Dating Black | Episode 1 | BET UK

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  • @TeeyanaAromi
    @TeeyanaAromi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +910

    Love that the conversation wasn’t super negative. Because we are all tired. Looking forward to seeing more

  • @tropicalstormxox9444
    @tropicalstormxox9444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +962

    Thank you for putting actual black women and not MIXED women who don’t have the same experiences 😒it’s refreshing to see 😄

    • @rosewaters.9853
      @rosewaters.9853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      👏👏👏

    • @siii3850
      @siii3850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Right👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @kirn3afek
      @kirn3afek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      There is a troll in this comment time line. Don't answer to this person, keep it classy ladies. We match only positive energy this year🥰🥰🥰

    • @tropicalstormxox9444
      @tropicalstormxox9444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@kirn3afek forreal mixed women need to stop infiltrating our platforms 😂 yall gots to get yo own

    • @tropicalstormxox9444
      @tropicalstormxox9444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@theeladyj I can understand why it’s like that in the US cuz you can have generations of light skinned people that don’t know where their light skin came from, then you can have the mixed people as in one parent is black the other is white, but because of slavery the lines are blurred. The UK be trying to copy this ish sometimes and I’m glad people are catching on. Mixed people should talk about mixed issues in their mixed communities periodt

  • @KushQueen9
    @KushQueen9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    I personally believe I need to love myself and KNOW myself, truly understand what my likes and dislikes are, connect with myself spiritually and emotionally and also explore hobbies and interests and truly enjoy my own company.
    Otherwise you end up relying on someone else too much to bring you happiness and you lose yourself.
    Nobody needs to be perfect and have it together, but a lot of people lack depth and substance and this can only be built alone.

    • @11shellene
      @11shellene 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @nmart1n
      @nmart1n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Absolutely agree

    • @sana-kb1lh
      @sana-kb1lh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yesss 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @sbusisiweshaba1715
      @sbusisiweshaba1715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      That's true, lack of self-love and the lack of having interests, hobbies, breeds co-dependency issues, which will cause issues in the romantic relationship.

    • @ChainBreakerswithDrTrista
      @ChainBreakerswithDrTrista 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I OVER LOVE this!!!

  • @lesoko2496
    @lesoko2496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    I'm currently 19 and loved hearing from these women. Felt like listening to a sister in a way. Cant wait for the next episode

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      uLesoko, you are too young to be listening to this. it could be a road block. enjoy yourself .

    • @mimiro4307
      @mimiro4307 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch cyn g

    • @janice1846
      @janice1846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@PHlophe There is no harm in listening in. I don't want to be blind sighted about the world of dating once I am already in my mid 20s. As a 20 year old who isn't seriously dating, I found this video to be comforting like a group of big sis and cousins giving advice and sharing stories.

    • @shonuffizhere5670
      @shonuffizhere5670 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pay close attention!!! They all got weave and going crazy.

    • @blessingaliu123
      @blessingaliu123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shonuffizhere5670 Weave has nothing to do with it, don't be obtuse...

  • @alexandras2559
    @alexandras2559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    What a grown conversation, when she said that social media narratives are not her reality, I felt that because I really can't relate. Glad I'm not alone. Super mature relatable conversations

  • @preciousalways6847
    @preciousalways6847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    All the women in this video are so beautiful

  • @newid10
    @newid10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    I have to disagree with the idea of ignore a red flag. Nah I’d rather be alone than risk it

    • @smilergal89
      @smilergal89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Okay! You can ignore an amber flag but red, best to discuss, get clarity and proceed on that basis

    • @mariamakoroma7097
      @mariamakoroma7097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      The moment you ignore the red flags you are doomed. All the things we accept will be the things we regret.

    • @sbusisiweshaba1715
      @sbusisiweshaba1715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mariamakoroma7097 Very true. Ignoring redflags always leads to regret.

