Living with a GERMAN Man is Like
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What to expect when you're living with a German man. From the Luften, to the raw meat, to the organization.. this is what living with a German man is like! Check out the video and see if living with a German is for you.
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CREW:
Marina Iakovleva (directing)
/ youtubermar. .
Eddie Cristobal (video)
/ eddie.cam
Zsolt Szanati: / zsotz (sound)
Oleh Voitovych (editing)
/ olkowg
CAST:
Leon: / leonnoelmerse
Sabrina: / sabrina_knappett
Filmed in:
Toronto, Canada - บันเทิง
Hope you enjoyed the newest video in the series!
Is living with a German for you? Let me know below! 🇩🇪
At least there will be lots of bread in the house 🤣thanks for having me in your video, Marina!
You should make a video of dating a New Zealand man or woman. 🇳🇿🇳🇿🇳🇿❤️❤️❤️
Usually where do you have these shootings? I am an actress from Hungary and i would love to participate in your videos. :D
@@sabrinaknappett ❤
@@saramakokha5528 thank you for watching!!
Poor girl haha First she had the awkward Swedish guy and now this 😂😂😣 Please give her a chance to date someone fun!
She's a marvelous actress, I'd love to see more of her!
ahahaha I just can't catch a break 🤣thank you so much for the compliment, Olla!
I loved the awkward Swede.😂❤
Yes actually that's true
Hahahhahaha
germans are fun
As a Turkish woman, I want to say this. I adore German men, very handsome men, what a beautiful creation my Lord has created. When I was a child, a German guest came to Istanbul, the man was so handsome that since that day, my Lord has created a very beautiful place in my heart for German men.😂😂😂😂
Hey thank you, but are you an Azerbaijanian-Turk? We like Turkic people
@@traviswiley-combs9041bruh XD
Lmaoooo you went in vivid details to compliment them 😂😂😂 good job
@@FK88SaTK hayır genelde orta Asya Türklerine benzetiyorlar 😅
@@bruhmcchaddeus413🤔
The dance part was the funniest ever 🤣
ahahaha that was a really fun part to film!
My German crush is nothing like this 😂 he’s very open-minded, chill, vegetarian, minimalist, lives a very freestyle. Literal opposite lol
You know you are lucky, right??
That could be. Everyone may have different opinions and also different natural personalities. That is a very good person you have, wish you both beautiful love.
Thanks for having me! It was too fun filming! ♥️ 😂
You are very sweet guy!:) seen you in a previous videos ✌🏼😉
@@dfateekh haha thankss! :)
Agreed with Taedi! 👍🏻😊
Hi, nice performance in the video ;)
One question: what's the wristwatch model name visible in the video?
That's a very nice and eye-catching wristwatch.
I'm a German. All scenes are funny with a core of truth. Especially bread: in general, no German would call toast seriously "bread". And a German would take a slice of toast only if it is toasted.
So true.
Same for the french.
Thank you so much for watching!
I'm also German and agree 👍
Wait, there's people who eat toast "untoasted" :O
I'm dating an Austrian and I could relate to A LOT of these points (especially about opening the windows 😭). Love your content!
Austrians are basically Bavarians ( where this guy is from)
@@johanexxxx depends where from Bayern. Especially upper Austrians have quite similar traits to Bavarians. Not vienese or Vorarlberger though 😂
As an Austrian, I take that as a reminder to lüft the room :D
@@salsadip7453 how are I you r beauty full
@@salsadip7453 I like friendship
Thank you for putting me and my questionable dance moves in your video! 💙
Thank you for your dance moves. My favorite part of the video 😂
thank you for making this video, you both were so cute-funny :) funcute? i am inventing words :D
Haha! Funcute is now officially a word! 😁
Thank you so much for watching!
@@sabrinaknappett You were both such great actors in this video. :) Wunderbar!!
