These conversations are so healing. I wish my son's father had your sense. I left him as I found out at 8mths pregnant that he had a 1yr old - even though our son was conceived at HIS suggestion after 9yrs together. Our son was 3mths when I walked away so he said "if you leave you're gonna have it hard". He kept his word and didn't pay but would spend time with our son when he felt like it. It WAS hard. I didn't show my son how tormenting his dad was, so they have a healthy relationship. My son is 20 and thankfully he's balanced and peaceful. Thanks so much Karamo and Stephanie. I didn't know I was still so affected at times ... though physical exhaustion and the long term impact on my finances have often reminded me.
IM SO HAPPY YOURE DOING THIS SERIES KARAMO. I ADORE YOU ❤❤❤. YOU ARE SUCH AN AMAZING HUMAN BEING..MAN, FATHER❤❤❤ I LOVE BEING ABLE TO SEE THE INTERACTION BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY ❤❤❤. I LOVE YOU❤❤❤❤ STAY BLESSED
I liked that Karamo asked her if the kids liked the person she was dating at the time. I remember when my parents first legally separated before their divorce. I couldn't STAND either of who my parents were with. Especially my mom because I primarily lived with her, she literally told me "you aren't going to dictate my life, you dont have a reason to not like him so it is what it is" and now fast forward 10 years later, they arent even together anymore...
This is literally beautiful 😍 I love this series so much! We need more of this positive communal energy shown to us because it's so important to see that not all situations have to be toxic as hell❤
OMG, OMG....I'm totally LOVING you Karamo. Your Son's Mom is WONDERFUL as well. Great choice when it came to picking a Mother for your child. There are so many INSECURE people in the world. When your new man don't like your child's father, it's like mixing oil and water - no matter how hard you shake it, chaos is guaranteed! When it comes to if my child don't like who I'm dating, I'd have to know WHY they don't like the person and if the reason is VALID and it's not based on insecurities, or something that makes no sense then we definitely have to discuss it and I'd study the situation. The reason I say this is because some children are NOT going to like ANYONE you decide to date or be with. The reasons have to make sense. I LOVE the way you are so RESPECTFUL and PROTECTIVE of your child's mother. I LOVE you so, very much.
The level of intentionality between these two and how they chose to raise their children, remarkable! Lessons could be taught to many. Bravo you two, BRAVO!
Good Morning you 2! Living this! I'm divorced and my son and daughter are grown now. I'm actually a grandma! I wished this was out then! lol I survived though! 😂 If both people can get out of their feelings and just simply focus on what's best for the kid(s), the co-parenting structure would be so successful. We get in our own way sometimes. I hope you reach and change many situations for the better! ❤
I love this!!! I think you should get other couples as well that co-parent extremely well. Or have one topic and a bunch of differnt co-parenting teams chiminng in.
I love you guys attitude towards co-parenting. I would love to be able to co-parent effectively with my child's father, but he wants to play childish games and is so vindictive and going out his way to purposely hurt me any chance he gets and its just so annoying, because at this point Karamo is totally right in his thinking that stressing out his child's mother would affect his children and this man just don't get that. And it really makes me sad for my child at the end of the day.
Everyone is allowed to not like someone; that includes their partner's co-parent. HOWEVER, that still won't give them the right to create/fuel drama, or to make that negative feeling a constant presence. And, when it comes to people that are important to the ones we love, even if we don't particularly like them at first, we should always try to change that perception, to remind ourselves that if our loved one trusts, cares, and respects that person, we should at least give them a chance. A real chance. ❤
Kamaro kodos to you for keeping the peace ✌🏾 in home of your mother’s son is one to follow for every parent who are co-parents. Love ❤️ you Karamo you are the truth 🤗
If your kids do not get along w your lover, Yes, you HAVE to dump them. Allowing your children to be uncomfortable in their own homes (home is wherever mama is) allows trust to become broken, & that brokenness bleeds into their relationships with others down the line. YOU are your child’s 1st line of defense when it comes to trust in this world. Your kids will think twice about trusting YOU, their parent, with their well being and mental health by keeping someone around that they have verbalized they don’t want around. So keeping anyone around that your children have expressed they don’t like, will create more problems in the future than just fulfilling temporary loneliness. So as a parent, you have to choose which battle is worth fighting: The relationship with your children that will carry into adulthood & grandparenthood and so on, or the relationship you have with a person who your children don’t like. Cuz kids see things in people that adults have become jaded to over time. Trust your kids.