    • @emmarose9466
      @emmarose9466 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      For best practice I'll replace the word red flag with "imperfection" or "orange flag" haha. Dangerous advice! Glad she added to move cautiously. I'll tell u my mom has complained abt some of my dad habits even before she had me, she said. After 30 years still complains abt the same things, is she happy though? Million dollars question haha. It's a ride yall more like a roller coaster type, just gotta enjoy the process & work your way up

    • @palisaxoliswa5688
      @palisaxoliswa5688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      she specified that move with caution . not every one is perfect thats reality

  • @lp9074
    @lp9074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    The UK dating scene is awful at the minute. I know so many beautiful girls in situationships. It’s that or nothing as they’re tired of being alone.

    • @kwameopoku3576
      @kwameopoku3576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Honestly so mny men with useless women

    • @user-bu9ne7ef3q
      @user-bu9ne7ef3q 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      London girls make it hard

    • @Laura-sg6ss
      @Laura-sg6ss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@user-bu9ne7ef3q elaborate

    • @TheDestineyy
      @TheDestineyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@user-bu9ne7ef3q I hate when people say this. Not all girls in London are the same

    • @SJ_Vibezz
      @SJ_Vibezz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@TheDestineyy am not from Ldn but it’s just a excuse

  • @ketsoapril8334
    @ketsoapril8334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    I feel like this was so positive, rather than the things we see on social media where men and women push this narrative of you should be perfect to be in a relationship, and your partner should do whatever you want and tick all the boxes which does not relate to reality, this video was so informative

  • @lolita960
    @lolita960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    The fact that every single one of these ladies are different but absolutely gorgeous and carry themselves with class. They also speak clearly and even though I don’t know their background they all sound educated and smart. I love this for black women, as a black girl this is everything I’ve ever want to see online cause the representation is immaculate❤️

    • @donnabodel4113
      @donnabodel4113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      White women
      Europeans🙋👍

    • @lolita960
      @lolita960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@donnabodel4113 These women are black :)

    • @danielmeloda429
      @danielmeloda429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lolita960 white women are naturally like this, black women are masculine and not that feminine

    • @lolita960
      @lolita960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danielmeloda429 you just said white women are naturally like this (referring to my reference to the black women in the video). Read that again.

    • @MsDarkie93
      @MsDarkie93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@lolita960 They’re clearly attention seeking. Ignore x

  • @mlove8158
    @mlove8158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Why would you tell young girls to ignore red flags? Pls don’t listen to her. They only get worst overtime

    • @nmart1n
      @nmart1n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Exactly. If someone shows you who they truly are, believe them.

    • @prettyprincess7009
      @prettyprincess7009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She said WITH CAUTION

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@prettyprincess7009 yellow flags are caution. red flag means leave

    • @dorothytamuno7053
      @dorothytamuno7053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I would agree if i actually said “ignore red flags” please watch it again. I said “chance him with CAUTION”. Totally different statement xx

    • @yourleftacrylicpinkynail7270
      @yourleftacrylicpinkynail7270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dorothytamuno7053 You literally said "Close your eyes to a red flag". Knowing that people make mistakes is different from ignoring red flags. Yellow flags are simple mistakes that happen, red flags are more like patterns that continuously happen, well at least that's how I define them.

  • @jimandhenry
    @jimandhenry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Can we just talk about how clear these women are in what they each want, how they respect what their mates want and appreciate how beautiful they are? Sorry but they’re all gorgeous! X

  • @namakausitwala1336
    @namakausitwala1336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I loved what Uche said about the person you want is outside your type. A few months ago my friend said the exact same thing to me. And it truly is true. Sometimes we fear being with someone who isn’t our type because we are afraid of what society will say and we end up staying with a person who is our “type” and yet we are so miserable. EXPLORE! ❤️

  • @elvirajameson3753
    @elvirajameson3753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I've given up. I'm celibate & avoid eye contact with men. They only ever want to use me for (as my mother says) "night time dating".
    When my last real relationship ended I asked him "why couldn't you just see me and leave me alone"...yeahhh that opened my eyes drastically.

    • @missmaverick3477
      @missmaverick3477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I understand x I’m from south east London and I’m overwhelmed when I see them.. I can’t even look at them because I think they are all narcissistic or cruel or liars.

