Cheating is not a biological trait. It simply shows a lack of self control and respect for your partner. There is always the option of leaving your partner.
Elizabeth Henry think about it it's easier for a man to stick around not leave cuz then he gone be fucked up mentally that girl I had sex with is just that that's the only thing she can do but my girl can do that plus more
terrell wilson that is true but it can't both ways like that the same way you wouldn't want her to keep you around for being the man she wants to be with but fucking others on the side cause that's all he was worth
Cheating is anything that violates the rules of the relationship. For some people, watching porn is cheating. For others there is no such thing as cheating because they have an open relationship. Every relationship is different.
Coming from a man. some people just don't get it. A man doesn't cheat. A boy does. I'm with Meg on this on this one. If something is wrong in the relationship and I see the only way to fix it is to be with someone else then I will talk it over with my current s/o. Two heads are better than one. Your mind might be on someone else but her mind could be on fixing herself for the relationship. Communication is key to all. If people had the choices of cheating or talking they would choose cheating. You can't call yourself a man if you cheat. If you do, you're only lying to yourself to feel better.
The Cool Shy Kid im not hurt, its what i see the most. Keep deflecting, but its majority women in america lol. And as i said, selfish people. Man or woman.
Christan Daniels Everyone is different so blanket statements rarely ring true for all. Women do fall in love with what they see as well. How do you think a woman ends up so in love with a guy who 'aint Sh*t'? Doesn't even have 'game', i.e doesn't say nice things to get her and doesn't talk about anything sensible, no life plans, nothing. Yet a woman will stay with that guy even if his words and actions are horrible. Treats her bad, cheats etc. She is staying cos she loves what she sees: He is handsome/has a great body/ dresses well/ has money etc. Men can also fall in love with what they hear. People often see good looking men with 'ugly' women and ask HOW? How did she get him? WHY is her with HER? Well....He may not even find her physically attractive but fell in love with HER. Her personality, her words, her lifestyle and what kind of a wife/mother she can be etc.
Relationships are unpredictable these days. And to try and put everyone in a category or make a statement that speaks for all would be inaccurate. People fall in love differently for different reasons & thats the beautiful part. After Rereading what i commented on the video i probably shouldn't hav wrote that but ehhh somewhat true. But i agree with all what you said Rusean
These double standards are so idiotic. If you feel the need to cheat or have side hoes you don't need to be in a relationship. People need increase their mental capacity
I AM A MAN!! AND I HAVE NEVER CHEATED!! If you are a man and you feel the need to cheat, you need to re-evaluate your relationship, because you are not with the right woman.. If you are with the right woman, you dont need to cheat.. Same applies to a woman.. I have been with MANY women and i have never been cheated, and I have never cheated neither and will not ever cheat.
Nobody can find a uniform reason to why people cheat because there are no uniform relationships. They can only find the most common motive. Desire, availability and discontent.
i will not be held responsible for someone cheating on me cus i feel like it's their problem not mine. Sexual activities, sneaking around and going on dates is cheating to me. if you want to leave me you can and vice versa. but if you cheat because you're not happy instead of deciding to leave the relationship, then again that's your problem not mine. i can forgive you and we move on but we're not gonna get back together i'd have trust issues.
terrell wilson its not her problem because despite how much you can love a man if HE decides to cheat than it's on HIM no one wants to be with a cheater and it's not as cold hearted as what he did because that shows how much he really cared about her to begin with clearly he didn't or else he would not have cheated same can be said if the roles were switched and she never said it wasn't going to hurt bc it sure as hell will but he made his choice so why should she have to take responsibility for his actions? She shouldn't and she isn't forcing him to stay either
People cheat because they're selfish, PERIOD! There's something called empathy (think about that). A relationship is a commitment, if u can't handle it GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY HEART.
If you cheat- that's on you. Just make sure it's not something you're gonna regret. Don't cheat then cry about your boo you just cheated on. Make sure you ready to be dumped bruh.
I feel like the main reason why people cheat is that they don't love someone for what really defines them rather by their body which makes it a lot easier for them to cheat when they see another person who they find sexier or good looking than who they are with.
Tomi Akiode when your accused of doing something wrong and you know you did it you tend to put the blame on someone else if convincing and made up facts don't work (pretty much all else fails response but people still do it whenever they want or can).