I wish I could have had this! 😢 It's been 8 years, my ex-husband (used loosely cause we STILL married) and he refuses to speak to me, or co parent. Unfortunately the relationship with our children has been the direct result. They are almost grown now...and are indifferent at this point.. I have tried and tried, but we never got closure, he hates and blames me for our marriage failing. 8yrs later it shouldn't still matter but he won't deal with our children unless they take his side 😒
They remind me of Fran Dreschler & her ex husband who’s gay. That gay man is so madly in love with her and he’s loud about it. He said he came out buy wanted to stay married to her & promised to still meet her needs. She divorced him & he had a nervous breakdown. Her parents said they are soul mates & when they get old, those two will probably move in together & finish this life together.
Love this! BUT KARAMO.. you keep cutting her off. Please let her speak. There’s times where I want her to finish a thought and you just come in cutting her off 😅
I agree 💯 with everything said here. My dad's wife is and always has been a hot mess. Hell, all three of my parents really and now that I am a mom to see how it trickles down and the balance I have to maintain for my own daughters is a mess.
Karamo I really would like to hear the story of when you guys reconnected and she found out that you were dating men and how did that go. Obviously well because she is an amazing person but I’m very interested in the story.
You haven't addressed the problem i had. Im a widow and every time any man that showed any interest in me was treated badly by my son even scared them. I just gave up in rhe end. He's left home and here i am alone.
I aint even got kids but as the child of a messy father with four kids… MY KIDS SAFETY AND PEACE COMES FIRST. I hope and pray that if I was co-parenting, my co-parent would lock in for the baby and if we good, and on of our partners had an issue, then I’d have to handle my partner outside of the relationship Meaning my children don’t need to see you bc energy leaks and you not gon spill animosity into the air abt my co-parent, ESPECIALLY if we get along. Smh. Like if it’s one thing I could change for my child self is, I would keep me out of grown folk business and keep my grown folk business out of sight
It’s definitely about kids however, you can not blame people for wanting boundaries for their partners to feel comfortable because at the end of the day yal did have sex PERIOD, so no one knows if you will or will not again but why not provide the comfort of boundaries and separation on the personal end to build with someone else 🤷🏾♂️
See, this is why I just need to have children w a gay black man 💁🏾♀️ I want a partnership with this level of care & intelligence. We need more Karamos in this world. 👏🏾🙌🏾 Argue w somebody else. ✋🏾
My boyfriend's baby's mother is in another state and his daughter is with her parents and being raised by her parents they are also keeping him away from her but at the same time when he gets on the phone with his baby's mother's dad he always updates my boyfriend about his daughter when he asks about her I myself have watched my boyfriend be on the phone with his daughter's grandfather because when he called his daughter's grandfather we were actually in bed together and when his daughter's grandfather called back after he left a message for him we were still in the bed together and he even told me that he was going to call his daughter's grandfather
Well you can’t call this man too crazy you had 2 children by her in 2 different periods of time. You can’t call him insecure you have literally had sex with his girlfriend before and have 2 children by her. I believe once your penis been put into another being you can’t call the other being just friends. Strict and concise boundaries are gonna be set with anybody in your life that you have had sexual relation with. Men or women, gay or straight. I think around that time you weren’t empathetic he could have handle it better but so could have karamo.
First of all if we gonna fact check, the first child is biologically his and he adopted the second child. Secondly yes you indeed can have a HEALTHY and NON SEXUAL relationship w/ your co parent. Gay straight whatever. The man knew that lady had kids so obvi you’re going to be around them kids other parent. Don’t date someone with kids if you are constantly going to be worried about the BM/BD. Start your own family then. Don’t come into someone else’s family and start unnecessary mess. They had sex in high school bruh now they grown adults. If you’re that insecure, which that man IS, then leave 😂 ain’t no one forcing you to stay there. If you genuinelyyyyyyy believe your partner and their co parent is fooling around then LEAVEEEEEE
I thought he had 2 biological children by her didn’t know that part about one being adopted. That being said although I 100% agree with the statement you made the point I was trying to make is to call someone insecure with the situation you have going on I don’t believe they were empathetic and by the way they still talking about this men I think it was worst in the past. You call the mother of your children your Bestfriend they we’re probably doing so many things that if karamo was heterosexual it would have been token more serious as a crossing of boundaries. Too point the finger all on him and he’s not here to tell you how he felt and his thought about the situation is not a fair thing to do. Again 100% agree with your staments but if we’re going speak about this situation involving this men , karamo being a therapist I believe should have been more empathetic. understand where he was coming from at all.