    • @aufhflskih6830
      @aufhflskih6830 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you're celibate, that alone will keep you single forever. imagine of men were like "i'm not gonna spend any money on a woman until i'm married" women simply wouldn't date him, same thing here. celibacy is just going to keep you single.

    • @grace3485
      @grace3485 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @AviatorsXII when she did it didn’t make any difference. I prefer to be single than endure a narcissist or bigot .you're not making any sense

  • @fameshyne7932
    @fameshyne7932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Beautiful women I must say. However, you do not seek COMPANIONSHIP coz you’re lonely. It’ll end up toxic. When that relationship fails or whenever you partner ain’t around, you’ll feel empty. Which is not ideal

  • @WhenSaraiSpeaksUListen
    @WhenSaraiSpeaksUListen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I am SO amazed at how us black people in the US and UK are BOTH dealing with the same type of dating mess. MAN! I'm really blown away lol.

    • @facelesscalvin1667
      @facelesscalvin1667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      In the US? Our dating scene isn’t as bad as in the UK.

    • @Zen-cx5tc
      @Zen-cx5tc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think it’s worldwide. I’m from the Caribbean Trinidad & Tobago to be exact, and it’s a mess here as well.

    • @WhenSaraiSpeaksUListen
      @WhenSaraiSpeaksUListen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Zen-cx5tc wow this is insane.

    • @shafuimcoming5151
      @shafuimcoming5151 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Zen-cx5tc you dating there? It's interesting to know how people date while living wild exotic life.

    • @flowfreely
      @flowfreely ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The disruption happened to all of us so it of course impacts us all across the Diaspora. We know this

  • @goldenchristine4431
    @goldenchristine4431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The lady with the hat on n green lipstick has such a warm calming aura around her. She would be a great mother

  • @SheCaresBeauty
    @SheCaresBeauty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Loved the diversity of thought! Excited to hear the men’s POV next episode 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @cyrilofori3463
    @cyrilofori3463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Love this show and the general honesty! Also feel sad about the disconnect between black men and women in the UK. The problem with a lot of black men generally is they do not go into relationships with a plan to commit to a woman no matter how beautiful or smart she maybe, so as things become more serious too quickly FOR THEM this is when things go left. On the flip side a lot of women categorize black men they are interested in without really getting to know them properly for their flaws and strengths. I feel this is where the disconnection often stems from leading to a lot of flaky or imaged based relationships.

    • @Nicminiezrobisz
      @Nicminiezrobisz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BM have options. They can date non BW who are more attractive. I feel sorry for BW

    • @Callherchi
      @Callherchi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Nicminiezrobisz bm don’t have options because non bw prefer their own men who are more attractive and are productive. I feel sorry for bm sometimes

    • @Nicminiezrobisz
      @Nicminiezrobisz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Callherchi BM date interracially 3x more often than BW

    • @Callherchi
      @Callherchi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Nicminiezrobisz because they want to not because non bw are flocking towards them🤣 bw can do the same but many are too race loyal

    • @Nicminiezrobisz
      @Nicminiezrobisz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Callherchi BW don’t do it because they love BM and other races don’t want them

  • @NokubongaMashinya
    @NokubongaMashinya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Why was this therapeutic? ❤️ I cannot wait for Ep 2

  • @tyreeceuk
    @tyreeceuk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She said it right ‘everyone acts like they know what they’re doing’ if we all take accountability in money, love and health things will fall into place. Im 40 and I’ve never had a problem with dating or being single because I learn from both….but I’m not perfect, still learning. That never stops ❤️

  • @valeriedavis4104
    @valeriedavis4104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    She really said “close your eyes to a red flag” - um my therapist would like a word 😭 💀

    • @LoveiDora
      @LoveiDora 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      With ⚠️ she said

    • @aperson7210
      @aperson7210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I actually had to pause for a second after that one 🤣 but what she probably meant was something like a guy being a little bit messy with his stuff or smth like that and not a guy showing abusive behavior from the get go (or after)

    • @dorothytamuno7053
      @dorothytamuno7053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aperson7210 exactly what i meant! Xx

