Reddit is like the field of dreams for dysfunctional relationships romantic and family. I am not sure if a reddit thread would survive on purely talking about how good a family is.
Meh, bet 80% of it are fake, sooo grown up and sh1t, all reasonable and always in control, yeah no, human who are perfectly in control like the people in these stories are few and far in between
It takes OLYMPIC-level mental gymnastics to justify cheating and then twist it into being "misunderstood." Her sense of accountability isn’t just 'null'; it’s completely 'void.' Edit: Hearing more about the story made me wonder-why would OP’s ex raise her son alone when she had such a wonderful, caring mom by her side? Oh, right, the responsibility issue-it seems to run in the family. Looks like Sherry takes after her father rather than her mother, which would explain why one daughter turned out great and the other a disaster.
When a woman does unthinkable things to you and insists on “talking” to you. That’s her telling you just what she thinks of you. She thinks you’re a weak minded simp that can be talked into ANYTHING!!!
Yeah, the way she instantly jumped to "its just an inconsequential mistake" made me think she had done the same. Probably assumed Max cheated, went out and found someone, eventually realized the AP was a deadbeat, and just...quietly went back to Max. Probably regretted having gone back, too, since she tried to push her daughter to do the same, but to actually jump ship to the AP.
@feliperodriguez6885 exactly any mom that can encourage a child to do that knowing the consequences as an adult and defend that yeah she's done that the fact that the mom knew who the introduced she's probably doing him too
Ok. The fact that she straight up said "my son needs stability and father" to the man she she cheated on is straight up audacious. Like WHAT?! Yall weren't engaged befor you had another man's baby on him! Now you want him to take care of it?! Smh
At 4:47, OP says that the money he spent on the engagement ring was gone. Why? According to the story, OP hadn't proposed yet. His girlfriend was still at work when he found out about her infidelity. He still had the ring in his pocket. He could return it. Most reputable jewelry stores will take such a purchase back under certain circumstances. I don't understand why the money he spent on the ring was "gone." Unless I am missing something? Also, many times OP said that he was glad to get Casey "and her family" out of his life while at the same time writing about how great Sherry and her dad were. He missed them both, otherwise I doubt he would have met them regarding the laptop warranty and accepted Max's invitation for lunch. So, why is he so happy to get Casey's 'family' out of his life. Why phrase it that way when he really meant Casey and her mom, Jane? Finally, that whole bit about the laptop being under warranty and could be fixed was crap. Warranties do NOT cover the intentional destruction of a product. You can't buy a new car, drive it into a wall, and expect the factory to fix it. That's what insurance is for, and if that's what he meant about the laptop, why not say it that way. I call bullshit on this entre story. It wasn't written by a real person. Just fiction.
This reminds me of when I got a call from my ex's mom about 6 months after the breakup I answered by shouting hang on babe my ex's mom is ringing never heard from them again
Her mom created this mess and OP ex carried along... Where is the communication in the relationship ?? Why staying and leaching off the OP money.. until back up option is ready
children are at risk mostly from mommy's shack up boyfriends. you see these pregnant teenage girls bragging about how noble they are raising their kids by themselves, but in the next breath they are desperate for having a 'daddy' for the kid. and they don't seem to care if they scrape the bottom of the barrel. for these boys. they used such good judgement in picking the baby daddy
jane is delulu. people lose what few brain cells they have involving kids. and when jane delulu showed up at work, I woudl have included that 'ex's mom, and a child that isn't mine'
I heard about how a woman cheated, had an affair baby and 5 years later the woman dumps the kid on the ex husband and he brought the kid to child protective services
Curiosity got the better of me. This freaking line is always in this AI stories. Real people don't answer unknown numbers or reply to unknown texts due to the abundance of scammers.
They also don't talk about boundaries in response to a cheater pregnant with another man's kid trying to convince him to take her back and raise the kid. What do boundaries have to do with it, that's just plain crazy.
Um I answer the phone all the time man, same as everyone around me, and I’m 16 dude. Many people answer their phones still, you can usually tell if it’s a spam caller by the number
You made the right decision there she sounds nothing but trouble as you pointed out to her. If she was unhappy. Why didn’t she just finish it and walk away rather than cheating with someone else? You got the guilt trip because he didn’t wanna well done though and as for her mother, the lease said the better. 23:00
one of the more believable stories. The jane probably cheated on max, and i suspect that sherry was trying to snag op, and that computer stunt sounded like an attempt.
Can he not just sell the ring? What do you mean money I spent on it gone?! I can understand if he mentioned the laptop or the grill. We still need a human eye to remove mistakes like this.
"She called from blocked numbers" ?? WTF ?? "The same other women she had accused me of cheating with". This is getting worse and worse. Are you cutting and pasting together pieces from different stories ? When did that accusing happen ? He did not know it until later in the story. Get a better AI who can write stories that are not mixed together from bits of other stories...
AI generated story. Same reason why there's no explanation for how Cheri knew Jane mistaken believed OP was cheating with Raven, yet didn't bother to enlighten her mother.
