aihai broke up with Hai under pressure from her mother

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  • @narose5269
    @narose5269 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    I commented on an earlier episode, saying this group of Chinese dudes weren’t serious. They just wanted to have fun with these young girls, then dump them. That boy had no intention of going against his parents’ wishes. The Chinese men who work in African countries are earning money to afford a Chinese wife; which requires an expensive bride price. Chinese men, who are marrying African women, are poor rural men who have no chance of finding a wife in china.
    You see how this guy Hai coldly said goodbye to this girl, he was never serious. I agree with the mother, this dude was only using her young daughter.

    • @KimchoSwartz
      @KimchoSwartz 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      I was shocked how he coldly said goodbye to her at least give her huge or fight for her if you love her wow so shocking

    • @maria_mutondioriginal5
      @maria_mutondioriginal5 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They find girls in Africa just to get money in their TH-cam channels not love this people are there for opportunities not love 😢

    • @rhonda5056
      @rhonda5056 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly

  • @GrooveyRain
    @GrooveyRain 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Too bad the young lady didn't stay away from him, I don't know if she knew his parents did not want an African daughter-in-law, but he did! So he is not a good man. African women don't let these men play around with you like that. Respect yourself.

    • @marleneboychak9952
      @marleneboychak9952 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I don’t like him. He should stay single while in Africa.

  • @destinyforever
    @destinyforever 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    THIS is why I said earlier that these young ladies going to China to "play" with these guys was a bad idea. Anytime you have a superior (boss) willing to take his employees on a "trip" but will fire them on a whim, it means they were up to no good from the beginning. They have to beg for an advance (which I don't agree with, but I can empathize), but the big bosses were willing to shell out hundreds to go see the sites in their country. So many ladies were fawning over these guys because they bought them and their families fruit and other groceries. That means nothing-it's simply an abuse of power.

  • @melindakayewilliams1797
    @melindakayewilliams1797 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    He was never interested in her like that only for fun. Be aware young African girls. Date only when you are ready mentally and physically able to and the person is interested in marry you.

  • @billionviewedvideosandaudi6862
    @billionviewedvideosandaudi6862 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    If its true his parents don't eant an African girl ,then the mother is right to stop the relationship. These girls should go to school or learn a trade or skill to better their lives instead of counting on Chinese marriage lottery

    • @LudwinaElshuis
      @LudwinaElshuis 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@billionviewedvideosandaudi6862 Who want bighead with tractorshoes

  • @vamswolfmom4498
    @vamswolfmom4498 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    These group of unserious Chinese men are using these young girls foe their content to make money! The way this boy used to find Ana’s drag her everywhere to just merely shrugging her goodbye🤨She should thank her mother!

  • @rosenancy3382
    @rosenancy3382 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Aww they broke up 💔 ... Well u both will learn from this experience. Since Agnes will no longer work there, I wish her best of luck in everything. Goodbye Agnes 😢

  • @rhonda5056
    @rhonda5056 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    How can these young woman be protected from these predatory practices? They would not treat Chinese women like this.

  • @Gemma-cs5wj
    @Gemma-cs5wj 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I think these young girls should educate themself or get a skill

  • @Lovely45-m8r
    @Lovely45-m8r 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Good job mom❤She can get someone whose Parents want her ,,whether a Chinese or not,,Hai was using her for content because his parents don’t want an African

    • @kiminitodoke1992
      @kiminitodoke1992 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      On the contrary, these parents want an African for their daughter and especially not a Chinese. She is right, she wants to preserve her culture. Well done mom😘. And then he didn't work, he used and profited from Hai's image.

  • @kiminitodoke1992
    @kiminitodoke1992 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Congratulations mom, you are right! It's better to preserve your culture. Hai will have an African minister with her beauty and she is still young. We don't travel with men, especially Chinese ones. It’s a very good education 😊

    • @maloue3429
      @maloue3429 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      African minister ? Stop that

    • @kiminitodoke1992
      @kiminitodoke1992 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @maloue3429 Anything ! I am for the conservation of every culture regardless of the color OK! I don't care if you're black, yell🟡w or white. I've seen a lot of mixed couples but most often it's black and white but it's a shame because you lose the culture. But it’s still a little more tolerable 😉.
      You have to stop your complex !

