certain cities you can live with that and even in LA or San Fran, you can still live with that, paycheck to paycheck, yes and with roommates but livable
It’s attainable in non huge cities and when budgeting appropriately. I’ve been there and over 100k in big cities and I much rather the 50k being able to be a stay at home mom and homeschool the kids than working making 100k or more and feeling less time and community. So it’s about priorities more so than $$
The irony of someone who calls others being brainwashed being brainwashed isn't lost on me. This man just shouts talkig points, doesn't listen just quickly after saying how good of a listener he is and how people can't formulate their own points
Everyone knew he was full of shit the second he just didn't answer Aba's YES OR NO question, "do you think soNso can agree with some point and not others" (yes or no) " I ThInK SoMe PeOpLe ArE BrAiNWaShEd"
When he was talking about people being brainwashed but also talking shit about others who don’t agree with everything a group says is so ironic. If u agree with everything under the sun no questions asked or adding ur own life experiences, you are the one being brainwashed. Yep
Aba: *gives heart felt speech about there being more important things in life then casual sex Sneako: "So you've given up on your balls?" bro that shit had me rolling
Sneako doesnt even realise that hes a male ho. Every man who wants to complain about women being cheap nowadays but talking about wanting to get mad P himself is the most unreflected, gross and vlaue deprived moron ever. He says women are unwiveable while being a dumb little child no real women of morals would marry too.
Dude when Aba is describing time w his mom and watching his niece walk for the first time, and Sneako’s response is so you’re giving up on your balls 🤦♀️ I’m dead.
I was thinking of the same thing but when you learn Santa ain’t real🤣🤣 and you as a kid are in such disbelief, like but who left the gifts under the Christmas tree!?
Sneako talks about people not thinking and being controlled because they just believe everything the mainstream says, but then he criticizes people that do not agree with the manosphere 100% of the time on everything said in the manosphere. Isn't just going along with everything that is being said without question being controlled? Wouldn't he want people to question what they hear and think for themselves?
I think Aba hit the nail on the head with this "get rich" bit. While I think it's fine to try to encourage people to have ambition, it's ultimately self defeating in this case. Part of why men nowadays are miserable is because you have people telling them that there's only one path to happiness; a path which is effectively unattainable to most of the people listening to this sort of thing. People need to teach them how to be happy with their lives.
@@troywalkertheprogressivean8433 By happy, I mean understanding that said system is not the single path to living well and to not feel miserable from falling short of it. Don't chase women just because some internet dude says you should or some lady shames you for not doing it. Do it if you want to or don't if you don't. At least don't feel bad if it's not your thing/ you have no interest in it.
It's sad because this reminds me of how people started rejecting the whole notion of "The American Dream", where all you needed was to just work hard, go to college, get a degree, work a normal job, and that was enough for you to live off well with a wife and a kid or two. Then younger generations caught onto the false promise and now they're being sold on another false promise: just go on social media and you'll make money and be happy.
"I talk to normies all the time on the train" Bro you're still just as regular as the rest of us. That's why Aba is a G. He doesn't look down on his followers or subscribers.
This kid illustrates the destructive effect of the likes of Tate and social media at large on young boys' minds. Glorifying the most shallow, idiotic, consumptionist, self-destructive lifestyle, the behaviour removing you from finding true sense the most. It's kinda sad actually.
Sneako makes it worse. With tate understandable with your point about women. But with Tate on masculinity and determination with self is a pretty good take. Sneako is just a worse version of Tate. Sadly he’s been going downhill for a few years now.
On the brightside, whenever you corrupt somebody with ideology ("I found these rules, learn them or get left behind") you also provide them with a long-term invitation to wisdom, as they hobble around life trying to apply it to everything and find it falls short.
Lmao right 🤣 like I want a family and also a stripper for the house to bring me things. Same as explaining healthy eating to a kid. Like "when you're an adult little timmy you can't just spend all your money to eat candy for dinner, eating vegetables and drinking water is good so you don't get a tummy ache"
Dude really thinks the reason men want to spend time with their family and not with women having sex is because their testosterone is lower like we're only defined by how high our testosterone is like we're robots lol
@@Maleetorres105 the fact that you are not spending on candies anymore is because you are scared! You grew up because you are too afraid to stay as a kid! Real kid eats candies!
Hats off to Aba for this one. Speaking to this individual would be incredibly minding numbing. Lacking the basic understanding of economics and ignoring reality really shows how much of a box Sneako's mind is in.
“I get pissed off when people have more than me. Why can’t I have that?” So you’re basically pissed off all the time (there’s always someone who has more than you). And this is his formula to ‘happiness’.
funny that I saw his "debate" with Destiny that he said he wasn't a materialistic guy and that he isn't a male version of kim kardashian... lol. If this is not the prime definition of materialistic, I don't know what is.
The whole “red pill vs blue pill” argument is very reminiscent of the whole “democrat vs republican” politics we play in the US. Choose a side, don’t call out anything they’re doing wrong, and to hell with logical discourse.
Not to mention being incapable of acknowledging any truths in the other’s statements, it’s possible for both groups to be correct on different topics, not one is right and one is wrong
@@ohmyg1932 well THAT IS what I AM SAYING. As they testosterone lowers they begin to COPE and act more like females and attack what they once themselves were. (Instead of being objective and correlate the change in attitude to the change in hormones AND NOT ASSUME the change is good) Then they begin to gaslight the world like females do instead of facing the fact they are themselves diminished and acting differently on account of that. It is a natural shame in a day and age where they can take hormones to fix that. Also before your feminist ass disparages that. FEMALES been on hormones for decades EVEN at the expense of female horses (look it up) but god forbid a man does the same for himself 🤦🏽♂️ U r baked n done my guy
@@seetheanimal5867 1) You're assuming things about his body when you should not be, and 2) it's not your body, so it's not your concern even if his testosterone were to be low. Maybe you mean something else but are using the word testosterone as an umbrella term. Either way, grow up.
This man is so deluded it's actually quite scary. The ranting, the whole "If you don't agree with EVERYTHING the red pil community preaches you're being disingenuous to avoid being cancelled."... Yo, if this man doesn't chill out, he might just spiral out into becoming a legit antisocial guy. Even Andrew Tate doesn't believe everything he says since half of what he says is him just trolling or pandering.
Andrew Tate makes a point, repeatedly, to say he us very deliberate in what he says and his choice of words and he believes everything he says. But he's not a man that's even trying to change the game, he's just sharing his view and he wants to be famous. And now he kinda is. But the view of the world when you're worth about a quarter billion is a very different thing indeed.
Took the words right out of my mouth. Sneako is in the second stage of being Red Pill: anger aka RP rage. He'll eventually get out of it....or maybe he won't.
I'm not sure it's red pill rage. People are upset about how society has turned. These last 10 years have been horrendous, especially after tiktok. People hate the system. I can't blame em. I feel it, and life is easy mode for me compared to 99% of people. I never HAVE to work a day in my life, I could bum out and I still will have a roof over my head and enough money to buy whatever I want. And I still feel it. We just f'd things up, and the basic idea that you can find a person, settle down, have a decent life is gone for most people. With all of my necessities met, the best I have to look forward to right now is... Nothing. And that's a hard pill to swallow. And sneako, he's somewhat made it now, and he can see, it's an empty meaningless rat race ahead...
Aba is a grown man, Sneako is a boy. Aba is the kind of man a real woman wants to build a family with, to make his family name great, to build a legacy. We love you ABA!!!! lol
@@jk8301 why are you assuming every woman is like that? Even if it's we woman don't like men who bangs every pussy or girl but we woman don't complain about those men because it's their life and their choice
Right. Any father searching for a suitable man for her daughter would never choose Sneako. He’s just leaking immaturity, lacks integrity, his morals are degraded, he’s a follower not a leader, he dodges rom accountability like the matrix, uplifts dereliction when it comes to women, etc. Ava is far from perfect but on the surface Aba is going to be the clear choice in comparison to most of the guys with podcast
The fact that he fails to accept something as simple as “everybody can’t be rich because that would mean that no one’s rich” is telling as to how deep into his own way of thinking he is. Basic logic is an argument with him.
@@vegbeg9170 I'm not even American hhhh bruh you are dumb ash all these rich ppl worked for what they have seek more knowledge and experience that's why immigrants come to America and make it while the lazy fuckers are engaged in politics and they don't know even the basic shit
So let me get this straight... He doesn't like when people "swallow everything" that is presented to them when it comes to information or facts... But, he's also angry with the people who say "I don't agree with everything" because to him it's just a way of them voicing their own opinions on the matter? So, he doesn't like when people DON'T swallow everything that he says to them? So he doesn't want people to think for themselves about the information/facts that he's giving them? Wow... just wow...
He’s not as smart as he thinks he is. One of the elements of emotional and mental intelligence is being able to logically critique your thoughts and POVs and be willing to change when you find out there are flaws with your POVs.
Yup pure definition of Narcissistic -' I don't like when you do what I say when it defies me but I will also not like it if you did the thing I hate as well.' A person like this you can't please unless you just kiss his a$$. And again is just from his talking a kid who was privileged to be born into a financially stable family and thinks he did all the hard work for it.. The KK Generation - Kim Kardashin Influence Generation - bless their hearts.
It is impossible for “everyone” to be rich. Economically impossible. Somebody has to flip burgers, fix cars, and keep this economy running. This dude is just young and I honestly wouldn’t waste my breath explaining such a basic economical fact.
Age isn’t a direct correlation to understanding concepts. Just look at Andrew Tate who is significantly older and still he says similarly ridiculous statements but more so to garner attention
If everyone is rich you know we're all fucked. If everyone has $5m does anyone think burgers still stay $5? Maybe Aba was trying to tell Sneako you dont got enough life experiences to know everything and listening to Andrew Tate or whatever red pill platform doesnt mean its always the truth which Sneako believes. Red pill = only the truth everything else is wrong. Sneako could be a flat earther for all we know because it's what the elite wants you to know.
That's if being rich is holding a lot of money. The roaring 20s was a thing. It's the constant exchange of money that determines economic growth and decay. By nature the amount you'd have fluxuates but everyone was gaining greater access. I'm not an economist, but it seems obvious that less work equates to less value, less exchange, thus lower economy. The starting point is 0 and the negatives are debt, but the goal would be everyone spending money to get into and out of debt.
@@iraizo5843 I think it has less to do with age and more so the fact that he lives a very abnormal lifestyle. Most people do not make their money off youtube, making thousands a month (i'm assuming) or at the very least not having to struggle as much as the common person. Sneako lives on the internet, the internet is his job.
The most frustrating thing about this conversation is the realization that no matter how much wisdom or logic you present to some of these young adults it will not stick until they come across some life changing experience themselves. You're literally speaking to a brick wall sometimes. The real hope is that some of that spoken wisdom will revitalize after they've reached a certain maturity.
it will hit them eventually. Aba planted the seed. So when this dude's lived experience starts to line up with what Aba said he will be able to change course 4-5 years earlier than he otherwise would have. kinda like when we all said "yeah.. you were right mom/dad. I get it now" about any number of subjects
At a certain point in life he'll remember this & kick himself for not listening sooner. I know I did. I imagine there are many people listening who where the same.
This is an amazing conversation representing what it is like going from becoming a grown man. Props to Aba. It's like seeing an 18 year old self meeting themselves at 30
Thanks for this Aba. As a 30 year old male who's expecting my first baby next week, I've been obsessed with trying to make as much as money as possible even though I'm already over the 50k mark. I have a wife, home, stable job and good friends and family. You've opened my eyes a bit to stop chasing something that might not happen anytime soon and just take in everything that's happening around me. Really needed to hear this!
hey who knows, keep that eye keen enough and an opportunity may just fall right into your lap. congrats to your new family bro, i hope the goings good!