@@geraldsturgill3122 Thank you so much, Gerald!!! :)
The girl is a great actress. I remember seeing her in the Swedish guy episode. She is very good at reciprocating, and her acting is more realistic with how subtle her responses are, rather than making everything seem so obvious for the sake of the video.
thank you so much for the amazing compliments, Lissandra!! and thank you so much for watching! 😁
@@sabrinaknappett 😘
I’m German too and had to smile when watching this as many things are so spot on ! As I have been living abroad for so many years meanwhile I can understand now why non-Germans may find certain habits a bit strange or exaggerated. But I agree no bread in the world is better than the endless choices of delicious and heathy bread we have 😊
hahaha we are very envious of your bread! Thank you for watching, Andreas! 😀
Miss the Brot.
Lol the bread part😆😆😆😆😆I love these type videos, please make more of them too Marina. 😃😃💙💙💙
The part about the bread is very true. When I lived abroad for a while, I didn't miss anything more than our bread!
Have you heard of the #SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet movement before? since you love bread, which is usually made from wheat, which comes from the Soil, you might be interested 🌾🌱
I miss German bread too and am European and only lived one year in Germany but am forever a fan! Best bread ever!!!
The most important thing on the grocery list! Thanks for watching, Mariella!
So true. I had a German roommate and he was just like Leon.
Great video! :) Loved it!!
Thank you for watching!
@@sabrinaknappett You're welcome! 😃
It's such a nice nice video there's like a lot of things happening and cultures combining. I'm glad to see Sabrina again and more of her acting💙💙💙
Ahhh thank you so much for the compliment!! 🩵🩵 😁😁
@@sabrinaknappett You're welcome💙
Gosh! I love a practical man. I care a lot about being organization and planning a head of time, so I'd imagine I would get long with German people.
Absolutely entertaining. Always the case when Sabrina is around. Congratulations
Thank you so much, Mazahir!! Your continued support means a lot!!
This was some of your best work, I was giggling a lot 😂
It’s just soooo true 😂 especially the recycling part, but I find that to be really useful tbh 😂
German men are some of world's most handsome men sexiest and best keepers of women
@Stefan Jager 😘😘😘😘
No way
Yeah, and inhibited and unromantic too 😪
The best, I love them!
I love Sunday rest day for sure😍
The video reminds me my perpetual fights with my wife!
Hahaha 🤣
Also the dark and sarcasm humour must be included. I have a German partner and the way he tell me a joke...I laughing more on his one tone serious joke 😂 btw. Calculation in Germany is essential 👌🏻
Greetings all! Viele Grüße!
May be austrians can beat them hands down 😅
Makes me proud of my people, honestly 😊
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I am half German lived there this is about spot on although maintenance on vehicles is usually a date too Great financial planners and savers ! 🇩🇪 🏴
Prost
Prost! Thanks for watching, Ronald!
Omg this is dream comes true ♥
I am german ne your picture is beautiful
Tu veux apprendre le francais Marina?? c'est génial!!! also the video is so accurate, I lived in germany for 2 years, it was a nightmare for a french person. My german gf was asking me to announce the duration of our "cuddles" in advance, so it fits into her schedule. No joke :D. Thank you so much for your videos!!!!
Oui c'est vrai! ☺️
Germans : bad people
I'm Spanish but I feel like I would perfectly fit in Germany. Organized, efficient, respectful... Maybe they lack some communication skills but you can work on that ( am I the only one who thinks that German is sexy?)
In the Hispanic world, y e s.
Yup, only one🙂
No you're not, I find a lot of Germans hot too, I also find their initial uptightness cute because its so awkward
@@kotaniyumiko Uptightness? Do you mean our FKK beaches? 😂
"Restraint" would probably fit better.
I love German language, although many people find it being harsh. I don't know, maybe because it was my first /second foreign language (along with Russian) but I love the sound of German.
Wait did Leon speak Plattdeutsch at the end?! I swear I heard mooi. Love that word
the accuracy level is crazy
What's up with you German people?! While I was in Germany, Germans were very hospitable even if I can't speak. When I didn't know how to pay for parking, a German couple who spoke broken English not only decided to help me, but also didn't hesitate to pay for it (didn't ask). In a restaurant, a waitress decided to give me a drink saying that it is "on the house". For several times, people also showed great courtesy on roads and highways, several cars letting me cut in from merging, giving me lots room when I reverse, honked when I had something stuck in my trunk, flashed a signal when I didn't move at a green light instead of honking and giving me the finger like these imperial narcissistic Americans. Just my overall experience with German people regardless of it being in a city or countryside.