I think its wrong to not acknowledge the fact that they are OPPOSITE SEX, who have had sex in the past…meaning its possible to happen again…so that should be acknowledged and the partner should be given grace and understanding based on that. To be dismissive of these facts disrespects the partner.
I love the fact that he protected her peace, even though it was harmful to him mentally he protected her peace
These conversations are so healing. I wish my son's father had your sense. I left him as I found out at 8mths pregnant that he had a 1yr old - even though our son was conceived at HIS suggestion after 9yrs together. Our son was 3mths when I walked away so he said "if you leave you're gonna have it hard". He kept his word and didn't pay but would spend time with our son when he felt like it. It WAS hard. I didn't show my son how tormenting his dad was, so they have a healthy relationship. My son is 20 and thankfully he's balanced and peaceful. Thanks so much Karamo and Stephanie. I didn't know I was still so affected at times ... though physical exhaustion and the long term impact on my finances have often reminded me.
Strong Woman Thank You For Sharing This ❤❤
I love yall relationship/friendship
I love how u didn’t want to cause drama in her house due to your kids it’s a lot of men that would have done a lot differently
My thing is everyone that is co parenting ain’t fuckin each other some people can co-parent without jumping in the bard together 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
IM SO HAPPY YOURE DOING THIS SERIES KARAMO. I ADORE YOU ❤❤❤. YOU ARE SUCH AN AMAZING HUMAN BEING..MAN, FATHER❤❤❤ I LOVE BEING ABLE TO SEE THE INTERACTION BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY ❤❤❤. I LOVE YOU❤❤❤❤ STAY BLESSED
Love this show
Amazing show ❤
I liked that Karamo asked her if the kids liked the person she was dating at the time. I remember when my parents first legally separated before their divorce. I couldn't STAND either of who my parents were with. Especially my mom because I primarily lived with her, she literally told me "you aren't going to dictate my life, you dont have a reason to not like him so it is what it is" and now fast forward 10 years later, they arent even together anymore...
This is literally beautiful 😍 I love this series so much! We need more of this positive communal energy shown to us because it's so important to see that not all situations have to be toxic as hell❤
OMG, OMG....I'm totally LOVING you Karamo. Your Son's Mom is WONDERFUL as well. Great choice when it came to picking a Mother for your child. There are so many INSECURE people in the world. When your new man don't like your child's father, it's like mixing oil and water - no matter how hard you shake it, chaos is guaranteed! When it comes to if my child don't like who I'm dating, I'd have to know WHY they don't like the person and if the reason is VALID and it's not based on insecurities, or something that makes no sense then we definitely have to discuss it and I'd study the situation. The reason I say this is because some children are NOT going to like ANYONE you decide to date or be with. The reasons have to make sense. I LOVE the way you are so RESPECTFUL and PROTECTIVE of your child's mother. I LOVE you so, very much.
Ahahahahahahahahaha, Karamo saying he loves to fight has taken me out. Jeez !
“ whatever… keep going 🤭 😏” I love Karamo so much lol.
We ALL love #PARENTS! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍
The level of intentionality between these two and how they chose to raise their children, remarkable! Lessons could be taught to many. Bravo you two, BRAVO!
If they don't like u or ur kid, they don't like anything about u
These 2 are THE DEFINITION OF EXCELLENCE ❤❤❤
Oh wow u guys r amazing. 30yrs later I'm still waiting for that ❤
Good Morning you 2! Living this! I'm divorced and my son and daughter are grown now. I'm actually a grandma! I wished this was out then! lol I survived though! 😂 If both people can get out of their feelings and just simply focus on what's best for the kid(s), the co-parenting structure would be so successful. We get in our own way sometimes. I hope you reach and change many situations for the better! ❤
The duo I never knew I needed ❤️
I’m absolutely loving these segments with you and Ms. Stephanie . I hear official co-host for the co-parenting episodes lol
I love the relationship , respect and love that these two beautiful people have for one another ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I just love y'all relationship ❤
60 plus awesome amazing job everyone is doing
I am at this point living for the next episode.. I am loving this series.. ❤❤❤
I love this!!! I think you should get other couples as well that co-parent extremely well. Or have one topic and a bunch of differnt co-parenting teams chiminng in.