"We fall in love with what we hear, you guys fall in love with what we see." Exactly why dudes selling dreams. She expecting you to pick her up in a white x6 but you pull up in a soccer mom car.
Some people cheat for a multitude of reasons, however there are only really two basic reasons which take various forms. Reason #1 the partners or couple are not sexually attracted to each other. Reason #2, either one or both of the partner or couple is in the relationship for financial gain or some other arranged benefit. Let's explore the variations, that I mentioned before shall we? On the basis of reason #1, couples who dislike each other usually focus more on each other's character flaws rather than what attracts them. Constant arguments are common within that type of relationship. "Playing" hard to get is a subtle form of sexual rejection. Next, sex is usually a non-occurrence or is very rare...done more out of reluctance or duty rather than pleasure in this type of relationship. I want to give some examples, couples are that are sexually attracted to each have frequent sex and sexually depend on each other. What do I mean by sexually dependent? Sexual dependence means that the couple mutually seeks as much sex from each other as possible. Frequent sex is anything greater than 5 out 7 days of the week for sex. In conclusion, the biggest clue of lack of sexual attraction is the frequency and sexual dependency which are usually and often numbers closer to zero. Reason #2 maybe hard for some of you to see because of traditions either internationally or locally. Any couple that doesn't go "Dutch" or has some form of egalitarian relationship does not have a real sexual romantic love relationship. Sexual romantic love relationships are not based on money or favors of any kind. Exploiting each other financially is prostitution not love. Using someone as a human ATM machine is not love. Any adult(except medically verified mental handicaps) regardless of time century, location, culture, or gender needs a job or some moral way to earn a living to support themselves, this principle is an indisputable fact. So most couples have problems with combination of reason #1 mostly reason #2 because they believe fake traditions and lies which are only used as guises so that the colder partner can financially exploit them.
I feel like women can (and probably do) cheat as much as guys, they just don't get caught. A dude would smash his coworker or a neighbor. A girl would probably smash a dude in another town or maybe even state. Idk, I don't cheat, I could never do something like that, but I just think that's what happens. But I'm just a teenage girl so idk much
I think husbands love their wives but want to have their cake and eat it too. They want that family life and single life at the same time. Still Not cool tho
ppl cheat for 2 reasons 1. they aren't getting something that they are missing at home and that feeling of doin something bad, what they're not suppose to
I think a lotta people cheat because they are not happy with their partner but dont want to break up because its a shame for them to not have a partner
The thing is though, I agree cheating is bad, but sometimes people do it initially because they don't realise at first, that they are the type to be committed in an open or poly relationship, obviously by then it's too late but it happens, unfortunately but yh. You can't always blame the cheater, sometimes you love more than one person at once.
If someone's not satisfying you in a relationship why would you cheat? Why lie about it? Just break up.
A lot of people aren't grown up and mature enough to do something like that.
fr
Can't break up cuz this her house😭
+Tee Zee LMAOO
+Tee Zee 😒😒😒😒
Cheating is not a biological trait. It simply shows a lack of self control and respect for your partner. There is always the option of leaving your partner.
Elizabeth Henry think about it it's easier for a man to stick around not leave cuz then he gone be fucked up mentally that girl I had sex with is just that that's the only thing she can do but my girl can do that plus more
terrell wilson that is true but it can't both ways like that the same way you wouldn't want her to keep you around for being the man she wants to be with but fucking others on the side cause that's all he was worth
If you're gonna cheat, don't bother. Just Brexit the relationship smh.
HA!
oh lol
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hey delroy
+Dylan Leanage hi Dylan, long time no see fam.
being cheated on affects you in a way thats unexplainable
Alexis Savala fr. I've been cheated on and it fucked me up for a while
Alexis Savala I absolutely agree
I broke up with my ex on March after catching him cheating on our anniversary. It's still fucked me up. I still want him
Cheating is anything that violates the rules of the relationship. For some people, watching porn is cheating. For others there is no such thing as cheating because they have an open relationship. Every relationship is different.
True
true.agree with everything you said
Lol, watching porn is not cheating
"That mouth still work tho" lol had me rolling... cute segment guys :)
Same lmao
Yaaassssss
heck yea had me cracking up.
years later and still funny AF
Cheating is for the weak, just break up and stop being selfish
Kari Lari fr
doboy losing all kinds of weight, all kiiinnds
ill leave the nuts hanging out of tahiry
Then he can't be doboy no more.