🤣🤣🤣 Very true stereotype. They always have to be organized and plan everything.
Brilliant 👏
Thanks for watching, Thorsten!
Mario Gotze has some sehr gut dantzen moves! 😎
hahaha the resemblance 🤣
He is so handsome and ... I guess so German. Loved the bread part, that's how Germans should treat ladies, not breads.
@@amiquigonzales7917 hahaha definitely should get treatment at least as good as the bread!
Hahahah thanks
@@sabrinaknappett I was hoping people liked football but they’re identical! 🤜👌
Hey she's reading Patrick Rothfuss! Good taste
wow, good detection skills!!
I am German and I have to admit, I AM ALL OF THIS. And I am not ashamed of it haha
hahaha that's amazing
I know these are mainly generalizations, but living with a German man sounds seriously awesome. I always consider the financial aspect if I want to live with someone (I did that for my ex), I'm more of a planner and hate any monkeywrenches being thrown in (such as another person I didn't know about coming to an already-organized event), and perhaps the most based moment in the whole video is when the guy turned on some house. I'm a huge electronic music fan, so that's always gonna be welcome for me.
Laughing and crying because this is soooo true.
I am (half) German and I have to say all of the aspects I saw were spot on. I completely lost it (laughing) during the bread scenes, oh I would definitely literally do the same thing, I also (as always) like how funny while absolutely non-offensive all parts of this video were. Dear Creator, Марина, your videos are much more than just about dating, they help me understand and respect people from other cultures a lot, congratulations on all the wonderful content you created. On a sidenote, once they saved my relationship with an Indian guy, I showed him the one about dating a German, we watched the one about dating an Indian together, that cemented our relationship at that time. Thank you (and sorry for a lengthy comment).
Thanks Thomas!
Hi. Sorry it’s late but can you please elaborate how you guys adjusted? Cultural similarities and differences…what you liked and disliked about each other’s qualities with respect to culture and daily routine. Thank you:)
@@kairos116 Communication was key, as for liking and disliking, it wasn't that, rather learning each other and respecting each other's differences and habits. I, for instance, had to learn to be more spontaneous and plan accordingly, not complaining:).
@@ThomasSchusteck I'm Indian and planning to study and work in Germany for a while. I'm watching these videos to understand the culture to integrate better. I like to plan but spontaneity is refreshing sometimes.
@@kairos116 Oh, I do agree.
Holsten is love - Holsten is life ❤
😂 Definately some truth to each situation- but not every German is that strict - I know I am not. I am from Berlin- a pretty relaxed place.
hahaha thanks for watching, Sabine!
Typical of Berlin
That eye contact! Skol in Dänisch, Norsk, and...
seeing her back again since the sweeden vid here makes me happy, she's really good
ahhh thank you so much, Raynaldo!! 😀 I had a blast filming this episode!
May be should have a video of Dating an Austrian
I'm an austrian woman, but I can see myself so much in him. It is even funnier to see the culture differences, because I do now live in Finland and then you can just notice so much. Which was normal before, is here weird.
I am curious to see them doing a separate video for Dating austrians. Even If people think they are like Germans, but they are not🙃 there are still a few differences. May be fun to have a video of Germans Dating austrians 😅
@@roshanc1991 Yes, totally agree with you, especially language-wise there are a few difference and also in behaviour a bit. Yes that would be fun, let's see if it will ever happen though.
Österreich ist Deutscher ;)
I can definitely relate to Sunday as a day of rest or late nights in general. I got the eyes from a girl I was seeing.
ahahaha oh no! 😂 thanks for watching, Grant!
Yes, German vacation and events planning, and yes, German bread. Seriously.
Bread is a top priority 😛
Weirdly, my German (Swabian) ex bf wasn't like this at all!