Ay man good on your for realising this, But always strive for better or more, there's nothing wrong with that(coming from a dad at 21 who's broke af at 28 but still fighting) good luck with the new baby man, happy to talk about dad shit if you need 👍
Hey man what state are you living in that you can live that well off of 50k? Cause I’m in NJ and making 65k and still have to fucking rent an apartment. 😂 seriously you trying to get some new neighbors?
Yeah don't be like that Cats in the Cradle song. That bay needs all of you and as we all have seen babies are entertained with just boxes, so don't feel pressured to get them the best of the best.
No offense and I don’t know where u live exactly. But 50k in your opinion is good money ?? If u can make it work with that - then great, but there is not a lot of places in America where 50k (especially with a baby on the way) can give u a comfortable living
Sneako: The whole system is rigged ! Also Sneako: Everybody can get rich It's impressive how much talking Sneako can do without listening to shit Aba says
Yeah that's what I thought too. Like bruh, not everybody, and anybody, for that matter, can get rich. If someone is getting rich, someone else is getting poor. You can't make money out of nothing, and if you do, that currency gets devalued, ironically making him less rich. Even if he said anybody can get rich if tried, it wouldn't be true neither. That requires rational thinking and problem solving, and not everyone is gifted with it. Normal distribution of pretty much everything is a thing for a reason. Some people are 85 IQ while others are 115 IQ, and both this numbers belong to an "average" spectrum. That's some basic logic, which he lacks.
Loved this convo. This was like watching a 20 year old version of myself argue with me now at 29. And believe me, I don’t have less energy or testosterone now (probably more). Sneako isn’t neccessarily wrong either, but he needs some experience and perspective in order to apply himself in the right way.
Yeah. One thing he was right for sure is media has been trying to divide people extra hard about 5 years now. Of course it has been longer but the current headlines and tactics are so shameless.
Yeah I agree, I think sneakos biggest problem is applying what he’s learned, like it’s one thing to say everyone can get rich, it’s another thing to teach everyone or show people the resources they can use, from small things like building a good relationship with your back, to credit control, to bigger things like putting property in a trust or learning forex or stock options.
I think a lot of young people don't realize that adults in monogamous relationships can still be horny & have a healthy sex life. There's a lack of positive role models, including healthy happy couples, both in media & in real life. There's also a lack of transparency about what being an adult is actually like, including regular sex. I just saw a bit tweet about a leaflet somone got after hip surgery, saying what sex positions were best & people were loosing their minds like the fact that most grown adults sill have sex was shocking. I think it was Aba who said in a past video that if one guy has sex with 2 new women a week, Vs a guy having sex with his gf 5 times a week, the second guy is actually having more sex. I think a lot conversation around sexual conquests is more about ego, self esteem & emotions than just sex.
I'm 43. All that stuff Sneako is talking about, wanting to slay twice as much and do the whole Heff thing? Done it. Had a "harem," or a "roster" of on-call booty? Had it. Top earner, 90th+ percentile? Been there. And it's a lot of fun, without question. But watching my daughter graduate college? So much better. Being able to be there for my friends and family, and my fellow man? More fulfilling. Having a ton of money and getting a mountain of p***y? Overrated. Read a little Epicurus, or Lao-Tzu. Broaden your mind, deepen your heart. Grow up and learn that being a man is about more than bi***es and money. Not everyone prioritizes those things. Doesn't mean you "gave up your balls," it means you know what you really want. Hopefully Sneako understands that as he experiences more of life, hopefully he will prioritize and achieve wisdom as opposed to trying to be a caricature of masculinity.
He’s basically saying that the average person can potentially become rich. Not saying that I agree or disagree with that but that’s how I interpreted it
@@Jay_draco true but aba is saying its ok to be happy to not be filthy rich and its ok to work a job that you may not make as much. There's the potential for anyone to do a lot of things but the point aba is making is not everyone will and you can be perfectly happy as an average dude because if you tell everyone that they can get rich it opens up the door for a lot of disappointment if you can't have all this money and most won't.
I'm 22, very young but mature in a sense where I understand what Sneako says, but growing up relatively poor forced me to understand my conditions irrespective of the socio economic issues my country faces and the corruption involved (South Africa). I knew I had to stay grounded and make little steps to improve myself so that I may help other people around me, not indoctrinate, but help I grew up quicker, experienced quicker, listened better to people older than me because I know I knew nothing. The more I know the more angry I get but the more I listen the more I understand what people have to do on this corrupt world to survive and live a better life. But I need to be more like ABA, patient and not hot headed. I am guilty of that and I need to improve on in it.
Exactly. The age isn’t an excuse. I’m 23 and my mindset is more like aba. I outgrew whatever phase snecko is going thru rn at age 17. I was also poor. I wonder if that’s a big variable to said outcome
Yeah, the way Sneako says "everyone can be rich" just shows he's young. Him saying "I'm paying my student loans this weeks" somehow didn't bring him to the question:"How many people have to pay their student loans until they are 30/40?". And not everything is America, in other places you can legit not be able to afford to have a good education. And just having internet by itself doesn't fix it. Though it was a great thing for me in my career as well I understand that I had time to learn and get a better job instead of having to work since young age to pay bills. And on top of that some of the best knowledge I had I've got from specialized courses that cost money (and a lot). I also had parents who taught me how to act with money, not to spend them recklessly, so I would put them to something better some time after. And at the age I am now I become humble enough to get that I'm being really lucky, not everyone is as lucky as me. I believe this guy also wasn't born in a cardboard box in the streets with no parents, he had some things that led to his success that not everyone could've had. Just being born in America is actually hell of a privilege, because the country itself is rich and has a lot of money flowing around. Your opportunities as an American citizen is far better than let's say being born in Ukraine and face a full size war in your 20th. Or being born in some poorer country, or being born in s country with closed borders.
Nice seeing a fellow South African 👌 I'm also 22, and i also take up experiences from older folks and implement them in my life, I usually try to avoid high risk and low reward activities...I don't smoke and I occasionally drink...but my socio-economic status seems to be holding me back in my dating life, so I temporarily gave up on it (maybe I will settle in my mid 30s)...on the positive side I'm doing pretty good in my academics and I got a cool group of friends we hold each other accountable....I know things will work out in the near future
Well said brother. Pretty much in a same situation and I completely am in with all your sentiments. I have nothing more to add and Ibwish you luck on your journey.
I have to say i respect Abba so much for having the patience to speak to this dude. I remember being young and dumb but i could atleast accept that people grow with experiences..well tried Abba !
Facts this young Brotha needs to listen 👂 I had to learn that the hard way I was fired from a job and The Cook County sheriffs served me foreclosure papers, I was able to get another Job, And my boss gave me the overtime days because I needed $5000.00 to keep my home so me and my wife and kids wouldn’t be on the streets, that situation humble me and matured me, to listen more and talk less
Yeah this guy is literally a steam roller. His perspective on getting older is funny af because he doesn’t understand the concept of maturity because he just wants to fuck everyone
This young man’s parents never told this young man ‘no’ and is the prefect reason why getting your information from social media is bad. He seems entitled, lack interpersonal skills, is demanding and, spews conspiracy theories. My 23 year old son shared this video with me and highlighted how much this young man represents many out there.
@@dememo664 The joke is that he's the type of person to whine about vain girls who are only out for money. But with that mindset these are the only ones he's ever going to attract. Which is of course great for him, financially wise. Because then he can whine about them till he's 50.
This kid is funny bro… the fact you had the patience to stay talking to him while he continued to look at the world’s “problems” from the moon… is admirable to say the least.
He did say he was angry like him soo I can tell he’s trying to change his mind even know that’s prolly impossible with sneako… like sneako being saying “look at the bigger picture” was like “shi maybe I should” but then aba says “what Cannn We Do”
The schools are open...what is he talking about - everything is open - dudes go to the gym together, play ball together - maybe if he lifted his face from a device and/or screen and walked outside, he'd notice
@@mim4ety100 Exactly, part of this "all women are thots" mentality is literally laughable, they are seeking out those type of women. I was talking to a guy the other day who said all women on Instagram are half naked or doing porn, not realizing he was outing himself for choosing to only follow those type of accounts/women!
@@mim4ety100 the first comment and this. Like, if you wanna avoid this then stop looking for those type of women. Sneako, you had a good gf back then but you let her go due to your cheating with a wrong type of girl, and now you're stuck with chasing n bothering toxic women because you were too bitter to own your mistake.
Full Debate on Shneakos Channel. Link in the description. TimeStamps 0:00 Jidion Vs Pokimane. Holding Ourselves Accountable. 5:40 Yall Are Afraid of Being Cancelled. 10:00 Growing Older & Priorities. Chasing Skits gets Old 18:30 Everyone Can Be A High Value Man. We Can All Be Rich
Sneako seems holier than thou. He knows it all. If he wears Nike or owns apple products, he's contributing to it. I can break it down to the minimum, so he needs to chill. He's maroon pilled. Too far gone.
Can a world with the internet exist without manipulation? Endless context with no real voice above the others to create context? The world would likely fall into chaos. We as a whole are not evolved enough to responsibly handle the amount of technology that is in the world. Look what happens once people start waking up, we have teacher shortages, fast food shortages, retail worker shortages, etc. Everyone realizing they deserve better all at once and look at what's happening. Most of us need to be asleep in order for the world to keep spinning. The messed up part is, the world likely would fall apart if we weren't getting our hands held by big brother. Maybe we could let it fall apart, millions die, new regimes...sounds like fun...psychos. Honestly what's the alternative to this? There's at least the illusion of freedom, idt you guys want to go back to the wild wild west, people aren't civilized, they're domesticated, take that away and we'll become animals again.
Going from a young man to a father is not beta at all. Guys that prioritize their family is actually the greatest alpha thing a man can do. Make fathers great again
The idea of aplha and beta was borrowed from the studies of wolf packs (in zoo's). But wolf packs in the wild are mainly family. And the alpha is always the father. But alpha wolves share their status with their mate, the alpha female. This means that the female never submits and also makes decisions for the pack. The beta wolves consist of the young and sometimes integrated wolves who take over the leadership of the departments, so to speak. Then there are subordinate wolves. Often these are former alphas who now mainly take care of the rearing and protection of the puppies. An extremely important job in the pack. The omega wolf actually acts like a scapegoat. In fact, Omega wolves are often escaping this harassment and forming their own pack. AS ALPHA WOLF.^^
the original experiment they did in studies about "alphas" in the animal kingdom found that the alpha was actually just the father wolf that led a healthy family & acted as its leader, protector ... its literally so silly all these fake "alphas" think fatherhood inherently makes you less of a man, it doesn't mean you will become like Will Smith at all
@@Jezzebel1313 The highly-respected researcher who coined the term "alpha" to describe wolves, David Mech, retracted the study that supported his Alpha theory. On his website, he wrote: “This is the study that gave rise to the now outmoded notion of alpha wolves. That concept was based on the old idea that wolves fight within a pack to gain dominance and that the winner is the 'alpha' wolf.”
i don't get why people get mad at someone for not fully supporting one side or "riding the fence". You dont have to fully agree with one side or the other to be genuine. Both sides make good points, but they also both say some dumbass shit sometimes. So i will never fully agree with one side over the other.
It's because of their ego, they know better than you in their mind so if you don't agree then you " don't think " according to him. He is spouting that everyone is being lied to and manipulated while he is doing the same thing to people.
"Everybody can be rich."
If everyone is rich, then no one is rich. Everyone is the same. Rich means you have more than the average. If the average catches up to the rich, then the rich are now part of the average, making the rich not be a thing.
if everyone is rich... thats a socialist outcome. ironically.
