When you let someone know what you want, and they still don’t act right then it is not that they don’t know but they won’t do anything! They know about their actions or the lack thereof!
you are very good at tarot reading! You got it on the nose! So, I met this Taurus man, this past June and we live a Ferry way. He came to Long Island in July and we hit off right away, summer fun for 2 days and we both were very attracted to each other. Than, last month I went to hi, Connecticuit & another 2 days of summer fun! Now, I am going to him next week for 2 days, we are heading to Mystic, but here's the story we are both holding back because we are very busy with our jobs & we do live a state away! So, we both want more, but we are so struggling with vulnerability for sure! We do have a lot of heart to heart conversations, like you said! We both talk about our feelings, but he pulls back a lot, for he is always mentioning we live so far, but because we really do enjoy each other when we are together we are so trying to make this work! I do desire more in this relationship, but I am so ready to retire for I am 8 years older than him, and he still will need to work another 10 years to get financially set! There is a lot of truth in what you said! I do read him wrong sometimes, because sometimes he talks about relocating to NY in the future than on the next call he tells me, he loves his job and he does not want to shift his job or shift to move! I so don't mind having a long distance relationship, but he has said it more than once, "We live so far, and this is so hard to do this far away relationship". Than when he is with me, he has such fun energy and we just enjoy each others company so much, that for 2 days and 2 nights, we are having such fun, it's like we forget about we live far. So, many times he tells me, I dont have a lease on my apt., and there are so many Mattress Firms that I can transfer to, but you are getting reverse cards because sometimes he does shut down, one time he didn't call nor text me for 4 days, and than he apologized on day 5, he acts crazy because I think he is scarred because he can't leave our connection for we are so good together! Yes! you said the desire is there and both of us are working at this relationship, we are both doing the work! I am taking it slowly and he said he is on the same page (he tells me) I think we will just keep doing our 2 day visits for at least a year and than we will move forward when we both feel we are ready!!!We will figure it out 1 day, where this is going! You, so hit it on the nose, we both want the same thing, and we both admit we want this to work! You are so amazing on this reading, you really put your heart & soul into this reading!!! Thank you for reading all this.....Judy/Julie
PS He so does not to do with us for sure! I am trying to control this situation! You are right I have tried to discuss us, but sometimes when he is not so tired from working a 10 hour day, he has no clarity about us and he is not so willing to talk about us, but than the next day he is so open about our connection and says amazing things about me and about us! For now, I am just letting it ride for we just are in such a young relationship, so we use the saying a lot "Only we will know when time will tell" So, we are just having fun for now & trying not to worry about the future! Thanks again, this reading has helped me open my eyes! Your the Best! Julie/Judy again..........
Bloody opposite, i always showed up and showed him so much love, i adored him but had no chance as the gate of honesty was closed , i ran and ran and the depth of emotional neglect and mental games played with me was immence , still healing , having to go thearpy weekly due to the affect, he really deprived me and controlled when i was allowed affection, the most painful experiance of my life, i only want him to seek help ,, becasue i belive he can love , its way beyond what i understood , this needs professionals, I still cry , i loved him , yes i could open up but he never would , i am not afriad to show vulnerability, he refused , but he failed to see I would have been so understanding becasue i walked in similar shoes and i would have shown him that i can love after ally trauma , so belive in you , i would have walked right beside him , he just disappeared on me a year ago without closure, just left , after 6 years , he really lost a dimaond as i still want the best for him. ❤
They went radio silent 22 months ago. I dont know why. I reached out a few times, no response. So I pulled my energy back. Why should I be open to being ignored. I told them how I felt, a month later they were gone. Havent seen them or spoken since. They did tell me they werent ready for a relationship. But, for gosh sakes, they didnt/dont have to act like I dont exist, that I dont matter. That really really hurt. Hurt more than I ever imagined. I do care. Too much. Wished I didnt. Tired of wanting, hoping, wishing for something that may never happen. Makes me very sad. I stopped trying. My efforts have been ignored. Why hurt someone, me, when Ive not deserved it. Thats just wrong.
There's this saying, Hurt people, hurt people. And I've found that to be true in my case at least. They probably has some unresolved past trauma that they haven't worked on so that materialised in how they treated you. I know it's easier said than done, but don't take it personally. If you want an exercise to help get over them completely, let me know xx
He is manipulative and a narcissist. I have been keeping him blocked because he is absolutely dangerous every time I unblock him. My light irritates his demons. I just cannot see him ever not competing with me or seeing me as a threat.
Omg I can relate to some . Coments . Nasasistic manipulative hesitated contact been on no contact 6bmonths he asked his solicitor if u wud consider recirculation he used phschic atack wiv his angels kept putin himself in mynlife hence divo😮 divorce pending harrasment casevpending puch ivwas considering letting him bk ouch symptoms I had 4got hiw. Awful I was was feeling
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When you let someone know what you want, and they still don’t act right then it is not that they don’t know but they won’t do anything! They know about their actions or the lack thereof!