Okay I just have to say you're claiming your mom loves seafood so you took her to Red lobster? Dude I'm from the south so Red lobster is basically like going to Long John Silvers
She has cheated, which is perfectly reasonable based on the assumption he has cheated, except that its a faulty assumption - whoopsi, who could possibly have anticipated that right?? Well,,, its sad to say, but there is NO shortage of women with trust issues who would not hesitate to convert an innocent sister encounter or similar into cheating, and leaving no space for the possibility it was not cheating. Its honestly better for guys to just stay away from this type of women, and naturally, the same advice for women to avoid men with trust issues... they are not partner material, not now, not ever.... well perhaps after extensive therapy, but otherwise, not ever!
It's refreshing how family members are standing up for OP. Like... people with common sense? Wow, what a concept, right?
Finding people with common sense in Reddit stories are like finding a needle in a haystack size of Mississippi.
Reddit is like the field of dreams for dysfunctional relationships romantic and family. I am not sure if a reddit thread would survive on purely talking about how good a family is.
"that baby needs a father!" "I agree, go call him"
I simply would have said “I have no obligation to raise, finance, or be a role model to her bastard”
Que edgy spider man 3 meme "I missed the part where that's my problem."
😂😂😂😂
Finally someone with a spine and common sense 😩
Yes, his idiot ex-girlfriend wants 18 years child maintenance money for a baby that isn't his!
Meh, bet 80% of it are fake, sooo grown up and sh1t, all reasonable and always in control, yeah no, human who are perfectly in control like the people in these stories are few and far in between
Be a character witness for Max in the divorce. If for no other reason than it will will infuriate Jane.
It takes OLYMPIC-level mental gymnastics to justify cheating and then twist it into being "misunderstood."
Her sense of accountability isn’t just 'null'; it’s completely 'void.'
Edit: Hearing more about the story made me wonder-why would OP’s ex raise her son alone when she had such a wonderful, caring mom by her side? Oh, right, the responsibility issue-it seems to run in the family. Looks like Sherry takes after her father rather than her mother, which would explain why one daughter turned out great and the other a disaster.
When a woman does unthinkable things to you and insists on “talking” to you. That’s her telling you just what she thinks of you. She thinks you’re a weak minded simp that can be talked into ANYTHING!!!
I would advise OP to tell Cassey's father to get a paternity test done on both daughters to see if Jane cheated because cheaters defend cheaters
Yeah, the way she instantly jumped to "its just an inconsequential mistake" made me think she had done the same. Probably assumed Max cheated, went out and found someone, eventually realized the AP was a deadbeat, and just...quietly went back to Max. Probably regretted having gone back, too, since she tried to push her daughter to do the same, but to actually jump ship to the AP.
No man should be forced to raise what's not his. His wallet his choice.
You know the mom probably cheated on the husband the whole damn time
the mom probably did the same to her husband max, it's not his kid.
@feliperodriguez6885 exactly any mom that can encourage a child to do that knowing the consequences as an adult and defend that yeah she's done that the fact that the mom knew who the introduced she's probably doing him too
He picked the wrong sister
Sherry was definitely the best choice
Whether they thought you were cheating with Raven or not all it proved was she’s capable of cheating. The reason is irrelevant.
Ok. The fact that she straight up said "my son needs stability and father" to the man she she cheated on is straight up audacious. Like WHAT?!
Yall weren't engaged befor you had another man's baby on him! Now you want him to take care of it?! Smh
Encourage Max to go forward with the divorce by saying that they can be beer and BBQ buddies after the divorce 🤣
So only Max and Sherry is normal...
He dodged a bullet there 😂
Jane was jealous of Casy, that is why she meddled to destroy her relationship.
-single women keep women single
She will always be known as a “cheater”
If I was Michael, I would have sent Casey a clip of the "Now you're a single mom' song. 😂
😂😂😂😂
So Jane admitted her daughter wasn't decent?
6:53 "you're running from your responsibilities"
"Catch me if you can"
" Trivial"? A possible 18 years of child maintenance , definitely isn't a trivial amount of cash!
How nice
Mil introduce AP to her daughter and he knocks her up and ghosts her
What a nice mother the cheater has 😊
At 4:47, OP says that the money he spent on the engagement ring was gone. Why? According to the story, OP hadn't proposed yet. His girlfriend was still at work when he found out about her infidelity. He still had the ring in his pocket. He could return it. Most reputable jewelry stores will take such a purchase back under certain circumstances. I don't understand why the money he spent on the ring was "gone." Unless I am missing something?
Also, many times OP said that he was glad to get Casey "and her family" out of his life while at the same time writing about how great Sherry and her dad were. He missed them both, otherwise I doubt he would have met them regarding the laptop warranty and accepted Max's invitation for lunch. So, why is he so happy to get Casey's 'family' out of his life. Why phrase it that way when he really meant Casey and her mom, Jane?