Since stopped drinking. He's looking good
+SonatinaClef it was a procedure apparently. but shout out to him for getting it.
he prolly still doing crossfit
Coming from a man. some people just don't get it. A man doesn't cheat. A boy does. I'm with Meg on this on this one. If something is wrong in the relationship and I see the only way to fix it is to be with someone else then I will talk it over with my current s/o. Two heads are better than one. Your mind might be on someone else but her mind could be on fixing herself for the relationship. Communication is key to all. If people had the choices of cheating or talking they would choose cheating. You can't call yourself a man if you cheat. If you do, you're only lying to yourself to feel better.
Amen. Communication is so important.
I'm in love with this comment.
The Cool Shy Kid im not hurt, its what i see the most. Keep deflecting, but its majority women in america lol. And as i said, selfish people. Man or woman.
lol you made a lot of sense but grown assmen still be cheating.
Megscoop:" If I was paralyzed from the waist down"?
Do Boy:" that mouth still work though" 😂
Girls fall in love with what they hear.. Guys fall in love with what they see..
not true.
Why not Rusean
Christan Daniels Everyone is different so blanket statements rarely ring true for all. Women do fall in love with what they see as well. How do you think a woman ends up so in love with a guy who 'aint Sh*t'? Doesn't even have 'game', i.e doesn't say nice things to get her and doesn't talk about anything sensible, no life plans, nothing. Yet a woman will stay with that guy even if his words and actions are horrible. Treats her bad, cheats etc. She is staying cos she loves what she sees: He is handsome/has a great body/ dresses well/ has money etc. Men can also fall in love with what they hear. People often see good looking men with 'ugly' women and ask HOW? How did she get him? WHY is her with HER? Well....He may not even find her physically attractive but fell in love with HER. Her personality, her words, her lifestyle and what kind of a wife/mother she can be etc.
Relationships are unpredictable these days. And to try and put everyone in a category or make a statement that speaks for all would be inaccurate. People fall in love differently for different reasons & thats the beautiful part. After Rereading what i commented on the video i probably shouldn't hav wrote that but ehhh somewhat true. But i agree with all what you said Rusean
Christan Daniels :)
These double standards are so idiotic. If you feel the need to cheat or have side hoes you don't need to be in a relationship. People need increase their mental capacity
Meg and Tahiry are beautiful as hell!
I AM A MAN!! AND I HAVE NEVER CHEATED!! If you are a man and you feel the need to cheat, you need to re-evaluate your relationship, because you are not with the right woman.. If you are with the right woman, you dont need to cheat.. Same applies to a woman.. I have been with MANY women and i have never been cheated, and I have never cheated neither and will not ever cheat.
Pauliina ja Joonas Mikkola i think your talking about men first before you said "the same applies to women" but i understand and agree with you mate
Need a medal fam???💀
Nobody can find a uniform reason to why people cheat because there are no uniform relationships. They can only find the most common motive. Desire, availability and discontent.
"That sounds like a whole lotta herpes!"
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Teariiea Shut up, people already know about STDs
i will not be held responsible for someone cheating on me cus i feel like it's their problem not mine. Sexual activities, sneaking around and going on dates is cheating to me. if you want to leave me you can and vice versa. but if you cheat because you're not happy instead of deciding to leave the relationship, then again that's your problem not mine. i can forgive you and we move on but we're not gonna get back together i'd have trust issues.
mstcherie13. Well said girl!!
mstcherie13 sound like u have a man on the side ready to go
mstcherie13 how is it not your problem especially if u love someone sounds cold hearted to me
terrell wilson its not her problem because despite how much you can love a man if HE decides to cheat than it's on HIM no one wants to be with a cheater and it's not as cold hearted as what he did because that shows how much he really cared about her to begin with clearly he didn't or else he would not have cheated same can be said if the roles were switched and she never said it wasn't going to hurt bc it sure as hell will but he made his choice so why should she have to take responsibility for his actions? She shouldn't and she isn't forcing him to stay either
People cheat because they're selfish, PERIOD!
There's something called empathy (think about that). A relationship is a commitment, if u can't handle it GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY HEART.
exactly
Well damn who cheated on you?
+Devante Lewis Lol foreal..