I agree! Speak your mind, give them a chance to step up, and if they don't then choose yourself❤️
you are very good at tarot reading! You got it on the nose! So, I met this Taurus man, this past June and we live a Ferry way. He came to Long Island in July and we hit off right away, summer fun for 2 days and we both were very attracted to each other. Than, last month I went to hi, Connecticuit & another 2 days of summer fun! Now, I am going to him next week for 2 days, we are heading to Mystic, but here's the story we are both holding back because we are very busy with our jobs & we do live a state away! So, we both want more, but we are so struggling with vulnerability for sure! We do have a lot of heart to heart conversations, like you said! We both talk about our feelings, but he pulls back a lot, for he is always mentioning we live so far, but because we really do enjoy each other when we are together we are so trying to make this work! I do desire more in this relationship, but I am so ready to retire for I am 8 years older than him, and he still will need to work another 10 years to get financially set! There is a lot of truth in what you said! I do read him wrong sometimes, because sometimes he talks about relocating to NY in the future than on the next call he tells me, he loves his job and he does not want to shift his job or shift to move! I so don't mind having a long distance relationship, but he has said it more than once, "We live so far, and this is so hard to do this far away relationship". Than when he is with me, he has such fun energy and we just enjoy each others company so much, that for 2 days and 2 nights, we are having such fun, it's like we forget about we live far. So, many times he tells me, I dont have a lease on my apt., and there are so many Mattress Firms that I can transfer to, but you are getting reverse cards because sometimes he does shut down, one time he didn't call nor text me for 4 days, and than he apologized on day 5, he acts crazy because I think he is scarred because he can't leave our connection for we are so good together! Yes! you said the desire is there and both of us are working at this relationship, we are both doing the work! I am taking it slowly and he said he is on the same page (he tells me) I think we will just keep doing our 2 day visits for at least a year and than we will move forward when we both feel we are ready!!!We will figure it out 1 day, where this is going! You, so hit it on the nose, we both want the same thing, and we both admit we want this to work! You are so amazing on this reading, you really put your heart & soul into this reading!!! Thank you for reading all this.....Judy/Julie
PS He so does not to do with us for sure! I am trying to control this situation! You are right I have tried to discuss us, but sometimes when he is not so tired from working a 10 hour day, he has no clarity about us and he is not so willing to talk about us, but than the next day he is so open about our connection and says amazing things about me and about us! For now, I am just letting it ride for we just are in such a young relationship, so we use the saying a lot "Only we will know when time will tell" So, we are just having fun for now & trying not to worry about the future! Thanks again, this reading has helped me open my eyes! Your the Best! Julie/Judy again..........
You got this exactly right. And has been a massive help. Thank you x❤
Sooooooo accurate ‼️‼️‼️ I do misread him 😢
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This resonates with me as recent past energy. How and why my relationship ended with my SP
Like if you think I should try and be more vulnerable
Bloody opposite, i always showed up and showed him so much love, i adored him but had no chance as the gate of honesty was closed , i ran and ran and the depth of emotional neglect and mental games played with me was immence , still healing , having to go thearpy weekly due to the affect, he really deprived me and controlled when i was allowed affection, the most painful experiance of my life, i only want him to seek help ,, becasue i belive he can love , its way beyond what i understood , this needs professionals, I still cry , i loved him , yes i could open up but he never would , i am not afriad to show vulnerability, he refused , but he failed to see I would have been so understanding becasue i walked in similar shoes and i would have shown him that i can love after ally trauma , so belive in you , i would have walked right beside him , he just disappeared on me a year ago without closure, just left , after 6 years , he really lost a dimaond as i still want the best for him. ❤
They went radio silent 22 months ago. I dont know why. I reached out a few times, no response. So I pulled my energy back. Why should I be open to being ignored. I told them how I felt, a month later they were gone. Havent seen them or spoken since. They did tell me they werent ready for a relationship. But, for gosh sakes, they didnt/dont have to act like I dont exist, that I dont matter. That really really hurt. Hurt more than I ever imagined. I do care. Too much. Wished I didnt. Tired of wanting, hoping, wishing for something that may never happen. Makes me very sad. I stopped trying. My efforts have been ignored. Why hurt someone, me, when Ive not deserved it. Thats just wrong.
There's this saying, Hurt people, hurt people. And I've found that to be true in my case at least. They probably has some unresolved past trauma that they haven't worked on so that materialised in how they treated you. I know it's easier said than done, but don't take it personally. If you want an exercise to help get over them completely, let me know xx
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We both won’t say anything because he’s my boss so I don’t want to say anything and I’m sure he doesn’t want for the same reason
He is manipulative and a narcissist. I have been keeping him blocked because he is absolutely dangerous every time I unblock him. My light irritates his demons. I just cannot see him ever not competing with me or seeing me as a threat.
Omg I can relate to some . Coments . Nasasistic manipulative hesitated contact been on no contact 6bmonths he asked his solicitor if u wud consider recirculation he used phschic atack wiv his angels kept putin himself in mynlife hence divo😮 divorce pending harrasment casevpending puch ivwas considering letting him bk ouch symptoms I had 4got hiw. Awful I was was feeling