  • @marleneboychak9952
    @marleneboychak9952 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I hope Mr. Hang and Battle realize the damage these two and Xio have done to their business. Hai and Xio wanting to take their girlfriend to China and the boss firing this young girl because she doesn’t want a Chinese boyfriend.

  • @r.gertse742
    @r.gertse742 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    HER MOM IS VERY CLEVER TO STOP THEIR RELATIONSHIP. HAI'S PARENTS ALREADY SAID THAT THEY DON'T WANT HIM TO MARRY AN AFRICAN WIFE. SO HE'LL BE JUST BE PLAYING WITH HER WITH NO SERIOUS INTENSIONS. I WOULD ALSO LET MY DAUGHTER BREAK UP WITH HAI😊

    • @tammygreen8962
      @tammygreen8962 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Wow
      Was he using her? Now firing her, Let it not be true

    • @PatriciaCaneval
      @PatriciaCaneval 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Not first and last time. In africa you have lot of children from chinese and african girls. These men use them and after come back to their country. Agnès go to school to built your future. You are still young.

    • @beramyers8873
      @beramyers8873 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@tammygreen8962her mother said she can’t work there anymore

  • @oumoukalsoumseck3952
    @oumoukalsoumseck3952 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Good thing
    Well done Mother !!!!

  • @Yorubally
    @Yorubally 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Just like that? What happens to fighting for your love or at least try? It seems he didn't care about her and just wanted to use her. He got what he wanted and all he needed was for her mon to say no once. She needs to get 3 different pregnancy tests to ensure she's not pregnant. She's pretty and can find a better man that does not need to wear 6" blocks to make up for height.

    • @marleneboychak9952
      @marleneboychak9952 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Yeah, the fact that he said, ‘I don’t want her working here’ then the cold ‘see you’ at the end. He’s a bad character.

    • @beramyers8873
      @beramyers8873 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@marleneboychak9952she said first her mother said she can’t work there anymore

  • @divinelumiere8564
    @divinelumiere8564 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    You guys, did bad!
    The parents's reaction is normal.
    You take a girl, you go out with her, even sleep with her but anyone in her family know. One day you come and say you want to go with her in china for one month to play.
    Who is crazy ?
    They don't act like serious person.
    Now he turns his back and cut off her job. So he doesn't serious at all.
    Player team!

    • @M-en5up
      @M-en5up 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      The guy just use her, he listen to he's families instruction not to married her😢😢 but he's still sleeping with her 😢

    • @divinelumiere8564
      @divinelumiere8564 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @M-en5up So sad!

    • @marleneboychak9952
      @marleneboychak9952 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      If they were in America he wouldn’t be able to fire her because she doesn’t want to date him anymore.
      That should be illegal.

    • @beramyers8873
      @beramyers8873 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@marleneboychak9952if you go back and listen she said her mother said she can’t come to work there no more. Her English is broken but that’s what I heard. He said that at the end possibly out of anger. Her mother told her she can’t have a Chinese boyfriend, she can’t go to china and can’t come there anymore

    • @marleneboychak9952
      @marleneboychak9952 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ He said it first and very quickly so that suggests it was not a serious relationship for him. I don’t blame her for getting back some dignity by saying that to him.

  • @eunicemusyoka7244
    @eunicemusyoka7244 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Ohhh its very emotional.. 😢😢😢 since the two have been doing an awesome content...... i think both should fight for their relationship.... just as Erica and ziheng...... both should show love to each other and work together until.... the parents are convinced to let them be couples. couples.....

  • @dzeindobrcesc4258
    @dzeindobrcesc4258 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Les parents de Hai ne voulait pas une fille Africaine, don quelque part Hai ne voulait pas une relation sérieuse avec Agnès, ce dommage car ils étaient compatibles tous 2 fautes des parents de Hai.

    • @therytondje3204
      @therytondje3204 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Côté beauté il ne casse pas 3 pattes à un canard la petite mérite même mieux.

  • @LeahSimiyu-eg3yb
    @LeahSimiyu-eg3yb 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Hope you don't open your legs for Him soulties breaking is no joke, our generation doesn't at about the dangerous of sex before marriage , and marrying of wrong partners

  • @julettepowell9377
    @julettepowell9377 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is sad. The guy parents said no also. If the relationship go further then she will not get the support from in-laws like Anita. If she goes to China and the parents see the affectionate between them then the guy's parents may accept accept the relationship. This is my opinion .

