Thank you Violet. I have ADHD and I’m finding all of this super complicated. It’s hard because being my authentic self isn’t always everyone’s cup of tea and my intentions are often misinterpreted and therefore it doesn’t always feel safe to be myself. I’ll be my authentic self around other neurodivergent people and they just get me and there is no problem. Also my relative ADHD needs are hard to tease out from beliefs and thoughts. Like I can see some thoughts as thoughts, but my body says ‘nope, you’re overwhelmed now’ and I’ll shut down, need space and rest. I think I’ve just got to go with what my body tells me sometimes. Like I’m learning that even something like shutdown is actually just a natural reaction from my body to keep me safe because my body is taking on so much more than most people do. Maybe ‘shutdown’ isn’t something to try and fix or something that is wrong with me, but a friend to look after.
The pressure to BE(this person) to fit in and survive( maybe thrive) The assumption that I'm unhappy because there is something wrong with me, the way I'm doing things, this society. Does anybody know what we are or the nature of this reality?? ( what did we learn in school) We making this shit up as we are going along, see what happens when you step out of character, how quickly society immune response activates, when it detects an anomaly, that threatens its existence. This place Can be your prison or chrysalis.
There are so many of us neurodivergents in the non duality community and this and chronic pain and/or disabilities needs addressing. I've been a high masking dual late diagnosed and was told and believed I was crazy! So important and so grateful 🎉❤🙏
What helps me is just being aware of what is here… this way conditionings are seen through & over time disappear without any need to think about a solution … & then the natural expression of this moment runs the show so organically… Lots of love to you! ❤️
Synchronicity strikes again! I was struggling with shadow work in ways I haven't seen described by others very much, and was so confused by it. Just this week it hit me that it's the neurodivergence at play, mild Asperger's is making the process different and it's ok, it doesn't have to follow anyone else's map.
Hi Violet! As a mother of four neurodivergent girls and probably somewhat undiagnosed neurodivergent person myself, I appreciate your experience sharing here... sometimes it feels really hard and challenging parenting neurodivergent children but I'm trying to educate myself more about these conditions and be more compassionate and understanding with them and with myself 🙏❤️❤️❤️ big hug 🤗
@@TheEvaluna1975 that is so beautiful you are aware and helping them as children. Most children don’t have that care of a parent so I appreciate you do. Lots of love.
Me too, I feel everything energetically in busy places, it can be tiring and overwhelming being in busy cities but I do love them. I need to be in nature often. I have sometimes picked up on the thoughts of others due to my sensitivity. Thank you for sharing on this important topic. I just realised that the name I have given myself for my energy work is Indigo Energies and you are Violet Synergy! It’s a little coincidence but I thought I’d mention it because it seems relevant. 💙💜
I have always thought that my awakening gave me PTSD but truly i have no idea who i was and still this, this body is really trying his best to regulate things he couldn't do before
@@VioletSynergyplease do :) another fellow neurodivergent here who is always curious about how the process of awakening differs for us. Such an important topic and so appreciative of your content ❤️
@@Kogirius I don’t think neurodivergence is the hindrance but rather identity. I used to have thoughts like “because I am dyslexic I can’t do this ______.” That is identification with dyslexia. Believing that is who I am. Limiting me from learning or growing. Rather it’s a way this brain functions and has nothing to do with me. And with that de-identification I am open to figure out how I can learn to do the thing _____ in the way my brain processes. In full acknowledgment and care for my brain that it has a hard time learning said thing. Understanding and compassion has changed everything when I approach learning with dyslexia. I also have other neurodivergent processes and chronic illness’s and creating the space where I can be as I am with these things has allowed me to grow and learn without negative self talk and judgment and limiting beliefs about who and what I am. A quote I saw recently “the only thing that can limit you is believing you’re limited.” So maybe for you identifying the challenge specifically and the limiting beliefs and identities around it. Happy to help if you need support. Hope this helps
but sorry…..there is seeing the mask of Violet….is not natural….words are very personal and made of mind❣️….It seems there is something that you want to be❣️🫶🏼…..you are caught in mind and i wish you will be freed❣️…..You are,…..when there is no believing in mind❣️
@@birgit8996 it is unkind and not acceptable to leave a comment like this. Maybe it’s best to sit with what you’re actually feeling before saying something like this on a comment. Happy to talk directly if you have a question- you don’t have to agree with what I am saying in the video but jumping to the comment section and bullying me by telling me what I am and what you believe about me isn’t ok. maybe it’s best to feel and see your own beliefs before telling someone what they are. If you continue to leave comments like this I will have to block you to protect the community safe space here.
Thank you Violet.
I have ADHD and I’m finding all of this super complicated. It’s hard because being my authentic self isn’t always everyone’s cup of tea and my intentions are often misinterpreted and therefore it doesn’t always feel safe to be myself. I’ll be my authentic self around other neurodivergent people and they just get me and there is no problem.
Also my relative ADHD needs are hard to tease out from beliefs and thoughts. Like I can see some thoughts as thoughts, but my body says ‘nope, you’re overwhelmed now’ and I’ll shut down, need space and rest.
I think I’ve just got to go with what my body tells me sometimes. Like I’m learning that even something like shutdown is actually just a natural reaction from my body to keep me safe because my body is taking on so much more than most people do. Maybe ‘shutdown’ isn’t something to try and fix or something that is wrong with me, but a friend to look after.
The pressure to BE(this person) to fit in and survive( maybe thrive)
The assumption that I'm unhappy because there is something wrong with me, the way I'm doing things, this society.
Does anybody know what we are or the nature of this reality?? ( what did we learn in school)
We making this shit up as we are going along,
see what happens when you step out of character,
how quickly society immune response activates, when it detects an anomaly, that threatens its existence.
