@@safaabekh952 you think providing money for the family is only enough? He was never there as a father or a husband and now he puts on this child act every time
I see a lot of judging comments towards the dad, I just want to say that yes he is wrong about a lot of things but he has people around him that are helping him change and he is trying to improve himself as well. I hope he can become a better dad and husband! Good luck
Haven't seen an improvement until now!! He is hopeless but I believe that is also his wife fault for putting up with his behaviour!! But I guess that's the asien mindset to accept that women must tolerate everything!!
the sad part is he always has a way of justifying his way of thinking and actions even when his reasons are just plain absurd already, i’m glad their family is getting along well compared to the past episodes but he needs to fix his mindset so they’ll live together peacefully
@@christinepena5972 i think because he never grow up, even though after marriage and got kids 🤷🏻♀️ how he live afar from his family really told that all
Why is he acting like a kid too ?? It’s literally his own fault for being away and not creating bonds nor memories with his kids and now he’s putting the blame on them and wondering why they treat him like a stranger ??? At least hwari seemed happy that’s all that matters
fr like especially the „what did i do wrong, i work so hard everyday to raise those kids“ part where he said he relates to,you weren’t even there to raise them for the most part??
@@yongtooru honestly after ive seen a couple of dad interviews and since my own dad had a job that required him to go away for months, i can understand what he means when he says he worked so hard. but the problem is, kids need parents to remember important details like their birthday or favourite food... if you stop doing that no matter your job.. it just stops any and all discourse between the parent and the kids
@@Randomly.cliche my father was the same. Distance is really a big obstacle for creating real relationships with the kids. So I understand both sides too, from the dad and kids. That both are humans and not perfect. All of their feelings are valid tbh. Im just glad that the dad realized what's wrong and will do his best to get back
This cave man is extremely lucky to have such a beautiful family, his kids are amazing, smart,articulate and funny and his wife is wonderfully gracious humanbeing!!!
Coming from a south Asian strict family I think I can really understand his problem!!the man was brought up in that environment only !!! So I think he needs to understand that it’s 21st century and work on it !!! ❤️
"my daughter is mad at me for me letting my stress out on everyone... so i'll get cold with her too." I AM DONE. his children are more mature than him it's embarassing
If men with that kind of mindset were observant, would notice kids go to their mom more than anything with that kind of upbringing. That old type of mindset of upbringing make kids comfortable with mom than dad. Wife on the other hand, has learned to do everything on her own. By the end of the day, she just wants to rest and sleep to start the routine all over again. (There goes the intimacy life.)
I don’t know why I am alway just disgusted by his point of view, like how the heck that man call himself a father and all that for him is a sacrifice? Like at that age and act like a kiddo?
Your lucky man you have a good wife. Treasure her treasure your family. Dont be a selfish jerk. Be matured. Your life before is already a past be good now and be better for the future for your family.
I'm just speechless hearing him complaining to his friends about how tired he is and how much he has sacrificed for his kids for what??? Dropping them off at school? I've never seen him cook or clean or put even a fraction of the effort his wife does and yet he has the audacity to come on TV and act like some martyr when we can literally see his every action LMAO
Being away for so many years and not building bonds with his kids at all. He wonders why they're so distant with him. Their whole living situation is just totally weird to me.
his mindset is too old fashion. he expect woman to do the child caring and house cleaning, etc. he never bath his children when they were young and rarely changed their diapers. he expect the family to adapt to him instead of him adapting to them since he is years away from them.
@@lurveseunot I saw that. I also just saw the clip when he went on a date with his wife and they revealed he tore apart a modeling contract right in front of her. I get that the difference to western marriages is there, but that's just cruel.
@@Kribbelchen i know right. she wants to start a career. i mean the children are already grown up. and he is at home. i must salute her for tolerating him for so long.