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I think he meant to say anybody can potentially be rich, not that everyone can be rich simultaneously. That's the only logical way I can make sense of it anyway
Pin of logic
@@jaheim2571 psychologists say no. It requires problems solving and reasoning ability, and that seems to be dependent on more than mere motivation and nurture.
Listen to:
Lex Fridman Podcast - Richard Haier - Ep. 302
Aba: gives a long heartfelt speech
Sneako: so you’ve given up on your balls?
That's Sneako's whole problem. He already had that question in mind while Aba was speaking, so he didn't even take the time to understand what Aba said before asking that.
he’s speaks more from his ego than himself yet call’s himself a man lol
I thought you were parodying Sneako, but I just got to the point in the video where he actually said that. Wow. He has so much maturing to do.
I actually laughed when he asked him that. Sheesh, his maturity level is that of a 14 year old. How old is he btw?
@@kiarieray5975 21
I never thought watching Aba speak to a brick wall for 37 minutes could be so entertaining, but here we are
I mean a brick wall would actually talk less so that’s not fair to brick walls
It's hard to believe somebody can be as dumb as this guy is and still be smart enough to learn how to manipulate social media.
😂
@@XxcrimsonarrowxX 😂😂
@@XxcrimsonarrowxX brick walls ain’t streamers though
When radicalization meets balance. "if you're not with us, you're against us."
I think Sneako means well, honestly. 10 years from now, more than likely if he looks back on this debate he'll cringe at his younger self.
Or he'll buckle down, stay the same. Who knows.
@@jelruv6721 only time will tell. But for must of us, we outgrown the angsty "will save the world from the 1%" teenager phase. We just accept the world and try to better our situation and community. I can't be mad at the young sneako, he's just passionate about is fellows men and wants better things for the world but he's simply misguided.
@@jelruv6721 lol, that is true.
One can either sink or learn to swim in life. Lets see where he goes.
Hopefully
Let's hope... Or that or he maintains the narcissistic aspect of his, and let's get honest, narcissism is the real pandemic happening.
Bro the thing that kept getting under my skin was when Aba was explaining that he gets more fulfillment from spending time with his family over sleeping around and having Sneako trying to devalue that by saying he’s getting old and tired and losing his balls as a man. That shit is mad disrespectful and rude. Who tf is he to try and make less of a man who values his family. Not only that but trying to argue against that and say that shit is boring means shows he puts so little value in family relationships. Trying to say chasing bitches is more of a value than taking care of your family, spending time with your nieces and nephews, and even trying to simply the relationship a father has with his children to just some macaroni drawing on a fridge is the craziest shit I’ve ever heard.
Little boy with money views vs real life men outlook . He a boy don’t take it personal . It’s his perception.
Yet he’ll watch his gf get fucked by another man, that’s mental. Spending time with family is miles better then meeting different women or doing dumb shit like clubbing or hangin w dodgy friends
This is a prime example of the importance of having a positive male role model in your life. My dude made an internet opportunist his role model and is making himself look so dumb right now.
He seems dumb.
and being a fan of Aba is different? LOL ok dude.
@@Threelegs94 go to bed lil bou
@@Threelegs94 lol it's hella different little guy 🤣
why he dumb cause he think different? lol go to pakistan and call everyone dumb because they hate lgbt
Sneako sounds like the type of guy who thinks that every nail needs a hammer, and fails to recognize that in some cases a nail sticking out of wood might just be a place to hang your hammer.
Not every problem has an obvious solution, and some obvious solutions lead to more problems.
Good quote
Pretty good saying, gonna steal it from you dude 😂 thx
He's saying we ought all try. He's right. You don't find the solution by giving up without trying. Sure not everyone will be a good one but all the ones that don't try fail.
@@chrisallum9044 no one's telling you to give up tho 😂
Imma start quoting this
Aba is so mature and we definitely need more men on his level on platforms who can provide balance.
Coz he’s in his 30s, it’s normal to be mature at that age lol
@@tekkertruth1256 But suprisingly certain are still not most than others.
Exactly, most mature men could careless about internet buffoonery
Facts And Sneako will learn this when he gets older I’m very near Shaq age, And your mindset becomes different I was Sneako age and I talked to much when I hit my 30’s I learned to listen and mature more now I’m 46 years old and married 24 wonderful years and in 10 more years I can retire from my job with A pension and 401K but it took me listening and less talking and it took me taking accountability for my wrong doing
It’s amazing that men with opposing ideas have discourse and can talk and disagree about things. Women on the other hand are just a monolith and don’t have a mind of themselves other than what society tells them
Let me make this pledge:
"I want to come and show sneako this video after 7 years when he's 30 and watch him laugh at himself"
Somebody please remind me later
Friendly reminder you got 6yrs 11 months
I dont see this coming. He is very closed minded.
@@TheZabidoll We'll see.
6 years 10 months
He'll be exactly the same at thirty. He's the type to be fifty and surrounded by nineteen year-olds looking for the bag! More power to him, if that's what he wants. 🤷🏾♀️
This is like watching a dad trying to talk some sense into his adolescent son who thinks he’s always right but is wrong 99% of the time
I watched this and I realise now this is what it must've been like for my dad trying to talk to 14 year old me 🤣
The worst thing is, this guy is already 23, but still sounds like a teenager
I feel bad for the guy he’s literally what he describes that he hates and despises “brainwashed.” There’s things I dislike about the world but now that I’m much older and understand so much more the things that people understand the sense of them. Real life will never be sunshine and rainbows there’s things that happen we don’t want to do, have to do, and hate to do for society to function. Sneakos ideology doesn’t understand basic things and it’s alarming.
this comment is giving me flashbacks of my and my mother 20 years ago. i was so stupid.
LOL spot on
The level of narcissism is mind-numbing. This person's going around thinking that he knows better than everyone else. Much respect for Aba's level of patience.
That section where Aba was talking about how watching his niece walk and talk felt more reward then bangin a new girl, and Sneako with "you given up on your balls?" Like, wtf? This kid keeps this level of narcissism up he is gonna get brain damage.
It's sad watching him go downhill like this. I remember watching him years ago, and how intelligent & mature he seemed, now he's just a boy filled with hate that thinks he knows better than everyone.
@@shanegrayson7068 he been watching too much Andrew hate 😂😂😂 this how most the young dudes is man and I’m only 26. Start going around like they’re top dawg relaying verbatim the words of these redpill content creator without putting in a ounce of self work to become who they want character wise. That’s why you got successful dudes with money who are still corny as heck and gotta bash the shorties because at the core money and status can’t fix a corny character and they are still filled with hate from their pass rejections of the women who didn’t want them… so now you got this entitled “i got money and success every women should want me” and tho they will be women readily available considering they have a good amount of security and perceived status they are still bitter and hurt inside because I’m not sure if you know but some women are good at seeing through a facade and know when a man is quote on quote lame ….. I mean look at fresh and fit … I think the majority of us fellas with a rational mind can see how corny they are at the character.
I think its an insane level of arrogance and ego over his narcissism. . He's very narcissistic but I think his arrogance and ego is next level.
I thought I had patience but this is a new level of patience displayed by Aba
Watching this really showed me what it's like for an older man with responsibility trying to teach a young buck a few things he is not ready for. These young kids today are not even close to to understanding life thru our eyes. I had children at Sneakos age. No way could he handle that responsibility the way he acts.
“Everybody can be rich if they have a phone”
Sneako used his phone to learn how to become a streamer. What Sneako did not do, is use his phone to figure out how to get lucky enough that the Twitch algorithm pushes his stream over others.
You are entitled to equal opportunity, but you’re NOT entitled to equal outcomes.
Underrated comment ☝🏾
Best comment ever
You aren’t even entitled to equal opportunity. Some people are born blind, or with mental illness, or get murdered by their parents as a kid or are born in a country without clean water.
“You are entitled to equal opportunity, but you’re NOT entitled to equal outcomes.” This is absolutely B R I L L I A N T. One of the single best sentences I have read in my entire life.
B
Sneako is literally that "young guy who figured out the whole world already and you can't tell me anything" archetype.
College mentality, when not in college. Hopefully he can develop ok but most students don't have so many people listening & praising them. I'm concerned for his development, hopefully he chooses to interact with the world & he can progress, him being willing to talk to Aba is a good sign.
@@NotAnotherKuromi but is he listening??
Give him 10 to 15 years.
He says no one else has anything original to say, and ironically all of his talking points are shit I've heard 100 times from the red pillers that came before him, who now, 5 or 10 years later don't give a shit about any of that
@@dieudonneenooitmeer4653 Not really we change every 7 years and brain maturity ends at 28 on average so give him like 6 years if he's 22 right now.I'm a completely different person from just a few years ago.
This is an example of a boy who thinks he's smarter than everyone vs a man who've experienced life and knows what he's about. Don't hate on sneako. It's part of his process to becoming who he really is.
I think you can critique sneako and it not be hate but we definitely should realize he is still growing into a man and he will have some bad moments in the process as most of us older men have
@@MichelangeloBeats exactly 💯
Exactly lol he will eventually grow out of this
Great comment, should be pinned.
I was exactly like that at his age. It's understandable.
The issue with these "Man-o-sphere" people like Sneako, Andrew Tate etc. Is that in order for them to make a living they need an endless supply of depressed, sad, angry men. So they're incentivised to keep their audience aka customers unhappy by blaming everyone else for their issues.
And this is why for me, that shit is 100% phony. Those guys are making up and painting issues so they can provide the "solution". Give the poison and give the cure. Those guys are only in for themselve, they probably don't even believe half of what they are saying. They are creating a space/market where they can be the 1% of 1%.
100% agree, I think the younger people like Sneako don’t really realize this yet though. I’m not well versed at all on “Man-o-sphere” creators, but have seen the crazy impact they’ve had on the youth. I truly hope a genuine creator can blow up and actually push young men in the right direction and provide some light in the whole toxicity of social media.
In a way they’ve created their own “matrix” so to speak. All I want to know is, are they going to be as willing to “help” young impressionable men if there’s no profit to be made?
Oh really? How do you know Tate wouldn't be successful in another way? Are you a clairvoyant?
@@mattm7426 hair brained response 💀
Sneako is the epitome of "missing the point." Not everyone is going to win. Hard work does not guarantee success. Most business ventures fail within their first 5 years. That doesn't mean give up. It just means, calm tf down cause nothing is certain.
Isn't it like 20% of small businesses fail within their first year?
Ironically, something that Sneako could also learn from, is that to guarantee a better financial outcome it's wise to do a lot of research before reaching a conclusion, stick to what you know & are passionate about, as well as learn from those who went before you.
@@NotAnotherKuromi correct, 20% within the first 1 to 2 years. Around 50% in the first 5. Great points.
The way I see it ,hard work might grant you the access to the starting line, that's about it. Thinking that work will bring us success is comforting, but reality is much more chaotic.
This..
Sneako a little bit reminds me of myself back in 2020 when I was 18 and I became a little red pill manosphere weird and then when the whole Aba And Preach vs Freak and Fit boy was happening. I realize that all that ideology was ridiculous ,but I did learn quite bit about looking around at both Feminists and Red pill fools realized they both have the same argument and lie a lot
All valid criticisms aside, I'm praying for this young man and I commend Aba for trying to be a good elder here both for Sneako and his followers.
I'd be interested in viewing a conversation between you and Aba.
I thought you aint like aba and the preacher?
You guys realise that Sig actually caused A and P to self reflect and get rid of some vids.
@@kgonzalez8098 that's sad. Sig can have nuggets of wisdom, but in general he's a fool who continues the race hustle.
One thing I can respect is even though you will criticize A&P in issues that you view as problematic, you are still willing to look at them with a level of nuiance and understand their redeemable qualities from a "left leaning" perspective.