    • @rhonda5056
      @rhonda5056 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What did Anita get in exchange...she may be getting material possessions, but...

    • @julettepowell9377
      @julettepowell9377 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @rhonda5056 but the most important thing is that she was accepted by husband families, which is her in-laws. That is the biggest/greatest support, the love she received from them. That is important than material things.

    • @rhonda5056
      @rhonda5056 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@julettepowell9377 I agree.

  • @emi62507
    @emi62507 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    误会咯! 你们没动她说的意思啊。你到底喜不喜欢她呢? 在生活中,你要为最重要的事情而奋斗啊。你就这样放弃了,这说明你可能从未在乎过那个姑娘哦。 再考虑考虑吧。

  • @suedanoah2983
    @suedanoah2983 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    BUT WHY THE GUY WHO WAS SITTING SAID " I WANT GIVE HER WAGES, IT'S ONLY TWO DAYS LEFT FOR THE MONTH AND THEN HER JOB IS FINISHED" WHY TERMINATE HER JOB IF HER MOTHER SAID YOU CAN'T GO TO CHINA AND HAVE CHINESE BOYFRIEND? ISN'T THAT BLACKMAIL? IT WASN'T HER FAULT. SHE STILL NEED TO KEEP HER JOB IN ZAMBIA. WHY PUNISH THE TEENAGER WHO DESPERATELY NEED A JOB THAT SUPPORT WHOLE THE FAMILY? THEY'RE TRYING TO MAKE HER MOTHER CHANGE HER OPINION SO THAT AGNES WILL GET HER JOB BACK. VERY SAD AND CRUEL THINGS TO DO TO HER. I SUSPECT SHE GOT PREGNANT AND FORCED HER TO GET ABORTION AND HER MOTHER WAS ANGRY THE FACT THAT HE DIDN'T WANT TO MARRY HER AND SHE HAD TO GO THROUGH PAINFUL ABORTION IN SUCH A YOUNG AGE. ANY AFRICAN TRADITIONAL MOM WOULD BE ANGRY AND SAD HER TEENAGE DAUGHTER TO GET PREGNANT BEFORE MARRIAGE. 😇🙄🤔😭

    • @Vincent-of5pu
      @Vincent-of5pu 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      It was Aihai who said that her mother didn't want her working there anymore. And Hang then said there was only two days of the month left. They did not sack her.

  • @amaskaisimbi9130
    @amaskaisimbi9130 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What i saw on videos the boy didn't care about what his parents said he was willing to take Agnes to China to attend wedding and stand by her, because he loved her but if she refused because of her mother what else the boy can do? She said her mother doesn't want China boyfriend right? What do you want yourself? Is your mother the one who are going to live with him? Sometimes parents interfering with children relationships make bad decisions later they start to regret. She already slept with him what's she protecting now?😂 this is girls behave like small children. Why can't learn from other girls who married to Chinese men and see how happy they're. When they'll start getting pregnant with children who don't have their fathers they parents, they'll wish if they let their children to be with the ones they wanted to have better life

  • @OnyinyeEmegwamuo
    @OnyinyeEmegwamuo 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I understand Both English and Chinese fluently, the Chinese guy and the girl's English is not standard So they can't even express themselves very well , i can see some of the things the girl was trying to express about what her mother said, the Chinese guys reply shows they misunderstood her. Secondly both of them are not wise at all, can't he go to China without her and still be in the relationship with her ? Must she go to China with him? Why must? The girl on her own should find another excuse to give them instead of presenting her mother as a barrier in their relationship. Find reasonable excuse, tell him you really want to go to China, but he should give you time, China is there forever, you both can go as much as you want later in the future. He is even a young guy not those old ones that couldn't find Chinese girlfriend looking for African women to give them offsprings. Is only two of you can make this work

    • @tammygreen8962
      @tammygreen8962 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes
      Don't just walk away and have regrets later. It's worth the fight 🥊💪🏻🦸🏻‍♂️. Be a man and go for Love ❤. Or was you just using the 🌱 lady for fun and games

    • @trishnewman910
      @trishnewman910 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why are so many Chinese men targeting African women? This is not normal, this is some government conspiracy because, Chinese in General DO NOT RESPECT THOSE FROM THE BLACK RACE SO, THIS MUST BE A LONG TERM CHINESE PLAN TO SCRAPE UP THE NATURAL RESOURCES IN AFRICA. THERE IS NO AFFECTION FROM THESE PEOPLE, NADA!