1:57 he isn't serious right? he is complaining about picking up the kids and dropping them from/at school? this is like.. the least you can do. it's basic. my dad would volunteer to pick them up and drop them off. like i'm 21 now and even though both of us know i should know how to get to places myself he would sometimes still tell me he'd drop me off. my mom literally drops my siblings off at 2 different schools every morning (waking up at 6) and picks them up at different hours from school everyday. my mom (also dad if he is free) would drop my lil brother at his training, also sometimes stay there to support him and go back home. my mom would also everyday drop my sister off at the mosque (schooling) and pick her up both weekend days. and it's not like they enjoy doing so but they do it bc it's like.. given that as a parent they would do so if they're capable to do it. this got me so mad how he whines over stuff as if he is mad. i'd get so mad knowing my dad/husband would complain about stuff like that to his friends. my dad also is stuck on some old fashioned stuff but he still does the least. how come that man would complain about so many things when his wife got all the burden from the lat 18 years it's frustrating.
Guy like him should never get married in the first place. I know how it feels. Bcs I have this kind of man in my house. He never helps fold clothes, or any house chores. He thinks all that is women’s job. Selfish.
He is kind of trying to change his 1960´s mindset, but still. It took him 18+ years to realize its also his job to raise HIS kids? He is lucky his wife didnt divorce him and just left with the kids 18 years ago. He seems like a hilarious dude, but he has definitely been a shitty father and husband. the wife did a good job raising them, cause the son is so funny and the daughter is a really hardworking student.
“My job is to drop my kids off at school and pick them up and it’s just so hard to believe. I’m just filled with anger Do all men sacrifice themselves like this?” Is this man serious!? 😓 Thats like doing the bare minimum as a parent... Thank god his friends at least have a better mindset on parenting and seem to be mature.
I dont get the hate. This is PROGRESS. Reflecting is at least good. I feel like men who'd retire would always have late life crisis when they retire lmao
all i ssee here is people from america and europe not able to understand how hard it is to earn money in asian countries many parents in asia sometimes have to leave there family so they could provide the best life there child can get. you guys think that it is his fault for not being with his kid. im pretty sure his kids wouldve blamed him if couldnt buy food or neccesities for them thats what failure is in asian countries. his point of view is he struggled as well and thought his kids could understand him but not being respected for the people you provide is saddening. sometimes we think what the needs is time with parents no you need moneyt for their education food utilities etc. in korea if you dont pass Korean sat your future is unclear, saving for their study aboard takes a lot money but you guys wont get it. life is hard when you dont have money ask anyone seperating for couple of years is better or not being able to provide basic ameneties is?
His absence wouldn't be receiving this much backlash if it were for the reasons you stated. But he left his family because he wanted to pursue his dreams and ambitions not because of money. He didn't even told his wife of his plans. He just decided on his own.
this dad is childish, if you are in chinese mindset probably gonna slap them your butt, its natural to raise your kids bcoz thats your job when u got married lol
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The man's friend is amazing..... every body needs a friend like them..
Wow. Atleast he has more mature friends that can explain to him how to be a better husband and father.
" the worst kind of father is the one who is gentle to others outside of family" that's one big reality!!!
It's great to see them celebrating birthdays and to see Hwari smiling
wow his poor wife he should be more grateful for how well supported he's been for the last 2 decades
He got paid and was probably the only source of money for them lol so chill.
@@safaabekh952 you think providing money for the family is only enough? He was never there as a father or a husband and now he puts on this child act every time
@Duolingo Owl if he has some trauma or problems for the sake of his family he should get treated. i think he's just too full of himself
I see a lot of judging comments towards the dad, I just want to say that yes he is wrong about a lot of things but he has people around him that are helping him change and he is trying to improve himself as well. I hope he can become a better dad and husband! Good luck
Seeing the new eps coming out.
I think the word "trying to improve himself" isn't in his vocabulary....
Haven't seen an improvement until now!! He is hopeless but I believe that is also his wife fault for putting up with his behaviour!! But I guess that's the asien mindset to accept that women must tolerate everything!!
He needs to attend a gender equality class
the sad part is he always has a way of justifying his way of thinking and actions even when his reasons are just plain absurd already, i’m glad their family is getting along well compared to the past episodes but he needs to fix his mindset so they’ll live together peacefully
@@christinepena5972 i think because he never grow up, even though after marriage and got kids 🤷🏻♀️ how he live afar from his family really told that all
@@celline.t i guess it’s better late than never, if he begins to change now then it’ll end up better for him and his family
I'm just shocked to see his wife didn't leave him n sacrificed her life for her children 😳 She acted both as a Mom n Dad to her children...