Reality has yet to hit this guy. He operates on such extremes. Black or white. Many of us think we know everything in our early 20s when it couldn't be further from the truth. He'll learn eventually. Aba showcased the patience of a saint here.
This kid much like his idol Andrew Tate reminds me of the Christian Bale character in American Psycho. Andrew Tate is the culmination of the worst of the manosphere. These guy's have all been hurt by a woman rejecting them at some point. You don't need lessons from a pick up artist. Most of these guys are so pint up and in a rush to get their nut off when they approach women it comes off ass desperate or awkward. They just need to observe the atmosphere and find the woman that best suits them. Not all women are the same. Some are T.H.OT.S and play the field, but that's not all women. This guy and many others in the manosphere are the epitome of the quote "Hurt people Hurt other people"
@@jjscrilla3558 I don’t agree with a lot of shit Andrew says but he’s a grown ass man lol if that’s how he chooses to move he can, he’s Atleast lived thru soem shit. Sneako hasnt. He’s legit a product of his era and social media. He needs to be accountable for his own thoughts and views which he will be eventually
@@BasedBurrr Andrew Tate is going to do what he pleases no matter what. But just like Sneako it stop just being about them as an individual when they opened a social Media platform and began to sell or give destructive advice to the masses that may negatively affect a society of impressionable followers. Many people have been through a hell of a lot that are older than Tate. As an example, just because someone was molested as kid by an adult does not make it ok for them to repeat the same behavior. Just because an older person grew up in an era where it was ok to call someone a racist name, does not make it ok to do that now.
@Johnny Dougboy so then every man is the same?
I absolutely applaud Aba for the amount of patience he has and for not giving up on explaining his points, lol
At least you tried to talk some sense to him
He's a very kind person.
Agreed, he’s a patient and compassionate individual.
Aba is really articulate and is really good at navigating through the conversation and preventing things from spiraling into absurdity
Very good
Cause he’s a good listener
@@MylesKillis it's because he's a badass
@@Aki-kh2qe-StreetKidZZZ ehhh slow down there cowboy
So true
Define Irony : someone claiming to be "awoken" and saying how everyone is being brainwashed and controlled fails to see how they are being brainwashed and controlled .
Wonder when people like him will realize that knowing everyone is controlled doesn't mean they're awakened, but that they're a lucid dreamer
No slave in history was instantly free the moment they said "hey maybe I'm a slave", they were just slaves that knew they were 👀
no 23 year old is smart enough to stop and think about how weird it is that they're the only one who really knows the truth and that they're still just a baby. did this guy ever consider what it is that makes him so special that he just knows stuff without studying but somehow people three times his age who've studied their whole entire lives know nothing?
@@CloutmasterPhluphyy yoooo that quote is dope!
Yeah funny how he says everyone is just brainlessly regurgitating the lies they heard from the mainstream and at the same time he brainlessly regurgitates the biggest lie of them all: you can only be happy if you're rich and everyone can become rich.
@@Saulgoodmane thx bro i thought it up while in a Walmart after watching part 1 💀
From a teen to early 20's, I was like this guy, bitches, big house, fancy cars etc. Now I want a friend and a humble house. Aba is right, the older you get, the less you want all the fancy shit.
Like aba said: new pussy gets old. Bitches only means problem and noise. A big house only means more taxes, more stuff to clean and more empty space. Fancy cars need maintenance and lose more than 40% of their value by just rolling out of the dealership. More things doesn't mean better. A good loving partner, possibly some kids, a home, food and enough money to have holiday trips and projects that's all a man/woman really needs.
I want to be comfortable and have my loved ones around me. I also want a dog or two. I want to not worry about bills but I don't need to be flying to turks and caicos multpile times a year. I want to have abundance on my table and in my heart.
Could that just be fear of being old and alone
Same. Now I’m just hoping I’ll have a group of solid friends carrying my coffin when the end comes
I’m just 23 and I want that. I’m totally satisfied where I think I am in life and where I’m headed. It doesn’t mean everything will easily fall in place, I still have to work to get what and where I want to be. But I’m satisfied knowing the real things I know will bring me happiness; family, friends, hobbies, experiences, fulfilling job, helping others… will not come from money, so im just trying to chill and enjoy the journey.
I can’t believe someone would think it’s disingenuous to agree with aspects and not fully subscribe to something. Where does your individuality come into play if you’re fully accepting one way to think? Applaud the level of patience Aba had here.
He believes it's disingenuous when people don't fully agree with him yet turns around and say that people only repeat everything they're told.
@@ArtsyField You're talking about sneako right? Telling someone to agree fully on broad subjects sounds exactly like complacency and being a bot
Aba is a class act. He comes off as really mature, and wise well beyond his years.
East African represent 👨🏾🍼
Or the other guy comes over so immature that it doesn't take much for Aba to come over real mature xD Nah Aba did great here, very calm and explaining, even giving the guy time to spew out his rants but cutting him short when explaining something. I wouldn't be able to to that, this guy is way to tiresome and brainwashed, ironically cause he accuses others of being brainwashed yet he truly believe Tate is some pussy god and all the shit the red pill guru's spew lol.
Agreed, based on his views; i would have estimated him older than he is.
@@_Morri_ yeah he’s only like 31 or something which is crazy
OR it's the young dude, who is immature well beyond his years... next to him aba sounds like the wise of the tribe. Though I think many men in thier 30s actually think like Aba. The young dude sounds like he stopped interacting with older people when he was 13.
Aba really impressed me here. His growth, patience, and wisdom are impressive.
Agreed. No hate to Sneako I used to rly like his videos, I think he’s an intelligent dude but he’s kind of lost himself. Aba respectfully showed he’s levels above this dude
Incredible to see his growth in a long format like this
Teenage mentality vs. Adult understanding, that's what this is. I'm 36 and every point Aba is making is speaking to me. Has always spoke to me since I was young. Yeah it'd be nice to be rich but I wouldn't be happy. I've seen it as I've grown up, Wealth and Fame doesn't equal Happiness. Having stability, the ability to make time for everyone you care, living a simple life brings more happiness then all the money in the world.
Jesus you all clown on him because of his age but spit the same talking points as aba. You're telling me a few extra in the bank wouldnt do anything for you? What if one of your family members was dying and that money was needed are you gonna sit here and say the same thing? Or if you're that happy then how about donating whatever you dont need to someone in need?
@@edwardrichard8093 That's just a extreme example and a disingenuous argument overall.
@@edwardrichard8093 How am I clowning him? He's 23, it's possible to still have a teenage mentality at that age, hell even I still had it up to 26. Also, I mentioned that it would be nice to be rich (or have a little something extra in the bank, maybe I didn't specify in my comment), but I'm working towards that now by sticking to my budget that I never stuck to when I was younger. Instead of making o0n the fly decisions with my money, I'm trying to make my money work for me when I earn my paychecks. As for having the money to keep family members from dying, I've already had plenty of family members die in the past from both sides of my family. Most importantly my Father, One of my 2 Aunts on my father's side, and just last year, my grandma. No amount of money could've saved them. But their memory lives on and they didn't have a lot of money but they made life memorable and happy. Money can't solve all those problems. And as for donating, I do it when I can never stated that I didn't, didn't think I had to but I do. Donating isn't for show, it's just to do a good thing Hell most people who do, don't make it a big deal and show off they donate. All the questions you've asked don't really effect people who understand that living life isn't about having money, it's about having the ability to learn grow, and have meaning experiences with people you care about. I don't need a legacy, I just need the experiences and the love of the people I care about for as long as I have the ability on this earth to have those things.
this comment reminds me of the song "few good things" by saba
I'd rather be unhappy with a lot of money, than unhappy with no money.
Sneako is 23 and Aba is 32, and I'm right in the middle at 28. But as someone who has 2 kids and had my first at 23 I completely agree with Aba. Your priorities change, and while it might sound "boring" to a young guy just tryna smash a bunch of girls becoming a dad has been the most rewarding thing I've done.
I’m 23 and my experiences in life have already led me to have values and opinions that much more closely resemble Aba’s
inb4 your lady strips that from you
family courts gonna bend you over fam 😂
Sneako is slowly but surely losing his humanity, "being a dad is the most rewarding thing I've ever done" is apart of being a human and its one of the few things actually 'biologically hardwired' into our DNA (unlike most shit red pilled dudes would tell you), the fact that Sneako doesn't agree either means he's not old enough to have kids or he's not the kind of person who *should* have kids.
@@LethalByChoice what are you talking about lmao, most shit reds tell you have verifiable studies and evidence of being biologically hardwired
but sure.
Don't let being a dad give you "holier-than-thou" complex.
@@DTreatz show sources or fuck off.
This makes me respect my elders more. They’re not clueless the way the world “works”. They just have other priorities. Once you have a family, there’s not enough time to fix the world. Just make sure your family is taken care of for as long as your breathing.
That's how it is when you're younger, you're idealistic, your ideas of your ability to make a difference in the world are a bit exaggerated, as you get older you become a bit more realistic, you can't change the world but you can make your corner of it better or worse that's in your control, that's up to you.
There's nothing wrong with idealism, but when you come to the point where you realise that you can't really achieve it you can go 2 ways, realism (affecting small change on a small scale by doing good for those around you) or cynicism (give in and succumb to the every man for himself type mentality), sadly I think most end up jaded and cynical.
@@cptsteele91 it's not that you can't change the world or dont have the ability to. You kinda can, and some people do (tho only a limited amount of people have the ability to do so). The question is: do you want to? Is it worth the sacrifice? Being "someone" come at a price, and it's not always enjoyable
@@Miam_miam_la_gauffre Honestly everyone/anyone can change the world. It really just depends on how you measure that change.
In other words if you're measuring it by the thousands of people affected or helped. Then, maybe not everyone can change the world. But if you measure it by only a couple of people. As well as small changes that lead them to a much more positive outcome. Then I'd say yes, everyone can change the world.
The world isn't solely the people, but it is comprised of people (among other things). If you can change a couple people, then you've definitely made a difference. Regardless of whether it be big or small, it's different, it's changed.
@@bilalpickid8436 yep I 100% agree. And anyway we need both things: people who make big scale changes (find out cure for disease, invent new theory, push for big cultural change, become a figure to follow in a time of crisis) and little hero too. Helping a friend overcome depression is a pretty fcking "heroic" and amazing thing to do.
I'm not old rly I'm not even 25 but I've been wrestling with the prospect of pursuing the big change or settling for the little one. I don't think there is wrong in doing either one of the two, it come down to personality in the end.
Big up to all those who invest there time making the life of people around them a little better everyday 👌
That is why they are trying to destroy what it means to have family
This dude claims people believe the reality in front of them, yet is lacking the awareness of him being deadset on his perceived reality.
Boom
The way he refuses what Aba is saying its like that scene where Peter Pan refuses to grow up, when u grow up and experience things first hand, not like how u imagine they should be or what u wish they where ur perspective around the world changes.
When u grow up u understand that not every women or man are worth the trouble for a short period of extase, not cause u are getting old, or ur level of testerone are low its cause u measure ur time and live better so u wont get out of your way to distabilize that u just chill.
When somebody who is brainwashed complains about brainwashing.
@@harrythej9683 word
And is surprised that people don’t believe in everything people say when it comes to an Ideology but says people shouldn’t believe in everything when they’re being told something make it make sense
I’m 25, and listening to Sneako is a great way to remind myself to be humble. I enjoy watching Red Pill content, and seeing someone so blindly parrot everything that’s being preached by some RP creators is really eye opening…and concerning.
I'm 23 and i feel so sorry this man , as his body ages and his youthful form fades ... It's interesting on what he'll become.
Bless up!
Aye both of yall stfu how yall gone tell ppl how to think 🤔
Every movement has it's fringes. I love red pill manosphere content myself. I'm 36 and I can feel Aba's frustration through the screen.