Maybe a little when it came to the bread, but possibly because he used to be a baker haha
haha the one trait is the bread!
Very good! Greetings from Germany
is it accurate in the video how strict it is with "rest day"?
@@aramskaef6955 In most parts of Germany yes, it is common courtesy to not do load works in your home and especially not lawn mowing or clothes hanging (and in the country they will wag their tongues if you hang'em willy nilly). But you can go out later in the day ....sit in a beer garden or some of the few open cafe's, but it will be slower going and special opening hours. Booking f.ex. breakfast or lunch in advance might be the smart solution if only a few local options are available and if you are more than 2 persons. Fridays and Saturdays is your chosen party time here.
Thanks for watching, Tina!
I like this kind of man
I love seeing her! she is a great actress:) I think would be so fun to see her in a video dating a Mexican guy hehe (would be different). They are such gentleman (In my experience)
Thank you so much for your compliment!! 😁 haha that would be a funny video
Sunday is rest day. 😅
Hahahahahahaaaaa... Alles stimmt ganz genau!
Thank you for watching! 😁
Cap, Sundays are for Berghain 😏
Wow,😂😂 now I have the sense of my future German husband to be 😂
Usually we eat sweet breakfast...and ten percent of the people are vegetarian/vegan 😅🙈 as a german in my 20s, nobody's eating that stuff. That he doesn't at least give her some fruit....the nerve
He could have at least given me an apple or something ahahha
Yeah, I agree, And Mett isn't that different from salami.
You eat sweet breakfast. Not all of us
@@JackFalkenhayn17 well your name shows that you're not german yourself, so what would you know?
@@nikaswords17 Jack may not be German as it's from my English father and I would never put my real surname online. I am German from Hamburg I know what I eat
This actually gave me trauma memories of my ex controlling me in the same way 😢
Yikes. Was he German though?
I lived in Germany for a while. The bread in Germany is the very best! The beer is also wonderful.
I M/22 German-Romanian felt pain when I watched this. Especially the "The neighbours can hear us" part is typical but annoying. Some neighbours threaten to call the police when you sneeze after 10 o'clock in the night.
And once you have little children or a baby you will know exactly why.
They only typical part that I like is that one! I hate noisy neighbours!
His favourite breakfast is Mettbrötchen? Guy is a brick layer 100% (If not he's most certainly a craftsman)
I've been married to a German for a few years and nothing in the video came together, except for the trash separation, here the Germans are really fanatical, but I think it's very good for the environment 😃
Except the plastics recycling is just fake environmentalism & aim to make them feel good abt themselves. I am from Asia, and the West simply ship their plastics recycling elsewhere.
First of all, Sabrina looks lovely.
About those german stuff...
1. Sharing bills is common sense to me, because two people live together costs less than two people live separately. It shouldn't be the first reason to live together though.
2. Sunday is rest day. If only there were a referendum for that, I'd vote yes. I hate it that EVERY day one of the neighbors do something noisy.
3. Insurance sound stupid and pointless. Until the day when you wish you had one.
4. Nothing wrong with trying different cuisines. Forcing it is problematic.
5. Opening the window for fresh air. Why and how would it be bad? Unless it's an app telling you to do it, not your senses.
6. Superstition is stupid.
7. Techno. NO, THANKS.
8. Organizing and scheduling is very helpful. Not every people free all the time. Yes, sometimes you need months of planning to achieve a gathering. The thing that three months ain't enough to make some change sounds very exaggerated.
9. All the world should do recycling as germans do; it would make a better world to live.
10. I also prefer "real" loaf of bread to toast bread.
So, living with a german sounds (7-8/10) ok to me.
Thank you so much for watching the video and giving your opinion!
Splitting bills is like having a roommate tho. Too bad I like Germans but splitting bills ain’t hot I can see a water bill maybe electric but that’s it lol
This girl been thru stuff after dating the swedish guy then this
We said the same thing to her ☺️
I just can't catch a break! 😛🤣
@@sabrinaknappett hahaha 😂
@@sabrinaknappett btw i love ur acting in these videos
@@sameenfatima143 thank you so much, Sameen!! That means a lot!! 😁
Just gotta get it out there!