Love the mindset of his friends 💓👏👏
Why is he acting like a kid too ?? It’s literally his own fault for being away and not creating bonds nor memories with his kids and now he’s putting the blame on them and wondering why they treat him like a stranger ??? At least hwari seemed happy that’s all that matters
i mean atleast he understands hes in the wrong now.. dude was in denial before 😂😂
fr like especially the „what did i do wrong, i work so hard everyday to raise those kids“ part where he said he relates to,you weren’t even there to raise them for the most part??
@@yongtooru honestly after ive seen a couple of dad interviews and since my own dad had a job that required him to go away for months, i can understand what he means when he says he worked so hard. but the problem is, kids need parents to remember important details like their birthday or favourite food... if you stop doing that no matter your job.. it just stops any and all discourse between the parent and the kids
@@Randomly.cliche my father was the same. Distance is really a big obstacle for creating real relationships with the kids. So I understand both sides too, from the dad and kids. That both are humans and not perfect. All of their feelings are valid tbh. Im just glad that the dad realized what's wrong and will do his best to get back
This cave man is extremely lucky to have such a beautiful family, his kids are amazing, smart,articulate and funny and his wife is wonderfully gracious humanbeing!!!
Cave man😂
He has a great family. He needs a reminder at all time. Esp. her spouse his wife is a keeper.
Rewatching this. Am just glad the Dad’s friends are amazing.
Gladly, he have mature friends.
They're finally having a great time to their father🥰
Coming from a south Asian strict family I think I can really understand his problem!!the man was brought up in that environment only !!! So I think he needs to understand that it’s 21st century and work on it !!! ❤️
Glad their relationship getting better 👍👏
he really don't deserve them.The fact that his family surprised him after talking bad about them behind their back😬😬
He not talk bad lol u didnt understand anything he blame himslef
@@obitouchiha8053 he did talk bad.
Only blamed himself after his friends made him aware of his own ignorant words
"my daughter is mad at me for me letting my stress out on everyone... so i'll get cold with her too." I AM DONE. his children are more mature than him it's embarassing
If men with that kind of mindset were observant, would notice kids go to their mom more than anything with that kind of upbringing. That old type of mindset of upbringing make kids comfortable with mom than dad.
Wife on the other hand, has learned to do everything on her own. By the end of the day, she just wants to rest and sleep to start the routine all over again. (There goes the intimacy life.)
I don’t know why I am alway just disgusted by his point of view, like how the heck that man call himself a father and all that for him is a sacrifice? Like at that age and act like a kiddo?
He is suffering from andropause
@@abhilashmehera3813 that's an excuse to just continue how the way he acts before to now.
@@fleurcha7151 i think he is better now
Your lucky man you have a good wife. Treasure her treasure your family. Dont be a selfish jerk. Be matured. Your life before is already a past be good now and be better for the future for your family.
Honestly it makes sense why he acts the way he does he has a mindset of sm his age would have about a family
Been watching all their episodes, I just think his wife and children deserve so much better. He is so not trying
His wife is so sweet
Good thing he knows he did wrong and is willing to change besides his human you can't really blame him
Si happy for them !! , love this family
I'm just speechless hearing him complaining to his friends about how tired he is and how much he has sacrificed for his kids for what??? Dropping them off at school? I've never seen him cook or clean or put even a fraction of the effort his wife does and yet he has the audacity to come on TV and act like some martyr when we can literally see his every action LMAO
That's just a weird dad.. 😂
He knows nothing about parenting ugh
Being away for so many years and not building bonds with his kids at all. He wonders why they're so distant with him. Their whole living situation is just totally weird to me.
his mindset is too old fashion. he expect woman to do the child caring and house cleaning, etc. he never bath his children when they were young and rarely changed their diapers. he expect the family to adapt to him instead of him adapting to them since he is years away from them.
@@lurveseunot I saw that. I also just saw the clip when he went on a date with his wife and they revealed he tore apart a modeling contract right in front of her. I get that the difference to western marriages is there, but that's just cruel.
@@Kribbelchen i know right. she wants to start a career. i mean the children are already grown up. and he is at home. i must salute her for tolerating him for so long.