Yeah it's good to put the information into context
What most people dont realize is that when they look around, their house, their food, the things they eat with, computer, electronics, floors, roofs, even the people delivering the food to your house, didnt come from twitch influencers. Even when you are rich, you still need your cook, and construction mates, and many others in society. People like sneako think the world would function if everyone were a bitcoin investor, or a content creator. Sneako would not have his ac, kitchen, house, or anything whatsoever if it wasnt for blues in society.
"No one thinks for themselves, they're all brainwashed." "Red pill is just the truth" - an open minded man
Still waiting for your argument that he's closed minded..
You need to argue that what he believes isn't true AND that he believes it because of brain washing rather than simply being wrong
Lol
@@chrisallum9044 I got you, saying “no woman wants to settle down” and “everyone is divided” isn’t true, because if any of you red pill geniuses actually went outside you’d find direct contradictions to both of those beliefs. Division is created, because people make everything black and white and don’t listen to the other side’s grey area.
@@TheAlphawolf6 Agreed
@@TheAlphawolf6 In the stream Sneako pointed out that atleast 50% of marriages end in divorce (which was actually a rather low estimate, since it's between 60 and 80), and approximately 70-90% of those divorced are initiated by women (alot of it is financial incentive, but there's multiple reasons).
Just saying: "duhhh go outside, duhhh look at all the couples holding hands" type answer is not an adequate or reasonable reaction or solution to the red pill observations that Sneako is reporting.
The family unit over time in modern history has definitively, become in trouble in comparison to previous generations, some of it is intentional (consequences formed via law), but alot of it is not.
Some of the other issues mentioned by Sneako mention echo Marx alienation hypothesis (as accelerated by COVID conditions) and the low ratio-replication rate among Americans (America and some other Europen nations are not reproducing and generating enough to repopulate, *because* of these very family issues, which Asian countries have no significant issue with)
It is fair to say that red pillers don't describe issues and problems in the best way, and that they do have character issues and struggles. But simply dismissing these as real problems is only a device to maintain normie psychological stability and balance, and hide everything under the blue pill bus. If you need to cope by not being aware of reality, that's one of the best copes that normies have invented, but it won't work for Sneako).
Aba: "Now that I'm older, I don't care about sex that much. I care about things that matter to me like my family like my niece and mom"
Sneako: "Oh so you don't care about your balls anymore??"
Listening to Sneako talk is a struggle
I used to talk to a kid at work who is smart like Sneako but is so fixated on certain themes and desires they cannot see past what people are saying, they think simply arguing is engaging with someone, but they do not realize they are simply arguing, not discussing. They believe everyone has an ulterior motive.
(On an unrelated note...) Kenny Mason on your Display pic. Good taste🔥💯
@Random User well said, he still needs to learn nuance and learn that what is true for him is not true for everybody else
I see it like a kid arguing to an adult about why working is boring and that he doesn't need to learn how to read because eating candy is much more fun. Sneako talks about tradition as if he's going to go out and hunt animals for food and has to fertilize multiple women because nature calls for it or something lol. Cherry picking certain traditional things for his own benefit, similar to many of the women he criticizes.
@@ruipinho619 oh yes, the my truth.
My cousin would talk like this all the time. Last year I took him out backpack camping. Hiking out in the wilderness 13 miles. And we had to live out there for 2 weeks. No internet, just you and your skills. That experience humbled him so much. Internet can be such a terrible thing. There's so much more in this world you won't find on a monitor.
agree, many people think they are so strong because they see something in their computer but when they live the real thing they realize they don't know 💩.
@@kazzuo32 EXACTLY. He thought he knew all this bullshit that was irrelevant. I constantly had to have him find his next meal. How is he going to make his fire. Real men shit. By the end of the whole experience he was just in awe of how much all this societal bullshit meant. It means nothing. What matters most is your health. Strong family dynamics and a will to thrive. He's a completely different person now.
@@justinsavedra7633 Bravo.👏👏👏 you probably saved him from trying to live a life by the standards of this people in YT, and not in a realistic way.
I couldn’t agree more with Aba. I think it’s about time as a society that we stop bouncing from one extreme to another. The truth is often somewhere in between. Sneako accuses Aba of sitting on the fence when in actuality he’s forming his own opinions on all matters. He’s respectful, discerning, reflective and modest. Aba is the true top G.
Aba, I'm glad you were able to talk to this young man. I saw myself in Sneako. In his mannerisms, talking over, nihilistic world views, etc..You're speaking like the big brother I wish I had. My uncle, the role model I looked up to the most, died suddenly when I was in elementary school, and the other men in my immediate family were/are beyond toxic (bullies, gaslighters, screamers, etc). You've helped me and I want you to know that I'm grateful that you're out here. I hope you see this and that you continue mentoring others. There were times that I considered killing myself, yet I decided against it because of people like you.
Glad you're still here brother. Growing up without a strong masculine role model as a young man is detrimental and hard to work past. Aba among other positivive manosphere content creators have helped me open up to new information/perspectives as well.
The people in the live chat are just so damn angry, at being invisible to women, that they're all about their anger and people like sneako keep telling these guys not to look at themselves but to blame women and everyone else.
I'm 23, been invisible to women since I can remember, being angry about shit don't do nothing for you, it's pointless as the anger just festers
I couldn’t identify what i was experiencing back when i was a young girl because men brain washed me to believe that toxic behavior was love & was normal. It’s not and it’s not okay. If women are not treating men that cruel neither should they.
Bullies, gaslighters and screamers (like rage yelling) is what i experienced & i am incredibly mistrusting of new people because of the abuse i experienced in my past.
Men have used me & shamed me for being young. I have a good partner now & i pray he marries me & we have kids together. I’m tired of being screamed at, ordered around & demanded to clean up after men. This is probably why women keep our distance from men & men are angry and lonely. They make women not like them. It’s not women. It’s the way men treated women for so long
My dad grew up without real male role models and he's one of the greatest role models I have, even in showing me what not to do with his flaws.
Trust me man, you'll be worth your weight in gold to your children one day stay strong brother.
It was really nice to see Aba try his best, meet him at his level, despite frustration. As a woman almost the same age as Sneako, I've met men struggling to get out of this mindstate. I try to be really open and have good conversations to understand and start some questioning at least, and get a bit more nuanced. But male role models will have more impact. But what I found is that there's some stuff here logic can't really solve, a lot of it is strong emotional responses that are hard to unlearn: fear, anger, and paranoia.
I thought being invisible kinda sucked but now it's a blessing without stupid drama.
Amen to that brother
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Fame isn’t everything
being invisible is a wonderful thing
Yes it’s a lot better to be quietly successful 👌🏾
Dudes like this is exactly why social media is dangerous. Think they know everything when they know nothing
Sneako is 23. He is too old to act like this. It's scary to see a grown man like sneako have the mentality of a boy
Exactly, 23 ain’t that young. High schoolers listen and argue better than this dude
23 is pretty young. If you don’t think so, you’re young yourself
@@AD-wg8ik 23 is too old for this mindset. He sounds like he's 15.
I know dude 30 years old saying the same thing
@@katmossa3503 15 year olds aint getting laid like that though and if they are, their mothers are still in the streets and their fathers are still out getting the milk in another state, from behind bars or in the ground
Honestly, in my 19 years of being here on this reality, I wholeheartly agree with Aba. I have been fortunate enough to live in a good family, have a good relationship, and contributing to the world in the way I value. Being rich is more than just having money, like SNEAKO said, its just numbers on a screen. To be actually rich, or wealthy, its more than just having money, its the abundance of love from those who matter most to you, its about the ability to take out your parents to dinner and not worry about the bill, its about being able give the cash in your wallet to someone begging by a traffic light. At the end of the day, we don't take money with us to bed, we don't take money with us to the afterlife, and we are more than just the money you make.
Treasure it , I’m 19 n don’t have good family . It takes a toll on you
You’re a very based man
exactly ^ i wish good on all of you
Yes, I agree. But the reason why a lot of young people or people in the red pill community following guys like Andrew Tate, or (back then) Dan Bilzerian, because they flaunting and flexing money and women. In this extreme capitalist society, no matter how f up you are, as long as you rich (or look rich), people would justify and listen whatever you do. It's all about Throne/Power, Money, and Sex.
exactly this
this kid is SO hard to watch, but it's important to note that he is making so much money from people who follow his ideas. this is a great platform to point out the good and the bad and highlight just how grey the world is and no matter how hard you yell at someone it's not black and white, much love Aba for the patience
Definitely hard to watch and listen too. lol
Bro I'm 24 and I have more in common thoughts whis on how I think with aba then the one year younger then me guy witch I'm actually happy about lmao
@@shura4136 me too, but damn, your message is so scrambled its hard to understand haha
@@OctoMatoe it's not scrambled?
@hnviejhiwdhnfwodfsdfdfs not to me are you dyslexic
This guy is 100% correct. About the priorities and perspectives changing over time and I am not that old I am 22 and I already see some of that. But I will say you don’t need kids to see this change it just happens and I do believe some people aren’t meant to be parents..
I 100% agree with this statement.
I'm sad for him. That anger and hatred will erode him from the inside.
Also it must be a nightmare to be in a relationship with someone that thinks the way they think is absolute truth and only think a person is being is genuine when they hear what they agree with.
Let's be real sneako probably isn't getting into to many relationships in the first place.
I see why his ex girlfriend is over him.
@@yog-sherkoth1782 no, thats why he is so frustrated lol
Don't worry too much about him. He is still young and I think that deep down he means well. Just in a topical angsty teenager way. He will grow and learn
@@yog-sherkoth1782 he has a girl
I’m really out here striving for Aba’s level of patience😭
Janae so am I lol
The man is a modern saint.
This conversation in a nutshell:
SNEAKO: You're either with me, or you're my enemy!
Aba: Only a Sith deals in absolutes
A man of culture I see
Aba: I will do what I must... pulls out light saber.
@@sneak9407 Sneako: You will try
This interview showed how intelligent a young man can be without actually holding knowledge. Aba tried to explain "life" ten different ways. But the kid "didnt" want to get it.
Aba: watching your niece grow up and learn how to walk and say her first words is a really enriching experience.
Shneako: so you have given up your balls?
The rest of us: whaaaaaaaat
Why lie. Sneako said he agrees dat there are important moments on life he is just saying are you doing it because society claims it to be the proper mood of being or are you doing it because you understand
@@adio8824 Then why would he agree, if it's only important cuz "we're brainwashed"?
@@blackmanwithcomputer do you understand something is good because you intrinsically understand why it’s good or do you do so because society tells you it is and it’s a safety net for you and your understanding of how life should be
@@adio8824 where did I lie? That’s literally how the conversation went
@@adio8824 dude, you do know that society can be right and wrong?
"My student loans are being paid off this week, I'm technically in debt."
Is he implying that rich people don't have debt? Also good for him for getting his loans paid off that fast at such a young age, but that is not the norm for most people nor will it ever be.
Rich people stay rich because they manipulate debt! It’s not only used constantly; it’s encouraged for you to NEVER use your own money for business or projects. This kid is frustrating.
@@dreamersunlimited8005 Exactly. Most people get rich by selling shares, not by leveraging debt. Leveraging debt is how the wealthy stay rich, but without money it’s a recipe for bankruptcy
I think sneako is saying that he has more student loan debt than yearly revenue. Therefor he's technically in the negatives. Rich people dont have that large of a debt to revenue ratio, or else they wouldnt be rich. And they definitely don't have student loan debt which is different than credit card debt or stocks.