I love you guys attitude towards co-parenting. I would love to be able to co-parent effectively with my child's father, but he wants to play childish games and is so vindictive and going out his way to purposely hurt me any chance he gets and its just so annoying, because at this point Karamo is totally right in his thinking that stressing out his child's mother would affect his children and this man just don't get that. And it really makes me sad for my child at the end of the day.
I woke up early just for this just taken notes
I love these conversations and their beautiful relationship.
Omg hi im so glad I woke up early! Love your vids:D
This shows has my attention I Love Real Life Talk.❤😊
I love these videos please keep this going !!!!!
I rush home some days to catch your show.😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
I was young thinking like this! That's why I am the great mother I am today Amen
Everyone is allowed to not like someone; that includes their partner's co-parent. HOWEVER, that still won't give them the right to create/fuel drama, or to make that negative feeling a constant presence. And, when it comes to people that are important to the ones we love, even if we don't particularly like them at first, we should always try to change that perception, to remind ourselves that if our loved one trusts, cares, and respects that person, we should at least give them a chance. A real chance. ❤
Kamaro kodos to you for keeping the peace ✌🏾 in home of your mother’s son is one to follow for every parent who are co-parents. Love ❤️ you Karamo you are the truth 🤗
If your kids do not get along w your lover, Yes, you HAVE to dump them.
Allowing your children to be uncomfortable in their own homes (home is wherever mama is) allows trust to become broken, & that brokenness bleeds into their relationships with others down the line. YOU are your child’s 1st line of defense when it comes to trust in this world. Your kids will think twice about trusting YOU, their parent, with their well being and mental health by keeping someone around that they have verbalized they don’t want around.
So keeping anyone around that your children have expressed they don’t like, will create more problems in the future than just fulfilling temporary loneliness.
So as a parent, you have to choose which battle is worth fighting: The relationship with your children that will carry into adulthood & grandparenthood and so on, or the relationship you have with a person who your children don’t like. Cuz kids see things in people that adults have become jaded to over time. Trust your kids.
I absolutely love this !!!!!!!
This serious is so important.
Karamo do like to fight.😂
If all coparenting relationships could be like this, there would be far less emotionally damaged children❤️
I could not imagine Karamo fighting at all!
Karamo said uk I like to fight and bites lip he ment that 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg. I love y'all.
I love this❤
I wish I could have had this! 😢
It's been 8 years, my ex-husband (used loosely cause we STILL married)
and he refuses to speak to me, or co parent. Unfortunately the relationship with our children has been the direct result. They are almost grown now...and are indifferent at this point..
I have tried and tried, but we never got closure, he hates and blames me for our marriage failing. 8yrs later it shouldn't still matter but he won't deal with our children unless they take his side 😒
If your partner doesn’t want what’s best for the kids, then it’s a wrap. Adults can be so selfish.
They remind me of Fran Dreschler & her ex husband who’s gay. That gay man is so madly in love with her and he’s loud about it. He said he came out buy wanted to stay married to her & promised to still meet her needs. She divorced him & he had a nervous breakdown. Her parents said they are soul mates & when they get old, those two will probably move in together & finish this life together.
Lol ❤❤ shut it down period...
I love this
love thisssss
Healing healing healing❤❤
I love her!!!
Love this! BUT KARAMO.. you keep cutting her off. Please let her speak. There’s times where I want her to finish a thought and you just come in cutting her off 😅
This is good stuff. I just stopped dating all together.
I agree 💯 with everything said here. My dad's wife is and always has been a hot mess. Hell, all three of my parents really and now that I am a mom to see how it trickles down and the balance I have to maintain for my own daughters is a mess.
Karamo I really would like to hear the story of when you guys reconnected and she found out that you were dating men and how did that go. Obviously well because she is an amazing person but I’m very interested in the story.
I think you should dump the partner if they negatively affect your household and the relationship with the children in the home
Karamo is fine!
You haven't addressed the problem i had. Im a widow and every time any man that showed any interest in me was treated badly by my son even scared them. I just gave up in rhe end. He's left home and here i am alone.
make better choices when choosing men! it's v apparent that they're the problem.....
What episode was that at 3:43
I said the same thing cause I practically stalk every episode and didn't see this one
@@CherryDropOfLove it might be on the nosey channel
how many segments are in this "co-parenting" series?🤔
There will be 6 in total, new episode this Friday!
@@KaramoShow thanks,Karamo!😘
Is Stephanie also a Scorpio ?