1:57 he isn't serious right? he is complaining about picking up the kids and dropping them from/at school? this is like.. the least you can do. it's basic. my dad would volunteer to pick them up and drop them off. like i'm 21 now and even though both of us know i should know how to get to places myself he would sometimes still tell me he'd drop me off. my mom literally drops my siblings off at 2 different schools every morning (waking up at 6) and picks them up at different hours from school everyday. my mom (also dad if he is free) would drop my lil brother at his training, also sometimes stay there to support him and go back home. my mom would also everyday drop my sister off at the mosque (schooling) and pick her up both weekend days. and it's not like they enjoy doing so but they do it bc it's like.. given that as a parent they would do so if they're capable to do it. this got me so mad how he whines over stuff as if he is mad. i'd get so mad knowing my dad/husband would complain about stuff like that to his friends. my dad also is stuck on some old fashioned stuff but he still does the least. how come that man would complain about so many things when his wife got all the burden from the lat 18 years it's frustrating.
4:09 “What a shameless man” you got that right... 😓
hwari is so pretty i can't😭😭😭😭❤❤❤
He has great family needs to remember
Dang the beginning made me think he didn't deserve the surprise 😂😂😂
what kind of a father and husband is he !!!
I only watch this family, so entertaining..haha
I sincerely pray and hope He changes himself And Respect his family members decision...
I hope he'll change to be a good husband and dad
I hope hwari meet again taeyeon(2pm).. like the drama father and daugther.. 😊😊
HER WIFE IS SO PRETTY
It's so touching 😍😍😍
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ❤️❤️❤️
I cannot with this man.
Well…the redeeming quality is the he admits it know all he has to do is make changes to his mindset towards his family and his life or divorce.
Guy like him should never get married in the first place. I know how it feels. Bcs I have this kind of man in my house. He never helps fold clothes, or any house chores. He thinks all that is women’s job. Selfish.
He is kind of trying to change his 1960´s mindset, but still. It took him 18+ years to realize its also his job to raise HIS kids? He is lucky his wife didnt divorce him and just left with the kids 18 years ago. He seems like a hilarious dude, but he has definitely been a shitty father and husband. the wife did a good job raising them, cause the son is so funny and the daughter is a really hardworking student.
cornelia street :DDD
“My job is to drop my kids off at school and pick them up and it’s just so hard to believe. I’m just filled with anger Do all men sacrifice themselves like this?” Is this man serious!? 😓 Thats like doing the bare minimum as a parent... Thank god his friends at least have a better mindset on parenting and seem to be mature.
why are they playing cornelia street on kbs? 😭😭😭
Omg he is such a 꼰대 😂. I really hope he improves for his family’s sake ❤
there's no eng sub for the first time =(
They added eng subs!
@@sweetmodeleyicte6991 YAYYYYY!
I just want to know where he was and why he missed out on his kids lives?
He had a baseball career
@@mrzlamagla baseball*
@@awatifmasoud3877 oh yeah, sorry
When his friends as that he is just as immature as his son ... No way his son is mature than him
Allah LOOOOOOOOL this comment section brutal asl too
I dont get the hate. This is PROGRESS. Reflecting is at least good. I feel like men who'd retire would always have late life crisis when they retire lmao
What is wrong with these men? I’m glad his friends called him on his sh!t.
You are not the guy my man
all i ssee here is people from america and europe not able to understand how hard it is to earn money in asian countries many parents in asia sometimes have to leave there family so they could provide the best life there child can get. you guys think that it is his fault for not being with his kid. im pretty sure his kids wouldve blamed him if couldnt buy food or neccesities for them thats what failure is in asian countries. his point of view is he struggled as well and thought his kids could understand him but not being respected for the people you provide is saddening. sometimes we think what the needs is time with parents no you need moneyt for their education food utilities etc. in korea if you dont pass Korean sat your future is unclear, saving for their study aboard takes a lot money but you guys wont get it. life is hard when you dont have money ask anyone seperating for couple of years is better or not being able to provide basic ameneties is?
His absence wouldn't be receiving this much backlash if it were for the reasons you stated. But he left his family because he wanted to pursue his dreams and ambitions not because of money. He didn't even told his wife of his plans. He just decided on his own.
This man triggers me so much!! ugh his comments make my skin crawl
7th grade can't even spell birthday😱
Wow...what an ungrateful "man"....
this dad is childish, if you are in chinese mindset probably gonna slap them your butt, its natural to raise your kids bcoz thats your job when u got married lol
The dad 🤢🤮