You seem mad hurt
+PapiMemo eh you probably can't blame her for being hurt...so many thots nowadays fucking with people
Shawty on the left FINE AS HELL! 🔥
Both of them are 😍😍😍
She thick AF.
+The Commenter bruh that shirt tied round the waist making me think about them cakes ygm 🔥🔥
+Ryan Francis bruh the other dont compare to her 👌
+DilzTV are you kidding me? I think the other looks waaay better imo
If you cheat- that's on you. Just make sure it's not something you're gonna regret. Don't cheat then cry about your boo you just cheated on. Make sure you ready to be dumped bruh.
in 2019 im over white people borrowing bruh. sigh...
DoBoy is so passionate about this topic. He cheats 24/7
why were they so surprised that she never cheated before damn!! not everyone cheats or has cheated
"That shit sound like a whole bunch of Herpes"😂
There is never an excuse to cheat, gain self control or remain single.
God I never want to date..
Insecurities and ego. That is it.
I feel like the main reason why people cheat is that they don't love someone for what really defines them rather by their body which makes it a lot easier for them to cheat when they see another person who they find sexier or good looking than who they are with.
Pretty much meaning that our generation judges people a lot by first impressions and looks rather than their actions and personalities
You don't need to be dissatisfied in a relationship to cheat people.
He said that mouth still work😂
I personally never cheated but I've been cheated on and that shit sucks. so that's why I can't cheat. I don't wanna make anyone else feel that pain.
"Why do men cheat?"
"Because it's Tuesday and it be 3:00 outside."
OHMAHGAHHH!!!
Cheating is doing something you know you wouldn't do if your girlfriend or boyfriend were watching you. It's that simple.
I needed to be on this episode. I would have lit this joint up. I got the juice on this subject!!
You can do everything right for someone and it still won't work out. Just went through this
Woman have a "what have you done for me lately" , Men have a "I've done everything what more do you want ."
Why men cheat?
1. To collect trophies
2. To avenge a broken heart
3. To explore the forbidden or unattainable
"Heres the line.. I crossed it" lol stealin that
This has been the best The Cooler conversation wise by far
with women it's ALWAYS the guys fault that she cheated
and with men i hear that too.
Tomi Akiode when your accused of doing something wrong and you know you did it you tend to put the blame on someone else if convincing and made up facts don't work (pretty much all else fails response but people still do it whenever they want or can).
"It was a line I crossed it" .........Do Boy been on a roll lately lol
Idk why this is even a conversation. Don't do anything you wouldn't want me to do, period. It's simple.
"But that mouf still work dough" Im dead
"That mouf still work doe"😂😂😂
"Dat mouf still work doe" Doboy got me weak 💀💀
people cheat because they can't handle being in a relationship so why bother
"That mouth still work tho"😂😂😂
WHO ELSE STARTED DYING WHEN SHE SAID JUST FOR THAT YOUR TIRES SHOULD GET SLASHED
People cheat for excitement... they get bored and start doing scandalous things then get caught up.
“But that mouf still work tho” lmaooo
ThAt MoUtH StIlL WoRk ThO🤣🤣🤣 i was deadass dieing of lauggter for a good 5 min
Cheating is doing something you know your partner would be hurt by or wouldn't be OK with.
"That moth still work tho" lmao I'm dying
There are too many factors that can push someone to cheat, so it's hard to pinpoint one specific reason
you shouldn't be in a relationship if your gonna cheat for anybody regardless, no excuses
Haha "that mouff still work doe!"
They all had so much respect for Doboy back then. That soon changed when Kev took over..smh
“Women fall in love with what they hear, Men fall in love with what they see.”
bruh I got the CuzzFeed ad before this video and I went to the comment section and was like "niiiiiga. what y'all talkin bout????"
He did not say *that mouth still work thooo* 😂🤣😂🤣
"We fall in love with what we hear, you guys fall in love with what we see." Exactly why dudes selling dreams. She expecting you to pick her up in a white x6 but you pull up in a soccer mom car.
Is it wrong for a guy/girl to be talking to different people while you're single? And then end up dating one of the people you are talking to?
People cheat because they get into monogamous relationships.