The soup nasi
Has descendents
No soup for you!!
Rechtsschutz Sicherung!!! 😂
As a brazilian living in London, german man is the best
hope there is one for Belgian man :)
I am a Turk but seeing this I feel like a German now.
1:45 - it's "insure", not "ensure" ;)
2:31 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Oh god... Living with a German housemate is an absolute party killer and a stick in the mud. Though organizations and tasks around the house gets done a lot more better but when it comes to actually being fun and having an enjoyable time for everybody, often times my german housemate can be super egotistical and super unbendable 😅
You should show them the video and see if they recognize anything 😛
u forget about Discofox dance
Great video!
This German actor is really good and really funny.
The scheduling and efficiency part was spot on
They make up for their partner's terrible organization skills ahaha. Thanks for watching!
The German love of my life is incredibly difficult.. he’s a playa boy and likes to sleep around too much.. he lost this Latina that loved him so much..
Pls Marina do one with slovak,czech or austrian😉🤣
German S.O. ... when you want your love life to have structure, order and reliability. Could be appealing, if those are the things you need in your life to be happy.
that's definitely true!
How can You be happy without those things?
@@acfatemi Some folks crave / enjoy spontaneity and the freedom of a less-planned life.
@@acfatemisome say it makes people seem too uptight. Some people have the who cares its not a big deal attitude. Don't need to follow rules so strictly. To each to their own. I'm a mix of everything
Rising sunn
5:10 Okay, but that's not a thing in America?
They seem genuine and calm. But as a mediterranean woman I fear one of us would end up killing the other one lmao
On the positive, German men are well endowed. So, who cares!!
Ya. Das it’s gut.
I might be part German (even tho I know I’m not) 😂
that fucking loaf at the end
do it with swiss
Living with an engineer* is like
🤣🤣
Surprised how she took it so well. Germans don't worry about what they say and how they say it.
😂❤
Thank you for watching, Lizbeth!
As a Turkish girl, I really like the face and eyes of Germans.😀 they are all just like this emoji.👱😀
In germany, blond hair is common but also brown hair is common
@@JackFalkenhayn17alman denince aklıma sarışın insanlar geliyor 😅
@@Turkasena28 of course. I have blond hair, blue eyes. But many Germans have brown hair.
@@JackFalkenhayn17😂🇩🇪👱🏻♂️
"Safety First - Germans Like to Ensure Everything"
*Let's eat raw pork, mmmmmm*
I see the lady whent from Swedish guy to german guy :)
Ahahaha I couldn't resist the bread 🤣
@sabrinaknappett hahaha im glad that you answered to me. I'm very happy about that 😁 it felt more cringe with the Swedish guy, so it's better with a German one, I guess, haha
@Paweł ahahahahaa uh oh, Sweden is behind! 🤣😛
@sabrinaknappett hahaha better to run to germany 🤪 but they are similar in some aspekt, so better go South. The brazilian guy is looking all the time for someone 😂 maybe you could fit good with each other 😂😂
@Paweł ahahaha who knows, there could be a video with that one day! 🤣 😛
I am a Polish female but it turns out I'm basically a German guy.
?
Haha ok 👌🏼 i Love polish people and polish womans 😉
Don't mess with their bread, they really do love their bread.
Such a funny video. Love from 🇩🇪
Minor comment. Eating mett (the raw meat) is common only in parts of Germany.
Thank you so much for watching!
Why does it sound like work?
Mettbrötchen, aha also wir haben es mit einem Norddeutschen zu tun 😆. Sie hat Glück, wäre es ein Schwabe müssten sie noch Kehrwoche ins Video bringen 😂
For all those who don't speak German. This is a typical northern German, you can tell by the Mettbrötchen, so the bread with the raw meat an onions. If he were a southern German it would look a bit different 😂
The Virgo in me kind loves him 😅
ahahaha 🤣
Do other peoples not air out?
I wish them a lot of fun in their moldy apartments
everybody is insane in these
😂😂😂
Toast in kein Brot
Toast ist und bleibt Toast