This place
Can be your prison or chrysalis.
There are so many of us neurodivergents in the non duality community and this and chronic pain and/or disabilities needs addressing. I've been a high masking dual late diagnosed and was told and believed I was crazy! So important and so grateful 🎉❤🙏
@@ravenofthewild thanks for sharing. I’m inspired to give it a voice more and more
@@ravenofthewild the crazy judgment breaks my heart.
Yes 💛 Thank you for showing up and speaking such truth 🙏 Late diagnosed woman on a spiritual journey here….. the words you speak resonate ✨
I relate to this as a neurodivergent/autistic woman, diagnosed 6 months ago, and in this process of dissolving. Thank you! ❤️
Totally 💯 relate to this! Thank you so much for sharing. Very 💎
What helps me is just being aware of what is here… this way conditionings are seen through & over time disappear without any need to think about a solution … & then the natural expression of this moment runs the show so organically… Lots of love to you! ❤️
Synchronicity strikes again! I was struggling with shadow work in ways I haven't seen described by others very much, and was so confused by it. Just this week it hit me that it's the neurodivergence at play, mild Asperger's is making the process different and it's ok, it doesn't have to follow anyone else's map.
@@AlexanderSamarth I’m glad you feel supported and less confused
Relate completely 😊 several months ago. I was about to ask/inquire, however, wasn't my place 💜
Hi Violet! As a mother of four neurodivergent girls and probably somewhat undiagnosed neurodivergent person myself, I appreciate your experience sharing here... sometimes it feels really hard and challenging parenting neurodivergent children but I'm trying to educate myself more about these conditions and be more compassionate and understanding with them and with myself 🙏❤️❤️❤️ big hug 🤗
@@TheEvaluna1975 that is so beautiful you are aware and helping them as children. Most children don’t have that care of a parent so I appreciate you do. Lots of love.
@@VioletSynergy🙏❤️
Beautiful description. Thank you for sharing your presence and words ❤
I love you Violet and thank you for your daily shares... Namaste 🙏
Me too, I feel everything energetically in busy places, it can be tiring and overwhelming being in busy cities but I do love them. I need to be in nature often. I have sometimes picked up on the thoughts of others due to my sensitivity. Thank you for sharing on this important topic. I just realised that the name I have given myself for my energy work is Indigo Energies and you are Violet Synergy! It’s a little coincidence but I thought I’d mention it because it seems relevant. 💙💜
@@bridietulloch1520 that’s amazing, keep in touch.
I have always thought that my awakening gave me PTSD but truly i have no idea who i was and still this, this body is really trying his best to regulate things he couldn't do before
@@Jiraikaa hugs. I understand this. Awakening opens so much.
Thank you darlin’ Violet for you honesty, sharing and caring. Much 💕
@@Lisa.Martin_AL welcome Lisa!
Yes. AuDHD here. Really appreciate you.
@@darbydelane4588 same.
Thank you! I can certainly relate. You are so beautiful. ❤
Thank you Violet❤😊
Thanks .😊
❤Thank you
Lovely video Violet. ❤
Miss you Violet! Started work again so you might see me in Satsang again soon. Hope you're well ❤🔥
@@mattol7724 your always a valuable voice to have in our group Matt! Hoping your well. :)
Absolutly ~ to let go of masking is so libérateur !
Yes💯 And just watching all those people walk by...oh my...whew
Nice video.
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Beautiful, Violet :)
Someone like me! wow
@@HopefulTarnished oh good. Glad you relate: I’ll talk more about it
@@VioletSynergyplease do :) another fellow neurodivergent here who is always curious about how the process of awakening differs for us. Such an important topic and so appreciative of your content ❤️
Is neurodivergency a hindrance to the initial awakening? I sometimes feel like my troubles with accessing the presence is due to some kind of issues.
@@Kogirius I don’t think neurodivergence is the hindrance but rather identity. I used to have thoughts like “because I am dyslexic I can’t do this ______.” That is identification with dyslexia. Believing that is who I am. Limiting me from learning or growing. Rather it’s a way this brain functions and has nothing to do with me. And with that de-identification I am open to figure out how I can learn to do the thing _____ in the way my brain processes. In full acknowledgment and care for my brain that it has a hard time learning said thing. Understanding and compassion has changed everything when I approach learning with dyslexia. I also have other neurodivergent processes and chronic illness’s and creating the space where I can be as I am with these things has allowed me to grow and learn without negative self talk and judgment and limiting beliefs about who and what I am.
A quote I saw recently “the only thing that can limit you is believing you’re limited.”
So maybe for you identifying the challenge specifically and the limiting beliefs and identities around it. Happy to help if you need support.
Hope this helps
but sorry…..there is seeing the mask of Violet….is not natural….words are very personal and made of mind❣️….It seems there is something that you want to be❣️🫶🏼…..you are caught in mind and i wish you will be freed❣️…..You are,…..when there is no believing in mind❣️
@@birgit8996 it is unkind and not acceptable to leave a comment like this. Maybe it’s best to sit with what you’re actually feeling before saying something like this on a comment. Happy to talk directly if you have a question- you don’t have to agree with what I am saying in the video but jumping to the comment section and bullying me by telling me what I am and what you believe about me isn’t ok. maybe it’s best to feel and see your own beliefs before telling someone what they are. If you continue to leave comments like this I will have to block you to protect the community safe space here.
@@VioletSynergy
love❣️🫶🏼 is❣️…..also in that written….but mind don’t understand❣️
@@birgit8996 ok do you understand the boundary? If you aren’t kind in my comment section I will block you?
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@@VioletSynergy
do you think... I want to hurt you?... There is no intention❣️... only the perceived❣️
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