Love your content! Just noticed that you tend to talk over the other person quite a lot, probably unintentional but it would be better to hear a bit more from the other person😂😂
I know I noticed that when I was editing it😣😣 it was annoying me the entire time, when I film part 2 It'll be different dw. I just can't help but talk, I hate being silent, it's a curse😂😂
Great to hear your dad. It's always nice to hear the parents of trans people, it helps those who still haven't come out and might struggle to imagine "the life after". Your dad seems cool & laid-back! Btw, could you next ask questions you were worried about before coming out (if those already weren't in this vid)? Anyhow, great thanks to your dad & nice to see him again soon :)
Hi Toby, i watched this & it’s so nice to see such supportive loving parents that you have . I know personally what it’s like when You tell family & they decide on their own without saying anything & they disown you because in their eyes that your an embarrassment to them I know how much it hurts , I told originally told my dad that i was a girl when i was age 5 but they never took any notice & just wanted to get rid of me
Sup Laddie, you got a very chill dad! I also like space stuff and thinking about certain mythical stuff I suppose :p Idk how to word it. My mom is okay with me being trans but she prefers to call me by my old name and such but I dont hate her for it, I actually only feel really bad when other people do it since I have a bond with my mom, no matter what happened before. She has short term memory loss and is on the older side. But she can crack jokes and laugh too. We werent a crazy formal family either. Very critical and distant from each other, yet if things are well, we joke around about farts, smells, sounds, stupid stuff that happened. But yeah, Its always better to have a supportive family eventually. I learned I had to drop a lot of people as I came out and I they preferred not to really listen to me on what being trans actually is besides as they call it: cross dressing, sexual preference or wanting to fit in.... they really think its pure image issues in society and its only part of it! But they see it as attention seeking as in: its not a disorder, its a mistake i made. Which offends me for some reason even more since a disorder is a recognized problem people should accept and help like anxiety, depression (which also comes with gender dysphoria ....)
Sup, yeah he is very chill! I think most of my family are now after we stopped talking for a bit but now we're closer than ever. And it's good you can have a laugh with your mother, that's what life's all about after all✨♥️
Ohhhh, yeah I was rather confused by that one, but his answer was still generally the same as mine, cause I told rather than him and I think he explains it in part two of the video
Omg, at some point, I heard a weird squeaky noise sometimes in the background and I thought someone was changing a light bulb when it was actually birds XD I got paranoid someone was changing the light bulbs cos yes, some are broken over here tbh XD so it made sense to me darn
Love your content! Just noticed that you tend to talk over the other person quite a lot, probably unintentional but it would be better to hear a bit more from the other person😂😂
I know I noticed that when I was editing it😣😣 it was annoying me the entire time, when I film part 2 It'll be different dw. I just can't help but talk, I hate being silent, it's a curse😂😂
Great to hear your dad. It's always nice to hear the parents of trans people, it helps those who still haven't come out and might struggle to imagine "the life after". Your dad seems cool & laid-back! Btw, could you next ask questions you were worried about before coming out (if those already weren't in this vid)?
Anyhow, great thanks to your dad & nice to see him again soon :)
Yeah I've already filmed part 2 but I think the questions in that cover most stuff anyway ✨ and glad you enjoyed, it was really nice filming with him!
@@MxMorphling great! Can't wait to see :)
Hi Toby, i watched this & it’s so nice to see such supportive loving parents that you have .
I know personally what it’s like when You tell family & they decide on their own without saying anything & they disown you because in their eyes that your an embarrassment to them
I know how much it hurts , I told originally told my dad that i was a girl when i was age 5 but they never took any notice & just wanted to get rid of me
I love your content,
your dad is very understanding and it was great to hear his side of it,
also i hope your grandad is ok :)
Sup Laddie, you got a very chill dad! I also like space stuff and thinking about certain mythical stuff I suppose :p Idk how to word it. My mom is okay with me being trans but she prefers to call me by my old name and such but I dont hate her for it, I actually only feel really bad when other people do it since I have a bond with my mom, no matter what happened before. She has short term memory loss and is on the older side. But she can crack jokes and laugh too. We werent a crazy formal family either. Very critical and distant from each other, yet if things are well, we joke around about farts, smells, sounds, stupid stuff that happened. But yeah, Its always better to have a supportive family eventually. I learned I had to drop a lot of people as I came out and I they preferred not to really listen to me on what being trans actually is besides as they call it: cross dressing, sexual preference or wanting to fit in.... they really think its pure image issues in society and its only part of it! But they see it as attention seeking as in: its not a disorder, its a mistake i made. Which offends me for some reason even more since a disorder is a recognized problem people should accept and help like anxiety, depression (which also comes with gender dysphoria ....)
I mean, I was 21 when I figured it out, lol actually 20, leading to 21 but meh same thing lol
Sup, yeah he is very chill! I think most of my family are now after we stopped talking for a bit but now we're closer than ever. And it's good you can have a laugh with your mother, that's what life's all about after all✨♥️
The 2nd question was supposed be about your dad telling HIS family and friends
Ohhhh, yeah I was rather confused by that one, but his answer was still generally the same as mine, cause I told rather than him and I think he explains it in part two of the video
Omg, at some point, I heard a weird squeaky noise sometimes in the background and I thought someone was changing a light bulb when it was actually birds XD I got paranoid someone was changing the light bulbs cos yes, some are broken over here tbh XD so it made sense to me darn
Haha I live close enough to the sea that it's seagulls😂 but someone (my mum) feeds them so they congregate by our house
I would feel pretty awkward