I aint even got kids but as the child of a messy father with four kids… MY KIDS SAFETY AND PEACE COMES FIRST.
I hope and pray that if I was co-parenting, my co-parent would lock in for the baby and if we good, and on of our partners had an issue, then I’d have to handle my partner outside of the relationship
Meaning my children don’t need to see you bc energy leaks and you not gon spill animosity into the air abt my co-parent, ESPECIALLY if we get along. Smh.
Like if it’s one thing I could change for my child self is, I would keep me out of grown folk business and keep my grown folk business out of sight
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It’s definitely about kids however, you can not blame people for wanting boundaries for their partners to feel comfortable because at the end of the day yal did have sex PERIOD, so no one knows if you will or will not again but why not provide the comfort of boundaries and separation on the personal end to build with someone else 🤷🏾♂️
See, this is why I just need to have children w a gay black man 💁🏾♀️
I want a partnership with this level of care & intelligence.
We need more Karamos in this world. 👏🏾🙌🏾
Argue w somebody else. ✋🏾
How do you get pass your boyfriend cheating with his baby mother? As well as him having disrespect woman as the mothers of his other children ?
its cause shes still in love with karamo and the dude could tell
💯
My boyfriend's baby's mother is in another state and his daughter is with her parents and being raised by her parents they are also keeping him away from her but at the same time when he gets on the phone with his baby's mother's dad he always updates my boyfriend about his daughter when he asks about her I myself have watched my boyfriend be on the phone with his daughter's grandfather because when he called his daughter's grandfather we were actually in bed together and when his daughter's grandfather called back after he left a message for him we were still in the bed together and he even told me that he was going to call his daughter's grandfather
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Well you can’t call this man too crazy you had 2 children by her in 2 different periods of time. You can’t call him insecure you have literally had sex with his girlfriend before and have 2 children by her. I believe once your penis been put into another being you can’t call the other being just friends. Strict and concise boundaries are gonna be set with anybody in your life that you have had sexual relation with. Men or women, gay or straight. I think around that time you weren’t empathetic he could have handle it better but so could have karamo.
First of all if we gonna fact check, the first child is biologically his and he adopted the second child. Secondly yes you indeed can have a HEALTHY and NON SEXUAL relationship w/ your co parent. Gay straight whatever. The man knew that lady had kids so obvi you’re going to be around them kids other parent. Don’t date someone with kids if you are constantly going to be worried about the BM/BD. Start your own family then. Don’t come into someone else’s family and start unnecessary mess. They had sex in high school bruh now they grown adults. If you’re that insecure, which that man IS, then leave 😂 ain’t no one forcing you to stay there. If you genuinelyyyyyyy believe your partner and their co parent is fooling around then LEAVEEEEEE
I thought he had 2 biological children by her didn’t know that part about one being adopted. That being said although I 100% agree with the statement you made the point I was trying to make is to call someone insecure with the situation you have going on I don’t believe they were empathetic and by the way they still talking about this men I think it was worst in the past. You call the mother of your children your Bestfriend they we’re probably doing so many things that if karamo was heterosexual it would have been token more serious as a crossing of boundaries. Too point the finger all on him and he’s not here to tell you how he felt and his thought about the situation is not a fair thing to do. Again 100% agree with your staments but if we’re going speak about this situation involving this men , karamo being a therapist I believe should have been more empathetic. understand where he was coming from at all.
I think its wrong to not acknowledge the fact that they are OPPOSITE SEX, who have had sex in the past…meaning its possible to happen again…so that should be acknowledged and the partner should be given grace and understanding based on that.
To be dismissive of these facts disrespects the partner.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You dump that person
Why don't he take custody of all of the sons? How many sons/daughters she has?
she has 4 kids,I believe she said previously
Dump him or her like a bad habit.
I love karamo and their relationship, but wtff is going on these days !??
🦻🏾🦻🏾
Lord pls give me a gay BD/Life Partner 😭
Whewwww
Love it
Hi Karamo I sent a email please help my family
She look like Karamo with a wig quit playing
What? Quit playing at what?
now why you let her sit there with her wig like that and y’all supposed to be friends 😒
I disagree...partner first. Kids wont always be around
Partner might not be there in the future also
Kids are for life ! What type of rubbish are you saying
My husband divorced me…our daughter will forever be my baby. I also told him that she comes first. Why, because he never ever put me or her first.
What? The partner can up and leave and never has to turn back, the kids are forever
Then my kids come first you can leave