    • @dorothytamuno7053
      @dorothytamuno7053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Hey Valerie! I didnt say close your eyes to a red flag. I said give him a chance - with ‘caution’. I say this from experience, i am married to someone that wasn’t my type. He didn’t tick all the boxes. But i ignored the fact he wasnt, for example, 6 foot 1, and i got with him based on him being an amazing person. Not being 6”1 isnt a red flag 😂 its just my preference. I ignored those ‘on the surface’ things and married my husband, now were in our 4th year of marriage and i don’t care about his height. Just one example ive given! There are so many things i could list. All im saying is sometimes you could drop your ‘wants’ and chance him 😂❤️ i hope that clarifies everything x

    • @KushQueen9
      @KushQueen9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@dorothytamuno7053 totally makes sense! A lot of women miss out on wonderful men by not giving a chance.

  • @lynettebitwayiki5314
    @lynettebitwayiki5314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Honestly loved this conversation and everyone’s different perspectives! Can’t wait for the male POV 👏🏾

  • @bridgetlilly-02
    @bridgetlilly-02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    My Advice for our UK sisters is please extend your Pool… consider Any Men from any Race.. Love is Love🙏🏽

    • @kimgedits
      @kimgedits 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Black women need to open their options black men are colorists

    • @maggief1851
      @maggief1851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely

    • @tikdoe7563
      @tikdoe7563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @888
      There is no connection, it's all disfunction.

    • @vicky4912
      @vicky4912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @888 if there were cultural connections between us many bw and BM wouldn’t be single. Please stop!

    • @mimiro4307
      @mimiro4307 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vicky4912 exactly

  • @kweenlue1709
    @kweenlue1709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Love this show. I'm 18. I want to be a Film maker & Director. We don't get these kinds of shows anymore especially in SOUTH AFRICA where I'm from. I'm glad I could find inspiration bc these are the kinds of shows I want to produce.❤️

    • @Oyama_
      @Oyama_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I want to do something like this too

    • @palisaxoliswa5688
      @palisaxoliswa5688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i totally agree with you on that im also from South africa . please do follow your dream to be a film maker .

    • @yenzilezizipho4502
      @yenzilezizipho4502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sis start something.
      We will support oe.
      Southy ❤

    • @ambre4144
      @ambre4144 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I support u in your dreams! Hope you follow them!!

    • @theomosienyane2715
      @theomosienyane2715 ปีที่แล้ว

      @kweenlue1709 do you write? I'm also a South African film maker.

  • @j.baldwin3012
    @j.baldwin3012 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I swear that British accent on black women is the best. It's nothing on non-black women, but it just seems to add so much flavor to black women.

  • @WordOnTheCurb
    @WordOnTheCurb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Love it!

  • @tytypartridge3135
    @tytypartridge3135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    The married girl with the ginger hair and greenish top… was giving dodgy advice. Never get into a relationship just because you’re lonely and never close your eyes to red flags.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      I've noticed the women who are usually taken are women who will put up with anything just to say that they have someone. I myself, am getting married soon but I've started noticing that most of the single girls seem more...'put together' you would think they will be the ones snatched up.

    • @donuts108
      @donuts108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      She’s the only married one though. No disrespect to the other woman but I’d rather take advice from someone where I want to be rather than someone who is single for whatever reason. And I think what she was saying about getting into a relationship cause you’re lonely isn’t a bad thing cause it’s a innate feeling to want companionship.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@donuts108 If she hasn't got the type of man that the lady in question wants then does it matter? I've noticed it's very easy to get married, especially if you have no real requirements. For women with requirements and 'standards' it's a lot more difficult and they have to be ready to sacrifice not having marriage and a family or need to consider 'settling'. Literally lol. These days average women are more likely to be married than really beautiful women so I'm not sure why people talk as if men pick the cream of the crop women or that the woman is somehow special. Its not that. At all! and I'm realising it more and more everytime I'm in these spaces.

    • @DirtyEdon
      @DirtyEdon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gailainsley6939 that's why you die single with a cat 😺😺

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@DirtyEdon loool you guys and this cat thing. What did those animals ever do to you? Why do you think it's an insult when it's really not? Do you guys not understand how stressful you can be? 😂😴

  • @gladysobaze5238
    @gladysobaze5238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this, black women being real, having honest conversations with being open, and owning their opinion!