    • @emi62507
      @emi62507 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I was coming to leave this exact same reply. They jumped to conclusions and misunderstood. She didn’t even get a chance to properly say what she wanted to. I don’t know why they don’t use a translator when talking such serious topics.

  • @Tasha870
    @Tasha870 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The wrong impression now every parent want every thing just like for angelina but they are not intrested in courtship first
    Am sorry if hai let go off her and find some else hope they will not regret

    • @M-en5up
      @M-en5up 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Theirs is no good Fondation for courtship. the guy listen to he's families instruction they clearly said no african wifes. the mom did the right thing, the Almighty! will bless her with a good home inchaallah

  • @CaroleMcDonnell
    @CaroleMcDonnell 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Perhaps it's all for the best.

  • @lsabel9128
    @lsabel9128 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    oh my goodness so if she cant be with the chinese guy..she cant work there anymore😮what was her job??was she just his story line for videos or wat??does it mean that he is going to find someone else😮no wonder why the mother wanted to come n see wat kind of job she does for them😢

    • @suedanoah2983
      @suedanoah2983 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      They basically punish her and especially her mother for not wanting a Chinese boyfriend and not worrying about her teenage girl to travel so far away for meaningless matters. If he wanted a future and marry her, then her mother might have accepted it. but just follow him around, it obviously, worried her mom. Even though the camera was rolling when Agnes appeared, it may have happened without the camera on and probably already calculated
      to punish her mother for not wanting a Chinese guy for her daughter. As they pretended it happened live, but the way her boyfriend acted proved that he knew it already, as he didn't surprise when her boss broke the news to him that her job was going to be terminated

  • @Vincent-of5pu
    @Vincent-of5pu 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think theres so unfairness to Hai, I really think he liked her. He sent someone to ask his parents to consider having an african daughter in law. He always preached happiness for all. His brusque response at the end was the hurt he was feeling. Language is the issue here. You can't go to a parent and say "go China to play" with their child.

  • @marlenemarlene945
    @marlenemarlene945 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Aww I will miss seeing them together. Guys I don't believe their relationship was sexual, obviously there's a distrust/misunderstanding somewhere. But as he hasn't proposed marriage they do not want it to go further. Hai has taken groceries to her mum house before.

  • @marianencnanda5046
    @marianencnanda5046 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    After this man support you when you were sick, he pay for everything really? Are you going to give up like that, fight for your love

    • @M-en5up
      @M-en5up 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      What can she do?? the guy and he's families doesn't want black wife

    • @dzeindobrcesc4258
      @dzeindobrcesc4258 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Les parents de Hai ne veulent pas une femme Africaine.

    • @tammygreen8962
      @tammygreen8962 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Dishonest dishonorable. Am I wrong. What did I miss

  • @Wanda-et4dh
    @Wanda-et4dh 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel Hai was hurt because she said her mom doesn't want her to have a Chinese boyfriend.

  • @HopefulSpaceCapsule-ob4eu
    @HopefulSpaceCapsule-ob4eu 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t think anyone should judge any one side, shame on you all and talk about culture blah, blah, blah how ironic. We don’t know how each side really feels or thinks or the real story. I think it’s right that she no longer work there it would be rather awkward and safer on both sides. I think they both had hopes but are young and pressure on both sides too much. It’s for the best, less trouble.

  • @tammygreen8962
    @tammygreen8962 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    😳 Wow 😯 Did he just fired her?. Why because the mother is protecting her daughter. Someone can you explain what just happened here....

    • @suedanoah2983
      @suedanoah2983 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      She laid off just to punish her mother for not wanting a Chinese boyfriend for her daughter and also punish Agnes for obeying her mom. How cruel was that? That punishment may force her mom to change her mind, as she may have been the only bread winner in the family 😞😇🙄🤔

    • @LeahSimiyu-eg3yb
      @LeahSimiyu-eg3yb 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@suedanoah2983lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @M-en5up
      @M-en5up 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@suedanoah2983really may the Almighty guide you. So arrogant, are you the one supporting us before or your chinese brother and he's racist families ???