Finally, that whole bit about the laptop being under warranty and could be fixed was crap. Warranties do NOT cover the intentional destruction of a product. You can't buy a new car, drive it into a wall, and expect the factory to fix it. That's what insurance is for, and if that's what he meant about the laptop, why not say it that way.
I call bullshit on this entre story. It wasn't written by a real person. Just fiction.
This reminds me of when I got a call from my ex's mom about 6 months after the breakup I answered by shouting hang on babe my ex's mom is ringing never heard from them again
Her mom created this mess and OP ex carried along... Where is the communication in the relationship ?? Why staying and leaching off the OP money.. until back up option is ready
the MIL didn't like OP, don't believe the MIL, talk to the girl friend
9:50 : Jane ruined everything? I think she did him a big big favour. 😅
children are at risk mostly from mommy's shack up boyfriends. you see these pregnant teenage girls bragging about how noble they are raising their kids by themselves, but in the next breath they are desperate for having a 'daddy' for the kid. and they don't seem to care if they scrape the bottom of the barrel. for these boys. they used such good judgement in picking the baby daddy
Sounds like Sherry is the one you should try to be with. But it would never work with sister and mom around.
Warranty doesn't cover intentional physical damage
and that is why you claim it "accidentally" fell out of the truck or something.
Most places would still allow you to return the engagement ring for a full refund if not maybe a slightly lesser amount
Men: There are Jane's everywhere. BEWARE.😊
How much you want to bet the mom is cheating or has cheated on the dad
"Its not what it looks like". Looks to me like you GOT ANOTHER GUYS BABY IN YOU. Ridiculous.
jane is delulu. people lose what few brain cells they have involving kids. and when jane delulu showed up at work, I woudl have included that 'ex's mom, and a child that isn't mine'
I heard about how a woman cheated, had an affair baby and 5 years later the woman dumps the kid on the ex husband and he brought the kid to child protective services
OP you need to find someone and start a new life and that will stop those haters in their tracks.
Your job is to pay for it all ,you're not him dude!😢😮😅
Curiosity got the better of me. This freaking line is always in this AI stories. Real people don't answer unknown numbers or reply to unknown texts due to the abundance of scammers.
They also don't talk about boundaries in response to a cheater pregnant with another man's kid trying to convince him to take her back and raise the kid. What do boundaries have to do with it, that's just plain crazy.
Um I answer the phone all the time man, same as everyone around me, and I’m 16 dude. Many people answer their phones still, you can usually tell if it’s a spam caller by the number
You didn’t get the gifts back?
You made the right decision there she sounds nothing but trouble as you pointed out to her. If she was unhappy. Why didn’t she just finish it and walk away rather than cheating with someone else? You got the guilt trip because he didn’t wanna well done though and as for her mother, the lease said the better. 23:00
Honestly I like the slightly younger sister better and I would have asked her out LOL
Closure is only needed by cheaters
The victims of infidelity have their closure on the day they realise their partner never loved them
one of the more believable stories. The jane probably cheated on max, and i suspect that sherry was trying to snag op, and that computer stunt sounded like an attempt.
Can he not just sell the ring? What do you mean money I spent on it gone?! I can understand if he mentioned the laptop or the grill. We still need a human eye to remove mistakes like this.
22:07 her level of decency is reason for people to stay away from marriage
So at what point was the ex ghosted
If you find it let me know so I don’t waste time on this
"She called from blocked numbers" ?? WTF ??
"The same other women she had accused me of cheating with". This is getting worse and worse. Are you cutting and pasting together pieces from different stories ?
When did that accusing happen ? He did not know it until later in the story.
Get a better AI who can write stories that are not mixed together from bits of other stories...
AI generated story. Same reason why there's no explanation for how Cheri knew Jane mistaken believed OP was cheating with Raven, yet didn't bother to enlighten her mother.
The only reason i watched this video because of gameplay.
I don't want to be disrespectful i am just saying it more fun than the actual story.that all
I watched the other video with a deranged feminist sister! 😂😂😂 that was awful
How come he was married to this woman but she did not know the Raven was his sister
SSM TH-cam channel did this story and raven is op cousin and both his cousin and his mom were about to beat jane ass at the restaurant
This story is stupid. Ain't no way i'd put up with anyone and tell them kiss my ass
Okay I just have to say you're claiming your mom loves seafood so you took her to Red lobster? Dude I'm from the south so Red lobster is basically like going to Long John Silvers
Ex want op the father cause other dude dipped out when made a kid 🤣
She has cheated, which is perfectly reasonable based on the assumption he has cheated, except that its a faulty assumption - whoopsi, who could possibly have anticipated that right??
Well,,, its sad to say, but there is NO shortage of women with trust issues who would not hesitate to convert an innocent sister encounter or similar into cheating, and leaving no space for the possibility it was not cheating. Its honestly better for guys to just stay away from this type of women, and naturally, the same advice for women to avoid men with trust issues... they are not partner material, not now, not ever.... well perhaps after extensive therapy, but otherwise, not ever!