  • @Immaculateve
    @Immaculateve 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That thumbnail is jaw dropping

  • @sharonnwachukwu7817
    @sharonnwachukwu7817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    All these women are so beautifulllllll

  • @ceoofhenjoyment
    @ceoofhenjoyment 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Such a healthy and mature conversation! I love this for us black women👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾✨

    • @Nicminiezrobisz
      @Nicminiezrobisz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel sorry for BW. How is it to be the least attractive?

  • @thelmakingly5995
    @thelmakingly5995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The wig falling off😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏼I’ve been there😩😂 How beautiful are you Queens!!!!!?Stunning😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍👑♥️

  • @chantelleduncan1
    @chantelleduncan1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Loved this conversation. There was no biased opinions. The environment and conversation was very mature and true . 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 However, regarding the loneliness, its a very conflicting word. because while I do acknowledge what the two women said. I personally believe being lonely when you're by yourself means for me you're in bad company. I think loving your own company is a powerful tool because when you do get in a relationship you go in as a powerful individual who'll not be emotionally triggered by trivial things because you know yourself that well.

  • @Lillie839
    @Lillie839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I absolutley fell in love with this show
    the women aren't just beautiful but also mature and intelligent, this show radiates goddess energy.
    I appreciate the transparency of the ladies and wish them success in all their endeavours

  • @mslettiemathibe71
    @mslettiemathibe71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    These are the conversations I've always wanted to have...so beautiful❤😫🙌 enjoyed

  • @nkosiphilempofu3798
    @nkosiphilempofu3798 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    The disconnect between black man and black woman in the Uk is unreal

    • @wiseguy240Winston
      @wiseguy240Winston 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      America as well, now we got SYSBM & Black women who divest lol.

    • @lalalaal.
      @lalalaal. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How do you mean disconnect? Or what do you mean by the word?

    • @laurawilliams4087
      @laurawilliams4087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Oh wow I'm black american and this is a big problem in the America, but I'm shocked to hear the same thing happening in the UK.

    • @wiseguy240Winston
      @wiseguy240Winston 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@laurawilliams4087 it's worldwide cause of colonialism

    • @hypergamyblackqueen201
      @hypergamyblackqueen201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Black men do not appreciate black women and this is fact. Im dating someone outside of my race and its the best decision I’ve ever made. Black women need to start expanding their options

  • @anorbert38
    @anorbert38 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Gorgeous ladles! 🤎 Loved this!

  • @Lempetu
    @Lempetu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Absolutely LOVED the show. I'm Watching all this gorgeous black women and supporting them from Spain. This was refreshing, natural, and special. I'm speechless!

  • @lefthook82
    @lefthook82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You guys have done well to get 8 episodes out of this.

  • @babymandy
    @babymandy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I just wanna say black women are beautiful 💯💕 We are out of this world!

  • @SpaztasticSheep
    @SpaztasticSheep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The girl in the cap has a the sweetest most relaxing voice itw

  • @dorothytamuno7053
    @dorothytamuno7053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Great episode! It was the wig story that made me scrim 😂

  • @esthernwosu7406
    @esthernwosu7406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Can’t wait for more episode to drop.
    This content is top tier loved seeing the different perspectives and opinions

  • @temitopeoluwadunsin2019
    @temitopeoluwadunsin2019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Black women...NEVER CLOSE YOUR EYES TO A RED FLAG!!!!!!!!!

  • @876LND
    @876LND 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I disagree with the red flag one, I used to do that and TRUST me, you'll always regret it.

  • @fante_oh3ma
    @fante_oh3ma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Finally actual dark skin women!!! Talking…THANK YOU🗣🗣
    “I like that word committed” we all do!