Some people cheat for a multitude of reasons, however there are only really two basic reasons which take various forms. Reason #1 the partners or couple are not sexually attracted to each other. Reason #2, either one or both of the partner or couple is in the relationship for financial gain or some other arranged benefit. Let's explore the variations, that I mentioned before shall we? On the basis of reason #1, couples who dislike each other usually focus more on each other's character flaws rather than what attracts them. Constant arguments are common within that type of relationship. "Playing" hard to get is a subtle form of sexual rejection. Next, sex is usually a non-occurrence or is very rare...done more out of reluctance or duty rather than pleasure in this type of relationship. I want to give some examples, couples are that are sexually attracted to each have frequent sex and sexually depend on each other. What do I mean by sexually dependent? Sexual dependence means that the couple mutually seeks as much sex from each other as possible. Frequent sex is anything greater than 5 out 7 days of the week for sex. In conclusion, the biggest clue of lack of sexual attraction is the frequency and sexual dependency which are usually and often numbers closer to zero.
Reason #2 maybe hard for some of you to see because of traditions either internationally or locally. Any couple that doesn't go "Dutch" or has some form of egalitarian relationship does not have a real sexual romantic love relationship. Sexual romantic love relationships are not based on money or favors of any kind. Exploiting each other financially is prostitution not love. Using someone as a human ATM machine is not love. Any adult(except medically verified mental handicaps) regardless of time century, location, culture, or gender needs a job or some moral way to earn a living to support themselves, this principle is an indisputable fact. So most couples have problems with combination of reason #1 mostly reason #2 because they believe fake traditions and lies which are only used as guises so that the colder partner can financially exploit them.
y'all make my day
"Because it's Tuesday and its 3:00 outside." Gah Damn
Need a part 2
What's wrong with cheating?
We've all needed help on a test at some point in our life.
I feel like women can (and probably do) cheat as much as guys, they just don't get caught. A dude would smash his coworker or a neighbor. A girl would probably smash a dude in another town or maybe even state. Idk, I don't cheat, I could never do something like that, but I just think that's what happens. But I'm just a teenage girl so idk much
Sapphire Misp both genders cheat as much as the other
I cheated because she cheated on me. Then she acted like a victim when I broke up with her.
I enjoy these videos here man, there should be more ngl.
Doboy is getting slim👏. I see you👍. Hard work pays off...
I think husbands love their wives but want to have their cake and eat it too. They want that family life and single life at the same time. Still Not cool tho
That was so deep fall in love with what we hear and guys fall in love with what we see!
If I had Meg Scoop I'd never cheat.
"That sound like a whole lotta herpes" dead 😂😭
ppl cheat for 2 reasons 1. they aren't getting something that they are missing at home and that feeling of doin something bad, what they're not suppose to
Doboy like 98 wearing young & reckless 😂😂
Only cheaters say that ''Once a cheater always a cheater'' is not true.
"That mouth still work though". Do Boy that is so nasty. Yuck. Sucks that it was funny as hell. LOL!!!
That tattoo do boy got changed him up 😂😂😂
1:17 to 1:33 Now that's what I'm talkin about! Yo Meg, lets get married! for about a couple months. LOL
Cheated on everyone but my husband. Not an issue with the guys, just an issue with me. Fixed the issue with me.
‘That sound like herpes ‼️’ Meghan had me weakk
Next video, doe boy is going to be wearing tight muscle T's and skinny jeans. His wardrobe changing faster then his weight loss.
my friend told me everybody cheat so keep a good one and do ya thing on the side.
still can't believe doboy is only 23....hard life really scars ppl.
TheMontegonian his 35
y'all kill me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think a lotta people cheat because they are not happy with their partner but dont want to break up because its a shame for them to not have a partner
The thing is though, I agree cheating is bad, but sometimes people do it initially because they don't realise at first, that they are the type to be committed in an open or poly relationship, obviously by then it's too late but it happens, unfortunately but yh. You can't always blame the cheater, sometimes you love more than one person at once.
I wanna know what be in those cups
Because when i was in highschool math was hard for me.
God bless Tihiry! I'm bout to go drink a whole gallon of water.
Very good topic
this is the reason why Im scared of getting in a relationship smh...
"I'm not that's sounds like a whole lot of herpes" 😂😂
If you know you’re gonna cheat just stay single and don’t waste anyone’s time
Children play games. Grown Men and Women don't play games. Keep it 💯
1. they find something better than they have2. they bored with the relationship3. or they just like having options to find the one
lol "that sound like a whole lot of herpes" ... EXACTLY my thoughts, period
Boredom and Complacency.