@@JJ808 There's no way. Watch from 19:55. He acknowledges he makes more than 6 figures and also says his student loans are being paid off *this week*. At 23 years old that's pretty good. Unless he misspoke and even if his yearly income is just above six figures that is more than enough to put large dents in student debt to pay it off in a couple years.
Rich people can have student loan debt and still make bank - doctors go through years of schooling and rake in a large debt (~$200k on average) but when they get out they can quickly make up to 6 figures and pay it off quickly. Having large debt does not mean you aren't rich, no matter what type of debt it is.
@@vanh0lio I didn't interpret that as all of his student loans are being paid off this week. I thought he meant this week was the time he has to pay student loans? So I'm not too sure.
But im just saying its possible he could make over six figures but his student loan debt is also six figures. Having that much debt compared to your yearly revenue doesn't make you rich In that moment. Doctors making 200,000 a year aren't "rich" if they have 200,000$ in debt. Especially if they intend on paying that debt off quickly. Paying 200,000$ off quickly, as you probably know, takes alot of money. Plus you still have bills, daily expenses, maybe children, etc. I would say the doctor in your example is moreso "well off".
Ultimately I'm saying, if sneako still has mkoe than 100,000$ of student loan debt he could have a negative net worth.
I’m just at a loss for words. The entire conversation just has me at a loss. I commend Aba for trying to speak to this person, they clearly aren’t ready for this conversation yet.
You have to look at the young man and see that he is young. That his opinion is entirely shaped by his perspective, and that he is incapable therefore of anything else.
So patience is not required, nor is forgiveness, one just understand that what he sees and believes is entirely a result of what is capable of seeing and that is determined in part by who he is but more so by where he is.
If in ten or twenty years he has not progressed forget the patience, write him off.
But for now he is like all of us mostly a product of where he is, of his environment.
So save your exasperation and frustration for someone who could do better but does not, if the reasons justify it.
@@jasperlawrence5361 Yeah, this kid will learn the hard way.
He. Not they! 😂😂😂
@@jasperlawrence5361 great commebt
@@jasperlawrence5361 but i am younger than him and even i understand that my opinions and beliefs are only based on my limited experience which is why they could be completely wrong or change as i learn more information or get more knowledge about life. This dude, however, said it himself..that he feels like he knows EVERYTHING aka the "truth" and is reluctant to even LISTEN to what an elder has to say let alone changing his mind about his beliefs. At that point, is being young really an acceptable excuse for this kind of behavior?
I kind've feel bad for the guy. A lot of us say stupid/cringe shit in our early 20s but in 10 years this guy is still going to have this immortalised in front of hundreds of thousands of people.
Him being 23 is not an exuse hell i an 20 and can see that he is dumb as fuck....
The brutal irony of his mindset is he validates his entire masculinity by women and the consumption. He's actually the opposite because his identity is created by people outside of himself. It's actually hilarious. I've seen redpill rage this is a great example of redpill delusions
Red Pill is so fucking wrong. Well said. Delusions.
very well said, and should be pinned
And in the previous video he went as far as calling other people essentially brainwashed and he has the power to “ wake them tf up” with his platform. He equates his masculinity to nothing more than his sex drive which is quite frankly the saddest thing I’ve ever heard. Calls others brainwashed while he’s clearly chasing women to validate his identity like the majority of young men in this era but thinks somehow he is so enlightened to the shortcomings of western societies when he is a prime example of said shortcomings.
@@keynonburns4921 what do you expect? Red pill community is also a brainwashing machine.
@@keynonburns4921 plus just looking at his room he seems to be very brainwashed into consumerism too.
You have the patience of a saint... Because there's no way in hell I would have sat through all of that and managed to keep my composure whilst being interrupted. My blood pressure is so high from watching this and I'm only 22.
It's because you're 22. You also have maturing to do. Same here.
Yep 22 here and I’m annoyed. This kid is a walking contradiction
Why is your blood pressure high from this? Someone else's life, doesn't concern you.
@@Firstname_Surname Because some people are affected by what they see, hear, touch, smell, taste and feel. And sense. Even when it's someone else's life.
Why are you moved to respond to someone else's life's response to someone else's life?
Girl same!
This young man is insanely arrogant. It's one thing to be confident in how you're living, but to talk about older men's motivations when he clearly didn't have their experience, is incredibly disrespectful.
Like all the youngs (and not so youngs). Always arrogants, no matter gender, religion or country.
the effort you put in "new pussy" is sometimes not worth the squeeze. especially after the deed, talking to a girl who has nothing to say gets really old. however, when i was early 20s cant blame him. youth is wasted on the young
Yes.
I appreciate his honesty.
This is what I like about conversations like this. Honesty speaking.
I understand his frustration and his attempt to relieve his frustration with new sex.
The guy is dealing with a Cognitive distortion called polarized thinking where it is all or nothing.
To say the older man is wrong when you're young is just dumb, he possess wisdom and you don't even know what that is yet.
8:05. Sneako has a lot of growing to do. If people always are expected to agree with every single point of a movement or group, the latter is a CULT. It is not disingenuous to agree with some things someone says but disagree with others
The fact that he's shocked that you can be ok with 40-50K tells me that he has NO life experience....
To be honest, depending on where he lives, those numbers are pretty close to poverty sadly. I mean with that kind of salary, I would barely survive in like London or Zurich or San Francisco.
@@sportyeight7769 granted, but he lives in the US and with the exception of certain cities you can live with that and even in LA or San Fran, you can still live with that, paycheck to paycheck, yes and with roommates but livable
@@MrFlakko30 oh for sur. I was juste stating the exception where it would be the case. It could explain why he said that
@@sportyeight7769 got u
It’s attainable in non huge cities and when budgeting appropriately. I’ve been there and over 100k in big cities and I much rather the 50k being able to be a stay at home mom and homeschool the kids than working making 100k or more and feeling less time and community. So it’s about priorities more so than $$
The irony of someone who calls others being brainwashed being brainwashed isn't lost on me. This man just shouts talkig points, doesn't listen just quickly after saying how good of a listener he is and how people can't formulate their own points
Everyone knew he was full of shit the second he just didn't answer Aba's YES OR NO question, "do you think soNso can agree with some point and not others" (yes or no) " I ThInK SoMe PeOpLe ArE BrAiNWaShEd"
When he was talking about people being brainwashed but also talking shit about others who don’t agree with everything a group says is so ironic. If u agree with everything under the sun no questions asked or adding ur own life experiences, you are the one being brainwashed. Yep
Seems like all of his talking points are of someone who lives on the internet
Aba: *gives heart felt speech about there being more important things in life then casual sex
Sneako: "So you've given up on your balls?"
bro that shit had me rolling
Sneako doesnt even realise that hes a male ho. Every man who wants to complain about women being cheap nowadays but talking about wanting to get mad P himself is the most unreflected, gross and vlaue deprived moron ever. He says women are unwiveable while being a dumb little child no real women of morals would marry too.
I'm glad you pointed it out, that genuinely got a laugh out of me, I paused the video to catch my breath🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Poor balls 😂
I nearly died laughing.
That was the most delusional response after such an important thing being pointed out to you… so sad
Dude when Aba is describing time w his mom and watching his niece walk for the first time, and Sneako’s response is so you’re giving up on your balls 🤦♀️ I’m dead.
11:06 the "no" sneako says to aba is the same energy as a kid finding out cartoons aren't real. the disbelief in the voice was just so genuine.
I was thinking of the same thing but when you learn Santa ain’t real🤣🤣 and you as a kid are in such disbelief, like but who left the gifts under the Christmas tree!?
Sneako talks about people not thinking and being controlled because they just believe everything the mainstream says, but then he criticizes people that do not agree with the manosphere 100% of the time on everything said in the manosphere. Isn't just going along with everything that is being said without question being controlled? Wouldn't he want people to question what they hear and think for themselves?
If people were smart enough to discuss ideas Sneako wouldn’t have a career.
Sadly, critical thinking is becoming an endangered species.
Because the red pill is just objective truth. Ur belief doesn’t matter the truth is 100%
I think Aba hit the nail on the head with this "get rich" bit. While I think it's fine to try to encourage people to have ambition, it's ultimately self defeating in this case. Part of why men nowadays are miserable is because you have people telling them that there's only one path to happiness; a path which is effectively unattainable to most of the people listening to this sort of thing. People need to teach them how to be happy with their lives.
Well stated 👏🏽
By "be happy" do you mean conforming to or accepting/tolerating the unattainable system?
@@troywalkertheprogressivean8433
By happy, I mean understanding that said system is not the single path to living well and to not feel miserable from falling short of it. Don't chase women just because some internet dude says you should or some lady shames you for not doing it. Do it if you want to or don't if you don't. At least don't feel bad if it's not your thing/ you have no interest in it.
@@troywalkertheprogressivean8433 capitalism
It's sad because this reminds me of how people started rejecting the whole notion of "The American Dream", where all you needed was to just work hard, go to college, get a degree, work a normal job, and that was enough for you to live off well with a wife and a kid or two. Then younger generations caught onto the false promise and now they're being sold on another false promise: just go on social media and you'll make money and be happy.
"I talk to normies all the time on the train"
Bro you're still just as regular as the rest of us. That's why Aba is a G. He doesn't look down on his followers or subscribers.
This kid illustrates the destructive effect of the likes of Tate and social media at large on young boys' minds. Glorifying the most shallow, idiotic, consumptionist, self-destructive lifestyle, the behaviour removing you from finding true sense the most. It's kinda sad actually.
It's destructive for everyone. Especially women tho
Right. The fact that he is already 23 and has these bizarre delusions is concerning. He sounds like he's 13
Sneako makes it worse. With tate understandable with your point about women. But with Tate on masculinity and determination with self is a pretty good take. Sneako is just a worse version of Tate. Sadly he’s been going downhill for a few years now.
On the brightside, whenever you corrupt somebody with ideology ("I found these rules, learn them or get left behind") you also provide them with a long-term invitation to wisdom, as they hobble around life trying to apply it to everything and find it falls short.
Their message is it’s a power game and they tell you how to win it. Without money, fame etc. you don’t have the power.
13:37 lmao. that killed me. Aba's talking about love for his family and Sneako's like "you're giving up on your balls?"
A phrase I never thought I’d hear before but leave it to sneakos goofball ass lol
Lmao right 🤣 like I want a family and also a stripper for the house to bring me things.
Same as explaining healthy eating to a kid. Like "when you're an adult little timmy you can't just spend all your money to eat candy for dinner, eating vegetables and drinking water is good so you don't get a tummy ache"
Dude really thinks the reason men want to spend time with their family and not with women having sex is because their testosterone is lower like we're only defined by how high our testosterone is like we're robots lol
@@Maleetorres105 the fact that you are not spending on candies anymore is because you are scared! You grew up because you are too afraid to stay as a kid! Real kid eats candies!
Game playing for life. 🤭
Hats off to Aba for this one. Speaking to this individual would be incredibly minding numbing. Lacking the basic understanding of economics and ignoring reality really shows how much of a box Sneako's mind is in.
“I get pissed off when people have more than me. Why can’t I have that?”
So you’re basically pissed off all the time (there’s always someone who has more than you). And this is his formula to ‘happiness’.
funny that I saw his "debate" with Destiny that he said he wasn't a materialistic guy and that he isn't a male version of kim kardashian... lol.
If this is not the prime definition of materialistic, I don't know what is.
@@johnnyhaze4605 💯
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"Touch grass" is a good rebuttal to those that are angry all the time
he also thinks always wanting to have more is somehow related to "freedom"
The whole “red pill vs blue pill” argument is very reminiscent of the whole “democrat vs republican” politics we play in the US. Choose a side, don’t call out anything they’re doing wrong, and to hell with logical discourse.
Yeah, it’s complete nonsense
💯💯
Facts My Brotha
To be fair the democrats think man are woman, so to speak of logic is in general a fools errand.