    • @naga7461
      @naga7461 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Y’all are Weirdos fr blk women don’t only come in one shade y’all want to be the center of everything lol

  • @Flygirlkimmy_
    @Flygirlkimmy_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love love love this!!! Just one thing I didn’t necessarily agree with…. You shouldn’t fully love yourself before getting into a relationship with someone ?! I would disagree. I think that’s one of the reasons why they’re so many failed relationships. We are getting into relationships wanting our spouse/partner to fill us up when in reality that’s not their jobs. We should strive to be the best versions of ourselves (while single) and anything our partner provides going forward will just be an addition.

  • @maggief1851
    @maggief1851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm going to brag but I have found my Barack.I struggled with dating in 2021 when I finally gave up and started shopping for a dog to adopt thenI met him.

    • @beingmary-ann9104
      @beingmary-ann9104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kudos to you!. I thought I was the only one who referred to "the one" as my "Barack" 🤣❤️.

  • @gobigorgohome4647
    @gobigorgohome4647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Okayy but can we just appreciate how BEAUTIFUL all these women are!!!

    • @Selenas627
      @Selenas627 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      right!! i had to rewatch because I was captivated by their natural beauty and didn't pay attention at first.

    • @estheree9171
      @estheree9171 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      especially the woman in green!

  • @starstef764
    @starstef764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Hemah is beautiful beyond belief

  • @ifeoyedele5374
    @ifeoyedele5374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved how refreshing this was! I found it so relatable, was engaged throughout

  • @wbltees611
    @wbltees611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is a great watch & filmed perfectly !!

  • @creativechristiancontent
    @creativechristiancontent 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful ladies and darkest woman’s skin is glowing 🌞

  • @thriftysimplicity
    @thriftysimplicity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoyed this! Glad it came up in my recommendations!

  • @Jadesuknic
    @Jadesuknic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Of course I’m going to say it as an American, I love love love your accent Ladies💗💗 I loved watching every bit of this:) looks like universally we have the same experiences!

  • @SummerMaphumulo
    @SummerMaphumulo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Really enjoyed this 🥰🔥

  • @benola5977
    @benola5977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This is great. But the disconnect is mainly for one reason: the personality we want, is often in the physical we don’t want (or vice versa) And that goes for men and women, but I think especially men
    Edit: 10:27 ....

  • @apolloreed4972
    @apolloreed4972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a great series. Nice viewing a positive reaction to dating by men and women as opposed to seeing women being bashed and asked to get a dog for companionship.

  • @oo5240
    @oo5240 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quality convo, diverse experiences 😍

  • @palisaxoliswa5688
    @palisaxoliswa5688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love this .love these beautiful smart women. so much ive learnt from these beautiful ladies. so much common things i share with these women . cant wait for new episodes

  • @MaggieMagnoli
    @MaggieMagnoli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved the energy of this conversation. Looking forward to seeing more.

  • @DiDi-jl5jn
    @DiDi-jl5jn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the melanin in this video

  • @NM-ng6ng
    @NM-ng6ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    It’s time that BW aren’t obsessed with Black love, love love and chose yourself instead of race.

    • @tikdoe7563
      @tikdoe7563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I assumed that's what the video was going to be about so I didn't even play it, just here for the comments.

    • @candyyyyyyyyy2222
      @candyyyyyyyyy2222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tikdoe7563 same ! 😅

    • @NM-ng6ng
      @NM-ng6ng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yes! We are tired of seeing the same thing, BW crying over “their men”.

    • @PieceMeals
      @PieceMeals 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I agree personally, but this video is obviously for black women who are only dating within their race. I do hope young black women will realise when the black love thing isn't going to happen for them before it's too late to have a romantic life.

    • @jacpppp
      @jacpppp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@PieceMeals most wont realise and instead will end up baby mama’ed by a Tyrone smh

  • @newedtv
    @newedtv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dating in London is wack, 7 years single.. just one disconnect. Big love to this video and the beautiful singles.. "I'm Here!" 🔥🙏🏾🔥

  • @batsiebatesfaldet9693
    @batsiebatesfaldet9693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    HIGH QUALITY FILMING & VIDEO. BLACK Excellence 🗣

    • @Nicminiezrobisz
      @Nicminiezrobisz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👮🏻‍♂️ blue lives matter

  • @samararoberts7596
    @samararoberts7596 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    red hair girl is soooo on point. Especially her hairrr😍😍😍💯 and the lady in the green is so beautiful!