  • @M-en5up
    @M-en5up 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    The Chinese guys said, he's families said no black wife 😢 so he's just basically using her. In my opinion her mom did the right thing, the guy need to behaving honorably, married her or help her fund a good home

    • @divinelumiere8564
      @divinelumiere8564 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      A master player!
      This why he turns his back...He was not in love

    • @M-en5up
      @M-en5up 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@divinelumiere8564not at all😒 he says he's families tell him they don't want a black wife, in the video he started to pay her, but he's still using her body

    • @tammygreen8962
      @tammygreen8962 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😮😢..​@@M-en5up

  • @NtombiMpanza-vw5up
    @NtombiMpanza-vw5up 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Your mom why she's like that if u love him don't live him his a good guy

    • @dzeindobrcesc4258
      @dzeindobrcesc4258 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Les parents de Hai depuis le début ils ne veulent pas que leur fils épouse une Africaine.

  • @FacilityWalure
    @FacilityWalure 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    why was she laid off her job??? maybe the mum needs more time

    • @suedanoah2983
      @suedanoah2983 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      No he just decided on it based on what her mother said, as he said bluntly " 2 days left for the month, I'll pay her wages and her job is finished " Is kind of a punishment to her mother as she said to her daughter " I don't want you to have a Chinese boyfriend, " So let's see if firing her would change her mom's mind. I personally found It very cruel, because she probably wasn't expecting it. What's her breaking up her Chinese boyfriend got anything to do with her job? She didn't do anything wrong working the shop, did she? 😇😞🙄🤔

    • @neisharoberts7143
      @neisharoberts7143 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Her mom don't want her to work there anymore

    • @barbarasalem9278
      @barbarasalem9278 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Jin Tao / Anita is NOT A GOOD WAY TO MAKE A COMPARISON. Hai and Anhai are working and BOTH YOUNG. JINTAO WAS MATCHMAD BY DR HANG! JINTAO IS OLD WITH disability. Jin Taos parents are HAPPY WITH BLACK WIFE OR ANYONE TO GET HIM A WIFE😮😮!

    • @barbarasalem9278
      @barbarasalem9278 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ANHAI SLEPT WITH HAI AND SHOWN TO BE PREGNANT WHEN HAI TOOK HER TO A LOCAL HOSPITAL IN RECENT VIDEO. ANHAI WAS SICK AND HAD TO GO TO A DOCTOR AFTER SLEEPING WITH A CHINESE MAN! HAI IS WHO SHE DATED AFTER AGNES WAS SENT AWAY. THE YOUNG CHINESE MEN USE THE AFRICAN GIRLS! IT IS A SHAME MANY BABIES ARE ABORTED! THE CHINESE BOYS ONLY WANT TO HAVE SEX AND CALL IT "PLAY" TO THE AFRICAN GIRLS!

  • @FatumahMwima
    @FatumahMwima 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Sorry hai come to me 😊

    • @LudwinaElshuis
      @LudwinaElshuis 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      He will not marry black women only play

    • @FatumahMwima
      @FatumahMwima 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @LudwinaElshuis 🤣🤣for sure he will never

  • @TeclahSMoyo-qr5es
    @TeclahSMoyo-qr5es 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    With this wrong translation and language barrier.maybe it's a small issue that can be solved

  • @milyk9448
    @milyk9448 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What was her job? Making videos with the Chinese guys? Just a valid question.

    • @fifana3heart
      @fifana3heart 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I think they treat them like toy to play with and follow them around

    • @M-en5up
      @M-en5up 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He's need to be genuine and please stop using the poor girl physically and video wise. Please don't curse me

    • @milyk9448
      @milyk9448 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@fifana3heart thank you.

    • @divinelumiere8564
      @divinelumiere8564 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wash clothes

    • @tammygreen8962
      @tammygreen8962 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Really 🥺. So dishonest and shameful ​@@fifana3heart

  • @chatelefrance2719
    @chatelefrance2719 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Il faut aussi s engagé avec de pâti. Atina se marie avec de pâti avec son mari. Et toi un es ancor sur la protection de tes parents pourquoi les parents devront accepter pâti si loin sans garantie