Not to mention being incapable of acknowledging any truths in the other’s statements, it’s possible for both groups to be correct on different topics, not one is right and one is wrong
You can’t fake wisdom…
Aba’s patience and intellectual honesty is highly appreciated.
His lack of testosterone is HIGHLY concerning!
@@seetheanimal5867 cope
@@ohmyg1932 well THAT IS what I AM SAYING. As they testosterone lowers they begin to COPE and act more like females and attack what they once themselves were. (Instead of being objective and correlate the change in attitude to the change in hormones AND NOT ASSUME the change is good)
Then they begin to gaslight the world like females do instead of facing the fact they are themselves diminished and acting differently on account of that. It is a natural shame in a day and age where they can take hormones to fix that.
Also before your feminist ass disparages that. FEMALES been on hormones for decades EVEN at the expense of female horses (look it up) but god forbid a man does the same for himself 🤦🏽♂️
U r baked n done my guy
@@seetheanimal5867 1) You're assuming things about his body when you should not be, and 2) it's not your body, so it's not your concern even if his testosterone were to be low. Maybe you mean something else but are using the word testosterone as an umbrella term. Either way, grow up.
It’s like watching a conversation between the older brother and the ignorant young brother, all love
Sneako lives in his own reality! Shoutout to Aba for being like a teacher being patient with a kid full of hormones!
Facts
He will learn soon
@@bluejaysmedicmike6831 maybe not, sneako tried to do the same with the playback crew and its the same thing...
@@bluejaysmedicmike6831 eventually. It just takes time and real world experiences.
Let's be honest, most people lives in their "own" realities!
You can tell Aba has been through this stage with the amount of patience he is showing 😊
This man is so deluded it's actually quite scary. The ranting, the whole "If you don't agree with EVERYTHING the red pil community preaches you're being disingenuous to avoid being cancelled."... Yo, if this man doesn't chill out, he might just spiral out into becoming a legit antisocial guy. Even Andrew Tate doesn't believe everything he says since half of what he says is him just trolling or pandering.
Andrew Tate makes a point, repeatedly, to say he us very deliberate in what he says and his choice of words and he believes everything he says. But he's not a man that's even trying to change the game, he's just sharing his view and he wants to be famous. And now he kinda is. But the view of the world when you're worth about a quarter billion is a very different thing indeed.
There's nothing worse than watching a young inexperienced guy tell an older guy who's been there and done that about the shit he thinks he knows.
There’s only 7 years difference
@@metalxmetalxmetalxmetalx 7 years can sometimes be a lifetime of experience. Mid 20's to early 30's is a period where most guys rapidly grow up.
@@metalxmetalxmetalxmetalx There's a big difference between 9yr olds and 12 yr olds. That's just a 3 year gap. A lot can change in 7 years.
@@dxshawn532 Same with a 2 years old can barely speak/run and a 5 years old can do both.
Age don't mean nothing I've seen niggas lose they fuking head in front of me
Speaking to a guy in the middle of Red Pill Rage can be frustrating. But it's needed. I hope Sneako gets through this okay.
All red pill men are manchildren.
Took the words right out of my mouth. Sneako is in the second stage of being Red Pill: anger aka RP rage. He'll eventually get out of it....or maybe he won't.
I'm not sure it's red pill rage. People are upset about how society has turned. These last 10 years have been horrendous, especially after tiktok. People hate the system. I can't blame em. I feel it, and life is easy mode for me compared to 99% of people. I never HAVE to work a day in my life, I could bum out and I still will have a roof over my head and enough money to buy whatever I want. And I still feel it. We just f'd things up, and the basic idea that you can find a person, settle down, have a decent life is gone for most people. With all of my necessities met, the best I have to look forward to right now is... Nothing. And that's a hard pill to swallow. And sneako, he's somewhat made it now, and he can see, it's an empty meaningless rat race ahead...
@@ajtaylor8750 cringe lmao
That idiot trying to ride on aba and preach won't!!!
Aba is a grown man, Sneako is a boy. Aba is the kind of man a real woman wants to build a family with, to make his family name great, to build a legacy. We love you ABA!!!! lol
Yeah, a real woman lmao. After she spends her youth banging Chad and Tyrone.
@@jk8301 why are you assuming every woman is like that? Even if it's we woman don't like men who bangs every pussy or girl but we woman don't complain about those men because it's their life and their choice
Lol women back in the 90s? Yh. Women of today? Gtfoh, they'd rather lay low with a douche 😂
Right. Any father searching for a suitable man for her daughter would never choose Sneako. He’s just leaking immaturity, lacks integrity, his morals are degraded, he’s a follower not a leader, he dodges rom accountability like the matrix, uplifts dereliction when it comes to women, etc. Ava is far from perfect but on the surface Aba is going to be the clear choice in comparison to most of the guys with podcast
Man, Aba is one of the realest TH-camrs. Thank you for all that you do Aba
indeed, nathan
The fact that he fails to accept something as simple as “everybody can’t be rich because that would mean that no one’s rich” is telling as to how deep into his own way of thinking he is. Basic logic is an argument with him.
Everyone can be rich if they work hard for it and develop their skills you think rich ppl are born to be rich
@@andrevxv2143 please tell me you're not old enough to vote
@@vegbeg9170 I'm not even American hhhh bruh you are dumb ash all these rich ppl worked for what they have seek more knowledge and experience that's why immigrants come to America and make it while the lazy fuckers are engaged in politics and they don't know even the basic shit
@@andrevxv2143 If everyone is rich, then no one is rich. This world is not designed for everyone to be rich. Idiot.
@@vegbeg9170 Clearly they seem to not pay attention to school either.
So let me get this straight... He doesn't like when people "swallow everything" that is presented to them when it comes to information or facts... But, he's also angry with the people who say "I don't agree with everything" because to him it's just a way of them voicing their own opinions on the matter? So, he doesn't like when people DON'T swallow everything that he says to them? So he doesn't want people to think for themselves about the information/facts that he's giving them? Wow... just wow...
He's just a confused dumbo. There was no substance in his babbling.
He’s not as smart as he thinks he is. One of the elements of emotional and mental intelligence is being able to logically critique your thoughts and POVs and be willing to change when you find out there are flaws with your POVs.
This. When the hammer hits the nail on the head.
@@eyesackisaac5641 He’s not smart, period.
Yup pure definition of Narcissistic -' I don't like when you do what I say when it defies me but I will also not like it if you did the thing I hate as well.' A person like this you can't please unless you just kiss his a$$. And again is just from his talking a kid who was privileged to be born into a financially stable family and thinks he did all the hard work for it.. The KK Generation - Kim Kardashin Influence Generation - bless their hearts.
How many times does Sneako say "testosterone ,balls and b!tches"? HIS mind is stuck in such a narrow lane.
Aba is like Obi-wan Kenobi - humble, supportive and wise.
Sneako is like Young Anakin to Darth Vader - hungry for Power
This is an accurate analogy.
💯... Sneako is wrapped up in ego and desire. His lack of self awareness and knowledge is astounding...
Sneako: "Everybody can be rich"
Aba: "Only a Sith Deals in absolutes".
It is impossible for “everyone” to be rich. Economically impossible. Somebody has to flip burgers, fix cars, and keep this economy running. This dude is just young and I honestly wouldn’t waste my breath explaining such a basic economical fact.
I mean I'm 21and me and most the people around me understand that simple fact. Sneako is just ignorant. Hopefully he'll get better with time.
Age isn’t a direct correlation to understanding concepts. Just look at Andrew Tate who is significantly older and still he says similarly ridiculous statements but more so to garner attention
If everyone is rich you know we're all fucked. If everyone has $5m does anyone think burgers still stay $5? Maybe Aba was trying to tell Sneako you dont got enough life experiences to know everything and listening to Andrew Tate or whatever red pill platform doesnt mean its always the truth which Sneako believes. Red pill = only the truth everything else is wrong. Sneako could be a flat earther for all we know because it's what the elite wants you to know.
That's if being rich is holding a lot of money. The roaring 20s was a thing. It's the constant exchange of money that determines economic growth and decay. By nature the amount you'd have fluxuates but everyone was gaining greater access.
I'm not an economist, but it seems obvious that less work equates to less value, less exchange, thus lower economy. The starting point is 0 and the negatives are debt, but the goal would be everyone spending money to get into and out of debt.
@@iraizo5843 I think it has less to do with age and more so the fact that he lives a very abnormal lifestyle. Most people do not make their money off youtube, making thousands a month (i'm assuming) or at the very least not having to struggle as much as the common person. Sneako lives on the internet, the internet is his job.
The most frustrating thing about this conversation is the realization that no matter how much wisdom or logic you present to some of these young adults it will not stick until they come across some life changing experience themselves. You're literally speaking to a brick wall sometimes. The real hope is that some of that spoken wisdom will revitalize after they've reached a certain maturity.
It's always good to share such wisdom, because it will resonate and help one day.
@@phedreBiOn Yep, that's the hope.
it will hit them eventually. Aba planted the seed. So when this dude's lived experience starts to line up with what Aba said he will be able to change course 4-5 years earlier than he otherwise would have. kinda like when we all said "yeah.. you were right mom/dad. I get it now" about any number of subjects
@@GMUTaylor6 Oh yeah for sure. I think that's definitely a good way to look at it.
At a certain point in life he'll remember this & kick himself for not listening sooner.
I know I did. I imagine there are many people listening who where the same.
This is an amazing conversation representing what it is like going from becoming a grown man. Props to Aba. It's like seeing an 18 year old self meeting themselves at 30
Thanks for this Aba. As a 30 year old male who's expecting my first baby next week, I've been obsessed with trying to make as much as money as possible even though I'm already over the 50k mark. I have a wife, home, stable job and good friends and family. You've opened my eyes a bit to stop chasing something that might not happen anytime soon and just take in everything that's happening around me. Really needed to hear this!
hey who knows, keep that eye keen enough and an opportunity may just fall right into your lap.
congrats to your new family bro, i hope the goings good!
Ay man good on your for realising this,
But always strive for better or more, there's nothing wrong with that(coming from a dad at 21 who's broke af at 28 but still fighting) good luck with the new baby man, happy to talk about dad shit if you need 👍
Hey man what state are you living in that you can live that well off of 50k? Cause I’m in NJ and making 65k and still have to fucking rent an apartment. 😂 seriously you trying to get some new neighbors?
Yeah don't be like that Cats in the Cradle song. That bay needs all of you and as we all have seen babies are entertained with just boxes, so don't feel pressured to get them the best of the best.
No offense and I don’t know where u live exactly. But 50k in your opinion is good money ?? If u can make it work with that - then great, but there is not a lot of places in America where 50k (especially with a baby on the way) can give u a comfortable living
Sneako: The whole system is rigged !
Also Sneako: Everybody can get rich
It's impressive how much talking Sneako can do without listening to shit Aba says
Yeah that's what I thought too. Like bruh, not everybody, and anybody, for that matter, can get rich. If someone is getting rich, someone else is getting poor. You can't make money out of nothing, and if you do, that currency gets devalued, ironically making him less rich.
Even if he said anybody can get rich if tried, it wouldn't be true neither. That requires rational thinking and problem solving, and not everyone is gifted with it. Normal distribution of pretty much everything is a thing for a reason. Some people are 85 IQ while others are 115 IQ, and both this numbers belong to an "average" spectrum. That's some basic logic, which he lacks.
Loved this convo. This was like watching a 20 year old version of myself argue with me now at 29. And believe me, I don’t have less energy or testosterone now (probably more). Sneako isn’t neccessarily wrong either, but he needs some experience and perspective in order to apply himself in the right way.