  • @lois119
    @lois119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Really enjoyed watching this!

  • @ariannaada232
    @ariannaada232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Y'all girls are stunning 😍

  • @Rantitoutloud
    @Rantitoutloud 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "The person you are looking for is on the other side of your type." Profound. These women are so brilliant and wise

  • @pump1180
    @pump1180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Y’all are so pretty

  • @BadGirlMimi94
    @BadGirlMimi94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The beautiful girl that said "chance him" sounds like she has a lot she could teach young women. You're dripping with knowledge and I hope you share it

  • @tdline9621
    @tdline9621 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All of you are "Baddies", beautiful, intelligent, mature women who know what they want and are honest about how they feel .I love this 👸🏿💐👸🏾💐👸🏽💐👸🏾💐

  • @itsjust.zainodiaz2913
    @itsjust.zainodiaz2913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    fell in love with this during the first few seconds. so much intention was put into this production and you can tell. all these ladies are so beautiful as well, genuinely enjoying this -- cant wait to binge watch the first 4 episodes !

  • @acct4600
    @acct4600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love how when men speak honestly & truthfully, our comments "magically" disappear... funny, that.

  • @ayo.mp4
    @ayo.mp4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    we love to see the content 🥳

  • @Supernatural__
    @Supernatural__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed this video - thanks for sharing all your inputs and voices

  • @Mojo-yin-oluwa
    @Mojo-yin-oluwa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    only 33 seconds in and I already know I'm gonna love this.

  • @throughmylens4736
    @throughmylens4736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Absolutely enjoyed this. 😩😹

  • @mariamouattara1845
    @mariamouattara1845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this series 😍 …. I want more

  • @504HOE
    @504HOE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are some beautiful ladies 😍love the ambiance

  • @giftofgodstarnorth6363
    @giftofgodstarnorth6363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best thing ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Black women are just beautiful 🌹❤️

  • @AnastaziaBasil
    @AnastaziaBasil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loveeeeeee this show...season 2 please

  • @ahava77
    @ahava77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved this. What’s the song at the end? “It’s all love” by?…….

  • @rebekahsekidika
    @rebekahsekidika 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the honesty from everyone !

  • @doseofcoachdan
    @doseofcoachdan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this ladies, very classy and executed well x

  • @sapphiraj2084
    @sapphiraj2084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "The Wunmi Show!" comment was hilarious 😂

  • @iyinoluwao3393
    @iyinoluwao3393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't think you should ignore red flags. You just need to recognise whther it's a red flag or a dealbreaker. Those two aren't always the same.

  • @howcanyoudothistome1
    @howcanyoudothistome1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the set up!

  • @distorbia20
    @distorbia20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    City girl vibes ruined relationships and social media. No one wants to commit, cater to one another and be private about your relationship. Not everything has to be shared online. The issue is men and women compete and none of them understand their role.

  • @Laury_Senatus
    @Laury_Senatus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a beautiful conversation 💬

  • @ShamaraMurray
    @ShamaraMurray 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Uche: “if you only every pick from the people that come to you 🤷🏾‍♀️… if you go after what you want the worst thing that can happen is they have a girlfriend or you’re not their type” + “The person you’re looking for is in the other side of your type”

  • @gracemat9474
    @gracemat9474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    girl with pixie cut is so cute

  • @leagileolifantgg
    @leagileolifantgg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I Have A Deep Love For All Black Women...All Shades, All Ages. Ladies, You Are Beautiful! Remember That ✨

  • @nwabisabeba1678
    @nwabisabeba1678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this episode

  • @bluelife8548
    @bluelife8548 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the concept!

  • @Whoistiffanynicole
    @Whoistiffanynicole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What are their names…would love to follow them on social media…great convos!

  • @8Remnant6
    @8Remnant6 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loving this. If you are ever looking for a Black male therapist to support get at me.

  • @donotatme8072
    @donotatme8072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Soooo here for it like yaaaaas

  • @foxychick3000
    @foxychick3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this talk very positive and enlightening.❤️❤️❤️