Yeah. One thing he was right for sure is media has been trying to divide people extra hard about 5 years now. Of course it has been longer but the current headlines and tactics are so shameless.
Yeah I agree, I think sneakos biggest problem is applying what he’s learned, like it’s one thing to say everyone can get rich, it’s another thing to teach everyone or show people the resources they can use, from small things like building a good relationship with your back, to credit control, to bigger things like putting property in a trust or learning forex or stock options.
Great take
I think a lot of young people don't realize that adults in monogamous relationships can still be horny & have a healthy sex life.
There's a lack of positive role models, including healthy happy couples, both in media & in real life. There's also a lack of transparency about what being an adult is actually like, including regular sex. I just saw a bit tweet about a leaflet somone got after hip surgery, saying what sex positions were best & people were loosing their minds like the fact that most grown adults sill have sex was shocking.
I think it was Aba who said in a past video that if one guy has sex with 2 new women a week, Vs a guy having sex with his gf 5 times a week, the second guy is actually having more sex.
I think a lot conversation around sexual conquests is more about ego, self esteem & emotions than just sex.
No Sneako, is 100% wrong. He doesn't know what he is talking about.
I'm 43. All that stuff Sneako is talking about, wanting to slay twice as much and do the whole Heff thing? Done it. Had a "harem," or a "roster" of on-call booty? Had it. Top earner, 90th+ percentile? Been there. And it's a lot of fun, without question.
But watching my daughter graduate college? So much better. Being able to be there for my friends and family, and my fellow man? More fulfilling. Having a ton of money and getting a mountain of p***y? Overrated.
Read a little Epicurus, or Lao-Tzu. Broaden your mind, deepen your heart. Grow up and learn that being a man is about more than bi***es and money. Not everyone prioritizes those things. Doesn't mean you "gave up your balls," it means you know what you really want.
Hopefully Sneako understands that as he experiences more of life, hopefully he will prioritize and achieve wisdom as opposed to trying to be a caricature of masculinity.
“It’s not possible for everyone to be filthy rich”
Sneako: “it is”
Man sounds like a network marketing scam
Well, guy sells his cryptobullshit, so it is a network marketing scam fr
He’s basically saying that the average person can potentially become rich. Not saying that I agree or disagree with that but that’s how I interpreted it
@@Jay_draco true but aba is saying its ok to be happy to not be filthy rich and its ok to work a job that you may not make as much. There's the potential for anyone to do a lot of things but the point aba is making is not everyone will and you can be perfectly happy as an average dude because if you tell everyone that they can get rich it opens up the door for a lot of disappointment if you can't have all this money and most won't.
I am dying inside 💀💀
Bruh I never realized Sneako was this dumb
I still love his content though but my goodness he is dead set in his ideology
@@Jay_draco no Sneako is saying everyone can be rich simultaneously which is not true.
I'm 22, very young but mature in a sense where I understand what Sneako says, but growing up relatively poor forced me to understand my conditions irrespective of the socio economic issues my country faces and the corruption involved (South Africa). I knew I had to stay grounded and make little steps to improve myself so that I may help other people around me, not indoctrinate, but help
I grew up quicker, experienced quicker, listened better to people older than me because I know I knew nothing. The more I know the more angry I get but the more I listen the more I understand what people have to do on this corrupt world to survive and live a better life.
But I need to be more like ABA, patient and not hot headed. I am guilty of that and I need to improve on in it.
I’d take you over every Red Pilled nuisance any day of the week
Exactly. The age isn’t an excuse. I’m 23 and my mindset is more like aba. I outgrew whatever phase snecko is going thru rn at age 17. I was also poor. I wonder if that’s a big variable to said outcome
Yeah, the way Sneako says "everyone can be rich" just shows he's young. Him saying "I'm paying my student loans this weeks" somehow didn't bring him to the question:"How many people have to pay their student loans until they are 30/40?". And not everything is America, in other places you can legit not be able to afford to have a good education. And just having internet by itself doesn't fix it. Though it was a great thing for me in my career as well I understand that I had time to learn and get a better job instead of having to work since young age to pay bills. And on top of that some of the best knowledge I had I've got from specialized courses that cost money (and a lot). I also had parents who taught me how to act with money, not to spend them recklessly, so I would put them to something better some time after. And at the age I am now I become humble enough to get that I'm being really lucky, not everyone is as lucky as me. I believe this guy also wasn't born in a cardboard box in the streets with no parents, he had some things that led to his success that not everyone could've had. Just being born in America is actually hell of a privilege, because the country itself is rich and has a lot of money flowing around. Your opportunities as an American citizen is far better than let's say being born in Ukraine and face a full size war in your 20th. Or being born in some poorer country, or being born in s country with closed borders.
Nice seeing a fellow South African 👌 I'm also 22, and i also take up experiences from older folks and implement them in my life, I usually try to avoid high risk and low reward activities...I don't smoke and I occasionally drink...but my socio-economic status seems to be holding me back in my dating life, so I temporarily gave up on it (maybe I will settle in my mid 30s)...on the positive side I'm doing pretty good in my academics and I got a cool group of friends we hold each other accountable....I know things will work out in the near future
Well said brother. Pretty much in a same situation and I completely am in with all your sentiments. I have nothing more to add and Ibwish you luck on your journey.
I have to say i respect Abba so much for having the patience to speak to this dude. I remember being young and dumb but i could atleast accept that people grow with experiences..well tried Abba !
Facts this young Brotha needs to listen 👂 I had to learn that the hard way I was fired from a job and The Cook County sheriffs served me foreclosure papers, I was able to get another Job, And my boss gave me the overtime days because I needed $5000.00 to keep my home so me and my wife and kids wouldn’t be on the streets, that situation humble me and matured me, to listen more and talk less
I don't think it's possible to make 6 figures at age 23 if you are young and dumb
I wouldn’t have patience with this dude .
Yeah this guy is literally a steam roller. His perspective on getting older is funny af because he doesn’t understand the concept of maturity because he just wants to fuck everyone
Also wtf is his understanding of economics
This young man’s parents never told this young man ‘no’ and is the prefect reason why getting your information from social media is bad. He seems entitled, lack interpersonal skills, is demanding and, spews conspiracy theories. My 23 year old son shared this video with me and highlighted how much this young man represents many out there.
Sneako: I want a bigger house with 10+ women waiting on me.
Also Sneako: Women want more and more and more.
Uh-huh, interesting.
Is weird.. What kind of women will he attract with this " I want more and more" Mentality
@@dememo664 ture, I wouldn't be able to sit in a room with him for an hour. But mostly because he is so damn self-righteous.
@@dememo664 you need more to attract the best women
@@dememo664 The joke is that he's the type of person to whine about vain girls who are only out for money.
But with that mindset these are the only ones he's ever going to attract.
Which is of course great for him, financially wise. Because then he can whine about them till he's 50.
@@dememo664 dude he's actually goes to sex party's and doesn't smash while his girl gets pipped out
I’ve never seen anyone talk so confidently about what they know NOTHING about like Sneako 😂😂
Early 20 somethings tend to do that. We've all been there at some point.
He weird
@@WillChizzleMyNizzle ehh
He’s trying a little bit too hard to sound like Tate these days
This is just code for “I disagree with him”. Typical response these days. Either covert or overt disingenuous insults coupled by spamming emojis.
This kid is funny bro… the fact you had the patience to stay talking to him while he continued to look at the world’s “problems” from the moon… is admirable to say the least.
He did say he was angry like him soo I can tell he’s trying to change his mind even know that’s prolly impossible with sneako… like sneako being saying “look at the bigger picture” was like “shi maybe I should” but then aba says “what Cannn We Do”
I agree, kudos to Aba😂
The schools are open...what is he talking about - everything is open - dudes go to the gym together, play ball together - maybe if he lifted his face from a device and/or screen and walked outside, he'd notice
Female validation is the downfall of a lot of young men.
And they usually don't even seek it from the right type of women
Lol 💯
@@mim4ety100 Exactly, part of this "all women are thots" mentality is literally laughable, they are seeking out those type of women.
I was talking to a guy the other day who said all women on Instagram are half naked or doing porn, not realizing he was outing himself for choosing to only follow those type of accounts/women!
@@mim4ety100 the first comment and this. Like, if you wanna avoid this then stop looking for those type of women.
Sneako, you had a good gf back then but you let her go due to your cheating with a wrong type of girl, and now you're stuck with chasing n bothering toxic women because you were too bitter to own your mistake.
Full Debate on Shneakos Channel. Link in the description.
TimeStamps
0:00 Jidion Vs Pokimane. Holding Ourselves Accountable.
5:40 Yall Are Afraid of Being Cancelled.
10:00 Growing Older & Priorities. Chasing Skits gets Old
18:30 Everyone Can Be A High Value Man. We Can All Be Rich
Lol
Yeee fuc em uppp verbally🗣
The More You Know,The More You Don't Know.
Sneako seems holier than thou. He knows it all. If he wears Nike or owns apple products, he's contributing to it. I can break it down to the minimum, so he needs to chill. He's maroon pilled. Too far gone.
Can a world with the internet exist without manipulation? Endless context with no real voice above the others to create context? The world would likely fall into chaos. We as a whole are not evolved enough to responsibly handle the amount of technology that is in the world. Look what happens once people start waking up, we have teacher shortages, fast food shortages, retail worker shortages, etc. Everyone realizing they deserve better all at once and look at what's happening. Most of us need to be asleep in order for the world to keep spinning. The messed up part is, the world likely would fall apart if we weren't getting our hands held by big brother.
Maybe we could let it fall apart, millions die, new regimes...sounds like fun...psychos. Honestly what's the alternative to this? There's at least the illusion of freedom, idt you guys want to go back to the wild wild west, people aren't civilized, they're domesticated, take that away and we'll become animals again.
Going from a young man to a father is not beta at all. Guys that prioritize their family is actually the greatest alpha thing a man can do. Make fathers great again
The idea of aplha and beta was borrowed from the studies of wolf packs (in zoo's). But wolf packs in the wild are mainly family. And the alpha is always the father. But alpha wolves share their status with their mate, the alpha female. This means that the female never submits and also makes decisions for the pack.
The beta wolves consist of the young and sometimes integrated wolves who take over the leadership of the departments, so to speak. Then there are subordinate wolves. Often these are former alphas who now mainly take care of the rearing and protection of the puppies. An extremely important job in the pack.
The omega wolf actually acts like a scapegoat. In fact, Omega wolves are often escaping this harassment and forming their own pack. AS ALPHA WOLF.^^
Facts
I personally despise the idea of me becoming a father and/or husband. I prefer my freedom over someone telling me what to do as if they were my parent
the original experiment they did in studies about "alphas" in the animal kingdom found that the alpha was actually just the father wolf that led a healthy family & acted as its leader, protector ... its literally so silly all these fake "alphas" think fatherhood inherently makes you less of a man, it doesn't mean you will become like Will Smith at all
@@Jezzebel1313 The highly-respected researcher who coined the term "alpha" to describe wolves, David Mech, retracted the study that supported his Alpha theory. On his website, he wrote: “This is the study that gave rise to the now outmoded notion of alpha wolves. That concept was based on the old idea that wolves fight within a pack to gain dominance and that the winner is the 'alpha' wolf.”
Aba is the embodiment of patience. I had to watch this in a couple of seatings 😅
i don't get why people get mad at someone for not fully supporting one side or "riding the fence". You dont have to fully agree with one side or the other to be genuine. Both sides make good points, but they also both say some dumbass shit sometimes. So i will never fully agree with one side over the other.
It's because of their ego, they know better than you in their mind so if you don't agree then you " don't think " according to him. He is spouting that everyone is being lied to and manipulated while he is doing the same thing to people.
Same here. Nuance is a lost art
The center path is the way
Being neutral is better